The Girl Defined Show
The Girl Defined Show is a Christian podcast hosted by sisters Bethany Beal and Kristen Clark. It offers a God-centered perspective on beauty, femininity, identity, and worth for Christian girls. Each episode provides counter-cultural, hope-filled conversations about God's design for women. The show aims to help listeners understand their true worth and identity in a world that constantly redefines them.
Episodes
Is He a Godly Guy or Smooth Talker? How to Tell the Difference
Send a textMarrying a man of godly character sounds amazing... but how can you know if he’s actually walking the walk — not just talking the talk? You need more than good vibes and sweet words. You need real answers to questions like:“What kind of character does this guy really have?” “Where does his heart stand when it comes to God’s Word?” “Is his love for the Lord visible in his daily actions?”
How to Spot the Legalism Hiding in “Godly” Womanhood w/ Leslie Ludy
Send a textIs it possible to pursue godly femininity without getting tangled in legalism, fear, or performance-driven faith? In this eye-opening episode, I sit down with best-selling author and speaker Leslie Ludy to unpack the subtle (and sometimes not-so-subtle) ways legalism can creep into conservative Christian womanhood.We talk about the pressure to "look the part," the danger of eq
Cosmo Lied to You: The Truth About Sex, Identity, and God’s Design for Women
Send a textYou’ve seen the headlines: “Her Wildest Night Yet!” or “10 Secrets to Epic Pleasure.” Cosmo and other mainstream magazines have been feeding women these so-called empowering stories for decades. But what if those stories aren’t even real? What if they're simply propaganda? In this episode, we’re pulling back the curtain on the glossy lies and exposing how these narratives are shapi
Masculine & Feminine by Design: The Biblical Breakdown - Part 2
Send a textWe’re constantly told men and women are the same — just interchangeable parts in a genderless machine. But is that actually true…?What if gender roles aren’t sexist, but sacred?What if God meant for men to surge with testosterone and for women to overflow with estrogen?What if wombs and muscles weren’t random, but radically intentional?According to Scripture, the differences between men
Masculine & Feminine by Design: The Biblical Breakdown - Part 1
Send a textWe’re constantly told men and women are the same — just interchangeable parts in a genderless machine. But is that actually true… or just cultural noise?What if gender roles aren’t sexist, but sacred? What if God meant for men to surge with testosterone and for women to overflow with estrogen? What if wombs and muscles weren’t random, but radically intentional?According to Scripture, th
Breaking the Porn Cycle and Finding Authentic Intimacy Instead w/ Dr. Joy Skarka
Send a textWomen struggle with porn too.Have you ever experienced the fear and shame that follows the vortex of graphic movies, erotica, promiscuity, or porn sites? You may think you’re alone and feel like hiding. But you’re not alone—and there is hope and healing.We are all sexually broken. And we are all invited to participate in the love, forgiveness, and healing of Jesus. The great joy and pas
Practical Tips for Embracing Purity in a Dating Relationship
Send a textLet’s be honest—pursuing purity while dating someone you’re seriously into can feel next to impossible. The butterflies are real, the chemistry is strong, and suddenly you’re wondering... is kissing too far? What about cuddling on the couch? Holding hands? Where's the line?!Navigating physical boundaries in a dating relationship isn’t always black and white—and it can be so confusi
Pursuing Crunchy Wellness as a Christian Mom w/ Elizabeth Parsons (of Purely Parsons)
Send a textCan you be fully "crunchy" while staying fully committed to Christ? Is there such a thing as being too crunchy? How do we juggle our health goals without losing sight of our faith?Elizabeth Parsons is here to help us navigate this balance. As a popular "crunchy" mom and passionate Christian, Elizabeth shares her wisdom on how to live out both wellness and faith witho
An Honest Conversation About Saving Sex for Marriage
Send a textIs saving sex for marriage really worth it? Will the wedding night be totally awkward if we don’t "practice" first? And what about sexual compatibility—doesn’t that matter??We’re two Christian sisters who made the choice to wait until marriage, and trust us—we’ve heard all the questions (and plenty of skeptical comments). So let’s have an open, honest, and totally unfiltered c
Should Christian Girls Send Nude Photos?
