Imperfect Love
Imperfect Love is hosted by psychologist and author Dr. Carla Marie Manly. The podcast explores the messy, complicated, and sensitive problems that affect people in life and relationships. Dr. Carla answers listeners' real-life questions using a mindfulness-based approach. She offers practical advice on finding love and happiness by embracing imperfections, building self-love, and turning challenges into opportunities for growth.
Episodes
Fats for Brain Health & Mood: What to Eat vs Avoid
Can fats affect your mood, brain health, and longevity? From seed nut oils and saturated fats to Omega-3s and Omega-6s, discussions around what's healthy and unhealthy continue to flow. And although we tend to think that healthy living and eating should be easy and natural, the ever-changing flood of wellness messages can lead to loads of confusion. And feelings of confusion can lead you to do not
Got ADHD? Turn It Into Your Superpower!
Do you or a loved one get distracted easily? Do you notice a chronic behaviors such as distractibility, difficulty with attention to detail, forgetfulness, restlessness, or impulsivity? If so, ADHD--Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder--might be at the root of what's going on. Many people with ADHD, even those receive an appropriate diagnosis and care, struggle with the variety of symptoms tha
Nutrition and Longevity Secrets: Stop Restricting, Start Healing
It can be challenging to stay fit and healthy. Yet it's easy to fall into the trap of believing that one pill, diet, exercise or lifestyle hack will be the key to being in top form. And we're hit daily with an array of ads that promise far more than they deliver. In many cases, from GLP-1s and supplements to diets, the downsides such as muscle loss and eating disorders are often cloaked or ignored
Optimize Your Brain Power & Vitality: The Ultimate Biohacks
We often expect our bodies and brains to operate at peak performance throughout our lives. Yet what fuels us--and what we can get away with--in our first few decades of life doesn't cut it as we get older. In fact, I've discovered that optimal mental and physical health require greater focus and effort with each passing year. So whether you are looking to heal an injury, increase your brain power,
How to Ignite Your Awesomeness!
We often expect ourselves to know our true purpose or mission in life. Yet, for even those who know their genuine calling early on, distractions, expectations, and life necessities can get in the way. But sometimes that deep yearning--a strong knowing in the soul--just can't be ignored. Yet it's not always easy to break out of the mold, listen to your inner voice, and set out on a journey of your
Micro-Moments: Small Habits for Lasting Love
Are you constantly yearning for a deeper connection with your partner? Do you tend to feel that your mate is disinterested in what's going on in your inner or outer world? Common issues like these leave many romantic partners feeling dissatisfied with the quality of their intimate relationships. And when parenting, family, and work issues arise, the sense of disconnection can get far worse--and ev
The Secret to Unshakable Inner Confidence and Self-Worth
Are you exhausted from over-giving and over-doing? Do you tend to look to others for validation or lean into people-pleasing behaviors? If so, you're in solid company. From childhood forward, many of us learn to tend to others' needs to feel valuable and worthy. And from my experience, these hardwired habits can foster perfectionism, enmeshment, and dependency--and even open the door to being expl
Beyond Betrayal: Untangling the Post-Infidelity Trauma Loop
Betrayal by a loved one--especially sexual infidelity--can be one of the most traumatic events a person experiences. And if you've been betrayed by a romantic partner, you know firsthand how devastating the blow can be. In fact, those who are betrayed often find themselves drowning in a sea of endless questions, overwhelming anxiety, and doubt. Despite the trauma they've endured, the betrayed indi
Feeling Excluded? How to Shine as Your Authentic Self!
