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True Identity

Nikki Houseman (Romani) 92 Episodes Oct 7, 2026

Nikki Houseman, a relationship and dating coach, certified athletic trainer, published author, and Jesus follower, hosts this podcast about thriving in relationships and dating, and discovering your true identity. She shares solo episodes and interviews guests in these areas to discuss their journeys and expertise.

Episodes

Marriage Isn't What I Expected: Things to Know While You are Single to Prepare you for Marriage
Marriage Isn't What I Expected: Things to Know While You are Single to Prepare you for Marriage Oct 7, 2026 00:17:32 I had this idea of having a husband that would be home every night for dinner. A husband that would have weekends off. A husband that I would see every day with some exceptions. A husband I would be able to attend events with.This is not what it's like for us.In singleness, I had this idea of what I thought my marriage would look like. Don't get me wrong, my husband is the perfect man for
How to Wait Well in the in Between: Longing for A Husband AND Being Content in Singleness
How to Wait Well in the in Between: Longing for A Husband AND Being Content in Singleness Oct 1, 2026 00:23:31 It is possible to long for a husband AND be content in singleness. You are waiting for a spouse. You have a deep desire to be married, but you don’t know how or when. You may be asking yourself, “Will I be single forever?” You have days you feel okay with your situation. Other days are a struggle and you often cry out of frustration or disappointment. Regardless, this is the season you are in, so
How to Surrender Your Love Life
How to Surrender Your Love Life Sep 15, 2026 00:09:12 As Christians we are told to surrender, but how do we do that?Surrender is a heart posture. It’s letting go of what you think you know and giving it to God. It’s inviting the Holy Spirit into every part of who you are. It’s trusting God has your life in his hands and the ultimate plan for you.Surrender is not a one and done situation. It is daily. How do we do this? I will share what it looked lik
This saying may be preventing you from meeting the right person...
This saying may be preventing you from meeting the right person... Sep 8, 2026 00:11:51 "He's not my type"Have you said this before? I sure have! I share advice from my own experience to help you meet the right person. The person you think is not your type may be the one for you all along. Give him a chance! What do you have to lose? Worst case, you never have to talk to him again, best case you marry him!Give God control and trust that he has the perfect person for you
When is it Appropriate to Make the First Move? How to Meet Other Singles? How to be Available?
When is it Appropriate to Make the First Move? How to Meet Other Singles? How to be Available? Jul 14, 2026 00:13:40 I host an online community for single women and in this group there were some questions and topics they brought up. I thought it would be a good idea to talk about them more in depth here on this episode.We discuss:How to Meet SinglesSingle Women Collectivevolosports.commeetup.comIRL San DiegoHow to be Available/ApproachableWhen is it appropriate to make the first move (especially as a woman)Free
Will You Be Content If You Never Get Married?
Will You Be Content If You Never Get Married? Jun 16, 2026 00:11:59 This is a difficult question to think about, but what if? What if you don't get married? What if all you have in this life is Jesus? Is that enough?Let's work through this thought and question together! Spoiler: God IS enough and he knows what you need. Here are some resources and free guides for you:How to Prepare to Be a Wife (Guide)How to have Self-Confidence (Guide)Single Women Collect
Practical Ways to Prepare Yourself to be a Wife
Practical Ways to Prepare Yourself to be a Wife Apr 21, 2026 00:17:50 You have a deep desire to have a husband. You don’t know how or when you will meet him. One day you want to have a successful marriage, so why not start now on preparing yourself to be a wife! While I was single I had a mindset shift and thought, if I wanted to meet an amazing, healthy man, I need to be that myself. I needed to prepare myself to be a wife. I will share with you what I did to do ju
Importance of Sleep: How many hours do you need? Why do you need sleep?
Importance of Sleep: How many hours do you need? Why do you need sleep? Mar 31, 2026 00:24:49 Have you heard the phrase, "I'll sleep when I'm dead"? Well, you may die sooner than you think with this mindset. Sleep is when your body recovers, restores, rejuvenates. All the systems in your body operate because of sleep. Don't underestimate it.In this episode, I share research and studies about sleep. I share how many hours you actually need and practical ways to help yo
How Hearing God's Voice Will Help You with Dating and Many Other Areas of Your Life
How Hearing God's Voice Will Help You with Dating and Many Other Areas of Your Life Feb 17, 2026 00:15:22 Do you feel you are getting “too old” to meet your spouse? Do you feel “left behind” as others around you are getting married, having kids? Do you feel you will never meet your life partner?This can be a hard place to be in. It can feel like you aren’t moving forward in life as you thought you would. Maybe you are approaching your 30s or 40s and you think you should have been married by now. When
When Things Don't Go As Planned, What Do You Do?
When Things Don't Go As Planned, What Do You Do? Feb 3, 2026 00:13:37 What do you do when things don't go as planned? Maybe you are in a waiting season. It can feel lonely and discouraging. I'm here to share with you what I do when things don't go as planned. I share real life experiences and how I've been able to get through them. One of these experiences was my singleness journey. I had moments of doubt, but someone offered me hope.Spoiler alert.... GOD! It's all
How to Achieve Optimal Health
How to Achieve Optimal Health Aug 26, 2025 00:20:48 We talk about the importance of sleep, hydration, nutrition, recovery, and mental health. All these need to be aligned to be able to achieve optimal health and performance. I share practical tips and things you can do today! You may want to take notes ; )*don't feel you need to do all the things I share right away. I started with a few and once I felt ready, I added more. This is called Habit
The Benefits of Creatine: Muscle Mass + Cognition= Longevity
The Benefits of Creatine: Muscle Mass + Cognition= Longevity Mar 18, 2025 00:18:50 As we age our muscle mass and cognition declines. There is a supplement to help with this and it's called creatine. There are many benefits of creatine-helps with muscle recovery-enhances focus-energy production-protects against brain neurodegenerative diseases-and so much more!In this episode, I share what creatine is, how to use it, who it's good for, when to take it, how much. This supp

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