Send a textIt seems like everyone is sending nude photos these days...even Christians. So what's the big deal? Isn't it good for me to keep a little spice in my dating relationship? What about the fact that I'm engaged and going to marry this guy? What's the harm anyway? Sex, Purity, and the Longings of a Girl's HeartSupport the showRESOURCES: Made to Be She: Reclaiming G
4 Things Every Christian Girl Needs to Know Before Getting Married
Send a textOn a scale of one to ten, how prepared do you think you are for marriage? Seriously. Most women who get marriage look back on their single years and WISH they had done more to prepare for being a wife. So...why not get prepared? Here are four things you can do right now to begin preparing for married life. LOVE DEFINED BOOK170 QUESTIONS TO ASK IN A RELATIONSHIPSupport the showRESOURCES:
Our Best and Worst Valentine's Days EVER (in Singleness and Marriage)
Send a textEp. 197 - This is a replay. Let's be honest. Valentine's Day isn't always what it's cracked up to be. Regardless of what we see on the Hallmark Channel, rarely do things turn out that perfectly. In singleness, we often feel bummed because we don't have that special someone. Then in marriage, we often feel bummed because our special day isn't turning out to
Why Christian Women Should be Beautiful but not Seductive | REACTION
Send a textGod created women be beautiful AND to posses the allure of feminine seduction. But beauty and seduction are not the same thing. In our celebrity society today, beauty and seduction have become synonymous. In this episode, Kristen and Bethany react LIVE to their 2016 video about this topic and share honestly where they stand today. NEW BOOK - MADE TO BE SHE FREE BOOK - Battling Sexual Te
Why Sex is a Huge Disappointment for Many Christian Women
Send a textEp 195 - Many conservative Christian women saved sex for marriage only to wake up on the other side of their honeymoon feeling disappointed and disillusioned. What happened? Why is sex such a huge disappointment to many Christian women? Take a deep dive with us on all things sex, intimacy, orgasm and how to make it GREAT. NEW BOOK - MADE TO BE SHE Support the showRESOURCES: Made to Be
Modesty Used to RULE our Lives...Here's Why it No Longer Does
Send a text194 - Modesty used to be a foundational topic here at Girl Defined. We become known as the "modesty ministry." Looking back, here's what we got right and wrong about Christian modesty. NEW BOOK - MADE TO BE SHE Support the showRESOURCES: Made to Be She: Reclaiming God's Plan for Fearless Femininity Love Defined: Embracing God's Vision for Lasting Love and Satis
Protesting Against Men isn’t the Answer to Women’s Happiness
Send a textToday is the release of our newest book, "Made to Be She: Reclaiming God's Plan for Fearless Femininity." Fighting men won't solve the deepest longings of a woman's heart. Turning to Christ and finding your complete identity in Him is the answer. NEW BOOK - MADE TO BE SHE Support the showRESOURCES: Made to Be She: Reclaiming God's Plan for Fearless Feminin
Liberal Women are Refusing to Have Sex with Men
Send a textEp. 193 - Liberal women have been in full on panic mode since Donald Trump was elected President of the United States. Many of these women are refusing to date men, have sex with men, get pregnant or have babies. They are in full on strike against men. What exactly will this plan accomplish? Let's find out. MADE TO BE SHE ---> PRE ORDER BONUSESNEW BOOK: "Made to Be She: Rec
Answering Your Guys Questions | Girl Defined Reacts
Send a textEp 192 - What's a good age to start dating? What is the purpose of a romantic relationship? These are some of the questions we answered in our 2016 YouTube video titled, "Answering Your Guy Questions About Dating, Bad Relationships, and Guy Friends." And today, we're looking back and reacting to this content for the FIRST time. How do we feel NOW about what we said T
Is Gender a Personal Choice? | Girl Defined Reacts
Send a textEp. 191 - The issue of gender has exploded over the past few years. Can a man become a woman? Can a woman become a man? Should we support the trans movement? In today's episode, the two of us are looking back at one of our first YouTube videos ever where we ask the question, "Is Gender a Personal Choice." Here's our reaction. PRE ORDER BONUSESNEW BOOK: "Made t
Do We Regret Wearing Our Purity Rings?
