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you better ask somebody 82 Episodes Apr 17, 2026

A conversational podcast hosted by a twenty-something with a couple of mics, diving into the simple, everyday topics we all experience. Each episode feels like a laid-back chat about daily life, observations, and shared human moments. No heavy agenda—just authentic talk about the little things that shape our routines.

Episodes

ep.69: certified copy... Apr 17, 2026 01:40:19 in the mood for love... sit back & listen.

ep.68: i did everything but die... Feb 12, 2026 00:59:45 2025 recap. no lessons, no takeaways. just where i’m at... sit back & listen.

ep.67: the myth of a spotless mind... Sep 3, 2025 01:10:22 from anime to the myths we build around memory, belief and being human and more... sit back & listen.

ep.66: yebba's heartbreak... Aug 12, 2025 00:40:42 love, longing, loss and the quiet defiance of staying open-hearted in a closed-off world and more... sit back & listen.

ep.65: why do we date them... Jul 24, 2025 00:25:28 what if the love we chase is built on misunderstanding ? feels doomed from the start and more... sit back & listen.

throw the whole damn word away... Jul 22, 2025 00:15:58 this one's about losing yourself trying to be "better"... sit back & listen.

ep.64: shopping spree... May 28, 2025 00:40:36 app idea 💡, rent a nigga ? i can see the problems that would have and more... sit back & listen.

ep.63: we're the new parents... May 22, 2025 00:35:24 would our parents choose us if they had the chance ? better yet, would they like us if they met us as strangers ? and more... sit back & listen.

ep.62: blame it on the parents... May 15, 2025 00:34:43 if you had the chance, would you choose your parents again ? sit back & listen.

ep.61: name the big 5... May 12, 2025 00:22:28 stay in school kids, sit back & listen.

ep.60: for the girlies... Apr 30, 2025 00:27:59 i missed y'all 💙, sit back & listen.

ep.59: burnout... Feb 22, 2025 00:34:03 the honeymoon phase but at work, were we taught wrong when they said start doing less at work more... sit back & listen.

ep.58: isolation season... Feb 13, 2025 00:24:53 feeling, knot, so connected lately... lol, sit back & listen.

ep.57: and i started thinking to myself... Jan 10, 2025 00:52:43 what did he do to make n- that mad ? and more... sit back & listen.

first ep 2024 v first ep 2025... Jan 9, 2025 01:12:28 here's to growth, progress and more... sit back & listen.

ep.56: career anxiety... (extended version) Oct 15, 2024 00:47:15 do you actually want it or has society taught you to want it ? and more... sit back & listen.

ep.55: career anxiety... Aug 7, 2024 01:02:40 we're all panicking, right ? and more... sit back & listen.

life lately... Jun 8, 2024 01:04:54 available on youtube: https://youtu.be/0aCWDoNGrDk?si=QRPzSF0RYgNybfJd

ep.54: detachment... May 7, 2024 00:29:04 healthy detachment; also, i discovered i have a problem w my t's and s's lol and more... sit back & listen.

ep.53: i adulted a bit too hard... Apr 25, 2024 00:49:07 this the one where my highschool bestfriend took us listening to king von a little too serious and more... sit back & listen.

ep.52: why ? why between my celibacy you're passing around ? Apr 20, 2024 00:43:23 sex is so consequential and more... sit back & listen.

ep.51: i matured a bit too hard... Apr 10, 2024 00:59:57 can i really maintain a romantic relationship if i'm struggling to maintain my freindships ? and more... sit back & listen.

pause again... Mar 28, 2024 00:41:02 ...sit back & listen, again.

pause... Mar 24, 2024 00:57:02 ...sit back & listen.

panic at the studio...! Mar 15, 2024 00:41:58 how's your mental health ? self isolation, avoidance and more... sit back & listen.

ep.50: i'm an ethical hater... Feb 29, 2024 00:54:58 a little look on the content i love to consume and more... sit back & listen.

ep.49: post valentine's... Feb 20, 2024 00:40:37 appropriate times to breakup with someone and more... sit back & listen.

