Swing Theory
Swing Theory is a podcast about consensual non-monogamy, swinging, and kink, formerly known as The Kitchen Sink, ENM and Kink Podcast. Hosted by a trio, it shares personal stories, experiences, and lessons from over a decade in the lifestyle. Episodes mix spicy anecdotes with honest conversations about communication, connection, and community. The show aims to educate, entertain, and explore how non-monogamous lifestyles have evolved.
Episodes
EP 15: Balancing Kids, Kink, and Chaos: Throuple Check-In
After eight months off, the trio checks in about the real struggles of life — work, kids’ sports, distance and how it’s affected their non-monogamous dynamic. They talk candidly about communication lapses, sexual fulfillment, and the pressure that falls on one partner to keep everyone’s emotional and physical cups full.
They also share a steamy reconnection at a club (yes, picnic-table play during
Bodies & Boundaries: A Raw Talk on Weight, Confidence and Swinging
In episode 14, the hosts have an honest conversation about body image, rapid weight changes, and the emotional impact of medications and life stages. They discuss considering weight-loss shots, working on confidence, and how those shifts affect their relationships and swinging dynamics.
The episode also explores where the hosts feel most comfortable flirting—at events, work, or out in the “vanilla
Valentine’s Day, Grief & the Swinging Life — Can You Move On?
On Episode 13 of Swing Theory, hosts Pedro, Tink, and Tiffany share a candid Valentine’s Day weekend and dive into tough questions about love and loss in non-monogamy.
They discuss whether they would continue in the lifestyle after a partner’s death, how couples returning after a long hiatus should be treated, and how boundaries, communication, and grief shape their choices.
The episode wraps with
Ep 12: No Apologies: Queefs, Gags, and the Truth About Swinging
Pedro, Tink, and Tiffany get candid about the messy, hilarious, and intimate realities of sex—queefing, wetness, gagging, squirting, periods, and the awkward apologies that follow.
They then tackle the evolution of the swinger scene, debating how to meet people today, rising picky attitudes, and where genuine connection and play still happen, inviting listener feedback.
Ep 11: Jeans, Whiskey, and Insecurities: A Lifestyle Weekend Unpacked
The hosts recount an eventful kid‑free weekend exploring the swinging lifestyle: a long game night that broke the ice, late‑night play with a new couple, and a club night that mixed excitement with awkward moments.
The episode focuses on communication, handling insecurities, emotional debriefs after play, and how reconnecting as partners helped turn a risky weekend into a rewarding experience.
Ep 10: Boundaries, Betrayal, and Bounce Back: Inside a Swinging Throuple
Episode 10 of Swing Theory follows Pedro, Tink, and Tiffany as they unpack what happens when a woman in the lifestyle is told “no.” The hosts discuss boundaries, communication breakdowns, emotional fallout, and the new dynamics of being a throuple.
Through candid stories, therapy updates, and playful “most likely” games, the trio explores how trust, honesty, and clearer rules can help them rebuild
Ep 9: Same Roof, Separate Rooms: Navigating Limits and Club Safety
On episode 9 of Swing Theory, Pedro, Tink, and Tiffany dive into hard conversations about limits, boundaries, and emotional reactions within their throuple dynamic after a week of real-life complications.
They cover specific playroom rules—what is and isn’t acceptable (dirty talk, domination terms, bruises/hickeys, choking, hair pulling), the challenge of distance and solo play, and the difference
Ep 8: Swing Theory Returns: 2026 Wild Stories & New Year Desires
Pedro, Tink, and Tiffany are back for a candid 2026 kickoff episode. They recap holiday break, debate trends in the swinging lifestyle, and share what they want — from better apps and local meetups to more throuple recognition, bi-play acceptance, and affordable events.
The trio also swaps steamy play fantasies and plans, including MFM scenes, all-bi experiences, BDSM exploration, surprise encount
Forbidden Fridays: Office Hookups, Hot or Hazardous?
In Episode 7 of Swing Theory, Tink and Tiffany host a candid ladies-only conversation about taboo office hookups, the thrills and risks of kissing in the lifestyle, and how crossed boundaries compare to cheating. They unpack real experiences, safety (testing and condoms), and how communication keeps things sustainable.
