Black Millennial Marriage

BMM INDIE EP 190: Paul Pt. 2 Jul 29, 2026 2825 For the first time in 25 years Mikey travels back to Guyana, his mother’s mother country and meets his dad.Tune in for part 2 of this Indie episode where Mikey reveals what it was like returning to Guyana as a man, connecting with his cousin, seeing his granny in her element, and finally having the nerve to meet his father. What was meant to be a one time adventure turned into Mikey and his dad sp

BMM INDIE EP 189: Paul (Pt. 1) Jul 12, 2026 2249 For the first time in 25 years Mikey travels back to Guyana, his mother’s mother country to have his “Eat, Pray, Love” moment.Tune in for part 1 of this Indie episode where Mikey details getting ready for his 9-day trip to Guyana, the chaos of the airport, bribes to get past the checkpoint once landed, and finally settling into his room.Later Mikey shares a bit of the journal entry he crafted once

BMM EP 188: Not Since Noble Jun 18, 2026 5813 A convo about control turned into a revelation that nothing has been the same since Noble. Even 6 years later. Tune in as Mikey and Randie reveal what has changed about them for better or for worse since their son died. Because grief. Because this is real life. Because earth is hell or ghetto or whatever Jesus said. Later, the Chapmans discuss what their convo has taught them about one another, an

BMM INDIE 187: The Truth About No Contact Jun 3, 2026 2388 (After Model Home by Rivers Solomon and Bless the Daughter Raised by a Voice in her Head by Warsan Shire) Hey y’all,While Mike was in Guyana for the first time since 2001, Randie’s feelings caught up to her. Tune in as she reveals the real about going No Contact with her family. Brought on by a convo with Drew and the propaganda about No Contact being, “trendy” Randie tells you the truth.No Contac

BMM MINI EP 186: Wine? Ft. Drew Chapman May 21, 2026 2431 Hey y’all!Tune in for what is probably the most unhinged (and most fun) episode ever recorded on the BMM podcast because this one is featuring Drewbie Drew.Similar to the Chapman’s relationship check-ins, Mikey and Randie interview Drew and ask her to rate them with: thumbs up, middle, or thumbs down on safety, fun, communication, love/connection, and baby Rey.The episode takes many turns (LOL) as

BMM INDIE EP 185: Selah May 14, 2026 663 In the beginning of January, the Chapmans spent some time in the ER with baby Rey. Tune in to hear the piece Randie wrote about the experience. Shout out to the fellow mother and friend who didn’t even realize she was encouraging Randie to spread this post a little further. And thank God for the babies that change us.Items Mentioned:**Selah: Hebrew. Thought to mean, “pause, reflect, and praise.” F

BMM EP 184: You Still Got It May 9, 2026 5479 Tin! Ten! 10 YEARS! In the books. Somebody clap!In this episode Mikey and Randie talk about their 10 year anniversary, their first time at a super fancy restaurant, the gifts, their takeaways, and how they’re ready to go reallll slow now LOL. It was a fun and delirious conversation they can’t wait to share with you.Later, Mike brings a fight or flight that (plot twist, Randie won) even though the

BMM INDIE EP 183: Dedication Apr 29, 2026 939 It’s Mikey’s first Indie back in over a year and he’s here with a dedication.Inspired by his God daughter’s ceremony, Mikey pins a letter to Drew and Rey about what it means to be dedicated to them.Later he gives a head nod to the dad’s and husbands out there doing their best. And he reminds them to not martyr themselves as they devote themselves to their family.To end, Mikey shares that he’ll be

BMM EP 182: We Had (Another) Baby Apr 22, 2026 6069 The Chapmans done went and had another baby on y’all.Tune in and learn all about their youngest daughter, Rey. Together Mikey and Randie reveal what helped them realize they were ready to try for another baby, what it’s like having another baby after experiencing infant loss, how Drewbie is soaring at being a big sister, and more.Later, Randie brings a fight or flight prompted by a tweet and it ge

