That Husband Podcast
Husbands trying to know better so that we can do better! Hosted by Blaque Nubon. New episodes every Wednesday.
Episodes
Life After Divorce: The Truth Of What Men Really Lose | Anele Matshisi
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[S3] EPISODE 34: THE GRIEF MEN AREN'T PREPARED FOR
In this week's episode Blaque sits down with Anele for an honest and necessary conversation about divorce, identity, healing, and the journey of finding your way again. Drawing from his book, Thrive, Anele Matshisi opens up about the phases men go through after d
The 8 Personalities That Can Make Or Break Your Marriage | Muzi Mthabela
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[S3] EPISODE 33: SHOWING UP IS NOT ENOUGH
In this live episode of Beans and Bonds, Blaque sits down with Muzi Mthabela for an honest conversation about marriage, leadership, family, and the intentional work of building a home that lasts.
Filmed in March 2025, they unpack what it means for a marriage to be grounde
What Happens When Your Marriage No Longer Feels Enough? | Luxolo Kentane
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[S3] EPISODE 32: A RELATIONSHIP VS. A TRANSACTION
In this episode, Blaque sits down with Luxolo Kentane to talk about his new book "There Must Be More" and the realities of marriage, fatherhood, and learning what it really means to love the people you’ve committed your life to.
They get real about the hunger
Depression, Losing Our Baby & Learning To Love My Wife Without Trying To Fix Her | Ntobeko Mjijwa
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[S3] EPISODE 31: WHEN LIFE THROWS ITS WORST BLOWS
In this episode, Blaque sits down with Ntobeko Mjijwa to talk about the realities of marriage, becoming a husband and learning what it really means to love your wife well. They get real about his wife’s depression, losing a child, the pressure of being a husband, l
I Had to Protect My family From The Man Success Was Creating | Koketso Molaolwe
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[S3] EPISODE 30: WHO ARE YOU OUTSIDE OF THE LIMELIGHT?
After a 3 week break That Husband Podcast is BACK! 🎙️
In this episode, Blaque sits down with Pastor Koketso Molaolwe to talk about his new book, The Unlikely Candidate, and the lessons behind his journey from an unlikely beginning to church planting, lea
Will Your Marriage Survive Your Ambition? | Blaque Nubon
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[S3] EPISODE 29: WORK OVER YOUR FAMILY?
This episode started as a quick update to let you know why That Husband Podcast is taking a short break, but it became a much deeper conversation about the kind of husband I hope to be. As my wife and I navigate life with newborn twins, prepare to launch a church, and carr
The One Thing I Hate About Being Married To You | Blaque Nubon & Lilly Million
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[S3] EPISODE 28: THE HARD WORK OF MARRIAGE
What begins as a light-hearted discussion about what we jokingly call "female crazy" quickly becomes something far deeper. Together, we unpack the moments in marriage when emotions seem to outrun logic, when miscommunication leaves both husband and wife feeling misunder
Marriage Cannot Heal What You Refuse To Confront | Blaque Nubon
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[S3] EPISODE 27: HAS LOVE STOPPED FEELING EASY?
