Secrets of Happily Ever After: Marriage and Intimacy Tips for Couples
A relationship podcast hosted by Monica Tanner, a marriage and intimacy coach, aimed at couples who want a lasting, loving partnership. Each weekly episode explores the habits and principles that keep couples connected, drawing on interviews and coaching insight. Topics include communication, intimacy, commitment and overcoming resentment or the feeling of being mere roommates. The show offers practical marriage advice for couples who want both a deep friendship and a passionate partnership.
Episodes
E380 How to Stop Fighting About Desire Discrepancy in Marriage
What if we stop treating a sex drive mismatch like a problem to solve and start treating it like a cycle to understand so neither spouse becomes the villain. Today, I break down spontaneous and responsive desire, then map simple ways to build safety, warmth, and a better sexual connection without pressure.• why “who’s right” is the wrong question• how the pursue and withdraw cycle turns sex into a
E379 From Sexual Entitlement To Shared Sexual Responsibility
Consent and autonomy matter in marriage, and nobody should feel pressured or coerced into sex. I also believe a monogamous couple can care for their shared sexual relationship without turning it into entitlement, duty, or a fight about who is “the problem”.• the difference between sexual entitlement and sexual responsibility• how pressure after a “no” kills desire and creates obligation• why “low
E378 What If Better Sex Starts With Play?
I share why so many married couples ruin desire by treating sex like a performance, then show how a playful mindset brings freedom back. We trade judgment for curiosity, build safety with boundaries, and start creating a sex life that fits us instead of chasing someone else’s standard. • why pressure turns sex into scorekeeping and shuts down desire • how “play” changes the goal from performing to
E377 Why “You Complete Me” Can Damage Your Marriage
I'm talking about the famous “You complete me” line and explaining why it can be beautiful as a sentiment but damaging as a marriage blueprint. I show how owning our own happiness, stopping the quiet quit, and making small bids for connection can bring warmth back fast. • the difference between sharing a richer life and feeling incomplete without your partner • how “you complete me” turns int
E376 The Three Skills That Predict Marriage Success and Intimacy
This week I share the fastest way I can tell whether a couple will make progress, and it has little to do with how messy the problems look. I break down the E.V.A framework, three ingredients that turn stuck fights into real intimacy: empathy, vulnerability, and accountability. • how repeating arguments form a painful loop of pursuit and shutdown • why “communicate better” advice fails without the
E375: Turning Hot Takes Into Deeper Marriage Truths
I'm kicking off Season 6 by turning Instagram comments and real marriage questions into deeper conversations about what actually builds a strong relationship. I'm sharing what Ben and I have learned about disagreement, repair, fun, trust, and why an extraordinary marriage doesn’t require perfection. • the Season 6 format shift from reels to long-form depth • why “You complete me” can cre
Clear Responsibilities Build Stronger Marriages
I'm closing out season 5 by naming a common marriage stressor: resentment that grows when one person carries the invisible load. I'm sharing my “offices” system that saved our teamwork in business and later brought clarity, relief, and more connection at home. • resentment driven by carrying responsibility alone rather than the amount of work • how unclear ownership creates chaos, droppe
Invisible Labor Is Real And It's Exhausting with Zach Watson
Today, I talk with Zach Watson about how “helping” at home can still leave one partner carrying the mental load, and how naming invisible labor changes the way couples work together. We break down emotional labor, cognitive labor, and the Fair Play framework so we can close more tabs in our brains and show up as true partners. • Zach’s “recovering man child” story and why humor lowers defensivenes
How Mental Load Quietly Builds Resentment In Marriage
In today's episode, I talk about the invisible work of love and why feeling appreciated for a day can still leave you feeling alone the rest of the week. I share how mental load becomes resentment, plus a simple way to make the unseen visible without blaming each other. • Mother’s Day as a spotlight on unnoticed work • The mental, emotional and relational load that keeps life running • How b
24 Lessons From 24 Years Of Marriage
Today, I share 24 hard-earned lessons from 24 years of marriage, from building love maps to repairing after conflict. The biggest shift comes when we stop trying to be right and start choosing curiosity, clear requests, and respect for our differences. • love is something we build intentionally rather than find • updating love maps as we both keep changing • harmony, disharmony, and repair as the
How To Deal With Your Stuff So Your Kids Don’t Have To with Eli Harwood
In this week's episode with my friend, Eli Harwood, we talk about how our unhealed wounds show up in parenting and how healing can change what our kids inherit. We share stories, practical repair language, and why self-compassion and community support matter more than getting everything right. • Monica’s story of divorce, absence, and later healing • Eli’s family experience with mental health
