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Middle Men

Brendan O'Hara 5 Episodes Aug 5, 2026

Middle Men is a podcast created for men who don't fit neatly into society's straight or gay categories. The host, Brendan O'Hara, shares his own journey from identifying as straight to coming out as gay, and ultimately landing in the middle. The show offers a space without labels or judgment, where listeners can hear from other guys who understand their experience. It aims to build a community for those who feel caught between worlds, whether they are bi, curious, or simply unlabeled.

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Why I never Felt Gay Enough — And What I Did About It Aug 5, 2026 00:14:07 You can come out as gay and still feel like you don’t belong in the gay community.I know because I lived openly as a gay man for about 15 years—and still never felt fully at home in the most visible gay spaces available to me.According to the anonymous Middle Men Survey, I’m far from alone. Only 1 out of 24 gay and queer respondents said he felt very at home in the mainstream gay community. More t

You Don't Have to Pick a Side | Sexuality Is a Spectrum Jul 28, 2026 00:09:24 You've been told your whole life that you have to pick a side. Straight or gay. One or the other.You don't. Not anymore.Sexuality runs on a spectrum, and it can evolve and change over time. I know because I've experienced it myself. And there's a place for the millions of guys like us out there who don't fit neatly into "straight" or "gay."In this episode I

I Think I Might Be Bi. Now What? | What Nobody Tells You Jul 21, 2026 00:07:22 If you've ever typed "am I bi" into a search bar at 1am and then deleted your search history afterward, this one's for you.You're not the only one. Not even close.In this episode I get into the actual data on how many men live somewhere between "straight" and "gay" — the numbers that prove you're not rare, broken, or alone — and what the questioning ac

I Lived Straight, Then Gay. Then I Landed in the Middle. Jul 14, 2026 00:13:50 I lived a straight life. Then I lived a gay life. Both were real. Then I kept going and landed somewhere in the middle, and that feels right. But it's not without its challenges.This is my story: growing up closeted in the 80s and 90s in Pennsylvania, coming out in Boston at 24, living fifteen years fully immersed in the gay world, then going back into the closet in my 40s and realizing I'

Middle Men: Season 1 Trailer Jul 5, 2026 00:01:34 Middle Men is a podcast and community for men who don't fit neatly into society's straight or gay boxes.Maybe your life appears straight on the outside but isn't so straight on the inside. Maybe you're bi or gay, but don't fit neatly into the spaces designed for you. Maybe you don't have a word for what you are—and maybe you don't want one.Either way, you exist somewher

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