This episode was born out of the questions we could not finish answering at one of our live Beans and Bonds gatherings, but what unfolded became something much bigger than marriage advice. We wrestle with the hidden parts of ourselves that quietly follow us into o
Why Men Chase Applause Instead Of Love | Mohale Mogale
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[S3] EPISODE 26: WHAT HE WISHES HIS WIFE UNDERSTOOD
What does it actually look like for a husband to feel celebrated? So much of marriage rightly teaches men to love sacrificially, to provide, to protect, and to give. But somewhere along the way, many husbands quietly begin to believe that being seen, appreciated,
How The Boy You Ignore Becomes The Man You Struggle With | DJ Mgabe Magabaza
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[S3] EPISODE 25: WHEN HIS SILENCE BECOMES A LOUD WOUND
In recognition of Men's Mental Health Month, we sit down and wrestle with a simple but haunting question: What were the things we could not say as boys? Long before we became husbands, fathers, leaders, and providers, we were boys trying to make sense of rej
The Mistakes Fathers Make That Their Children Pay For | Penson Mlotshwa, John Manyike
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[S3] EPISODE 23: FATHERS WE NEED TO BE HONEST
This Father's Day, we talk about responsibility, legacy, preparation, and what happens to the people we love when life doesn't go according to plan. We unpack the financial, emotional, and practical realities of fatherhood, marriage, and leadership. From raising chi
Has Your Relationship Become A Performance Without You Noticing? | Jabu Zwane
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[S3] EPISODE 22: THE WOUNDS WE CARRY INTO MARRIAGE
Joined by Jabu Zwana, we explore marriage, healing, hypervigilance, childhood wounds, emotional maturity, and the often invisible ways our past shapes our present relationships. Jabu unpacks how our earliest experiences of love, safety, discipline, and belongi
The Real Damage Of A Husband’s Double Life | Ian Henderson
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[S3] EPISODE 21: YOU CANNOT HEAL WHAT YOU CANNOT ADMIT
Joined by Ian Henderson, we explore pornography, shame, father wounds, masculinity, accountability, and the lifelong journey of becoming whole. Ian shares the heartbreaking story of his father's secret addiction, the devastating consequences it had on his f
The Hardest Part Of Marriage Was Meeting Myself: Why Men Need Honest Conversations | Mlungisi Nkosi
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[S3] EPISODE 20: BLEEDING ON THOSE YOU LOVE
Mlungisi opens up about growing up in a fractured home, wrestling with unforgiveness toward his father, navigating anger inside his marriage, and discovering that healing is not automatic just because you love God. Together, we unpack the quiet ways pain travels throu
Quitting My Job, No Money, One Promise & The Woman Who Waited With Me | Kingdmusic
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[S3] EPISODE 19: NOT ALL MARRIAGES ARE BUILT THE SAME
This episode is about staying, choosing joy when life is heavy, when grief sits in the room with you, when money is tight, when dreams feel delayed, and when love demands more than feelings. King D Music opens up about dating his wife for six years before m
The Struggle Of Loving My Wife While Grieving My Father | Mogomotsi Z_Lus Ntsimane
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[S3] EPISODE 18: A WEDDING & A FUNERAL
Marriage often begins with dreams, excitement, and hope, but what happens when joy and grief collide at the exact same moment? From navigating the loneliness of singleness and unrealistic expectations of love, to stepping into marriage while mourning the devastating lo
Financial Struggles, Passive Drinking & Emotional Stagnation: 7 Years Trying To Be God | Racy Hlahla
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[S3] EPISODE 17: THE LIE OF THINKING THINGS ARE NOT THAT BAD
What happens when the pressure to provide, to lead, and to “have it all together” quietly exposes the cracks beneath the surface? In this episode, you step into a deeply honest conversation about the hidden battles men carry, the fear of failure, the weight of
An Anti-Christ Girlfriend, Lying To My Church & A Twin Pregnancy Exposed It All | Nkosinathi Kotyi
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[S3] EPISODE 16: FROM A MESSY START TO A STRONG MARRIAGE
Becoming who you're meant to be before life demands it of you, before the responsibility, before the title, before the moment arrives? Or do you only discover who you are when everything is already on the line? In this episode, you step into a story that
Before I Met Her, I Was Already Preparing For Her: Building For My Future Wife | Sizwe Mngomezulu
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[S3] EPISODE 15: THE KIND OF FOCUS THAT MAKES YOU A MAN
Can a man become who he’s meant to be before life demands it of him? Before the responsibility, before the title, before the moment arrives? In this episode, we sit with a story that begins long before marriage, long before love, and long before the world
Expecting Twins, Leaving Our Church & Losing Balance: The True Realities Of Marriage | Lilly Million
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[S3] EPISODE 14: WHAT HAPPENED TO DATE NIGHTS?
