The Ars Amorata Podcast
Ars Amorata is a celebration of the art of seduction, the rebirth of romance, and a lifelong quest for beauty and adventure. Join Zan Perrion and Jordan Luke Collier and a growing number of men around the world who are binding themselves to the mast, raging against mediocrity in all its forms, and defining their lives, themselves, and most importantly their relationships, on their own terms. Subscribe and listen each week to hear inspiring tales of love, heartbreak, debauchery and seduction across the seven seas, thoughts on the next phase of art and science, and intimate and daring interviews with men and women.
Episodes
The Zan and Jordan Show — Restoring Beauty — What Zan Would Tell a Room of Sixteen-Year-Olds — and Why the Lights Aren’t Permanently Out
Send us Fan MailMost messages aimed at young men today split into two dead ends: become a sensitive, apologetic non-threat, or go to war and reclaim dominance. Zan thinks both camps hold a fragment of truth and neither offers a boy anything to actually hope for — which is why, more and more, he finds himself wanting to talk to thirteen-to-eighteen-year-olds instead of grown men.In this episode, Jo
The Zan and Jordan Show — Restoring Beauty — The Beauty Song — On the Male Gaze and the Grace to See
Send us Fan MailMost men have been trained to see the “male gaze” as something to apologize for — a coarse, objectifying reflex to suppress or perform your way out of. Either you’re the bro who can’t see past a woman’s body, or you’re the guy in the loafers and matcha latte performing a “female gaze” so hard it becomes its own kind of costume.In this episode, Jordan revisits a line from The Alabas
The Zan and Jordan Show — Restoring Beauty — When She Stops Wanting You — On Admiration, Contempt, and the Point of No Return
Send us Fan MailA Guild member sent in a message that stopped this episode cold. A friend of his — married, still in love with his wife — confided that she won’t have sex with him anymore. Not even a goodbye kiss. He found out she’s been using a vibrator. He can’t understand why she won’t let him be the one. And the group of friends around him, hearing this, offer the usual advice: book a weekend
The Zan and Jordan Show — Restoring Beauty — Overthinking (What’s going on with this girl I’m trying to date?)
Send us Fan MailYou go for a drink with a buddy, and he unloads what’s happened with his girl. A lot of push-pull, ignored texts, mood swings, drama. He wonders what’s going through her mind, and enlists your help in figuring her out too.What do you say?Do you engage your own anxious brainwaves, and try and decipher her motives? Or do you tackle the real issue on display:Never mind the woman… what
The Zan and Jordan Show — Restoring Beauty — Girl at The Gym (on Meeting the Woman Who Stops You in Your Tracks)
Send us Fan MailWe all know it’s not about what you say to her. It's the inner coherence, the calmness of vibration in your body, that shapes the interaction before your words do.One of our Guild members wrote about a moment at the gym. He saw a woman, was instantly spellbound, a little frozen. He approached, took his shot, and asked for feedback.His story is one we can all relate to — great,
The Zan and Jordan Show — Restoring Beauty — How to Know When Attraction is Mutual, and Five Ways the Ego Blocks It
Send us Fan MailThere is far more attraction in the world than most of us are able to perceive. And far more women into you than you might ever notice.Today’s episode unpacks how the ego distorts our ability to perceive the signs of mutual attraction. This is a deep-dive about how we get in our own way, and what becomes possible when we ‘cleans the windows of perception’.If you’re listening to thi
The Zan and Jordan Show — Restoring Beauty — Pull the Trigger — The Art of the Invitation and Why Most Men Never Do It
Send us Fan MailMost men leave an interaction having done everything right — approached, connected, built rapport for forty-five minutes — and then walked away without ever pulling the trigger. They got the number. They didn’t invite. And those are not the same thing.In this episode, Zan and Jordan return to one of the most fundamental and most overlooked principles in the Ars Amorata: the invitat
The Zan and Jordan Show — Restoring Beauty — The Click — and Why You’ll Never Finally Arrive (But Keep Going Anyway)
Send us Fan MailMost men arrive at a retreat, a workshop, or a pilgrimage to the mentor with the same silent demand underneath everything else: make it click. They’ve read the books, done the programs, sat through the silent retreats. They’re well-theorized. Now they want it to land — permanently, finally, done.In this episode, recorded the Friday before Zan’s ten-day training week in Bucharest, Z
The Zan and Jordan Show — Restoring Beauty — A World Where Every Man is an Amorati — and Why Women Don’t Need Coaching
Send us Fan MailMost men reading Zan’s work assume the Ars Amorata vision is a soft one — all light and ease, women as fluttering butterflies, every interaction kissed by poetry. But there’s a shadow side to the archetype that gets quietly ignored, and an answer to a question that almost nobody dares to ask: what would the world actually look like if every man embodied this philosophy?In this epis
