
Girl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship Stories
Girl Boner Radio is a podcast hosted by journalist August McLaughlin that explores sexual empowerment, pleasure and relationships. Each episode blends personal stories with in-depth reporting and interviews with a range of voices and experts. The show is LGBTQIA+ friendly and welcomes all genders. It aims to reduce shame and spark honest conversation about sex, intimacy and wellbeing.
Episodes

Kinky Co-creation and Steamy Power Exchange
Emma Velicky grew up in an evangelical community and was drawn to kinky narratives from early on. Eireann Shells and her partner engage in 24/7 dominance/submission play. Both women now inspire kinky fun for others through their creations. Check out Saturday Box: https://saturdaybox.com/ Check out The Adventures of Waverly Goode on Amazon, and Best Women's Erotica, Volume 10 most anywhere b

A Sexual Awakening at a Gay Men's Retreat
Mike De Socio had embraced his gay identity when he started yearning for something beyond his monogamous relationship. A galvanizing decision later, he attended a gay men's retreat that would change everything. Learn more and sign up for Mike's newsletter: https://finocchio.mikedesocio.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=girlbonerradio Join the Girl Boner community and get

Libido Challenges and an Erotic Awakening - summer replay
Mariah Freya grew up feeling pretty comfortable about bodies. Then her teens brought rockiness that stood in the way of her sexual empowerment. After years of off-and-on low libido in adulthood, she encountered a workshop that changed…everything. Mariah's sexual awakening set her on a path of spicy exploration and eventually to co-founding Beducated. Learn more about Beducated here. Sign up for A

A Spicy, Enlightening Orgasm Journey - summer replay
Women's sexuality educator Jordan D'Nelle went from not realizing orgasms were a thing or possible with a partner to finding orgasmic bliss in incredible ways and places. Her steamiest experiences taught her a ton about sex, pleasure and her body – lessons she pays forward. Originally released in January, 2024 Learn more from Jordan: https://jordandnelle.com IG: @GirlBonerMedia TikTok: @GirlB

Don't Make It Worse
A teaser for August's friend Makenzie's new podcast, Don't Make It Worse! Check it out wherever you listen or at the link below.

Multiple Orgasm Tips, Myths, and Stories - summer replay
Lala didn't realize she could experience one orgasm, much less multiple, until she had the "best sex [of her] life" with her now husband – so why aren't serial Os her favorite? Lora found her way to multiple Os using one of the most popular sex toys among women. Yuval and Court are proof that O after O isn't just a "female experience." In this Girl Boner episode, you'll hear these stories plus rel

Turning Herself On, For Real - summer replay
When Rena Martine found herself feeling burnt out in her career as a sex crimes Deputy District Attorney and unable to stay faithful in her monogamous relationships, she knew something needed to change. Epiphanies about both life areas changed just about everything for the better. In addition to Rena's story, you'll learn a powerful practice for turning yourself on – one that's especially helpf

Savvy Sex Rituals + Her 2 Loves
Ageless sexuality expert, Joan Price, speaks about her early sexual self-discovery, two incredible loves, and the rituals that keep her sex life with her current partner going strong. Learn more from Joan: https://joanprice.com Sign up for August's free email list for occasional updates: https://substack.com/@augustmclaughlin IG: @GirlBonerMedia FB: @MyGirlBoner TT:: @augustmclaughlin.gb

Incredible True Orgasm Stories from the Archives
Get your Beducated pleasure map: https://beduc.at/pd2622-august Some of our favorite orgasm stories, shared at an event co-hosted by Sex-Positive Los Angeles in 2023.Highlights include: A brussels sprouts-gasm Before and after menopause climaxes A first orgasm after years of sex-phobia The sexiness of "messiness" and safe exploration Leaning into your intuition for more pleasure What donuts and

An Orgasm in Exam Room #2: Her Post-Divorce Awakening
Get your Beducated pleasure map: https://beduc.at/pd2619-august Karen Bigman's divorce led to a sexual awakening that changed her life. Much of it started with an orgasm in an exam room. Learn more about Karen and listen to her podcast, Taboo to Truth: https://www.taboototruth.com/podcast Sign up for August's free email list for occasional updates: https://substack.com/@augustmclaughlin I

