Breakup Boost: Advice to Get Over Heartbreak
Breakup Boost is a podcast hosted by breakup coach and author Trina Leckie, offering honest advice and sharp insights to help listeners heal from heartbreak, raise their standards, and date smarter. The show provides no-nonsense guidance to reclaim personal power and move forward with purpose. Trina also promotes her book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" and offers coaching services at breakupboost.com.
Episodes
#414: The Relationship Trap Few Admit: Choosing SAFETY Over a FEELING OF CERTAINTY (which ironically isn't "safe" at all)
In this episode, I'm talking about a relationship trap that doesn't get discussed nearly enough: the difference between choosing someone because you genuinely want them - and - choosing someone because they seem less likely to hurt you. And while most people would never say that out loud, their dating choices often tell the REAL story. Plus, does someone's attractiveness make them less or more li
#413: Do You Miss Your Ex - or - Do You Miss Having "Someone"? (breakup questions that can help you move on)
You may assume that because you're still thinking about your ex, it must mean you're not over them. But is that REALLY the case?! The answer may reveal more than you expect. LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz Get personalized help: breakupBOOST.com YouTube & TikTok @breakupBOOST Check out Tr
#412: 5 Reasons People Refuse to Take Accountability After Hurting You
Few things are more aggravating than being hurt by someone who refuses to simply own it. Instead of taking accountability, they make excuses, deflect, blame-shift, or act like YOU'RE somehow the problem. Huh??!! In this episode, I break down 5 reasons some people refuse to take accountability after hurting you. If you've ever thought, "How is this person seriously justifying this right now?" ... o
#411: I'm Not Being Negative. You Just Don't Like What I'm Saying.
Have you ever been told you're "being negative" just because you expressed a concern, had a different opinion, or didn't automatically go along with something? Yeah… we need to talk. In this episode, I'm getting into a communication pattern that can quietly create anxiety, resentment, and emotional distance in relationships of all kinds. Because there's a big difference between negativity and simp
#410: 10 Signs You're Acting Desperate in Dating or Post-Breakup (And Need to Stop)
When emotions take over, people can start doing things that feel justified in the moment… but usually lead to more pain, more confusion, and less self-respect. The first way to avoid desperation in dating situations or after a breakup is to call yourself out on it. LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R
#409: Stop Pouring Into People Who Are Just Drinking It Up (Overgiving, Boundaries, One-Sided Relationships)
If you're tired of feeling drained, confused about someone's effort, or stuck in a situation where you're doing way more than your share - hello - this is your wake-up call... LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz Get personalized help: breakupBOOST.com YouTube & TikTok @breakupBOOST Check out T
#408: ASK TRINA: "I've Lost Respect for a Friend Who Won't Move On" (+ The Truth About Friends Who Don't Actually Want Advice)
We've all had THAT friend - and / or - BEEN that friend who won't move on, but also won't stop complaining. At what point does it drive too big of a wedge between two people? Also, what you want to keep in mind when it comes to giving friends advice... LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz Get pe
#407: 5 Reasons Why Your Ex Moved On Quickly After The Breakup
After a breakup, nothing messes with your head more than seeing your ex move on fast. One minute you're still processing what happened… the next, THEY'RE posting, dating, or already acting like they've upgraded their entire life. LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz Get personalized help: breakup
#406: The Hidden Danger of Giving a Relationship / Your Ex a Second Chance
Have you ever reconnected with someone from your past and convinced yourself that things will be different this time? Second chances can feel hopeful… even exciting. But they can also come with a hidden risk that many people don't realize until they're already back in the dynamic. LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: ht
#405: 5 Reasons to Stop Keeping the Door Open for Your Ex "Just in Case" (wanting your ex to come back, basically)
You may not be actively pursuing your ex, but if you're still leaving the door open "just in case," it can quietly keep you stuck in the past... and that's not a good place to be... LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz Get personalized help: breakupBOOST.com YouTube & TikTok @breakupBOOST Chec
#404: Why Do Your Friends Still Have Your Ex on Their Social Media??
