You Probably Think This Story’s About You
Brittani Ard hosts a raw true-crime and memoir podcast that examines how past trauma and tangled relationships shape people's lives. After sharing her own story in the first eight episodes, she expands to feature other survivors and interconnected personal accounts, including a woman hunting for a photo of her abusive ex, a former foster youth finding a voice, and a rekindled romance. The show blends haunting, personal storytelling with lessons about vulnerability, memory, and the bonds that entrap or heal us. It is presented as an intimate, human collection of secrets and survival stories.
Episodes
Introducing Not Just a Terrible Story
Check out Not Just a Terrible Story on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Amazon or wherever you get your podcasts.
Episode 2 is available now.
Episode 1: The Cool Teacher
Fifteen year-old Stacie Love was just a sophomore when she met the young, charismatic English teacher, Brett Fischer. He was the "cool" teacher, and she wanted to be his favorite student. Twenty years later, Stacie sees the dynamic d
Introducing: From Trauma to Triumph
This episode of the SelfHype Podcast features Brittani Ard, a resilient architect and storyteller who transformed personal pain into a powerful narrative. Brittani shares her gripping story with Eli, diving into her experience with a manipulative relationship that unraveled a web of deception, leading to her viral podcast season that reached #1 in five countries. Through raw vulnerability, she ref
Introducing the Self Hype Podcast
How To Communicate With An Avoidant Attachment
Welcome to ”The Self-Hype Podcast,” hosted by Eli Vazquez – your ultimate destination for unfiltered discussions on dating, love, personal development, and relationships. Get ready for Eli’s No-BS advice, raw talk on love, and empowering insights from expert guests in the dating and personal development sphere. Join us as Eli cuts through the noise
Introducing Ice Cold Case
This is the story of what happened to J.C. McGhee on July 11, 2002 according to police records — some of which may not be entirely accurate nor adequate. Twenty years later, the search for answers begins. Learn more about your ad choices.
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The rejection business with Eli Vasquez
Brit invites Eli Vasquez, a personal development and dating coach, to
discuss the patterns of self-sabotage in relationships and how to break free from them. Eli shares his journey from being a self-proclaimed 'reformed fuckboy' to becoming a coach who helps individuals heal their inner child and establish healthy boundaries in love and dating. They delve into the dynamics of seeking validation, t
Why your divorce attorney should go on your next first date with Michele Locke & Jake Deptula
Michele Locke, a divorce attorney, and Jake Deptula, an advocate for
survivors of toxic relationships and host of the podcast 'LoveLustFear,'
join Brittani Ard to talk about love and relationships, red and green flags,
effective communication, and how to date wisely at any stage of life. The three also explore the dynamics of dating after traumatic relationships and the resilience of individuals w
Madison McGhee | When closure is a myth and justice is hard won
Madison McGhee from Ice Cold Case joins Brittani Ard to talk about something we don't discuss enough: how social media makes grief feel performative and what that pressure does to families dealing with tragedy.
Madison gets real about why her dad's murder is still unsolved, the wild misconceptions people have about the case, and the power of public pressure. Madison also catches Brit up on what
Gina and Viv | Road trips & moving in together
Brittani Ard catches up with Gina and Viv, whose journey from broken trust to renewed connection captivated listeners in season 2. In this intimate follow-up conversation, they reflect on their deliberate approach to rebuilding their relationship—establishing boundaries, embracing vulnerability, and finding patience in the healing process. Gina and Viv share how they've navigated the delicate bala
Introducing The Secret Room
We will be back next week with another episode of You Probably Think This Story's About You. In the meantime enjoy this episode of The Secret Room.
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The Secret Room: “On the Backs of Turtles.”
Dustin reveals a childhood secret he kept from his father for thirty years. The story centers on a regrettable and cruel act Dustin committed as a child, which, unbeknownst to his father, had a prof
When Comfort Turns to Chaos: Midlife Dating, Bad Ass Bitches, and the Emasculation of Men
We are hard at work on season 3, we'll be back soon with more episodes. For now enjoy this conversation with Michele and Jake from LoveLustFear.