The hosts also discuss a chaotic hotel bar crawl that damaged reputations, shar
Ep 6: Myths, Jealousy & Party Secrets from the Swinging Scene
Pedro, Tink, and Tiffany return for Episode 6 of Swing Theory to debate seasonal swinging, recap last week’s show, and unpack common vanilla assumptions about the lifestyle. The trio compares summer pool parties to winter hotel takeovers, discusses hot-wife/hot-husband dynamics, group play, and how jealousy and boundaries show up.
They also answer listener-style questions about unicorn hunting, cl
Ep 5: Ladies' Edition: Unfiltered Desires — What Bi Women Really Want
In Episode 5 of Swing Theory, Tink and Tiffany hold a ladies-only conversation about their preferences for male and female play partners, what turns them on and off, and how they navigate the swinging lifestyle.
They discuss size and vibes, labels like bisexual and unicorn (and even the term "mermaid"), spontaneous vs. planned play, house parties versus clubs and hotel takeovers, and finish with a
Ep 4: Throuple Tensions: When Swinging Stops Feeling Like Fun
Pedro, Tink, and Tiffany unpack the real challenges of non-monogamy after forming a throuple—frustration, jealousy, logistics, and how the swinger scene has shifted since COVID. They talk candidly about feeling sidelined, changing priorities, and the work of communicating boundaries and support.
By the end of the episode they outline a new plan: prioritizing couple play with enthusiastic cheerlead
Ep 3 Pt 2: From Doom-Scrolling to Double Play: Nine Naked Days at Paradise Lakes
Pedro, Tink, and Tiffany recount their chaotic week at Paradise Lakes Resort — from tense relationship conversations to unexpected sexual firsts, heavy poolside partying, and meeting new friends. The trio navigates communication breakdowns, playroom experiments, and the ups and downs of non-monogamy.
Highlights include honest talk about dynamics and testing, wild pool and play deck moments, multip
EP: 3 Travel Group Drama to Nudist Condos: Our Hedo Disaster Turnaround
In this episode the hosts unpack a cancelled Hedo trip after Hurricane Melissa, call out poor communication and refund problems with the event organizer, and explain how they scrambled for alternatives.
They recount booking Paradise Lakes as a last-minute replacement, describe the resort experience (fees, staff, play areas), and share personal stories from the week—including first-time play experi
EP 2: WTF HTO
On this weeks episode the trio talks about a recent hotel take over experience and the struggles we faced. Asking the questions of what is happening in the lifestyle, and how we can keep these dud's from happening.
New Show, Same Great Conversation
Welcome to Swing Theory! This is the first episode of our re-brand, where we will be focusing on the swinging lifestyle nearly 100% of the time. With A new co-host, our amazing girlfriend Tiffany. You can expect more in depth conversations, spicy stories and laughter.
Ep 103: Helping Friends and Spicy Stories
On this week’s episode, we go back to the basics of swinging 101 for newbies. Pedro helps a long time friend navigate the lifestyle with tips on how to interact with others and how to get okay happening. Tiff brings her perspective from being a unicorn and what she can sense from a couple with how they interact with each other.
We talk about the key points to keeping your relationship healthy so t
Ep 102: Bucket List $luts
On this week’s episode Tink has rejoined us to discuss our bucket list fantasies. Tiff’s fantasy is wild and crazy and full of possibilities yet could be hard to get all together. Pedro’s is getting the ultimate hot husband surprise, while Tink wants to cream-pied all over.
Tink asks the question many poly people struggle with and that is How was the one on one time? We discussed the missing of
Ep 101: Preferences, Equality, and Submission
n this weeks episode we are missing our beloved Tink, but Tiff and Pedro discuss preferences in the swing lifestyle and how there is a double standard with women having preferences versus men having preferences .
In our Poly segment Tiff talks equality in a throuple as the new addition to an existing relationship. Can equality be reached? Find out what she has to say and let us know on the Face
Ep 100: Our First Event As A Throuple
We can’t believe it but we hit 100 episodes! It landed perfectly for us to talk about our first hotel takeover as a throuple with our gf and new co-host Tiffany! All 3 of us recapped on our overall experience at Delco Degenerates 1st hotel takeover. There was lots of fun, amazing people, tons of vendors and activities.
