Daughters of Diaspora
Daughters of Diaspora is hosted by two African-Muslim sisters, Fatima and Khadijah, who share their perspectives on life in the West as daughters of immigrant parents. The podcast gives voice to diaspora experiences and discusses navigating adulthood, cultural expectations, relationships, careers, religion, and identity. Through their conversations, they aim to break down barriers and explore what it means to balance multiple cultures and communities.
Episodes
Ep.1- Learn your roots and love them
In this introductory episode, Fatima & Khadijah discuss cultural identity and language. The girls dive into life in Toronto and why it is necessary to be a "black Keren" sometimes.
Ep.2- Are you joking?... or are you a secret hater?
Welcome friends! In this episode, we dive into the topic of friendship. We discuss the importance of having good friends as well as getting rid of the "not so good ones". Brace yourselves, as we get vulnerable and emotional while reflecting on some of our own relationships and give a tribute to a late loved one who taught us a valuable lesson.
Ep.3- Preparing for the GREAT guest
Welcome back friends! On this episode we briefly go over the infamous RESSA TESSA Tik Tok series followed by a discussion on the struggles of observing our religion as muslims living in the West. We share our individual experiences with CHOOSING to be practising muslims and dive into the importance of preparing for the blessed month of Ramadan while sharing some tips on how to make the most of the
Ep.4- Betting on yourself and Making money on social media ft. YEMAYA
Salam our dear listeners. On this episode, DOD features its very first guest; Yemaya. J!!!! Yemaya walks us through her journey in becoming a social media Content Strategist and how she learned how to make money on social media. She shares how she went from living an average life in Toronto to now living her dream lifestyle in Dubai.
We hope you enjoy and learn something from this discussion jus
Ep.5- The unseen struggles of the first born ft. TATA
In this episode we welcome a very special guest.. our TATA (older sister)! The conversation explores Tata's journey in choosing a career path, facing pressure from family and society, juggling motherhood and education, breaking stigmas and finding success. We discuss the joy and importance of struggling, finding passion in work and the unseen struggles Tata faced as a first child. The episode is
Ep. 6-Diverting the path of a "typical" African woman ft. Fatou Jammeh
Ramadan Kareem dear listeners! In this week's episode, we sat down with Fatou Jammeh; a fellow Gambian-Canadian woman who shares her diverse professional experiences and her passion for women's causes. Our conversation explores cultural identity, challenges of returning to the home country, women's opportunities and expectations, upbringing and identity as a Gambian woman. It delves into the fear
Ep.7 - The gift of companionship | Part 1
In recognition of the Ramadan being the month of Quran, this week, we turned the mic to Fatima who shares her journey in becoming a hafidh of the Quran. The conversation starts with the rewards and challenges of studying the book of Allah and then explores Fatima's childhood and upbringing. She shares her love for competition, having excelled in sports and having a supportive family. We also learn
Ep.8- The gift of companionship | Part 2
n part 2, Fatima dives into her journey of memorizing the Quran and the challenges she faced along the way. She discusses the importance of community and the role of competition in motivating her to excel. Fatima reflects on the intense process of revision and the breakthrough moment when she finally mastered her lessons. She describes the daunting feeling of nearing completion and the emotions sh
Ep.9 "The defender of Women has passed away" ft Fatouma Jikineh Pt.1
This week’s episodes features Fatoumat Jikineh, who we had the honour of sitting down with back in March. She walks us through her journey of awakening and personal transformation which lead to her becoming a practising muslim and Niqabi. We talk about the expectations and pressure faced by individuals in the Muslim community, particularly in relation to dress and behaviour. The conversation explo
Ep.10 "The defender of Women has passed away" ft Fatouma Jikineh Pt.2
Picking up right where we left off…In part 2 Fatoumat dives into how life changed for her family when her father was diagnosed with cancer. Despite the difficult journey, the family remained hopeful and focused on supporting their father. Although she was busy with Nursing school, Fatoumat takes on the challenge of being comfort for not only her siblings but for her sick father in his last days. O
Ep.11- Lets play THE GAME
Welcome to episode 11!!! This week we aimed to provide you guys with a chilled/laid-back episode in which we hope you get to know a bit more about us (your co-hosts). To foster discussion, we read through conversation cards (THE GAME, by freshly grounded) in which we talk about what motivates us, things we grew to appreciate about our parents, some of our characteristics and attitudes as well as w
Ep. 12- We are all going through it.... (reading SRG dilemmas)
Salam friends! This week we introduced a new segment which includes reading dilemmas and providing advice. In this episode, we talk about a post made by Shaderoom Gambia. We discuss the importance of mental health and the challenges faced by individuals in the Gambian community when it comes to seeking support. We highlight the stigma surrounding mental health and the lack of understanding within
Bonus ep- The silent genocide in Sudan ft. The Jasmine Blossoms
WELCOME BACK FRIENDS!!! In recognition of the various atrocities happening in the world, we sought to bring you an episode that highlights one of the current genocides, specifically: Sudan. In this episode, we sat down with Yasmine, (known as The Jasmine Blossoms)- A young Sudanese-American, to discuss the war and genocide in Sudan. Our conversation starts with a comparison between Toronto and New
Ep 13. WE ARE BACK!!- 10 yrs together and no ring? sis RUN!