A Sexy Kiss on Camera: Exploring Her Queerness
Get your Beducated pleasure map: https://beduc.at/pd2618-august Cat had an unexpected sexual awakening while working in a sex positive, female-gaze-centered environment. Eager to delve into exploration, she came up with a film idea that took a sexy turn and revealed a lot about her identity. Check out Ersties: https://ersties.com/ Sign up for August's free email list for occasional updates

Pleasure (Behind Pain) and Orgasmic Living
Take the Beducated pleasure quiz: https://beduc.at/pd2616-august Suzannah Weiss went through sexual and chronic health challenges, finding pleasure and determination on the other side. She wrote a book called Eve's Blessing: Uncovering the Lost Pleasure Behind Female Pain. And she wants everyone, especially women and gender diverse folks, to find pleasure and lead orgasmic lives. Order Eve's

A Powerful Breathgasm and Psychedelic Healing
Get your Beducated pleasure roadmap: https://beducate.me/pd2614-august Dr. Nicole grew up immersed in Christian purity culture. Later, while she was exploring her queerness and non-monogamy, an intense solo sex experience profoundly impacted her life. Hear her story, then get her top wisdom for more expansive intimate and erotic experiences. Check out Modern Anarchy and download free resour

Her Incredible Longing and Culty Experience
Take the Beducated pleasure quiz: https://beducate.me/pd2611-august A lifetime of longing led Blair Glaser to Siddha Yoga, a movement and community that would later be revealed as a high-control group. The experience impacted her sense of self, her sexuality, and more. Complexities and all, it also brought her healing. Blair Glaser's book, This Incredible Longing: https://www.blairglaser.co

Would Polyamory Save Her Marriage?
Courtney Boyer grew up in the Evangelical Christian community, where she learned that sex is not to be talked about and only to be shared with a husband. She thought sex would be wonderful once she got married. Instead, she grappled with shame and confusion. Yearnings for something more, something outside of her monogamous marriage, led to a journey that would transform everything. Coutney's mem

Orgasmic Surprises: Switching Things Up and Body Lessons in a Bathroom (replay)
Writer, performer and producer, Judy Calabrese took a chance on being a switch and ended up gaining far more pleasure than she'd anticipated. Certified sex educator and sex worker, Elle Stanger, learned something new about her body during an impromptu experience in a gay bar bathroom. Topics you'll hear about: Dominatrix work and BDSM as a newbie Erotic spanking Squirting, aka "she-jaculati

Sex Magic, Vibe Adventures, and Keeping it Sexy
Intuitive and astrologist Madi Murphy grew up with mixed messages about sex and sexuality. A major crossroads in her life, during her Saturn Return, put her on the path to more connected and vibrant sexuality, sensuality, romance, and daily life. Today she's a mother of two and she and her husband intentionally keep their sexy spark alive. They've also had some hilarious adventures… Madi is offeri

Crossing the 'Gasm Chasm + an Hour-Long O - replay
Can orgasms make or break a relationship? Learning to make sex pleasurable (for her) helped save Susan Bratton's marriage and sex life. A toxic relationship led Emmi Fortin to her lengthiest climax, and kept her stuck on a poor-fit partner. You'll also learn: How to experience hot, breakup-level sex without the heartache Clitoris tips for maximum bliss Why Emmi decided to openly write a

Not-So-Secret, Naughty or Nice, and WTF Blood?! Awkward Sex and Dating Surprises
Unexpected visitors, a "super nice" guy, mysterious blood! We're wrapping this Girl Boner year up with awkward sex and dating surprises featuring voices you may recognize. Keep listening after the stories for a special bonus. August's friend and colleague, Susanna Brisk, a certified sex educator and sexual intuitive, joined her to chat about the stories. They touched on everything from exhibitioni