Send a textEp. 190 - The two of us grew up at the height of the purity culture movement. We read the classic "I Kissed Dating Goodbye" and every other Christian book on courtship. We dated intentionally, wore our purity rings religiously and saved our kisses for marriage. Do we regret wearing our purity rings? What was the impact of purity culture in our lives? How are we going to raise
Girl Defined Reacts to their FIRST YouTube Video (Is it Okay to be Obsessed with Guys?)
Send a textEp 189 - We’ve had other YouTube creators reacting to us since we posted our very first official vlog/YouTube video on May 25, 2016 titled “Is it okay to be Obsessed with Guys?” I think it’s time for the two of us to react to that video ourselves. We’re going to be releasing two new YouTube videos every month where we react to our earliest / most controversial YouTube videos. We’re goin
Kristen's Birth Story (After 12 Years of Infertility)
Send a textAfter 3 miscarriages and 12 years of infertility, having a baby seemed like an impossible dream.Then, to my complete astonishment, God answered our prayer! In the summer of 2024, I gave birth to our precious daughter, Caroline Marie. Holding my daughter for the first time was a moment I will never forget. Here’s my birth story.WATCH ON YOUTUBE:https://youtu.be/8CXKWgTDTK4KRISTEN'S
Millennial Women Have Been Lied to About Marriage, Motherhood, and Work w/ Suzanne Venker
Send a textEp 187 - Women have been told that men are the "standard of success" and we should do what they do. In the name of "equality" of course. Women have been pulled out of their homes, rejected their fertility, and are killing themselves to get accolades from their corporate bosses. What if you've been lied to about womanhood?What if you've been sold a bill of g
"My singleness feels like a punishment and why I ask guys if they’re watching porn.” w/ Alex Clark
Send a textEp. 186 - Alex Clark has risen to fame through her daily pop culture show, Poplitics. She's a conservative Christian woman with a deep desire to get married and start a family. Sadly, that hasn't happened yet. Despite going on dates and putting herself out there. I'm taking a deep dive into her life and asking questions like:Do you think men struggle to commit? Does singl
Is It My Fault I'm Still Single? Why aren't Guys Pursuing Me?
Send a textEp. 185 - You're single, but you don't want to be. You want a man. You want a leader. You want a protector. You want a LOVER. So why isn't it happening? Why hasn't God brought marriage into your life? The nagging question for many... "Is it my fault I'm still single?" In today's episode, the two of us share our own experiences and offer practical
A Non-Obsessive Approach to Health, Exercise, and Body Image w/ Lainey Greer
Send a textEp. 184 - Modern women have been trained by culture to obsess over their bodies and everyone else's. We compare butts, boobs, curves, height and everything else. Many of us look in the mirror and cringe at what we see reflecting back. This is not okay for God's daughters. Let's discuss what it looks like to value the body God has given you and take care of it in a balance
"I don't want to have kids... I want to pursue my career!" w/ Catherine Segars
Send a textEp. 183 - Trusting God with the size of her family was something Catherine Segars NEVER imagined she would do. She was an actress pursuing a future of fame... not a SAHM. Get ready for a wild story of a woman who put radical trust in God. You are going to laugh, cry, and be convicted in ways you weren't prepared for. Let's jump in. Connect with Catherine MUST READ: Not Part of
Are Old Testament Laws Sexist and Oppressive Toward Women? w/ Katie McCoy PhD
Send a text182 - Have you every read a passage in the Old Testament and thought, "What?! Does God even care about women?" If so, you're not alone. As modern Christian women it's crucial that we dig deeper to understand the context, history, and culture of what is happening in ancient Israel. As we do, we'll see that God's laws are actually FOR women. Grab Katie's
