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The Fox and the Phoenix

The Fox and the Phoenix

Savannah Hauk, Author and Julie Rubenstein, Style Consultant 284 Episodes Aug 19, 2026

A podcast that explores the feminine crossdressing experience through conversations between a crossdresser and a cis-ally. It aims to demystify, humanize, and celebrate the crossdressing trans community, providing a positive and realistic understanding.

Episodes

270 - Expanding Horizons
270 - Expanding Horizons Aug 19, 2026 00:36:30 In this episode, Savannah shared with Julie an impromptu decision to take herself (Savannah) out for a solo date. Savannah pushed herself outside her comfort zone and faced her own anxieties about being out in the world beyond Starbucks Sunday. Julie tells her own story of her own anxiety of opening her home to her friends and her hesitation of organizing and entertaining others. Both face their f
269 - Fairy Tales & Cautionary Tales
269 - Fairy Tales & Cautionary Tales Aug 12, 2026 00:49:29 In this episode, Savannah talks to Julie about a comment on the "Hey Judy, The Exit Interview" podcast episode, where one listener was concerned about sharing the podcast with their wife because of Savannah and Judy's breakup after 262 episodes. What happens when you follow the public adventures of someone whose life resonates with you? What happens when that life you were following
268 - Happy Medium
268 - Happy Medium Jul 29, 2026 00:40:34 In this episode, Julie talks to Savannah about how every person deserves to be 100% authentic in who they are and how to navigate a relationship where that authenticity is challenged by a partner. Whether the cis-partner is coming to terms with understanding the identity and presentation of their gender-expansive mate or setting up ground rules to limit them so a level of comfortability is achieve
267 - Smarty Pants
267 - Smarty Pants Jul 22, 2026 00:37:02 In this episode, Savannah asks Julie the question, "Why do women get to wear pants and men don't get to wear skirts?" In Western Culture, the idea of men wearing feminine clothes is considered outlandish and fetishistic, while women wearing pants or more masculine articles of clothing is normalized and not seen as out of place. From the necessary changing fashion styles as humans fou
266 - You Got The Look
266 - You Got The Look Jul 15, 2026 00:42:57 In this episode, Julie talks to Savannah about how best to find how your look in photography. From glamour girls to goth goddess to girl next door, we all have a vive we are looking to embody. How do we bring that to life? Julie gives tips and tricks for how best to take selfies, from body posing to tilts of the head to lighting. All of it helps to make any figure softer and more feminine.-----SAV
265 - Girl Talk
265 - Girl Talk Jul 8, 2026 00:27:58 In this episode, Savannah chats to Julie about the power of girl talk, especially as it relates to the strong bond between girls like Savannah and the vulnerable and deep conversations that results through and with those that share similar experiences and personal journeys and self-assessments over the years. It creates a lovely shorthand that allows those in the sisterhood a way to connect and co
264 - Mirror, Mirror (part 2)
264 - Mirror, Mirror (part 2) Jun 24, 2026 00:22:37 In this second of two episodes, Julie chats with Savannah about the profound "first time" that one sees their true femme self in the mirror... that first fateful time when the reflection in the mirror stops being just a biological male and starts being the more authentic and grounded female spirit. Julie and Savannah read listener letters and comment about how often there are commonaliti
263 - Mirror, Mirror (part 1)
263 - Mirror, Mirror (part 1) Jun 17, 2026 00:31:10 In this first of two episodes, Julie chats with Savannah about the profound "first time" that one sees their true femme self in the mirror... that first fateful time when the reflection in the mirror stops being just a biological male and starts being the more authentic and grounded female spirit. Julie and Savannah read listener letters and comment about how often there are commonalitie
262 - Fraud and Failure
262 - Fraud and Failure Jun 10, 2026 00:37:11 In this episode, Savannah discussed with Julie the struggles she is experiencing in the aftermath of her breakup with her long-time partner, Judy (as revealed in ep 261). In light of the breakup, Savannah worries that she is not as credible as she should be because as an author, advocate, podcaster, and speaker, she should have been able to make the relationship work. The discussion goes into the
261 - Hey Judy! The Exit Interviews
261 - Hey Judy! The Exit Interviews May 27, 2026 01:07:13 In this episode, both Savannah and Julie separately interview Judy. In these interviews, they discuss the trials and tribulations , the ups and downs of being in a long-term relationship with a crossdresser and gender-expansive person. And while love was always present, the drive in syncing with a person of this breed is sometimes not enough to keep the relationship together. So, in this way, Judy
260 - In The Family Way
260 - In The Family Way May 20, 2026 00:39:45 In this episode, Savannah lets Julie in on a little secret. That admission involves revealing herself to more members of her immediate family through a text chat. Stemming from a sad and regretful remembrance on the anniversary of Savannah's father's passing, Savannah decided afterward to reveal herself to sisters and nieces and nephews that there was more to Chuck than just Chuck. Savanna
259 - Bimbification
259 - Bimbification May 13, 2026 00:33:33 In this episode, Julie asks Savannah to talk about the probably-already-cooling news about Bryon Noem, the husband of the former Director of Homeland Security, Kristi Noem. Bryon was outed by leaked photographs of him wearing a massive breast form and pink hot pants as he paid to converse with online personalities who also had exaggerated feminine features. What happens when a political figure who

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