You Can Be Right Or You Can Hold Hands
In this week's episode, I name the messy middle of a relationship reset and explain why falling into an old fight can be evidence of growth instead of failure. I'm sharing a simple three-step framework to help us respond differently, protect connection, and build a stronger couple identity through repair. • reframing “nothing’s changing” as an opportunity to do it differently • treating
You Are Not Broken, You Are Stuck In A Pattern
Today, I'm responding to a listener who’s doing the work to reconnect but still feels a lingering disconnect with his partner. I show how protective patterns keep couples stuck, then share a simple three-step way to interrupt the loop and get back to real closeness. • why a relationship can feel off even with effort • how protective patterns form through hurt and unmet needs • the “adaptive c
How to Reset Your Relationship In Three Steps
Spring invites us to clean out what’s stale in our marriage and start fresh without changing partners. I share a simple three-step relationship reset that replaces blame with honesty, turns complaints into clear requests, and builds momentum through one small win. • spring cleaning mindset for marriage and relationships • why most couples are stuck rather than in crisis • step one naming disconnec
Spark The Fling In A Faithful Marriage with Katie Runyan
In this interview with Katie Runyan of Faithful Fling, we explore how faithful love gets hotter when you add playful novelty. Katie shows how role play dates can break roommate syndrome, wake up the erotic mind, and turn ordinary nights into lasting memories.• safety and novelty as twin needs for desire• Katie’s origin story and the first costume• awkwardness as fuel for laughter and bonding• tapp
Stop Fighting About Sex And Start Enjoying It with Jessa Zimmerman
In this interview with Jessa Zimmerman, we reframe desire discrepancy as normal, not a defect, and show how couples can move from pressure to play with clear tools, language, and empathy. She explains proactive vs reactive desire, why “no” should be celebrated, and how to build a buffet of intimate options.• normalising libido differences across long-term relationships• shifting control dynamics a
Create Your Own Luck By Making Intimacy Lighter
In this week's episode, I'm talking about how to keep sex and connection from turning into a pressure-filled project by bringing back laughter, flirting, and lightness. I share why playfulness builds emotional safety and give three simple ways to create more “luck” in your love life. • how seriousness turns intimacy into pressure • why laughter signals safety and reconnects couples • shi
Desire Differences are NOT Dealbreakers
This week I explore why desire differences are normal, how pressure shuts things down, and how pursuit and emotional safety rebuild connection. I share the Yes And method, practical scripts, and a simple weekly check-in to help couples design intimacy that works for both of them.• naming the rejection–pressure cycle• spontaneous desire vs responsive desire• why pressure kills desire and pursuit bu
How to Get Lucky by Creating More Emotional Safety
I'm kicking off a March series on “getting lucky” by showing why great intimacy isn’t luck at all. Real emotional safety and compassionate curiosity create the right context for desire to grow, and I'm giving you my Green Light Conversation tool to help you start.• debunking the myth of effortless, spontaneous intimacy• how stress, resentment, and distraction cool desire• why desire need
Dr. Gary Chapman On The Love Language That Matters Most
Today I welcome Dr Gary Chapman to explore why love languages still matter and how dialects and personality shape whether love actually lands. We share a simple love tank ritual, a practical daily connection plan, and ways to listen without fixing so both partners feel seen.• why dialects within the five love languages change impact• the attitude of love versus manipulation• the 0–10 love tank que
Understanding Your Partner Doesn’t Mean Agreeing With Them
This week, I'm sharing how compassionate curiosity turns conflict into connection and why understanding your partner does not require you to agree. Practical scripts, clear definitions, and real examples show how to stay on the same team while holding different views.• use post‑Valentine’s expectations and disappointment as a chance to communicate• compassionate curiosity as the path to intim
Valentine’s Day Doesn’t Have to End in Disappointment
This week, I'm talking about why February magnifies stress and how silent expectations turn Valentine’s Day into a painful guessing game. I share three steps, speak hopes out loud, name no‑gos, and define success together, plus simple date ideas and thoughtful, affordable gifts.• February’s emotional slump and money stress• how silent expectations create resentment• say what you want in clear
You’re Both Trying… You’re Just Missing Each Other
This week, I'm sharing why generous effort can still miss the mark and how a simple meaning check turns intention into real connection. Practical scripts, everyday examples, and a clear path to feel loved without guesswork.• early chemistry fading into real differences• clashing stories and nervous system triggers• feeling unloved versus being unloved• problem solving versus emotional presenc
How Healthy Couples Use Conflict to Grow with Dana Che
