Unfiltered with Sahar
Sit down with me as I have intimate, unfiltered conversations about anything and everything.
Episodes
Masty o Rasty? More like "Druggy and Scammy" - Ep 78
Send us Fan MailI almost didn’t record this one… but the tea was too hot. From moving into my dream loft to a painfully awkward Vancouver date, I get into my feelings about what's been happening with Iran, protest drama, influencer hypocrisy, and losing a friendship over speaking my truth. And then at the end… I expose a certain “artist” with receipts. Money, lies, fake persona… it’s messy. Y
The Sandboys - Ep. 77
Send us Fan MailIn this episode I sit down with Aftahill and Shalco to chat about their new joint artistic venture "The Sandboys" and how they are pushing forward the music industry with their creative new take on Persian music.Tea is spilled and random 18+ persian songs are uncovered from the depths of the Internet... so buckle up
Let's Catch Up - Ep.76
Send us Fan MailJust a solo episode catching up with you guys and emptying the thought vomit that has been stored in my head the past few months.I talk about friendships, religion being made by men, periods, bonnie blue, and a new sex move I tried that you should too!
Aftahill: Free Luigi, Ghombol.com & Sickness - Ep.75
Send us Fan MailAftahill is back again! Our favourite guest sits down with me to talk about literally EVERYTHING that is going on in the world right now. Luigi, Trump, Persian porn websites, his new track sickness and the age old topic of our PERSIAN identity.Follow him on insta @aftahill and make sure to check out his new music.
Foot Fetish's & Feminism - Ep.74
Send us Fan MailFrom losing my shit over men who call women gold diggers, to the true meaning of feminism, to taking foot pictures for a guy who have a foot fetish, this episode is a wild ride... buckle the EFF up!
Blondie Part 2 - Ep.73
Send us Fan MailBLONDIE IS BACK.. because we had so much more to talk about and wayyy more questions that we didn't answer in the first episode :)
Love Island & Pick Me Girls - Ep.72
Send us Fan MailIn this solo episode, I rant about the hype surrounding Love Island, being on ADHD meds, a funny sexual realization, Sevdaliza, PICK ME GIRLS and how I'm tired of being Iranian.
MEET BLONDIE - Ep.71
Send us Fan MailAFTER THREE YEARS.... BLONDIE IS ON THE PODCAST!!!!!!
Big Dicks & Female Rage - Ep.70
Send us Fan MailIn this episode, I’m joined by my friend as we dive into the week’s hottest topics.I share updates on my recent hookups—a 26-year-old vs. a 41-year-old—and we chat about the world’s most famous dick (shoutout to that Olympic gymnast).We also explore the curious Mormon sex practice of “soaking” and imagine a world where men’s dick sizes are as visible as women’s boobs. We wrap up w
Turkey, Tarof and Butt Stuff - Ep.69
Send us Fan MailIn this episode I give a life update on my recent trip to Turkey with Blondie, and meeting his family for the first time. I talk about the CRAZY culture shock that comes with being exposed to EXPERT levels of tarof and how I was not prepared. I then talk about a couple of new dates I've been on and answer questions of the week. Walking in on your mom eating your dad's ass
Signing an NDA?!? - Ep.68
Send us Fan MailIn this episode I talk to you about a recent research experiment I conducted for the podcast where I went on a date with a TYPICAL PERSIAN GUY *gasp*Listen in as I talk to you about his NDA’s he makes people sign and my new found kink of shitting on egos of men like him.
Here's The Tea - Ep.67
Send us Fan MailAfter a 3 month break from the podcast to kickstart 2024 the right way... I'm back to share updates on my life, tell you about a potential MFM threesome and talk about friendship breakups.
Boss In The Bedroom - Ep.66
Send us Fan MailIn this episode I give you a life update and then talk about the INS and OUTS of 2024 as we go into the new year. I also talk about when it's okay to start sex chatting and give you a detailed 4 step guide on how to dominate your partner and be a BOSS in the bedroom!