BMM INDIE EP 181: Open Water Changed Me Apr 15, 2026 868 The novel Open Water by Caleb Azumah Nelson shifted something in Randie’s cells. Shortly after finishing the small but mighty book, Randie auto wrote for 20 minutes about the impact the characters left on her. She only lifted her hands to turn the pages.This indie is the result. She hopes you enjoy.This episode of the Black Millennial Marriage Podcast was edited by Randie Chapman at Wordie Product

BMM EP 180: All Dogs Go to Heaven Apr 8, 2026 4967 For this episode you must love dogs and should bring tissues, because everybody’s crying—especially Mikey and Randie.For their second EP back, the Chapmans talk about…Groot. The dog clacking in all of the episodes and posing in all of the logos. Their first baby. The soul that made them a family before the human littles entered the world.Why is Groot the focus of this episode? Because after 10 lon

BMM EP 179: Are We Beefing? Apr 1, 2026 5280 Hey y’all!Long time no see!Are you ready for Season 8?In this episode, Mikey and Randie detail a fight and a make up made possible by Mikey's older brother, Prince. Because sometimes, a family member being in your business works out.Later, the Mr. brings a fight or flight questioning Randie’s loyalty. But in the end, it’s all love as they show each other appreciation for the PDA segment.The fe

BMM EP 178: Proof of Life [Season 7 FINALE] Dec 7, 2024 5659 Magic Mind's got a Black Friday offer, it's currently 50% off until the 6th of December, only with my link:https://magicmind.com/RANDIEPDBF Use my code RANDIEPDBF for 50% off #magicmindHey y’all!It’s the end of. . . . the SEASON! So, here’s a longer episode to reflect on this long ass year. Tune in as Mikey and Randie reveal the 3 biggest things that affected them and stood out to them thi

BMM Indie 177: What's Going On Nov 1, 2024 1974 My productivity hack: https://magicmind.com/RANDIEPD20Use my code RANDIEPD20 for 20% off #magicmind..Hey y’all,The temptation to roll over and die is . . . well, tempting. But in this Indie Randie details the 4 things keeping her afloat, helping her resist despair, and inspiring her to imagine a better future. Because if Bisan from Gaza can show up, then so will she.Tune in as the shorter half of

BMM EP 176: Phew. Glad We Didn't Know That. Sep 12, 2024 5048 My productivity hack https://magicmind.com/RANDIEPD40Use my code RANDIEPD40 for getting 40% off your subscription (available only for the first 10 orders)...In hindsight, there are many things the Chapmans are glad they didn’t know before they got married. And they bet you would agree. Tune in as one of your favorite couples discuss what was worth finding out . . . all after the fact. For Mikey, i

BMM Indie 175: That Thing Ft. Dontea' Mitchell-Hunter Aug 3, 2024 3095 Get your Magic Mind subscription here https://magicmind.com/RANDIEPD20You get up to 48% off with my code: RANDIEPD20...“It’s been 3 weeks since you been lookin’ for your friend” and that’s all the more reason to call a therapist.Hey y’all! Tune in as Randie chats with therapist and podcast host of the Situationsh!t Podcast, Dontea’ (Don-Tay-Yah) Mitchell-Hunter. Together the two talk letting peopl

BMM EP 174: BMM x Labyrinth of the First Gen Podcast Jul 30, 2024 2786 Get your Magic Mind subscription here https://magicmind.com/RANDIEPD20You get up to 48% off with my code: RANDIEPD20..Hey y’all, tune in to hear the Chapmans collaboration with the wonderful Weyu Shameka. Host and podcaster of the Labyrinth of the first Gen podcast.On this episode, Weyu interviews Mikey and Randie about family, immigrant families and parents, marriage, and community. It was a good

[FLASHBACK] BMM 012: Things to Do Before You Get Married Jul 12, 2024 3503 Try Magic Mind for free here: https://magicmind.com/RANDIEPDTRIALWith my code RANDIEPDTRIAL (just cover shipping!).Hey y'all! Your favorite bi-monthly podcasters are here tehehehe. But no seriously, the Chapmans know everybody's going through it in some way and that's why they're back with a Flashback. Tune in to hear the opening convo and see what Mikey and Randie have been up to,

