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548-"You're a Hypocrite": How Three Words from His Wife Saved Their 40-Year Marriage Aug 19, 2026 01:09:48 They were in ministry together for decades. Everyone thought they had a great marriage. Behind closed doors? Roommates. Disconnected. (Rare) duty sex. No affection. No real intimacy in years. Then Jody looked at David after a premarital counseling session he was leading and said: "You're a hypocrite." He didn't just hear her. He heard God through her. David joined Masculinity Reclaime

547-Is the 50% Divorce Rate a Myth? Interview w/ Shaunti Feldhahn Aug 11, 2026 56:26 Is the 50% Divorce Rate a Myth? You've probably heard this your entire life: "50% of marriages end in divorce." It's repeated so often that most of us don't even question it. But what if it's not actually true? I recently interviewed social researcher and bestselling author Shaunti Feldhahn, and she shared something I think every married person should hear. Years ago, Shaunti went look

546-Brutal Truths (about Spiritual Leadership) that Husbands Need to Hear - Part 3 Aug 4, 2026 41:25 Brutal Truths (about Spiritual Leadership) that Husbands Need to Hear - Part 3 Husband, Your family feels what you carry into the room. They feel your peace. They feel your resentment. They feel your patience. And they feel your anger—even when you never raise your voice. That may sound heavy, but it is also hopeful. Because it means you have more influence in your home than you may realize.

545-Brutal Truths (about Sex) that Husbands Need to Hear - Part 2 Jul 28, 2026 41:09 Brutal Truths (about Sex) that Husbands Need to Hear - Part 2 Can we encourage you with something? Wanting intimacy with your wife doesn't make you selfish. God designed that desire. But wanting the right thing doesn't always mean we're pursuing it the right way. Sometimes the very strategies that seem like they should bring us closer actually create more distance. If you've ever thought: "Why doe

544-Brutal Truths: Husbands Need to Hear Part 1 Jul 20, 2026 45:18 Brutal Truths: Husbands Need to Hear Part 1 Every husband wants to be respected. But here's a difficult question: Have you become the kind of man who is truly respectable? Most people think respect is earned in the big moments. The promotions. The accomplishments. The recognition. But God often builds respectable men much differently. In private. When no one is watching. One courageous choice. One

543-Could Women Be Increasing Fatherlessness? Jul 14, 2026 37:06 Could Women Be Increasing Fatherlessness? Take a moment and ask yourself this question: What does your husband see when he looks into your eyes? Does he see admiration? Does he feel respected? Or does he brace himself for another correction? It's not an easy question. Most wives don't wake up wanting to criticize their husbands. You simply want your marriage to be better. You want him to grow. You

542-Pastor Finds His Own Marriage Revival Here: Interview with Father Joe Jul 8, 2026 36:34 Pastor Finds His Own Marriage Revival Here: Interview with Father Joe Sometimes the smallest changes tell the biggest story. In this week's conversation, Father Joe shares the very first change he noticed after his wife went through coaching. She stopped telling him how to drive. (Yes, really!) It might sound like a funny detail. But to him, it represented something much deeper. Less tension. Less

541-Surrender Your Masculinity to Jesus: Interview with Aaron Smith Jun 30, 2026 01:01:40 Surrender Your Masculinity to Jesus: Interview with Aaron Smith Consider this question: If your marriage never changed... Would Jesus still be enough? That question is at the heart of this week's conversation with Aaron Smith. For four long years, he and his wife struggled with painful intimacy issues that nearly ended their marriage. Like many couples, they kept praying for God to change their ci

540-Is It Manipulation or Is It Kindness? Jun 23, 2026 49:52 Is It Manipulation or Is It Kindness? Whether you realize it or not, you're already influencing your spouse. Every day. Through your words. Your attitudes. Your reactions. Your encouragement. Your silence. The question isn't whether you're influencing them. The question is why. Are you trying to get your own way? Or are you trying to help them become who God created them to be? That's what this we

539-Not a Bad Marriage, But the Future Looked Disconnected: David's Transformation Journey Jun 16, 2026 50:26 Not a Bad Marriage, But the Future Looked Disconnected: David's Transformation Journey One of the biggest lies couples believe is this: "This is just what marriage becomes." The excitement fades. The connection weakens. The emotional intimacy disappears. And we convince ourselves that's normal. This is where David found himself. His marriage wasn't falling apart, but it wasn't thriving either. H