Sometimes it's not just the romantic relationship that needs boundaries - it's the others around it. In this episode, I talk about a dynamic that can create problems before and after a breakup. LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz Get personalized help: breakupBOOST.com YouTube & TikTok @breakup
#403: TWIN FLAMES Relationship?! More Like Cosmic Excuses for Crappy Men
This episode has been a long time coming... I break down the delusion, dismantle the excuses, and expose the "twin flames" fantasy you're worshipping - so you can stop embarrassing yourself and start reclaiming your dignity. A MUST-LISTEN! Common sense, baby... common sense... LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https:
#402: Why Saying "Their Loss" Can Keep You Stuck (breakup clarity and moving forward)
In this episode, I'm talking straight to YOU about the mindset you may jump into after a breakup and how it can quietly keep you stuck without you even realizing it. LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz Get personalized help: breakupBOOST.com YouTube & TikTok @breakupBOOST Check out Trina's
#401: The Truth Behind "He Doesn't Know How to Love" (relationship reality check for women)
This episode exposes a painful reality… and you'll know pretty quickly if it hits a little too close to home. That's a GOOD thing though. As they say... the truth will set you free. xo LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz Get personalized help: breakupBOOST.com YouTube & TikTok @breakupBOOST
#400: What's YOUR "Word of the Year" Going to Be for 2026?
Forget resolutions - - - this is about choosing ONE WORD to help you stay focused, accountable, and aligned in how you think, decide, and move through the year. I also share the word I chose and "the why." LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz Get personalized help: breakupBOOST.com YouTube & T
#399: ASK TRINA: 20 Random Breakup & Relationship Questions!
ASK TRINA is back... tackling 20 random questions with zero fluff and maximum honesty. Grab some snacks and get comfy! LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz Get personalized help: breakupBOOST.com YouTube & TikTok @breakupBOOST Check out Trina's breakup & dating merch: blockandshop.com
#398: Stop Saying Your Ex RUINED Your Life (They're Not That Important)
You keep saying your ex ruined your life - but you've got to stop giving them so much power. I get it... after a breakup, you're hurt, you're angry, you're replaying everything in your head… but calling your life "ruined" doesn't just flatter them - it makes it sound like you don't even have an identity without them. Come on now.... it's time to flip this script! LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my b
#397: Misusing The Term "Trauma Bonding" & How It May Be Keeping You Stuck
You've probably seen people throw around the term "trauma bonding" like confetti on social media… but are they using this term correctly?! In this episode, we're breaking down what trauma bonding actually is, how people misuse it, and why calling every messy relationship by that name might be keeping you stuck. LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with C
#396: Self-Respect Pep Talk: You're Not a Bargain Bin Deal (dating advice & self-worth motivation)
This one's your wake-up call. If you keep discounting yourself for people who don't even pay full attention, that's on you. Self-respect isn't arrogance - it's knowing you're not a clearance-rack find. The moment you start acting like you're the prize, your whole energy changes. Stop begging to be chosen and start choosing better. LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Ove
#395: Betrayal in Relationships Isn't a Sliding Scale: CHEATING IS CHEATING!
Sure, you can try to convince yourself (or someone else) it was just a "mistake," a "drunken slip," or "not really cheating," but for anyone with integrity... betrayal is betrayal. Period. If you've been downplaying what happened to you - or what you did - this episode is here to show you why you need to cut through the excuses and keep it real. LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESP
#394: 7 Social Media Moves That Look a Lil Unhinged (online drama post breakup & in relationships)
Whether you're reeling from a breakup or tangled in relationship drama, your social media can speak louder than you realize. This episode is your reminder to pump the brakes so you don't end up looking back, wishing you had. Think of this episode as a friendly wake-up call to stay classy, stay mysterious, and keep moving forward - on and off screen. LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be D