ep.48: singleness is not a disease... Feb 13, 2024 00:35:34 if it's harmless flirting, why is it such a crime ? happy valentine's day ! 💙

ep.47: money talk... Feb 11, 2024 00:39:07 let's talk money + friendships, am i people pleaser ? and more... sit back & listen.

ep.46: love bombing... Feb 6, 2024 00:42:42 pov: love bombing but as friends and more... sit back & listen.

ep.45: women die and people like it... Jan 30, 2024 00:30:49 #endfemicideke

ep.44: millennials look younger than who ?... Jan 28, 2024 00:42:51 "youuu" and more... sit back & listen.

ep.43: walking ten toes... Jan 25, 2024 00:48:11 i think i have a stalker ? and more... sit back & listen.

ep.42: halfway to 50... Jan 11, 2024 00:56:07 happy new year! starting off the year with a podcast episode, where was i ? i turned 25, oh and my "friend" stole my man on christmas and more... sit back & listen.

ep.41: took a little trip... Oct 20, 2023 00:32:15 "everything has to fall apart for it to come together" featuring a little story of how one time i went on vacation with a group of friends and came back with no friends lol... sit back & listen.

ep.40: no new friends... Oct 18, 2023 00:34:33 new series, new chapter, new journey and on this series i'm letting y'all in on my new life plans, me wanting to initiate more friendships before the year ends and more... sit back & listen.

ep.39: why do you lie like that... Oct 13, 2023 01:03:53 started off talking about jealousy in relationships and friendships that lead to y'all "blocking each others blessings" to how i thought i almost got scammed by an online thrift store to an insane lie i found out over the weekend... sit back & listen.

ep.38: i got commitment issues... Oct 8, 2023 00:41:55 how getting a cat brought out the commitment issues and more... sit back & listen.

ep.37: healing from romantic relationships... Sep 25, 2023 00:56:04 on this episode, i talk about healing from romantic ( and regular friendships ) relationships, benefits of being single and more... sit back & listen.

ep.36: parents... Sep 18, 2023 00:41:34 let's talk parents, do you have an open relationship with your parents or do you wish you had an open relationship with your parents ? featuring a little story time in the beginning and more... sit back & listen.

ep.35: thief of joy... Sep 12, 2023 00:40:29 on this episode, i talk about the panic that comes around when we start thinking about our future, fear of failure, why you're exceptional regardless of what society labels as "exceptional" and more... sit back & listen.

ep.34: brick by brick... Sep 7, 2023 00:40:33 on this episode, i share a story of how i fumbled a potential sponsor, how i was caught lying about my age that one time, victim blaming; brick to the face girl story and more... sit back & listen.

ep.33: reaction... Sep 5, 2023 00:44:24 on this ep, i discuss new (not so new) demon trend going on in the music industry, the power of ignorance, a story time from the weekend of how i was insulted but my reaction was the problem and more... sit back & listen.

ep.32: what i've learnt from moving out... Aug 30, 2023 00:41:31 this episode being a part two of the previous episode, i share five things i've learnt from moving out - mistakes i learnt from, from other people and more... sit back & listen.

ep.31: moving out successfully... Aug 30, 2023 00:35:54 on this episode, inspired by some of the questions i got from you guys on instagram, i share the five main steps i took to successfully moving out... sit back & listen.

ep.30: house hunting... Aug 13, 2023 00:38:54 lemme tell y'all how i almost got scammmed house hunting and more... sit back & listen.

ep.29: homie hopping... Jul 16, 2023 00:50:10 part 2 of the question tag, is it a crime homie hopping and more... sit back & listen.

ep.28: embarrassing s*x moment... Jul 16, 2023 00:58:09 i finally got around to answering the questions from my instagram question tag... sit back & listen.

my first L... Jul 4, 2023 00:45:55 my first L and more stories... sit back & listen.

ep.27: emotional unavailability... Jul 4, 2023 00:51:16 questioning whether they'd have been a difference growing up with a present father and more... sit back & listen.

ep.26: hookup culture... Apr 10, 2023 00:22:59 in this episode, i discuss hookup culture, does it work for you?... sit back & listen.