538-Why (Physical or Emotional) Vulnerability is So Scary Jun 9, 2026 40:35 If you've ever looked in the mirror and felt disappointed... If you've ever believed the lie that your body isn't beautiful enough, desirable enough, or worthy enough... I want you to know something. That voice is not God's voice. The God who knit you together in your mother's womb did not make a mistake when He made you. Your body is not something to be ashamed of. Your story is not something to

537-Be Confident Enough to Change Jun 4, 2026 30:57 In case you need this reminder today: You are allowed to be in process. You are allowed to say, "I do not have all the answers yet, but I want to learn." You are allowed to be growing. That is not failure. That is humility. And humility is often far stronger than we realize. Sometimes we think confidence means having everything figured out before we take a step. But that's not real confidence at a

536-Take Your Next Health Step to Own Your Growth (feat. Justin Roethlingshoefer) May 29, 2026 01:04:42 Sometimes Christians speak about the body as though it barely matters. As though spiritual growth and physical stewardship are completely separate things. But Scripture paints a very different picture. God created your body intentionally. Jesus came in a body. Jesus rose in a body. And one day, we will receive glorified bodies. Your body matters to God. In this episode, Justin Roethlingshoefer (Ow

535-When Your Intimacy Isn't "Normal" -- There is Help & Hope May 20, 2026 35:51 Maybe intimacy in your marriage doesn't look the way you thought it would. Maybe there are physical limitations. Health challenges. Pain. Insecurity. Lack of desire. Aging. Shame. Or just a deep sadness that things don't feel the way they "should." And maybe, quietly, you've wondered: Is something wrong with me? Is something wrong with us? Are we just broken? This episode is for the husband or wi

534-She was Cold, Took Ownership, & Now Feels Tender Towards Her Man: Hannah's Story May 15, 2026 55:55 Can we give you an encouragement today? Just because your marriage has felt cold… Disconnected… Tense… Or emotionally distant for years… Does not mean that's how it has to stay. In today's episode, a wife recently shared that for years, her husband told her he didn't feel respected — and honestly? She truly didn't understand what he meant. Not because she didn't love him. Not because she was tryin

533-All Your "Godly" Accomplishments Are Nothing? May 9, 2026 42:21 All Your "Godly" Accomplishments Are Nothing? What if you could "win" in every area of life… and still lose the things that matter most? Because according to Jesus, success isn't measured by productivity, influence, money, ministry titles, or getting more done than everyone else. It's measured by love. "Love is patient and kind…" (1 Corinthians 13) That means our marriages matter. Our tone matte

532-From Tolerating to Delighting: Marriage Transformation Is Possible (feat. Gary Thomas & Belah Rose) May 1, 2026 48:12 From Tolerating to Delighting: Marriage Transformation Is Possible (feat. Gary Thomas & Belah Rose) Imagine this: Your husband is working nights and you are cleaning houses during the day. When you find out you are pregnant, you pursue a dream of writing a book. Every morning you walk to the coffee shop just down the street to write. One of your favorite things to do is listen to books abo

531-Do We Call What is Holy "Sin" (and What is Sin "Holy") Apr 25, 2026 51:39 Do We Call What is Holy "Sin" (and What is Sin "Holy") When I was first a believer, I had a very strong view of what was right and what was wrong. I had a sense that anything I was uncomfortable with was definitely wrong. After a lot of of life…and sadly time away from Jesus…and God healing and redeeming my journey, I've come to realize that there are things I am uncomfortable with, but are not ne

530-Zero Intimacy for Almost a Decade, Husband & Wife Share Their Miracle Apr 18, 2026 01:04:10 Zero Intimacy for Almost a Decade, Husband & Wife Share Their Miracle Ten years of no physical intimacy. That is where husband & wife, Jim & Willa, found themselves. For 38 years of marriage, Willa described her husband as a "my way or the highway" kind of guy. And up until recently, Jim felt so frustrated and angry in his marriage that he wanted to leave. They were sleeping in separate bedrooms,