The Zan and Jordan Show — Restoring Beauty — The Rhythm of the Interaction — and What Walks into the Room With You
Send us Fan MailMost men preparing for an encounter with a woman are reaching for the wrong tool: a script, an opening line, a prescribed posture. They walk in armoured with a battle plan, hands at their sides, leaning back on their heels — and wonder why nothing sticks.In this episode, Zan and Jordan unpack what’s actually moving underneath a magnetic interaction: the rhythm a man carries in his
The Zan and Jordan Show — Restoring Beauty — The Philosopher Who Proved Approaching Her Is a Moral Act
Send us Fan MailEvery once in a while a new paradigm of thinking enters your mind, reformats your worldview, and blows your sense of what’s possible in life wide open.A friend of mine used to refer to these as brainquakes, and they might only happen once every few years.Zan gave many of us such a brainquake with his initial Ars Amorata philosophy. Now, a brainquake has happened unto Zan.The mathem
The Zan and Jordan Show — Why Zan Won’t Show a Single Page — and the Lost Map of Bohemia
Send us Fan MailMost men chasing the writer’s life have the same fantasy: quit the corporate world, escape to Paris, find the bohemian enclave where great work just happens. But that Paris doesn’t exist anymore — and Zan would argue it never quite existed the way we imagine it.In this episode, Jordan presses Zan for an update on his next book (still no release date — sorry, you’ve been warned), an
The Zan and Jordan Show — Restoring Beauty — Harness the Visceral Force of your Lust for Women and Life
Send us Fan MailMost men who want more sexual energy are refusing to sit on a stallion that’s already inside them.That wild horse energy is already there — it always was. The question isn't how to generate more of it. It's how to feel it breathe beneath you as you step out of your bedroom. It’s about letting it purr during small-talk: with enough force to be felt, and enough restraint to
The Zan and Jordan Show — Restroing Beuty — Working with the Agony of Strong Sexual Desire
Send us Fan MailMost men who find our work say they want the same thing: more sexual energy. It seems like the way to avoid being felt as a nice-guy and to escape the friend-zone.But the downside of our sexual desire is the agony that it brings up: physically, mentally, emotionally. It’s handy, therefore, that our subconscious engages in sexual repression, to keep this angst at bay.In this episode
The Zan and Jordan Show — Restoring Beauty — Longing, Yearning, Certainty, Conviction | Debunking Masculine & Feminine Approaches to Love
Send us Fan MailWho Longs More: Women or Men?The words “longing” and “yearning” have become mainstays in our recent conversation with men. Strange - these are terms you find in Rumi’s mystic poetry, or in femininity goddess work, not the male dating arena. But here we have it: men owning their longing for relationship, and all the poetic wisdom that the longing itself contains.At the same time, mo
The Zan and Jordan Show — Restoring Beauty — What a Man Transmits Before He Speaks
Send us Fan MailWhat a Man Transmits Before He SpeaksMost men in the dating world focus on entirely the wrong questions.It’s not about what you say to her, but the ‘world’ you’re arriving from.There is a stark difference between running someone through well-designed stages, and transmitting a context of being. One is shallow: sequence, steps, clear-defined outcome. The other is deep: you as a myth
The Zan and Jordan Show — Episode 50 —There Is No Journey In The Land Of Women
Send us Fan MailWhy treating dating as a “journey” quietly destroys love, authenticity and real connection with women—and what to do instead.WHAT YOU’LL LEARN- Why “getting good with women” often leads you away from what you actually want (love, not just sex)- The subtle harm—to yourself and others—of treating women as steps on a personal growth journey- Why neediness, manipulation and ego often d
The Zan and Jordan Show — Epsiode 49 — The One Thing Women Test For (And Most Men Miss)
Send us Fan MailWhy women test, and how to pass.(Hint: it has nothing to do with tactics—and everything to do with truth.)WHAT YOU’LL LEARN:- The single quality that women ultimately probe for when they meet a man- The behavioral nuances most men miss—but women never do- What Zan wouldn’t do—why the spirit of invitation makes all the differenceTIMESTAMPS:00:00 Highlights02:15 Today’s question06:55
The Zan and Jordan Show — Episode 48 — Be a Traveller, Not a Tourist (Why Travel Should Change You)
Send us Fan MailYou hear the call to adventure—how to answer it through travel without blowing up your relationships or career.WHAT YOU’LL LEARN:- The difference between travelling to consume vs. to reveal something hidden within you—and how _real_ travel changes who you are- North, East, West and South as archetypes—what each offers a man, and what a balanced traveller looks like- Why a strong ca