Salamualyakum beautiful friends! WE ARE BACK! Returning big and better- this chit-chat episode is quite different but it provides a bit more insight into our thoughts and personality. We start with a discussion on summer plans, the cost of living and the rise of emigration in Canada. Fatima then reflects on her fun trip to Dubai with our Mom and the chaotic safari experience she puts her mother th
Ep 15. Finding the right man, halal dating and haram relationships
Salam Salam!! In this weeks episode we talk about romantic relationships. Taking it from where it starts, we discuss the journey of finding a spouse, “halal dating”, creating boundaries and the importance of knowing oneself before settling down.
Ep 16. Is marriage really that hard or do we just give bad advice?
This week we bring you the final part of our introductory episodes to the relationships series. We continue the discussion of the marriage journey- picking up from the engagement stage. We touch on Muslim couples following modern engagement practices and the realities of “getting down on one knee” not constituting an actual engagement. We then move the conversation to getting cold feet and the ner
Ep 17. Thriving as a mom with autistic children ft. Nyima Drammeh
Today’s episode features Nyima Drammeh- a special needs advocate, wife, mother, student and travel enthusiast. As a co-founder of the Soni Autism Association, Nyima discusses her experience raising children with autism and advocating for special needs in her community. She shares her journey of accepting her children's diagnosis and fighting for their needs. Our discussion highlights the stigma su
Ep 18. Forgiveness, loyalty and parents role in sibiling conflicts
Asalamualaykum listeners! In this week's episode, we explore the challenges of forgiveness in sibling relationships and the role of parents in mediating conflicts. our discussion emphasizes the importance of setting boundaries and resolving issues directly with siblings, rather than relying on parents. We also highlight the reward of forgiveness in Islam and the need for open and honest communicat
Ep 19. A peek into the dynamics of our sisterhood ft. OUR SISTERS (TATA & MAYO)
Salam friends! This week's episode is a fun one! We invite our two other sisters to join us for an honest conversation about our relationship dynamics. We start on describing our roles in the family and how each of us feels we contribute to the “whole”. We touch on the close bond we share and each highlights what we appreciate about one another and our relationship. In being vulnerable, we discuss
Ep 20. Connecting with Allah: The key to spiritual and personal growth
Welcome Welcome friends! This week we have another exciting guest episode- this time, featuring Tik Tok content creator known as Ukhti Yassin. Our conversation explores the journey of building a connection with Allah, the challenges of adulthood, and the importance of knowledge and sincerity in faith. Yassin shares her personal experiences and reflections on worship and mercy, emphasizing that sel
Ep 21. Don't fall victim to seasonal depression, GET UP AND BE PRODUCTIVE!
GET UP!!!! Get ready for some laughs and a wake-up call. This episode is a chill (pun intended) discussion on a variety of things but most importantly on seasonal depression. Our discussion starts with the importance of asking people how they truly are and being honest about our feelings. We then touch on the weather change and how seasonal blues usually start kicking in around this time of year.
Ep 22. Struggling with loneliness, isolation and how to benefit from these times
Salamualykum friends! Have you ever questioned why you felt lonely or disconnected from people you were familiar with?, isolated in a room full of people or just sadness for unexplainable reasons? Well, you are definitely not alone as many of us can relate! This week we dive into the complexities of feeling loneliness in adulthood. We both reflect on times we have dealt with such feelings and how
Ep. 23 - Don't come to MY WEDDING dressed in hoodies and tracksuits!!!