Differing Desires and Higher Notes of Love - replay
John Kim and Vanessa Bennett are therapists and coauthors of, It's Not Me, It's You: Break the Blame Cycle. Relationship Better. They're also a couple, who met at a time when neither was anticipating life-changing love. Learn how the pair came together, what made the start of their relationship rocky, how they navigate desire differences and what they want us all to know about relationships – all

A Shocking Wakeup Call and Getting Intimate with Stress
Dr. Rebecca Heiss received a phone call that made her question – and change – virtually everything about her life. Learn how she applied her research as a stress physiologist, how it all impacted her intimate life, and her top advice for better navigating (and even benefitting from) stress. Springboard, by Dr. Rebecca Heiss: https://www.amazon.com/Springboard-Transform-Stress-Work-You/dp/164687

Becoming a Cyclical Woman: Would it Save Her Relationship?
Stefanie Adler was young and in love when her mood swings and emotional outbursts threatened her relationship with her partner. Would a major health decision make a difference? Learn more about Stefanie Adler and her offerings: https://www.instagram.com/stefanieadlerwellness/ https://www.stefanieadler.com For an inclusive guide to birth control, check out chapter 10 of August's Girl Boner book o

365 Days of Orgasms: Annette Benedetti
Early on, Annette Benedetti learned that it's normal for women not to have orgasms during sex. And then, for years into adulthood, she didn't. After a marriage and raising a daughter, she felt disconnected from her sensual self. Spicy exploration and a tipsy, New Year's Eve proclamation led her to a vow that would change her life – and her pleasure experiences – for good. Check out her coaching of

Her Joyful Foursome: Susan Bratton
Susan Bratton has had a lot of spicy adventures over the years. Recently, sex with her three partners, including her new girlfriend, seemed like a worthy new adventure. Some smart planning and practices helped make her first foursome with her polycule joyful, meaningful, and fun. Learn more from intimacy expert, Susan Bratton: https://susanbratton.com Download her free ebook: dirtytalkbook.com S

Widow's Fire and Sober Sex: Nicky Wake
At age 50, Nicky Wake realized she'd never had sober sex. Leading up to that, heartbreak and grief (and related rock bottoms) prompted her to get into rehab. Now polyamorous and sober, Nicky is thriving – and hopes she's a living example for others in terms of growth, healing and joy after loss. Nikky's apps: https://www.chapter2dating.app Widowsfire.dating sober.love.app Learn more from Rachael

Sex, Intimacy and Neurodivergent Women: Emily, Kat and Rachael
Dysregulation during sex made early intimacy challenging for Emily Zawadzki and her now wife – until a diagnosis changed everything. Kat's Asperger's made romantic relationships tricky, until she met her wife. Rachael Rose navigates polyamory as an ADHD person, and sees how her drive for dopamine and lack of a sense of time ("time blindness") affects sex and dating. Download Emily's free workboo

Awkward Sex and Dating Confessions - Summer Replay (4:4)
August is joined by friend and colleague, Makenzie Mizell, to discuss times they made sex or dating experiences awkward. You'll also hear about listeners' "OMG" dates and Makenzie's latest (and spicy!) ventures. Topics touched on include bodily functions, a gay 'ol pickup line, a myth about female sexuality and male desires and more! (Originally released in November, 2022.) Learn more about Mak

Sex When You Don't Feel Like It, with Cyndi Darnell - Summer Replay 3:4
Did you know that horniness is one of hundreds of reasons folks feel motivated to have sex? It's not even the most common. Understanding your own desire, and what sex and relationship therapist, Cyndi Darnell, calls your erotic template, can help you cultivate an erotically charged sex life – whether you're single or partnered. (Originally released in July, 2022) Learn more from Cyndi: https:/

What's Your Erotic Blueprint? – Summer Replay 2:4
Jessie Fresh was in her early 20s when she realized that silence was her main sex educator. After a mid-coital wakeup call and two relationships—one with sexual chemistry, one with only emotional sparks—she sought ways to cultivate the richer relationships and sexual experiences she desired. Discovering the Erotic Blueprints changed everything for her. And they may do the same for you. (Origin