We were surprised to have met some other swingers who happened to be poly as
Ep 99: Take Over Degenerates
This week Pedro, Tink and Tiff take a trip Delco in PA for the first ever Delco Degenerates hotel takeover. We sit down for a live round table discussion with Jeff and Jessica, The owners and operators of the Delco Degenerates in front of 60 of our closest friends.
Ep 98: You, You and Me, Now it's 3
Pedro and Tink got to have a special guest on our show today to discuss our surprise throuple formation. Miss Tiff, a previous unicorn in the swing lifestyle has made a connection with Pedro and wanted to play. During their conversation poly was brought up and it opened a whole new chapter for all of us.
As a throuple we discussed how we would like to continue being in the swing lifestyle together
Ep 97: Tis' The Season For Red Flags
On this week’s episode Pedro and Tink dive into swinging for newbies 101 and some red flags to avoid. We had a listener ask about what to look out for and we chose a few to start with such as single dudes and single females and the behaviors that you should be Leary of.
In our poly segment Tink brings up some of the issues that she finds on the dating apps and the lack of people reading bios.
Ep 96: Breaking Bare and WhooHaa Health
On our 96th episode (yes my bad, last week was 95) we discuss how we would handle if a condom breaks during the heat of the moment while playing with someone. We all want to be safe and always get tested but accidents like this still happen, it all comes down to how you handle it.
When it comes to our poly findings, I for one have noticed the pool is slim for my taste in women and even men (even
Ep 95: Who Got Stuffed?
On this week’s episode Pedro and Tink discuss coming back to the world of swinging on social media. We have noticed the use of anonymous posters again. (Of course that gets under pEdro’s skin and makes his blood boil). We have also seen a lot of new faces which is good but also comes with the baby steps of joining the lifestyle and that can make it tricky for the seasoned swingers to make connecti
Ep 94: Poly- A Beautiful Disaster Pt 2
In this weeks episode Pedro and Tink continue their discussions on Pedro’s relationship with his girlfriend and how things ended.
Ep 93: Poly- A Beautiful Disaster
We’re Back! It’s been 4 months since our last episode, we know that’s a long time. But life definitely happened to us. In this update episode we cover all the things that went down including you guessed it. A polyamory situation that we have dubbed the beautiful disaster. Check out this weeks episode if you want to hear how we lived and learned through a new poly experience.
Ep 92: Fan F*ck$ and Small Spaces
This week talk about meeting drivers Tink wants to bang and meeting up with fans who want to bang. Then we give a poly update about our girlfriend and our new good friends. Then We talk BDSM and small spaces and how we want to overcome that challenge.
Ep 91: Making New Friends and TInk's a Truck $lut
This Week we talk about the different types of friends we meet in the LS. Our preferences on the type of people we meet and ones that make us a little uncomfortable. Then we discuss what it's been like having Tink on the road in the truck. Which leads us into the BDSM segment where Tink talks about geting back to her service sub roots.
Ep 90: Mothers Day and Truck $luts
This week we are back after a little break! We give an update on what's going on in our busy lives and talk swinging on the road, a big new poly update and of course a little BDSM too!
Ep 89: Hamster Palace
This week we catch up and fill ya'll in on what's been going on in our crazy lives and what all that craziness means for our lifesyles and the podcast moving forward.
If you want to see and hear more in-depth conversation on our topics make sure to go to the podcasts Fansly page and subscribe to see all the video episodes and the behind the scenes pictures and sexy videos! You can also join Th
Ep 88: Don't Come on Me
In this weeks episode we recap our Easter holiday and Pedro tells us about a new career opportunity that will probably change things for the podcast in the coming weeks.
In the swing segment we talk about voyers and what happens when they get a little too close. Or when they decided watching just isn’t enough.
Then Pedro and Tink talk a little about their personal sex lives and how Tink wants
Ep 87: Unicorn D!ck
Welcome back to a regular episode. This week Tink talks about unicorn dicks in the swing lifestyle and what that means to her. Obviously she is on the other side of the spectrum when it comes to size queens so this is an interesting conversation.
Then in the Polyam segment we talk about Tink's work friend again and the new developments there, as well as our dynamic with our special friend from Ida
Ep 86: Bulls, Queens, And Cucks
This week we get interviewed by the one and only Doc Chocolate. We talk swinging, interracial issues, content creation, and how to be a man whore. It's a long one so buckle up! We can't wait to talk to Doc again and cover even more sexy and fun topics. Be sure to check out his Podcast The Bulls and Queens Podcast as well as his website.