Tired of shrinking to fit in? Feeling like a square peg in a round hole? These common issues can make us feel as if we'll never truly belong. We crave inclusion for many reasons. On an evolutionary level, instinct drives us to be part of a pack because we're more likely to survive. And belonging to a group of like-minded people can foster self-esteem while also reducing loneliness and anxiety. Yet
Identity Shift: Becoming Your Best Self
Are you living your best, most authentic life? When it comes to success, attractiveness, and other externalities, it's easy to get caught up in comparing yourself to other people. But when we judge who we are by others' appearances, achievements, or highlight reels, self-judgment intensifies and only makes things worse. Yet you can learn how to avoid judging yourself and your worth and, instead, t
LIVE BIG: How to Supercharge Yourself and Your Life
Do you tend to live small because you're afraid of not doing well or not getting things right? If a fear of failure or worries about how others might see you keep you from reaching high and becoming your best self, you're certainly not alone. As a clinical psychologist, I've found that many people stay stuck because they don't trust their ability to overcome challenges, perform well under pressure
The Truth About AI Friendship: Artificial Intimacy or Real Connection?
Do you have a best friend who is available 24/7 and never wavers in their loving support of you? And does this perfect friend just give and give without ever asking for anything in return? Enter the AI chatbot who makes perfect, one-sided friendships like this increasingly common. In truth, it can be temptingly easy to form a relationship--or even in fall in love--with a corporately owned algorith
The Micro-Step Method: Gently Heal Stress, Trauma, & Dysregulation
You may have heard a lot about nervous system regulation and its role in helping you prevent emotional and behavioral chaos while finding inner peace. You may even have tried some tools to reduce stress and create more internal calm but didn't find much lasting relief. In truth, it can take a lot of practice to rewire our bodies and brains in lasting ways, especially when negative patterns have be
Get Rooted and Restored! Steps to Create Inner Calm
In today's high-stress world, it's easy to get stuck in chronic survival mode. We expect ourselves to be more and do more, and often don't realize the toll this takes on our emotional, mental, and physical health. I've learned, from personal and professional experience, that chronic stress and strain can lead you into a state of ongoing nervous system dysregulation that-can become your norm. Today
Sex on Fire! Expert Strategies for Intimacy & Connection!
We often believe that great relationships--and great sex--should come naturally. After all, movies and social media feed us carefully curated versions of idealized romances, perfectly toned bodies, and deliciously steamy sex. Yet in real life, romantic relationships and the sex that comes with them can feel anything but deeply affirming and satisfying. To help us understand the secrets to fosterin
RESET YOUR LIFE: Healing Self-Doubt, Guilt, and Shame
Do feelings of self-doubt hold you back? Do you struggle with feelings of guilt because of something you regret doing or not doing? Does unworthiness or shame keep you stuck? I've found that common issues like these are at the root of the deep pain and suffering that keeps many people stuck or going in circles. Yet there is a path forward that can help you release guilt, self-doubt, and shame to d
Detox Your BODY, Detox Your MIND: The Path to TRUE Wellness
Have you felt off or ill and visited your doctor's office only to be told that everything looks normal? From my personal and professional experience I know how common and upsetting this type of treatment can be. When you know your body isn't okay, it can be incredibly stressful to not get the proper care you deserve and need. And if you're already feeling exhausted or deflated by poor or insuffici
Let Go of Perfectionism: SHINE with Self-Worth and Authenticity!
We often believe that we need to be perfect--or at least nearly perfect--to be worthy and lovable. Yet from my experience, the constant striving to look or be perfect can actually erode self-confidence, mental health, and even physical well-being. In fact, I've found that those who make friends with their imperfections--those who strive to achieve a healthy balance between self-acceptance and posi
The Romance Wrecker: How Stress and Anxiety Ruin Your Sex Life
We often ignore or blame ourselves for a decline in sexual desire. We may even chalk it up to hormones, relationship issues, or boredom. And while all of these factors can surely contribute to a reduced sex drive, anxiety, burnout, stress--and even unresolved trauma--can take a big toll. Today, I'm joined by a top-notch sex and intimacy coach, Annette Benedetti, who will help you come home to your
Finding Real Love in a Chaotic World
Finding real love can be tricky, and in today's world, meeting organically can be next to impossible. As a result, it's easy to feel hopeless and resigned to being alone or, worse yet, accept a partner who is not a good fit. Yet there are steps you can take to set the stage for finding a partner who is truly a great match. Today, we're joined by Jackie Dorman, relationship coach, professional matc
LOVE BOOST: 5 Simple Steps to Make Your Relationship GREAT!