#393: 6 Reasons You Ignore Red Flags (and Pretend They Magically Appear AFTER the Breakup)
Red flags aren't just cute little quirks you should "wait and see" about - they're WARNINGS. And ignoring them? That's how you end up in relationship quicksand. Not fun. If you've ever second-guessed your gut or brushed off a behavior because you didn't want to "make a big deal out of it," this one's for you. LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLA
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#392: Weekend Loneliness After a Breakup - Don't Text Your Ex!!! xo
Weekends are supposed to feel exciting. But when you're fresh out of a breakup, they can feel like extra days of torture. Everyone else seems busy, happy, and coupled up - and you're stuck fighting the urge to reach out to your ex. This episode is your reminder of why that's the worst idea you could have right now… and what to do instead. LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE:
#391: "Maybe One Day We Can Get Back Together…" (breakup help for the DUMPED)
Have you ever been dumped and hit with the classic, "Maybe one day we can get back together..."? In this episode, I'm breaking down why that line is more insulting than comforting... and what it REALLY means. If you've been holding onto a "maybe," after a breakup situation, this is your wake-up call to change course, remember your worth, and get your life back on track. You're welcome ;) LISTEN NO
#390: 6 Types of People Who Say, "The Cheating Made Us So Much Stronger" (Dealing with Infidelity)
You've heard it. Maybe you've even said it. But today I'm ripping that phrase apart and exposing the truth behind it. I'm breaking down the 6 types of people who claim cheating somehow helped their relationship - and trust me, it's not the "flex" they think it is. If you've ever tried to justify staying with someone who betrayed you - or if someone you know is deep in denial - this one's probably
#389: DATING DECODED: He Says He's NOT READY for a Relationship (Dating Advice for Women)
It's once again time to KEEP IT REAL. When a man says he's "not ready for a relationship," what does he really mean? In this episode, I break down the truth behind this all-too-common phrase, why women keep holding onto it as though it signifies "hope" ... and what's actually going on beneath the surface. LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY
#388: 10 Brutal Truths Re: Cheating - COLDPLAY COUPLE KISS CAM (Andy Byron & Kristin Cabot)
Introducing the very first Peeling Back the Layers Special Edition of breakup BOOST - where I spotlight breakup, dating, and relationship headlines... pulling out the real-life lessons for YOU. Unless you've been living under a rock (or a concert speaker), you've probably seen the Coldplay Couple caught mid-affair on a kiss cam. I'm not here to rehash the play-by-play - I'm here to deliver 10 brut
#387: If You Use AI to Communicate in Dating & Relationships, Please Stay Single :)
Let's be real: if you're using AI to write love notes, apologies, or breakup texts… this episode is about YOU. And yeah, it might sting a little - - - because it should. I'm diving into the sad, weird, and honestly CORNY new trend of people outsourcing their emotional communication to chatbots. You say you want real love and authenticity, but you can't even send a text without help from a robot?!?
#386: "Why Is My Narcissist Ex Doing This or That?!" (breakup advice that cuts the BS & provides clarity)
Tired of analyzing your narcissist ex? So many questions, so much confusion. You think you want answers - but trust me, you need to hear THIS before you ask again. LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2)
#385: 5 Mistakes That Make You Look Like a CLOWN in Dating and Relationships
So, today I'm talking about a handful of moments in dating and relationships where you look back and just cringe. You know the ones - where you ask yourself, "What was I thinking?!" Awareness is everything... and once you have awareness... you can't keep making the same bad choices. So, if you're determined to walk away from clown behavior for good, LISTEN NOW! Then, check out my book "Don't
#384: The 1 Thing You ACTUALLY Want When You Say You Want "Closure" ... Post-Breakup REAL TALK Advice
You say you want closure - but is that really what you're after??? Hmmmm.... In this episode, I'm pulling back the curtain on what's really behind that phrase. It's not about a neat ending or a final conversation. There's something else going on - and understanding it is the first step to FINALLY moving on. LISTEN NOW! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARI
#383: Groveling After a Breakup Is the Death of Your Dignity (The "please just talk to me" texts gotta go!)