Make sure to head over to https://fansly.com/ksenmandkinkpodc
Ep 85: Taking It Way Back
Due to internet issues here at the Kink Kitchen, we are re-playing episode one for all of our new listeners who may not have had a chance to go back to the beginning. We will be back next week with a new episode so please stay tuned!
Make sure to head over to https://fansly.com/ksenmandkinkpodcast to watch this episode for free! Give us a follow or subscribe to see all the in depth segments we rec
Ep 84: Unicorn P*$$y
This week is a long one folks so buckle up because we had a very special guest visiting us for the weekend, Miss Amy Idaho! We talk about Unicorns with our guest, the pro's and con's of getting involved with Unicorns and how couples can increase their chances of finding a quality Unicorn or how they can shoot themselves in the foot.
We also discuss mixing BDSM and Kink in Swing environments. The
Ep 83: It's Still Monday!
This week we are a little late, but have no fear we got the show done because we love our fans!
In the swing segment we talk about swing profiles and anonymous posters. What we feel is required to have success in meeting others and what not to do.
Then in the poly segment Tink asks about finding others who may be interested in you but you can tell they aren't being ethical about things.
And then
Ep 82: Don't Be A Filthy Animal
This week in the swing segment we discussed members of the lifestyle who just can't seem to be decent human beings when at parties or events. They leave a mess and make it difficult for party hosts to make a good impression on a venue. We give some tips and tricks how to be a good guest and talk about what not to do.
In the Polyam segment Tink talks about some girl problems, and the issues she is
Ep 81: Swing Taboo and Content Crashers
*We would like to apologize up front about this weeks audio recording. There was some technical difficulties and the audio is not up to our standards.*
This week in the swing segment Pedro and Tink talk about a pretty taboo topic in the LS. What happens if siblings attend an event together and look for couples to swap with? Is that ok with you? How would you handle the situation?
Then we discu
Ep 80: It's All About The Women and Alien Caulk
In this weeks episode Pedro and Tink talk about the ladies in the lifestyle and how they are often dissatisfied with their male partners verses their female partners. Pedro has a lot to say on this topic as this is a pet peeve and you know he's more than willing to share his opinion.
Then in the Kink and BDSM segment we talk about what happens when a "Dominant" sends requests via text before any r
Ep 79: Jealousy and Pedro Reads Smut
In this weeks episode we talk about the jealousy of the female partner when her husband decides he wants to start playing with other women after he has only been watching his wife play with other men up until this point.
Then Pedro reads a steamy story sent in for the mens contest a few weeks ago by listener Mr. B. It’s hot and definitely got Tink all worked up!
Then In the Kink and BDSM segment
Ep 78: New Year, New Direction
This week Pedro and Tink talk about the new direction of the show and how the format will be changing. We love our loyal listeners but we need to make this fun for us to continue to put the time, effort and money into this show.
In the swing segment we touch on if it matters if a guy produces a big “load” or not. Is this something guys stress over or is it something women even care about.
In t
Ep 77: Swing Posers and To Come or Not To Come
This week is a bit of a shorter show for us, amazing right?! In the swing segment we talk about those individuals and couples we may see online or meet out in the wild who tell all kinds of stories about their crazy swimming lifestyles but when you meet them in person or at an actual event their actions don’t quite match up with what they have been saying.
Then in the Kink and BDSM segment we di
Ep 76: So We Gonna F*ck Or Nah?
In this weeks episode we talk about how to handle a situation in the swing lifestyle where someone may not show the same interest in you that you show them, or if you see them trying to play with others after you have expressed interest in them.
In the Polyamory segment we get into the situation of swingers looking down on polyamorous people who are also swingers.
In the Kink and BDSM segment
Ep 75: Swinging Into 2024 With Jesus
We bring in the New Year with our dear friends Jayden Locs and his wife Harper. We talk about their journey in ENM while being strong in their faith and church. Listen in as we talk about how they balance the two important parts of their lives as well as a little background on the four of us. Then we close the show out with a little celebrity swap or not.
If you want to see all the sexy fun make
Ep 74: You’re All A Bunch Of HO HO HOES
This week we are back to our regular program as we dive into swinging where we talk about how to handle a situation where a couple may be friends with a single woman/Unicorn and other people try and get to her by going through the couple. We also discuss not basing someone else’s preferences based on what you hear from other people.