The Legalistic Trap of Conservative Christian Womanhood w/ Leslie Ludy
Send a textEp. 181 - Legalism seems to be a constant companion in many conservative Christian circles. The length of ones skirt can become more important than the character of ones heart. Leslie Ludy is joining us on The Girl Defined Show to cast a vision of what true biblical womanhood is all about. Connect with Leslie Ludy NEW - The Biblical Womanhood Bootcamp FREE BOOK - Battling Sexual Temptat
Kristen and Zack's Incredible Pregnancy Journey and Story
Send a textEp. 180 - Dealing with the pain of unexplained infertility is something no woman wants to go through. Kristen and Zack have experienced thirteen years of this heartbreaking diagnosis. In an incredible turn of events God worked a miracle. Kristen and Zack are expecting a baby. This is a God story. Listen in if you want to hear about God's mighty faithfulness in their lives. NEW - Th
Kristen’s Pregnancy Announcement + Our Personal Summer Goals
Send a textEp. 179 - Kristen is pregnant and weeks away from maternity leave. Bethany is getting off of social media for the summer. The two of us want to inspire you to set some goals and make this summer count. Not in the "bucket list item" sort of way. We want to inspire you to grow as a Christian woman and pursue God with your whole heart. NEW - The Biblical Womanhood Bootcamp FREE B
Feminine Not Feminist w/ Anneliese Patocs
Send a textEp. 178 - Christian womanhood has been shoved to the ground and deemed harmful for modern women. Feminism has become the new definer of what's acceptable to embrace. In today's conversation, we're chatting with Anneliese from "Feminine Not Feminist" about God's true design for women and how to THRIVE in your femininity. NEW - The Biblical Womanhood Bootcamp
Marriage is Not Better than Singleness w/ Madison Rudkin
Send a textEp. 177 - Marriage has been held up as the pinnacle of biblical womanhood. Get married. Have babies. Take care of your family. That all sounds great IF you're married. But, what if you're not married? What if you're single for a season or for a life time? Does that disqualify a woman from glorifying God in her womanhood and with her life? Madison Rudkin of the popular acc
Becoming a Sexually Alive Biblical Woman w/ Jana Faucette
Send a textEp 176 - Many Christian women have completely suppressed their sexuality and are pretending that they aren't sexual in any way. This has created a generation of Christian women who believe their sexuality is more of a curse than a blessing. The switch didn't flip when they got married and sex within marriage is miserable as well. We're going to unpack why God's desi
Why Homemaking is a Successful Career Choice for Women
Send a textEp 175 - Choosing to stay home with your kids isn't the most glamorous job. In fact, there aren't promotions, raises, or a paycheck. You won't get an annual company party with other employees celebrating your achievements and patting you on the back. Most often the opposite is true. You're left exhausted by the end of the day. The accolades are few. The rewards aren&
5 Lies About Motherhood that Most Christian Women Believe w/ Catherine Segars
Send a textEp. 174 - Motherhood is one of the most beautiful and complicated callings in the world. You'd give your life for your babies and you feel like you're losing your mind at the very same time. That's when the lies enter your mind. It's crucial as Christian women to turn to God's Word for truth to guide our emotions. Connect with Catherine NEW - The Biblical Womanh
Why the Kitchen is Actually an Empowering Place for Women
Send a textEp 173 - Are women bound to a life of misery if they take on this role in the home. Cooking. Cleaning. Caretaking. Sleeping. Wake up. Repeat. Is this brainless work? The home can be either a prison or a gospel flourishing environment. When you create a space for people to build relationships, nourish their bodies, learn, grow and build one another up, it's a life-giving gift. Allo
From Abandonment, Abuse, and Sex Work to Freedom in Christ.
