How To GET THE GIRL - An Ask Women Podcast
How to Get the Girl (formerly Ask Women) is a podcast where men learn what actually works with women. Hosted by Your Wing Girl, Marni Kinrys, and banter coach Kristen Carney, the weekly show breaks down attraction, dating, confidence, and communication without guesswork or outdated advice. Each episode features real talk from regular women, celebrities, relationship experts, and strong, opinionated females who share what makes them lean in or walk away. The podcast offers honest female insight and practical tools that listeners can use immediately to attract and keep a partner.
Episodes
Ep. 579 Sexting and Orgasms
Sex and Relationship therapist Dr. Tara gives us all the moves you need to have in your “sexting” repertoire. She also has more gold to offer when it comes to getting her to have amazing orgasms and how to be a pro in bed.
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Ep. 578 How To Be A Good Storyteller & Charming Conversationalist
Jeff, a specialist-of-sorts in storytelling, is here to teach us how to be a captivating storyteller and how to invoke feelings from women when taking them on a journey of words.
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Ep. 577 Rewire Your Mind, Win her Attraction: The Hypnosis Hack
We’re joined by charisma and hypnosis coach Wendy Packer, who shares how you can literally rewire your subconscious to become more confident, magnetic, and successful with women.
Wendy dives into practical, powerful tools to help you erase limiting beliefs and replace them with the mindset and identity of the man you want to be. (Yes - 'fake it till you make it' is real, and she’ll show you how.)
Ep. 576 What Alpha Really Means Today
We are throwing it back to a classic conversation about what it really means to be an alpha man today. Our guest Kevin Aillaud breaks down the qualities that make a man grounded, confident, and in charge of his own life. Kevin lives what he teaches, and you can hear that in every moment of this episode. A true must listen.
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Ep. 575 How YOU Can Date Younger Women
David Shade joins us to discuss HOW to date younger women. David is in his mid 70's and has a girlfriend in her 20's. Impossible you say? Listen to find out how he attracts younger women :)
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Ep. 574 Let’s Talk About the Penis: Performance, ED, and What Women Really Think
This week, Marni is joined by the one and only Susan Bratton, intimacy expert to millions, for a no-holds-barred conversation all about the penis. From performance anxiety to erectile dysfunction, we’re breaking down the most common issues men face in the bedroom—and why it’s not just “in your head.”
Susan shares expert insights on what actually causes ED, how to regain confid
Ep. 573 Crush Approach Anxiety with the Power of Precise Language
What if changing just a few words could completely shift your confidence and attraction levels? In this powerful episode, we welcome back language and mindset expert Spencer Burnett to dive deep into the concept of precise language—how the words you think and say directly impact your ability to connect, attract, and show up as your most magnetic self.
Spencer br
Ep. 572 Dating by Blaine & Approaching Women
Blaine is one of the best dating coaches out there and she's here to talk about how to approach women, and the BEST places to approach. She's also going to give us her tips on how to keep the conversation going after you've made the approach and so much more.
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Ep. 571 What Erotic Fiction Teaches You About Women
Want to know what women fantasize about?
This is a rerun episode but the insights are still incredibly valuable.
In this episode, I'm joined by Jess from Bloomstories.com to explore what erotic fiction reveals about female desire, attraction, and intimacy.
If you've ever wanted a better understanding of what turns women on emotionally and physically, this conversation will give you a completely
Ep. 570 How To Stay Masculine In A Long Term Relationship
One of the biggest mistakes men make is thinking attraction takes care of itself once you're in a relationship.
It doesn't.
This is a rerun episode but every man in a long term relationship needs to hear it.
I'm joined by Keith Yackey and Jesse Marquez from The Married Game to talk about how to maintain your masculine energy, keep attraction alive, and continue showing up as the man she fell fo
Ep. 569 Read Her Better In The Bedroom
Want to know what she's enjoying without having to guess?
This is a rerun episode but the advice is timeless.
In this episode, I'm joined by Celeste Hirschman, co-creator of the Somatica® Method, to talk about how to become more tuned in to your partner during intimacy.
You'll learn how to read her responses, communicate with confidence, and create deeper connection without overthinking every m
Ep. 568 How To Be More Masculine
What does it really mean to be masculine?
And more importantly... how do you maintain that masculine energy in a relationship?
This is a rerun episode but the lessons are just as relevant today.