Spit In My Mouth - Ep.65
Send us Fan MailI had a wild week with TWO new escapades to tell you about.Listen in as I talk about men’s egos, eye contact during sex, foot fetishes, edging your partner and my new favourite sex toy
Ep.64 - Life Update
Send us Fan MailAfter taking a few weeks off to deal with some craziness, I'm back with another life update to fill ya'll in on what went down.I talk about dating apps, new kinks I've found, open relationships, attachment styles, going to couples therapy and the biggest persian dick I've ever seen. Buckle up because it's a wild one!
Ep.63 - The Persian Version - Maryam Keshavarz Interview
Send us Fan MailIn this episode I got the chance to sit down with the one and only Maryam Keshavarz. She is a bad-ass trailblazing Iranian female director who is responsible for some of the best diaspora made movies ever! From "Circumstance" to her newest release "The Persian Version" we talk about how she got into movie making, her inspiration behind her latest film and what i
Ep.62 - Sex Dungeons Are Cute
Send us Fan MailIn this episode I fill you all in on: what Blondie had planned for my birthday // how I'm feeling about turning 33 // when someone you hate dies // people who use ADHD as an excuse // tips for teenagers // how to get over a breakup // when the right time is to be in a relationship
Ep.61 - Barbie, EEERANS and Curved Dicks
Send us Fan MailIn this episode I talk about my opinions about the Barbie movie, the new term we are using instead of saying "FOB", some drama I had with a random EERAN (and a video that is apparently circulating of me) and curved dicks and why they are underrated.
Ep.60 - Verbal Vomit
Send us Fan MailIn this episode I answer a few questions, rant about instagram fake fuckery, change my mind about some things and share my tips on how to suck dick.
Ep.59 - Know Your Worth
Send us Fan MailIn this episode I talk about:Guys liking girls photos on instagram -- Handling rejection -- How to motivate ourselves -- How some people ABUSE therapy -- My current self-image issuesAnd after a year and a half of waiting, I finally share with you the details of my last break-up and the dark events that surrounded why I ultimately left the relationship.
Ep. 58 - Yaz The Human (Polyamory, Being a Dominatrix and Sex Positivity)
Send us Fan MailIn this episode I sit down with Yaz, a beautiful human who is active within the polyamorous, sex positive and kink community.I ask them about themselves, their relationship structure, and how they became and now work as a dominatrix (Or domme as they prefer to be called)Listen in and learn more about Yaz, gain some insight into the community and get a look at the inner workings of
Ep.57: Sex Paintings, Protests and Toxic People
Send us Fan MailIn this episode I give a life update of what I did in the 4 months that I took off.From making a sex painting to organizing the first protest in Downtown Toronto and cutting out toxic people from my life, it's been a very eventful few months.
Ep.56: NARCY-SISST ain't my sis
Send us Fan MailI'm back! After a hiatus due to whats going on in Iran right now, I'm back to fill you guys in on something pretty toxic that was happening in my life that I had kept from sharing on the podcast until now.Are you dealing with a narcissist?Have you ever dealt with one?What is a narcissist?Let's talk about them and how you'll have clearer skin and better sex when
Ep.55 - I WENT TO A SEX CLUB
Send us Fan MailInconsistency is my middle name... I know.BUT you know that when I'm gone for a minute, it just means that my stories are going to be FUEGO... SPICY... like burning asshole the next day kinda vibes.I talk about my recent trip to a sex club, transcendental orgasms, going on a date with another couple and our first experience swinging. (with blondie of course duhhhhh.)I then ans
Ep. 54 - Threesomes vs Foursomes
Send us Fan MailHello... I'm back from a small crazy hiatus. I got up to a lot the past few weeks and I'm here to spill all the tea for you guys. Getting back on dating apps? A threesome? A foursome? Spin the bottle? A new crush on a girl?There's LOTS to uncover.
Ep. 53 - I'm A MESS (but it's cute)
Send us Fan MailIn this episode I am back with another solo after taking a month off to be in the moment and tend to my own mental health.I give you guys an update on Blondie, now that you've all HALF seen him, and fill you in on where I am mentally. emotionally and hormonally.Questions of the week are back and we cover topics from types of protection, sexual liberation, moving in with a part
Ep.51 - An Open Heart, Open Mind and.... open legs?