The Zan and Jordan Show — Episode 47 — Dread and Anxiety Disappear When You Remember What Matters
Send us Fan MailEnd anxiety and dread around milestones like New Year’s or birthdays with a daily ritual and mindful pause.WHAT YOU’LL LEARN:- The difference between goal-chasing and focusing on manifesting a _felt state of being_ (and how this helps you attract much higher-quality relationships)- Why resolutions fail—and what to do instead- A daily ritual that replaces anxiety with trust and pote
The Zan and Jordan Show — Episode 46 — How To Overcome Jealousy (So You Can Have the Love Life You Really Desire)
Send us Fan MailHow to overcome jealousy toward men who “do better” with women which keeps you from having the kind of life and relationships you desire. WHAT YOU’LL LEARN:- How being truly loved by even one great woman transforms your relationship to rejection, and the fear of “better men” taking something from you- Why wanting another man to “dim his light” is a sign of insecurity, and how to sh
The Zan and Jordan Show — Episode 45 — Why You Keep Avoiding Real Connection with Women (And How to Stop)
Send us Fan MailHow to connect with a woman across the room without saying a single word. WHAT YOU’LL LEARN:- The subtle difference between *desire,* which is honest, free and independent of outcome… and *neediness,* which has a covert agenda and tries to _take_ something- How to let a woman FEEL you by expressing your desire openly- How to overcome internal blockages that keep you from expressing
The Zan and Jordan Show — Episode 44 — Attract A Good Woman by Living a More Inspired Life
Send us Fan MailHow do you go from feeling uninspired and dissatisfied with life… to becoming a man whose presence naturally attracts, moves, and excites women?(Abundance in the Land of Women, Episode 44)WHAT YOU’LL LEARN:- What 'beauty' really is in the context of attraction- What a woman needs to feel to be drawn to you- How Zan’s philosophy of beauty applies to modern dating- The orig
The Zan and Jordan Show — Episode 43 — Why Honesty Gets You Further With Women Than Anything Else
Send us Fan MailWhy meeting and dating women frustrates you, how to be yourself around women, and the secret to having fulfilling experiences with women that very few men know. WHAT YOU’LL LEARN:- The #1 factor that makes a woman fall in love with you - Where traditional self-improvement falls short in the dance with women - How real fulfillment comes from the QUALITY of your encounters, not the q
The Zan and Jordan Show — Beyond Commitment: When She Loves You in Ways that Increase Your Freedom (Rather than Restrict It) — Epsiode 42
Send us Fan MailThink you don’t want to ‘commit’ to a relationship? This video will change the way you see commitment, show you how to love freely, and stop being so attached and jealous.(Abundance in the Land of Women, Episode 42)WHAT YOU’LL LEARN:- All women come and go, and no woman will be in your life forever: accepting that fact is the first step in having a relationship that’s meaningful -
The Zan and Jordan Show — How To Make Women Want You – The Dream Work of Seduction — Epsiode 41
Send us Fan MailHow to get women to chase you by being more mysterious: what makes women fantasize over guys, and tips for increasing your spirit of mystique.WHAT YOU’LL LEARN:- The inner workings of a woman’s mind and what makes her obsess over a man - How to make her dream about you – not through tactics – but as something beneficent (how to actually give her the gift of dreaming about you) - Bo
The Zan and Jordan Show — Episode 40 — What Makes a Man Mysterious — And Why Women Melt in His Presence
Send us Fan MailWhy being mysterious is so attractive to women, and the body language and texting that keeps women interested. ____________________________________________________Episode 40 — What Makes a Man Mysterious — And Why Women Melt in His Presence____________________________________________________80% of communication between men and women is nonverbal. “It’s not what you say, but how you
The Zan and Jordan Show— Epsiode 39 — Dressing to Tell Your Real Story to Women
Send us Fan MailAbundance in the Land of WomenEpisode 38 — Dating and the Grasp of Technology____________________________________________________This discussion continues on from Episode 36.You've heard the advice: "Dress to impress!" Match your belt to your shoes, iron your collar, buy a nice watch… the usual suspects of masculine style advice.And you know how hollow it feels. You
The Zan and Jordan Show — Episode 38 — Dating and the Grasp of Technology
Send us Fan MailEpisode 38 — Dating and the Grasp of Technology____________________________________________________You’ve probably seen the stats on online dating. In 2019, a Stanford University survey suggested that 39% of new couples, across the US, met online, surpassing any other form of introduction.And you’ve probably experienced, first-hand, that most popular dating sites are—when it comes
The Zan and Jordan Show — Episode 37 — Is There an 80/20 Approach to Seduction?