As we enter wedding season, are you preparing to celebrate in style? Join us for a vibrant discussion about our cultural traditions, colourful attire, and joyous celebrations!!! Tune in our light hearted discussion as we list things we dislike about African/ Gambian weddings.
Ep 24. Hijab is a journey but let's be honest.
Asalamualykum friends! we are excited to bring you this week's episode; which is focused on the topic of Hijab. We backpacked on the last episode starting with the struggles of maintaining the concealment of our beauty by keeping the hijab on during our weddings. In being honest, we acknowledge that Hijab can be a sensitive topic for many but we aimed to be brutally honest in this discussion about
Ep 25. Comparison is the thief of joy
This week, we started our episode with a mini mental dump. Fatima opens up about how she's been feeling and turning to overspending for instant gratification. Khadijah also shares her take on how overspending makes her feel and how she's been managing and practising self-control. The conversation then moves to both of us sharing how the year 2024 was transformative for us individually. We discuss
Ep 26. You die in the way that you lived
Salam friends!
In this episode, we steered into a discussion about the blessed month of Ramadan and how we feel about it being so near. Our conversation starts with acknowledgment of recent news we have received regarding the deaths of people around us, and the sad reality that none of us are promised to witness another Ramadan. The bulk of our discussion circles around death and how we can prepar
Ep 27. A love for Christianity which led to Islam ft. Aalia Reeves
In this episode of the DOD Podcast, we engage in a heartfelt conversation with Alia Reeves, exploring her journey of self-discovery, her transition to Islam, and the challenges she faced as a black sheep in her family. Alia shares her experiences growing up in a Christian household, her struggles with identity, and how her faith has shaped her confidence and worldview. In our discussion, Aalia giv
Ep 28. No matter the hurt, LET IT GO!
Salam and Ramadan Mubarak!
As promised, we are here with a short and sweet episode for the month of Ramadan (with an important announcement at the end). We start off on a discussion about how blessed we are to witness this month once again and what we hope to prioritize. The rest of the episode highlights forgiveness and the importance of seeking forgiveness amoungst one another as we aim to clea
Ep 29. Dear Allah.....
Welcome back to another episode friends! This week we have our guest co-host (listen to find out who), alongside Khadijah with a Ramadan reflection. They play a card game throughout the episode; asking each other questions about how to strengthen their relationship with Allah, their feelings in meeting Him SWT, the importance of balancing fear and hope and much more.
Ep 30. "My wife is not pretty but at least she can cook- Marriage advice
Asalamualykum wr wb friends. In this week's episode, we talk a whole lot of marriage!!!! With over a decade of experience, Tata drops many gems regarding what she's learned over the years. We discuss expectations vs. realities of marriage and the importance of not comparing relationships. There is lots to take from this episode so get ready to take notes and ENJOY!
Ep 31. To what extent should you have sabr (patience)?
In this week's episode, Khadijah and Tata sit down for a chit-chat to discuss lessons Tata has learned throughout the years. Tapping into her wisdom, Tata advises Khadijah on the importance of sabr (patience) and how she's changed her mentality to help her forgive those around her and move on from things that have hurt her. They also talk about how sabr can look like in different relationships and
Ep 32. Fulfilling the rights of others
This week we welcome back Fatima!!! Coming back from her time off, Fatima talks about how her time off was and the things she has been reflecting on. Our conversation steers into the obligation of fulfilling the rights of those in our lives and building quality relationships.
Ep 33. The best days of the year is here!
In this episode we talk about the blessed 10 days of Dhul-Hajj- the virtues, Islamic significance and how we have benefited from the duas we made during this time. In an emotional conversation, we share how we have each connected with the day of Arafah and remind ourselves of the importance of really locking in and fixating on dua.
We Hope you enjoy! And if so, PLEASE leave a rating and don’t fo
Ep 34. Lets talk MONEY! ft. Finance Girlie
In this episode of the DOD Podcast, Fatimah J, a financial coach, shares her journey from studying psychology to helping Muslim women manage their finances. She emphasizes the importance of financial literacy, particularly from an Islamic perspective, and discusses the unique challenges women face in financial management. The conversation covers essential principles of budgeting, debt management,
Ep 35. Gossipping- The hotter the tea, the hotter the burn
Welcome back to another episode! This week we talk about spilling and sipping The Tea (GOSSIP). Although we all fall into it at some point, we reflect on ways to avoid it and things to watch out for in someone who loves to gossip.
