Kingdom Sexuality
Kingdom Sexuality is a Christian podcast about sex for married couples, hosted by Alana, Kyle, and Tiera. The show features interviews, personal stories, listener Q&As, and honest discussions to help couples build a fulfilling, God-honoring sex life. It aims to address topics the church often avoids, promoting open and healthy conversations about sexuality within marriage.
Episodes
291: What Every Father Needs to Hear with Kim and Darlene Unrau
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We’re joined by Kim and Darlene Unrau to talk about emotional connection, healing, and what really helps marriages feel
290: Patron's Choice! Quickie Sex
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289: Having A Confident Wedding Night
Getting married is an exciting milestone, but the wedding night often comes with a mix of anticipation and uncertainty! From managing expectations to embracing those awkward moments, this episode will help guide you through making your special night unforgettable.
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Our Episodes:
When Sex Is Painful
Our Products:
Wedding Night Guide
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288: Patron's Choice! How To Say What You Like In Bed
Want better sex but don’t know how to say what you like? This episode breaks down how couples can communicate sexual preferences with kindness and confidence. Not sure what you like in the bedroom? Don't worry- we cover that too!
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287: The Sex Talk You Never Got with Sam Jolman
What if your sexuality was meant to be approached with awe instead of fear? In this episode, Kyle and Tiera chat with Sam Jolman about shame, the difference between arousal and desire, and how reclaiming sensuality as sacred can lead to healing, and freedom!
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Resources:
The Sex Talk You Never Got
Better Sex Through Mindfulness
Sam Jolman’s Substack
286: Losing The Lover In The Mother
Ever feel like you love your kids and your marriage, but you’re exhausted and wondering where you went? In this episode, we talk honestly about the tension between motherhood, marriage, and identity, and how to get back into "lover" mode.
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Our Episodes:
Is The Mental Load Killing Your Sex Life? With Dr. Morgan Cutlip
Our Products:
Her Turn Sex Chall
285: Patron's Choice! Sexual Dreams: Why Do They Happen and What About Wet Dreams?
Ever woken up from a sexual dream and thought, “What does this mean??and should I be worried?” Tune in as the KS team unpacks why sexual dreams happen, what they do (and don’t) say about your heart, marriage, and faith.
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Our Episodes:
Erin Walsh episode 256
Resources:
BetterHelp Counseling
My Counselor Online
Approximate Timestamps:
Introdu
284: "Help! Our Sex Drives Are Different!"
Tune in as Alana, Kyle, and Tiera tackle the incredibly common topic of mismatched libido- having a different sex drive than your spouse! Whether you're the higher or lower drive spouse, you'll learn how to start the open communication to create a thriving sex life.
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Our Products:
Figuring Out What I Like Guide
Resources:
Get on the Mismatched Libido
283: Q&A! Screen-Obsessed Spouse, Oral Sex, Period Sex, Dry Seasons, & More!
Orgasm help, screen-obsessed husbands, dry seasons, and everything in between- nothing is off-limits in this Q&A episode! Alana, Kyle, and Tiera answer real questions from Christian couples about mismatched libidos, period sex, how to talk about sex with friends, oral sex, and more!
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Our Episodes:
Getting out of a slump
Period Sex episode
Landon Hair
282: Secrets Will Destroy Your Marriage & Why It's Time To Talk To Your Kids About Porn with Greta and Aaron Eskridge
Tune in as Greta and Aaron Eskridge share their journey from pain and betrayal to renewal and hope!! Their story emphasizes the importance of honesty and community in overcoming difficult seasons, especially around topics like pornography and marriage. Don't miss it!
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Resources:
GretaEskridge.com
@greta.eskridge
It's Time To Talk To Your Kids About Por
281: When He Finishes Too Fast: A Shame-Free Conversation
Struggling to last as long as you'd like to? In this episode, Kyle walks us through practical techniques and emotional shifts that help sex feel more connected, enjoyable, and unhurried. If performance anxiety has been stealing your joy, this conversation is for you!
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Our Episodes:
Mindfulness with Dr. Lori Brotto
Resources:
The Penis Book
Bette
280: How To Have Great Sex During Perimenopause & Menopause
Let’s talk menopause and perimenopause- and the things no one warned us about. Tiera does a beautiful job of unpacking the physical and emotional shifts women experience, how it can impact sex, and what’s actually helpful in this season. We want to help you feel equipped and encouraged as you enter this time of life!