Can a marriage hold when everything changes at once? When life accelerates, pressure builds, and the rhythms that once sustained you begin to slip? In this episode, we step into a deeply personal season as Blaque Nubon and his wife Lilly Million open up about the r
The Danger Of Assuming You Are Marriage Material | Kgosi Rankhumise
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[S3] EPISODE 13: YOU'RE NOT LIVING IN A MOVIE
Can you step into the tension between who you are, who you have been, and who you are becoming, and all this, in the presence of one woman who sees it all?
Today, we explore the disorienting, yet sacred, moment when marriage asks us to consolidate every version of o
Most Men Get Married Without the Support of Other Men | Mandla Makhubela
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[S3] EPISODE 12: DOES MARRIAGE REALLY CHANGE US?
In this episode, the conversation moves into the sacred, often unspoken spaces that shape a man. What begins as a chance connection unfolds into a deeply human story of love, loss, and becoming. Through the weight of grief, losing a mother in the uncertainty of a
Co-Parenting After Finding Love Again, And Overcoming My Secret Depression | DJ Xtremme
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[S3] EPISODE 11: BROKEN BUT NOT FINISHED
In this episode, we sit down with DJ Xtreme, a husband, father, and radio personality, for a conversation about failure, redemption, and the difficult road back to the life you once imagined. What begins as a story about relationships quickly becomes something deeper: an
Setting Boundaries: How I Support My Family But Not At The Expanse Of My Wife | Rhangani Mbhalati
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[S3] EPISODE 10: WHAT'S YOUR LEGACY?
In this episode, we sit down with Rhangani Mbhalati, a husband, father, and chartered accountant, for a conversation that traces a journey from deep adversity to intentio
A Baby Before Marriage, Leading In Church & Money Struggles: Why I'd Still Marry Young | Gift Maseko
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[S3] EPISODE 9: A WARNING FOR YOUR EGO
In this episode, we sit down with Gift Maseko, a husband, father of two, and pastor of Jesus Every Church, for a conversation about integrity, accountability, and the quiet work of becoming the kind of man your family can trust. What begins as a story about ministry quickly b
What A Man Loses And Gains When He Stops Living For Himself And Commits To Love | DJ SabbyDJ Sabby
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[S3] EPISODE 8: PRESENT ON PURPOSE
In this episode, we sit down with DJ Sabby for a conversation that moves far beyond the spotlight and into the soul of a husband and father. Known to many as a confident voice on air and a vibrant public personality, Sabby opens up about the man behind the mic - the young boy
Signing A Pre-Nup Doesn't Mean You're Preparing For A Divorce | Tebello Motshwane
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S3] EPISODE 7: A WAKE UP CALL
This month, we intentionally create space for wives' voices, not to replace ours, but to enrich them. Because sometimes the greatest insight a husband can receive is hearing how he is seen, supported, and celebrated from across the table.
In this episode, we sit with Tebello Motshw
Why Softness Feels Unsafe For Powerful Wives | Mpoomy Ledwaba
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[S3] EPISODE 6: I'M SECURE ENOUGH TO SUBMIT
This month, we intentionally create space for wives' voices, not to replace ours, but to enrich them. Because sometimes the greatest insight a husband can receive is hearing how he is seen, supported, and celebrated from across the table.
In this episode, we sit with
I Became The Wife I Was Trained To Be, But Not The Wife He Needed | Mosili Pebane
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[S3] EPISODE 5: WHAT I LEARNED TOO LATE
This Valentine’s season, That Husband Podcast flips the script. Instead of centering romance as something men must perform, we pause to ask a quieter, braver question: how are husbands celebrated, seen, and honoured? In this special episode, Blaque sit across the table no
When A Wife's Love Becomes Lazy Without Her Noticing | Buli Makhubo
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[S3] EPISODE 4: MARRIAGE ON AUTOPILOT
This Valentine’s season, That Husband Podcast flips the script. Instead of centering romance around wives alone, this episode creates space to ask a powerful and often overlooked question: how do wives intentionally celebrate and honour their husbands? In this conversation,
How We Decided To Get Married When We Hit Rock Bottom | Simphiwe Petros
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[S3] EPISODE 3: TRUST GOD OR STAY STUCK
Sitting across the table is a husband who understands that love is not about perfection, but about choosing to show up again and again, especially when you fall short. Together, we reflect on what it means to love sacrificially, to race to the back of the line, and to emb
(Re-upload) Why Are Married Christians Still Struggling With Sex? | Themba Tom Ntuli
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[S3] EPISODE 2: HAVE WE DEMONISED A GOOD THING?