529-Driven? But Fulfilled? Interview with Brad Rhoads Apr 11, 2026 53:37 You might be one who can work all day and feel great. And maybe you struggle to take a vacation. Maybe if you're really honest with yourself, you think productivity is next to godliness. If you're like Brad and I -- that's us nodding our heads. We're just wired that way. That's not the end of the story... But Brad had a mentor that wouldn't let go of him until he could see that drivenness

528-Good Friday: The way you treat your spouse reveals what you really believe Apr 3, 2026 26:48 Today marks the day that God stooped so low to live a perfect life and die a gruesome sinner's death -- to save you. And save me. Why? Not because we were perfect. Not because we could earn His love. Who could earn that? But because He decided we were worth it. We aren't deserving of His sacrifice because we're so great -- it's because HE'S so great. He's so good, kind, and gracious that He

527-If Your Wife Puts the Kids First, This Is the Leadership Problem You Need to Fix Mar 27, 2026 31:15 Become the man your wife respects and desires again—before prices increase Book your Clarity Call now -------------------------------------------- I'm speaking to a man who wants to fix things. He is not a whiner, complainer, or blamer. He's interested in taking responsibility and making things better. But if he's really honest with himself, sometimes he feels that his wife prioritizes the kids ab

526-How to Get Her In the Mood (& Turn Her On) [Re-Release] Mar 20, 2026 19:51 526-How to Get Her In the Mood (& Turn Her On) [Re-Release] I think all the wives will want their husbands to listen to this one. Because I have the good fortune of working with men every (work) day and hearing their unfiltered thoughts about intimacy… I can help you understand why your wife often rejects you. One of the major truths is that it's SCARY to initiate sex with your wife. So, you

525-Simple Ways to Have Intimacy More Often Mar 13, 2026 36:20 [Belah here - AI was not used to draft or write this description] As silly as it may seem, something as sacred and biblical as marital intimacy comes right down to the practical of "hey, it's just too quiet in the house for intimacy". So, how do you solve for the biggest reasons a couple doesn't connect in this God-honoring way? Well, that's what today's conversation is all about. In this ep

524-A Pastor Didn't Expect Marriage Help to Come This Way Mar 6, 2026 42:10 [Belah here - AI was not used to draft or write this description] Sometimes I have been asked if I, as a woman, should be teaching men. When it comes up, I really appreciate that question because it shows a level of maturity and commitment to scripture. The truth is, I never intended to be coaching or training men. That, in fact, is something I was against, at first. I intended to just follow Ti

523-My Pain > Victim > Rebel > Repentance Journey Feb 27, 2026 55:05 [Belah here - AI was not used to draft or write this description] I have grown in my journey of processing pain. But I still slip up. Today, I want to share with you a recent insight I've received on what I still need God's help to work through. I hope we can walk together, looking at our Savior, first and foremost to discover His purposes for our suffering. Your suffering matters. It matters t

522-A Marriage Transformation 5 Years in the Making: Dan's Story Feb 20, 2026 56:57 A Marriage Transformation 5 Years in the Making: Dan's Story There are transformations that happen fast—like a spark, a breakthrough, a moment where everything shifts.And then there are transformations that happen patiently, steadily, layer by layer… over years. Dan's story is that second kind. Because five years ago, Dan wasn't walking around thinking his marriage was "bad." He actually wrote on

521 - Truths Inspiring Me About Confidence and Character — A Conversation with My Son Feb 14, 2026 46:01 Truths Inspiring Me About Confidence and Character — A Conversation with My Son Sometimes the most convicting spiritual lessons don't come from a sermon. They come from hearing a child say something honest— something simple— and realizing God is speaking through it. And as you listen to this conversation about habits, confidence, and walking with Jesus, you may feel that gentle nudge to return t

520-The Deep Theology of Sexual Unity (With Some Fun!): Interview with Randy and Rozanne Frazee Feb 6, 2026 01:14:00 The Deep Theology of Sexual Unity (With Some Fun!): Interview with Randy and Rozanne Frazee Many of us were handed a shallow theology of sex — one that quietly divided the spiritual from the physical. But what if intimacy was never meant to be separate from your spiritual formation? What if marriage — even your sex life — is woven into the very story of God Himself? What if sex wasn't just God-per