Many people – whether married or in other long-term love relationships – begin to feel that they don't want to settle for a romantic partnership that lacks sparkle, connection, and joy. And this makes sense, especially if destructive dynamics are at work behind the scenes. Although many love relationships lose their luster over time, I've found that a bit of polishing and loving attention can help
Say "YES!" to Joyful Connection, Purpose, and a BEAUTIFUL LIFE!
Do life's stressors leave you feeling out of balance and disconnected from yourself? From personal and professional experience, I've found that many people struggle with finding the internal peace and purpose they desire, want, and need. Yet in real life, it's not easy to find or use the tools that can reduce stress and increase inner joy, confidence, and self-awareness. But what if the life of yo
Healing From the Raw Pain of Infidelity & Betrayal
If you've ever been betrayed by a loved one, especially a romantic partner, you know how deeply painful it can be. When those we count on most betray our trust, it can take years to process the betrayal, heal, and move forward. So if you're aching over a new or old wound stemming from disloyalty, know that you are not alone. Today, I'm joined by an amazing expert, Joe Sanok, a licensed psychothera
Getting Strong: Setting Boundaries without Losing Relationships
Are you a naturally nurturing person who finds that acts of loving kindness are being mistaken for invitations to be taken advantage of or manipulated? For many generous souls, the moment they begin setting boundaries, the pushback can feel enormous.This is the painful reality for one mother, whose question forms the focus of this episode: "I finally realized my daughter is manipulating me... I ha
Coming Together: Tips for Turning Conflict into Connection
Are you conflict avoidant? Do you find it tough to face difficult conversations? Are you filled with anxiety when it's time to talk to certain people about your thoughts or feelings? As a clinical psychologist, I've learned that many people struggle with communication, especially when it comes to discussing challenging topics with romantic partners, friends, or family members. Yet when you learn t
Unlock Joy and Get Unstuck: Reconnecting with Your Inner Child!
Do you have a healthy inner child or do unresolved childhood hurts and wounds keep you stuck? No matter how old (or young) you are, a process called "reparenting" can help you discover and work with emotions and wounds that may keep you entrapped in patterns that leave you hurting and unfulfilled. Today, I'm joined by Dr. Katy Cook, a top-notch inner child specialist who will guide us through the
Artificial Intelligence--Friend or Foe? Best AI Practices for Kids, Parents, and Older Adults
AI--artificial intelligence--has upsides, but many people are increasingly concerned about the very real downsides that come with the overuse or misuse of AI. Parents are increasingly worried about the impact on children's cognitive abilities and social skills. And even adults who embrace AI have questions about what's really safe and what's not. And when we look at AI and how it might harm not ju
Healing the Parent-Child Relationship with Grace with Hilary Mae
Despite our hopes and dreams, the mother-daughter relationship isn't always easy or free of troubles. In fact, if you are a daughter--or have one--it's likely that you've had your share of challenges along the way. Yet, by breaking intergenerational patterns that hold us back from the type of connection we yearn for, we can pave the way toward healthier, more attuned relationships with those you l
Attachment Style Reset: 9 Steps to Secure Love
You've likely heard a lot about attachment styles and how they impact your life and your relationships. Yet you might not have had a chance to dive into the details that will help you understand, heal, and even change your own attachment style, whether it's anxious, avoidant, disorganized, or somewhere in between. As a clinical psychologist and attachment theory expert, I'm consistently stunned by
Transforming Trauma and Anxiety with Mindfulness, Connection, and Love Featuring Dr. James Gordon
Billions of people around the world are affected by trauma, and none of us are immune. Whether you've experienced trauma in childhood or adulthood, the impact can be pervasive and long lasting. And in today's divisive, unsettled world, traumatic experiences seem to be lurking at every turn. This often creates feelings of overwhelm, powerlessness, and anxiety. Yet I've found that hope and healing a
PARENTING WITH PRESENCE TO CONNECT AND HEAL!