In this episode, we slow the noise down and step into a conversation many husbands carry quietly but rarely articulate. What does connection really mean, not just physically, but spiritually, emotionally, and relationally? Through honest reflection and lived experi
Can A Man Lead Even When His Wife Disagrees? | Pastor Martin Mgiba
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[S3] EPISODE 1: BEING THE HEAD IS COSTLY
This episode is a conversation between husbands who are still learning what it truly means to be married. We reflect on how many of us entered marriage well-intentioned but underprepared, carrying single-life rhythms, unchecked assumptions, and a shallow understanding of
What Happens When Men Stop Pretending & Tell The Truth? | Penson Mlotshwa, DJ Sabby & Zweli Dube
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[S2] EPISODE 47: THE GROOTMAN'S TABLE
In this episode, we sit down for a real and honest conversation about masculinity, what it means today, how society defines it, and how men actually experience it. Instead of reacting to loud cultural narratives, we slow things down and look at masculinity through the lens
I Risked Everything to Become the Man I’m Meant to Be — And She Had to Trust Me | Mosa Nyamande
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[S2] EPISODE 46: YOU CAN LEVEL UP
This episode is about the real journey of becoming men who refuse to settle for comfort when growth is calling. We dive into the moments that break us open, the decisions that reshape our identity, and the brave, often painful process of letting go of the boy so that the man ca
Do Women Really Want Men To Speak? Most Of Us Learn Manhood From Our Mother's Wounds | Dany Vambili
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[S2] EPISODE 45: HEARING A MAN
In this episode, we journey into the inner world of husbands who are trying to grow, heal, and show up better than the men who raised them. Danny joins Blaque for a deeply transparent conversation about the complexities of manhood, the weight of provision, and the quiet battles me
A Husband’s Wake Up Call: Why Presence Is the Strongest Form of Protection | Tokoloho TK Mokale
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[S2] EPISODE 44: REDEFINING PRESENCE
In this episode, we sit down for one of our most honest and soul-stirring conversations yet. TK opens up about his journey as a husband and father in a way that feels both familiar and deeply challenging as he reflects on what it means to grow into the kind of man who prote
Before the Country Shutdown, Let’s Talk, Man To Man | Blaque Nubon
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[S2] EPISODE 43: THE SHUT DOWN
There are moments when a nation’s wounds demand more than words, they demand repentance and resolve. In this episode, I step into one of South Africa’s most urgent conversations, gender-based violence and the purple wave spreading across our country. What may look like a trend on s
Loving My Wife the Way My Father Loved My Mother Is Not As Easy As I Thought | Tumelo Sox Semenya
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[S2] EPISODE 43: THE WEIGHT OF ROLE MODELS
In this deeply reflective conversation, Blaque Nubon sits down with Tumelo, a husband molded by faith, shaped by his father, and stretched by love, to talk about what it really means to become the man your family can lean on. From the illusion of potential to the reali
Facing Infertility, My Secret Brother, And The Fight To Not Become My Father - Gregory Cassim
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[S2] EPISODE 42: WHEN FAITH IS TESTED
Marriage will test every part of a man, not to break him, but to reveal what’s real. In this episode of That Husband Podcast, Blaque sits down with Gregory Cassim for a raw, redemptive, and deeply personal conversation about fatherhood, faith, and the long road from brokenn
When One Spouse Wins & The Other Feels Stuck: Friendship, Mother Wounds & Success | Luxolo Kentane
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[S2] EPISODE 41: INTENTIONAL BUILDING BLOCKS
Marriage isn’t for the fainthearted, it’s for men who are willing to die to self so that love can live. In this episode of That Husband Podcast, Blaque sits down with Luxolo Kentane for a brutally honest and beautifully redemptive conversation about what it truly means
New Baby, Unmarried, Unemployed & Evicted. Face To Face With The Man I've Become | Tebogo Maribe
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[S2] EPISODE 40: COMMITMENT
In this week's episode, we sit down with Tebogo Maribe, a husband, father, and man who has walked through seasons of loss, rebuilding, and redemption. From the sting of unemployment to the tension of wanting to provide but being unable to, Tebza opens up about the realities many husba
I Paid Lobola With My First Pay Cheque, Got Married, Then Buried My Sister a Week Later | Papi Luu
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[S2] EPISODE 39: MARRIAGE REALITIES