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Brittani Ard, host of You Probably Think This Story's About You, joins Jake and Michele on lovelustfridays for a raw and thoughtful conversation about trauma, relationships, and the emotional weight of storytelling. She opens up about her transit
Introducing Dakota Spotlight
We'll be back next week with another episode. In the meantime enjoy Season 11 of Dakota Spotlight.
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Welcome to Season 11 of Dakota Spotlight. This season, we uncover the haunting 1999 murder of a young man in Bismarck, North Dakota—a tragic event that reverberated through the community and left a lasting impact on everyone involved. In Episode 1, we set the stage during a bustling winter we
Season 2 Q&A with Sydney Gladu
This week host Brittani Ard puts producer Sydney Gladu behind the mic to talk through the making of season 2. The two talk about the process of sharing listener stories. You will also hear a sneak peek into what’s next for the show.
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Introducing Second Hand Therapy
We'll be back next week. In the meantime, enjoy this episode of Second Hand Therapy:
Love, Vulnerability and Boundaries
It's a deep dive into the complexities of modern relationships today... Louie opens up about his struggles with balancing healthy boundaries and offering genuine love, while reflecting on his partner's perceived lack of effort in their shared home life. He explores the challe
A conversation with Lou and Eve
Brittani Ard reconnects with season 2 guests Lou and Eve, who formed an unexpected friendship after discovering they had survived an abusive relationship with the same man. In this candid follow-up conversation, Lou and Eve discuss the public response to their podcast episode, their personal milestones in the healing process, and how their traumatic experiences have shaped their approaches to pare
Catching up with Cash
Brittani and Cash, season two guest who shared her personal story of foster care, catch up on the wake Cash’s story has made in her own life. Cash discusses the impact of sharing her narrative, the feedback received from her adopted family, and the importance of framing traumatic experiences in an empowering way.
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Shar
Catching up with Andrea Dunlop
Andrea Dunlop, creator of "Nobody Should Believe Me," joins Brittani for an intimate studio conversation about the reality behind podcast success and the bumps along the way. Together, they pull back the curtain on their creative processes, share hard-won insights from their journeys, and reveal exclusive details about their upcoming projects.
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Change a Child’s Story - Podcasthon 2025
Over 390,000 children are in the foster care system. Each one needs someone to advocate for them. Brit has been a volunteer for the King County CASA program for almost 10 years and she believes that we need to make sure all children can grow up safe and loved.
This is a special episode that is part of Podcasthon March 15th-21st – a global collaboration with over 1600 podcasters using their plat
Slow Burn | Gina’s Story Part 3
[Gina’s Story Part 3/3]
Twenty years after their first romance imploded, Gina and Viv cautiously rebuild—this time with intention rather than impulse. What begins as innocent daily check-ins quickly intensifies, compelling Gina to clear her dating roster and fly to Colorado. As they navigate their reunion with careful boundaries, both discover they've grown into exactly who they needed to become
Past Lives | Gina’s Story Part 2
[Gina’s Story Part 2/3]
How often do our exes actually go to therapy and what stars have to align to bring two people back together?
In this chapter, we trace back through the wreckage of their first love to understand why everyone warned Gina not to reach out to Viv. As they each unpack their past and 1000 miles apart - from electric beginnings to devastating endings.
Viv had finally found pea
Against My Better Judgement | Gina’s Story Part 1
[Gina’s Story Part 1/3]
In this chapter, we follow Gina on her journey from a self-described "passive participant" to someone actively choosing her path. After a decade of comfortable numbness in her marriage, the universe delivered three seismic shifts: a divorce, a job loss, and the sale of her house. At 42, Gina found herself at a major crossroads as she tried to settle into a new apartment w
Power to the Voice | Cash’s Story Part 2
This episode references to sexual assault and other mature themes.
[Cash’s Story Part 2/2]
Not every foster parent is equipped to navigate the delicate balance of care and control—and not all have the best intentions. Cash returns to the shadowed emotional landscape of the Love family household, hoping to understand the world she survived. What she uncovers, however, is far darker than she expe
Black Trash Bags | Cash’s Story Part 1
[Cash’s Story Part 1/2]
Cash’s journey through foster care is a tale of survival in a system full of harsh realities. Torn from her home and separated from her siblings, she was thrust into a world of uncertain foster placements, each one a new battle with its own dark challenges. In a system that seemed indifferent to her pain, Cash fought back with resilience—finding success in school and final
Vaulted Ceiling | Brit's Story
This episode references to sexual assault and other mature themes.