Let's be honest - groveling is straight up cringe. Every text, every "please just talk to me" moment? It's not helping. It's eating away at your dignity. In this episode, I'm giving you the tough love you need to stop chasing someone who clearly isn't chasing you. LISTEN NOW! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2E
#382: 6 Truth Bombs For Cheaters That'll Make Them Squirm (And Validation For Those Who Were Cheated On)
Dear Cheaters: Don't get too cozy. This episode's got your name written all over it! And to everyone who's ever been cheated on, gaslit, or made to feel crazy... you're about to get the validation you deserve. I'm dropping 6 truth bombs cheaters desperately try to avoid. No sugar. No spin. Just the raw, uncomfortable truth about what cheating says about you. And as for the person you hurt? They w
#381: How to Cope When It Feels Like Your Ex Doesn't Miss You After Your Breakup (Advice for Heartbreak)
Breakups mess with your head - and one of the most painful thoughts you can spiral into is: "Do they even miss me?!" If you've been obsessing over their silence, stalking their social media, or searching for any sign that they still care… this episode is for you. Listen NOW! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R
#380: The "Block-Unblock Your Ex" Olympics Will Win You a Gold Medal in Desperation (No contact rule is key)
Let's get real - blocking and unblocking your ex or situationship isn't a power move - it's a hot mess. A cycle that hurts you WAY more than it helps. It's time to stop giving away your power and start standing by your decisions. If you're ready to ditch the drama and step into your confident era, this one's for you. Listen NOW! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup
#379: Dear Men Who Date Women Young Enough to Be Their Daughter:
In this episode, I unpack the real story behind those "age is just a number" relationships. Whether you've dated significantly older, younger, or just sat back watching this type of slow-motion trainwreck... you don't want to miss this! Listen NOW! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this
#378: 10 Types of Men to NEVER Have a Baby With - Because Parenthood Is PERMANENT (life advice for women)
Let's get real: too many women end up tied to the wrong man for life because of pressure, fear, or straight-up wishful thinking. In this episode, I'm breaking down the types of men you should never have a baby with (let alone date lol)... The men who'll charm you into chaos and leave you holding the bag - diaper bag included! Girl... it doesn't matter if he looks good in a selfie if he can't even
#377: Are You Missing Your Ex OR THE HIGH They Gave You? (Post-Breakup Reality Check)
Let's dig into the truth about post-breakup grief. Sometimes, it's not the person you're grieving — it's the rush. The attention. The chaos. The illusion of connection. If you've ever felt addicted to someone who wasn't actually good for you, this one's going to hit hard (in the best way). Listen NOW! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on
#376: "What's Your Body Count?" is the Dumbest Question You Can Ask (dating advice for men & women)
Thanks for stopping by for the latest "tiny talk" ... bite-sized episodes, packed with punch! In this tiny talk, I explain... (in great detail)... why you NEVER want to ask someone what their body count is. Quick, straight to the point, and filled with REAL TALK. Don't miss this one! Listen NOW! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazo
#375: The Bachelor S29 E9 FINALE: Safe Pick or the Fun, Alluring Gamble? (Episode 9 After Show)
Season 29 Finale is HERE! Listen now for my insights and full breakdown - plus I give my take on where this relationship may be headed now that the show is over. Oh, and PS... I also spotted a RED FLAG on a social media video of Grant & Juliana that was uploaded this morning about their "next steps." Hmmm... Breakup & Dating Merch: https://blockandshop.com Coaching: https://www.breakupboost.com
#374: The Bachelor S29 E8: THREE Room Keys… TWO Mysteries (Episode 8 After Show)
I'm breaking down the Season 29 of The Bachelor... What can we learn from THIS episode?! Come back every Tuesday for weekly recaps of all the romance, rivalries, ridiculousness... and breakups! I'll point out the red flags and cringeworthy moments... plus the things you DON'T want to replicate in your own dating life, if you get what I'm sayin... Breakup & Dating Merch: https://blockandshop.com
#373: Common Thought after a Breakup: Did They Ever Really Love You?? (post-breakup advice)
One of the hardest parts of a breakup is wondering: Did they ever actually love me? Was it real, or was I just convenient? In this episode, we're cutting through the confusion and getting honest about what real love looks like. I'll break down key red flags that will hopefully give you some insight for your personal situation, share relatable analogies, and help you stop overanalyzing whether they
#372: The Bachelor S29 E6: Hometowns! So Little Drama, It's Almost Suspicious (Episode 6 After Show)
I'm breaking down the Season 29 of The Bachelor... What can we learn from THIS episode?! Come back every Tuesday for weekly recaps of all the romance, rivalries, ridiculousness... and breakups! I'll point out the red flags and cringeworthy moments... plus the things you DON'T want to replicate in your own dating life, if you get what I'm sayin... Breakup & Dating Merch: https://blockandshop.com
#371: Stop Explaining to Someone Why The Two of You Should Be Together (relationship advice)
Welcome to another episode of "Trina's tiny talks" - bite-sized episodes, packed with punch. In this episode I cover why you never want to be in a position where you're trying to convince someone to be in a relationship with you.