In this episode of That Husband Podcast, Blaque Nubon sits down with husband, father, and community builder Papi Luu, a man whose story is as real as it is inspiring. From humble beginnings on a sleeper couch to leading an organization that’s transforming lives, Papi’s journe
The Truth About Male Vulnerability No One Wants to Hear | Blaque Nubon
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[S2] EPISODE 38: VULNERABILITY vs TRANSPARENCY
In this episode, we tackle one of the most misunderstood concepts in today’s culture: vulnerability. Men are constantly told that “real strength is being vulnerable,” but what happens when that vulnerability is offered in unsafe places? Instead of healing, it often
The Husband I Say Am VS The Husband She Actually Lives With | Lilly Million + Blaque Nubon
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[S2] EPISODE 36: PULL BACK THE CURTAINS
In this special Heritage Day edition, the conversation turns inward. For the first time in a while, we are joined by my wife, Lilly not just as a guest, but as a partner who lives the very realities this podcast speaks about. Together, we open up about the weight and beaut
Divorce Often Starts With An Unready Husband | Themba Tom Ntuli, DJ Magbe Magabaza, Jabu Zwane
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[S2] EPISODE 35: HUSBAND PREPARATION
Marriage has a way of waking us up to realities we never imagined. Many of us stepped into it unprepared, thinking love and good intentions would be enough, only to collide with the weightiness of responsibility, our hidden wounds, and the expectations we never knew we carrie
What Lust Is Doing To You As A Husband: The Conversation No One Is having | Jabu Zwane
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[S2] EPISODE 34: THE MAN IN THE MIRRIOR
In this episode, we dive deep into one of the greatest battles men face: lust. But not in the way you might think. We go beyond the surface to uncover the hidden longings, unmet desires, and unresolved wounds that quietly shape how we live, love, and lead in our marriages.
What Happens When a Man Loves Right, With No Fear & No Apologies | Una Rams
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[S2] EPISODE 33: COMMITMENT IS A DAILY CHOICE
Marriage is more than a title, it’s a daily decision to show up, to love, and to choose each other through the highs and lows. In this episode of That Husband Podcast, we sit down with Una Rams, not just as the artist you know, but as a husband and father who opens up
I Got Married Without My Family’s Blessing: The Hard Truth I Learned at 21 | Kutlwano Ditsele
Marriage is never just about two people, it’s also about the families and histories that stand behind them. But what happens when those families refuse to stand with you? In this episode we dive into the raw and often painful reality of marrying without your family’s blessing. From the quiet heartbreak of parents who withhold support, to the courage it takes to lead your own household when the cro
When Serving The Church Almost Destroyed My Marriage | Allan.P
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[S2] EPISODE 31: GOD'S WORK vs GOD'S DAUGHTER
Marriage isn’t just about love stories and Instagram moments, it’s about the daily choice to show up, sacrifice, and sometimes die to self for the sake of the one you vowed to cherish. In this episode, we sit down with Allan.P to talk about what husbandhood really looks like when
How I Went From Leading Bible Study to Getting A Girl Pregnant | Ofentse Moerane
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[S2] EPISODE 30: MAKING THINGS RIGHT
"Nine years ago, a single phone call during Bible Study changed everything. My then-girlfriend’s trembling voice told me she was pregnant. In that moment, the future we had imagined shifted completely. What followed wasn’t just a test of faith, it was a test of love, responsibility, and r
What’s The Point Of Winning At Work While You're Destroying Your Home? | Ezekiel Nkotsoe
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[S2] EPISODE 29: ALTAR OF AMBITION
In this episode, we sit down with Ezekiel Nkotsoe, seven months into marriage and already confronted with the question most men never dare to ask: "Am I idolizing success at the expense of my wife?" Ezekiel shares how his obsession with performance, numbers, and being “the best” collided he
Divorce, Loss, Hitting Rock Bottom - My Struggle To Provide For My Family | Caskey Ndaba
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[S2] EPISODE 28: DON'T LEAVE A MESS BEHIND
What happens when the baton is passed to us and we’re not ready to carry it? In this conversation with the incredibly grounded and eloquent Caskey Ndaba, we talk about what it means to become the uncles, the fathers, the leaders we once looked up to. From drafting a will to defining
Why Getting Married In Your 30's Doesn't Make You More Ready | Sbu Dube
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[S2] EPISODE 27: CALLED TO BE PRESENT, NOT PERFECT!