Send us Fan MailIn this episode I give you guys a life update about a recent "hubby material" date I went on that turned into a fifty shades of grey experience and consequent wake up call to ask myself the question of "What do I even want?". It also forced me to rethink many emotions and take a few steps back and come back to reality.Hot Sahar Summer is a mindset, a lifestyle,
Ep.50 - Emotions are scary... but cute
Send us Fan MailIn this episodes life update I talk about the problems I've been having recently with the shit storm of emotions that are being thrown my way and how I'm trying to navigate through them to the best of my ability within an open, ethically non monogamous partnership.I talk about a newly created term "JAGH AND JAVAB" and I answer your questions ranging from what to
Ep.49 - What Is Love?
Send us Fan MailIn this episode I give you guys a tumultuous life update after a brief 2 week hiatus. It includes:Sex on molly, emotional connections, deep stares into the others eyes, flowers at 1am, post period orgasms and the question that has had my mind at odds for weeks... "What does I love you even mean?"As usual I also answer some questions on the week sent in by you sexy human
Ep.48: Your Crazy Sex Stories
Send us Fan MailIn this episode I start off with a long held in rant about haters and how they can suck my D. A life update about a date night with blondie and what the rollercoaster of my feelings is at now.I then go on to share some of YOUR crazy date/sex stories and comment on them in true Sahar style. Using a cucumber? Sleeping with a Pablo Escobar type gangster? Yeaaaah you guys are WILD!As u
Ep.47: Nothing Beats A Norooz Foursome
Send us Fan MailIn this episode I give you guys another life update after taking two weeks off for Norooz... and let me tell you, it will NOT disappoint. ---What started as a friends night out at a drag show turned into a sexual experience I still can't get over. In conclusion, everyone should have sex positive friends who want to play together. ---Update on last episodes Blondie situation?..
Ep.46: Gender, Sex and Being Non-Binary with ARMIN
Send us Fan MailIn this episode I bring on my friend Armin to have a chat together about all things related to gender, sex and what it means to be non-binary.We talk about their journey to their identity, polyamory, GHEYRATI men and they teach me about "cruising" and sex parties.I also give you guys a life update. What is the line between a FWB and a relationship? What is deemed couple b
Ep.45: Breakfast, Bottoms and Bokon Bokon
Send us Fan MailThis episode makes up for the dryness of last week.This week I talk about a recent Blondie success story. (No more fails this time) and what it feels like to be in a more dominant headspace in bed as a woman. (Ps: Have you ever gotten fucked while making breakfast?)I share two funny sex stories from my early 20s that literally made me cringe thinking about them again and how I migh
Ep.44: First Dates and Whipped Cream
Send us Fan MailThis weeks life update is pretty dry and pretty awkward... kinda like the first time you had sex. I did however realize that I am capable of feeling butterflies and shedding the boss bitch guards I have up if I genuinely like the guy. Ugh... call the exterminator, this bitch felt a feeling.As usual I also cover topics you've sent in like:- Squirting- How to ask your partner fo
Ep. 43 - SDT 101
Send us Fan MailIn this episode I talk about what the equivalent to lingerie would be for men, why being a girl is SO FUCKING EXPENSIVE and how 69-ing is the worst position in the world.I answer questions of the week about how to communicate better in bed, how women should ALWAYS orgasm BEFORE the guy and I finally give you my tips on how to successfully SDT it up with some basic techniques. Good
Ep 42. Sex Toy Fails and Fortunes
Send us Fan MailIn this episode I talk about a recent disastrous fail I had with a toy which leads to a rant on social stigma around mens sexuality and exploration.I then talk get into questions of the week and talk about the daunting "what are we" question that comes in early on in dating, whether or not you should fuck with a married man and what I miss about couple life.Last week I go
Ep. 41 - PERSIAN GIRL POWER