In this episode, I sit down with Shawn Haywood from ReimagineLove.com to talk about what healthy masculinity actually looks like and how to make it a consistent part of your life and your relationships
Ep. 567 Two Magical Tools To Eliminate Anxiety With Women (Rerun)
Want approach anxiety GONE?
Want the fear of rejection GONE?
This is a rerun episode but the advice in this one is timeless.
This week, one of my Wing Girls, Traci Bermingham, is here to talk about the two powerful mindset tools that help you stop spiraling in your head every time you approach a woman.
Because most men are running on old mental programming that keeps them anxious, hesitant, an
Ep. 566 Guide To Getting A Girlfriend (What To Do After The 1st Date)
A lot of men can get the first date…
But then they have absolutely no idea what to do next.
This is a rerun episode but the advice in this one is timeless.
Because what happens after the first date is usually where men either build attraction… or completely lose it.
In this episode, I sit down with Jim Wolf, author of The Attract Her and Keep Her System, to talk about how men can better unders
Ep. 565 HOOK HER With Your Style
Some men resist leveling up their style.
But here is the truth.
You are hurting your chances with women if you ignore how you show up.
This is a rerun episode and it is one you should not skip.
Because style is not about being flashy or fake.
It is about presenting yourself in a way that makes you feel confident and makes women take notice.
In this episode, I bring on my Wing Girl stylist Ca
Ep. 564 How to be Masculine
Shawn Haywood from ReimagineLove.com is here to share what it really means to be masculine.
This is a rerun episode but it is one you need to hear.
Because being masculine is not something you just turn on once and you are done.
It is something you have to carry through your life and your relationships.
In this conversation, Shawn breaks down how to build that masculine foundation and how to k
(Video) What the top 1% of men do differently that attracts all women (and it's not looks or money)
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What makes a woman choose ONE guy over the thousands competing for her attention?
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The Biggest Female TURN ON of ALL Time? (Over 10,000 Women Surveyed)
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Do you know the one thing that turns a woman on… MORE than anything else? It’s NOT status, money, height or good looks. In fact, it’s NOT even confidence, sense of humor, intelligence or game.
Those are all nice. But the single biggest turn on for women is something very specific… that 99% of men are completely unaware of.
How To "Attract" Women WITHOUT Saying A Word | The "Natural" Effect
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In this episode, Marni reveals 3 scientific reason why SIZE doesn't matter to women. It is a false belief that so many guys have that the bigger you are, the better you are in bed BUT that is 100% not true. This video shows you the truth about size and how to use what you got so y
Here’s Why Flirting FAILS on 90% of Women
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Why does the same flirting move work on one woman but completely fail on another?
It's not random—it's because there are 4 distinct types of women, and each one responds to a completely different a
How To "Attract" Women WITHOUT Saying A Word | The "Natural" Effect
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Did you know that it's possible to attract women WITHOUT saying a single word? It's true and it's doable by ANY man... YES even you ;).
In this episode, Marni reveals exactly how to attract women without saying a word using the NATURAL effects of your body language. Body Language is the q
Private Message From Marni
The Ask Women Podcast is getting a little facelift. Moving forward our show will be called What Turns Women On and we’ll air 2 episodes a week.Same heart. Same purpose and same goal of helping amazing men get the women they want and become the men they’ve always want to be.Marni will be your host, your best female friend and your own personal Wing Girl. She’s heard it all before and will deliver
Ep. 563 Misconceptions Of What Women Want
What women want is one of the most misunderstood topics in dating and this episode proves exactly why. In this throwback conversation Marni sits down with comedian Graham Elwood for a candid funny and sometimes controversial discussion about dating attraction and the stories men tell themselves about women.
They break down the biggest misconceptions that keep men confused frustrated and stuck incl
Ep. 562 A Bad Boy Women Want
The friend zone does not get you in the end zone. In this throwback episode we break down what women actually mean when they say they want a bad boy and how to embody those traits without being arrogant cold or disrespectful.
We talk about the difference between being nice and being attractive how confidence boundaries and emotional leadership create desire and why trying to please everyone usuall
Ep. 561 How to Escape the Friend Zone
Dun dun dunnnn. The dreaded friend zone. We have all landed there and it can feel like the Bermuda Triangle of dating. Once you are in it feels nearly impossible to get out.