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Our Episodes:
Mindfulness with Dr. Lori
279: Q&A: Morning Erections, My Wife's Body Hair, & Do Pillows Improve Sex?
Tune in as the KS team tackle real questions straight from IG followers- everything from body hair preferences and pursuing your spouse, to what’s actually going on with things like morning erections. Don't miss it!
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Our Episodes:
Level Up Your Sex Life
Add A Little Bit Of Spice episode
Setting Up Your Future Marriage For Success
Dispelling Wedding
278: Is The Mental Load Killing Your Sex Life? with Dr. Morgan Cutlip
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Ever feel like you’re carrying the invisible to-do list for your entire household? Tune in as Dr. Morgan Cutlip joins us to unpack the mental load in marriage- why it causes so much tension and how couples can s
277: Sex Saved Our Marriage with Lindsey Maestas
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Tune in as Lindsey Maestas opens up about her journey through the ups and downs of marriage, sharing real-life tips on how to reconnect with your spouse and keep the spark alive. Lindsey's insights are super pra
276: Patron's Choice! Sex When You're Mad At Each Other
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Can having sex when you're in the middle of a disagreement be a helpful tool...? Is "make-up sex" actually be
275: Be The Husband God Calls You To Be with Landon Hairgrove
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Tune in as Landon Hairgrove shares his personal journey of healing from trauma, balancing leadership in church planting, and intentionally leading his family. He shares practical advice on nurturing emotional he
274: Sex, Generational Sin, and Breaking the Cycle in Your Family’s Legacy with Brook Mosser
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In this episode, we explore how generational patterns and wounds impact our underst
273: Christians Are Missing God's Design for Sex, Food, and Rest with Justin Whitmel Earley
Unlock the secret to growth with Justin Whitmel Earley as he reveals how everyday physical practices like breathing and eating can transform your spiritual life! Dive into this episode to discover how your body can teach your soul, leading to a life full of gratitude and joy.
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Our Episodes:
Friendship, Sex, and the Way of Jesus with Justin Whitmel Earley
272: The Love Language That Matters Most with Dr. Gary Chapman
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Join us for an enlightening episode with Dr. Gary Chapman as we explore the profound impact of the Five Lov
271: Have A Naked Marriage with Dave & Ashley Willis
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In this episode, Dave and Ashley Willis join the KS team to discuss the importance of prioritizing marriage during the many seasons of life. They share insights on maintaining intimacy, debunk myths about marriage, and so much more. Want
270: The Theology of Sex with Bryan & Bonnie Pue
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In this episode, we dive into a heartfelt discussion with Bryan and Bonnie Pue about the intersection of faith, sexuality, and relationships. They explore the theology of sex, the impact of cultural narratives, and practical ways to li
269: Some BIG NEWS, Our Favorite Episodes of the Year, & Setting Up A Successful Marriage This Year!
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Join us as we kick off the new year with a casual and light-hearted chat about our favorite moments from the past year and exciting plans for the future! We dive into our marriage resolution guide, share personal highlights, and reflec
268: What If Your Struggles Are Trying to Tell You Something? with Jay Stringer
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267: Have A Spicy Christmas + Get To Know The Team!
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Curious how to keep things spicy over the holidays?? We share how YOU guys keep things spicy and intentional despite the busyness of the Christmas season. Plus we share some of our own Christmas traditions and e
266: Ask A Pastor! with Phil Collins
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You asked, and a pastor answered! Join Tiera and Alana as they dive into an enlightening conversation with Pastor Phil Collins, ex
265: Christmas Q&A: Making Christmas PJs Sexy, Disagreeing About Family Time, and The Post-Holiday Letdown
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Christmas is all fun and games until you realize you haven’t had sex since the Elf on the Shelf showed up. In this special Q&A we dive into holiday stress, low desire, full houses, and how to actually prioritize
264: Less Phone, More Intimacy - with Joey Odom
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Is your phone stealing more from your marriage than you realize? Joey Odom from Reclaimwell joins us to unpack the data, the spiritual side of self-control, and how couples and churches can use tech without losing intimacy. Such a needed conversation in a world th
263: She Got Her PhD in Purity Culture with Ashley Hudson
Purity culture shaped a lot of us… but what happens when those old messages start showing up in your marriage? In this episode, therapist Ashley Hudson breaks down how shame, fear, and performance pressure sneak into intimacy and what healing can actually look like. If you’ve ever wondered why sex still feels complicated even though you’re married, this one’s going to hit home.