A Sexy Midlife Awakening – Summer Replay
Jade Chang Sheppard was nearing 40 when she started wondering if she was living life to the fullest, including sexually. Was monogamy really her best option? Was she actually bi? Or kinky? What was group sex like? Rather than seeing the exploration and life changes that followed as a crisis or breakdown, she's embraced it all as a revolution. This episode, the first of four summer replays while

G-Spot Sex Toy Stories + Tips: Ebony and Deborah
Ebony Mystique shifted from a medical career to starring in adult films, where she used a vibrator for the first time. Deborah Kagan went "on a mission" to find her G-spot, using a special toy. More from Ebony: https://hoo.be/ebonymystique More from Deborah: https://deborahkagan.co IG: @GirlBonerMedia FB: @MyGirlBoner TT:: @augustmclaughlin.gb augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner patreon.co

Wild Breakup Stories: Suzannah and Zachary
Suzannah Weiss had a psychic reading that made her wonder if the sex mishap she and her soon-to-be ex experienced was predestined. Zachary Zane went through a breakup that changed his approach to relationships. His next one brought heartache in a shocking way. Suzannah's' books: https://suzannahweiss.com/book Zachary's book: https://www.zacharyzane.com/books Check out the latest specials at t

Choosing (Hotter) Monogamy: Dr. Diane Mueller
Dr. Diane Mueller traded sexual pain for pleasure, then explored polyamory twice before reclaiming monogamy in a sexier, more intentional way. After her story, hear her top tips for spicing up a monogamous (or any long term) relationship. Learn more about Dr. Diane Mueller and take her libido quiz at libidocode.com. Join her hot and modern monogamy club or get her free e-book at hotterlife.com.

Sex-Positive Celibacy and a Self-Wedding: Lilith, Lea and Makenzie
Lilith Foxx and Lea Levi are sexuality experts whose journeys started with a lot of silence and shaming around sex and led to both spicy exploration and celibacy. After a rocky dating history, podcast producer, Makenzie Mizell, married herself. This episode briefly mentions intimate partner/domestic violence and touches on the feminist 4B movement. Listen after the outro music for a funny BTS stor

Discovering Her Kink Identities: Darshana Avila
What if there are parts of your sexuality just waiting to be untapped? Can kink and spirituality coexist? Answering these questions for herself changed Darshana Avila's life. Always precocious, Darshana explored her sexuality from early on. After a "very vanilla" marriage and a spiritual awakening, she delved into kink. As she sought more from sex, she learned a lot about her desires and her iden

Shared Orgasm and Fisting Firsts: Spring Fling Replay
Suzannah Weiss was already writing about sex and relationships when she began a mission to experience orgasm during partnered sex. Judy Calabrese never expected to go down a lust-filled path with her doula—but sometimes, things…happen. (Originally released in 2022.) Learn more from both women: suzannahweiss.com judycalabrese.com The Big Book of Orgasms, Volume 2 (Cleis Press), edited by Rachel Kr

(Very) Orgasmic without Trying: Susan Morgan Taylor
Susan Morgan Taylor was always a very sexual person, but shame and a lack of pleasure education stood in the way. After a sexless marriage, several epiphanies and a very surprising phone call changed everything. Learn more about Susan Morgan Taylor and her retreats at pathwaytopleasure.com. Get her free resource, The Pleasure Keys Ebook, at pleasurekeys.com. Check out the latest specials at theple

Steamy and Fun Power Exchange: Domina Mara and Eireann Shells
One Dominant partner, one submissive, and a whole lot of spicy fun. Domina Mara and her pup, and Eireann Shells and her partner, engage in kinky D/s play in very different ways. Learn how Mara and her pup delight in their Dominant/butler-like relationship, and how Eireann cultivated a 24/7 power exchange dynamic with her crossdressing Daddy. Eireann's sexy stories: The Adventures of Waverly Goo

Finding Sexual Authenticity: Ayce Kyptyn
Ayce Kyptyn grew up in a conservative Christian environment, where he struggled to embrace his true self. When depression followed a major life change, he knew he needed support. Working with a therapist and then a sex coach helped change everything, shedding light on his desires and much more. Then he had another awakening during an erotic massage. Learn more about Ayce: https://www.aycekyptyn.c