In this throwback episode we break down why the friend zone happens in the first place what mistakes keep you stuck there and what actually shifts attraction so a woman starts seeing you differently. You will learn how to chan
Ep. 560 What Really Turns Women On
Most dating advice is generic outdated and honestly pretty cringey. In this episode Marni sits down with Dr Jennifer Berman New York Times bestselling author and renowned urologist to have an honest conversation about attraction emotional connection and what actually turns women on.
They talk about why desire starts in the mind how emotional safety impacts sexual chemistry and what men often misun
Ep. 559 How To Build Real Self-Esteem
This episode is a throwback to one of our most powerful conversations on self esteem and it is just as relevant today as ever.
Building real self esteem is not something most people are taught how to do. It feels big overwhelming and confusing which is exactly why so many people struggle with it and never fix it. In this episode we break down where self esteem actually comes from and how to start
Ep. 558 Why Being “Nice” Makes You Invisible to Women
Most men think attraction is built by being polite, respectful, and safe.
But that’s exactly why so many women feel nothing, even when the guy checks all the boxes.
In this episode, Marni breaks down the biggest misunderstanding men have about attraction with Kurt who is a listener of the podcast. Why logic, effort, and approval seeking quietly kill chemistry before it ever starts. You’ll learn th
Ep. 557 How to Spark Attraction in the First 30 Seconds
Approaching women in public is rarer than ever, which means if you can do it well, you instantly stand out.
In this episode, Marni and Kristen break down the real “first impression” stuff that actually matters: your face, your eyes, your smile, your energy, and your tonality. You’ll learn how to fix resting “don’t talk to me” face, how to use subtle push-pull with expressions, and a simple way to
Ep. 556 What Alpha Really Means Today
We are throwing it back to a classic conversation about what it really means to be an alpha man today. Our guest Kevin Aillaud breaks down the qualities that make a man grounded, confident, and in charge of his own life. Kevin lives what he teaches, and you can hear that in every moment of this episode. A true must listen.
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Ep. 555 Throwback: How To Be a Pick Up Artist with Vince Kelvin
Enjoy this special throwback episode where Marni sits down with seduction coach Vince Kelvin to talk about dating, attraction, confidence, and how men can naturally get better with women. Vince breaks down actionable insights, useful techniques, and surprising truths about modern dating. Listen now and learn something new.
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Ep. 553 No-BS Guide to Dating Women in Their 40's
Today’s throwback episode of the Ask Women Podcast brings on a single mother who pulls zero punches when it comes to dating past 40. She’s direct, she’s no-BS, and she’s not here to sugarcoat anything for your ego — she’s here to tell you exactly how women in her position actually think, choose, and filter men.
If you’ve ever wondered what dating looks like through the eyes of a woman balancing k
Ep. 554 Throwback! The Relationship Doctor Is In (with Bob Grant)
We’re taking it way back to a classic 2016 episode! “The Relationship Doctor” himself, Bob Grant, calls in to share timeless insights on attraction, connection, and what makes relationships actually work.
Bob’s a renowned dating expert and author of multiple best-selling relationship books — and in this vintage “How to Get the Girl” episode, he drops the kind of grounded, no-nonsense wisdom that n
Ep. 553 The Instincts That Make Women Want You (and Repel Them Too)
This week, we’re going primal 🧠🔥
Author and evolutionary psychology expert Tim Ash joins us to talk about his new book Primal Dating, a brutally honest guide to understanding the instincts that secretly drive attraction, love, and relationships.
We dig into the psychology beneath the surface: what’s really motivating men and women, why certain dating behaviors feel “automatic,” and how our evolut
Ep. 552 Getting Her Out of Her Head and Into Her Body
Most men think women already know how to access that deeply sensual, turned-on version of themselves, but the truth is, a lot of women have never actually been guided into their own bodies before. They’re in their heads, second-guessing, performing, or trying to “do it right”… instead of actually feeling anything.
In this episode, we’re joined by Amy Rowan from The Suburban Intimacy Project to bre
Ep. 551 Why Happiness = Hotness (w/ Happiness Coach Robert Mack)
We’re throwing it back to one of our most powerful Ask Women episodes — where we explore why being happy isn’t just good for your soul, it’s magnetic. Studies show that the happier you are, the more attractive you become to the opposite sex. That’s why we brought on happiness coach Robert Mack, a man who had it all - looks, success, intelligence, a great family — but still felt miserable inside.