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262: Can One Weekend Transform Your Marriage?
Tune in as we share our experience from the Weekend to Remember marriage retreat! We answer the questions you sent in on Instagram like:
- what actually happens at a retreat?
- how much does it cost?,
- what if your spouse doesn't want to go?
- how were our marriages impacted from this weekend away?
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261: How Often Are Couples Having Sex?
In this episode, we’re tackling one of the biggest questions couples ask: how often should we be having sex? We’ll break down what research actually says about sexual frequency, why comparison steals joy, and how to find a healthy rhythm that fits your marriage and season of life. This conversation will help you let go of “normal” and focus instead on connection, communication, and grace.
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260: Surrendering Sexuality with Dr. Juli Slattery
In this episode, Dr. Juli Slattery joins Alana and Tiera to talk about what it really means to surrender our sexuality to God. They unpack why so many Christians struggle to trust Him with their desires, how intimacy points to something deeper, and what surrender looks like in everyday life.
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259: How Stress Impacts Your Sex Life
Can stress really kill your sex life? Yep- but the flip side might surprise you. We’re breaking down the science of stress, the power of intimacy, and God’s design for connection in hard seasons.
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Episodes:
Sleep & Sex Episode
Our Products:
30 Prayer For Your Spouse bundle
Resources:
Awaken Love
Men are from Mars Women are from Venus
258: Breaking The Vanilla Cycle
Feeling like your sex life’s stuck on repeat? In this episode, we’re talking about how to break out of the “vanilla cycle” and bring excitement, creativity, and fun back into the bedroom. Let's make intimacy feel adventurous again!
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Episodes:
Condom Episode
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257: Testosterone: How It Affects Sex For Men and Women
Think your testosterone levels are off? Tune in as we unpack how this powerful hormone affects sex drive, energy, and connection- for both men and women. Learn the signs of imbalance, what testing looks like, and how hormones impact your marriage and intimacy!
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Resources Mentioned:
Everlywell
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256: Overcoming Sexual Trauma with Psychotherapist Erin Walsh
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In this powerful and tender conversation, we sit down with therapist Erin Walsh to unpack how past sexual wounds can affect intimacy, marriage, and faith. Whether you’ve personally experienced trauma or love someone who has, this episode is a gentle reminder that
255: Does More Sleep = More Sex?
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Does being well-rested really boost your desire? In this episode, the KS team will dive into what science and Scripture say about the link between sleep and sex. You’ll learn how prioritizing rest can fuel connection, joy, and even desire in your marriage!
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254: Neurodivergence & Sex: Finding Connection When You’re Wired Differently with Greer Jones
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This week, we sit down with Greer Jones to talk neurodivergence in marriage. She shares about ADHD, autism, sensory differences, and how those things can impact a sex life. Greer shares her story, practical tools, and hope-filled tips to help couples stay connected and thrive de
253: Ladies Q&A! Libido in Pregnancy, Intense Orgasms, & Painful Sex
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In this special Q&A, Alana and Tiera are answering real questions sent in by women! Everything from navigating pregnancy and postpartum intimacy, to boosting confidence in your husband, to finally figuring out foreplay and orgasms. You’re not alone in your questions, so let’s
252: Email Q&A! Orgasms Through Mindfulness, Erotic Literature, and Being Divided on Having More Kids
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This week, we’re tackling your real questions from the inbox. From navigating orgasms through mindfulness, to wrestling with erotic literature as a Christian, to the heartbreak of being divided on having more kids- we’re digging deep into the struggles that couples face behind cl
251: Myth Busters
We’re busting some of the biggest myths around sex and intimacy in marriage- from “sex should be just like the movies” to “men always want it more” to “you’ll just automatically know what to do in bed.” We’ll unpack the lies, share some laughs, and point you back to the truth God designed for marriage!
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Links from today’s episode:
Higher Desire Wife episod
250: Is Your Phone Ruining Your Marriage?
Is your phone stealing from your marriage? In this episode, we unpack how tech can quietly kill intimacy, connection, and trust - and share practical ways to set boundaries, guard your heart, and put your spouse before your screen.