This week we sit down with Sbu Dube, for a heartfelt conversation where he opens up about the sacred moment he chose to love not just his wife, but her child too. He shares the weighty but beautiful decision of stepping into marriage with intention, not as a rescue plan, bu
The Danger Of Marrying Someone Who Can't Handle You | Tshepo Hlongwane
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[S2] EPISODE 26: BE THE HUSBAND YOU ENVISIONED
What does it mean to be a husband in a world that’s constantly shifting its standards? In this episode, we sit with Tshepo Hlongwane, not just to talk about marriage, but to reflect on the weight and wonder of this sacred calling. From the lessons of mentorship, the quiet streng
I Hid My Pain So I Wouldn't Look Weak: The Price Men Pay To Pretend We're Okay | Alvin Fredericks
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[S2] EPISODE 25: FROM PAIN TO PROMISE
In this episode, we sit with Alvin Fredericks of @thetruedadventurer a husband, father, and faithful follower of Christ, who walks us through a raw, heartbreaking, and ultimately redemptive journey through 5 miscarriages depression, spiritual wrestling, and healing. This isn’t just a s
Young, Broke, And Married: Why I Started A Family At 22 | Shaun Mahlangu
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[S2] EPISODE 24: YOUNG, MARRIED & FIGURING IT OUT
What happens when your faith, finances, and fatherhood all collide? In this honest and soul-stirring episode, we sit down with Shaun Mahlangu, a husband, father of three, and creative content creator, who opens up about the raw reality of becoming a husband at 22 and navi
Failed Engagement, Giving Up My Apartment: The Pressure To Marry Almost Broke Me | Justin Henry
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[S2] EPISODE 23: MARRIAGE IDOLATRY
What happens when a man decides to rewrite his story of marriage? In this raw and heartfelt episode, Justin Henry sits across the table to unpack the emotional weight of growing up in a father-absent home, idolising marriage, and healing through it. He shares how he once tried to outrun the
Cheated On, Broken & Finding Real Love – How Friendship Opened Up My Heart Again | Tebogo Mphohle
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[S2] EPISODE 22: FRIEND-ZONE IN MARRIAGE
"Marriage isn’t hard—what’s hard is pretending to love someone you don’t even like." In this episode, we unpack what it truly means for a husband to be friends with his wife. Our guest, Tebogo Mphohle opens up about how friendship in marriage isn't just a bonus, it’s a lifeline. He
I Asked Her To Trust Me, But I Didn’t Realise How Costly It Would Be | Sihle Xulu
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[S2] EPISODE 21: OUR CONVICTION & FAMILY VISION
In this soul-stirring episode of That Husband Podcast, Blaque Nubon sits down with Pastor and friend Sihle Xulu for a conversation that feels less like an interview and more like a mirror—reflecting the quiet weight many husbands carry but rarely speak of. From moving provin
Asking My Wife To Live With My Mom Wasn't About Control: The Truth Of "Ukukotiza" | Ayanda Buthelezi
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[S2] EPISODE 20: BREAKING THE IN-LAW STIGMA
What happens when culture, marriage, and modern masculinity collide? In this deeply personal episode, we sit down with Ayanda Buthelezi to unpack the often misunderstood practice of "Ukukotiza." In this traditional Nguni custom, a new bride spends time with her in-laws to learn the r
She Was Fed Up With Church Boys, Then God Interrupted Her With Me | Kevin Makhubo
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[S2] EPISODE 19: DIVINE PLOT TWIST