R
Ep. 550 How to Handle Flaky Women - Throwback
We’re throwing it back to the Ask Women days! Comedian Nick Guerra joins Marni and Kristen for a classic “Over Analyze This” episode where we dive into listener letters and answer your biggest dating questions. From how to handle jealousy to dealing with flakers and c*ck blockers, nothing’s off limits. We also dive into our classic segment, Help Another Brother Out, where we give one listener some
Ep. 549 Show Confidence Around Women You LIKE
On this week’s How to Get the Girl, we’re joined by Adam Woolard — husband to Bachelorette star Hannah Brown, VP of Business Development at Joi+Blokes, and a guy who knows firsthand what it’s like to feel intimidated by a woman.
We dive into two huge areas that can make or break your dating life:
• Confidence around women you actually like — why guys hold back, don’t fully express themselves, and
Ep. 548 How to Date When You’re New in Town
Moving to a new city can feel like hitting the reset button—new streets to explore, new friends to make, and a whole new dating scene to figure out. In this throwback episode (originally aired 6.15.16, Ep. 67), Marni and Kristen talk with east-coast transplant PJ about how to rebuild your social life, boost your confidence, and navigate dating when you’re starting from scratch.
We also dive into:
Ep. 547 COVID Changed Dating… But These 20-Something Secrets Haven’t Changed
This week, we’re bringing you a throwback episode that’s just as valuable today as when it first aired. We sat down with Abby — a hot, young, single twenty-something — to get the unfiltered inside scoop on what dating in your 20s is really like. From the shifts COVID created in the dating landscape to what’s stayed exactly the same, Abby pulls back the curtain on what works, what fails, and how to
Why In-Person Coaching Changes Everything - Bonus Episode!
In this bonus episode of How to Get the Girl, Kristen sits down with Dave Stultz from Limitless Brave to talk about something that can completely shift your dating life: the power of working with a coach in person.
We break down why nothing compares to the energy of being in the room, where body language, presence, and confidence can be seen, felt, and fine-tuned in real time.
You’ll hear why wor
Ep. 546 Porn, Dating, and What Women Really Think (with Dr. Kayte)
This episode is anything but a lecture. In fact, we kick things off with a totally candid 10-minute conversation between me, Kristen, and our guest Dr. Kayte about our own porn patterns - genres, likes, dislikes - proving that yes, we ALL watch porn.
From there, Dr. Kayte breaks down what’s actually healthy versus harmful when it comes to porn, plus what’s real and what’s pure camera trickery that
Ep. 545 Freshly Divorced and Dating Like a Pro
Dating at 49 isn’t about playing games — it’s about knowing who you are, what you want, and not being afraid to say it out loud. On this episode of How to Get the Girl, we sit down with Rachel Birch, host of the award-winning podcast Love Before 100.
Freshly divorced and unapologetically back in the dating scene, Rachel opens up about what she’s looking for, what turns her on, and the mindset of a
Ep. 544 The Smart Penis Ring & The Future of Men’s Sexual Health
When it comes to men’s health, your penis might be saying more than you think. On this episode of How to Get the Girl, we sit down with Dr. Elliot Justin — physician, innovator, and creator of the world’s first smart penis ring — to talk about not erectile dysfunction, but erectile fitness.
Dr. Justin shares why sexual health is more than performance — it’s a vital indicator of your overall well-b
Ep. 543 Building Connection and Chemistry Through Communication
Communication is the foundation of every great relationship, but for so many people, it’s also the biggest struggle. In this episode, we’re joined by Suzanne Tabachnick, founder of Social Foundations, a supportive community dedicated to helping people build social awareness, abilities, and confidence. While Social Foundations focuses on individuals navigating life on the autism spectrum, Suzanne’s
Ep. 542 The Pursuit Playbook and Decoding Her Signals
How do you know when to pursue, when to pull back, and when to stop altogether?
In this throwback episode, we sit down with Emmy-nominated producer and casting director Tanya Bershadsly to break down the art of pursuit.
We dive into the signals women give that tell you she’s interested, HOW TO SPOT when you’re pushing too far, and the difference between persistence and pressure.
Tanya brings he
Ep. 540 Online Dating Mistakes Every Man Makes (and How to Fix Them)
This week, is a serious DON'T MISS. We sit down with Erin Keating, creator of the brand and podcast Hotter Than Ever, dedicated to dating over 50, to reveal the unfiltered truths men need to hear.