In this interview with Dana Che, we break the myth that happy couples don’t fight and show how conflict, handled well, can deepen intimacy. We share mindset shifts, practical language, and simple steps to move from defensiveness to understanding.• redefining conflict as a growth path• the costs of avoidance and silent treatment• modern marriage and renegotiating roles• separating facts from feelin
Boundaries Are What Make Intimacy Possible
Today, I'm talking about how boundaries are a loving skill that prevents resentment and creates safety, respect, and passion. Clear, simple steps show how to set limits without threats, using everyday examples and a weekly challenge to practice.• emotional regulation steps that precede boundary setting• common end-of-life regrets linked to people pleasing• redefining boundaries as self-care r
You Can’t Control Your Partner, But You’re Not Powerless
This episode speaks directly to one of the most exhausting parts of being in a relationship: realizing you can’t control your partner and wondering what that means for you.For a lot of people, that realization feels defeating. Like your hands are tied. Like you’re stuck waiting or reacting or hoping things improve.This week I talk about why not being able to control your partner does not mean you
How Do You Want to Show Up This Year?
I'm setting a bold focus for this new season: choose who we will be in hard moments and build relationships with no regrets. I share five common end-of-life regrets, turn them into learnable skills, and give you a clear assignment to craft one specific intention for the year.• the five most common relationship regrets are: silence, absence, guarded love, inauthenticity, unrepaired ruptures• s
The Game-Changing Gift Evree Spouse Will Love with Founders Justin and Natalie
A great massage shouldn’t end with a mad dash to the shower. This week, I'm talking with Justin and Natalie Weeks, the creators of Evree, to share how a single sticky night pushed them into a six-year journey across labs, ingredients, and countless iterations to build a truly different kind of product: a natural massage cream that melts at body temperature, glides like a dream, doubles as a s
Finding Wisdom In The Wound with Tony Miltenberger
We explore how prolonged stress can turn small cracks into deep canyons and how couples can explore those canyons together with empathy, curiosity, and clear practices. Tony shares tools for moving from emotional reactions to intentional responses and offers a hopeful path to deeper intimacy.• defining prolonged stress and why it magnifies small issues• emotional intensity scale and spotting old w
How to Create More Intimacy Through Communication with Nick and Amy McKinlay
Today, we're talking about how Christian couples can build deeper intimacy by turning awkward silence into simple, safe conversations. Nick and Amy McKinlay of Ultimate Intimacy share research-backed prompts, healthy masculinity traits, and ways to navigate power dynamics when desire is mismatched.• why communication is the core of sexual intimacy• how curiosity and vulnerability create safet
A Simple Relational Skill That Makes Communication So Much Easier
What if a single, gentle question could turn tense moments into real connection? That’s the promise of “contracting,” a simple consent-based habit that replaces surprise talks with intentional, focused conversations. We walk through how this tiny shift—asking “Is now a good time?” and agreeing on a short window—respects attention, reduces defensiveness, and builds trust that sticks.• what contract
Shoveling Sh*t Together: How Kass and Mike Built Companies, Raised Kids, and Kept Their Marriage Intact
What if the real love story isn’t candlelight and grand gestures, but calendars, clarity, and courage under pressure? I sit down with Kass and Mike Lazerow—longtime partners in life and business—to unpack how they navigated Web 1.0 startups, gut-punch setbacks, and life-changing, $345 million-dollar exits while raising three kids and staying on the same team. Their answers aren’t glossy; they’re p
Marriage is the Ultimate Team Sport: How to Create a Winning Team
What if the fastest way to a stronger marriage isn’t compromise, but better teamwork? After celebrating a number-one Amazon launch, I took a hard look at what actually helped us get there—clear roles, honest communication, and a shared commitment to play the same game on the same side. The result is a practical, story-rich guide to treating marriage like the ultimate team sport, with four moves yo
Debunking Bad Marriage Advice with My Son and Daughter-In-Law Jake and Livvy
Today's interview is with my oldest son, Jake and his new wife, Livvy to chat about the new book I wrote for them and unpack five of the most common myths that sabotage new marriages and trade them for simple habits that build trust, respect and joy. Thinks we talk about in the episode are:• faith first, spouse second as good advice from Livvy's Dad• seeing parents model affection, repai
Debunking Sex Myths in Marriage
Bad sexual advice is one of the top reasons couples struggle early in marriage, often because most grow up with distorted expectations about what a healthy sex life looks like.• Sex advice is usually messed up because the topic is taboo in most families• Most couples start marriage with distorted expectations about their sex life• "A Good Wife Keeps Her Husband Satisfied" creates an unhe
