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The RTWV Podcast

The RTWV Podcast

Boluwatife Victoria Abiodun 20 Episodes Aug 12, 2026

Relationship Talks with Vikkie is a podcast that guides singles and couples toward clarity in God-centered relationships. It offers practical advice and insightful conversations to foster healthy relationships and resolve conflicts. The show provides a safe space for listeners to explore and learn about matters of the heart, whether they are single, in a committed relationship, or simply curious.

Episodes

Is This God? or Is This Me Wanting It To Be God?
Is This God? or Is This Me Wanting It To Be God? Aug 12, 2026 00:05:48 Is this God? Or is this just me wanting it to be God? That question lives in a lot of hearts about a lot of things — but nowhere more uncomfortably than when it’s about a person.In this episode, Coach Vikkie opens Jeremiah 17:9, Philippians 4:7, and Galatians 5:22 to give you three clear signs that your feelings may be leading the discernment process rather than God — and what it actually looks li
How Do You Actually Hear God About A Person
How Do You Actually Hear God About A Person Jul 29, 2026 00:06:06 How do you actually hear God about a person? Not in theory. Not in a sermon. In real life, when you like him, when you’re hoping, when your feelings are already loud.In this episode, Coach Vikkie goes into the Word to give you a biblical framework for hearing from God in the context of a relationship — the three lanes scripture gives us, why emotional involvement changes what you hear, and a pract
Nobody Tells You About How Lonely High Standards Can Feel
Nobody Tells You About How Lonely High Standards Can Feel Jul 8, 2026 00:04:11 The quiet 11pm loneliness of holding the line — and how to know if your standard is wisdom or fear.Watching everyone else move on can make you question your own standards. This episode breaks down the real difference between wisdom and fear, shares a story about a standard that needed clarifying instead of lowering, and makes peace with the cost of holding the line.0:00 — Cold open0:45 — Intro2:00
I’m Tired Of Waiting & I don’t Know What Else To Do
I’m Tired Of Waiting & I don’t Know What Else To Do Jul 1, 2026 00:04:21 A real message Coach Vikkie received this week, word for word — and the honest episode it became.Tired of waiting doesn't mean your faith is failing. This episode sits in the exhaustion first, then walks through what to actually do with it: building a real life now, protecting your peace from comparison, and telling God the truth about how tired you really are.0:00 — Cold open0:45 — Intro2:00 — Ti
Why Am I Still Single?
Why Am I Still Single? Jun 24, 2026 00:05:50 “Wait on God” isn't the only honest answer to this question — and today Coach Vikkie gives you the rest of it.If you've asked yourself why you're still single more times than you'd admit out loud, this episode goes past the Sunday school answer into the patterns, the grief, and the fear that often hide underneath the question. Real talk, no shame, with a story and a prayer to take with you.0:00 —
The Truth About Sex in Christian Relationships
The Truth About Sex in Christian Relationships Apr 1, 2026 00:05:56 Sex is often reduced to a physical act, but in Christian relationships, it carries emotional and spiritual weight.In this episode, we have an honest and balanced conversation about sex, boundaries, and God’s design for intimacy.We explore why sex is not just physical, why it is reserved for marriage, how it affects emotional attachment, and how to navigate desire with wisdom and self-control.This
Why Are So Many Good Men/Women Still Single?
Why Are So Many Good Men/Women Still Single? Mar 12, 2026 00:04:40 Why are so many genuinely good men and women still single?In this episode, we explore the deeper reasons behind modern singleness. This conversation challenges the assumption that being single automatically means something is wrong.We talk about intentional dating, emotional healing, compatibility, timing, and how modern dating culture affects meaningful relationships.This episode will help you un
Are We Rushing Relationships Too Much?
Are We Rushing Relationships Too Much? Jan 20, 2026 00:05:04 We live in a generation that rushes everything — including love.People meet today, commit tomorrow, and start planning futures they barely understand. We rush titles, intimacy, emotional attachment, and decisions that are meant to shape our lives for years.In this episode, Are We Rushing Relationships Too Much?, we slow things down and ask the hard but necessary questions. Not to judge, not to sha
What Nobody Told Us About Love
What Nobody Told Us About Love Jan 13, 2026 00:07:03 Love is one of the most desired experiences in life — yet one of the least understood.Growing up, we were taught how to want love, how to dream about it, and how to chase it. But nobody taught us how love actually works, how it exposes wounds, how it demands maturity, or how it requires responsibility beyond feelings.In this episode, What Nobody Told Us About Love, we have an honest, eye-opening c
They Said They Loved Me… Then Left |Love, Heartbreak & Healing Series
They Said They Loved Me… Then Left |Love, Heartbreak & Healing Series Oct 22, 2025 00:05:53 They said the words.They made the promises.They made you believe in “forever.”And then, they left.Without warning. Without closure. Without explanation.If you’ve ever been left questioning, “Was any of it even real?” this episode will help you process what happened without losing your peace.Because sometimes, love doesn’t fail — people do.In this raw, Spirit-led episode, we talk about:💔 When love
When You Keep Attracting the Same Kind of Hurt
When You Keep Attracting the Same Kind of Hurt Oct 8, 2025 00:05:46 Different name.Different face.Same story.You promised yourself it would be different this time — but somehow, you found yourself back in the same kind of heartbreak.If that sounds familiar, this episode is for you.In When You Keep Attracting the Same Kind of Hurt, we uncover why cycles repeat — emotionally, spiritually, and relationally. You’ll learn how old wounds can shape your choices, why fami
Why Do I Miss Someone Who Treated Me Badly? |Love, Heartbreak & Healing Series
Why Do I Miss Someone Who Treated Me Badly? |Love, Heartbreak & Healing Series Sep 12, 2025 00:06:31 They lied.They ignored you.They manipulated you.They didn’t choose you.And yet… your heart still misses them.Why?In this deep, Spirit-led episode, we uncover why our souls often cling to the very people who hurt us most. From trauma bonds to unmet needs to confusing pain with love, this conversation will help you make sense of the ache — and begin to break free from it.You are not crazy. You are n

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