519-Have Compassion on Your Husband's God-Given Desire Jan 30, 2026 52:38 Have Compassion on Your Husband's Desire This is a tender topic. And for some of you, even reading this headline might make your chest tighten. Because desire can feel complicated. Painful. Loaded. Or honestly… just exhausting. And yet, this conversation matters—not to shame you, not to pressure you, but to invite you into compassion. Not obligation. Not fear. Not duty-driven compliance. Compassio

518-Husbands, Draw Her Back: Order of Operations Jan 23, 2026 36:56 Husbands, Draw Her Back: Order of Operations Gentlemen, you have likely heard that you are meant to be the leader of your home. You've likely heard it from the pulpit, maybe from your own family. So what happens when your wife feels distant? Maybe the invitation isn't to push her to follow — but to lead in such a way that her heart feels safe coming back to you, drawing her back with tenderness, c

517-From "You Were Never There for Me, Dad" to "I Want to Marry a Man Like You" Jan 17, 2026 46:33 It is our honor and privilege to have Charles on the podcast with us today. Many of you have maybe already spoken to Charles. He serves as one of our Clarity Advisors here at Delight Your Marriage and has done an incredible job of listening to your stories and giving you next steps, but most importantly, giving you hope. What you might not know about Charles is that he spent many years as a very

516-A Pastor with a "Prostitute" Mindset Changed His Ways: Jerry's Story Jan 10, 2026 46:49 516-A Pastor with a "Prostitute" Mindset Changed His Ways: Jerry's Story There's a quiet frustration many good men carry. You've tried to talk. You've tried to suggest counseling, books, podcasts—something. You've even tried explaining your heart. And still… she doesn't seem to listen. Doesn't engage. Doesn't change. If that's you, let me say this gently but clearly: God may be asking you to go fi

515-New Years Resolutions with Hope Jan 2, 2026 56:55 515-New Years Resolutions with Hope Happy New Year! If you're reading this a couple days into 2026—welcome. And if you're reading this in the middle of 2037, it still applies. Because God is still on the throne. He is still a good Father. And He is still interested in crafting and molding your heart—especially in the middle of real life… including the hard parts. Put Your Growth Mindset On (Yes, L

514-40 Years of Broken Trust to Safety & Celebration: A Christmas Miracle (Laura's Story) Dec 20, 2025 01:02:52 514-40 Years of Broken Trust to Safety & Celebration: A Christmas Miracle (Laura's Story) There is a kind of marriage pain that does not look dramatic.It's not an outward struggle.Just a quiet ache.A marriage that functions but does not feel alive. Laura lived in that space for decades. From the outside, her life looked good. Forty years of marriage. Seven children. A faithful husband. A stable h

513-The Christmas Reset: Peace Over Perfection (Interview With My Sons) Dec 12, 2025 47:23 Christmas can feel magical.It can also feel exhausting. If you're a parent who secretly feels pressure rising as the holidays approach—the expectations, the mess, the emotions, the memories—you're not alone. And sometimes, the clearest wisdom doesn't come from another parenting book or productivity hack. Sometimes it comes from children. I sat down with my two sons for a conversation about Christm

512-What Turns Her Off — and What Godly Husbands Do Instead Dec 5, 2025 48:17 What Turns Her Off — and What Godly Husbands Do Instead Have you ever wished you could just…get inside your wife's heart for a moment? Not to manipulate, but to genuinely understand her. To love her in a way that makes her feel safe and wanted—not pressured or confused. My husband Darrow and I sat down to talk through something men rarely get honest insight about: Her biggest turn-offs. And not be

511-Forty-Five Years Married and Afraid of Retirement: Patty's Story Nov 28, 2025 52:29 Forty-Five Years Married and Afraid of Retirement: Patty's Story Patty had a life most people would admire. Forty-five years of marriage. Four children. Seven grandkids. Retirement. A kind, steady husband. From the outside, it looked like she had it all. But inside? Patty was scared. Not because she didn't love her husband. They laughed together, they got along. But underneath the "good," there wa