BMM INDIE 172: Let's Talk About Lichen Sclerosus Ft. Kathy Ruiz-Carter May 22, 2024 2506 Hey y’all!Tune in as Randie sits down with Kathy, host of the Lichen Sclerosus Podcast.Kathy was diagnosed with LS 5 years ago at 40 and the life-changing diagnosis paved the way for her podcast and organization on a mission to educate women about the auto immune disease that commonly affects the genitals.In this episode, Kathy details the symptoms she experienced before diagnosis, the sub-par med

BMM EP 171: This Again? May 14, 2024 4148 Hey y’all!Tune in as Mikey and Randie talk about money . . . again.And the backstory involves Youtube Premium and wondering who gon’ pay the bill LOL.Together, the Chapmans reveal what’s been going on with work and money, and all the POSITIVE things they’re doing instead of—or in conjunction with— the “bad” habits.The “good” habits range from speaking up and refusing to isolate from friends, re-pa

BMM Indie 170: The Tale of 3 Mikes May 7, 2024 1362 Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google PodcastsHey, (in our best Mikey voice), he’s back.In his first Indie episode of the season, Mikey reflects on three versions of himself. Inspired by the beef between Kendrick, Drake, and Cole (until he opted out), the taller half of the BMM podcast gives a music lesson and explains why he believes that in life, he chose Jermaine’s rou

[FLASHBACK] BMM 082: Game of Moans May 3, 2024 3460 Hey y'all! Mikey and Randie are doing something new and will be dropping flashback/memory lane episodes on Fridays.Tune in to hear Game of Moans. This was another fan favorite back in the day. Happy Listening!... The Chapmans are BACK for Season 2! The theme? Plot twists. For their first episode back Mikey and Randie talk about sex. But wait! There’s no tears, no disgruntlement, or deep conver

BMM Indie 168: Am I Cracking or Snapping? Apr 29, 2024 982 Randie thinks she’s cracking..or snapping. Tune in as the shorter half of the BMM podcast shares some heartfelt thoughts about money, wounds, patterns, cycles, and being herself. Happy Listening.Items Mentioned:**As Amazon Associates we earn from qualifying purchases at no additional cost to you. It’s a great way to support the show. However, there’s also no pressure or hard feelings if you’d pref

[FLASHBACK] BMM EP 088: 4Ever Ever, It Ain't All Bad Apr 27, 2024 4474 Hey y'all! Mikey and Randie are doing something new and will be dropping flashback/memory lane episodes on Fridays.First up, an episode from 2020 when they were celebrating 4 years of marriage. This was a fan favorite back then and they hope you still enjoy it! Especially because the couple just celebrated EIGHT years married! Wow. So many things have stayed the same. haha. Happy Listening. ..

BMM EP 166: Holistic Marriage Ft. Dr. Tiffany Smith + Mr. Horace Smith Apr 24, 2024 4374 Hey y’all! Mikey and Randie are back for Season 7. The Chapmans done batch recorded and everything lmao. In this episode the couple interview Dr. Tiffany Smith and her husband Mr. Horace a.k.a. Mr. Smith.Tune in to hear your hosts chat with the couple about their love story, the challenges of Horace living with chronic pain, functional medicine, and the surprising benefits of aromatherapy. Dr. Tif

BMM EP 165: We Made Lemonade Jan 29, 2024 4333 Hey y’alllllllll!The Chapmans are out of the Bat Cave and want to tell you all about it.In this episode they discuss Randie’s revelation, Mikey’s heart felt intentions, and the thing that finally made them realize they need to QUIT the house buying process (for now).Later, the couple gives out Patreon Superlatives to their most engaged Patrons of 2023. The Superlatives range from the most delulu t

BMM EP 164: Plastic Off the Sofa [UNEDITED] Dec 17, 2023 3671 Hey y'all!Mikey and Randie are sick right now, but would never leave you hanging.So tune in for a raw and unedited version of "Plastic Off the Sofa". These kinds of episodes don't have any music or any edits, and they are a favorite of those on Patreon because listeners get a BTS look into what crafting an episode is like.This episode in particular was a very popular episode last y