Sitting across from Blaque Nubon is Kevin Makhubo—a husband, father, and man of God, who opens up about his journey from rejecting the idea of marriage to becoming a husband defined by love and sacrifice. His reflections are not polished soundbites but raw truths, soaked in years of wrestling
Saying Vows Was Easy - Walking In Love, Honesty & Regret For 43 Years Is Something Else | The Gules
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[S2] EPISODE 18: IT’S NOT MAGIC, IT’S MAINTENANCE
In this deeply personal episode, we sit down with Drs. Jerry and Gugu Gule, a couple whose love story spans more than 43 years of marriage. From a chance encounter in a university book queue to decades of shared life, the Gules offer a rare glimpse into a covenant marked by fr
Stop Chasing, Just Commit – What I Keep Learning From Loving a Good Woman | Bonko Khoza
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[S2] EPISODE 17: SHE GAVE ME FREEDOM TO FIND MY VOICE
In this episode, we sit down with the incredibly thoughtful and grounded Bonko Khoza — not just as an actor, but as a husband, father, and man who continues to wrestle honestly with what it means to show up for the people he loves. This is a conversation between husbands f
A Shack, A Secret & A Dream: She Stayed Even With A Leaking Roof - Jacob Msipha
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[S2] EPISODE 16: HOW FAR ARE YOU WILLING TO GO?
In this episode, we sit down with Pastor Jacob Msipha, a man whose 20-year journey through marriage and ministry defies the odds and dismantles the myths. From building a church in a leaking shack to nurturing a vibrant home, Pastor Jacob opens up about the grace, grit, and visio
I Was A Christian Leader, Then I Got Her Pregnant - Lebohang Mohoera (fixed audio)
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[S2] EPISODE 15: REALITY CHECK!
In this raw and soul-baring episode, we sit down with Lebo—a young man, a youth leader, a soon-to-be husband—who opens up about the most sobering season of his life. From preaching on the streets, to falling in love with a woman he dreamed of marrying, Lebo takes us through a journey marked by c
I Want To Do Marriage Right, But No One Is Showing Men How - Manelisi Mdaka
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[S2] EPISODE 14: MARRIAGE GATEKEEPERS
I sat across the table from a man who's about to get married in four months—and what followed was one of the most honest conversations I've ever had on this podcast. He didn’t come with clichés or curated answers. He came with questions. Real ones. The kind that strip the fantasy from marr
Broke, Two Babies & Getting Evicted: How Rock Bottom Built My Marriage - Lindo Zindela
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[S2] EPISODE 13: MARRIED BROKE, BUILD RICH
What does it mean to be a “present man” in a world pulling you in every direction? In this heart-stirring episode of That Husband Podcast, we sit down with Lindo ( @TheZindelas ) husband, father, and creative force—whose story is as sobering as it is inspiring. From a bachelor pad
9 Years Sober, 2 Months Married - Hope For The Broken Man - Codi van der Merwe
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[S2] EPISODE 12: RECOVERY HAS BROUGHT STRUCTURE TO MY LEADERSHIP
In this heartfelt and hilarious episode of That Husband Podcast, Blaque sits down with newlywed Codi van der Merwe—just two months into marriage but already deep in the thick of it. From garlic debates in the kitchen to learning how to simply sit and watch your w
The Lie Men Believe About Supporting Women (And the Truth You Need to Hear) - Jabu Zwane
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Read "The Success Women Want 2025 Report" by Momentum here - https://tinyurl.com/ypa5y5y9
[S2] EPISODE 10: WOMEN'S SUCCESS!