If you're a parent, you might expect yourself to automatically have the right skills and inherent ability to help your child thrive. Yet no matter your child's age, you've likely found that parenting is no easy task. As every child is unique, even the most well-prepared parents often find themselves struggling. If issues such as neurodivergence and trauma enter the picture, things can get even mor
The Sexless Marriage: 9 Top Tips For Reigniting Your Sex Life With Host Dr. Carla Marie Manly
Sex has always been a hot topic, and in today's world, it's getting even more attention. When we think of sex and relationships, romantic images often come to mind. We might think of intimacy, sexual play, and passion-filled nights. Yet many couples--whether married or not – come to a point where a lack of sexual intimacy becomes a major concern. Today, I'll explore this sensitive topic with you o
The Art and Science of Boosting Your Health with Hormones and HRT
Our hormones are essential to our mental and physical health, yet we often don't understand (or we minimize) the key role hormones play in fostering our wellbeing. And to make matters worse, many--or dare I say most – medical practitioners are not given adequate training when it comes to understanding the role hormones play in the health of our bones, heart, muscles, and brain. And when our bodily
Uncomplicating Wellness: Simple Tips for Boosting Your Body and Mind!
Have you been bombarded with messages encouraging you to buy into the next greatest supplement, wellness hack, or fitness routine? Do you get exhausted from wrestling with contradictory information when it comes to wellness advice? If you're like me, it's easy to get confused when it comes to making the right personal choices on the ever-changing wellness journey. Today, I'm very excited to bring
The Empowering, Healing Journey of Trauma & PTSD Recovery
Recovering from trauma isn't easy. In fact, it can be a lifetime of work. Yet all too often, I've found that even people suffering from serious trauma, including complex PTSD, expect themselves to heal quickly or without any psychological support. In real life, however, healing from trauma takes time, gentle effort, and perseverance. As it's not always easy to access professional psychological sup
Reduce BIG Stressors with LITTLE Moments of Mindfulness
Feeling anxious, worried, or depressed? Do you experience stress-related issues with your sleep, diet, work, or relationships? If so, you're in the company of over a billion other people whose lives are negatively impacted by stress every day--and the problem is growing worse over time. And as stress feeds a host of emotional, mental, and physical problems, it's important to find easy ways to slow
Feeling Challenged? Create Your Amazing Life Path!
Does your life path sometimes feel like a wild obstacle course with unforeseen changes and challenges at every turn? If you've encountered unexpected shifts in your relationships, work life, finances, or health, you know how daunting and stressful they can be. Yet when we learn to embrace the hurdles life brings us, we can use them to shape our stories and path in life. Today, I'm joined by D
Heal Your Body, Mind, and Spirit with the Power of Sound
The sounds around us can be harmful – or helpful – to our mental, emotional, and physical health. Loud noises such as sirens and heavy daily traffic can trigger the brain's threat response, and this can damage our well-being in the short and long term. Yet when we mindfully choose to bring soothing sounds into our lives, the benefits can be tremendous. Whether you enjoy the gentle flow of a song m
The HUGE Health Benefits of Reducing Stress and Eating Well!
Whether you're approaching your 30s, 40s, 50s, or are well into your later years, you're likely experiencing big and little health changes that may make your life seem messy and out of balance. Yet all too often, we don't get the caring medical attention we deserve and need. This can have a huge impact on everything from your body image and moods to your physical health and relationships. And if y
From Chaos to Calm: The Secret to Healthy, Confident Parenting at Every Age
As parents, we often expect ourselves to be completely calm – and even perfect – no matter what comes our way. Yet, in real life, it's all too easy to get stressed and reactive when parenting gets challenging. Internal and external demands can become overwhelming and knock us off center--and this can raise big feelings such as disappointment, anger, and self-doubt. So what are the secrets to creat
Create Wildly Magnetic Energy with Four Powerful Tips!