The chapters we fear the most often hold the keys to our liberation. For Brittani, confronting the sexual assault she endured at 13 was not just a reckoning—it was a battle for her own voice. Her journey was anything but straightforward, winding through years of suppressed memories, silent struggles, and an internal war she fought
Introducing lovelustfear
Season 2 will resume next week, in the meantime enjoy this episode from lovelustfear!
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lovelustfear | emma | you should be scared
Emma seeks comfort in the arms of a former client whose initial charm and good looks give way
Introducing The Confessions of Anthony Raimondi
Season 2 is currently in production! While we put the finishing touches on upcoming episodes, we're excited to share something special: the first episode of The Confessions of Anthony Raimondi.
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The Confessions of Anthony Raimondi–Episode 1: GenesisIn 1978, Pope John Paul I was found dead in his bed just 33 days after he was elected. The official story is that he suffered a fatal heart attack.
Iceberg | Lou's Story Part 3
This episode references domestic violence and other mature themes.
[Lou’s Story Part 3/3]
Two women, bound by a shared history of manipulation and abuse. What started as Lou’s solitary search for a single photograph spiraled into an unexpected connection with Eve —another woman ensnared by the same dark past. Together, they began to unearth what had long been buried, but the truth is rarely kind,
Photograph | Lou's Story Part 2
This episode references domestic violence and other mature themes.
[Lou’s Story Part 2/3]
Lou is searching for a photograph of John — but it’s not just a picture she’s after. Beneath the surface of one man’s destruction lies a tangled web of resilience and buried truths waiting to be uncovered. In this chapter layers of manipulation are stripped away, exposing the hauntingly intertwined lives of E
Smoke Alarm | Lou's Story Part 1
This episode references domestic violence and other mature themes.
[Lou’s Story Part 1/3]
Lou's story isn’t just about survival—it’s a battle cry of reclamation.
In this chapter she unravels the deeply personal account of her entanglement with John, her manipulative and abusive ex-boyfriend. The emotional wounds of their relationship left scars that refused to fade, but it was the unexpected mome
Nobody Should Believe Me Season 5 Trailer
Season five of Nobody Should Believe Me tells the story of Sophie Hartman: a young, white midwestern evangelical missionary who travels to Zambia and comes home with two vulnerable sisters in her care. When she returns to the states, she lands far away from her family in Seattle, WA where she embarks on a medical odyssey with her younger daughter, C, reporting a variety of alarming symptoms: from
It is a Love Story | Brit's Story
Our stories rarely unfold the way we expect. In the first eight chapters, Brittani Ard uncovered something about herself she never expected: the most powerful weapon she had was her own voice. It wasn’t just a tool for healing — it was a force strong enough to confront her past and rewrite her future. But that discovery came at a cost. Retracing Kanon’s steps wasn’t just heartbreaking, it was a jo
Season 2 | Now this story is ours
This isn’t your typical true crime story.
Brittani Ard steps back into the shadowy labyrinth of memories, scars, and fragile ties that bind us to our past. Where wounds still ache and the bonds of connection blur between salvation and entrapment. After revealing her own story in the first 8 chapters, she’s pulling at the threads of the past—threads so delicate they threaten to unravel everything.
Dating on Purpose with Damona Hoffman
Brittani is diving into your Season 1 questions with experts specializing in dating, scams, deception, and the legal consequences of manipulation.
In part 2 of this interview Damona Hoffman shares valuable dating tips, focusing on how to effectively use the algorithm to align your dating experience with your personal preferences. She provides insights on what changes to make in your dating profile
Humor and Heart with Damona Hoffman
Brittani is diving into your Season 1 questions with experts specializing in dating, scams, deception, and the legal consequences of manipulation.