510-Is it Possible to Have Joy in Lovemaking? Nov 21, 2025 57:23 Is it Possible to Have Joy in Lovemaking? Physical intimacy can be one of the most painful topics in a woman's life. Maybe you've felt shame for years. Maybe your husband brings it up constantly, and all you want to do is shrink away. Or maybe, deep down, you wonder if something is just wrong with you. If that's where you are, I want you to know—I've been there. I've felt the fear. I've felt the p

509-Eternal Marriage Mindset: Living Today for the Streets of Gold Nov 14, 2025 42:56 Eternal Marriage Mindset: Living Today for the Streets of Gold We get so caught up in the now—our needs, our feelings, our expectations—that we forget: this isn't forever. And when it comes to your marriage, your mindset matters more than you know. What if the goal isn't just earthly happiness… but eternal impact? Let's shift our gaze from the temporary to the eternal—from trying to fix our spouse

508-How Daily Habits Transformed His 36-Year Marriage: Harvey's Story Nov 7, 2025 36:13 How Daily Habits Transformed His 36-Year Marriage: Harvey's Story Marriage is holy work. Maybe you're reading this today because you're hoping your marriage will change. Maybe you're reading this because you've prayed, "Lord, please help my marriage," when really you mean "Lord, please help my spouse!" I hope this blog and episode will make you feel both comforted and inspired — that you'll be rem

507-"Marriage First" Makes Your Life Unstable Oct 31, 2025 22:01 "Marriage First" Makes Your Life Unstable At the end of my life, I want to hear the words, "Well done, good and faithful servant." That's the goal that keeps me grounded—and I know many of you share that desire. But here's a hard truth I've learned through years of walking with couples: when our marriage or family becomes our first priority instead of God, everything starts to crumble. Why "Famil

506-How to Not Have an Affair: Interview with Gary Thomas Oct 24, 2025 01:06:34 It doesn't start with scandal. It often doesn't even start with feelings. It starts with a smile. A moment of connection. A conversation that feels easy—maybe easier than the ones you've been having at home. You walk away thinking, That was nothing. But somewhere deep down, you also know—it could become something. If that's where you find yourself today (or even if you've seen the warning signs in

505-How a Family Life Educator Took Her Marriage from Good to Great: Jen's Story Oct 17, 2025 28:27 How a Family Life Educator Took Her Marriage from Good to Great: Jen's Story Sometimes, the couples who join our programs aren't on the brink of divorce. They aren't fighting all the time. They actually have a good marriage. But deep down, they know it could be better. That's exactly where Jen was when she found Delight Your Marriage. "We Had a Good Marriage… But I Knew It Could Be More" Jen and h

504-When Your Words Actually Bring Life (And How to Avoid Death): Interview With Ann & Dave Wilson Oct 10, 2025 50:53 When Your Words Actually Bring Life (And How to Avoid Death): Interview With Ann & Dave Wilson Do you remember when you first fell in love—how easy it was to cheer him on? You'd light up at his stories. You'd say, "You're amazing!" and mean it. You noticed everything good. But somewhere along the way, the cheers turned into corrections. The same man who once felt like your hero now feels like your

503-How a Farmer Learned to Lead & Love in His Marriage Oct 4, 2025 45:39 How a Farmer Learned to Lead & Love in His Marriage On the outside, Jake looked like a happy-go-lucky farmer. But inside, his marriage was falling apart. Control, years of infertility struggles, alcohol abuse, and pornography created a wall between him and his wife. Even counseling couldn't break through the scar tissue of pain she carried. At one point, she said her willingness to work on the mar

502-How to Win an Argument: Interview with Dr. Kevin Downing Sep 26, 2025 01:00:49 Arguments that spiral out of control often leave behind words no one meant and wounds that take time to heal. Escalation may feel like "getting it all out," but according to our guest today, it is actually poison to a marriage. Dr. Kevin Downing, founder of Turning Point Counseling in Southern California, has spent decades helping couples, pastors, and families find healthier ways to connect. His

501-Wage War Against Body Insecurity Sep 19, 2025 46:54 Body obsession has been a toughy for me all my life. Wanting to be thin. Wanting to be beautiful. Wanting to fit into x size jeans. Wanting to see x on the scale. (The number of New Year's resolutions based on this makes me embarrassed.) And once I am triggered about thinking I'm not thin, I would eat to assuage those hard feelings. Or other hard feelings, I'd eat. Was it sin? Was it a sin, fo