Send us Fan MailIn this episode the GIRLS ARE IN TOWN! Yasi, Sahar and Melieka came to Toronto to visit me and we all went to Atoussa's house one night to drink, bond and record this podcast for you. We cover lots of deep topics and open up to each other about our upbringings, our culture, our grievances and our best memories of 2021 ALL WHILE getting progressively more drunk minute by minute
Ep. 40 - YOBS GUYS AND SEXTING
Send us Fan MailIn this episode I give you guys yet another single sahar life update where I teach you the meaning of what it means to be YOBS and then rant about YOBS kissers who ultimately give you YOBS orgasms. I literally did research for this episode so ya'll better appreciate me taking one for the team.I then go on to talk about sexting, the different styles you can use with a partner a
Ep. 39 - Hoe-llywood and Kinky Sex
Send us Fan MailIn this episode I finally spill two stories from my LA trip this summer and then dive into talking about kinks, your sexual bucket list and what your sexual partner body count should be!Song used: Double Dosing by Nicole Glazunov
Ep. 38 - DICKY BRAIN MENTALITY
Send us Fan MailIn this episode I bring back Atoussa as we sit down and go over the SHIT STORM of a week I had in my current dating life. We RAGE, RANT AND VENT over the misogyny that still exists to this day, the sexualization, mixed signals and "DICKY BRAIN" of Persian men and their obliviousness to it all. I have a couple of epiphanies and we both agree that I lost my mind for a secon
Ep. 37 - HE MOANS LIKE A PORNSTAR
Send us Fan MailIn this episode I answer questions sent in from the listeners. TURN OFFS DURING SEX? Should you move to another city/country for someone you love? How to not feel shy to ask a guy to LICK THE KITTY. My thoughts on having anal sex AAAAAND finally some dating app profile horror stories.
Ep. 35 - Dating 101
Send us Fan MailIn this episode I was inspired by my girl Atoussa saying that I'm a "professional dater" and so I thought I'd come and give you guys my strategies and tricks that I've picked up in the past month since being back in Toronto.I also answer your questions about masturbation stigma, sending nudes and the age old question of "when is a good time to finally
Ep. 34 - Dirty Talk and Ghosting
Send us Fan MailIn this episode I answer some questions sent in from the listeners: Do I want kids? What turns me on? What advice would I give my 18 year old self? What is DICK AND DEKLAMEH?I also give yet another #SingleSahar life update about how I got ghosted and how you should deal with being ghosted by someone.
Ep. 33 - CONFIDENCE is sexy
Send us Fan MailIn this episode I talk about body positivity and being a confident bad bitch no matter what size you are. I also bring on my friend Dan who gives his take as a male and why he proudly says he is attracted to plus sized girls.I then give you bitches an update on my single life so far (I almost became a dominatrix) and talk about why I am polyamorous and believe that monogamy is a so
Ep. 32 - SINGLE SAHAR
Send us Fan MailI'm back from LA with tons of vlog style podcasts from my birthday weekend and an update on my newly SINGLE STATUS BABYYYYYYY!SEASON 2 BEGINS NOW!
Ep. 31 - Sogol Golshani
Send us Fan MailOn this episode I sit down with my sister in LA to talk about our childhood and give you guys an official introduction into what people call "the mini me version of Sahar but worse" (in a good way)
Ep. 30 - Broke Boys Don't Deserve No Pussy
Send us Fan MailNo words... the title speaks for itself
Ep. 29: GET THAT DICK
Send us Fan MailIn this episode I sit down and talk about running into an ex-friends-with-benefits and being an assertive Bad Bitch and going after what you want. Getting a glimpse into the dating world and re-learning who I would be in this world has opened up my eyes to how I work and I thought I'd share to gain some insight and see if you guys feel the same way too.ooh and Erfan makes a sp
Ep.27: Random Chats With Aftahill
Send us Fan MailAftahill is back! We sat in his studio, pressed record and had a organic unfiltered chat about anything and everything.We get high (literally) and low, covering topics like my first porn experience, weddings and if humans are truly monogamous. Follow @aftahill on Instagram AND don't forget to rate the podcast and leave a review!
Ep.26: Fared Shafinury - Texas Born Sonati Singer!