While Erin’s show focuses on dating later in life, the insights she shares apply to any man looking to attract and connect with women.
Erin is no-holds-barred, authentic, and tells it exactly like it i
Ep. 539 How to Be Vulnerable Without Looking Weak (Throwback Ep!)
This one’s from the vault back when the show was called Ask Women—so don’t be confused by the old name drop! The advice still holds up (and then some).
In this episode, we’re joined by Adam Wayne, Marni’s personal coach, to talk about one of the trickiest topics for men: how to share your vulnerabilities without coming off as self-deprecating, weak, or like you’re making excuses for who you are.
A
Ep. 538 How to Bounce Back from a Bad 1st Impression
In this throwback episode, we get all too relatable talking about making a bad first impression. Made a weird joke? Came on too strong? Forgot how to speak English the second she looked at you? We’ve all been there—and this week, we’re talking about how to come back from a cringey first impression without losing the girl (or your dignity).
Comedian and crowd-reading master K.T. Tatara joins Kriste
Ep. 537 Confidence Isn’t a Mystery, It’s a Skill (with Alpha M)
We’re throwing it back to one of our most downloaded episodes with none other than Alpha M, the #1 men’s lifestyle influencer, Aaron Marino.
In this conversation, we unpack the truth about confidence: where it actually comes from, why most guys fake it wrong, and how to build the kind of self-assurance that women feel before you even say a word.
We dive into:
Why confidence has nothing to do with
Ep. 536 Emotional Intelligence: A Trait Women CRAVE
If you struggle to read women, constantly misinterpret signals, or feel like there’s a disconnect no matter how hard you try, this episode is for you.
We’re joined by Empathetic Leadership Coach Jevon Wooden to unpack the power of Emotional Intelligence (EQ) and why it’s the missing link for so many men when it comes to connection, attraction, and trust.
We break down how emotional intelligence he
Ep. 535 Sexual Shame No More!
In this episode of How to Get the Girl (formerly known as Ask Women), Kristen and Marni are joined by certified sex therapist Dr. Tina Shermer to tackle one of the biggest silent confidence-killers for men: sexual shame.
Whether it’s shame around performance, desire, past experiences, or just not knowing what’s “normal,” this shame often goes unspoken — but it’s sabotaging your confidence, your c
Ep. 534 How to Turn Jealousy Into Sexual Chemistry
🎙️ Heads up! We’re playing around with new titles for the show! Right now, we’re rolling with "How to Get the Girl" by Ask Women, but stay tuned for another possible rebrand 👀
This week, we’re diving into one of the most misunderstood emotions in dating: jealousy. And no, it’s not always toxic. In fact, if you know how to use it, it can be one of the most powerful tools for increasing attraction,
Ep. 533 How to Ask for What You Want AND Actually Get It
It’s time to STOP sabotaging yourself—and start asking for what you actually want.
This week, we’re joined by Brad DeMint, host of the How to Win podcast and a powerhouse salesman who knows how to close deals and create clarity.
Brad breaks down the exact mindset shift that will help you stop playing small, speak up, and go after what you truly want—not just in dating, but in life. We also dig in
Ep. 532 Let’s Talk About the Penis: Performance, ED, and What Women Really Think
This week, Marni is joined by the one and only Susan Bratton, intimacy expert to millions, for a no-holds-barred conversation all about the penis. From performance anxiety to erectile dysfunction, we’re breaking down the most common issues men face in the bedroom—and why it’s not just “in your head.”
Susan shares expert insights on what actually causes ED, how to regain confidence and sensitivity,
Ep. 531 Style That Makes Women DROOL
This week, Marni and Kristen break down the jaw-dropping style moments from a men's networking event — where the men weren’t just dressed well... they were dressed like MEN. Smart. Sophisticated. And undeniably sexy.
The ladies dive into:
HOW to dress in a way that makes her stop mid-sentence
WHY certain looks make women feel giddy and drawn in
WHAT it takes to turn the sidewalk into your per
Ep. 530 Unlocking Confidence and Why Women Do and Don't Date Older Men
Kristen and Marni are joined by special guest Kelly Tao, one of Marne’s original wing girls, for a powerful conversation on confidence—how to access the confidence already within you, how to keep it consistent, and how to let it multiply.