Do you have magnetic energy? Some people seem to have the "it" quality – that indefinable allure that pulls people toward them. Certain experts think it's a matter of pheromones, while others believe it's a mix of physical and psychological qualities that creates the draw. From my personal and professional experience, I've found that natural charisma and physical looks have a place in the mysterio
Can Ferocious Validation and Gentleness Heal Chronic Anxiety & Trauma?
Complex trauma is more common than you might think. Many people face a host of significant challenges such as damaging childhood experiences, relationship abuse, and terrifying life events. The impact of traumatic experiences can surely accumulate over time even though we're often unaware of the significant mental, emotional, and physical toll. Sadly, we end up merely "holding it together" as we m
Discover Freedom & Joy with the Superpower of Self-Awareness!
Do you struggle with imposter syndrome? Do you consciously or unconsciously engage in self-sabotaging behaviors? Do fear, anxiety, and negative patterns get in the way of your ability to grow and shine as your authentic self? As a clinical psychologist, I've found that low self-worth and self-sabotaging behaviors are often the biggest impediments to living a joyful, abundant life. If you're yearni
Getting Unstuck and Finding Your True Path
Have you ever felt stuck in life, wondering where your true path may be? Although we often feel like we should know exactly what we're doing and where we're going in life, I've found – from personal and professional experience – that it's quite normal to get confused and stuck at least once along the way. Wouldn't it be lovely if you could discover a map for navigating life's challenges? And would
Creating Healthy Boundaries to Navigate Family Issues AND Improve Your Well-Being!
Do you find yourself giving in to others or letting go of your boundaries just to feel loved, included, or accepted? If this sounds familiar, take heart; it's an extremely common issue. Healthy boundaries are essential for healthy relationships, but it's often tough to create and enforce strong boundaries –especially if they weren't modeled in your early years. In today's episode, I'm joined
Has the Spark in Your Relationship Faded? Embrace These Top Tips for Connection
Marriage – or any long-term romantic relationship – can be one of life's most joyful partnerships. Yet, sometimes, what was once a promising union can become more like a roommate situation or worse. If you're in a romantic relationship that's gone (or is going) a bit south, today's episode promises a wealth of actionable relationship and intimacy tips to help you and your romantic life thrive. Joi
Discover the Power of Your Natural Wisdom, Intuition, and Imagination
How to Tune into the Power of Your Intuition, Creativity, and ImaginationDo you ever feel like your instinct – or some sense of deep knowing and natural wisdom – is giving you information that your rational mind tells you is illogical or wrong? Or perhaps you've been told by a partner, friend, or family member that your choices aren't as analytical as they ought to be. In fact, we're often reminde
Harnessing the Power of Love to Fight Cancer
The journey through a serious medical condition is never easy, but when the diagnosis is cancer, it can be downright harrowing. As a clinical psychologist and woman, I've personally known the deep pain of losing loved ones to cancer, and the challenges are surely intense. And for all the souls who have been through similar experiences, you know how taxing it can be physically, mentally, and spirit
Can Resolving Trauma Help You Break Unhealthy Habits?