Mid-20s "Virgin" to Phone Sex Operator: April Would
Writer April Would felt shame for being a virgin in young adulthood. When she realized her relationship with her "first time" partner wouldn't last, April questioned a lot of what they'd learned about sex and their own desires. Eventually, April delved into sex work and audio erotica, which brought even more epiphanies – and more chances to work through shame. Check out April's story in Best Women

Fruit Loop Orgasms and Sexy Confidence: Lachi
Globally touring recording artist, Lachi, wasn't sure what orgasms were when she left the U.S. for boarding school overseas. After exploring her sexuality for a while, she realized what Big Os really entail. That awakening set the stage for greater confidence, in and outside of the bedroom. In addition to Lachi's story, you'll get her top tips for cultivating confidence and feeling sexy. More fro

A Fun, Sexy Game! updated replay
Five years ago, a group of friends gathered with August in the Girl Boner Radio studio to play You Don't Know My Life. They shared spicy, funny, embaraassing, and touching stories from their lives. You'll hear about puberty mishaps, awkward kisses, sexy exploration, unforgettable dates and more. Listen, enjoy, and play along! This episode features: Erin Tillman https://erintillman.com IG: @dating

A Green-Eyed Orgasm: Dr. Joli Hamilton
What if jealousy isn't a monster after all? Dr. Joli Hamilton had built a career studying and helping others navigate jealousy when her own "green eyes" impacted her sexuality in ways she'd never imagined. You'll also hear about Joli's sexual self-discovery journey, an epiphany during her first marriage that changed everything, and her top advice for anyone struggling with jealousy -- whether you

The Affair (Amid Purity Culture) They Don't Regret: Julia and Jeremiah
Both Julia and Jeremiah grew up in religious communities, where sexuality, affairs and divorce were deeply stigmatized. Their journeys shed light on the importance of context around infidelity and the role evangelical ideas and purity culture play in all of these things. Today, Julia and Jeremiah are certified sex therapists and co-hosts of the podcast, Evangelicals. Learn more at https://www.se

Glimmer to Spark to Bonfire: Chris Maxwell Rose
Somatic sex educator, Chris Maxwell Rose, was leading a rich, full life when a sudden medical crisis threatened their life. Eroticism, care from others and, eventually, self-care, saved them. Hear Charlotte Mia Rose's story in the previous episode. Chris and Charlotte are co-founders of pleasuremechanics.com. Check out their courses, including Mindful Sex, here! Access your FREE Listening t

Rediscovering Her Eroticism: Charlotte Mia Rose
Charlotte Mia Rose felt connected to her eroticism from early on. It remained a huge part of her life and identity into adulthood, when she met her life and work partner, Chris. A year after having a baby, Charlotte's world changed when she became a triple caretaker. And for the first time, she felt an erotic disconnect. Learn how Charlotte found her way back, what she learned through the proce

Dark Spaces, Sexploration and Self-Worth: Ginelle and Nancy Jo
Ginelle Testa sought connection in chat rooms as a kid, which led her to webcam for coins and validation. Nancy Jo Sales was "very sexualized" in childhood, too, then experienced common and related challenges while using dating apps as a middle-aged woman. Both women wrote powerful memoirs about their experiences – Ginelle's with addiction and seeking belonging; Nancy Jo's with online dating. An

Turning Herself On, for Real: Rena Martine
When Rena Martine found herself feeling burnt out in her career as a sex crimes Deputy District Attorney and unable to stay faithful in her monogamous relationships, she knew something needed to change. Epiphanies about both life areas changed just about everything for the better. In addition to Rena's story, you'll learn a powerful practice for turning yourself on – one that's especially helpf

From Sexual "Purity" to Freedom and Self-Love: Mattie Jo and Amber
Mattie Jo Cowsert and Amber Cantorna-Wylde grew up entrenched in purity culture, which impacted their relationship to sex, pleasure, and themselves profoundly. Their rocky paths to freedom shed light on the powerful role sexual self-discovery can play in our lives and relationships. This episode touches on: Childhood trauma Masturbation and self-pleasure Ways purity culture harms women, men a