Send a textEp. 172 - At thirteen, after being abandoned by her mother one summer and left to take care of her younger brother, Harmon becomes susceptible to a relationship that turns out to be toxic, abusive, and ultimately exploitave. She eventually finds herself working in a strip club under the control of a pimp. Ultimately, she disposers the path to true freedom. Connect with Harmony and TREAS
The Anxiety Inducing Impact of Social Media on Women
Send a textEp 171 - Imagine wanting to change your entire lifestyle because of what you see on social media. That is the reality for many women. We see. We want. We get anxious because we don't have. We do whatever we can to achieve that lifestyle. Repeat. Repeat. Repeat. The anxiety of trying to "measure up" on social media is too much. Let's discuss how we can be rooted in tr
Addicted to Porn. Freed by Christ. w/ Cortney Bruketta and COMPELLED
Send a textEp. 170 - Porn had a chokehold on Cortney's life. She longed for freedom and Christ brought that to her. Join us for this special episode brought to you by our friends at COMPELLED. Listen to other powerful testimonies from martyrs, addicts, prisoners, missionaries and more at CompelledPodcast.comContact Cortney directly at: CortneyBruketta @ gmail.comNEW GIRL DEFINED MEMBERSHIP FR
Are Trump, Biden, and Politics Dooming Christian Women to Anxiety?
Send a textEp. 169 - Politics has many American Christian women crippled with anxiety. The stress of voting and the ramifications of that vote are weighty. In fact, a few years ago Kristen actually begged her husband to run for president because she was so stressed about the current political climate of the day. How can we, as Christian women, find peace and rest in Christ during these unknown tim
“Freeze Your Eggs. Free Your Career.” The Alarming Trend of Putting Babies on Hold
Send a textEp. 168 - Enjoy this replay. The whole idea of freezing your eggs is becoming more appealing to women each year. Instead of being bound by her (God-designed) biological clock, women can delay having children until their 40s, without the worry of having to produce healthy eggs. The basic idea is that you freeze your strong eggs when you’re in your 20s, and then use them when you’re in y
5 Signs You're Trying to Control the Man in Your Life
Send a textEp 166 - Have you ever seen a Christian marriage where the man appears to be leading, but the wife is actually controlling everything from behind the scenes? Control has been the name of the game since Eve ate the fruit in the garden. Women over the centuries have wrestled with their controlling and manipulative nature. In todays episode, we're unpacking 5 ways women tend to contro
Struggles of being a Christian YouTube Couple w/ Paul and Morgan
Send a textEp. 166 - Paul and Morgan have been braving the world of YouTube for most of their marriage. They've been proclaiming biblical truth and working to point others toward Jesus. It's not always easy though. The pressure to create and produce can be overwhelming. Not to mention the constant pushback and negativity that comes with being in the online space. In today's episode,
The Truth about Biblical Submission in Marriage w/ Shannon Popkin
Send a textEp. 165 - Biblical submission has been misunderstood and abused by many throughout history. Should we toss the biblical term OR strive to understand it in the way God intended? Is biblical submission still relevant for modern women? In today's conversation, we brought on Shannon Popkin to help us with this difficult topic. She's a Bible teacher, wife, mom and amazing mentor to
Will Marriage Fix My Struggle with Porn and Masturbation?
Send a textEp 164 - Have you ever wondered if marriage will cure your ongoing struggles with porn, masturbation, erotica and other sexual sins? Many women have believed the lie that getting married will CURE their sexual struggles. In today's episode, we offer you a better way toward freedom. A way that is rooted in God's truth. Let's dive in. FREE BOOK - Battling Sexual Temptation:
Should a Christian Single Woman Pray for Her Future Husband?
Send a textEp 163 - The two of us used to be HUGE proponents of the "praying for your future husband" concept. I, Bethany, wrote letters and prayers for my future husband from age 14-30 when I got married. That's a lot of time spent thinking and dreaming about someone that might not have even existed. Is it a good idea for single Christian women to focus on a future husband? In tod
Deconstruction, Gay Marriage and the Problem with "My Truth" w/ Alisa Childers
Send a textEp 162 - We've seen thousands of Christian women ditch their faith over the past several years. Many came face to face with issues like gay marriage and decided that "hate-filled" Christianity wasn't for them. Is it possible to be a KIND Christian and disagree with others? Does God's Word really stand the test of time? In today's conversation, we unpack th
Do I Have to Make Homemade Sourdough to be a Proverbs 31 Woman?
