The Self-Love Recovery Podcast
Ross Rosenberg, a master psychotherapist and author of The Human Magnet Syndrome, hosts this podcast about healing from narcissistic abuse, codependency, gaslighting, and childhood trauma. He draws on his 35 years of clinical experience and his own recovery journey to explain these issues in an accessible way. Each episode aims to inform, inspire, and guide listeners toward self-love and emotional freedom. The show redefines codependency as Self-Love Deficit Disorder and offers practical wisdom for personal transformation.
Episodes
Sociopath vs Psychopath: The Difference That Could Save Your Life
In this episode, Ross explains antisocial personality disorder (ASPD), better known as sociopathy or psychopathy: no empathy or remorse, chronic dishonesty, and harming others without learning from consequences. Psychopaths enjoy inflicting pain, while sociopaths hurt people simply to get what they want. Unlike narcissists, sociopaths know exactly who they are, and they hide behind a "backdro
Unmasking Fear: The Biological Link Between Trauma, Pain, & Codependency
Why do so many codependents and people with Self-Love Deficit Disorder live in constant fear, even when they're safe? In this episode, I talk with Dr. Todd Burstain, an internist who spent 30 years treating patients, about how chronic fear changes the brain and hides behind "masks" like anxiety, codependency, and narcissism. We get into why narcissists cope by controlling others whi
Codependency Is Broken. Now What? Ross on "Divorce Like a Boss" Podcast"
On Dianna Romanov's Divorced Like a Boss podcast, psychotherapist Ross Rosenberg, M.Ed., explains his Human Magnet Syndrome theory, that givers are reflexively drawn to narcissistic takers, and why the outdated term "codependency" should be replaced by Self-Love Deficit Disorder. His pyramid model traces the problem from childhood attachment trauma to core shame, pathological loneli
The Podcaster Who Beat Addiction by Learning to Love Himself | Luke Storey
Ross Rosenberg talks with podcaster and author Luke Storey (The Life Stylist) about his journey from addiction to nearly 30 years of sobriety, and his upcoming memoir, A Horse Named Lonesome. Luke shares how childhood trauma and loneliness fueled his addictions, and how a mushroom ceremony revealed that writing the book was really about helping others heal. He and Ross connect Luke's idea of
The Human Magnet Syndrome: Why Codependents and Narcissists Attract
Psychotherapist Ross Rosenberg explains why simply understanding a narcissist's behavior won't set you free — real change comes from recognizing your own role in the "human magnet syndrome," the opposite-attraction dynamic that draws codependents and narcissists together like a tango of leader and follower. Drawing on 37 years of clinical work and his own history with narcissis
One Day At A Time: Breaking Free From the Narcissist You're Addicted To
In this episode of the Self-Love Recovery Podcast, host Ross Rosenberg — psychotherapist and author of The Human Magnet Syndrome — makes the case that leaving a pathological narcissist isn't just a breakup; it's an addiction recovery process, complete with cravings, bargaining, and relapse. Drawing on both his clinical work and his own lived experience, he explains why the urge to retur
Healing Pain: Why Leaving Hurts Before It Helps
NEW FORMAT: Written and produced by Ross — from script to screen.Why does leaving a toxic relationship sometimes hurt more than staying? In this video, we explore "healing pain" — the intense wave of loneliness, self-doubt, and grief that often follows escaping a dysfunctional relationship or family. Like recovering from surgery, the pain that comes after leaving isn't proof you mad
The Healing Power of Self-Love - First Live Presentation in 6 Years!