Top Tips to Improve Your Wellbeing and Change Unhealthy HabitsDo you often feel exhausted, stressed, or simply out of balance? Do you have unhealthy habits that make you feel stuck? It might sound odd, but your emotions and mindset have a huge impact on your brain and body–just like your food, exercise, and sleep habits. In fact, your gut–the home of your enteric nervous system–engages in bidirect
The Dark Side of Narcissistic Friendships & Emotional Vampires
How to Identify Narcissistic Friendships & Emotional VampiresNarcissism can infect friendships in silent, toxic ways! Overt narcissists tend to have obviously self-centered traits, and this makes it fairly easy to spot them and keep them at bay. Covert narcissists can be difficult to detect; they can pull you in with subtle, exploitative games. Often termed "vampire friendships," they can leav
Medical Gaslighting and Women's Mental Health with Expert Dr. Sarah Oreck
Key Tips for Improving Maternal Mental HealthIf you're a mom–or know someone who is–you're likely aware of how challenging the journey of motherhood can be. And issues such as medical gaslighting can make matters worse. From fertility problems, miscarriages, and perinatal (prenatal and postpartum) depression to not having a solid support system, many women feel lost, hopeless, and abandoned during
Suffering from Trauma or PTSD? Discover How to Heal and Move Forward! With Expert Dr. La Keita Carter
Have you experienced a traumatic event in the past--whether in your childhood or adult life? If the answer is "yes," you're surely not alone. Research shows that about 60% of men and 50% of women experience at least one traumatic event in their lifetime. However, women are actually more likely to develop PTSD. And as a clinical psychologist who has worked with thousands of traumatized individuals,
Anxious or Avoidant in Your Relationships? Discover How to Create Secure Attachment and Loving Connection with Experts Rebecca Webster and Pablo Alvarez
If you struggle feeling safe and secure in relationships or face challenges due to chronically unhealthy relationship dynamics, did you know that your attachment style might be at the root of the issues? Your attachment style, whether secure or one of the three types of insecure attachment, has a huge influence on how you perceive and operate in your relationships. In my work as a clinical psychol
How to Walk Away from Narcissistic Abuse and Toxic Relationships with Expert Michele Locke
Marriage and other long term relationships can be wonderful, but they can also be tough. It's natural to expect--and even believe--that romantic partnerships should last forever. Yet, in real life, many love relationships fall apart due to factors such as ongoing differences, a lack of connection, betrayal, health issues, or abuse. And, in some cases, a terrible combination of these issues can cau
Top Tips for Staying Safe in Times of Emergency with Expert Jason Wayne Brick
From stressful inconveniences to full-on emergencies, life can be pretty tough to navigate. Whether you are single, partnered, childless, or a parent, it's easy to get stuck in doubt and anxiety when serious challenges arise. But what if you had the tools to handle and survive whatever came your way? Wouldn't it be wonderful to have safety without fear, readiness without rigidity, and security wit
How to Cheat, How to Eat, and How to Change 5 Fat Factors! With Expert Jenn Trepeck
Do you find it tough to maintain healthy eating habits? Do you struggle with excess weight that seems to want to stay on no matter how much you exercise or change your diet? If so, you're surely in solid company. I've found that many people struggle with diet and exercise issues and end up feeling like they are failures because they are broken or have no willpower. This destructive cycle often fos
Create a Strong & Secure Parent-Child Connection at Every Age With Dr. Debbie Raphael
Being a parent is never easy. But in today's complicated world, it can be even more difficult to navigate the challenges of parenting. From social media concerns to substance abuse issues, many parents feel as if they and their kids are walking in a minefield that feels like it is getting worse. And as a parent myself, I know how good it feels to have at least a few go-to strategies that can make
Tame Anxiety and Panic Proof Your Life! with Expert Dr. Nicole Cain
Anxiety lives in our bodies and minds, and its main function is to steer us clear of danger. But in today's chaotic and uncertain world, it's easy for anxiety to grab hold in strange ways and not let go. Many people of all ages are experiencing more anxiety than ever, and this anxiety can easily turn into panic. And if you've been in the clutches of a panic attack, you know it's a deeply terrifyin
Discover How to Live Your Best, Pain-Free Life with Expert Dr. Fawad Mian