They also get real about age gaps in dating—and share their personal preferences about WHY dating older men can be desirable and WHY dating younger/the same age
Ep. 529 Crush Approach Anxiety with the Power of Precise Language
What if changing just a few words could completely shift your confidence and attraction levels? In this powerful episode, we welcome back language and mindset expert Spencer Burnett to dive deep into the concept of precise language—how the words you think and say directly impact your ability to connect, attract, and show up as your most magnetic self.
Spencer breaks down how unconscious language p
Ep. 528 Break Free: How Hidden Trauma Is Running Your Life (And How to Stop It)
Trauma - we all have it. Whether it’s loud and obvious or quiet and buried, your past experiences are shaping your present more than you might realize.
In this powerful episode, we’re joined by trauma expert Tori Helf (Janae), who breaks down exactly how to uncover the hidden traumas holding you back — and more importantly, how to release them so they stop running the show. From small emotional wo
Ep. 527 Be a Detective in the Bedroom: How to Read Her and Please Her
In this episode, we’re joined by Celeste Hirschman, co-creator of the Somatica® Method and co-founder of the Somatica Institute. Celeste is a somatic sex coach who specializes in helping men and women create deeper, more connected, and more satisfying intimate experiences.
We dive into how you can become a detective in the bedroom—not by overanalyzing, but by tuning in. Learn how to pick up on wha
Ep. 526 Unlocking Your Dark Side to Attract Women
What if your “dark side” was the key to unlocking deeper confidence, attraction, and connection in your relationships?
In this episode, Adam Skoda — host of The Masculine Mindset Show, author of 77 Ways to Develop a Masculine Mindset, and creator of the Alpha Body Bootcamp Training Program — joins the show to explore the real power behind what psychology calls the “Dark Triad” traits: narcissism,
Ep. 525 The Secret Weapon You’re Ignoring: Your Imperfections
This week, we’re flipping the script on what you think women want.
Yes, your so-called "shortcomings" (the things you’re not proud of) can actually attract women when you know how to use them the right way. And our amazing guest - fiery redhead Yoann Bohbot, Founder of dotsspace.com - is here to explain exactly how to do it.
We also dive into:
How to find and pursue the right woman for you
How
Ep. 524 Rewire Your Mind, Win her Attraction: The Hypnosis Hack
We’re joined by charisma and hypnosis coach Wendy Packer, who shares how you can literally rewire your subconscious to become more confident, magnetic, and successful with women.
Wendy dives into practical, powerful tools to help you erase limiting beliefs and replace them with the mindset and identity of the man you want to be. (Yes - 'fake it till you make it' is real, and she’ll show you how.)
Ep. 523 Unlocking Arousal: The Many Pathways to Pleasure
In this juicy and eye-opening episode, we dive deep into the many ways women experience arousal - with a refreshingly honest look at the full spectrum of desire. Joined by sex and intimacy expert Melissa Louise, we explore the concept of arousal maps for both women and men, and how most of us have only scratched the surface of what's possible.
Whether you've been with your partner for years or you
Ep. 522 Dating Women in Their 50's - They've Still Got It
In this episode, we're joined by a bold, sexy woman in her 50s who’s single, self-aware, and not afraid to speak the truth about dating at this stage of life. We dive deep into what’s actually going on for women in their 50s—physically, emotionally, and romantically.
She shares what men are doing that works, what’s turning women off faster than you can say “hey beautiful,” and the kind of communic
Ep. 521 Getting What You Want and Owning Who You Are
Dating is challenging enough, so why make it harder by hiding your true self and not asking for what you want? This week, we’re joined by Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby, coach and therapist at GrowingSelf.com, who shares powerful insights on building self-confidence and showing up authentically in your love life. She also breaks down attachment styles - how to identify yours and what it means for your relat
Ep. 520 Finding Love Through Music w/ Rachel Van Nortwick of Vinylly
Can your taste in music lead you to love? In this episode, we’re joined by Rachel Van Nortwick, creator of the dating app Vinylly, to dive into the power of music in romantic connections. We explore why sharing playlists might be more telling than answering dating profile prompts and how musical chemistry can spark real-life attraction.
Plus, we break down the transition from working together to d
Ep. 519 The Secret to Showing Confidence Women Can’t Ignore
Confidence isn’t just about what you say - it’s about how you say it. This week, we're joined by speaking empowerment coach Linda Ugelow, who reveals the subtle yet powerful ways you can show confidence to women through your voice, tonality, and presence while eliminating anxiety.
