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Why Didn’t They Tell Us? Self-Confidence Coaching For Teen Girls

Why Didn’t They Tell Us? Self-Confidence Coaching For Teen Girls

Leslie Randolph 74 Episodes Feb 4, 2026

Leslie Randolph, a self-confidence coach for teenage girls, hosts this podcast to share the wisdom she wishes she had as a teen. She covers topics like loving your body at any size, choosing self-confidence, and practicing self-love and self-compassion over self-criticism. Episodes offer tips for building confidence, overcoming imposter syndrome, and silencing negative self-talk. Leslie also explores how emotions like guilt are optional and can be released. The podcast serves as a supportive guide for the insecure teenage girl in all of us.

Episodes

Why High Achievers Struggle With Confidence
Why High Achievers Struggle With Confidence Feb 4, 2026 2595 High achievers often look confident from the outside while quietly running on fear, urgency, and the belief that their worth depends on never slipping up.   Leslie Randolph is joined by Pooja Venkatraman, an executive coach, former management consultant, and self-described recovered stressed-out high achiever, to unpack a pattern many confident teens and confident women recognize but rarely questi
How Ordinary Moments Shape Self-Confidence with Rin-rin Yu
How Ordinary Moments Shape Self-Confidence with Rin-rin Yu Jan 21, 2026 2508 Self-confidence is built in the moments no one applauds, the awkward missteps and quiet choices that shape how girls learn to trust themselves long before anyone is watching.   Leslie Randolph sits down with journalist and author Rin-rin Yu for a grounded conversation about where confidence actually comes from and why the ordinary moments of childhood matter more than the polished highlights. Draw
Your Most Confident Year Yet
Your Most Confident Year Yet Jan 7, 2026 1253 Self-confidence is not a personality trait you either have or lack but a skill you can choose to build and strengthen starting right now.   This conversation reframes self-confidence as something you practice through daily choices rather than something reserved for confident women or naturally confident teens. Leslie Randolph invites listeners to see confidence as a skill built with intention thro
The Year’s Best Self-Confidence Advice: Lessons for Moms Raising Confident Girls
The Year’s Best Self-Confidence Advice: Lessons for Moms Raising Confident Girls Dec 24, 2025 2284 Raising confident girls starts with how moms regulate emotions, make decisions under pressure and talk to themselves when parenting gets hard.   This year-end episode reflects on self-confidence through the lens of motherhood, offering insight for raising self-confident girls who grow into confident teens and confident women. Drawing from conversations with Dr. Lisa Klein, Nina Badzin, Abby Gagerm
How to Stop Caring What Other People Think
How to Stop Caring What Other People Think Dec 10, 2025 2204 What if the loudest voice shaping your confidence has never belonged to “them” at all but to the stories you’ve been telling yourself about their opinions?   This throwback episode takes a fresh look at validation and why so many of us treat other people’s opinions as the final verdict on our worth. Leslie Randolph breaks down how this instinct forms, why it feels so compelling, and how it quietly
Why Positivity Feels Hard (And How to Make it Easier)
Why Positivity Feels Hard (And How to Make it Easier) Nov 26, 2025 1264 Positivity turns out to be less of a lucky personality trait and more of a skill you can shape with intention.   At the center of this conversation is a simple idea: confidence grows when you learn to guide your attention instead of letting your brain run on autopilot. Leslie Randolph explains why teens often slip into negative thinking and why women who want stronger self-confidence feel the same
Why Mindfulness Matters for Young Minds with Julie Freeman
Why Mindfulness Matters for Young Minds with Julie Freeman Nov 12, 2025 2787 Mindfulness stops being a buzzword when kids learn to use it in real time to calm their bodies, name their feelings, and stay connected to their breath when life gets loud.   Leslie sits down with Julie Freeman, Executive Director of KNOWTICE, to talk about how mindfulness for kids can shape the kind of self-awareness that leads to genuine self-confidence. Julie shares how small, repeatable moment
REAL Self-Confidence with Simone Knego
REAL Self-Confidence with Simone Knego Oct 22, 2025 2494 Confidence isn’t a personality trait you’re born with but a daily choice you make in the smallest moments.   Self-confidence doesn’t always show up with fireworks. Sometimes it starts as a mindset shift so small no one else can hear it, a quiet decision to replace old self-talk with something kinder. Leslie Randolph sits down with Simone Knego to redefine what it really means to become confident w
When to Let Your Kid Quit with Dr. Emily Gordon
When to Let Your Kid Quit with Dr. Emily Gordon Oct 8, 2025 2151 We’ve all been there: standing at the crossroads of a parenting decision and wondering, am I making the wrong call? For many of us, the idea of letting our kids quit an activity feels like giving in—or worse, failing them. But what if the word “quit” is the problem in the first place?   In this episode, Leslie Randolph sits down with psychologist Dr. Emily Gordon to reframe what’s really going on
How to Build Emotional Resilience
How to Build Emotional Resilience Sep 24, 2025 1333 We all crave comfort. But the truth is, self-confidence isn’t built in comfort zones, it’s built in the moments when we’re willing to be uncomfortable.   Leslie Randolph introduces the idea of deliberate discomfort and why it’s the key to both confident teens and confident women. Drawing from her own life and her coaching work, Leslie unpacks how stretching beyond what feels easy builds the emotio
When the World Feels Heavy
When the World Feels Heavy Jul 16, 2025 993 Some days feel heavier than others. Whether it’s a personal heartbreak or a tragedy in the news, the weight of the world can be a lot to carry. And if you’re someone who feels deeply, it’s not always clear how to keep moving forward.    In this episode, Leslie Randolph offers a thoughtful perspective on what it means to live with sadness, anger, and grief without letting them take over. She shares
Friendships and Fitting In with Nina Badzin
Friendships and Fitting In with Nina Badzin Jul 2, 2025 2686 At every age and stage, we long to belong. But too often, that desire comes at the cost of abandoning parts of ourselves. True friendship isn’t about fitting in - it’s about finding your people: the ones you like, and the ones you feel good being around.   Leslie Randolph is joined by friendship expert and advice columnist Nina Badzin for a conversation about friendship and friend groups, especial

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