#370: The Bachelor S29 E5 Recap: Sulking, Sabotage & Scottish Dates (Episode 5 After Show)
I'm breaking down the Season 29 of The Bachelor... What can we learn from THIS episode?! Come back every Tuesday for weekly recaps of all the romance, rivalries, ridiculousness... and breakups! I'll point out the red flags and cringeworthy moments... plus the things you DON'T want to replicate in your own dating life, if you get what I'm sayin... Breakup & Dating Merch: https://blockandshop.com
#369: Cut the Melodrama: Breakups Are a Reset, Not a Tragedy (mindset shift post-breakup advice)
Breakups can feel like the end of the world, but they're really just the beginning of something better (even though you may not see that light at the end of the tunnel yet). In this episode, I break down why turning your breakup into a dramatic, life-ending event only makes it harder to move on. Instead of wallowing in sadness and replaying the past, it's time to treat your breakup like a reset -
#368: The Bachelor S29 E4 Recap: He's Not Your Boyfriend, Hun (Episode 4 After Show)
I'm breaking down the Season 29 of The Bachelor... What can we learn from THIS episode?! Come back every Tuesday for weekly recaps of all the romance, rivalries, ridiculousness... and breakups! I'll point out the red flags and cringeworthy moments... plus the things you DON'T want to replicate in your own dating life, if you get what I'm sayin... Breakup & Dating Merch: https://blockandshop.com
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#367: The Bachelor S29 E3 Recap: Finance, Fake Drama, and a Fear Factor Date (Episode 3 After Show)
I'm breaking down the Season 29 of The Bachelor... What can we learn from THIS episode?! Come back every Tuesday for weekly recaps of all the romance, rivalries, ridiculousness... and breakups! I'll point out the red flags and cringeworthy moments... plus the things you DON'T want to replicate in your own dating life, if you get what I'm sayin... Breakup & Dating Merch: https://blockandshop.com
#366: The Bachelor S29 E2 Recap: Grant's 1st Major Red Flag, Things NOT to Do, Cringeworthy Moments (Episode 2 After Show)
I'm breaking down the Season 29 as a Breakup Coach... (and hopefully you'll get some cheap entertainment out of it ;) What can we learn from THIS episode? Come back every Tuesday for weekly recaps of all the romance, rivalries, ridiculousness... and breakups! I'll point out the red flags and cringeworthy moments... plus the things you DON'T want to replicate in your own dating life, if you get w
#365: Why Your Ex Never Apologized & Why You Really Need to Let That Go (breakup support)
Welcome to "trina's tiny talks" ... bite-sized episodes, packed with punch! In this "tiny talk," I explain why your toxic ex didn't apologize - and why, even if they had, it wouldn't really matter. Quick, straight to the point, and filled with REAL TALK. Don't miss this one! Listen NOW! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://
#364: The Bachelor Season 29 Premiere Recap: First Night, First Impressions (Episode 1 After Show)
Will YOU accept this rose??? I'm breaking down the Season 29 Premiere of The Bachelor! Come back every Tuesday for weekly recaps of all the romance, rivalries, ridiculousness... and breakups! I'll point out the red and green flags... plus the things you DON'T want to replicate in your own dating life, if you get what I'm sayin... Breakup & Dating Merch: https://blockandshop.com Coaching: https
#363: No, You Don't "Wait" to Be Respected in a Relationship. Hell to the NAW. (tough love relationship advice pep talk)
Have you ever felt like you're stuck waiting for someone to change or finally treat you the way you deserve? In this episode, I'm breaking down why waiting around for respect or accountability from the wrong person is a losing game. It's time to look at this LOGICALLY and from a place of SELF-RESPECT. This is your wake-up call, with a sprinkle of humor... and a whole lot of tough love. Listen NOW
#362: When They Don't Want to Claim You, But Keep You in Their Orbit (dating advice)
Introducing the first of "trina's tiny talks" ... bite-sized episodes, packed with punch! In this tiny talk, I tackle a situation that's all too common: when someone tells you they don't want to be with you, but still keeps you "hanging around." And yes, I break it down with a lil tough love so you can stop making excuses for your involvement with them and stop being stuck in a cycle of self-dece
#361: You're Not Alone in What You Are Going Through and You WILL Get Through It xo
This episode is to remind you that no matter what you're going through, you're not alone. Life can throw unexpected challenges - whether it's a sudden life change such as a breakup or divorce, loss of employment, natural disaster, financial stress, or overwhelming grief. In those moments, it's easy to feel stuck and hopeless, but the truth is, many people are facing similar struggles. This isn't a
#360: Maintaining a Positive Mindset & Detoxing from Negativity to Transform Your Life