In this episode, Brittani sits down with dating coach Damona Hoffman to explore real issues like recognizing red flags and navigating dating norms. They discuss the effects of trauma on dating and share practical advice for making the most of dating app
Introducing Nobody Should Believe Me
We meet accomplished novelist and loving mother Andrea Dunlop as she embarks on a journey to understand the series of events that tore her family apart. We learn that her older sister has been investigated twice for Munchausen by Proxy abuse, which inspired Andrea to learn everything she could about this complex and misunderstood issue. We see Andrea become captivated by the story of Hope Ybarra a
Cons of the Heart with Jim Grinstead
Delve into the dark side of online romance as Brit revisits the Kanon story, joined by con expert Jim Grinstead. This eye-opening episode will transform your perspective on digital dating and what to look out for. Brit and Jim explore the intricate world of love cons, unraveling tales of deception and financial exploitation featured in Jim's podcast, Scams and Cons. Together, they dissect the psyc
Navigating Justice: Hugh Barber on Justice and Victim Advocacy
In this episode, Brit talks with Hugh Barber, a seasoned trial lawyer and former criminal prosecutor in Seattle. They discuss sensitive topics including sexual assault, rape, and the nuances of collecting evidence and reporting crimes.
Hugh offers valuable insights on the importance of immediate actions following abuse. The conversation also delves into the challenges women face in reporting sex
Unmasking the Manipulator: Insights from a Prosecutor
In this episode, Brit sits down with Hugh Barber, a seasoned trial lawyer and former criminal prosecutor from Seattle. They discuss his extensive experience in prosecuting serious crimes such as aggravated murder and sexual assault.
The conversation touches on difficult topics including sexual assault, rape, and the profound impact of trauma on survivors. Hugh shares insights from his career, emp
Sarah: Raw Interview
In this episode we share the raw interview with Kanon’s coworker, Sarah. Sarah recounts experiences from her initial positive impressions and rapid friendship to discovering his extensive lies about his personal life, work experience, and manipulative behaviors. His actions not only impact personal relationships but also professional lives, leading to investigations, job reassignments, and emotion
Exploration of Life, Love, and Grief
Brittani Ard shares her interview on Peaceful Exit, a podcast about death, dying, and grief. Brittani and host Sarah Cavanaugh discuss how grief and loss shaped who she is and how she views the world. They also dive into the power of sharing personal narrative on the path to healing.
The Peaceful Exit catalogue is filled with fascinating and emotional explorations of loss, love and who we become
Danielle: Raw Interview
Danielle opens up about the challenging journey through her past relationships. With vulnerability and courage, she shares her experiences of marriage, co-parenting challenges, and encounters with partners who didn't honor her true value.
In a heartfelt conversation with Brit, Danielle reflects on learning to recognize warning signs in relationships and the transformative power of seeking support
Gary: Raw Interview
Brit and Gary discuss their unique family dynamics, showing love through problem-solving and witty remarks, these two grew up together and learn together. Brit shares her experience recovering from a manipulative relationship with a narcissist, emphasizing the importance of recognizing signs and maintaining boundaries. Gary offers support and advice for her moving forward, highlighting the value o
Introducing Family Secrets
We are hard at work on Season 2. In the meantime, enjoy one of my new favorite show’s Family Secrets. We’ll be back with more bonus content from Season 1 next week.
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'I Dug It Up' is th
Tasya: Raw Interview
Tasya spills the tea on her relationship with Kanon. From their first date at Ikea to ghosting, in this raw interview Tasya candidly reflects on the red flags she missed and the ones she noticed. Brit and Tasya get real about manipulation, gaslighting, hard-learned lessons, and how Kanon impacted their lives moving forward.
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Executive Produc
Introducing Crimes of the Heart
We are hard at work on Season 2. In the meantime, enjoy Crimes of the Heart. We’ll be back with updates and bonus content from Season 1 next week.
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In this episode, Rory Uphold speaks with author and unqualified but highly-skilled secret agent Gabrielle Stone about what to do when your husband cheats on you.