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Episode 246: Is This Normal Part 1
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249: Friendship, Sex, and the Way of Jesus with Justin Whitmel Earley
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Join Alana and Kyle as they sit down with author, lawyer, and speaker Justin Whitmel Earley to talk about why friendship is essential- not just for our faith, but for our marriages and sex lives too. If you’ve ever wondered why marriage alone can’t meet every rela
248: When 'The Ick' Creeps In
Ever had that random moment where your spouse does something totally normal… and it suddenly makes you cringe? Welcome to “the ick.” The KS Team unpacks why it happens, how it can sneak into your sex life, and practical ways to move past it so you can rebuild connection, attraction, and intimacy.
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Links from today’s episode:
My Counselor Online: You get $2
247: "Is This Normal?" PART TWO
We’re back with Part 2 of your “Is this normal?” questions!! Diving into everything from awkward initiations and feeling overstimulated to newlywed fears, ADHD moments in bed, and tricky emotional dynamics. Plus, you'll get the final results of the 'pimple popping poll' at the end!
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Links from today’s episode:
Awaken Love Book
Episode 189: With Josh Spur
246: "Is This Normal?" PART ONE
In this episode, we're tackling all your “Is this normal?” questions. From quick finishes and tingling after orgasm to clean-up quirks and unexpected turn-ons. It’s real talk, no shame, and lots of “oh wow, us too!” moments. (At least, some of us...) You’re not as weird as you think, we promise.
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245: Q&A! Male Lingerie, Wedding Night Orgasms, Masturbation Instead of Sex, and more!
You sent the questions, and we’re going there- nothing is off the table in this spicy Q&A episode! We’re talking wedding night surprises, lingerie debates, feeling stuck in your sex life, taboo thoughts, Shibari (yup), and so much more. Let’s get into it!
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Links from today’s episode:
Episode 220: The Why Behind This
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244: Couples Who Play Together, Lay Together
What if the secret to a stronger marriage wasn’t another serious talk- but a round of mini golf or a spontaneous dance party in the kitchen? This episode dives into why having fun together might be the spark your marriage needs. From shared hobbies to laughter that leads to deeper intimacy- we're talking playful, powerful connection with a Kingdom twist.
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243: Car Sex: Road Head, Steamy Windows, & Our Research
Is car sex off-limits for Christian couples? In this fun and practical episode, the KS team unpacks the legality, logistics, and creative possibilities of taking intimacy into the backseat. Whether you've got a sedan or a Sprinter van- we’ve got tips, laughs, and biblical encouragement to help you connect wherever the moment takes you.
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242: Help! I'm a Low Libido Husband!
In this episode, the KS team is talking to the husbands who have a naturally lower sex drive, and reminding you that you’re not broken or less of a man. They unpack what healthy intimacy can look like when desire is different, and how to navigate it with confidence, communication, and grace. This one’s full of encouragement for both husbands and wives.
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241: Q&A: Titty Tuesday, Pool Sex, & Losing Attraction
We asked, you delivered! This Q&A episode is packed with your honest, hilarious, and heartfelt questions! From postpartum libido surprises and navigating temptation at work, to “Titty Pic Tuesday,” pool sex, and more, we’re diving into it all. Whether you're single, newly married, or deep in the thick of it, there's something in here for you.
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240: How To Make Sex A Priority
Is intimacy falling to the bottom of your to-do list? In this episode, we’re diving into why connection in the bedroom actually matters- and how to make it happen (even when life is bonkers). From flirty fun to scheduling sex without the cringe, we’re sharing real talk, roadblock check-ins, and ideas to bring the spark back.
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Be
239: Can Music Make Sex Better?
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Can music really enhance your sex life? Do Christians listen to music while having sex?? Whether you're team silence, slow jams, or somewhere in between, this conversation will help you tune into deeper connection with your spouse!
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238: Patron’s Choice! All About Aphrodisiacs
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Chocolate, oysters, and… cobra blood?! We’re diving into the weird, wild world of aphrodisiacs- what works, what’s myth, and what God actually designed to boost desire. Tune in for laughs, science, and some spicy truth!
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237: Talking About Sex With Friends
Is it okay to talk about your sex life with friends? In this episode, we explore when, why, and how to have honest, God-honoring conversations about intimacy- without crossing boundaries. Learn how vulnerability can bring freedom, connection, and growth in your marriage and friendships!!