Detoxing from Bad Marriage Advice
A marriage advice detox can transform your relationship by eliminating harmful myths and replacing them with practical communication skills. Bad marriage advice like "never go to bed angry" or "happy wife, happy life" often sounds good but leads to frustration and resentment when applied to real relationships.• Identify the marriage beliefs and advice you've been operating
Moving From Approval to True Intimacy in Marriage with Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife
Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife explores how moving beyond validation-seeking creates deeper, more authentic intimate connections in marriage, explaining that true intimacy requires embracing differences rather than demanding constant agreement.• Distinguishing between validation and true intimacy in relationships• Understanding the three unhealthy relationship patterns: pressuring our partner, yieldi
Incompatibility is the Leading Cause of Divorce AND It's a Myth
Conflict and differences in marriage don't mean you married the wrong person; they simply mean you're two human beings from different backgrounds working together to build a life. Statistics show "incompatibility" is the leading cause of divorce, but what couples often interpret as irreconcilable differences are actually normal variations in perspective.• Differences between sp
Stop Listening to These 5 Pieces of Common Marriage Advice
Marriage advice is everywhere, but much of it is outdated, misguided, or flat-out harmful to your relationship, no matter how well-intentioned it may be.• Happy couples don't fight - FALSE: Conflict is like exercise for your relationship and helps you grow stronger• The myth of "don't sweat the small stuff" can lead to an explosion after years of suppressing irritation• Comprom
What If Everything You Learned about Marriage is Wrong?
Traditional marriage advice often sounds wise but can secretly damage relationships when applied to modern marriages. In this episode, we examine five common marriage myths that might be undermining your relationship and explore healthier alternatives.• The dangers of "never go to bed angry" and how it leads to sleep deprivation and worsened arguments• Why "happy wife, happy life&qu
Relational Reckoning: How to Decide if Your Marriage is Worth Fighting For
Relational Reckoning is a powerful tool that helps couples take inventory of their relationship, identify resentment, and make informed decisions about whether to stay together or part ways.• Using coaching or therapy as a "misery stabilizer" indicates deeper relationship issues that need addressing• Relational Reckoning answers the question: "Is there enough good in this relationsh
Breaking Free from Attachment Wounds with Trevor Hanson
Trevor Hanson shares powerful insights about how couples unknowingly trigger wounded parts in each other and explains how healing these attachment wounds transforms relationships. Through understanding negative cycles and inner child work, we discover how one person can significantly change relationship dynamics by healing their own insecurities.• Couples get trapped in negative cycles when they t
Teaching Kids Healthy Sexuality using the DRIVE Framework
Teaching kids about healthy sexuality requires a thoughtful approach that prepares them for marriage, much like teaching them to drive requires instruction before handing over the keys.• The DRIVE framework provides a comprehensive approach to sex education within families• D for Dialogue: Keep conversations open, ongoing, and age-appropriate• R for Respect: Teach children to view their bodies and
Healing Through Letting Go: The Surprising Link Between Forgiveness and Physical Health
Hanna Kok shares her expertise on the surprising link between forgiveness and physical health, revealing why holding onto grudges causes hormonal imbalances and weakens the immune system. We explore the scientific evidence behind this connection and discuss a practical method for making forgiveness easier.• When we hold grudges, our muscles tighten, restricting blood flow and nutrient delivery thr
How to Stop Compromising and Create F.I.R.E in the Bedroom
You deserve a fulfilling sex life without settling or compromising. The FIRE method provides a framework for creating a deeply connected and satisfying intimate relationship that works for both partners.• Higher desire partners often feel they must settle in their marriages, leading to resentment and diminished intimacy• Emotional connection alone doesn't guarantee a satisfying sex life – sex
How to Enjoy More Freedom in Your Marriage
True intimacy requires the freedom to be ourselves in marriage. We explore what it means to create space where both partners feel safe, seen, respected, and supported throughout all seasons of life together.• Creating emotional freedom by feeling safe to make mistakes, have opinions, and share feelings without judgment• Physical freedom in maintaining personal friendships, self-care, and autonomy
3 Tips for Having Tough Conversations
We often avoid difficult conversations, but addressing conflicts directly leads to stronger relationships rather than allowing resentment to build and potentially emerge "sideways." Understanding that all relationships cycle through harmony, disharmony, and repair helps us recognize conflicts as opportunities for growth.• Lead with curiosity, not accusation: examine your triggers, consid