Ep 36. Cheating: The ultimate betrayal.
Hello dear listeners! In this episode we talk about the sour topic of CHEATING! We start our discussion on the Tea app and the uproar it has caused on social media. We then dive into dissecting what it means to cheat, whether its forgiveable, cultural normalization and whether you can trust someone who has cheated in the past.
Ep 37. Jongoma & Jongue culture
The art of seduction. In this episode, we discuss the terms jongoma and jongue as how we understand the Senegambians to use it. We share our concerns with how male-centric jongue culture is and how there needs to be a focus on women's pleasure as well. We also talk about the need to increase education for both men and women in preparation for marriage to ensure they can properly cater to one anoth
Ep 38. Cultural weekend RECAP & will tribalism ever end (even in the diaspora)?
In this week's episode, we give a recap on the recent Gambian Cultural weekend festivities in Toronto. We reflect on our favourite moments, things we enjoyed and areas that can be improved. We also touch on the importance of having such cultural events as the diaspora community as it brings opportunity for education. Additionally, we touch on the fine line between being proud of one's heritage an
Ep 39. Polygamy unpacked: why some women reject it, while others embrace it.
This week we discuss POLGAMY! We start by the sharing a bit of islamic perspective on the matter and the conditions it was once praticed during the time of the Prophet SAW. We then get into why polygamy has become sour and used as a weapon rather than “the sunnah,” in which many claim to be following. Additionally, we talk about the potential repercussions of having multiple wives and how that can
Ep 40: They’re Not Just Kids—They’re People with Boundaries
*********TRIGGER WARNING: topics such as sexual assault, harassment and bullying are discussed in this episode.
BACK TO SCHOOL IS HERE!! As some of us buckle up for another school year, we start our conversation reflecting on the change in routine upon us and the blues that come with summer holidays ending. We then dive into child safety and the concern we have with school systems failing to be s
Ep 41. Thought dump: "It's really not THAT serious
Welcome back listeners. This week is just as the title states: a thought dump. We discuss a few things from self sabotage, our connection with Allah, and dealing with emotions.
ENJOY!
Ep 42. A Burden or Blessing? Being Your Parents' Retirement Plan'
You ever feel like you're stuck between having to figure out your own financial path and wanting to build generational wealth , while navigating the cultural expectation of taking care of your parents? In episode 42 we dig into this discussion which has become quite the hot topic on social media. We share our thoughts on breaking generational poverty, financing the lives of those back home and the
Ep 43. Repairing and Cherishing our bond: A Sisters Reunion
Salams everyone! We are back with another episode featuring MAYO and TATA; our lovely sisters. In this deeply honest and heartfelt episode, we unpack our relationship- where we were last year (link for episode is below), how we've grown, and how we see each other now. We get emotional talking about the good we'd want others to remember if one of us were gone, along with sharing ways we can be bett
Ep 44. Hot Takes: Chivalry is Gone, Matcha is Gross & Even Fruit Ain't Sweet Anymore
Salam friends!
This episode is from the DOD archives- recorded back in October. We sat for a chaotic but hilarious episode in which we give our hot takes on a variety of topics. We start by calling out people who pretend to come from the "ghetto" despite a middle-class upbringing. We then joke about the mysterious disappearance of men's Adam's apples, and reflecting on whether chivalry and femin
Ep 45. Ignorance Isn't Bliss: What We Avoid Learning Will Testify AGAINST Us
In this episode, we reflect on the comfort of avoiding Islamic knowledge and the false belief that ignorance is bliss. We discuss the shame associated with neglecting secular studies in contrast to the Deen, the fairness of Allah’s judgment for lives lived in disobedience, and why more time would not have changed hearts that chose comfort over growth. We also touch on cultural dynamics—particularl
Ep 46. What We've Been Up To: Bride Season and Becoming Better
KHADIJAH IS A BRIIIIIDEE!! This week we give you guys a peak into what we have been busy doing to end 2025; which mostly consisted of celebrating Khadijah's marriage. We talk about her bridal shower, planning and afterthoughts of how the event went. We then dig into lessons we took from the past year and how we are seeking to become better versions of ourselves.