Then in the polyam segment Tink talks about her distaste for gu
Ep 73: 69 Whiskey In The Kink Kitchen
Buckle up for a long one folks! We sat down and talked to Truth the Dollar Store Dom and his co-host Tess from the 69 Whiskey Podcast. And what a conversation we had. There’s a little bit of everything in this episode, so if you need 2 hours of shenanigans in your life this is the episode for you!
If you want to see all the sexy fun make sure to go to the podcasts Fansly page and subscrie to see a
Ep 72: Oh F*ck Yeah Interview
This week Pedro and Tink get interviewed by Ruan Willow, erotica author and host of the Oh F*ck Yeah Podcast. Listen as we have great conversations about how we got started on our LS journey’s and answer all kinds of questions she throws at us. This is a long one but you don’t want to miss all the great conversation.
If you want to see all the sexy fun make sure to go to the podcasts Fansly page
Ep 71: Cheater, Cheater, and When Things Go Sideways
This week we give you guys a little bit shorter of an episode thanks to real life. But In the swing segment we discuss cheating and how that’s even possible in the swing lifestyle. We give our thoughts on all things cheating.
Then in the BDSM segment we talk about what happens when a scene goes sideways. How do we recover from that? Listen in and see if we can give you some tips on how to manage
Ep 70: Unpopular Opinion and FK Cancer!
In this weeks episode Pedro gets into some hot water as the hosts discuss unicorn hunter couples baiting couples in for the female half of other couples. And then doubles down on whether or not it’s disrespectful to approach other solo playing people for play without getting permission from the other persons partner. These are our opinions and not an end all be all for how to go about things as ev
Ep 69: It’s Ok To Be Bi My Guy, and Who’s the Daddy?
This week Pedro and Tink take a deep dive into bisexual men in the lifestyle. The challenges they face and how the hosts feel personally in their own dynamic about bisexuality.
Then in the Polyam segment we talk about having kids in a polyamorous relationship. Our experience with this situation and how things could have gone bad if situations were different for us.
Then to close out the show we ta
Ep 68: Body Image and Humiliation
In this weeks Episode we have a men and women’s health segment regarding body image and all the things that go with it in the lifestyle. We get candid about our own insecurities and ways you can go about feeling more confident in your body and in the lifestyle.
Then we talk about Humiliation finally to go along with the degradation we talked about a few shows ago. Things get a little tense betwe
Ep 67: Am I Good Enough? And Naughty Content Creators
This week we talk about upcoming updates to the kink kitchen, and the changes that will need to be taking place to make sure we can keep the show going.
The swing segment we talk about how to handle the situation when your partner goes for play partners who may be completely opposite from you, and how to handle those feelings. We talk about our own experiences and how we handle them.
Then we
Ep 66: Ladies First D and The Big D-Degradation
In this weeks episode Pedro and Tink talk about what it’s like for women in the lifestyle to take the leap in taking another man’s D for the first time. We discuss Tinks struggles over the years and how she made the leap and tripped onto her first D.
In polyamory we talk about changing sheets…that’s right. Do you change the sheets if you play with one of your other partners who doesn’t sleep i
Ep 65: Hot Husbands and The Swinky Life
This week we talk about a fairly odd dynamic but one that is becoming increasingly popular. We talk about the Hot Husband dynamic and why we really enjoy it for ourselves. We also got some feedback from another couple who enjoys he dynamic and we compare out thoughts to theirs.
Then in the Polyam segment we talk about the mess that can occur when your partner is less than honest when starting to
Ep 64: PodBash 2023 Pt. 2
This week we finish up our recap of our amazing four days in Las Vegas at Podbash. There’s another super sexy retelling of a BDSM threesome and of course the “Podcaster Poly” update so many of you have been waiting for. We hope sharing our experience at this amazing event will help some of you decide to book your tickets for Podbash 2024 so we can party with you as well!
If you want to see all t
Ep 63: PodBash 2023 Pt.1
In this weeks episode we talk about PODBASH baby! In part 1 we discuss everything from Wednesday to Friday evening. We even talk about two hot play sessions at the end of the episode. The first one Tink has a Domination session with a fellow podcaster, then Pedro plays with a shy Hotwife.