500 Episodes! Your Influence & Joining DYM's in Our Next Decade Sep 12, 2025 54:04 When I hit "record" on the very first Delight Your Marriage podcast 10 years ago, my mic stand was a Quaker Oats container. I had a dream, a story, and a hope that I thought could help others. I just had a few loaves and fishes to offer—with a world in need. Now—500 episodes later—we've seen Him do it: hundreds marriages restored in our programs directly, many thousands of families transformed t

499-Sinful v. Holy Fierce Intimacy (Re-Release) Sep 5, 2025 01:03:28 499-Sinful v. Holy Fierce Intimacy I was confused. There I was a new bride, having saved myself for marriage… only to find out that my new husband wanted me to do SINFUL things. Where did he get all this "inspiration" anyway? Oh, I knew: sinful places. So, of course, I refused. And of course, it brought mutual anger (covering each of our hurt). What's your story? If it's even remotely like mine, I

498-Creating Better Habits for a Better Marriage: Michael's Story Aug 29, 2025 36:39 Creating Better Habits for a Better Marriage: Michael's Story You love your wife. You love your family. And you'd do anything for them. But if you're honest… things don't feel quite the same as they used to. Maybe you're exhausted from work, the baby, or the endless list of responsibilities. Maybe your evenings with your wife now look more like two roommates collapsed on the couch—silent, tired, a

497-Living a Life of No Regrets in Marriage and Faith Aug 22, 2025 34:04 497-Living a Life of No Regrets in Marriage and Faith [Re-Release] (Previously Titled: Changing OURSELVES in Light of Eternity) Hello, listeners! As we continue to work on our recording our very first in-person trainings, we hope you will enjoy some of the re-releases from the past few years of the Delight Your Marriage podcast (It has certainly been sweet to us to re-listen and share some of our

496-Abiding in God's Love by Living a Life of Surrender Aug 15, 2025 26:22 Abiding in God's Love by Living a Life of Surrender (Formerly Titled: Real Love Takes Sacrifice) We know the Bible says "God is love" (1 John 4:8) and that He loved us first. But if we're honest, many of us spend more time wondering, "Does God really love me?" than asking the deeper, more revealing question: "Do I truly love Him?" That's the heart of today's message. God's love for you is unshakab

495-Years of Counseling Didn't Help, But Now After 35 Years They're Better Than Ever Aug 8, 2025 01:16:44 After nearly four decades of marriage, Kim and Russ had done the hard work. They had raised five children, invested in professional counseling, read marriage books, and sought spiritual guidance. And still, something was missing. The breakthrough moments they experienced through the years never seemed to last. They still longed for a deeper connection and the kind of love they had always dreamed o

494-Don't Waste the Great Gift of Influence (Re-Release) Aug 1, 2025 51:30 Don't Waste the Great Gift of Influence (Formerly titled: Don't Waste Your Impact) It's easy to underestimate just how much weight your words, actions, and attitudes carry—especially in your marriage. But the truth is, your spouse is the person you impact most in this life. And that impact can either build up or break down. It can draw them closer to Jesus—or push them further away. Whether you're

493- Fall in Love With Your Spouse Again: Kay's Story Jul 23, 2025 43:36 Fall in Love With Your Spouse Again: Kay's Story Marriage is one of God's most beautiful gifts—and one of His most powerful tools for growth and sanctification. But even after decades of love and commitment, many couples find themselves asking the quiet question: What happened to us? Maybe you're feeling distant from your spouse. Maybe you're still under the same roof—but it feels like you're livi

492-Forgiveness is Key to Better Relationships: Interview with Brian & Heather Mayer Jul 18, 2025 01:05:05 Forgiveness is Key to Better Relationships: Interview With Brian & Heather Mayer Forgiveness can feel like the most unfair, unnatural thing in the world. When someone has wounded you—especially someone who was supposed to love you—choosing to forgive may feel like letting them off the hook. But Brian and Heather Mayer's story reminds us: forgiveness isn't about the other person's worthiness—it's a