Learn how to make women lean in, listen, and think, Wow, that guy is confident—without trying too hard. We break down
Ep. 518 How to Meet Women and Desirable Masculinity
This week's episode with Dave Stultz from LimitlessBrave.com goes DEEP into what steps to take to EXPAND your world so you can meet more women. We also talk about HOW to meet them as well as masculinity - what's the perfect balance of it, how do you express it and why do women love it so much?
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Ep. 517 Finding the Right Women
Show Update! We will now be releasing episodes every Tuesdays!
In this throwback episode, we have dating coach and matchmaker Laurel House host of Famously Single. We talk about pre-qualifying, what does it mean, how do you do it and what questions to ask so you don't waste your time and money on the wrong girls.
>>>To become the most witty, charming, attractive and polished version of yoursel
Ep. 516 How to Date Women in their 40s
Women in their 40's are a HUGE category of women! Some are single moms, some are ball buster alpha females in the business world, some are wounded from past experiences with men. So how do you navigate these muddy waters? Our guest Heidi who works in the finance industry is going to tell you her experience as a single mom, kick ass business woman dating in today's world. She'll tell you what wo
Ep. 515 How to Handle Rejection
In this throwback episode, we have actress Catherine Urbanek with us to discuss how to handle heartbreak and rejection as Kristen got her heart a bit broken when reentering the world of dating after ending an 8 year relationship years ago. We all go through it at one point or another, so knowing that it's normal but moving forward and showing yourself grace and self love is the best way to grow so
Ep. 514 Decoding Women
Figuring women out can be so hard, BUT IT DOESN'T HAVE TO BE because you always have us. But, today you ALSO have sought-after dating coach for women, Kelsey Wonderlin on to give us EVEN MORE insights into women: what they say they want versus what they really want, how to be yourself AND the guy they want and on and on and on. This show covers it all!
>>>To become the most witty, charming, attr
Ep. 513 How to Become Undeniably Desirable
This week, coach and fitness trainer, Martel Metellus shares with us his journey of becoming epically fit and seeing the behavior of women around him change in the process. And, no, it's not just because women drool over muscles, it's because they drool over someone who commands and earns respect. Yes, looking good plays a part, but in this episode you'll see how it's ultimately competence and con
Ep. 512 How and When to Ask Her Out
What is the best time and best way to ask a woman out so that she is guaranteed to say YES??? Adam Gilad joins us to tell us how & when to ask a woman out and how to do it boldly. We also have sex therapist Aimee in studio and together we all discuss: 1. The #1 biggest mistake men make with women that has them losing out on countless opportunities with women 2. Tip and trick for how to quickly get
Ep. 511 Top 5 Traits "Nice Guys" NEED to Have
Today we're throwing back to an episode with dating coach, Bobby Rio, whose speciality is turning "nice guys" into desirable guys. He shoots you straight with the top 5 MOST ATTRACTIVE traits you NEED to have as a man and how to get them.
>>>To become the most witty, charming, attractive and polished version of yourself, schedule a free call with Kristen here: https://calendly.com/kristenandch
Ep. 510 How to Date Younger Women
This week we talk all about dating different aged women with our guest, licensed couples therapist and host of the podcast Insights from the Couch - Mental Health at Midlife, Colette Fehr. We dive deep into HOW to date younger women, IF you should date younger women, what age might be right for you and how to win her over.
>>>To become MAGNETIC, witty and charming, schedule a free call with Kr
Ep. 509 Male Isolation
This week we talk about the after effects of COVID still vibrating through culture in the the form of isolation and how it's hurting you and your dating life. We talk about how to get more social and meet more people so we can get back to the healthy way of living life - with people.
>>>To become MAGNETIC, witty and charming, schedule a free call with Kristen here: https://calendly.com/kristen
Ep. 508 How to Change Your Attachment Style
This week, we have a show packed with information that will help you understand your attachment style and if it's unhealthy so you can learn to change it so you can start attract healthier partners. The Attachment Expert, Adam Lane Smith has so much incredible knowledge and wisdom to impart on why we find ourselves dating people who aren't right for us as well as why presenting yourself with stren
Online Dating - The GOOD, the BAD and the UGLY
In this throwback episode, we have a listener join us who has a TON of experience with online dating. He shares with us the ups and the downs and the highs and the lows so you can avoid the mistakes he's made and get closer to dating online like a pro.
his episode is brought to you by Better Help.
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