In a world where the numbers tell a sobering story, how can men step up to change the stats? Only 7% of women in South Africa believe that men actively enable their success, while financial constraints (
Do I Chase My Dreams or Secure My Family‘s Future? - Linde Sibanda
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[S2] EPISODE 9: A HUSBAND'S DILEMMA
In this heartfelt episode of That Husband Podcast, Blaque Nubon sits down with comedian and husband, Linde Sibanda @BallDropPodcast for a raw and insightful conversation about marriage, fatherhood, and the ever-evolving role of a man. From defining what it means to be a good husband t
When Life Doesn’t Go As Planned: Infertility, Faith Crisis, Adoption & Family Struggles - Sifiso Pule
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[S2] EPISODE 8: BATTLE TESTED
In this deeply personal and reflective episode, Sifiso Pule opens up about his 15-year journey in marriage, offering invaluable insights on love, commitment, and the lessons learned through adversity. From infertility struggles to adoption, and navigating tough times with humility and grace, he hi
The Lies You Were Told About Manhood (And Why It’s Costing You Your Marriage) - Dj Mgabe Magabaza
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Watch this episode with subtitles here https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WLUKgc6Nsx4&ab_channel=ThatHusbandPodcast
[S2] EPISODE 7: MISGUIDED MASCULINITY & HOW TO FIX IT
Growing up without a father leaves wounds that shape a man's view of himself, marriage, and fatherhood. Many men carry self-limiting beliefs rooted in
Your Marriage Can't Be A Graveyard For Your Wife's Dreams, Personality & Peace - Themba Tom Ntuli
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[S2] EPISODE 6: A PARTNER, NOT AN OWNER
What does it truly mean to be a husband? In this episode we sit down with Themba Tom Ntuli for an eye-opening conversation about the weight of marriage, the responsibility of leadership, and the art of drifting—how men often don't realize they’re slipping until they’ve fallen. We talk ab
How Would Your Marriage Change If You Saw Your Husband Differently? - Eleanor Nasasira
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[S2] EPISODE 5: THE "PERFECT HUSBAND" TRAP
In this episode, Blaque and Eleanor, take a moment to reflect on the often unseen pressures that husbands carry in their role as providers. Whether employed, underemployed, or unemployed, the weight of wanting to provide for their families can be suffocating. We discuss how wives can
My Divorce Woke Me Up: It Wasn’t Just My Husband’s Fault - Jabulile Mazibuko
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[S2] EPISODE 4: A SERIOUS WAKE-UP CALL
In this episode, Blaque sits with Jabulile of Men Speak With Jabulile who grew up believing that men were unreliable, untrustworthy, and ultimately dispensable in marriage. Raised by a feminist mother who lowered her expectations of men and was discipled by a divorced female pastor who un
Why I Couldn’t Fully Commit to My Husband for 5 Years - Lilly Million
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[S2] EPISODE 3: FEELING STUCK, FEELING LOST?
In this raw and honest episode, Blaque and Lilly dive deep into the complexities of marriage and personal growth. They reflect on the emotional struggles that can lie beneath the surface of everyday issues, like domestic chores, and how these seemingly small tasks often carry larger
Tell Your Wife Everything And Save Your Marriage! - Charlie
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[S2] EPISODE 2: YOU CAN NEVER BE TOO HONEST
In this episode, we explore the highs and lows of navigating marriage and faith as Charlie opens up about his journey of growth and intentionality in every area of life. From the struggles to the breakthroughs, his honest reflections on marriage highlight the importance of being in
70% of Divorces Are Caused by THIS One Thing—But It’s Fixable
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[S2] EPISODE 1: REPAIRABLE MISTAKE
Have you ever looked at those couples who seem to navigate life in perfect sync and wondered, “What’s their secret?” The truth is, it’s not magic—it’s intentional living. For so many of us in South Africa, where cultural diversity and unique challenges shape our relationships, this practice
What’s The Point If Marriages Are Just Doomed To Fail?
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[S1] EPISODE 41: WHEN IT'S ALL SAID AND DONE
In this reflective episode, we take a moment to celebrate the growth and journey we've experienced throughout this season. Looking back, we’re filled with gratitude for the incredible guests who joined us, sharing their wisdom and insights on everything from communication and vulne