Send us Fan MailIn this episode I sit down with Fared after connecting on clubhouse. I get to know more about him, a Texas born Iranian who both sings and plays sonati music. We talk about Iranians on clubhouse, 9/11 theories, living in Iran, the styles of sonati music and growing up with two cultures. Follow him on IG @faredshafinury... and don't forget to rate the podcast and leave a review
Ep.25: Sahar's Rants (Norooz Edition)
Send us Fan MailEydetoon Mobarak!It's the first day of the new year and it wouldn't be complete if I didn't rant and vent and let off some steam in order to clear my mind and be at peace. :DI talk about the Sasy and pornstar fiasco, my recent fail at doing a paid advertisement and how to love yourself and use your time more wisely.Thank you for listening and supporting this podcast.
Ep.24: Athena aka MAHBOOBEH
Send us Fan MailIf you're on Tiktok chances are you've come across Mahboobeh and her hilarious sketch videos. Based on the stereotypical blonde haired, thick eyeliner wearing, hairdresser and part time realtor, Athena (her real name) uses her character work to perfectly portray someone we ALL know too well!Listen in as we talk, hear her origin story and get into some crazy paranormal dis
Ep.23 - My Dark Past
Send us Fan MailIn this episode I talk about my upbringing and the not so picture perfect past that I went through that made me who I am today.As a survivor of constant physical, verbal and emotional abuse for the first decade of my life, I feel that my story should be shared so that I can help as many people out there who might be going or have gone through the same things as well. Our Iranian co
Ep.22: Melieka Fathi - Iranian Dance 101
Send us Fan MailIn this episode I have Melieka Fathi, a professional Iranian dancer from California on the show. Not many people know this but I was an active dancer up to the age of 21 and have many years of training and research under my belt. We sit and talk about all things dance in order to do some "farhang sazi" and inject more knowledge about this art form into general society who
Ep. 21: Sahar Ghorishi x Sahar Golshani
Send us Fan MailSAHAR'S FOR THE WIN!In this episode I sit down with the amazingly creative, forward thinking and all around bad ass Sahar Ghorishi. Having been Insta friends for years, we talk about iranian culture, beauty standards, dor-dor in iran and what it means to be culturally "woke" in 2021. This was definitely one of my favourite conversations as it left me refreshed knowin
Ep.20 - Aftahill: "Tehranto" The Album
Send us Fan MailIn this episode I sit down with the ARYA aka AFTAHILL.You know him from our sex podcast, but ya'll don't even KNOWWWWW him.He's an amazing up and coming artist with a beautiful mind and soul to match and I sit down with him to uncover his upbringing, what led him to music AND most important of all we dissect his new album "Tehranto" coming out on Jan 15th!I
Ep.19: Erfan Paydar - Conspiracy Theories
Send us Fan MailIn this episode i talk to Erfan about our current world situation and the covid virus that has fucked the world up in the past year. We also cover popular conspiracy theories and give our opinions on things like, Elon Musk, vaccinations, moon landings, hollow earth and ALIENS!(Obviously we don't claim to be scholars or anything but it's just a fun convo we've been wa
Ep.18: Mamadon: Female Rapper and Future Lawyer
Send us Fan MailAfter two years of trying to meet in person, me and Mamadon finally made it happen.She is a boss bitch female rapper who is also getting her Law degree. The ultimate package? I THINK SO!Listen in as we talk about literally everything.