BMM Indie 163: Sister, Returned Ft. Bri Dec 11, 2023 2987 Like Saturn, the sisters have returned to one another. Tune in for this extra special Indie where Randie interviews her baby sister, Bri.In this episode they discuss their childhoods, and Bri reveals what little Bri wants from Little Ran. Later, Bri talks about what going no contact with certain family members has taught her, what she does to take care of herself, and what being a sister means to

BMM EP 162: What You Been Up To? Dec 3, 2023 3370 Hey y’all! With just a few more episodes left for this season, Mikey and Randie are back with an update. In this episode, they detail what’s been going on with them. They shed light on weight loss and gain, new projects, layoffs, and more. But what they also really want is for you to tell them what YOU have been up to. It’s getting closer and closer to the end of the year and they need your review

BMM Indie 161: It Is Finally Safe Nov 8, 2023 2184 So what had happened was…Randie’s mom heard her Indie episode, Mothering Myself. And like, duh right? That was always a possibility. And still..Randie was scared shitless.Tune in to hear about the creative block Randie's been experiencing, her thoughts on her own cowardice behavior, and what finally accepting her safety means for her.She wonders…what will it look like now for her to create sol

BMM EP 160: Why Do Millennials Fall in Love [UNEDITED + REPRISED] Oct 24, 2023 4992 Hey y'all, Hey!It's a good day for a throwback.And in this episode the Chapmans highlight BMM EP 059: Why Do Millennials Fall in Love? Do you remember that episode? It was a lot of fun and Mikey and Randie wanted to share the unedited version of that episode with you.In this episode, Randie reads a listener’s love story that started at Sonics, involves a little head, and ends in a lasting

BMM MINI 159: We Kinda Sorta Turned Out Fine Oct 13, 2023 2680 Hey y’all!Tune in for the Chapman’s first mini episode this season. As a reminder, Minis are all about their experiences as parents and in this episode Mikey and Randie reveal what parenting Drew has made them realize about their childhoods.The list ranges from being hit a lot to, in some cases, wishing they had the parents they wanted.It’s a fun episode in that Randie and Mikey really enjoyed rec

BMM 158: Holy Smokes Ft. Kristian A. Smith Sep 19, 2023 3996 Hey y’all! Was a pastor featured on the BMM podcast on your Bingo card for 2023? It certainly wasn’t on Mikey and Randie’s, but seeing as this season’s theme is “Lemonade” the Chapmans are committed to acknowledging the nourishment all around them. Enter Kristian A. Smith, a man who wears many hats, and is also the host of the Holy Smokes Spirituality and Cigars podcast. In this episode, the coupl

BMM Indie 157: I Can Fix That Aug 29, 2023 1900 Hey, (in our best Mikey voice), he’s back.It’s been over a year since Mikey dropped an indie and in this episode he reveals where he’s been and how working on his latest project— his 1978 Monte Carlo Landau—is healing him. Tune in as Mikey nerds out with some history about the car, details the story of his cousin Quacy a.k.a. Chess gifting him the Monte Carlo, and discusses the three things re-bui

BMM 156: This is Embarrassing... Aug 9, 2023 3605 Hey y’all!In this episode, Mikey and Randie detail their most recent relationship breakthrough.It started with an argument and turned into a moment of vulnerability. And it’s all thanks to that damn word chart.Later, Randie brings a fight or flight questioning Mikey about therapy. But it’s all love, when in the end they show each other some PDA. As always, the Chapmans appreciate you for listening

BMM Indie 155: Come as You Are Ft. Yanitza Cubilette Jul 23, 2023 3653 Hey y’all!In this episode Randie interviews her sex and intimacy doula, Yanitza. Together they droid out over their pleasure muse THE Janelle Monáe, discuss the shame surrounding sex, pleasure, and intimacy and what this work has taught Yanitza about herself and about people. Later they talk about how grief affects our capacity to receive, and what working with a sex and intimacy doula looks like.