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236: What’s NOT Allowed In The Bedroom
Are there things Christian couples shouldn’t do in the bedroom? In this episode, we unpack what Scripture says about sexual boundaries, explore tricky topics with grace, and offer guidance for keeping intimacy both passionate and God-honoring.
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235: Navigating Sexual Rejection
Getting rejected when it comes to sex is NOT fun. So how do we handle it well? How do those conversations happen? And how do you get out of the cycle of constantly rejecting your spouse? Tune in as the KS team answers those questions- and more!
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6 Pillars Of Intimacy
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234: Patron's Choice! Sex With The 5 Senses
What if your five senses were the secret to a deeper, more exciting sex life? In this episode, we’re sharing simple, creative ways to engage sight, sound, touch, taste, and smell to build connection, spark arousal, and savor intimacy the way God designed! Get ready for practical ideas you’ll actually want to try.
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233: When SHE Is The One Addicted To Porn
Pornography isn’t just a “men’s issue”- and it’s time we talked about it. In this powerful episode, we sit down with a Crystal Renaud Day who shares her raw and redemptive story of overcoming porn addiction as a Christian woman. We’re diving into the stats, the shame, and the silent struggle so many women face- especially in the church.
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232: Patron Q&A! Navigating Awkward BJs, Our Proposal Stories, & Perimenopause
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This episode is packed with all the things our patrons have been dying to ask- intimacy routines, sex during pregnancy, navigating hormone changes, BJ awkwardness, and yes… even strawberries in the bedroom. The
231: How to Deal with Shame in Your Marriage
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Is shame from your past still showing up in your marriage? In this episode, the KS team is talking about how shame, whether from past choices, guilt, or lies from the enemy, can quietly sabotage intimacy and connection. We’ll walk through a powerful self-check quiz, explore how God offers true freedom,
230: The Higher Drive Wife
Feeling like the only wife who wants sex more than her husband? You’re not broken - and you’re not alone. In this episode, the KS team dives deep into the heart of the higher drive wife: the identity struggles, the church silence, and the ache of rejection. We’re breaking the silence, offering real tools, and reminding you that your desire is not shameful - it’s sacred.
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229: Slip & Slide: All About Lube
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Want to keep things smooth in the bedroom? 😉 In this episode of the Kingdom Sexuality Podcast, we’re diving into the world of lubrication—both the natural kind and the many options available to enhance intimacy! From the science behind your body’s built-in moisture to the best lubes for different
228: PATRON'S CHOICE! Level Up Your Sex Life
Wanting to take your intimate life to the next level? Or curious as to what else you and your spouse could do to add some extra spice and fun into the bedroom?
In this episode, we will break down several things you can do in your sex life whether you find yourself in the beginner, intermediate, or advanced stage of intimacy! Tune in now!
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227: Q&A: How Many Sex Toys Do Couples Own, How To Talk Sexy, Intimacy After Porn
We love recording Q&A's and you seem to love listening to them! If you have a question, email it to us at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com and we’ll aim to answer it in our next Q&A!
Links from today’s episode:
Betrayal Trauma (Episode 206)
“My Husband Was Addicted To Porn” (Episode 96)
“The Impact of His Porn Addiction on Me” (Episode 97)
Sex Fasting: What Is It & Why Would You Do It? (Episode
226: Q&A: Swallowing, Different Drives, & Postpartum Slump
You asked, they answer! The KS Team answers questions sent in on Instagram, and they do not hold back! Tune in now!
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180: Pregnancy and Postpartum Q&A
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225: Sexual Confidence
What does being a sexually confident Christian look like? And HOW do you become one?? Tune in now to hear the KS team chat about it!
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Intimately Us app
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224: Getting Out Of A Slump
In a bit of a sexual slump? Not sure how to navigate it? We've all been there. Tune in as the KS team gives some practical tips for getting out of the slump and into the hump!
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30 Prayers For Your Wife eBook
30 Prayer For Your Husband eBook
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223: Learning To Be A Selfless Lover
Tune in to hear the KS team tackle some big questions around selflessness- questions like: What does selflessness actually look like in the bedroom? How do I bring up the need for more selflessness without offending my spouse? and I’m already exhausted—how can I be selfless when I have nothing left to give?
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222: God, Sex, & How They Mesh
How do God and sex mesh?! How can incorporating the Lord into EVERY area of our life actually make any difference? Tune in as Tiera and Alana chat about how God didn't design sex on accident and give you practical tips that will change your intimate life!
