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The Places We Call Home podcast

The Places We Call Home podcast

Yolanda Reshemah 78 Episodes Oct 1, 2026

The Places We Call Home is a podcast for women who have immigrated to the United States and are rebuilding their lives there. Host Yolanda Reshemah talks about the loneliness, homesickness, culture shock, and pressure that come with starting over in a new country. Episodes blend her own personal stories with practical tools for staying grounded, alongside conversations with women from around the world. Together they explore identity, friendship, purpose, mental wellness, confidence, and what "home" really means after migration.

Episodes

#79. The Moment You Realize: I’m Lonely Here
#79. The Moment You Realize: I’m Lonely Here Oct 1, 2026 00:24:43 A real conversation about being unseen, finding your people, and rebuilding connection from scratch.Today’s episode is a panel conversation with immigrant and American friends talking honestly about the moment they realized, I’m lonely here. From Venezuela, China, Brazil, Sierra Leone, the U.K., and the U.S. We describe the exact situations that made loneliness feel real, and what made the change
#80. Is Life Abroad Worth It When Your Support System Is an Ocean Away?
#80. Is Life Abroad Worth It When Your Support System Is an Ocean Away? Oct 2, 2026 00:06:10 The night my husband fell ill suddenly, the distance I've been carrying for years hit me harder than I expected.Everything I usually manage on my own, like anticipated hospital runs, school drop-off and pick up, after-school schedule, new bathroom demolition and rebuild, the business ... suddenly felt impossible without the people who know how to steady me. And in that moment, I had to face a ques
#78.Why Belonging Feels So Hard: What Immigrant Women Need to Ask Themselves First
#78.Why Belonging Feels So Hard: What Immigrant Women Need to Ask Themselves First Sep 24, 2026 00:21:33 Belonging takes a while to create. It’s something you first begin to build from the inside out.Part two with guest Natalie Chu, a Taiwanese woman who moved to the U.S. alone and discovered that belonging is also about emotional clarity. She shares how solo travel, cultural transition, and moments of deep loneliness forced her to ask better questions: Why am I feeling this? What do I actually need?
#77. The Day You Stop Begging to Belong
#77. The Day You Stop Begging to Belong Sep 15, 2026 00:08:19 There's a moment every immigrant woman hits and once you hit it, everything changes.In this episode, I'm talking you as my friend. Because starting over in a new country forces you into a delicate truth most people never say out loud: you can chase inclusion for years and still feel lonely, unseen, or disconnected. Real belonging begins somewhere else entirely.I share what I takeaway from Natalie'
#76. Friendliness Isn’t Friendship: What Expat Women Learn the Hard Way Part 1
#76. Friendliness Isn’t Friendship: What Expat Women Learn the Hard Way Part 1 Sep 10, 2026 00:29:27 A conversation about belonging, friendships, and rebuilding yourself in a new country.I sat down with Natalie Chu, who moved from Taiwan to the U.S. with a childhood dream and found herself facing the emotional truth expat women rarely say out loud. She talks about the “friendly but not actually your friend” moments, and the shock of realizing that belonging doesn’t show up just because you arrive
#75. Why You Don’t Feel Like Yourself Abroad: How to Reclaim Your Identity
#75. Why You Don’t Feel Like Yourself Abroad: How to Reclaim Your Identity Sep 5, 2026 00:08:09 When you migrate, you enter environments that reinterpret you.In this solo episode, Yolanda Reshemah breaks down why so many immigrant women, expat women suddenly feel unfamiliar to themselves after moving abroad, and how identity distortion happens long before you realize it.From credential devaluation to accent bias to being misread in rooms where people don’t yet understand your history. Yoland
#74. Reclaiming Your Worth After Migration. Neisha Terry Young Ph.D part 2
#74. Reclaiming Your Worth After Migration. Neisha Terry Young Ph.D part 2 Aug 27, 2026 00:19:51 A conversation about rebuilding identity, reclaiming your worth after migration.Educator and scholar Neisha Terry shares the deeply personal journey of navigating identity after migrating to the United States. She speaks openly about having her Jamaican teaching credentials reduced to “nothing,” being questioned about her legitimacy, and the emotional weight of constantly proving herself in spaces
#73. Why Going Back Home Never Happens for Migrant Women:  Neisha Terry Young Ph.D part 1
#73. Why Going Back Home Never Happens for Migrant Women: Neisha Terry Young Ph.D part 1 Aug 19, 2026 00:21:10 A conversation on identity, home, and why going back never truly happens for immigrant women.In this episode, I continue my conversation with Dr. Neisha Terry, Assistant Professor at Stony Brook University, about what it really means to build a life between geographies. We talk about the emotional weight of being an unconnected immigrant, the freedom she misses from her childhood in Jamaica, and t
#72. Immigrant or Expat? Neisha Young on Naming Ourselves. Pt.1
#72. Immigrant or Expat? Neisha Young on Naming Ourselves. Pt.1 Aug 12, 2026 00:17:09 Jamaican scholar and assistant professor Nisha Terry Young joins me for a grounded conversation about identity, belonging, and the labels we inherit when we move to the United States. We explore the difference between immigrant and expat—and how those words quietly shape the way women migrants are seen, judged, and expected to perform competence in their new lives.Nisha shares how her identity as
#71. The Hidden Rulebook of Your New Country — What Every Migrant Woman Should Know
#71. The Hidden Rulebook of Your New Country — What Every Migrant Woman Should Know Jul 24, 2026 00:12:42 Five practical tools every migrant woman can use to stop feeling lostEver felt overwhelmed after moving abroad? This episode gives you the missing manual. Host Yolanda Reshemah breaks down two essential skills every immigrant, expat, and migrant woman needs:Learning the hidden rulebook of your new culture and;Using curiosity and optimism as practical survival tools.You’ll walk away with five clear
#70. Bubblegum, Barbie and Becoming American. Pt.2 Yuliya Patsay
#70. Bubblegum, Barbie and Becoming American. Pt.2 Yuliya Patsay Jul 19, 2026 00:32:45 My expectation was that we were going to buy me a Barbie ... jeans, and bubble gum!This conversation with writer and storyteller Yuliya Patasy is an unusual exploration of what it means to arrive somewhere new — physically, emotionally, culturally, and generationally.Yuliya immigrated to San Francisco as a child, landing in a converted garage apartment packed with grandparents, great‑grandparents,
#69. Feeling Lonely After Moving Abroad? Here's How to Lighten the Emotional Load
#69. Feeling Lonely After Moving Abroad? Here's How to Lighten the Emotional Load Jul 16, 2026 00:09:24 Moving abroad can look exciting from the outside — but inside, many immigrant and expat women carry a silent truth: loneliness, identity loss, homesickness, and the pressure to hold everything together.In this solo episode, I talk honestly about the emotional work women do when they uproot their lives, often without a title, paycheck, or community to hold them. I share the tools that helped me fee

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