Send a textEp 161 - The sourdough biblical womanhood aesthetic is in full force. It seems milking your cow, collecting fresh eggs and wearing a flowy dress are the new standards for biblical womanhood. Is it though? What does the Bible actually say about biblical womanhood? Does God require us to be barefoot and baking to be a Proverbs 31 woman? Let's discuss. FREE BOOK - Battling Sexual Temp
Should Christian Women Read Colleen Hoover's Books?
Send a textEp. 160 - Colleen Hoover has exploded onto the scene over the past few years. She is a multi New York Times bestseller and has even outsold the BIBLE. This author has captivated women across the world. Much of the controversy amongst Christian women has been around the erotic scenes in her books. Many say they're pornagraphic and downright sinful. If you've heard of or have re
How to Discern a Guy's True Character
Send a textEp. 159 - Marrying a man of godly character sounds great...but how can you know if he's ACTUALLY a godly man? You need answers to questions like, “What kind of character does this guy have?” “Where is his heart in regard to what God’s Word teaches?”“Does he genuinely love the Lord, and is this evident in his actions?” “Does he uphold God’s Word as the greatest authority in his life
Standing Bold in God’s Design for Your Femininity
Send a textEp. 158 - It's easy to be a fearless Christian woman around people who agree with you. But, what about those settings where people disagree? Are you willing to stand up for God's design at work, school, and on social media? Are you truly willing to live an unashamed life of the gospel of Jesus? It's time to link arms and live bold and courageous lives for Jesus. Let&apos
Stop Telling Christian Women the Lie "You're Enough"
Send a textEp. 157 - Enjoy this important replay. Christian women are notorious for giving "feel good" encouragement. It might not be true. It might not be biblical. But, it makes us feel good in the moment. "You're enough.""Your turn is next!""You'll get that baby soon.""Marriage is in your future.""Good things are coming your way.&
Why Single Women Desperately Need Sexual Mentorship
Send a textEp. 156 - We surveyed hundreds of single women for our book Sex, Purity and the Longings of a Girl's Heart. The answers were unanimous. Single women desperately need help, guidance and mentorship. They shared their struggles with porn, erotica, masturbation and said that they don't know who or where to turn for help. Married Christian women should be the FIRST ones to reach ou
Why Are So Many Women Having An Identity Crisis?
Send a textEp. 155 - Enjoy this replay. The word identity has become one of the biggest buzz words of our day. Our modern culture is passionate about spreading the message that our truest identity can be found within ourselves. We’re told that who we are has nothing to do with God, but everything to do with us. As we live in the midst of this popular narrative, we need to remind ourselves that our
What Single Women Can Do to HELP Marriage Happen w/ Candice Watters
Send a textEp 154 - Is it okay to want to be married? Is there anything a single woman can do to make marriage happen? Candice Watters gives women permission to want Christian marriage and encourages them to believe it's possible. In today's conversation, we're giving you practical steps you can take to make marriage a more likely part of your future. FREE BOOK - Battling Sexual Tem
How Do I Know If He's The One I Should Marry?
Send a textEp. 153 - We hope you enjoy this replay. Have you ever wondered anything like this: “How will I know when I meet my future husband?” Or, “How will I know if he’s the one I should marry?” Or, “What signs should I look for to figure out who the one is?!”These are popular questions. Chances are, you’ve probably asked some of them yourself. Trying to “figure out the ONE” is something we’ve
Should Christian Women Post Seductive Selfies?