Are you suffering from a lack of sleep, chronic pain, or other issues that keep you from living your best life? Although we want our bodies to run like beautifully, well-oiled machines, daily life takes a toll despite our heartfelt efforts. As a clinical psychologist, I've found that sleep and pain issues are common in nearly every age group – and they often start as early as adolescence. And the
Looking for Your Soulmate? Discover How to Manifest True Love with Expert Audrey Hope
Do you believe in soul contracts, past lives, manifesting, and the power of divine energy? Do you want to dip your toes into the realm beyond what the rational brain prescribes? As a psychologist and fellow human, I find it interesting to contemplate how we can decrease suffering and ease our human journey in ways that sometimes defy science. When we go beyond the rational mind, an array of window
Learn to Love Your Body with the Power of Self-Love and Mindful Movement With Expert Sadie Lincoln
Is your self-image suffering? Do you struggle with body shame issues? If you're like many people, you may see yourself through critical eyes that tell you you're not fit enough, thin enough, or as attractive as you'd like to be. From decades of research, I've found that many people of all genders suffer from feelings of low self-esteem and poor self-confidence that are often connected to body sham
The Messy World of Eating Disorders and Recovery with Expert Mallary Tenore Tarpley
We often experience or hear about eating disorders. We talk about them--often behind closed doors--as if they're something to be ashamed of and ignored. Yet eating disorders--like all mental issues--are complex, highly challenging, and often resistant to change. They deserve our attention. And for anyone who's been mired in an eating disorder or has had a friend or family member struggle with this
What Happened to My Sex Life? Discover How to Reconnect with Dr. Kate Balestrieri
Sex tends to be an important, connective aspect of intimate relationships. But all too often, couples find that they have different sex drives or encounter other sexual issues that leave one or both partners feeling stressed or dissatisfied. This can be especially troublesome when a couple experiences great sex while dating – an indicator that sexual compatibility is high – only to face an inexpli
Banish Burnout and Boost Self-Care with Expert Janice Litvin
Join Dr. Carla and seasoned burnout expert Janice Litvin who will give us well-honed tools to help us stop burnout in its tracks--and move forward in healthy ways. Topics discussed include self-awareness, self-care, burnout, stress, journaling, intergenerational patterns, family dynamics, work environment, work, bosses, human resources, support, full-time caregivers, stay-at-home parents, full-tim
Stop People-Pleasing, Self-Gaslighting, and Fawning with Expert Dr. Ingrid Clayton
We often hear about the "fight - flight" response, that instinctive reaction to a fear-inducing situation. In fact, you've likely witnessed or responded to an actual or perceived threat with protective aggression or a fearful escape. Yet two other hardwired responses--freezing and fawning--are also part of our instinctual repertoire. And while such responses are intended to keep us safe and alive
Free Yourself from Toxic Relationship Patterns with Expert Sanaiyah Gurnamal
Are you trapped in negative relationship cycles that make you feel stuck and even a little crazy? Do you and your partner have toxic patterns--bouts of fighting, shutting down, or tuning out--that leave you feeling upset, unheard, and unloved? Although we often expect our intimate relationships to be naturally healthy and smooth, unhealthy dynamics can take over--or be present even from the start.
Jealousy, Betrayal, Sex, and Healthy Love with Relationship Expert Dr. Joli Hamilton
Feelings of jealousy and envy often bring up a sense of shame or insecurity. Yet both jealousy and envy arise even in early childhood as we vie for parents' attention, desire a sibling's toy, or jockey for a positions in friend groups. And, as feelings of romantic love come into our lives, it's the big emotion of jealousy than can have a way of creeping deeper into our relationships. If left unche
Healing From Narcissist Abuse And Co-Dependency with Expert Dr. Sarah Schewitz
Do you struggle with co-dependency? Is there a narcissist in your life whose abusive tactics are eroding your joy, self-confidence, and energy? Unfortunately, issues like these are widespread in today's world, and they affect people of all ages and genders. And given the prevalence of both narcissistic abuse and co-dependency, it's likely that you or someone you know has encountered--or currently
Stuck in Bad Habits? Create a Stronger, More Confident You with Expert Di Katz-Shachar
We often believe that we should naturally have healthy habits that help us be our best selves. We expect ourselves to automatically know how to care for ourselves in ways that will make us look and feel as close to "perfect" as possible. Yet, in real life, most of our habits are learned and formed unconsciously--often early in life as a response to family dynamics and other forces below our radar.