In this episode, I explore the power of maintaining a positive mindset and the role self-awareness plays in navigating negativity. I encourage you to actively work on cultivating positivity in your life, so you can create an environment that fosters growth, happiness, and healthier connections. Listen NOW! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY"
#359: How to Stay Motivated & Keep Moving Forward
Struggling to stay motivated? (This can be especially challenging after a breakup or divorce.) It's all about your mindset and the way you look at things. You can either work against yourself and stay stagnant... OR... make daily choices and build new habits to make progress. It's clearly a 'no brainer' what the best route is, right?! Listen NOW! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get
#358: Protect Your Peace in Relationships - Let Go of Conditional Respect in 2025
Happy New Year, everyone! I wasn't sure what the first episode of the year would be, but I knew it had to be impactful and set the tone for the year ahead. After some thought, I realized the one thing that's truly changed my life - protecting my peace - needed to be the topic. Listen NOW! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https:
#357: STOP Being the "Rehab Center" for POTENTIAL in Dating and Relationships (dating advice wake-up call)
The time has come, ladies and gentlemen... let's get REAL about that thing called POTENTIAL. You know, the magical spark that has you thinking "Maybe this could work!" as you ignore all the red flags waving in your face like you're at a used car dealership. I mean... who doesn't love falling for someone who's "still figuring things out" or "just needs a little more time"? Because who needs self-re
#356: Don't Try SO HARD to Prove Your Happiness To Your Ex Online (Tsk, Tsk...) - breakup advice that saves your dignity
You know what I'm talking about… maybe you've done it, maybe you're currently doing it, or maybe you are aware of people who do this... Listen NOW! (You're sure to get a chuckle out of this one...) Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coac
#355: RED FLAGS Aren't Just Warnings: 4 Relatable Examples of How They ESCALATE (toxic relationship advice)
So-called "small" red flags may seem harmless or easy to overlook at first, but over time, they grow into problems that can severely impact your emotional well-being. Join me in diving into this further, including some relatable examples... Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step
#354: PEP TALK: No Half-Baked Efforts Here: Cake Analogy for Relationships
This episode is all about recognizing your worth and how to stop settling for the bare minimum. Kind of like a pep talk, centered around CAKE! Did that make you hungry? Me too! LISTEN NOW! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at brea
#353: BREAKING NEWS: The Launch of My Merch @ blockandshop.com
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#352: ASK TRINA: 35 Random Breakup, Dating & Relationship Questions!
There's a boat load of topics covered in this round of ASK TRINA... so don't delay... press PLAY and listen to this episode NOW! I'm sure you'll be able to relate to some aspect of at least a handful... Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz Get More Help: (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com
#351: Dissecting a Threads Post: "Emotionally unavailable guys. When is this going to end???"
I came across a post on threads (which is basically the new x for Instagram) and wanted to address it on here, as I know so many people are in this same type of position… and need a bit of a wake-up call. Lots of important lessons in this. Listen to this episode NOW! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz
#350: The Temptation to Break "No Contact" to Call Them Out & Tell Them Off (sticking to the no contact rule after a breakup)
Temptation is a son-of-a-gun... isn't it??!! Add that onto dealing with a "no contact" situation... and, well... you've got a challenge on your hands. After listening to this episode, I think you'll be more motivated to ramp up that self-control. (I mean, at least that's what I'm going for... ;) Listen to this episode NOW! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with C
#349: 3 LAME A$$ Excuses You Need to Stop Making for Their Bad Behavior (toxic relationship advice)
In this episode, I'm talking all about EXCUSES... including breaking down three common excuses people make for their partner's bad behavior (or whoever they are dating or interested in). These excuses are holding you back from the respect and love you deserve. It's time to get real, call out the nonsense, and take your power back. Enough already! Listen to this episode NOW! Then, check out my
#348: Stop Using "Unconditional Love" as an Excuse to Be a Doormat
If you've ever found yourself enduring bad behavior in the name of love, this episode is for you! I break down why "unconditional love" shouldn't be a free pass for someone to walk all over you... and remind you of the non-negotiables in a relationship. Listen to this episode NOW! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.