BMM 154: Everywhere You Go, There You Are Ft. Dr. Jeannelle Perkins-Muhammad Jul 11, 2023 3929 Hey y’all!In this episode Mikey and Randie interview Dr. Jeannelle Perkins-Muhammad on her latest book Into-Me-See: Mastering Black Intimacy for the Relationship You’ve Always Wanted and there’s so much to say.Before beginning the interview, The Chapmans and Dr. Jeannelle share their first memories of feeling safe. Later, the duo learn that finding out she was married to a narcissist inspired Dr.

BMM 153: Alright, Let's Do This One Last Time Jul 4, 2023 3184 Hey y’all. Mikey and Randie, are back after a hiatus of seven months.And in this episode, they detail what’s changed about them and how having boundaries, self-respect, and faith again has affected them and the podcast for the better. Later, Mikey brings a fight or flight that turns into a poem, wondering when Randie will remember who she is. But, just like old times, it’s all love when they show

BMM 152: Gettin’ Free!: A Juneteenth Collaboration brought to you by Sistas Who Kill: A True Crime Podcast. [BONUS EP] Jun 16, 2023 9433 Gettin’ Free! : A Juneteenth Collaboration brought to you by Sistas Who Kill: A True Crime Podcast. We know that history is told from the side of the victors, but that leaves room for misinformation and false narratives. We are on a mission to change that.11 Black podcasts have come together to reclaim our history and tell it our way - flavor and all. Welcome to a chronological journey to get free

BMM Indie 151: Honey & Self-Sabotage [BONUS EP] Jun 6, 2023 1669 Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google PodcastsDidn’t expect a bonus Indie Episode from Randie did you? (Or maybe you did if you caught her latest IG Live)She misses y’all! Mikey and Randie both do. And they want you to consider this episode an apology, an olive branch, and a promise that they will be back sooner than you think with episodes. Get excited.And . . .Tune in a

BMM 150: Mo' Money Mo' Fear Dec 9, 2022 3208 Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts.Now whoever thought that making more money and making it out of the valley would scare the hell out of Mikey and Randie?Can you relate? Tune in as the Chapmans detail why abundance has been triggering them and find out how they self-sabotage and re-ground themselves back in the present. Because the truth is, it's been a h

BMM Indie 149: Big Ran. Little Ran. (Ft. Randy H.) Nov 30, 2022 3109 Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google PodcastsWas an episode with Randie's dad on your bingo card for 2022?Tune in as Big Ran gets interviewed by the shorter half of the Black Millennial Marriage podcast. Together the two detail their happiest childhood memories and later Randie learns what inspired her dad to give up the drugs you snort and heavy alcohol. Big R

BMM 148: Before We Argue Nov 16, 2022 2793 Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts.There are plenty of things Mikey and Randie wished they remembered before they argued. And in this episode, they’re gonna discuss. Tune in as the couple talk about being on the same team, being allowed to be angry, and remembering that they don’t have to internalize the others’ triggers and more.Later, Mikey brings a fight or

BMM 147: We Want a Mansion Oct 24, 2022 3258 Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts.Mikey and Randie are finally on the same page. Tune in as the couple detail their current home buying journey, barriers that stopped them in the past, and why, four years since moving into the Bat Cave, they’re finally ready to take action.Later, Randie brings a fight or flight that makes Mikey laughs till he cries and also m

BMM Indie 146: "Codependent No More" Oct 3, 2022 1662 Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google PodcastsIf you find that you're always in some type of f*ck sh*t, then you're the problem. You are the problem. But it's not just you though. In this Indie episode, Randie details reading Codependent No More by Melody Beattie. She explains why she finally read the book, confesses to being a codependent in recovery, a

BMM 145: Plastic Off the Sofa Sep 21, 2022 3466 Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts.Mikey and Randie haven’t had a relationship check-in in a long long time, until today that is. For the inaugural episode of Season 5, tune in as the couple rate sex, family, communication, self, and money on a scale of 1-5. The convo is all things juicy, funny, and enlightening, and they hope to inspire you to check in with y