ep.25: intrusive thoughts... Apr 7, 2023 00:26:31 starting off with me asking y'all if i'm being a hypocrite or not, lol, do you guys have an internal dialogue? do your intrusive thoughts ever just win sometimes ? my grieving period and more... sit back & listen.

ep.24: financially compatible partner... Apr 7, 2023 00:23:26 in this episode, i discuss why i think it's important to have a financially compatible partner... sit back & listen.

ep.23: embracing your authentic self... Feb 28, 2023 00:25:41 getting out of my comfort zone, starting by doing a solo episode this year - and more to come too, this episode is basically me going on about the steps to take to embrace your authentic self and more... sit back & listen.

ep.22: making new friends... Feb 14, 2023 01:14:04 joined by Jade Akech, we sat down and discussed how hard it is making new - genuine - friends, boundaries in friendships and more... sit back & listen.

ep.21: good person bad person... Feb 5, 2023 00:56:35 joined by Kiki Kaunda, we sat down and discussed how to know if you're either a good person or bad person, would you go to therapy with your parents ? and more... sit back & listen.

ep.20: i'm pregnant... Dec 20, 2022 01:20:00 featuring photographer Mukabi ( @mukabimadethis ), we sat down and had a few laughs and deep dives, why i haven't recorded in a while and more... sit back & listen.

ep.19: suicide prevention... Oct 7, 2022 01:11:42 #suicidepreventionmonth, joined by Tiffany Karegi and Ruby Gwill, we sat down and talked about our mental health, how we were able to pull ourselves out of dark places, is suicide selfish? and more... sit back & listen. 

ep.18: so random... Sep 20, 2022 01:48:06 allow us to reintroduce him, we had Garvey joined by manager, hafare, who you may know from surviving nairobi podcast or watch what we do podcast, and he got to tell us his story being in a rap group, being in the kenyan music industry, being a producer + artist and we proceeded to have very random conversation; have you ever lied about hooking up with someone? do you believe aliens exist? the tru

ep.17: vibing with Miseda… Aug 29, 2022 00:44:01 on this episode, i got to sit down with kenyan artist, Miseda, and we just vibed. love languages, phobia’s and his new project, odyssey and more… sit back & listen.

ep.16: forgiveness... Aug 5, 2022 00:48:56 this episode features rapper/singer-songwriter, groovy jo ( @groovyjowhoareyou ), who recently released her tape, the groovy way deluxe, available on all streaming platforms, we previously had a falling out and thanks to someone dope from her team, we got to get back in the studio together and talk about it, forgiveness: why forgiveness is more important for yourself than the other party and more.

ep.15: anxiety’s bitch… Jul 17, 2022 01:07:41 on this episode, joined by @lunar_consciousness (bakhita), we sat down and discussed how your anxiety could be triggered by the “friends” you keep around, what routines and practices we do to keep ourselves stable and more… sit back & listen.

ep.14: soulmates... Jul 12, 2022 00:59:45 guess who's back? joined by @sir.magzzz, who recently released his project "king of hearts" the album available on all streaming platforms, and his manager + his homies in the background, we sat down and discussed whether we believe in soulmates, is it realistic limiting ourselves to one person for the rest of our lives and more... sit back & listen.

ep.13: self-awareness... May 24, 2022 01:12:20 joined by ilham (@_klose_) and kiks (@kikikaunda), i got to tell them a bit about my trip to kilifi which led to the discussion of traveling/ solo traveling || jealousy in friendships || detachment || self-awareness, also, it being mental health awareness month we gave a few pointers on how to take care of yourself, you're mental health is important always... sit back & listen.   

ep.12: sleep with them or lose the opportunities... Apr 27, 2022 01:20:36 joined by @iddriss__ , we sat down and discussed quitting your job, when is it okay to quit your job, the upcoming elections and more... sit back & listen.

ep.11: gaslighting... Apr 4, 2022 00:56:14 joined by producer michael carpenter, we started off the episode catching up from where we left off since we last saw each other, cap's project " ALL CAPS", his new clothing line and jumped into ✨ gaslighting ✨ ; self-gaslighting and more... sit back & listen.