Send us Fan MailEpisode 37 — Is There an 80/20 Approach to Seduction?Note: Part 1 of this series called "Return to the Land of Women" premiered here: https://youtu.be/dqMT7HdqioM____________________________________________________Come join us! Sign up today and enjoy all the perks of the Amorati Membership, including live calls with Zan and his team. Go here: https://www.Amorati.net/____
The Zan and Jordan Show — Episode 36 — High or Low: Where are You on the Spectrum?
Send us Fan MailEpisode 36 — High or Low: Where are You on the Spectrum?____________________________________________________Join Zan Perrion in Bucharest for WWZD (What Would Zan Do) Live—a full week of immersive, hands-on training with real models.No more dry theory: learn sub-communication to command attention, master magnetic eye contact that sparks unforgettable connections, and explore the su
The Zan and Jordan Show — Episode 35 — Attracting Women’s Attention: Subtle Shifts in Demeanour that Other Men Don’t Know
Send us Fan MailEpisode 35 — Attracting Women’s Attention: Subtle Shifts in Demeanour that Other Men Don’t Know____________________________________________________Come join us! Sign up today and enjoy all the perks of the Amorati Membership, including live calls with Zan and his team. Go here: https://www.Amorati.net/____________________________________Join Zan Perrion in Bucharest for WWZD (What
The Zan and Jordan Show — Episode 34 — How to Build Community Pt.2 | Leveraging Curiosity
Send us Fan MailAbundance in the Land of WomenEpisode 34 — How to Build Community Pt.2 | Leveraging Curiosity____________________________________________________Come join us! Sign up today and enjoy all the perks of the Amorati Membership, including live calls with Zan and his team. Go here: https://www.Amorati.net/____________________________________Join Zan Perrion in Bucharest for WWZD (What Wo
The Zan and Jordan Show — Episode 33 — Building Community and Attracting People Into Your Circle
Send us Fan MailAbundance in the Land of WomenEpisode 33 — Building Community and Attracting People Into Your Circle____________________________________________________Come join us! Sign up today and enjoy all the perks of the Amorati Membership, including live calls with Zan and his team. Go here: https://www.Amorati.net/____________________________________Need a gunslinger? Someone who rides int
The Zan and Jordan Show — Episode 32 — How To Access True Power and Thrive
Send us Fan MailEpisode 32 — How To Access True Power and Thrive____________________________________________________Come join us! Sign up today and enjoy all the perks of the Amorati Membership, including live calls with Zan and his team. Go here: https://www.Amorati.net/____________________________________Need a gunslinger? Someone who rides into town, completely solves your problem, then rides o
The Zan and Jordan Show — Episode 31 — How To Know if You Found a ‘One'?