BMM 144: You're Stuck With Us (SEASON 4 FINALE!) Sep 10, 2022 4164 Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts.Phew it's been a long long time, and the Chapmans have missed y'all.In this episode, Mikey and Randie explain their impromptu break, read your emails, play your voicemails, and gift Patreon superlatives. Later, Randie brings a fight or flight that questions if Mikey knows the true meaning of words. But in the en

BMM 143: You Make Me Laugh May 13, 2022 2914 Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts.Will you laugh until you cry? Mikey and Randie did. Like, real tears while hearing each other read the funniest stories they could find on the internet.After all, it can't all be doom and gloom--can it? No one can stay down forever, and the Chapmans believe that. There were many many times they never thought they&#3

BMM 142: I'd Still Marry You May 5, 2022 2763 Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts.April 24th marked six years that Mikey and Randie have been married, and it's safe to say they didn’t know what they were really getting into when they said “I do." So, there lies the question…would they still marry each other if they knew about all the grief they would endure?The answer is "Yes and"…lol. Wel

BMM Indie 141: Mothering Myself Apr 1, 2022 1568 Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google PodcastsRandie’s stuck on a roller coaster that sends her round and round on a ride of hating herself, shaming herself, and blaming herself for Noble’s death. At least that’s what her therapist says.But why? Why can’t Randie just be sad and mourn without beating herself up?A phone call days before Noble’s birth may give a hint to the

BMM 140: "Grief Sedated by Orgasm" Mar 15, 2022 3462 Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts.In Lemonade Beyoncè said, “Grief sedated by orgasm. Orgasm heightened by grief,” and the Chapmans believe she was on to something.In this episode Mikey and Randie discuss how grief has affected their sex life. Together they detail sex before and after Noble, how sex has evolved, and then end the main segment with advice for g

BMM Indie 139: It's Hard to Talk About Noble Feb 28, 2022 1550 Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google PodcastsIt’s been a long time since Mikey has dropped an Indie and if you think he’s been stalling, he has. Still, while it’s hard, the father half of the BMM Podcast knows not talking about Noble is not an option.Join him as he details why it’s hard to talk about his deceased son, how he fears he’s just too angry, and worries that no

BMM 138: Bat Shit Angry Feb 20, 2022 3109 Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts.The Chapmans are mad as hell, but they have a complicated relationship with anger. They’re certain you can relate.In this episode, Mikey and Randie discuss how they viewed rage before and now after their son, Noble. They detail how their anger affects their marriage and what they’re learning and unlearning about being mad.Lat

BMM 137: "Wubba Lubba Dub Dub" Feb 14, 2022 3033 Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts."Wubba Lubba Dub Dub," translates to "I am in great pain, please help me." And it's from the Rick and Morty show.Irrelevant? The Chapmans think not. When they weren't watching TV to help their pain, they were receiving help and support to guide them back to life.And in this episode, Randie and Mi

BMM Indie 136: Bad Trip Feb 10, 2022 1526 Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google PodcastsMikey and Randie are BACK for Season 4 of the Black Millennial Marriage Podcast and the theme is . . .grief.Together the couple will detail the sadness, breakthroughs, triggers, triumphs, and ways life has shifted since the loss of their son, Noble.And in this Indie episode, Randie details the last time she got high while on v

BMM 135: We Are Really High Feb 6, 2022 2472 Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts.Mikey and Randie are BACK for Season 4 of the Black Millennial Marriage Podcast and the theme is . . .grief.Together the couple will detail the sadness, breakthroughs, triggers, triumphs, and ways life has shifted since the loss of their son, Noble.And in this episode the couple discuss vices and the ways they tried and faile

BMM INDIE 134: I Am Not Okay (BONUS EP) Dec 8, 2021 1030 Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google PodcastsRandie's here with a bonus episode she didn't expect to record. In this Indie episode the shorter half of the BMM podcast is here to tell everyone she's really not okay.With a message that is sometimes read and sometimes not, Randie reveals how she has tried and failed to manipulate her grief and tried and fa