In his first live presentation in over six years, author and psychotherapist Ross Rosenberg (The Human Magnet Syndrome, The Codependency Revolution) delivers "The Healing Power of Self-Love" — a deeply personal keynote at Pensacola's Unitarian Universalist Church on why caring, generous people repeatedly end up in relationships that leave them depleted, invisible, and emotionally st
Scientology Cult Survivor Exposes Narcissist Mind Control
Are you in a relationship, or are you in a "cult of one"? 🚩In this special full-length interview, Ross Rosenberg sits down with Chris Shelton—an author, cult recovery expert, and former Scientologist who spent 25 years inside the organization. Together, they break down the terrifying similarities between cult indoctrination and narcissistic abuse.You will discover how pathological narcis
How to Choose a Psychotherapist: The Ultimate Guide
This is a podcast conversation between Ross Rosenberg and Dr. Steven Ross about how to choose a therapist. They advise prospective clients to ask upfront about a therapist's orientation, licensure, years in practice, and experience with their specific issue, and to reflect on any gender or age preferences while committing to a session or two to gauge fit. Ross and Steven explain the differenc
Opposites Attract: The Hidden Pull Between Narcissists and Codependents
Therapist and bestselling author Ross Rosenberg challenges a common belief: that the narcissist is the one ruining your life. He explains why lasting healing comes not from studying narcissists but from understanding your own role in the relationship. Using his "human magnet syndrome" and tango-dance metaphors, Ross shows how narcissists and codependents — those with what he calls Self-L
9 Habits That Reveal You're Codependent (And How to Break Them)
In this podcastt, psychotherapist Ross Rosenberg breaks down the nine habits that quietly run the lives of codependents — or, as he calls them, people with Self-Love Deficit Disorder (SLDD). These aren't personality flaws. They're survival patterns installed in childhood by a narcissistic parent, and they're what keeps you stuck in adult relationships with the same kind of person ov
The Broken Picker: Why Trauma Keeps Choosing Your Partners
Have you promised yourself "never again" — only to find yourself falling for the same kind of partner with a different face? In this episode, Ross Rosenberg explains why willpower, checklists, and even years of research on narcissism aren't enough to stop the cycle. The culprit is what Ross calls the "broken picker" — an unconscious force shaped by childhood attachment tra
When Divorce Hurts Kids: What to Do and How to Navigate It, with Dr. Tina Paone
In this conversation, Ross Rosenberg speaks with Dr. Tina Paone, a licensed counselor and play therapist, about the psychological impact of divorce on children. They explore how kids process separation without the language to express it, why behavior often reflects hidden distress, and how play therapy helps children navigate confusion, fear, and loss. The discussion also touches on attachment dis
Understanding Narcissistic Abuse with Chelsey Brooke Cole
What does it take to truly heal from a narcissistic relationship?In this episode, Ross Rosenberg sits down with psychotherapist and author Chelsey Brooke Cole to discuss the complexities of narcissistic abuse and the journey toward recovery.Chelsey Brooke Cole is a licensed psychotherapist, Certified Partner Trauma Therapist, and best-selling author of If Only I'd Known! She specializes in na
Why You Can't Get the Love You Want — And How to Change That
In this podcast, therapist and author Ross Rosenberg — with 37 years of experience — explains why working harder, being kinder, or trying to "figure out" your partner will never get you the love you crave. The real problem? Self-Love Deficit Disorder (SLDD).Ross breaks down how core shame, pathological loneliness, and childhood attachment trauma keep you trapped in cycles with narcissist
Narcissistic Rage Explained: The Shame, the Injury, and Why They Explode
What really happens inside a narcissist's mind the moment they explode in rage?Dr. Anthony Mazzella, Ph.D., is a New York City-based psychotherapist and psychoanalyst with nearly two decades of expertise helping individuals navigate complex emotional landscapes. He runs a private practice on Manhattan's Upper East Side, working with clients across the United States on personality disorde
Inside the Mind of a Codependent: The Hidden World of Self-Love Deficit Disorder
In this powerful video, Ross Rosenberg explores what it feels like to live inside the mind of a codependent, or someone with Self-Love Deficit Disorder (SLDD). He describes the constant inner noise—an unrelenting inner critic, chronic self-doubt, and exhausting overthinking—that keeps many stuck in anxiety and emotional depletion.Ross explains how core shame, pathological loneliness, and childhood
The Silent Trap: How Narcissists Use Gaslighting to Control Your Mind
What if the very thoughts keeping you trapped in a toxic relationship aren't your own? In this powerful video, Ross Rosenberg, M.Ed., founder of the Self-Love Recovery Institute and originator of the Human Magnet Syndrome theory — exposes one of the most dangerous and invisible tactics used by covert and sociopathic narcissists: the silent trap of gaslighting.Ross explains how pathological na
Codependency Is NOT a Control Problem — Critiquing Co-Dependents Anonymous with Chelsey Cole