Send us Fan MailAbundance in the Land of WomenEpisode 31 — How To Know if You Found a ‘One'?____________________________________________________Come join us! Sign up today and enjoy all the perks of the Amorati Membership, including live calls with Zan and his team. Go here: https://www.Amorati.net/____________________________________Need a gunslinger? Someone who rides into town, completely
The Zan and Jordan — Episode 30 — Overcome your Reactivity and Melt Through her Shell
Send us Fan MailEpisode 30 — Overcome Your Reactivity and Melt Through Her Shell____________________________________________________Come join us! Sign up today and enjoy all the perks of the Amorati Membership, including live calls with Zan and his team. Go here: https://www.Amorati.net/____________________________________Need a gunslinger? Someone who rides into town, completely solves your probl
The Zan and Jordan Show — Episode 29 — How To Recapture Your Mojo After a Break-up or Divorce
Send us Fan MailEpisode 29 — How To Recapture Your Mojo After a Break-up or Divorce____________________________________________________Come join us! Sign up today and enjoy all the perks of the Amorati Membership, including live calls with Zan and his team. Go here: https://www.Amorati.net/____________________________________Need a gunslinger? Someone who rides into town, completely solves your pr
The Zan and Jordan — Episode 28 — Dealing With One-Sided Attraction? Here’s Something To Consider
Send us Fan MailEpisode 28 — Dealing With One-Sided Attraction? Here’s Something To Consider____________________________________________________Zan famously writes in The Alabaster Girl, “Love is symmetrical…The ones you love are the ones who love you”. Many men (and women) have read and re-read this line, understanding it conceptually, yet fail to *know the experience of being symmetrically in lo
The Zan and Jordan — Episode 27 — Women Don’t Want a Man of Extremes — They Want Someone Balanced and Integrated
Send us Fan MailEpisode 27 — Women Don’t Want a Man of Extremes – They Want Someone Balanced and Integrated____________________________________________________In response to last week’s conversation about forging an essence of masculine excellence now, and in the future, one viewer posed a question to our Amorati membership circle that Zan and Jordan attempt to answer this week.“To a cultural conv
The Zan and Jordan Show — Epsiode 26 — Build a Vision of Your Masculinity from a Blank Canvas
Send us Fan MailEpsiode 26 — Build a Vision of Your Masculinity from a Blank CanvasToday’s discussion starts in response to one viewer’s comment on his perception of the use of “re-” in the messaging of last episode’s ideas around men ‘reclaiming’ and ‘restoring’ their masculine essence. “Spaking in these terms, you’re looking backwards…it’s not forward-creating”, he commented. Zan tells us that w
The Zan and Jordan Show — Episode 25 — Women Don’t Desire You When You’re Afraid of Your Own Masculine Essence
Send us Fan MailThe Zan and Jordan Show — Episode 25 — Women Don’t Desire You When You’re Afraid of Your Own Masculine Essence____________________________________________________Women Don’t Desire You When You’re Afraid of Your Own Masculine EssenceToday, Jordan and Zan shed light on one of the most fundamental, core (literally) shortcomings that men who want to be able to turn women on, must reso
The Zan and Jordan Show — Episode 24 — Balancing Your Inner Warrior and Lover
Send us Fan MailEpisode 24 — Balancing Your Inner Warrior and Lover ____________________________________________________Balancing Your Inner Warrior and Lover Today’s episode is a response to the following question from a viewer: “How can I celebrate women, and enjoy my encounters with them, when I’m in my warrior energy, and not lose it?” Zan and Jordan each bring a unique perspective to the conv
The Zan and Jordan Show — Episode 23 — What To Do When She Brings the Storm
Send us Fan MailEpisode 23 — What To Do When She Brings the Storm____________________________________________________If you’re in relationship with a woman, you can expect that–at some point or another–she will serve you up a juicy personal dilemma of hers. Its origin may have nothing to do with you, however, your own sense of well-being, and ultimately the state of your relationship will depend e
The Zan and Jordan Show — Episode 22 — Explore Your Relationship to Women and Step Into What’s Beyond
Send us Fan MailEpisode 22 — Explore Your Relationship to Women and Step Into What’s Beyond____________________________________________________On the heels of gathering in Bucharest for the Spring 2025 Amorati Conference, Jordan and Zan meet this week and reflect on the conversation had, discuss the true value of embracing the Ars Amorata philosophy, and answer the much-asked question, “How do I g
The Zan and Jordan Show — Episode 21 — Life Beyond Porn — The Pearl to be Snatched from the Murky Abyss
Send us Fan MailEpisode 21 — Life Beyond Porn — The Pearl to be Snatched from the Murky Abyss____________________________________________________Every mindful man eventually faces this question: how do we navigate our relationship with sexuality in a world saturated with pornographic imagery?If you want to feel masterful with your sexual impulses and desires, porn is a universe, a likely addiction
The Zan and Jordan Show —Episode 20 — Semen Retention: Benefits, Usefulness, and Can You Go Too Far?
Send us Fan MailThe Zan and Jordan ShowEpisode 20 — Semen Retention: Benefits, Usefulness, and Can You Go Too Far?____________________________________________________Have you ever gone a few days without ejaculating, and noticed that you felt stronger, more confident, or that people seemed more attracted to you? Could consciously not cumming grant you access to some otherwise-impossible-to-experie
The Zan and Jordan Show — Episode 19 — Overcoming the Resentment of Modern Culture
Send us Fan MailEpisode 19 — Overcoming the Resentment of Modern Culture____________________________________________________What stops many men moving forward with modern dating… is an exhaustion and resentment with the culture at large.Hearing so many horror stories, and with hateful attitudes in the air around them, many men are in retreat, predicting that if they put their best foot forward in
The Zan and Jordan Show — Episode 18 — Initiation: When Do You Know You’ve Done Enough in the World of Women?