BMM 133: A Proper Ending (End of Season 3) Nov 25, 2021 2625 Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts.Today marks four months since Mikey and Randie lost their son, Noble, and in dedication they wanted to end the season properly.In this episode, Randie and Mikey detail why they're doing this episode, where they've been the past few months, and where they are now. There's also some exciting news for what'

BMM 132: Live From the Bed Jul 11, 2021 2206 Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts.Randie’s water broke and she’s on bed rest.This new development is a pregnancy plot twist for sure and the Chapmans record in bed to tell you all about it. Together they detail the ER and hospital stay and the plan for the baby and pregnancy. Later, Mikey and Randie detail how they’re doing and what’s helping the Mrs. survive

BMM 131: Did We Get Married Too Young? Jun 23, 2021 2208 Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts.In this episode, the Chapmans wonder if they got married too young.Together Mikey and Randie reveal if they regret their decision and discuss how self-esteem affected their reasons to say, “I Do.”Later, the Mrs. brings a fight or flight blaming Mikey for failing to read the room. And his response may surprise you. In the end

BMM 130: No One is Coming to Save Us Jun 3, 2021 3756 Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google PodcastsThere comes a point in every marriage where a couple realizes: No one is coming to save them.Mikey and Randie have reached that moment, especially concerning the podcast.In this episode, the Chapmans detail the ways they’ve been playing small, reveal why they’ve been passive participants in this podcast game, and discuss

BMM Indie 129: The Failed Test May 21, 2021 1564 Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google PodcastsRandie’s back with her first Indie of season 3, and it’s story time! The baby’s all good and all is well, but not without a few lessons. In this episode, the shorter half of the Black Millennial Marriage Podcast details a failed test involving a prenatal appointment from hell. The Mrs. describes the lessons she has learn

BMM 128: Another Baby. May 3, 2021 3289 Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google PodcastsRandie is pregnant! And the Chapmans want to tell you all about the new baby.In this episode, Mikey and Randie detail why they decided to have another baby, discuss how they found out about the new addition, and reveal what happened when they told family and friends about the pregnancy. Later, the Mrs. brings a fight or

BMM Indie 127: Bucket List? Apr 25, 2021 1725 Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google PodcastsIn the third episode of season 3, Mikey steps out with his first Indie. Mikey shares his inspiration and plan for taking his shit back in the form of a bucket list, gives a little history on the term, and sheds some light on an internal struggle that’s been plaguing him.Later, Mikey gives a shoutout to a person he respec

BMM 126: Fly Drew. Fly. Apr 16, 2021 2983 Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google PodcastsIn the second episode of season 3, Mikey and Randie discuss putting Drew back in daycare. Together, the parents detail the pros and cons of having Drew home because of Covid-19, why they decided school was best for her, and how their baby girl’s return to daycare is helping them take their shit back.Later, Mikey brings a

BMM 125: Let’s Play a Game! Apr 5, 2021 3476 Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google PodcastsMikey and Randie are back for Season 3, and true to Chapman fashion and BMM tradition, they’re back with a game!Invented by UK couple, Robert and Diana Indries, Better Topics is a game created by couples for couples. You can enjoy this game whether you are married, engaged, dating, in a long-term relationship, or a new c

BMM 124: End of Season Two! Back in 2021. Dec 15, 2020 3714 Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google PodcastsPHEW!! It’s been a wild, wonderous, and unexpected year. When the ball drops on New Year’s Day don’t forget to shout, “Jumanji!” but before that, listen to the Chapman’s last episode of 2020. For this season finale, Mikey and Randie share the episodes that grew them up and surprised them and later they play and read feedback from .