In this eye-opening conversation, Ross Rosenberg is joined by psychotherapist and author Chelsey Cole to explore why traditional codependency frameworks — including Codependency Anonymous — may actually be doing more harm than good. Together they unpack the crucial difference between grandiose and vulnerable narcissists, how childhood experiences with narcissistic parents create the Relationship T
The Invisible Prison Narcissists Build Inside Your Mind: The Silent Trap
Narcissists trap their partners through gaslighting and psychological manipulation, causing victims to doubt themselves and believe they are the problem. The relationship often begins with intense attraction that feels like meeting a soulmate, but over time the narcissist reveals manipulative behavior that isolates and controls the victim. Many victims are vulnerable because of childhood experienc
Why Chronic Pain Isn’t Imaginary: The Mind Body Link
Ross interviews Dr. Dave Clark, a physician who specializes in "neuroplastic symptoms" — real physical conditions like chronic pain, migraines, and fibromyalgia that are generated by the brain in response to unresolved stress, trauma, and adverse childhood experiences rather than structural or organ disease. Research shows that 88% of chronic spine pain is brain-generated, and a landmark
Why Your Childhood Controls You | Coherence Theory Explained
In this episode, Ross Rosenberg sits down with licensed clinical psychologist Dr. Steven Ross for a deep and insightful conversation about Coherence Therapy and how childhood trauma shapes our beliefs, emotions, and adult relationships. Together, they explore how early attachment experiences create unconscious narratives that influence codependency, anger, shame, and attraction to narcissistic par
Five Signs It’s Codependency, Not Love
Ross Rosenberg shares five signs that what feels like love is actually codependency. The intense chemistry you feel with a narcissist is a mirage driven by the Human Magnet Syndrome and limerence, not real love. The five signs: the "soulmate" feeling is really addiction and trauma response; your partner drops their mask, revealing a cellmate, not a soulmate; you stay due to fear of patho
Ross Rosenberg's Narcometer and Codometer, Explained. Catching the Narcissist
Your path to Self-Love Abundance starts here: https://www.selfloverecovery.com/In this video, Ross Rosenberg introduces his powerful Narcometer and Odometer concept—a metaphorical tool for measuring relationship safety in real time. You'll discover how childhood experiences with narcissistic parents actually develop your intuition, and how healing from Self-Love Deficit Disorder (SLDD) sharp
Not Feeling Good Enough About Yourself Here’s Why
Your path to Self-Love Abundance starts here: https://www.selfloverecovery.com/Have you spent years working harder, giving more, and trying to be perfect—yet that voice in your head still says you're not enough?Here's what no one has told you: this isn't a motivational problem or a mindset issue—it's a trauma problem. In this video, Ross Rosenberg reveals the critical differenc
How Healthy People Manage Emotions and Break Toxic Patterns
Do you feel like your emotions are running the show—leaving you overwhelmed, anxious, and trapped in cycles you can't break?In this video, Ross Rosenberg, author of The Human Magnet Syndrome and The Codependency Revolution, discusses how emotionally healthy people actually manage their feelings—and it's not about control or willpower.You'll discover why suppressing emotions backfire
Why People Pleasing Is Slowly Destroying You
Your path to Self-Love Abundance starts here: https://www.selfloverecovery.com/Are you exhausted from constantly taking care of everyone else while neglecting yourself?In this video, you'll discover why people-pleasing isn't just being "too nice" – it's a toxic pattern rooted in Self-Love Deficit Disorder (SLDD) that's destroying your mental health and trapping you in
Replay: Christmas Narcissists Are Dangerous. Covert Narcissists Love the Winter Holidays!
Covert narcissists take full advantage of the winter holidays, especially Christmas. They get to show off while exploiting others. Patreon Exclusive Content: for exclusive content, insights, and services, consider subscribing to Ross Rosenberg's/Self-Love Recovery Institute's new Patreon Subscription Program: https://www.patreon.com/RossRosenbergSLRIABOUT ROSS ROSENBERG Ross Rosenberg, M
Why Toxic Love Feels So Intense — And Why It’s So Hard to Leave
Interviewed by John Cooper for his Podcast. This interview focuses on Ross Rosenberg’s theories about toxic relationship patterns, particularly the Human Magnet Syndrome and Self‑Love Deficit Disorder (SLDD), formerly known as codependency. Rosenberg explains how people with unmet attachment needs and low self‑love are unconsciously drawn to pathological narcissists through intense chemistry, fami
Why You Must NEVER Expose a Covert Narcissist - Just Run for Safety
In this crucial follow-up to his viral video with 3.8 million views, psychotherapist and author Ross Rosenberg delivers a vital warning: never try to unmask or expose a covert narcissist.He explains that because covert narcissists possess strong sociopathic traits, they experience exposure as an existential threat—equivalent to "murder" in their psyche—and their only response will be to
Why Trying to Be Happy Is Making You Unhappy. Stop Chasing the Happiness Mirage.