#347: BREAKUP PEP TALK: Douchebag Detox: From Heartbreak to HEAD HELD HIGH!
Breakup pep talk time! If you're out there crying over a jerk who mistreated you, cheated on you, lied to you... or sold you a story they never delivered on... (maybe all of the above)... this pep talk's for YOU! Listen to this episode NOW! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz Get More Help: (1) ORDER EMA
#346: Are they an "AVOIDANT" or are they just NOT INTO YOU or THE RIGHT FIT for you??? (my spin on "avoidant attachment")
I can't go a day without seeing or hearing the word "avoidant"... and I'm here to do my part in sharing some much needed FRESH perspective. Hopefully it will resonate with you and make you think twice before joining the herd in overusing the term ;) Listen to this episode NOW! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3
#345: The REAL Problem When You Are Irritated By Someone Who Won't Change
There is so much irony in wanting someone else to change. If you find yourself in a situation where you are super frustrated by the person you're dating, in a relationship with, or even married to... this one's for YOU! Listen to this episode NOW! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz Get More Help: (1) ORD
#344: "I Would Have Done ANYTHING for You!!!" (much needed perspective for a frustrated broken heart)
SUPER RELATABLE topic today! Lots of gold nuggets to be discovered and tucked away in your back pocket. Let me stop you from diminishing your value and having to look back on this with regret. Listen to this episode NOW! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz Get More Help: (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching
#343: Having the Attitude of "Easier Said Than Done" When Getting Over a Breakup (or other adversity)
When you're going through a breakup, it can be easy to sink into a negative thought pattern. It can seem like everything is working against you. It can be easy to think that whatever you want in life will never become reality and that good things only happen to OTHER people. It can make you envious to see happy couples, wishing you had that too. I get that. BUT....... Listen to this episode NOW
#342: 21 HARSH TRUTHS for Women in Dating ... Don't Shoot the Messenger ;) (tough love dating advice for women)
It's time to drop some truth bombs to prevent you from doing things you shouldn't be doing ... because doing certain things and making certain choices in dating will not lead you to The Promised Land. And THAT is one thing I can promise. Listen to this episode NOW! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz G
#341: "Will They Regret It?" / "But, He Was Crying!!!" (Meaning Regret Breaking Up & Hurting Me)
One of the MOST COMMON questions after a breakup is, "Will they regret it???" I have so much to say about this so that you can flip these thoughts around and get on with your life. Doesn't that sound good? Or would you rather keep sitting around sulking and walking for a lousy text or investigating the story-watching on your social media?! Listen to this episode NOW! Then, check out my book "Do
#340: Mindset Shift: Embracing the Path of Least Resistance in Relationships
Your mindset influences how you think, feel, and behave in whatever situation you find yourself in. And speaking of mindset, I have often talked about the importance of going with the flow of life… or in other words... embracing the path of least resistance. This advice stems from observing how people can drive themselves absolutely crazy by clinging onto dead-end, unhealthy relationships. When
#339: Dating Someone New, But Can't Stop Thinking About Your Ex or Situationship?
Wouldn't you just be tickled pink at the thought of being all wrapped up in someone who can't get over their ex?? So, then why are you doing this to someone else?! It's time for a lil reality check, a lil honesty, and some self-reflection. Listen to this episode NOW! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz Get
#338: To The Guy Who Wants You to "Be His Peace" (While Robbing You Of Yours)
This is an episode to make women, who have been through this, feel validated... and for the guys listening, it's to give you perspective as to what you don't want to do and why. As soon as I hear a guy say, 'I just want a woman to be my peace," it's like an alarm bell goes off as to how this guy operates. Let me fill you in on why I say that... listen to this episode NOW! Then, check out my book
#337: BREAKUP PEP TALK: Yearning for Reconciliation as the Dumpee??
If your relationship ended and you're in a panic to get things back on track, THIS EPISODE is EXACTLY what you need to hear right now... before you end up doing all the things you shouldn't be doing and would later regret. Cause who likes regret?? No one. And hey, even if you already did some things you regret, that's ok! Let's start fresh NOW! Listen to this episode. I got your back! Then, chec
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