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That Sounds Fun Network Website
Awaken Love
30 Prayers For Your Wife eBook
30 Prayer For Your Husband eBook
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221: Fundamentals Of Healthy Sexuality
Is your sex life moving forward or backwards? Maybe it's time to go back to the basics! Tune in as the KS team shares some VERY exciting news at the beginning of this episode and tackles the fundamentals of a healthy sex life.
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TRAILER: The Sex Fundamentals
It's time to get back to the basics as the KS team dives into The Sex Fundamentals! We'll be covering so many great topics- the taboo ones, the curious ones, and the ones no one will talk about. Join us as we cover things like sexual confidence, how the topic of God and sex mesh, getting out of slumps, and more! Welcome to the Kingdom Sexuality podcast.
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220: The Why Behind This
Curious how Kingdom Sexuality began? What about their stories brought the team together? And what does the future hold? Listen to the end to hear some exciting news!
Links from today’s episode:
Blog post about KS boundaries
KS Shop
Starting Life Together Guide
Unite & Ignite
Episode 206 with Dr. Dave Currie
Kyle’s Sextimony
My Husband Was Addicted To Porn part 1
The Impact Of His Porn Ad
219: Q&A: Having Sex in Public, How Often to Have Sex, Initiating with Confidence, Getting Spark Back Postpartum and more
Don't miss our first Q&A of the New Year! It started out as a "throwback" Q&A with Kyle and Alana then Tiera joined in part-way through! The team answers questions like "How do I serve my husband when my desire is low?" and "How often should couples be having sex each week?"- you won't want to miss it!
Links from today’s episode:
Interview with Josh Spurlock
My Counselor Online: You get $25
218: Sex Fasting: What Is It & Why Would You Do It?
Tune into this very special episode where Kyle and his wife Samantha chat about the sex fast they did a few years ago. Was it helpful? Would they do it again? Listen now!
Links from today’s episode:
Kyle’s Sextimony (Episode 94)
"My Husband Was Addicted To Porn" part 1 (Episode 96)
"The Impact Of His Porn Addiction On Me" part 2 (Episode 97)
Jay Stringer’s Book: Unwanted
6 Pill
217: Condoms: Rubber Up Then Rub Her Up
To wrap or not to wrap- that is the question! Tune into this funny, informative, and light-hearted episode where Tiera educates Alana and Kyle on the ins and outs of condom use!
Links from today’s episode:
Tiera’s Fertility Page: use the code KSFOLLOWER for a discount!
Nixit Condoms: code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 15% off
SKYN Condoms
Let’s Get Checked!: code KINGDOM for 25% off
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216: New Year New Sexual Resolutions
We often create individual goals for ourselves but do we make marriage/intimacy goals as a couple? Tune in to hear some practical goals you can implement this new year!
Links from today’s episode:
Dwellbible.com/kingdom
Marriage Resolution Guide
Intimately Us App
Better Help
My Counselor Online: You get $25 off your first month when you sign up with our link
Amazon Shop
Jo
215: Christmas Q&A: Sex In Childhood Bed, Sexy Gift Ideas, & More!
Tune in as we tackle Christmas/intimacy/marriage questions that YOU sent in! Wishing you and your family a very Merry Christmas, from the KS team!
Question Time Stamps:
2:22 I want to have sex in my childhood bedroom while visiting my parents. My husband thinks it’ll be weird to have sex in my parents home. Is it really that weird?
5:27 What are some fun intimacy gifts?
8:01 Are lingeri
214: Sex When Family Is Around
Tune into this repeat episode as Kyle and Alana chat about ways to make intimacy more of a priority this Christmas! Spoiler alert: it starts with decreasing the amount of stress in your life!! Merry Christmas, from the KS Team!! Praying this Christmas is filled with love, joy, and Jesus.
Links from today's episode:
Come As You Are book
Join Unite & Ignite
Want more from Kingdom Sex
213: Is it Time to Make a Change??
Tune into our final pornography series episode with Nick Stumbo, Executive Director at Pure Desire Ministries. Nick shares how porn impacted him as a pastor and how he decided to find healing!
Special shout out to Coventant Eyes for sponsoring this pornography seriers! Use our code KS30 to get your first month FREE! Find healing TODAY!!!
Links from today’s episode:
Covenant Eyes (KS30 fo
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