In this video, Ross Rosenberg explains how an article on the “Happiness Paradox” completely changed his understanding of happiness by revealing that chasing it actually destroys it. He describes how true happiness arises naturally when we’re present, emotionally aligned, and engaged in life—not when we try to force it as a goal. Rosenberg connects this to self‑love deficit disorder (SLDD), noting
You Really Healing? Or Just Numbing the Pain? The Denial Trap
Ross Rosenberg’s video delves into the roots and reality of Self-Love Deficit Disorder (SLDD)—a trauma-based condition stemming from early childhood experiences with narcissistic and codependent parents. He explains how these formative wounds create “core shame” and “pathological loneliness,” driving people into unhealthy, addictive relationships in a desperate attempt to soothe their sense of unl
Codependency vs. Self-Love Deficit Disorder: Why the Label Matters
For decades, the word codependency shaped how we understood toxic relationship cycles — but it was never quite enough. In this video, Ross Rosenberg explains why he redefined the concept as Self-Love Deficit Disorder (SLDD), a trauma-based framework that better explains the root causes of codependency and why recovery often fails without addressing them.Ross takes you back to his early years as a
The #1 Secret to Making Friends After 40 (It's Not What You Think)
In this podcast, psychotherapist Ross Rosenberg addresses the challenge of making friends after age 40, especially following a divorce or major life change. He explains that while it can be difficult, it is entirely possible by focusing on key mental and social strategies. The most critical factor is cultivating a positive, self-loving mindset, as anxiety and negativity can become self-fulfilling
Why Abandonment Sensitive Codependents Keep Losing Love (Without Realizing It)
Do you have a "graveyard of broken relationships" because you confront people who hurt you? In this video, Ross Rosenberg introduces the latest addition to his list of codependency personality types: the Abandonment-Sensitive Codependent (or Self-Love Deficient individual). These individuals are highly reactive to perceived abandonment, often confronting the pathological narcissists they
How Narcissism and Codependency Pass from Parent to Child | Generational Narcissism
Narcissism and codependency don’t just appear out of nowhere — they are passed down through families, generation after generation. In this video, Ross Rosenberg explains why children of narcissistic parents often grow up to become either codependent or narcissistic themselves, and how the cycle of trauma and attachment wounds continues unless it is broken.You’ll learn how conditional love, neglect
How to Rebuild Self-Worth After Narcissistic Abuse
Narcissists use chronic devaluation, criticism, and gaslighting to crush self-esteem and keep their partners feeling powerless. In this video, Ross Rosenberg explains why defending yourself while staying in the relationship rarely works and why rebuilding self-worth starts with choosing self-love. Learn how to break free from narcissistic abuse, overcome core shame, and take the first steps toward
What to Do If Your Parent Is a Covert Narcissist
What happens when one of your parents is a covert narcissist? Behind their mask of charm and respectability lies a devastating truth that can destroy a child’s sense of self. In this video, Ross Rosenberg explains the unique dangers of covert narcissist parents, why they’re so hard to expose, and how their manipulation can leave lasting scars. These experiences often leave children questioning the
What Together (2025) Movie Gets Right About Narcissist–Codependent Relationships
Ross Rosenberg gives a mini movie review, but focuses on the concept of the complete loss of one's identity as it melds into that of the pathological narcissist. Years into their relationship, Tim and Millie abandon their old lives and move to the countryside, hoping to escape their problems. But when all you have left is each other, love can turn into something monstrous. After tensions betw
The Mother Wound: How It Destroys Self-Worth & Attracts Toxic Relationships
In this powerful reunion, Ross Rosenberg sits down once again with life coach and author Rick Belden to revisit the profound topic of the mother wound. Their last discussion on this subject reached over 400,000 views, and for good reason — it's a topic that resonates deeply with so many. This time, they go even deeper, exploring how early relational injuries with a mother — whether due to neg
The Narcissist’s Most Manipulative Trick: The Humanization Technique EXPLAINED
In this episode, Ross Rosenberg breaks down one of the most emotionally disorienting and dangerous tactics used by narcissists: the Humanization Technique. This subtle yet deeply manipulative behavior emerges when a narcissist feels they're about to lose control — suddenly becoming vulnerable, tearful, or apologetic in ways that evoke intense sympathy from their codependent partner. But is it
Trauma Bonding Explained: Why You Stay in Toxic Relationships with Narcissists
In this episode, Ross Rosenberg breaks down the complex and often misunderstood concept of trauma bonding — the deep emotional ties that form between codependents (or those with Self-Love Deficit Disorder™) and pathological narcissists. Drawing from his Human Magnet Syndrome framework, Ross explains how early attachment trauma shapes our adult relationship patterns, why we stay in harmful relation
Exposing Narcissism in Politics: Left, Right, or Both? Democrat or Republican?