BMM Indie 123: Great Expectations Dec 13, 2020 1455 Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google PodcastsMikey is back with his final Indie for Season 2! In this episode Mikey discusses the unfair expectations he’s placed on himself in these difficult and stressful times. Mike shares his struggles and successes, details his goals for next year, and leaves the audience with a little something inspirational at the end.After this reflecti

BMM Indie 122: I . . . Quit Dec 2, 2020 1653 Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google PodcastsThe Chapmans are back to close out season 2 and in this Indie episode, Randie drops a bomb. She quit her day job. In this solo reflection the shorter half of the Black Millennial Marriage Podcast details the ins and outs of her transition and shares what she’s doing now. 2020 remains full of surprises, and this is certainly the case

BMM 121: What We Gained In The Fire Nov 3, 2020 3784 Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google PodcastsThe Chapmans will be back Wednesday, December 2nd! But before then . . . election day is upon us, and that’s a big deal. However, Mikey and Randie are here if you want to take a load off–cause lord knows they need to. That’s why in this episode, the couple discuss the gains from 2020. They highlight Lovecraft Country, bonding with t

BMM 120: Competing With Who? Oct 26, 2020 3397 Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google PodcastsIcky, exhausted, confused, inferior, grateful, and inspired are just a few ways Mikey and Randie feel when they compete–knowingly and unknowingly.Together, the Chapmans detail what it’s like to be copied, unfollowed, and seen out here in these creative streets. Randie and Mikey also discuss what fuels their drive and keeps them focu

BMM Mini: Parent Fog Oct 22, 2020 1332 Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google PodcastsMikey and Randie are seeing things in a new light now that their baby girl is growing up and spending time away. After almost 2 years in a haze of parenting and personal neglect the couple are able to speak on their new found perspective. That’s why in this episode, the Chapmans bring back minis–episodes about their home, personal,

BMM Indie 119: I Am Alive Oct 20, 2020 1396 Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google PodcastsIn this solo episode, Randie details how an essay by June Jordan paired with therapy has reminded her that she is alive. Stuck in survival mode, the shorter half of the Black Millennial Marriage podcast realizes that surviving ain’t always living and she’s had enough of playing dead and small. After all, life is for the living. Yes?

BMM 118: Another Baby? Oct 15, 2020 4019 Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts“AHT AHT AHT” That’s what Randie says during this entire episode. Why? Because the Chapmans are discussing what it would be like to have another baby. In this episode the couple give their initial thoughts about having another child (way in the future) and detail what it was like having siblings. Then, Mikey and Randie share pros an

BMM 117: Big Mistakes. Big Lessons. Oct 8, 2020 3750 Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google PodcastsIn this episode, Mikey and Randie reveal big mistakes they’ve made in their marriage and the lessons they learned from them. From lying about being in the mood for sex to overcompensating and neglecting love languages, the Chapmans share it all. The conversation is insightful and necessary, and they’re pretty sure you’re going to cr

BMM Indie 116: Guidance Oct 6, 2020 1611 Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Mikey is back with another solo Indie for Season 2! This time Mikey discusses his feelings about the impact and importance of black men and mentorship. Mike shares traits he admired and picked up from some great men, details his process and criteria for finding a mentor, and leaves the audience with a little something special at t

BMM 115: Creator Woes Sep 29, 2020 3446 Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Are you finding it hard to be creative or productive with all that’s been happening this year? Well, Mikey and Randie have and they aren’t too proud to share. In this open and honest episode, the couple detail the pros and cons of being a creator during a pandemic and revolution. For Randie, it’s mentally and emotionally draining

BMM Indie 114: Dear God Ft. Brandi Miller Sep 25, 2020 2620 Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts This episode is dedicated to Randie’s late grandmother Pat (1949-2012) Dear God, thank you. But also, how much longer? And by the way, please come get your people. These are just a few thoughts that Randie and her guest, Brandi Miller have. In this indie episode, the shorter half of the podcast interviews the host of “Reclaiming M

BMM 113: We Keep Forgetting to Say Thank You Sep 22, 2020 4270 Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Did Last week’s positivity throw you off? Well, get ready because Mikey and Randie are trying something new again. In this gratitude filled episode, the couple detail lessons they learned from people they always forget to thank. For Randie, it’s her dad and extended family members and for Mikey, it’s his mom. In this never-before-

BMM 112: What I Like About You Sep 16, 2020 2475 Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Last week was intense, right? That’s why Mikey and Randie are lightening it up a bit with some major PDA. In this episode the couple detail what they like about the other and end up surprising one another. From Randie’s rant about Mikey’s butt to Mikey’s love about her bravery, the Chapmans invite you in to listen to a heartwarmin

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