We hope you enjoy listening and P
Ep 47. The Gambia Chronicles: Preserving Tradition (Manyo ya), Poor Resturant Service & Persistent Police
In this episode, Khadijah shares her experience becoming a Jahanka bride, walking us through the traditions and rituals that shaped her wedding day. The conversation then expands into everyday realities in The Gambia — from disappointing restaurant service and a struggling hospitality industry to persistent police bribery and why tipping waiters no longer feels justified, especially in the West.
Ep 48. Colonized Minds, Colourism & Entitled Living
THOWBACK! This episode is from the archives. We unpack the uncomfortable truths shaping our generation—from the basic life skills many were never taught, to the deeper issues of entitlement, colourism, and identity. We explore how broken value systems—at home and across societies—have fueled gender tensions, inflated egos, and internalized self-hate, especially within Africans. We share our though
Ep 49. No More Victim Mentality: Reclaim Your Life
In this episode, we share our perspectives on how we deal with difficult circumstances in life, and it becomes clear that we’re both at different stages in our journeys. Khadijah opens up about struggling to stay motivated and find the brighter side of things at times. Meanwhile, Fatima shares her belief that life is ultimately what you make of it, and that we each need to take more control of our
Ep 50. The Advice You Need In Your Early 20s
Salam Everyone! This episode is just as the title states; we give some advice for those in their early 20s- but really all can be applied to whichever chapter in life you are in.
ENJOY AND DONT FORGET TO GIVE US A RATING.
Ep 51. Navigating the Hyphen: Gambian-(Diasporan) Identity and Self-Discovery ft. Bintou Barrow
In this episode, we are joined by Bintou Barrow — a community powerhouse, trusted resource, and former Consulate of The Gambia in Canada. As a proud Gambian-Canadian, Bintou has dedicated herself to community work and to amplifying the voices of Gambians in spaces where we are often underrepresented, all while striving to create meaningful impact and walk in her purpose.
In this heartfelt convers
Ep 52. It's Your Birthday, Not a Federal Holiday
In this episode, we question the expectations surrounding birthdays and why they've become such a performance. From lengthy birthday tributes and social media posts to the idea that your birthday should be treated like a national holiday, we discuss why we think birthday culture has gotten a little out of hand. We also dive into the debate around children's sleepovers, sharing our thoughts on why
Ep 53. FIFA World Cup: I Finally Got My Dad Into The Stadium
Twenty years ago, our father walked away from the gates of a stadium he helped build. This year, we walked back in together for the World Cup. A full circle moment that only Allah could've orchestrated so perfectly. But this episode isn't really about football entirely. It's about a promise that took 20 years to fulfill, a stadium that holds more memories than most people will ever know, and why s
Ep 54. Overthinking, Being Decisive & When Plan B Is to Get Back To Plan A
This week, we talk about Fatima's decisiveness and how passionate she is about MANY things. Khadijah shares her struggles with losing interest in things often and how overthinking can be mentally draining.
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DOD is hosting its very first in-person event and you are all invited.
Interhouse Sports Day is AUG 22, 2026. Check out our IG/TT page for flyer and de
Ep 55. Random Thoughts; Everything Is Fake & Why Are People BAD?
This episode is a little all over the place—in the best way possible. We chat about feeling overwhelmed by life and wanting to take a step back to reset. We unpack how social media sells a version of reality that rarely exists, and why reality TV isn't as real as it seems. We also get into the darker side of human nature, how easy it is to forget that everyone is fighting battles we can't see, and
Ep 56. So.... We Hosted a Sports Day, Now Let's Talk About It
We’re recapping our very first Interhouse Sports Day! From the planning and preparation to the chaos, competition, unexpected moments, and everything in between—we’re taking you behind the scenes of what it really took to bring the day to life. Was it worth it? Would we do it again? Let’s talk about it.
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Special mention of Vendors from Sports Day (IG handles)
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Ep 57. Lights Are Out and Gambians Are Tired....How Can The Diaspora Help?!
In this episode, we start our conversation on a little debate showing up properly for our kids—even for the school drop-off and pickup. We then move on to the important conversation about current situation in The Gambia- How the people are suffering and crying for lasting change. We talk about what it means to live comfortably in the diaspora while our people back home continue to struggle—and th
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