Ross Rosenberg explains how pathological narcissism infects USA politics. NOW AVAILABLE: THE HUMAN MAGNET SYNDROME WORKBOOK. https://bit.ly/HMS_WorkbookConsider subscribing to Ross Rosenberg's/Self-Love Recovery Institute's new Patreon Subscription, where you can access exclusive content, insights, and services. https://www.patreon.com/RossRosenbergSLRIatreon Support the showABOUT ROSS R
Cognitive Dissonance Is Your Brain’s Alarm System – Stop Ignoring It!
In this episode I explain the term cognitive dissonance, and how it can be someone's friend, especially is they are suffering from codependency or what I call self-love deficit disorder. The basic definition: it is the uncomfortable mental feeling you get when your thoughts, beliefs, or actions don't match. Your brain doesn’t like contradictions, so it tries to resolve the tension. For
Rosenberg's Surgeon General Warning - The Consequences Are Worth It!
Ross Rosenberg created the metaphor of “The Surgeon General’s Warning” to prepare and protect individuals struggling with Self-Love Deficit Disorder (SLDD)—also known as codependency—for the emotional costs of their healing journey. Much like the health warnings on cigarette packaging that alert users to the dangers of smoking, Rosenberg’s metaphor serves as a cautionary message to those embarking
Narcissist vs. Narcissist: Why the Alpha Always Comes Out on Top
In this eye-opening episode, Ross Rosenberg introduces his groundbreaking Human Magnet Syndrome Workbook and unveils his powerful "Alpha Narcissist Theory."Drawing from decades of clinical experience and deep psychological insight, Rosenberg explores the rarely discussed dynamic that occurs when two narcissists enter a relationship—a battle of control, manipulation, and dominance. He exp
Live Exploration of The Human Magnet Syndrome with a Circles Masterclass
Support the showABOUT ROSS ROSENBERG Ross Rosenberg, M.Ed., is a psychotherapist, educator, expert witness, and celebrated author. He is also a global thought leader and clinical expert in codependency, trauma, pathological narcissism, narcissistic abuse, and addictions.Ross's pioneering contributions to codependency have provided sweeping theoretical and practical updates and developed a tre
Breaking the Codependency Cycle: Family Systems, Self-Differentiation, and the Path to Healing
Ross Rosenberg and Jerry Weiss discuss codependency and its effects on identity and family dynamics. Jerry, a recovering codependent, shares how codependency impacted his self-esteem and happiness. They introduce Murray Bowen's family systems theory, highlighting how interconnected family behaviors influence individual identities and can perpetuate issues like codependency and narcissism acro
The Humanization Projection: When Our "Vision" of the Narcissist Fails Us.