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491-A Fine Marriage, Now an Extraordinary Marriage: Bart's Story Jul 10, 2025 28:43 A Fine Marriage, Now an Extraordinary Marriage: Bart's Story Bart is a Christian leader. He's the head of a childcare agency working with traumatized children and teens. He's been married for nearly 20 years and has four beautiful kids. And by his own admission? He was tired. Burned out. Irritable. Or, in his words—"crusty." He wasn't in crisis. His marriage wasn't "on the rocks." But it wasn't th

490-Putting God First Will Change Your Marriage Jul 4, 2025 48:35 Putting God First Will Change Your Marriage If you're anything like me, you've found yourself caught in the swirl of responsibilities, relationships, expectations... and distractions. It's so easy to let the noise of life drown out the voice of God. Even in marriage—especially in marriage—it's easy to start placing our hope in the wrong thing. And when we do that, even the good things, like

489-Harshness to Beautiful Kindness: Marriage Encouragement with Rhonda Stoppe Jun 27, 2025 01:01:47 Marriage is one of the greatest blessings — and one of the greatest refining processes — we can experience. But if we're honest, many of us carry regrets when it comes to how we've treated our spouse, how we've handled conflict, or the words we've spoken in frustration. We don't always recognize how often harshness sneaks into our marriage, chipping away at intimacy, connection, and joy. But here'

488-Wives, Pleasure Is An Important Part of Life (Really!) Jun 20, 2025 28:13 Wives, Pleasure Is An Important Part of Life (Really!) If you're a wife who feels like physical intimacy just isn't for you... this post is for you. Maybe you've been hurt in the past. Maybe sex feels awkward, or painful, or even meaningless. Maybe it seems like something only he wants, and you just go along with it. If any of that resonates, I want you to know: you're not broken. You're not alone

487-He Died to Himself and She Decided Intimacy Needed to Change: Rebekah's Story Jun 13, 2025 41:52 He Died to Himself and She Decided Intimacy Needed to Change: Rebekah's Story Rebekah didn't sign up for marriage coaching. She wasn't looking for help. In fact, when her husband first discovered us, she politely declined any involvement. He had found the podcast and was quietly listening, learning, and applying. She wasn't ready. But he didn't push. He didn't demand. He just loved her. And that—h

486-How a Strong Identity Defeats Shame: Interview With Pastor Drew Hyun Jun 6, 2025 51:03 How a Strong Identity Defeats Shame: Interview With Pastor Drew Hyun Maybe you're a leader in your church, a high achiever at work, or a dedicated family man—but deep inside, you feel the sting of shame. Maybe it's from mistakes in your past, struggles in your present, or simply the pressure of not living up to what you think you should be. Here's the good news: you don't have to carry it anymore.

485-Strength from Suffering May 30, 2025 20:39 Strength from Suffering Let me start with this: the enemy wants you to believe that when hard things happen, you're done for. You're weaker. You're broken. That you can't be used by God anymore. But that's a lie. The truth is—God uses the hard things. He doesn't waste our pain. In fact, Scripture tells us over and over again that it's through trials that our faith, character, and hope are built.

484-Love Jesus More Than Your Pain: Jennifer's Story May 23, 2025 49:27 Sometimes, God answers your prayers in a way you don't expect. That's how Jennifer's journey began. She and her husband had been married for 30 years, with three beautiful daughters. On the outside, everything seemed steady—but inside, Jennifer was silently struggling. Depression, anxiety, deep wounds from trauma, and the weight of parenting adult children had left her feeling exhausted and emotio

483-The Truth About Female Desire: Interview with Dr. Juli Slattery May 16, 2025 01:03:52 If you're a wife who loves God and loves your husband, but you're wondering… Why don't I want sex? Why does my husband want it more than I do? Am I broken for not desiring intimacy? …you're in the right place. We want to remind you that you are not broken. You're not alone. And God isn't disappointed in you. In this conversation, we sit down with the incredible Dr. Juli Slattery—clinical p

482-Loving Your Spouse Well When You Feel Down May 9, 2025 07:07 Loving Well When You Feel Down Even the strongest marriages go through hard seasons. Whether you're facing emotional burnout, stress, or feeling spiritually distant, it's easy to feel like you have nothing left to give in your relationship. So how do you love your spouse when you feel depleted? This post is your quick "reset"—a reminder of what really matters in marriage and how to keep moving for

