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That Other Lifestyle - A Lifestyle Swinger Podcast

That Other Lifestyle - A Lifestyle Swinger Podcast

Jayson Lee 110 Episodes Sep 18, 2026

That Other Lifestyle is a podcast about the swinger lifestyle, sharing the good, bad, ugly, and weird sides of the experience. Host Jayson Lee offers practical advice for navigating the complex world of being a swinger. Episodes aim to help listeners understand and handle the ups and downs of this alternative lifestyle community.

Episodes

The Myth of the Perfect Four‑Way: Why Symmetry Fails
The Myth of the Perfect Four‑Way: Why Symmetry Fails Sep 18, 2026 2179 Host Jason breaks down the elusive “four-way connection” in the swinger lifestyle, exploring why attraction rarely lines up perfectly, how mismatch and unequal intensity happen, and why honesty, boundaries, and consent matter more than chasing symmetry. Practical tips on communicating expectations, avoiding “take one for the team,” preserving friendship when sexual dynamics change, and embracing r
I hate Vibes
I hate Vibes Aug 21, 2026 1821 Good morning/afternoon/evening — Jason returns with big news: his novel Room 322 is available for pre-order. He rails against the word “vibes,” urging clear, direct communication about attraction, intention, and consent in the lifestyle, shares personal stories, and explains why precision matters. He also announces upcoming events (Back-to-School takeover, Pulsify, Sultry Spirits), Patreon perks,
Unchosen: The Episode Six Months in the Making
Unchosen: The Episode Six Months in the Making Jul 24, 2026 1919 Host Jason explores the complicated emotional terrain that follows rejection in non-monogamous and group-sex settings, examining consent, boundaries, and the personal histories we bring into play. This episode unpacks how being "unchosen" can cut deeper than the act itself, why clean takeaways rarely exist in the lifestyle, and how to honor autonomy while managing real feelings.     Check out my P
Chat Groups: Attention with Receipts
Chat Groups: Attention with Receipts Jul 10, 2026 1936 Jason returns from a brief break with personal updates and an anecdote about how constant phone notifications inspired a deep look at group chats in the lifestyle community. He explores how chat groups connect people between events, help newcomers, and coordinate logistics, while also amplifying drama, FOMO, and privacy risks. Topics include admin dynamics, etiquette for introductions and DMs, cou
Naked at Midnight: How to Travel With Your Lifestyle Tribe
Naked at Midnight: How to Travel With Your Lifestyle Tribe Jun 19, 2026 1985 Join host Jason as he recounts a barefoot, late-night nudist-resort weekend and offers practical, no-nonsense advice for traveling with lifestyle friends — from choosing venues and managing invites to respecting rules, consent, and logistics. Learn tips on sleeping arrangements, food, decompression, policing the group, keep non-lifestyle guests in mind, and how to leave a space better than you fou
Hotel Takeovers & Rave Nights: Inside Risqué Lifestyle Parties
Hotel Takeovers & Rave Nights: Inside Risqué Lifestyle Parties Jun 4, 2026 2236 Host Jason breaks down what makes hotel takeovers special — loud music, costumes, vetted communities, and the mix of party energy and safety that Risqué events bring. He previews upcoming events (Back to School, Pulsify on the beach, and Sultry Spirits in New Orleans), shares practical tips for booking, pacing yourself, and setting expectations, and explains why these gatherings matter to the life
What happens after Sh*t happens?
What happens after Sh*t happens? May 28, 2026 1920 This episode peels back the glamour of the lifestyle and explores what happens when dates go sideways—illness, intoxication, jealousy, cancelled plans, and the emotional fallout that follows. Jason offers practical advice on stabilizing crises, communicating and repairing relationships, setting boundaries, and giving grace while holding people accountable so the community can handle setbacks with
Stereotypes
Stereotypes May 14, 2026 2091 Host Jason digs into the stigma, stereotypes, and private struggles of people in the swinging and non-monogamous communities. Through candid stories and a frank, adult perspective, he explores why many in the lifestyle bite their tongues around vanilla friends, the misconceptions spread by outsiders, and the internal issues the community must confront. Expect blunt honesty, real talk about consent
Strange Rooms
Strange Rooms May 7, 2026 2060 A late-night, first-person account of a Luminous hotel takeover where neon lights, shamanic play, and EDM create a modern ritual. The host reflects on the yearning for community, welcoming newcomers, the highs and burnout of living loudly in the lifestyle, and the quiet meaning found in small acts of belonging. Check out my Patreon Buy me a cup of coffee!   My links: www.thatotherlifestyle.com htt
Lights, Consent, Action: Making Sex Tapes in the Lifestyle
Lights, Consent, Action: Making Sex Tapes in the Lifestyle Apr 30, 2026 1941 Jason breaks down the realities of making sex tapes in the lifestyle, focusing on consent, trust, and the risks of recording intimate moments. The episode offers clear, practical advice: when and how to ask, who should film, storage and privacy considerations, and what to do if someone later revokes permission.   Check out my Patreon Buy me a cup of coffee!   My links: www.thatotherlifestyle.com h
I Dream of Arcadia — 100 Episodes of Lust, Loss, and Liberation
I Dream of Arcadia — 100 Episodes of Lust, Loss, and Liberation Apr 16, 2026 2177 Host Jason marks his 100th episode by exploring "Arcadia" — the intense, fleeting feeling of freedom, connection, and sexual abandon in the lifestyle. He reflects on addiction to the high, the pain of endings, and the rewards of deep friendships that let you return again and again. Jason also shares candid advice about consent and balance, announces upcoming events (Luminous and Sultry Spirits), a
Fur Coat
Fur Coat Apr 9, 2026 2091 Steve and Rebecca experience their first hotel lifestyle takeover, navigating nerves, rules, and the pulsing chaos of the ballroom. From awkward encounters and unwanted advances to supportive friends and tense choices, the night tests their boundaries and connection.   Check out my Patreon Buy me a cup of coffee!   My links: www.thatotherlifestyle.com https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle Single

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