Managing Anxiety, Obsessive Thoughts, and Panic Attacks Compassionately with Dr. Joel Minden
Anxiety can creep into our minds, bodies, and lives in the sneakiest of ways. From chronic bouts of anxious thoughts to full blown panic attacks, anxiety can wreak on our internal and external worlds. And although we often think that we should be able to conquer anxiety just by pushing it away or taking a prescription pill, I've found, as a clinical psychologist, that anxiety tends to get worse--
Stuck in Imposter Syndrome? Super Charge Your Self-Confidence with Expert Sheena Yap Chan
Women are often expected to play nice, serve others, and do as they are told with a big smile. And if a woman learns to stand up for herself, she's often described as aggressive, controlling, or worse – simply for stating her opinions or tending to her needs. As a clinical psychologist and woman, I've found that an abundance of societal and cultural factors contributes to the limitation and erosio
Finding Peace When Pets Pass Away with Expert Jon Katz
If you're a pet lover, it's natural to want your fur baby to be around forever. Even the thought of losing your animal best friend--a source of constant companionship, unconditional love, and joy--can be tough. And when that end does come, the pain can be truly heart wrenching and even immobilizing. From personal and professional experience, I've found that the loss of a pet--and the grieving proc
Anxiously Attached? Triggered by Your Partner? Create Healthy Love with Expert Trevor Hanson
Are you securely attached? Do you generally feel safe, at ease, and emotionally connected in your intimate relationships? If not, there's a good chance that you struggle with issues related to insecure attachment—often known as avoidant, disorganized, and anxious attachment styles. But take heart; if you’re wrestling with attachment issues, trust that it’s not your fault–your attachment style was
Narcissists, Good Daughters, and Difficult Mothers with Expert Katherine Fabrizio
Every daughter wants a loving, close relationship with her mom. Yet, in real life, sometimes the mother-daughter relationship is fabulous, sometimes it's so-so, and sometimes it is downright horrible. And in cases where a mother engages in controlling, narcissistic, or other abusive behaviors, the cost to the daughter can be exceedingly high. The road to recovery--to discovering or reclaiming your
Moving Beyond Betrayal, Blame, and Pain with Emmy®-Award Winning Couple Sean and Michele Kanan
We often expect love and relationships to be easy--and perfect--but the best of relationships are much like a bountiful garden that needs regular doses of tender loving care. And, like the weeds that can strangle and overtake a healthy garden, issues such as blame, resentment, and chronic conflict can ruin even the most promising relationship. Over time, I've come to see that imperfections are a n
The Joyful Life of Laughing More and Stressing Less with Professor Pete Alexander
Do you know what magical action has the power to boost your mood, bolster your immune system, banish stress, lessen pain, and foster connection? If you guessed "laughter," you're on target. Research consistently shows that laughter truly is one of life's best medicines, yet our stress-filled lives tend to leave little space for self-care and the healing power that laughing brings. And especially i
Discover the JOY of TRULY BELONGING with Renowned Expert J.F. Benoist
We often believe that our given family--the ones we are connected to by birth--should be our greatest friends and allies. And it's normal for us to expect our family members to love us and keep us safe. Yet, in real life, many people discover that negative family dynamics affect them in the most troubling ways. If this resonates, you may have experienced the deep pain of feeling outcast or isolate
Money, Privilege, and Parenting: How to Raise Grounded, Loving Children with Expert Jessica McGawley
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