Masculine/Feminine Stereotypes and Being True to Yourself: Suzannah Weiss
Suzannah Weiss learned to loathe her body during adolescence. After high school, a positive hookup experience helped her realize why, and set her on a path of sexual self-discovery with her pleasure and needs at the center. Learn about her journey, including standout sex-related experiences — such as a BodySex workshop and orgasmic meditation — plus the ideas around sex and gender that felt off

"OMG" Body Stories: Renee, Nora and Niba – replay
Solo play, spicy bits, and…releasing! Renee Powers, Nora and Niba of The Feminist Book Club community, reveal unforgettable dating and sex experiences in which bodies surprised them. August recommends a sexy product in honor of each story. The stories in this episode were originally released in September, 2019. Stay tuned next month for brand new stories! Explore the latest specials at theple

When Sex Got Super Woo-Woo: Alicia and Magda
When Alicia Davon went upstairs with her now husband, six months into their relationship, she knew they'd have a great time. But she didn't expect the his and hers spiritual experience that unfolded. Magda Kay was part of a conscious community (one she'd later recognize as a cult) when two transcendent sexual experiences blew her mind. Hear their true stories, plus related advice. More from Alicia

Exploring Sex and Living in a Body: Dr. Carol Queen
Carol Queen, Phd, was like the Nancy Drew of sex early on, exploring her way to answers through years of trial and error. Her curiosities and exploration led to extraordinary experiences, including self-pleasuring on stage before 4,000 people. And she wants everyone to know the importance of living in our beautiful bodies with integrity. Get The Sex & Pleasure Book: Good Vibrations Guide to Grea

"OMG" Stories: Squirting Out, Stuck Inside and Mind Games
Discovering squirting, a misplaced squirt, a misplaced condom and some trippy mind games… This "OMG" round of Girl Boner sex and relationship stories features: Lala, of Lala's Bedtime Tales Nicoletta Heidegger, LMFT, of Sluts and Scholars Makenzie Mizell, media producer Carly, of Aurore And August Check out Afternoon Delight: https://nazanin-moali.mykajabi.com/offers/ESbAz2o5/checkout Explor

What's Going on With Her Libido: Jean Franzblau
Jean Franzblau was enjoying a loving relationship and her intimacy and platonic touch-based career when she noticed a dramatic change in her libido. Where had her robust desire gone? Her journey to finding the answers – and solutions – took her to surprising places. Learn more about Jean and My Mother Doesn't Know I'm Kinky: mymotherdoesntknow.com jeanfranzblau.com youtube.com/@CuddleSanctuary c

Two Frenchmen in One Day + Sharing Sexy Stories
Carly Pifer's creative field research about sex and dating surprised her by becoming super sizzling for herself. Her intimate interviews overseas led to steamy romps, including sex with two very different Frenchmen in one day. Once Carly's study was over, current events prompted her to want to celebrate positive sexual experiences. She's been on a mission ever since. Check out Aurore at readauro

Infidelity Recovery: Q&A with Dr. Talal Alsaleem
Dr. Talal Alsaleem is an award-winning infidelity recovery expert who's on a mission to teach clients and counselors how to use the trauma of affairs to establish, rediscover and maintain healthy relationships. In this bonus for Jennifer's story (parts one and two), August talks to Dr. Talal. You'll hear his thoughts about working with Jennifer and Adam, risk factors for cheating and betrayal, pil

After Her Affairs: Jennifer, Part 2
Continuing Jennifer's story from the last Girl Boner Radio episode, you'll hear how Adam reacted when she returned from her intensive therapy program, what happened in their relationship post infidelity and how they've both found healing. This episode touches on childhood trauma and abuse. Please take care while listening. ACE childhood trauma quiz Dr. Talal's books Explore the latest sp

Untangling Her Affairs: Jennifer, Part 1
Jennifer had built a successful career and a happy family life when she became deeply involved in infidelity. While the first affair ended rather quickly, the second led down a path she couldn't have imagined. This episode touches on childhood trauma, abuse and cheating. Please take care while listening. ACE childhood trauma quiz Explore the latest specials at The Pleasure Chest! IG: @GirlB