Send us Fan MailEpisode 18 — Initiation: When Do You Know You’ve Done Enough in the World of Women?____________________________________________________Neither Zan nor Jordan are strangers to men seeking advice on a very particular predicament: “I’d like to settle down with one beauty, but I feel like I haven’t had all the experiences I wanted to with women, and I don’t want to feel like I forever
The Zan and Jordan Show — Episode 17 — How To Be Sexual, Without Being a Creep
Send us Fan MailAbundance in the Land of WomenEpisode 17 – How To Be Sexual, Without Being a Creep?____________________________________________________Do you feel like you're walking on eggshells when it comes to interacting with women you're attracted to?Do you know exactly what you want to say, but hold back because you're not sure "how it'll land?"Or when you see a
The Zan and Jordan Show — Episode 16 — Beautiful Women are Secretly Lonely
Send us Fan MailAbundance in the Land of WomenEpisode 16 – Beautiful Women are Secretly Lonely____________________________________________________If you’re reading this, then like Zan and Jordan, you’re probably a seeker of the finest treasures in life–of freedom, truth, love, connection and grace. And if you’re reading this, then I imagine that sometimes, you feel secretly lonely.This is reality
The Zan and Jordan Show — Episode 15 – How Quickly To Make Things Intimate With A Woman?
Send us Fan MailEpisode 15 – How Quickly To Make Things Intimate With A Woman? ____________________________________________________One astute viewer of the podcast recently commented on a difference he noticed in Zan and Jordan’s overall styles when it comes to engaging with women. The crux of Zan’s approach lies in honouring the immediate connection he feels with a woman and allowing it to flouri
The Zan and Jordan Show – Episode 14 – Stop Being So Serious: How to Let Go and Enjoy the Dance with Women
Send us Fan MailEpisode 14 – Stop Being So Serious: how to let go and enjoy the dance with women____________________________________________________“How do I stop being so serious and become genuinely more playful?”I find it fascinating that it took 14 episodes of Abundance in the Land Of Women for this question to come up–but I’m not surprised. You see, while the man who asks himself what he’d li
The Zan and Jordan Show – Episode 13 – Create Your Myth And Stand Apart With Women
Send us Fan MailEpisode 13 – Create Your Myth And Stand Apart With Women___________________________________________________The realization of ‘the power of now’ and truly ‘being in the present moment’ are incredibly useful tools that a man can use to get much more out of life, and access an entirely hidden realm of the Land of Women. Indeed, ‘getting present’ is often an important–and necessary–mi
The Zan and Jordan Show - Episode 12 – Your Mental State: Hidden Communication with Women
Send us Fan MailEpisode 12 – Your Mental State: Hidden Communication with Women____________________________________________________The way in which your ‘state’ is affected by a woman you’re attracted to is the tell-tale sign, signifying your chances of having her be attracted back to you or not.Men who have abundance simply don’t get anxious, nervous or feel ashamed when they come across a girl t
The Zan and Jordan Show - Episode 11 – How to Find Real, Masculine Power in How You Show Up with Women
Send us Fan MailEpisode 11 – How to Find Real, Masculine Power in How You Show Up with Women____________________________________________________In today’s episode, Zan unpacks a powerful distinction between two energies of masculinity: the ‘upper energy’ we’re all used to—conversation, empathy, charm—and the ‘lower energy’ that creates a truly transformative connection.Consider that your body carr
The Zan and Jordan Show - Episode 10 – Mystique and Vulnerability
Send us Fan MailEpisode 10 – Mystique and Vulnerability____________________________________________________Cultivating a quality of vulnerability is vital for men seeking fulfilling experiences with women. “But surely I can’t look weak in her eyes”, some men will say–“she won’t want to be around me”. They posture. Others, seeking a deep, heart-to-heart connection, venture into heavy territory too
The Zan and Jordan Show - Episode 9 – Hunger as a Force of Attraction
Send us Fan MailEpisode 9 – Hunger as a Force of Attraction____________________________________________________In the movie Scarface, Al Pacino’s character famously lays out a ‘blueprint for getting women’: first you get the money, then you get the power, and then you get the woman. It’s a paradigm that many men buy into. And to a degree, it’s true. However, if you’re here, then you’re probably no
The Zan and Jordan Show - Episode 8 - Perspective and Choosing Curiosity