Ep.17 - Kasra aka Kosri aka my BFF
Send us Fan MailHonestly I don't even know what this episode is lol. We just turned on the mics and started rambling :P
Ep.16: Danny Asadi - Persian Trap Music
Send us Fan MailIn this episode I sit with one of my hands down favourite people AND artists, Danny Asadi. We've been close friends since the start of his career but since he keeps such a low profile, most people don't KNOW much about him. Listen in to learn more about this musical genius who will 100% one day be a HUGE name across the globe and will make Persian Trap Music a household s
Ep.15: Khashy Sr - Iranian Hip Hop Artist & Producer
Send us Fan MailIn this episode I sit down with a long-time friend Khashy to get to know him better. We've never sat down and really talked, so it was cool to get to know a bit more about his history and deep dive into his mind to uncover what his artistic visions are.Coming off fresh from releasing his first album "Etesaali" on Spotify, we go over some songs and he gives me an insi
Ep.14: Growing Up In a Religious Family
Send us Fan MailIn this episode I just switched on the mic and let all my internal thoughts, experiences and memories about growing up in a religious family spew out.I answered some questions and shared my viewpoints about religion and how it affected me and what I believe in now.Insta: @sahar_golshaniTwitter: @GolshaniSahar
Ep.13 - Sex Talk Part 2
Send us Fan MailIn this episode I sit down with Arya (@aftahill) to further discuss topics around sex, answer some more of your questions and listen to some stories that you sent us about your "first times""Once you sit on a persian face, you'll never want to replace"
Ep.12: The Sex Talk your Maman and Baba never gave you
Send us Fan MailIn this episode I open the doors to talking about all things sex and sex related. Our culture is so apprehensive to talk about this subject and it's time that this CHANGES!I go through a list of questions sent in from my followers and answer them with my usual unfiltered antics.From butt plugs to being a GOOD hoe... let's normalize talking about sex and become a generatio
Ep.11 - Shrooms and Psychedelics
Send us Fan MailIn this episode I sit and talk to you guys about my experiences with Shrooms and other substances, with the intention that this will start some much needed OPEN dialogue around this topic and make it more socially and culturally acceptable to talk about.
Ep.10: CHAII - Female Iranian/Kiwi Rapper
Send us Fan MailI've know Chaii for a year now and it was finally time to introduce her to all of you!Raised in New Zealand but with Iranian roots, her sound is a perfect mesh of the two worlds that she is encapsulated by.We talk about how she started, her latest album and how she is taking over the world with her new and unique sound!
Ep.9 - Tina and James: Interracial Relationships
Send us Fan MailIn this episode I sit down and talk to Tina and James, an interracial Persian/"Khareji" couple who have found recent fame through their hilarious TikToks.We discuss how they met, how their parents took it in, and how they deal with the negative prejudices that some can have about being in an interracial relationship. I ask James about Iranian culture and what his viewpoin
Ep.8 - Sahar's Life Rants
Send us Fan MailIn this episode I sit down and rant about:- Instagram Detoxing- Struggles of being an Immigrant Kid- New music that rocks my panties off- The shitstorm that is the Iranian entertainment industry- Iranian female comedians- Being independant
Ep.7 - MENTRIX: Post Immigrant Tribal Pop Artist
Send us Fan MailOur FIRST female guest on the show, MENTRIX (Samar) is one of my latest music finds!Fresh off the release of her first album titled "My Enemy, My Love" she sits down with me to discuss who she is, what her sound is and what she has in store for the future.Listen to her album here:https://soundcloud.com/mentrixsound/sets/my-enemy-my-love-1Follow her on Instagram:@mentrixmu
Ep.6: Kayvon Zand - Daddy by Day, Titan by Night
Send us Fan MailJoin me as I interview the one and only Kayvon Zand!We talk about everything from:- Growing up in North Carolina- Having a single mother- The infamous "the box" nightclub/cabaret in NYC- Being confident in your own skin- Being a fashion icon- Khoresht Karafs vs Ghorme SabziFollow Him @KayvonZand on instagram!
Ep.5: Namito - A Techno DJ from Berlin
Send us Fan MailSit with me as we get to know the genius behind the summer 2019 hit "Stone Flower" that was played LITERALLY EVERYWHERE. We talk about his life in Berlin, what it was like being in an Osho commune, being held at gunpoint in Bogota, Columbia, playing a live set in Tehran and the bittersweet secret story behind his hit song "Stone Flower"Definitely my favourite ep
Ep.3 - I'm Spilling the TEA
Send us Fan MailAfter the whole Iran protest ordeal I decided I'd had enough and felt the need to serve you guys some of the TEA I've been holding in.
Ep.2: POPSTAR NIMA
Send us Fan MailWith his catchy lyrics and quirky crazy music videos, Popstar Nima caught my eye and I had to know what the real story behind this hilarious internet persona was.Listen in as we talk about his life, his inspirations and how to be a confident slut.
Ep.1 - Welcome To The Podcast!
Send us Fan MailHey betchez,Super excited to start this journey with you guys! For my first episode I thought I'd just answer some burning questions and give you guys a little intro of what is to come and what the vibe of this podcast is going to be.
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