Hotwifing and Finding Love: Casey Donatello
What "kind of woman" gets into threesomes and gang bangs? Do "good girls" even grow up to enjoy sex? These questions once lived in Casey Donatello's mind. Little could she have imagined she'd one day delve into the swinger's community and hotwifing. Today the sex-positivity advocate is passionate about play she once considered taboo and "dirty." Casey is equally passionate about busting related st

Back to Her Body: Pamela Madsen
Pamela Madsen was a happily married mother of two with a successful career when she felt drawn to an erotic experience that made her jaw (and clothes) drop. The experience launched a life-changing journey of sexual exploration that continues today — her "nutrition," as she calls it. Some of the topics you'll hear about: Sexological bodywork and massage Erotic self-pleasure trans states Incongruen

Multiple Orgasms: Stories, Tips and Myths (Busted)
Lala didn't realize she could experience one orgasm, much less multiple, until she had the "best sex [of her] life" with her now husband – so why aren't serial Os her favorite? Lora found her way to multiple Os using one of the most popular sex toys among women. (The same didn't work for August...) And Yuval and Court are proof that O after O isn't just a "female experience." In this Girl Boner ep

A Sex Therapy Confession that Changed Everything: Leah Carey
For years, Leah Carey felt equal parts shut down and obsessed re: sex. Meanwhile, she chose terrible partners. Then in her 40s, during her final session with a therapist, she revealed a long held sexual secret. Leah's admission marked the start of what would become an across-the-country sexual awakening adventure. She eventually landed on desires that surprised her and began transforming her life

Hot Sex From a Distance + Dirty Talk Tips
EF Dodd dated a guy from a distance in pre-FaceTime days. Jenay had a relationship that started in Idaho and ended with him overseas. And both women found ways to keep things spicy, challenges and all. (And yes, dirty talk played an important role!) This episode also features Dr. Megan Fleming's thoughts for a listener who feels uncomfortable, yet curious, about dirty talk, and August's favorite t

A Spicy, Enlightening Orgasm Journey: Jordan D'Nelle
Women's sexuality educator Jordan D'Nelle went from not realizing orgasms were a thing or possible with a partner to finding orgasmic bliss in incredible ways and places. Her steamiest experiences taught her a ton about sex, pleasure and her body – lessons she pays forward. Learn more from Jordan: https://jordandnelle.com Register for Afternoon Delight here! Explore the latest specials at Th

Life-Changing Sexual Awakenings: Lynn and August
Can an orgasm change your life? Is it ever too late to invite a sexual awakening? As a special wrap up to the year, August shares a conversation she had with colleague and friend, Lynn Brown Rosenberg, at the Residence 11 Desire Summit in Los Angeles. Register for Afternoon Delight (with early bird pricing) here! Order Lynn's memoir, My Sexual Awakening at 70 on Amazon. Explore The Pleasure C

Kinky Surrender, Sexy Reclamation and Squirting: Replay (and a special invite!)
Intimacy coach Lee Noto didn't realize she'd been longing for surrender until a crush turned into far more. Author Liz Asch fell away from her queer expression, then gradually reclaimed it. And that growth led to more than squirting. Yes, this week's Girl Boner replay is a juicy one… You'll also hear about Afternoon Delight – a live, interactive podcast event August is co-hosting with three wond

Body Acceptance, Lust and Romance at Sea: Jennifer Silva Redmond
When Jennifer Silva Redmond asked her fiancé, Russel, "What would you do if you could do anything?," his response and the decision that followed changed the course of their lives. Since then, she's learned a great deal about intimacy, sex, her body and herself while living and loving at sea. You'll also learn: How Jennifer's hippy-like upbringing made bodies okay (at first) The impact LA's act

"Ho Phases" and D&S Play: Jenay and Court
Jenay Leger and Court Vox have had different sexual self-discovery journeys with powerful common threads — including an illuminating ho-phase. Learn what their spicy escapades revealed about their desires and kinks, plus tips for making the most of your own sexual exploration. You'll also learn a simple way to play with power dynamics in a relationship, how Dominant and Submissive (D&S) experi