In this video, Ross Rosenberg elaborates on his "Humanization Trick" concept, shifting the focus from the manipulative tactics of narcissists to the role of individuals with Self-Love Deficit Disorder (SLD) or codependency in this dynamic. He explains that codependents unconsciously engage in the "Humanization Trick" by convincing themselves that their narcissistic partners des
Angry, Reactive, Without Empathy: Borderline Personality Disorder
Ross Rosenberg addresses a question from his Self-Love Mailbag: 1. What prevents individuals with narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) and borderline personality disorder (BPD) from understanding the emotional pain they cause to others?2. What are the origins of the deep-seated shame experienced by people with NPD and BPD?3. What are the reasons that individuals with these disorders often strug
Surviving and Healing from Narcissistic Abuse.
Ross Rosenberg, author of The Human Magnet Syndrome and The Codependency Revolution, shares his wisdom and clinical experience on surviving and healing from narcissistic abuse. Self-Love Mailbag: leave questions for Ross to consider answering at the end of the next YouTube video. For more information about Brook: www.bit.ly/high-conflict-divorceConsider subscribing to Ross Rosenberg's/Self-Lo
Divorcing a Narcissist? Top Expert Tips to Survive & Thrive in a High-Conflict Divorce
Ross Rosenberg, a psychotherapist with 38 years of experience, discusses high-conflict divorces with Brook Olsen, a Certified Parenting Educator, Divorce Mediator, Divorce Coach, and author of The Black Hole of High Conflict. Although Ross and Brook have different backgrounds, their understanding and solutions for achieving positive results in high-conflict divorces with narcissists are similar an
Valentines Day Narcissist: Love Bombing Extraordinaire
Ross Rosenberg introduces the term "Valentine's Day Narcissist," describing it as an individual with one of three pathological narcissistic disorders—Borderline, Antisocial, or Narcissistic Personality Disorder—and their manipulative behaviors specifically exhibited on Valentine's Day. He explains that their primary tactic involves "love bombing," a form of gaslightin
Depression Hurts. Talking About Major Depression.
Drawing from decades of experience as a therapist and his own personal journey, Ross breaks down the complexities of depression, why it’s so important to address openly, and how understanding it can lead to healing and self-love.Due to the widespread lack of understanding and the prevailing stigma surrounding depression, countless individuals find themselves compelled to endure their suffering in
Unraveling the Complexity of Love
Drawing on his concepts of the “Human Magnet Syndrome” and the “Codependency Revolution,” Ross Rosenberg presents a straightforward yet insightful definition of love.Patreon Exclusive Content: for exclusive content, insights, and services, consider subscribing to Ross Rosenberg's/Self-Love Recovery Institute's new Patreon Subscription Program: https://www.patreon.com/RossRosenbergSLRIABO
Christmas Narcissists Are Dangerous. Covert Narcissists Love the Winter Holidays!
Covert narcissists take full advantage of the winter holidays, especially Christmas. They get to show off while exploiting others. Patreon Exclusive Content: for exclusive content, insights, and services, consider subscribing to Ross Rosenberg's/Self-Love Recovery Institute's new Patreon Subscription Program: https://www.patreon.com/RossRosenbergSLRIABOUT ROSS ROSENBERG Ross Rosenberg, M
My Codependency Cure - The Self-Love Recovery Program Review
Ross Rosenberg succinctly reviews his Self-Love Recovery treatment program for codependency or what he calls "self-love deficit disorder." A six-hour thorough examination of this treatment program can be purchased as an audio or video download at tiny.cc/Codependency_CurePatreon Exclusive Content: for exclusive content, insights, and services, consider subscribing to Ross Rosenberg&apos
Accepting Responsibility Can Bring Freedom. But Never Accept Abuse!
In this touching episode, Ross Rosenberg delves into the essential principles of codependency recovery, which he calls "self-love recovery." With clarity, compassion, and empathy, he presents a compelling explanation for how individuals with self-love deficit disorder (codependency) can break free from their long-standing pattern of getting involved with destructive narcissists and inste
Emotional Dysmorphia: Regaining What Was Stolen from You
In this podcast, Ross Rosenberg delves into "emotional dysmorphia," a term he coined to describe the internalized, distorted self-perceptions often developed by those with Self-Love Deficit Disorder (SLDD), or codependency. Much like body dysmorphia, emotional dysmorphia involves pervasive feelings of inadequacy or being unlovable, which persist despite contradictory evidence and affirma
Breaking Free from Emotional Parasites: Escaping the Narcissist's Grasp
In this episode, Ross Rosenberg dives into the metaphor of a "parasite" to explain the toxic dynamic between codependents (Self-Love Deficients or SLDs) and pathological narcissists.Building on concepts from his books, The Human Magnet Syndrome and The Codependency Revolution, Ross explains how narcissists, much like parasites, rely on the life force of codependents to survive.Ross empha
Co-Dependents Anonymous - CoDA - Broken From The Start. Who Has Power Over Whom?