ep.10: green flags... Mar 9, 2022 01:29:53 featuring carrie wahu, ruguru & njeri, we sat down and discussed some of the green flags in friendships, in the midst told them an embarrassing story from a while ago, an awkward moment and also shared a heart breaking story... sit back & listen.

ep.9: goals... Mar 1, 2022 01:43:33 featuring, kate kabi & 808 baby, this episode starts off with how we spent our previous week ( valentines week ) and then we jumped into the main topic, goals, usually it's easy when people tell you to go out and "achieve your goals" but no one discusses it in depth, the getting stuck part, the starting over part, the - in the middle of the night panic - part and all, we also got around to dis

ep.8: rejection... Feb 10, 2022 01:26:06 we've all been through rejection and we know how much that sucks, how do you handle rejection ? have you unpacked your rejection sensitivity ?... sit back & listen.

ep.7: questions... Jan 28, 2022 02:04:16 back at it again w the regular episodes! episode 7 featuring gk nyambura and michelle muchai, we sat down and asked each other a few questions.. what would you tell 18/19 y/o you ? what's the meanest thing that's been said on the internet about you ? are you losing friends because you're a horrible person ? and more... sit back & listen.

THANK YOU FOR 10K PLAYS Jan 24, 2022 00:21:03 this is a short episode of me expressing my gratitude... sit back & listen.  

ep.6: i wanna fight, i wanna tussle... Dec 1, 2021 01:20:30 back at it again! new week new episode, in the studio w my girlies luca and groovy as well as the homies, oliver and simon, we got into heated arguments about different topics like do you appreciate feedback on your work? ( could be from a stranger, could be from friends ), should you give up because people say you shouldn't do something you love? are y'all having sex with your friends? is being "

ep.5: marge SIMPson... Oct 5, 2021 01:17:53 finally, this being the first time glo gets to do the intro and outro right, hold the applause, we got to sit down with steph just bonding and vibing discussing what "simping" is to us, romance, men giving head and more... sit back and listen.  

ep.4: 4 things... Sep 21, 2021 01:13:29 the misunderstoods were asked 500k or dinner with glo and i don't have to proceed to tell you their decision, lol. being the first podcasters we've featured, we sat down and discussed 4 things adulting has taught us... and more, sit back and listen.

ep.3: ask me... Sep 7, 2021 01:31:25 a few months ago, we asked y'all to send in a few questions that you wanted us to answer, sadly, we lost them due to the whole instagram notification going down and disappearing thingy, lol, but we improvised. we decided to jot down a few "intense" questions and ask each other. sit back and listen.

ep.2: open up to me... Aug 30, 2021 01:00:49 featuring artist, @hi.im.chai, we sat down and discussed why it's difficult for guys to open up and asked ourselves the big question, is opening up a scam ? sit back and listen.

ep.1: daddy issues... Aug 23, 2021 00:58:43 starting over with a new season taking the podcast on a different journey, we got to sit down with Kaneesha and Melody, two beautiful ladies, and discussed the term "daddy issues" and how it's thrown around with little or no understanding of what it actually means, as well as we discussed childhood traumas, why therapy is important and isn't only necessary when you have "a problem", why it's impor

are you a "favourite ex"? May 26, 2021 00:54:18 this episode starts with all shade, b, all offense about a funny situation we got ourselves into, we got into it and asked ourselves whether our male friends find us sexually attractive, if you have sex with a friend does it mean much? is there such a thing as being a “favorite ex” or are you just in a toxic cycle, your man having "too many" women friends, are you okay knowing your partners past,

how self-confident are you? May 11, 2021 01:12:31 pale pale kwa dm, ouma hakulenga so we partnered up and did a little collab with chiefgeng, we started off by asking awkward personal "who's most likely to" questions to set the mood and when we jumped into it, they schooled us on this friendship thing, how easy and important good communication is when it comes to maintaining a solid friendship. we also proceeded to discussing how self-confidence

why did we have to become adults? May 4, 2021 00:49:40 featured with a lazy intro of glo eating and watching dota in the background, this episode was us discussing how difficult it is for people our age to bag decent employment, how we receive so little from jobs that expect so much and how people are willing to exploit us thinking we're "too young" and "don't know what we're doing". ontop of that, both joan and glo being self-starters, get into what

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