How to Talk About Money Without Starting a Fight
Money conversations don't have to lead to arguments—they can actually strengthen relationships when approached with the right communication tools and mindset. We explore three essential skills for talking about finances with your spouse that build connection instead of conflict.• Understanding each other's money personalities and formative experiences around finances• Learning to express
What to Do When Your Partner Won't Do The Work
I tackle the challenging reality of what to do when one partner wants to work on the relationship while the other resists, providing a clear three-step approach based on my experience with couples in this situation.• Despite what some experts claim, you cannot completely transform your marriage alone—both partners must participate• The first step is to directly invite your partner to therapy or co
My BEST Advice for Engaged and Newlyweds
After an incredibly busy May filled with family celebrations including our 23rd wedding anniversary, my son's wedding, my daughter's high school graduation, and a week-long houseboat trip to Lake Powell, I'm reflecting on valuable relationship lessons that emerged during this special time.• Shared a powerful relationship skill called the "I notice" technique that creates o
How Your Senses Are Key to Better Communication with Your Spouse with Nicole Villegas
Dr. Nicole Villegas, occupational therapist and founder of the Sensory Conscious Institute, explores how understanding nervous systems and sensory patterns helps build relationships rooted in safety, connection, and clarity.• Beyond the five senses: interoception (internal feelings), vestibular (movement through space), and proprioception (body position awareness)• Creating collaborative solutions
How to Stay Calm and Connected in the Chaos of Family Life
When life gets chaotic, maintaining your sanity and your marriage requires intentional practices and clear communication. This episode shares my five-step approach to handling busy seasons with grace while keeping my relationship strong and cooperative.• Start each day with focused prayer to identify what truly matters that day• Ask for help confidently, remembering that it allows others the oppor
What Monopoly Deal Has To Do With Intimacy with Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo
Tony and Elisa DiLorenzo of One Extraordinary Marriage discuss how busy couples can rekindle intimacy and connection through intentional time together. They reveal the biggest roadblocks to intimacy are lack of meaningful conversation and diminished sexual connection, with practical solutions for couples who feel like roommates.• The "we'll make time when..." trap leads many couples
When My Son Got Married on Our 23rd Anniversary
We celebrate a double milestone as my son gets married on our 23rd wedding anniversary. This emotional weekend brings together two generations of love stories while I reflect on what makes a marriage work for over two decades.• Cooking for 125 wedding guests from a small Airbnb with crockpots scattered throughout every room• The importance of morning walks for communication and connection in marri
The Art of Relational Repair: Insights from the RLT Conference
I spent an incredible weekend at the first-ever Relational Life Therapy conference in Orlando, immersed in transformative teachings from world-renowned relationship experts. RLT offers powerful tools for building radically honest, fiercely loving relationships where both partners thrive in equality, focusing on intimacy, connection, and practical relational skills.• RLT focuses on telling the trut
Money Matters: Navigating Finances as a Couple with Nate and Bethany Smith
Money often causes tension in relationships, but it doesn't have to. Nate and Bethany Smith share their expertise on creating financial harmony through better communication, understanding each other's money stories, and developing shared goals.• Understanding your partner's "money story" helps build empathy and reduces financial conflict• Creating a "spending and savi
Rekindle Emotional Connection with Questions That Actually Matter
In this episode, we explore how recommitting to daily conversations and weekly date nights can reignite emotional intimacy and transform your relationship with your partner.• Gottman research shows mapping your partner's inner world is crucial for emotional connection• People constantly change and evolve—nobody remains the same person they were when you married• Commit to 20 minutes of daily
The Psychology of Sexual Disconnection and Five Steps to Restore Intimacy
Passionate relationships require more than love—they need the right psychological dynamics to keep desire alive. When couples come to me feeling more like roommates than lovers, they're often surprised to learn that their sexual disconnection has less to do with libido or attraction and more to do with unrecognized emotional patterns.The truth about passionate marriages might surprise you. Wh
Bad Marriage Advice - Divorce is NOT an Option
What's the worst piece of marriage advice you've ever received? In my years coaching couples, I've heard countless well-meaning but misguided tips passed down between generations. Today, I'm pulling back the curtain on one of the most damaging myths that keeps showing up, especially in religious communities: "divorce is not an option."Despite its popularity among rela
The Biggest, BEST Announcement EVER!!