Send a textEp. 152 - The booty pics. The cleavage pics. The showcasing the feminine form pics. We've all seen them. We may have even posted them. Some of us have even attached a Bible verse as the caption. The seductive selfie has become a staple for many women's social media feeds. These pics get the likes. They get the attention. It's no wonder many women love to post them. Should
The Dark Side of Surrogacy and Women Renting Out their Wombs w/ Ericka Andersen
Send a textEp 151 - The surrogacy industry has boomed over the past decade. The rich and famous have started to rent out the wombs of other women in order to maintain their bodies and fast paced lifestyle. Why carry your own baby when another woman can do it for you? There are some serious concerns about this new way of bringing babies into the world. The dark side of "womb renting" isn&
When Kristen Almost Dumped Zack Because He Drank Beer
Send a textEp. 150 - When Kristen heard that Zack drank a beer while they were dating her jaw hit the floor. She was a staunch "no alcohol" girl and thought Zack was too (only a staunch no guy). This brought up some intense conversations and forced both of them to take a deep dive on what the Bible actually says about this subject. Let's discuss how we as Christian women should appr
Men and Women have Different Sex Drives and Hormones FOR A REASON w/ Dr. Patrick
Send a textEp 149. - Do all men actually crave sex ALL of the time? Is a man UNHEALTHY if he doesn't want sex? Is it true that a woman's sex drive tanks after she gets married? The questions about sex and hormones are endless. That's why we brought on the "hormone whisperer" to help sort through all of the cultural stereotypes and assumptions about men and women. In today&
We've Changed our Mind on Modesty
Send a textEp. 148 - Modesty put Girl Defined on the map way back in the day when we first launched this ministry. Girls went crazy for our posts and videos on this topic. We ended up creating an ebook "Project Modesty" and hundreds of you bought it. Fast forward a few years and all of our old modesty content has been removed (by us) and we've ghosted you on the topic. We're b
Would You Invite an LGBTQ Person Out to Coffee? w/ Andrew T. Walker
Send a textWhen it comes to LGBTQ people and conversations, how often do you engage as a Christian? The truth is, most of us have NO IDEA how to engage in these crucial conversations in a way that's loving, thoughtful, Biblical, and truthful. And so we don't. Our guest today is here to HELP US. Andrew T. Walker is the author of the book, "God and the Transgender Debate: What Does th
Is it Awkward Being a Virgin on Your Wedding Night as a Christian Woman?
Send a textEp. 146 - Enjoy this replay! Many Christian women wonder if being a virgin on their wedding night will be awkward. Saving sex for marriage sounds great, but is it really that great? OR is it mostly super awkward and weird? Is saving sex for marriage actually worth it? Does God really care that much? In today's episode, Kristen and Bethany share their own stories of saving sex for m
Why Society Hates Strong Men And Why We Desperately Need Them w/ Owen Strachan
Send a textEp 145 - Do evil men exist? Yes. Are all men toxic? No. We live in a society that actually hates strong men. "Toxic manhood" has become a buzzword that now encompasses all forms of male strength, leadership, and masculinity. The feminist movement promoted this mindset by declaring men as the primary source of women's oppression and unhappiness. And the battle rages today.
Rethinking Birth Control, Family Planning, and When to Have Babies with Dr. Gordon (Part Two)
Send a textEp 144 - Enjoy part two of this replay series. The history of "the birth control pill" is something most women are not familiar with. Most women simply listen to their Dr. (without question) when they're told to get on the pill for one reason or other. Oral contraception has become the go-to for preventing pregnancy with little understanding of the potential negative hea
Rethinking Birth Control, Family Planning, and When to Have Babies with Candice Watters (Part One)
Send a textEp. 143 - Enjoy this replay episode. It was so good we had to bring it back. Have safe sex. Don't get pregnant. And build your career. That's the mantra women have been told from the time they were teen girls. Birth control is the go-to prescription to assist in this process of raising career minded women who put family on the back burner. This entire way of thinking needs to
Kristen Shares about Mom Life, Raising Boys, and Keeping God at the Center
Send a textEp. 142 - Motherhood is a beautiful blessing and an incredible challenge all at the same time. Kristen opens up and shares about the past two years since adopting her boys from Ukraine. She shares the practical things she does on a daily basis to disciple her boys in the Word and show them the love of Christ every single day. Motherhood has its hard moments and having a deep relationsh
Finding Freedom From Porn, Masturbation, and Erotica