Sex Clubs, Kink and Discovering Something Deeper: Yuval Mann
Yuval Mann is an erotic intelligence mentor who helps people use their sexual expression as "a vehicle of individual and collective evolution." Early on, though, he was barely allowed to interact with girls, much less embrace his sexual desires. His journey from the Israeli army to the global fetish and kink scene taught him about pleasure, intimacy and so much more. You'll hear about: His sex

Adventures in Polyamory and Open Relationships: Dr. Joy
Long before Dr. Joy became a groundbreaking relationship expert, she gleaned harmful messages about sëxuality. Her journey into ethical non-monogamy and polyamory shed light on important truths, while invited lesson-rich challenges and benefits she continues to cherish. Today Joy helps others cultivate authentic, pleasure-rich lives and relationships, no matter the style. And her work continues

Igniting Love/Lust After 40: Treva and CK
Treva Brandon Scharf was in her early 40s when she set her sights on becoming a single mother. Little could she have anticipated what would unfold in her fertility journey, from spicy escapades to frustrating challenges – much less the major love life shift that would follow. After CK Love learned of a partner's betrayal, she set out on a journey to connect with her sensual self — something she

Blindsided on the Way to Lasting Pleasure: Alana and Krystal
Alana McKenzie Page was stunned when a surprise, supposed-to-be-sexy date turned out to be...very much not. Krystal Casey realized that the very thing she strove to protect her kids had entered her home. Both women found their way from blindsiding challenges to immense pleasure and fulfillment – in and outside of the bedroom. This episode touches on a few difficult topics, with mentions of abuse

Libido Challenges and an Erotic Awakening: Mariah Freya
Mariah Freya grew up feeling pretty comfortable about bodies. Then her teens brought rockiness that stood in the way of her sexual empowerment. After years of off-and-on low libido in adulthood, she encountered a workshop that changed…everything. Mariah's sexual awakening set her on a path of spicy exploration and eventually to co-founding Beducated. Save 25% at Beducated here. Check out The Plea

Fetishism, Roleplay and Stability Kinks: Arielle Greenberg
Arielle Greenberg realized very early on that her sexuality didn't match up with the masses. Her story sheds light on what it means to be a fetishist, the erotic potential of roleplaying, what a "stability fetish" involves, myths about kinky folks and more! You'll also hear about Arielle's new book, Superfreaks: Kink Pleasure and The Pursuit of Happiness. Check out The Pleasure Chest's latest sp

Love Bombing, Energetic Sex and Thinking Off - "best of" replay!
A seemingly perfect date gone very wrong, powerful sex that involved no nakedness or penetration and a listener question on hands-free orgasms! A few things you'll learn about in the episode: Why we need to take care of ourselves after breakups The importance of feeling, rather than ignoring, our feelings The importance of feeling in your body, aka embodiment A simple breathing/energetic

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Imagine being raised by a father who was nicknamed the "king of porn." Now imagine that it's the 1970s, and your dad attracts attention from the FBI because of his renowned and very spicy filmmaking. Perhaps too much for many of us to imagine… But for Gerard Damiano Jr., it's a walk down memory lane. Gerard Damiano Sr's film, Deep Throat, is the most famous adult film of all time – one known

Embracing Sex at 35: Joe's Story
Joe was in his mid-30s when he had sex for the first time, while working through his fears with a surrogate partner. That healing work opened the door to not only sexual pleasure and romance, but to surprising benefits throughout his life. This episode touches on eating disorders. Please take care while listening. Interested in appearing in Joe's upcoming podcast, Pan Talk? Send an email to: pa

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Author Elisa Magagna (E.C. Stilson) was once exorcised for having premarital sex, admid a spree of harmful messages. Since then, she's learned to embrace her sexuality and pleasure of many kinds – through a journey that's involved time as a homeless street musician, having five kids, finding true love and, a most recently, navigating a terminal illness. Elisa's story sheds light on ways to mana
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