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Talking Toddlers

Talking Toddlers

Erin Hyer 155 Episodes Sep 15, 2026

Talking Toddlers offers calm, developmentally grounded guidance for moms of babies and toddlers. Hosted by Erin Hyer, a licensed speech-language pathologist with nearly 35 years of experience, the podcast breaks down how the young brain learns and why certain behaviors or challenges show up. It aims to help parents gently support development through relationships, everyday routines, and meaningful language experiences, without fear or guilt.

Episodes

Your Toddler Understands You. So Why Won’t He Listen?  Ep 169
Your Toddler Understands You. So Why Won’t He Listen? Ep 169 Sep 15, 2026 1727 “I know he understands me. So why isn’t he listening?”If you’ve ever thought that about your toddler, this episode will help you look at the moment a little differently.Understanding your words and being able to follow through are not the same developmental skill.Before your toddler can respond, he may need to register your voice, shift his attention away from what he is doing, process what you sa
When Should You Help Your Toddler - and When Should You Wait? Ep 168
When Should You Help Your Toddler - and When Should You Wait? Ep 168 Sep 8, 2026 2362 When your toddler is struggling - with a zipper, a shoe, climbing onto something - how do you know if you should step in or wait?In this episode, early child development specialist and speech-language pathologist Erin Hyer (nearly 40 years working with toddlers and the families raising them) breaks down the difference between productive struggle and genuine overwhelm - and gives you a simple quest
Want Your Toddler to Talk More? Don't Practice Words Ep 167
Want Your Toddler to Talk More? Don't Practice Words Ep 167 Sep 1, 2026 1887 What if the most important part of your child learning to talk happens before he ever says a single word?Most moms don't start thinking seriously about speech until they're counting words: 18 months, 20 months, two years old. But talking is not the beginning of language development. Words arrive after months of listening, watching, babbling, gesturing, imitating, taking turns, experiment
Are You Accidentally Teaching Your Toddler to Whine? Ep 166
Are You Accidentally Teaching Your Toddler to Whine? Ep 166 Aug 25, 2026 2551 Whining is one of the most common - and frustrating - phases of toddlerhood. But often, it doesn’t become a pattern because a child is “bad” or manipulative. It becomes a pattern because it works.In this episode, Erin Hyer, speech-language pathologist and early child development specialist, explains why toddlers whine, why “use your words” is often too vague for very young children, and how parent
7 Everyday Habits That Interfere With How Your Toddler Learns Ep 165
7 Everyday Habits That Interfere With How Your Toddler Learns Ep 165 Aug 18, 2026 3456 Do you jump in the second your baby struggles? Wipe her face after every bite? Keep the TV or a podcast running because the house feels too quiet?These are ordinary, loving habits — but sometimes our instinct to help, clean, entertain, or keep things moving can quietly take away the very experiences our babies and toddlers need to grow.In this episode, Erin Hyer, speech-language pathologist and ea
Why Your Toddler Won’t Pay Attention — And What Gets in the Way Ep 164
Why Your Toddler Won’t Pay Attention — And What Gets in the Way Ep 164 Aug 11, 2026 4367 What is stealing your toddler’s attention?If your child seems constantly distracted, overly active, emotionally reactive, or unable to stay with one activity for very long, the answer may be more complicated than simply “they need to learn to focus.”In this episode of Talking Toddlers, Erin looks at four powerful influences shaping a young child’s developing attention: predictable daily rhythms, r
Stop Telling Your Toddler to Share - Teach This Instead. Ep 163
Stop Telling Your Toddler to Share - Teach This Instead. Ep 163 Jul 28, 2026 1970 Your toddler snatches a toy. The daycare flags it. Another mom clocks it at a playdate. And somewhere in the back of your mind, a question starts to form: is something wrong with him?Nothing is. He's just being asked to do something he isn't built for - yet.In this episode, I break down the real difference between turn-taking and sharing — two skills that get talked about like they'
You Already Do the Most Important Thing — You Just Don't Know Why Ep 162
You Already Do the Most Important Thing — You Just Don't Know Why Ep 162 Jul 21, 2026 1864 You've been narrating everything. Labeling. Reading. Filling the room with language. And nothing seems to be sticking.That's because your words only land when your child's attention and yours are on the same thing, in the same moment. It's called shared attention — and you're already doing it without knowing how much it matters.In this episode I unpack what shared attentio
Why Your Toddler Hits and Bites — It’s Not a Discipline Problem Ep 161
Why Your Toddler Hits and Bites — It’s Not a Discipline Problem Ep 161 Jul 14, 2026 2291 Why does your toddler hit, bite, or throw things—even when you are trying to parent calmly and consistently? Toddler hitting and biting may look like a discipline problem, but for many young children, it begins as a communication gap.Your toddler is not necessarily choosing to be “bad.” He may be using his body because the language, regulation, and impulse-control skills that should replace the hi
Stop Chasing Words. Here's What Comes First. Ep 160
Stop Chasing Words. Here's What Comes First. Ep 160 Jul 7, 2026 1766 Your toddler isn't talking yet — or at least not as much as you think he should be. And every piece of advice you've found tells you to do more or wait it out. Neither one is the answer.There's a sequence to how talking develops. It doesn't start with words — it ends with them. And if nobody's handed you that sequence, you're either frozen or doing everything at once
He'll Talk When He's Ready — Why Waiting Isn't a Plan Ep 159
He'll Talk When He's Ready — Why Waiting Isn't a Plan Ep 159 Jun 30, 2026 2501 Everyone keeps telling you not to worry. "He'll talk when he's ready." You smile, you nod — but somewhere underneath, your gut isn't buying it.Trust that. Because "ready" is the wrong word — and "wait and see" is not the gentle, neutral choice it pretends to be.After almost forty years with toddlers and the families raising them, Erin Hyer, speech langu
How to Help Your Late Talker — Without More Words Ep 158
How to Help Your Late Talker — Without More Words Ep 158 Jun 16, 2026 2177 You talk to your toddler all day long. You narrate everything. And still — he's not talking, or not very much. So you do what everyone tells you: talk to him even more.After almost forty years with toddlers and the families raising them, here's what Erin Hyer, speech-language pathologist, can tell you: talking more isn't the fix.Language isn't built by the number of words you p

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