Learn more in our latest blog post: https://www.selfloverecovery.com/blogs/blog/broken-from-the-start-co-dependents-anonymous-who-is-powerless-over-whomFull version of topic is included in ross's new book, The Codependency Revolution: https://www.selfloverecovery.com/products/the-codependency-revolution?variant=45089834762479Just like other 12-step programs, CoDA’s first step pinpoints the ou
Escaping the Fire Alive - Surviving Borderline Personality Hell
Ross Rosenberg's emotionally evocative podcast captures the terror, fear, and anxiety of being an abuse victim by a loved one who has borderline personality disorder. He not only explains the experience but also offers life-saving advice on how to survive it. Similar to his previous videos on BPD (which have amassed 1.8 million views), he provides insights from his distinctive perspective as
Breaking the Cycle: Codependency and Divorce Recovery with Karen McMahon
Learn more about Karen here: https://www.jbddivorcesupport.com/jbdpodcastFind Ross's latest bestselling book here: https://a.co/d/fYuRNvEIn this insightful discussion, Ross Rosenberg and Karen McMahon delve into the challenges of high-conflict divorces, especially with narcissistic partners. Karen, founder of Journey Beyond Divorce, shares her expertise in guiding individuals through the emot
A Conversation on Self-Love and Healthy Sexuality ft. Alex Katehakis
In this podcast, Ross interviews Alex Katehakis, a renowned marriage and family therapist specializing in sexual addiction and healthy sexuality. Alex shares her journey, starting with an interest in human sexuality and later focusing on sex and love addiction, as well as sexual codependency. She explains the difference between healthy and problematic sexual behaviors, noting that it’s not the act
Happiness Is An Illusion. Be Careful!
In this podcast, Ross Rosenberg, M.Ed, LCPC, CADC, discusses the hidden dangers of pursuing happiness for those with Self-Love Deficit Disorder (SLDD), or codependency. He explains how codependents often mistake the absence of pain for true happiness due to their relationships with narcissists, who manipulate and gaslight them. Ross emphasizes the importance of addressing underlying issues like tr
The Induced Conversation Technique Will Save You!
With a new introduction, Ross re-shares the video that has changed thousands of lives. The most effective of all the narcissist's manipulative strategies is “Induced Conversation.” Especially when breaking down a no-contact initiative or when trying to hoover (suck back into the relationship) the codependent. For codependents to not get sucked back into the relationship that has nearly destro
Pathological Loneliness is A Bone-Aching Existential Disease
In this podcast, Ross Rosenberg, M.Ed, LCPC, CADC, discusses the concept of pathological loneliness, a profound existential pain that individuals with self-love deficit disorder (SLDD), or codependency, experience when they are not in a relationship. Rosenberg explores the roots of this condition, its connection to codependency, and how it manifests as a visceral, bone-aching pain driving individu
All About The Codependency Revolution with Wendy Meyers
In this podcast, Ross joins Wendy Meyers to discuss his new book, "The Codependency Revolution: Fixing What Was Always Broken." Within this discussion, he talks about the magnet-like forces that compel people with self-love deficit disorder/Codependency to fall in love with pathological narcissists (and vice versa) as well as the healing cycle of narcissistic abuse. More about the book:
Healing your Lost Inner Child with Robert Jackman M.S., LCPC, NCC
In this podcast, Ross Rosenberg M.Ed., LCPC, CADC is joined with Psychotherapist and Reiki master Robert Jackman where they discuss the unresolved wounds one may acquire during childhood and the process for healing and embracing an authentic life. Support the showABOUT ROSS ROSENBERG Ross Rosenberg, M.Ed., is a psychotherapist, educator, expert witness, and celebrated author. He is also a global
Healing the Cycle of Narcissistic Abuse and how The Codependency Revolution can help with Terri Cole
In this podcast, Ross joins Terri Cole on the Terri Cole Show to discuss his new book, "The Codependency Revolution: Fixing What Was Always Broken." Within this discussion, he talks about the magnet-like forces that compel people with self-love deficit disorder/Codependency to fall in love with pathological narcissists (and vice versa) as well as the healing cycle of narcissistic abuse.