I'm announcing my first book "Bad Marriage Advice: 15 Myths that Are Making you Miserable," releasing on May 3rd to coincide with my 23rd wedding anniversary and my son's wedding day. The book challenges popular but potentially harmful marriage advice and offers better relational skills based on my experience as a marriage coach and interviews with couples married over 50 years
2 Relational Skills Everyone Needs to Know - Request and Repair
Monica Tanner shares transformative relationship skills to help couples communicate more effectively and maintain passion in their marriages. Through practical frameworks, she reveals how making specific requests and mastering repair techniques can dramatically improve relationship satisfaction.• Most people complain about relationship problems rather than making clear requests• Every complaint co
This ONE Healthy Habit Will Safeguard Your Marriage
Walking with your partner is a powerful tool that has strengthened my marriage through every season, from dating challenges to parenting transitions and career changes.• Discovered the power of walking while facing parental disapproval during our engagement• Walking side-by-side creates a safe space for difficult conversations that face-to-face interaction doesn't• Daily walks help us downloa
How Do You Forgive When It’s Hard? A Path to Healing
This episode sheds light on the often challenging journey of forgiveness in relationships. Understanding how to forgive is crucial for moving forward after betrayal or hurt. • Exploring the emotional journey of betrayal in relationships • Importance of understanding personal willingness in forgiveness • Discussing the withholding dynamic in relationships • Actionable steps to effectively communica
How to Restore Trust: The Key to Lasting Relationships
Trust is an essential foundation of relationships, but sometimes it gets broken. This week, Nate and I dive into the complexities of restoring damaged trust, providing valuable insights and actionable strategies. • Definition of trust and its importance in relationships • Exploring types of hurts: big and small • Discussing personal responsibility in rebuilding trust • Effective communication stra
How to Express Disappointment in a Way Your Partner Can Understand
This episode addresses how to navigate feelings of disappointment in a relationship, particularly following Valentine's Day. We explore effective communication strategies, the importance of honesty, and techniques to foster understanding and empathy during tough conversations. • Discussing the common aftermath of unmet expectations • Importance of maintaining open and honest communication • T
Are The 5 Love Languages Stunting Your Intimacy and Connection?
Can understanding love languages actually harm your relationship? Nate shares a remarkable personal experiment with his wife that uncovers some surprising insights into how we express and perceive love. While the idea of identifying your partner's love language is popular, we discuss the potential pitfalls of using it as a benchmark or a tool for assigning blame. When expectations aren't
How to Combat Relationship Entropy and Enjoy Your Partner More Than EVER
This episode explores the concept of emotional entropy in relationships, emphasizing that love requires consistent effort and attention to thrive. Through relatable analogies and expert insights, we are encouraging you to actively nurture your marriage to prevent stagnation and promote growth.• Overview of emotional entropy and its relevance to relationships • Common misconceptions about marriage
How to Use Appreciation to Train Your Partner to Give You More of What You Want
The episode explores effective strategies for couples to enhance their emotional connections through acknowledgment, making specific requests, and celebrating small progress in relationships. By emphasizing the importance of turning complaints into requests, recognizing positive behavior, and ignoring unhelpful dynamics, listeners are encouraged to build a healthier, more supportive partnership.•
A Discussion about Relational Life Therapy with Risa Ganel, LCMFT
Explore the transformative power of Relational Life Therapy (RLT) and how it can help couples break free from unhealthy patterns to foster deeper connections. Risa Ganel discusses how the adaptive child, systemic changes, and a focus on second-order change can reshape relationships for lasting benefit. • RLT emphasizes systemic connections in relationships • Differentiates between first-order and
How to Create More Intimacy by Making Specific Requests
Communication is key to a thriving relationship, and asking for what you want instead of complaining is a game-changer. This episode offers practical tools to help you identify your unexpressed needs and transition from a blame-focused mindset to positive, actionable requests. • Emphasizing the importance of vulnerability in relationships • Identifying the root of complaints and transforming them