Together they talk about potential warning signs, getting back in the dating
Season 1 Q & A
Host Brittani Ard, Showrunner Syd Gladu, and Creative Director Tina Nole answer audience questions and reflect on the release of You Probably Think This Story’s About You. They discuss the intricate process of crafting each story, reveal the unexpected impacts of their storytelling, and share the difficult editorial decisions that shaped the narrative. This episode provides an intimate look at the
Chapter 8: Sunday Dinner
[Chapter 8 of 8] Brittani confronts the fallout from Kanon's manipulation, emerging stronger and more resilient. She finds unexpected power in embracing her vulnerability, leaning on her community and trusting in herself — just like granny taught her. As the family continues to gather for their cherished 30-year Sunday dinner tradition, they grapple with unresolved issues, acknowledging that some
You’ve Got Questions
I’ll be answering your on questions on Instagram Live July 22 at 7pm Pacific. Hop on and let’s get them answered. Follow me at Brittani.Ard. Check out the episode blog on my website for behind-the-scenes content, frequently asked questions, and photos from each episode. Episode 8 will be released July 23rd. Stay tuned for raw interviews with the woman, my dad, and more bonus content.
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Chapter 7: Boy Math
[Chapter 7 of 8]
In this episode we hear Sarah’s story. Sarah is Kanon’s coworker and close friend whose life will be forever changed by his manipulation and lies. Brit and Bri catch up and rehash over details that have come to light. As Brit starts to see the full picture of Kanon’s lies, she comes to the realization that she, like all the women we’ve heard from, need help after living through hi
Chapter 6: The Worst Way to Meet an Incredible Group of Women
[Chapter 6 of 8]
In the wake of Kanon's chaos, Brit has emerged as a fierce advocate, determined to amplify the voices of the women she’s met along the way. Now it's their turn to tell the story. Their raw emotions paint a vivid picture of lives derailed and trust shattered, revealing the full extent of Kanon's deception.
As Brit and these women wade through the aftermath together, more truths su
Chapter 5: Hummingbird
[Chapter 5 of 8]
In the search for answers Brittani retraces the last year of Braileigh’s life. As Braileigh struggled to find her path after high school, she ran into the typical young adult growing pains. Then on New Year’s Eve their family changed forever. Brittani and her father, Gary, recount the story of the agonizing aftermath of the tragedy.
Resolution for a tragedy of this magnitude cou
Chapter 4: Honey Sticks and Donuts
[Chapter 4 of 8]
Brittani and Braileigh are ready to leave their tumultuous past behind. But Brittiani quickly realizes that even in this haven, life has a way of throwing curveballs. Unable to adjust to a life without chaos, Brittani rebels, setting off a chain reaction of events that lead to a custody battle and hard learned lessons for Brittani, Braileigh, and their dad. Amidst the chaos, Brail
Chapter 3: Eye of the Storm
[Chapter 3 of 8]
Who gets the story of their wife's death wrong?
A man who's not telling the truth.
As the messages and information start to pour in, Brittani notices the similarities between herself and the other women, but their versions of Kanon couldn’t be more different.
On the road to understanding the depth of his deception Brittani wonders how she could have missed the signs. Before she
Chapter 2: Love Unhinged
[Chapter 2 of 8]
In the back of Brittani’s mind, a tiny voice whispers a warning: something is wrong. She finds herself at a crossroads, torn between her deep feelings for Kanon* and the unsettling doubts that have crept into their romance. She tries to push aside her doubts, wanting desperately to believe that Kanon was the one she had been waiting for. But the cracks in their seemingly flawless
Chapter 1: It Started as a Love Story
[Chapter 1 of 8]
When Brittani Ard matches with Kanon* on Hinge sparks fly. Their first date revealed an instant connection and chemistry. Kanon is devastatingly handsome with a charm that disarmed even the most guarded heart — plus he is surprisingly emotionally available for a man in his forties. It’s as if the universe has conspired to bring them together, two soulmates destined to find each ot
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"You Probably Think This Story's About You" is an exploration of love, betrayal, and the far-reaching consequences of one man's deceit, told through the eyes of the women whose lives were irrevocably changed by it.
Brittani Ard is on a quest for the truth. She wants to understand how Kanon — the man she once believed to be her soulmate — could have deceived her so deeply. As the devastating reve