We also talk about the amazing reconnecting session we have at the end of the evening, you don’t want to mis
Ep 62: Slow Ya Role, And Podcaster Poly?
In this weeks episode Pedro and Tink discuss how to navigate being new to the swing lifestyle when one person in a couple is moving slower than the other when warming up to new situations. We recount our beginning in the LS and the challenges we faced and overcame.
Then in the Polyam segment Pedro talks about the possibility of a long distance polyamorous relationship with a fellow podcaster who
Ep 61: You’re Telling me Now! And PodBash Fantasies
In this weeks swing topics we discuss a listener topic. It was brought to our attention that some people in the lifestyle wait until the last minute to disclose positive or past positive test results. We discuss how this can be especially dangerous for certain individuals in the LS.
In the poly segment we talk about the potential of your Child growing up to be polyamorous. Listen to find what w
Ep 60: Oh No Moments and Tink Talk’s Vaginas
In this weeks episode we talk about insecurities and mishaps when playing with other partners in a swing setting. What are some major ones for you?
Then Tink talks women’s health, vagina’s, birth control and hormones for women specifically in the ENM lifestyle. Lots of great information for you ladies this week.
If you want to see all the sexy fun make sure to go to the podcasts Fansly page an
Ep 59: Hall Passes Belong In School Not The Lifestyle
In this weeks episode we discuss “Hall Passes”, what they mean in the Lifestyle. We then discus our thoughts and opinions on the matter, some you may agree with and of course some you may not.
Then Tink talks about her work crush in the Polyam segment. Could it turn in to more? What would It mean for our personal relationship?
Then in the Kink and BDSM segment we talk about one of Pedro’s favorite
Ep 58: At Least Say Hi, and Tink Talks Pegging
In this weeks episode Pedro tries not to die as he gets over a sinus infection. In the swing segment we discus the etiquette of letting someones partner know you’d like to play with them.
In the Polyamory segment we talk NRE or New Relationship Energy, what it looks like, and how to handle it so it doesn’t ruin other relationships.
Then in the Kink and BDSM segment Tink Talks all about Pegging. If
Ep 57: Strawberry Douche, And Fan Fantasies
In this weeks episode Pedro and Tink talk about the most common ENM/Swing dynamics. We explain what the terms and definitions of each are. We also explain why these definitions are important when communicating with other people in the ENM community. Pedro has a bit of rant and explains why he’s a douche.
Then we pick our winner for our Fan Fantasy toy give-a-way. We hear our winners fantasy in h
Ep 56: Burnout is Real, And TInk Gets Put In Her Place
In this weeks episode Pedro and Tink talk about what burns them out when it comes to the swing lifestyle. Why it may be happening and possible ways to remedy it. This is border line a rant on Pedro’s part but hey when doesn’t he rant about something?
Then in the Kink and BDSM segment Tink asks Pedro if he can determine what role someone may be based off of first meeting them. And then Tink gets
Ep 55: The Changing of Dynamics In Your Swing Journey
This week Pedro and Tink discuss all of the dynamics they have tried in the swing lifestyle. What they liked and didn’t like about each. And what dynamic they intend to try next.
In the Polyamory segment Tink asks Pedro what happens when it comes to using protection if he is in a V relationship with another woman. Then we discuss Tinks opinion when it comes to her and men.
In the Kink and BDSM
Ep 54: The Private Affair and Don’t Touch Me There
In this weeks episode we are home from Pennsylvania. We talk about our trip to The Private Affair in port deposit MD. Then in the swing segment we discuss partnered women and consent violations. Why these women may feel like their actions are acceptable and how some of us men feel about it.
Then in the Polyamory segment we discuss an issue that can arise when a throuple ends and everyone lives t
Ep 53: Is Age Just a Number, and Tink Talks With Her Mouth Full
In this episode we are recording from the beautiful SunnyRest Resort in Palmerton, PA. In the swing segment we ask the question, does age really matter in the swing lifesyle? Hear our opinions on young and old and if we care.
Then in the Polyam segment we give a small update on our potential situation with the amazing woman we met while on vacation.