Ross's New Video- Escaping, But Not Learning: Codependent Threshold Reactors
In this podcast, Ross Rosenberg, M.Ed, LCPC, CADC, discusses Codependent Threshold Reactors as a type of codependent personality characterized by intense emotional reactions and a tendency to overreact to perceived threats or slights. They often have a hair-trigger temper, quickly becoming angry and defensive when their boundaries or needs are unmet. This can lead to explosive outbursts, hurtful w
Covert Narcissists Vs Sociopaths: A deep dive.
In this podcast, Ross Rosenberg, M.Ed., LCPC, CADC, explains the distinct characteristics between covert narcissism and sociopathy. In this deep dive, he elaborates that both disorders involve a degree of manipulation and lack of concern for others, the motivations and behaviors associated with each are different. Covert narcissists seek admiration and validation, whereas sociopaths are driven by
My New Book The Codependency Revolution - An Introduction on the Covert Narcissist Podcast
In Renee Swanson's Covert Narcissism Podcast, I talk about my new book, "The Codependency Revolution: Fixing What Was Always Broken." Within this discussion, we talked about the magnet-like forces that compel people with self-love deficit disorder/Codependency to fall in love with pathological narcissists (and vice versa). More about the book: https://shorturl.at/9kc21Support the sh
Permanently Escape Narcissistic Abuse Through Rosenberg 's Treatment Technique
In this podcast, Ross Rosenberg, M.Ed., LCPC, CADC, discusses the only effective strategy to permanently escape narcissistic abuse and any potential for repeating it with the next romantic partner. The answer is simple; the explanation makes a whole lot of sense, but the process takes a bit of time. It can be accomplished through Rosenberg's Self-Love Recovery Treatment Method (Program). Supp
Narcissistic Trauma Leakage: What You Need to Know
In this podcast, Ross reveals the insidious tactics of pathological narcissists and how they manipulate, coerce, and gaslight those who lack self-love. By understanding the concept of narcissistic trauma leakage, we can overcome the long-term effects of abuse and regain control of our lives. The term "leakage" is a reminder that the trauma seeps into different areas of our lives, affecti
YOU ARE NOT SUBHUMAN! A Narcissist Stole Your Independence and Integrity.
In this emotionally compelling video, Ross explains how pathological narcissists manipulate, coerce, and/or gaslight their self-love deficient codependent victims into a symbolic form of "slavery." Historical references to the enslavement of people are discussed to make the above connection. Support the showABOUT ROSS ROSENBERG Ross Rosenberg, M.Ed., is a psychotherapist, educator, exper
Trauma’s Role in The Creation of Self-Love Deficit Disorder (Codependency) with Riana Milne from Lessons in Life & Love Podcast
In this podcast, Riana Milne and Ross Rosenberg dissect trauma's role in the creation of Self-Love Deficit Disorder (Codependency). Riana Milne, MA, CCTP, has over 24 years of experience as a Licensed Mental Health Counselor and expert Certified Life, Love Trauma Recovery & Mindset Coach. She is recognized internationally for her trademarked Life & Love Transformation Coaching Systems
Healing Self-Love Deficit Disorder Through Poetry and Metaphors
Ross’s sensitivity and introspection goes beyond his clinical and academic contributions. In his poetry, he tries to capture glimmers of the human spiritand the struggles. It depicts a person struggling with Self-Love Deficit Disorder (SLDD) and understands the deepest idiosyncrasies of their psyche.ABOUT ROSS ROSENBERG Ross Rosenberg, M.Ed., LCPC, CADC, is a psychotherapist, educator, expert witn
Beware of Bait and Switch: How Narcissist Deceive
Ross uses the "bait and switch" term to explain the furtive and manipulative manner in which pathological narcissists present unrealistic and untrue versions of themselves to "close the deal" on a new relationship. Like scrupulous car salesman, they offer all the "bells and whistles" to distract the "buyer" into believing they are getting a tremendous deal a
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