Send us Fan MailEpisode 8 – Perspective and Choosing Curiosity____________________________________________________Any true seeker—and if you're reading this, then you probably are one—will go through life in a series of phases. Jordan is currently embarking on a new chapter himself. In today’s episode, he shares how he actually lost sight of the original intentions for his big life change and
The Zan and Jordan Show - Episode 7 - Virility, Vitality & Play over Depth
Send us Fan MailEpisode 7 – Virility, Vitality & Play over Depth____________________________________________________Many men come to Ars Amorata to overcome a lingering feeling of deficiency in their life force. They want to meet women, but when they go out, they hit a wall. Or, they engage with a woman, but as things get physical, they somehow lose her. In today’s episode, Zan gives us a rare
The Zan and Jordan Show - Episode 6 - Zan’s Longevity Protocols
Send us Fan MailEpisode 6 - Zan’s Longevity Protocols____________________________________________________Many of you have been asking… so here it is:Today, Jordan helps us discover the pearl of great price: exactly what Zan does to keep himself youthful, vibrant and energized–not just in body, but in spirit! It is well-known that Zan keeps himself up-to-date with technology, and his dedication to
The Zan and Jordan Show - Episode 5 - Growing Amidst the Challenging Parts of Relationship
Send us Fan MailEpisode 5 - Growing Amidst the Challenging Parts of Relationship____________________________________________________Last week, Zan and Jordan discussed how a relationship can be a powerful vehicle for growth, and looked at some of the ways that we might draw inspiration from tradition and the sacred to create relationships that ground us in what matters most. In today’s conversatio
The Zan and Jordan Show - Episode 4 - Relationships and the ‘Evolution of Consciousness’
Send us Fan MailEpisode 4 - Relationships and the ‘Evolution of Consciousness’_____________________________________________A viewer asked for our thoughts on relationships and the ‘evolution of consciousness’. I have never heard Zan mention these words, so I was curious to get his take.On my side of things, an ‘evolutionary relationship’ – a way of framing intimacy with my woman as a place where w
The Zan and Jordan Show - Episode 3 - Building Empathy for Women (When I’ve Been Hurt in the Past)
Send us Fan MailEpisode 3 - Building Empathy for Women (When I’ve Been Hurt in the Past)____________________________________________________At some point, every man on this journey has to ask himself: do I truly like women? Even the most ardent lover has a place in his heart where he’s been wounded and thus closes off. And if, on the whole, you don’t really like women all that much, it will be har
The Zan and Jordan Show - Episode 2 - Seeing Through the Eyes of Motivation
Send us Fan MailAbundance in the Land of WomenEpisode 2 - Seeing Through the Eyes of Motivation(Or, how to always know what your lover will do next)____________________________________________________Many of our listeners have asked over the years, how do I see another person more deeply? How can I understand how a particular dating or social dynamic is going to unfold?These are good questions—but
The Zan and Jordan Show - Episode 1 - ‘Friend Zone Pro’ & The Decision to Leave
Send us Fan MailAbundance in the Land of WomenEpisode 1 - ‘Friend Zone Pro’ & The Decision to Leave____________________________________________________You heard that right... Friend Zone ProJust like the iPhone Pro: a bigger, more complex, and more expensive form of friend-zone, with extra applications to keep you locked in.As we get older, the nuances of the ‘friend zone’ start changing. And
In Search of the Alabaster Girl - Episode 50
Send us Fan MailA coffee-fueled round-table discussion about the book, "The Alabaster Girl" by Zan Perrion. Listen in as Zan and his guests explore the themes and concepts of the book in immense and surprising detail. The episodes will be released on a regular basis, so don't forget to subscribe!In this episode: Part Two of the discussion on the chapter: The Way of Salvation________
In Search of the Alabaster Girl - Episode 49
Send us Fan MailA coffee-fueled round-table discussion about the book, "The Alabaster Girl" by Zan Perrion. Listen in as Zan and his guests explore the themes and concepts of the book in immense and surprising detail. The episodes will be released on a regular basis, so don't forget to subscribe! In this episode: Part One of the discussion on the chapter: The Way of Salvation_______
In Search of the Alabaster Girl - Episode 48
Send us Fan MailA coffee-fueled round-table discussion about the book, "The Alabaster Girl" by Zan Perrion. Listen in as Zan and his guests explore the themes and concepts of the book in immense and surprising detail. The episodes will be released on a regular basis, so don't forget to subscribe!In this episode: Part Nine of the discussion on the chapter: The Way of Love____________