Send a textEp 141 - Sexual struggles are rampant amongst christian women. Sadly, women are often left to fend for themselves and figure it out with google. The shame and embarrassment of feeling like she is "the only one" is not helping either. Women need answers. They need help. They need freedom. In today's episode, Kristen gets raw and real about her own past struggle with mastur
Why Womanhood is so Much More than an “Adult Female Human”
Send a textEp 140 - What does it mean to be a woman? Some have answered this question with a simple "an adult human female." Is that sufficient though? You were created to be uniquely different from a man. Every fiber in your body speaks to that reality. You were made female on purpose and for a great purpose. Your gender speaks to God's beautiful calling in your life. Let's d
My Husband is Struggling with Porn and I Don’t Know What to Do! w/ Jonathan Daugherty
Send a textEp. 139 - Porn is rampant and destroying peoples lives. It can be extremely uncomfortable to discuss the topic of porn. Many wives don't want to know if their husband is struggling. It feels too big and too hard to deal with. Today's conversation is filled with guidance and direction from a husband who once found himself enslaved with sexual addiction. His story of freedom in
Why Barbie is a Boring Feminist and Ken Steals the Show w/ Dav & Bethany
Send a textEp. 138 - Barbie has overtaken the world with her pink outfits, blonde hair, and handsome low commitment fragile blonde boyfriend. The trailers and teasers captivated the world causing the movie to explode opening weekend. The movie was definitely packed with surprises...and not good ones. The movie had a strong agenda and basically used barbie to get its message across. It was less abo
Why So Many Christian Women are Struggling to Makes Friends
Send a textEp. 137 - Loneliness is a huge problem for thousands of christian women across the world. Have you ever felt left out, alone, forgotten or just excluded because of your beliefs? We live in a world that is overly connected through the internet and under connect in real life. Christian women need in-person relationships and community to thrive in God's design. God made us to live wi
A Theology of Your Period and Why it Matters w/ Rachel Jones
Send a textEp. 136 - One the most unique aspects of women all around the world is her uterus. This aspect of our anatomy sets us apart from men in a very clear way. We're reminded of this piece of our womanhood every single month when we're greeted by 5-7ish days of bleeding. Have you ever wondered why God created you with a period? In today's episode we're taking a theological
Is it Wrong to Not Want to Have Kids?
Send a textEp. 135 - Can you imagine being honored and rewarded for LIMITING the amount of children you have? This is the reality in America. Get this, "Prince Harry told British Vogue in 2019 that he and Meghan Markle would have two children maximum. Harry said it was an environmental choice, which was recognized by charity Population Matters. The couple were awarded $695 to give to a charit
The Toxic War on Masculinity w/ Nancy Pearcey
Send a textEp. 134 - Men are under attack in our society. They're viewed as a cancer to be eliminated. Feminine GOOD. Masculine BAD. Are men really as toxic and evil as we've been told? Are there any respectable men left? In today's conversation we talk with Professor Nancy Pearcey about the TRUE war on masculinity and the insightful research that has been hidden away. Bottom line.
Should a Woman Take Her Husband’s Last Name?
Send a textEp. 133 - While the Bible does not give a direct command on this subject, it does have a lot to say about marriage. Marriage is a covenant between one man and one woman forever before God. It is a picture of Christ and the church. A husband and wife become one flesh.Does that mean a woman should take on the man's last name though? Let's take a deep dive and figure this out t
Masturbation: A Conversation for Single & Married Women
Send a textEp. 132 - Masturbation is a topic that Christian women typically do not discuss. Sadly, the silence surrounding this topic has only confirmed in women's minds that, "I must be then only woman in the world struggling with this!" That is not truth though. Kristen has also bravely shared her own story many times in the past to help you know that you're not alone and tha
The Dangers of Secular Manifestation and Girl-Bossing w/ Tara Sun
Send a textEp. 131 - There’s a lie masquerading as truth that’s running rampant in our culture. It goes something like this: you are powerful enough to control your circumstances and create the life you want through positive thinking, solid planning, and dreaming big enough. But if you’ve ever tried to control your life or to strive your way to self-fulfillment, you’ve discovered what lies on the
Girl Defined's Response to Shiny Happy People
Send a textA new documentary series covering all things IBLP and the Duggar family has many people talking. The two of us are weighing in to share our thoughts. Support the showRESOURCES: Made to Be She: Reclaiming God's Plan for Fearless Femininity Love Defined: Embracing God's Vision for Lasting Love and Satisfying RelationshipsSex, Purity and the Longings of a Girl's Heart Suppo
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