481-Church Scandals Aren't Random: How Ignorance Paves the Way for More Harm May 2, 2025 28:14 Church Scandals Aren't Random: How Ignorance Paves the Way for More Harm A Funny, Painful Story (That's Actually Very Relevant) Before we dive into heavy stuff, let me tell you a story. 4 weeks and 2 days ago... Picture this: I'm flat on my back, in the middle of the street, 20 feet away from a car that thankfully didn't roll over me. I'm convinced something's stabbing into my heart. Pain is shoot

480-When Lust No Longer Rules Your Mind: Patrick's Freedom Story Apr 25, 2025 38:04 When Lust No Longer Rules Your Mind: Patrick's Freedom Story It's a quiet kind of bravery that often goes unseen. The kind that walks through the door not to applause, but to shame—and chooses humility instead of hiding. That's the kind of courage Patrick brought into this conversation. And today, I want to honor that bravery and invite you into a story that too few are willing to tell, but so ma

479-Healing Sexual Sin & Shame through the Cross (and Curiosity): Interview with Jay Stringer Apr 18, 2025 53:58 Healing Sexual Sin & Shame through the Cross (and Curiosity): Interview with Jay Stringer There is something so incredible about a story of redemption. And, dear reader, I believe this conversation will be a turning point for you, as it has been for so many in our community. I've walked alongside men and women wrestling with the deep pain of sexual brokenness- the battles they face in their marria

478-How 20 Years Of Painful Miscommunication Became Beautiful Unification: Stephen's Story Apr 11, 2025 40:57 If you have ever felt disconnected with your spouse- particularly in the area of communication- this episode is especially for you. Steven and his wife, Tracy, walked through more than two decades of disconnection. Twenty-five years is a long time to feel lost in your marriage. To feel like no matter what you try, you just can't find your way back to each other. They loved God. They were raising

477-How to be a Good Sexual Man: Interview with Sam Jolman Apr 4, 2025 01:09:22 How to be a Good Sexual Man: Interview with Sam Jolman Men, have you ever wished someone had sat you down and given you the sex talk you really needed—not the awkward, surface-level version, but a conversation that spoke to your heart, your masculinity, and how all of that relates to your sexuality and how God designed you? That's exactly what therapist and author Sam Jolman offers in his book Th

476-Marital Success is Your Spiritual Responsibility Mar 28, 2025 36:39 The day has arrived! We are officially on social media! And we can't wait for you to see what we have for you! Follow Us & Subscribe on: Instagram, Facebook, & Youtube Now, on to the podcast! Marital Success is Your Spiritual Responsibility If you've been listening to the Delight Your Marriage podcast or reading these blogs for a while, you know I don't take marriage lightly. And if you're a fo

10 Years. No Social Media. Millions Reached. The DYM Story. Mar 27, 2025 36:37 Hi friend, This one's pretty personal. After 10 years of podcasting, coaching, and quietly building Delight Your Marriage—without social media—we're finally stepping into a new chapter. (I'm still kind of holding my breath saying that.) In today's episode, I share the real behind-the-scenes story of: Why I stayed off social all these years (and it's deeper than just "not liking it") The Gideon

475-Freedom from The Purity Culture Half-Truths Mar 21, 2025 39:29 Freedom from The Purity Culture Half Truths If you're anything like me, you grew up knowing that sex was something to be saved for marriage. Maybe you heard it in church, at youth group, from your parents, or maybe it was something just understood. You were told to "save yourself," and by God's grace—you did. But now you're married. And... what gives? Why is this thing that's supposed to be beauti

474-Her Marriage Was "Dissolving", Now It's Saved & Growing: Kalee's Story Mar 14, 2025 26:47 Her Marriage Was "Dissolving", Now It's Saved & Growing: Kalee's Story Before she began the Delighted Wife program, Kalee was in a place of deep discouragement. She and her husband, Chris, had been married for eight years, built a beautiful family together, and yet, they felt utterly lost. Their marriage was dissolving, and hopelessness had settled in. She didn't see a way out. But God did. In His

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