How to Create More Passion by Being Willing to Risk Your Relationship
This episode focuses on understanding the importance of taking risks to rejuvenate a relationship and combat mediocrity. Monica and Nate discuss fears that hold couples back, with insights into how to engage in open conversations that lead to positive change and passion in marriage. • Emphasizing the need to awaken passion in relationships • Discussing the three common fears preventing honest conv
How to Transform Your Relationship from a Mediocre Marriage to a Passionate Partnership
Unlock the secrets to transforming a mediocre marriage into one filled with passion and fulfillment. Discover how to navigate the ebb and flow between survival and self-actualization, and learn why investing time and effort into your partnership can reignite the flames of passion.In this episode, we'll give you the 3 rules of turning a mediocre marriage into one full of passion, play and plea
How to Plan a Year-End Trip to Set Yourself Up for a More Passionate Connection in 2025
After returning from a rejuvenating, phone-free escape to Cancun with my husband, I'm back with insights on how to create a year-end wrap-up experience. Joined by my faithful co-host, Nate Bagley, we share how undivided attention can transform your partnership, even if a luxury getaway isn't in the cards this year. Discover creative ways to carve out meaningful moments at home or on a si
3 Tips to Navigating Holiday Stress with Ease and Connection
Want to navigate this holiday season with ease and connection rather than stress and conflict? Join Nate Bagley and I as we discuss the complicated dynamics of holiday traditions, family gatherings, and the financial strain that often accompanies this joyous time. We offer insights into recognizing stress indicators in ourselves and our relationships—like emotional reactivity and perfectionism—and
Parenting and Partnership Adventures and an Announcement
Are you ready for a BIG Announcement and fun surprise?Introducing my new co-host, Nate Bagley. Listen in as we reminisce about our first meeting at a Tennessee marketing conference and how his work with marriage legands like John and Julie Gottman first piqued my interest. Nate shares his experiences as his life took an unexpected turn during the pandemic. Nate and his wife made the bold decision
Welcome to Season 4: The BEST one of ALL!!!
Feeling like roommates or wrestling with resentment in your marriage? Discover how to rekindle an insanely fun and intimate partnership with actionable strategies in every episode. After a six-month break filled with family milestones and personal growth, I'm back with a fresh perspective and a streamlined approach. This season promises simplicity and focus, ensuring you'll get top-notc
My #1 Hack for Holding On Tight Even in the Choas of the Busiest Seasons
Feeling the pressure of life's relentless to-do list and summer bucket list? In the finale episode of my third season, I'm revealing exactly how to ensure all of your relationships flourish, even when life throws chaos and overwhelm at you. I'll teach you with my number one HACK to keep your calm and carry on, regardless of the hustle and bustle that may come your way. Get ready to
The Recipe for Resiliency with Brian and Jen Goins
Ever wonder how some couples seem to navigate the ebbs and flows of marriage with grace and a smile? This week, I'm chatting with Brian and Jen Goins from Family Life, who join us to share their 27 years of wisdom on building a relationship that thrives. We discuss the everyday skills essential for cultivating both individuality and unity in marriage. This episode isn't just about the d
Creating Lasting EveryLove with Intention with Alex and Kadi Dutton
Wondering what it takes to keep passion burning HOT in the hustle of daily life? Alex and Katie Dutton join me this week to share the sparks of truth behind their EveryLove adventure—a service that's rekindling the fire in marriages through creative date night packages and model-free lingerie. They tell their story of entrepreneurship entwined with the commitment to nurturing a deep, intimat
12 Questions to Transform Your Conversations with Topaz Adizes
Have you ever felt like your conversations with loved ones are getting a little dry?This week's interview with Emmy Award-winner, Topaz Adizes shatters that pattern, unveiling "12 Questions for Love" to revolutionize our understanding of intimate dialogues. Topaz is known for his work on The { } And project and shares how carefully crafted questions can peel back the layers we often
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