In Search of the Alabaster Girl - Episode 47
Send us Fan MailA coffee-fueled round-table discussion about the book, "The Alabaster Girl" by Zan Perrion. Listen in as Zan and his guests explore the themes and concepts of the book in immense and surprising detail. The episodes will be released on a regular basis, so don't forget to subscribe!In this episode: Part Eight of the discussion on the chapter: The Way of Love___________
In Search of the Alabaster Girl - Episode 46
Send us Fan MailA coffee-fueled round-table discussion about the book, "The Alabaster Girl" by Zan Perrion. Listen in as Zan and his guests explore the themes and concepts of the book in immense and surprising detail. The episodes will be released on a regular basis, so don't forget to subscribe!In this episode: Part Seven of the discussion on the chapter: The Way of Love___________
In Search of the Alabaster Girl - Episode 45
Send us Fan MailA coffee-fueled round-table discussion about the book, "The Alabaster Girl" by Zan Perrion. Listen in as Zan and his guests explore the themes and concepts of the book in immense and surprising detail. The episodes will be released on a regular basis, so don't forget to subscribe!In this episode: Part Six of the discussion on the chapter: The Way of Love_____________
In Search of the Alabaster Girl - Episode 44
Send us Fan MailA coffee-fueled round-table discussion about the book, "The Alabaster Girl" by Zan Perrion. Listen in as Zan and his guests explore the themes and concepts of the book in immense and surprising detail. The episodes will be released on a regular basis, so don't forget to subscribe!In this episode: Part Five of the discussion on the chapter: The Way of Love____________
In Search of the Alabaster Girl - Episode 43
Send us Fan MailA coffee-fueled round-table discussion about the book, "The Alabaster Girl" by Zan Perrion. Listen in as Zan and his guests explore the themes and concepts of the book in immense and surprising detail. The episodes will be released on a regular basis, so don't forget to subscribe!In this episode: Part Three of the discussion on the chapter: The Way of Love___________
In Search of the Alabaster Girl - Episode 42
Send us Fan MailA coffee-fueled round-table discussion about the book, "The Alabaster Girl" by Zan Perrion. Listen in as Zan and his guests explore the themes and concepts of the book in immense and surprising detail. The episodes will be released on a regular basis, so don't forget to subscribe!In this episode: Part Two of the discussion on the chapter: The Way of Love_____________
In Search of the Alabaster Girl - Episode 41
Send us Fan MailA coffee-fueled round-table discussion about the book, "The Alabaster Girl" by Zan Perrion. Listen in as Zan and his guests explore the themes and concepts of the book in immense and surprising detail. The episodes will be released on a regular basis, so don't forget to subscribe!In this episode: Part Two of the discussion on the chapter: The Way of Love_____________
In Search of the Alabaster Girl - Episode 40
Send us Fan MailA coffee-fueled round-table discussion about the book, "The Alabaster Girl" by Zan Perrion. Listen in as Zan and his guests explore the themes and concepts of the book in immense and surprising detail. The episodes will be released on a regular basis, so don't forget to subscribe!In this episode: Part One of the discussion on the chapter: The Way of Love_____________
In Search of the Alabaster Girl - Episode 39
Send us Fan MailA coffee-fueled round-table discussion about the book, "The Alabaster Girl" by Zan Perrion. Listen in as Zan and his guests explore the themes and concepts of the book in immense and surprising detail. The episodes will be released on a regular basis, so don't forget to subscribe!In this episode: Part Eight of the discussion on the chapter: The Way of Women__________
In Search of the Alabaster Girl - Episode 38
Send us Fan MailA coffee-fueled round-table discussion about the book, "The Alabaster Girl" by Zan Perrion. Listen in as Zan and his guests explore the themes and concepts of the book in immense and surprising detail. The episodes will be released on a regular basis, so don't forget to subscribe!In this episode: Part Seven of the discussion on the chapter: The Way of Women__________
In Search of the Alabaster Girl - Episode 37
Send us Fan MailA coffee-fueled round-table discussion about the book, "The Alabaster Girl" by Zan Perrion. Listen in as Zan and his guests explore the themes and concepts of the book in immense and surprising detail. The episodes will be released on a regular basis, so don't forget to subscribe!In this episode: Part Six of the discussion on the chapter: The Way of Women____________
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