In the BDSM and Kink segment Pedro and Tink
Ep 52: I’m Not Crying, You’re Crying, Happy 1 Year Anniversary
In this weeks episode we celebrate ONE YEAR of the podcast. That’s 52 episodes of pure shitshow goodness. And for this show we have our friends and Number 1 ride or die Jeff and his wife on the show as we record from a beautiful Mountain View deck at SunnyRest Resort in Palmerton, PA.
Listen in as we discuss newbies in the lifestyle, and transitioning from newbies to seasoned pro’s. How letting
Ep 51: Naughty N’awlins, You Can’t Always Get What You Want
This week we recap our five days at Naughty N’awlins. We are exhausted from a week full of seminars, drinking, late nights and amazing friends. We apologize if you can hear the exhaustion in our voices, but listen in and get our take on this massive event.
Make sure to check out two of the podcasts we linked below in the notes. These two shows are great and hosted by amazing people.
If you want
Ep 50: Be You Boo, and Swinging Slaves
In this weeks episode, Pedro and Tink record from Naughty N’awlins. In swinging we discuss how important it is to be true to yourself and being authentic in the lifestyle.
In the Polyamory segment we talk about poly people not understanding what Polyamory is and means because they won’t let their partners have other partners.
In the Kink and BDSM segment Pedro and Tink talk about how they navi
Ep 49: Poosie Blockers and Social Floggers
In this weeks episode Tink and Pedro talk about a new trend they have been seeing on social media where women are poosie blocking their male partners for various reasons. This segment gets a little heated when Pedro goes off the rails a bit, if you enjoy the rants then stick around for this one.
Then in Polyamory we talk about starting a triad from scratch with three single people. The pro’s and
Ep 48: Locked Down: Play Partners and Tinks Toys
This week we have a doozy of a swing segment. Something we have seen over and over again. We discuss the members of the lifestyle who feel they can lay claim or call dibs on another person or couples when it comes to play. Pedro has some strong feelings on this topic so if you get your feelings hurt easily you may want to skip this one.
For Polyamory we discuss some of the issues and internal st
Ep 47: Pedro Gets Vulnerable About Boundaries
In this weeks episode Pedro and Tink retell some hot details bout their play time over the weekend. Tink plays with someone for the first time after a year in the making. Pedro turns into a pornstar after a lengthy session.
Then in the Swing segment Pedro gets vulnerable as he discusses boundaries with Tink in order to save their BDSM dynamic and potentially their relationship. It’s a difficult di
Ep 46: Swinging Newbies and The Ice Breaker Challenge
In this weeks episode Pedro and Tink record live from the Pandor’s Resort Playroom with special guests Tom and Jill. They are fairly new to the swing lifestyle and we get their take on what they look for when they go to a swinger resort or party. What makes it a great time and what they look for in other couples and singles.
Then in the Polyamory segment we discuss the negative stigma that Polyamo
Ep 45: Single Guys and Glory Holes
In this weeks episode we talk about single males or men who can play solo. Tips from Tink to help your chances making connections with women in the lifestyle as well as a list of do’s and Don’ts. Pedro weighs in from time to time to give his perspective from the husbands viewpoint.
Then we talk about the differences in being a Unicorn and being a girlfriend and how some people get things twisted!
Ep 44: New Owners and Sensual Pedro
In this episode Pedro and Tink head to the newly reopened Pandora’s Resort in Crossvile, TN. We discuss expectations when visiting a swing resort and how to make the most of your trip. Then we have an exclusive interview with the new Owners John and Gwen. In the Kink and BDSM segment Pedro retells how he had some play time with two women looking for a sensual flogging. How did that go you ask, lis
Ep 43: Mens Health and Cheers for Beers
This week Pedro and Tink talk about a situation that can come up at clubs, house parties, hotel parties or anywhere really that there are play rooms. If you are in a room with the door open and a couple asks to join, how do you politely tell them you’re not interested? But if you pass on one person/couple but say yes to another how do you handle the ones you turned down?
Then we skip Polyamory thi
Ep 42: Mommy, Mommy, MOM!
In this weeks Mothers Day episode Pedro and Tink discuss their views on building intimacy and “reconnecting” after a play session or swap in the swing lifestyle.
Polyamory’s topic this week is Hierarchal Relationships and how they can be detrimental to partners. Pedro has some strong feelings on this, let us know if you agree or disagree.
For the Kink and BDSM segment Tink discusses sub space and
Ep 41: Catfished and ”C”-Caged
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