Trying Not to Care
Ashley Corbo hosts a podcast for those who have been told they care too much. She shares personal stories about friendship breakups, bad relationships, navigating your 20s, quitting jobs, and following dreams. Each episode offers a quick therapy session with a new bestie, releasing every Monday.
Episodes
How to Get Out of a Funk
From one girl in a funk to another 😽✨ Here’s my go-to list of ways to reset my brain, find a little motivation, and start feeling more like myself again. Whether you’re feeling stuck, overwhelmed, unmotivated, or just need a little pick-me-up, this episode is your reminder that sometimes the smallest things can make the biggest difference.Trying Not to Care is sponsored by BetterHelp - Sign up an
It’s Not All Men, But It’s Always a Man
In this episode, I’m talking about the Cornell 7, the “not all men” conversation, and the reality of living as a woman in a world where we’re constantly taught how to protect ourselves, yet so often questioned when something happens to us.This episode isn’t me saying that every man is dangerous. It’s about why so many women feel like we have to be cautious all the time, why we don’t always know w
Being Disliked by Losers Is the Price You Pay for Not Being One
In this episode, I talk about why people will always have opinions about you and why you shouldn't care. From projection and insecurity to outgrowing friendships, setting boundaries, and putting yourself out there, we’ll get into why being authentic and ambitious sometimes mean being misunderstood.You can’t live a life that’s true to you while constantly worrying about how it looks to everyone el
How to Be Kind Without Being a Pushover
Being kind doesn’t make you a pushover...being kind without boundaries does. 😐 In this episode, I talk about the difference between having a good heart and abandoning yourself to keep everyone else comfortable. I also break down 5 practical ways to be kind without being a pushover:1. Being kind without needing to sacrifice your boundaries2. Give because you want to, not because you feel obligated
How to Rebrand Your Life This Fall 🤎🍂
I'M BACK & I MISSED YOU ALL SO MUCH! In this episode, we're kicking off fall with a lil rebrand ✨ How to reset your life, figure out who you want to become, break habits that aren’t serving you, romanticize your routines, declutter your life, and actually start showing up as the version of yourself you’ve been wanting to be. If you’re looking to reset, feel more put together, motivated, and e
If They Want You, You Won’t Have to Question It
I’M MARRIED!!! 💍🤍 After almost 10 years together, Josh and I finally got married! As excited as I am for this new season of life, before I come back from our honeymoon, I wanted to take a step back and talk about our relationship and what I’ve learned from being in unhealthy relationships before Josh. I’m sharing the biggest differences I’ve noticed between the relationships that made me question
Stop Feeling Bad for Being Young - The Pressure to Be Perfect in Your 20s
As I step into a new chapter of my life, I’ve been thinking a lot about how much pressure I put on myself throughout my 20s to have everything figured out. In this episode, I’m talking about the anxiety that comes with feeling behind...whether it’s your career, money, relationships, or just not knowing what you’re doing with your life. I’m sharing some of the things I wish I understood earlier, l
How I Became My Own Boss - Influencing, Podcasts, Working for Myself
4 years ago, I almost quit podcasting because I felt like I was wasting my time and no one was listening. Two weeks later, I had an idea to promote my podcast on TikTok, and that one video completely changed everything. I went from 200 listens per week to charting number 1 in podcasts on Spotify and Apple. In this episode, I’m taking you guys behind the scenes of how I went from working a job I d
For the Brides 💍 - Planning a Wedding, Real or Fake Flowers, Being a Non Traditional Bride, Family Drama, and Is He the One? ADVICE SESSION #17
Planning a wedding comes with a lot of questions, and it can be hard to know what's actually worth stressing over. After spending the last year and a half planning my own wedding, I've learned a lot through the process. In today's advice session, I'm giving you my thoughts and best tips that have helped me. If you're a bride who's feeling overwhelmed by wedding planning, whether it's the budget,
Let People Be Weird and Move On With Your Life
Sometimes you just gotta accept people move extremely weird and move on!!!KEEP UP WITH ME ON SOCIAL MEDIAInstagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care InstagramTikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTokYoutube: Subscribe hereAmazon Storefront and more: LTXWANT TO ASK ME QUESTIONS? NEED ADVICE? Follow me on IG and look out for submissions on my story or ask me here: 2026 google formP
Why Your Friendships Make You Feel Anxious
Have you ever felt anxious in a friendship but couldn't really explain why? Maybe you're constantly overthinking conversations, wondering if your friend is mad at you, feeling like you're the one putting in all the effort, or questioning whether you're just "too sensitive." In today's episode, we're talking about the real reasons your friendships might be making you feel anxious, and why those fe
How to Not Get Attached to Your Summer Fling
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Friendship Breakups, Jealousy in Friendships, Getting Back With Your Ex, and Feeling Unheard - Advice Session #16
ADVICE SESSION #16 💌 In this episode, I'm answering your questions and giving you my best advice on friendship breakups, jealousy, age gaps, intimacy, exes, and communicating with your partner. To be featured in an upcoming Q+A, follow me on IG! @ashleycorboQUESTIONS IN TODAY'S EPISODE:1. Advice on friendships ending naturally with no drama or fighting2. How to control anger and jealousy about my
Why You Care So Much What People Think (The Real Reasons)
Everyone tells you to just stop caring what people think...but if it were that easy, you would've done it by now. In this episode, I break down the actual reasons you care so much about other people's opinions. If you're constantly wondering what people think of you, overanalyzing every interaction, or trying to win over people who YOU don't even like...this one's for you.Trying Not to Care is sp
Friendship Red Flags You Need to Stop Ignoring
Friendship breakups can be just as painful as romantic ones (sometimes even more painful.) We're taught to look out for the red flags in relationships, but we don't talk nearly enough about the red flags that show up in unhealthy friendships.In this episode, I'm breaking down four types of friends you should look out for..1. the friend who resents your growth2. the friend who turns everything int
75 Hard Bridal - Glowing up for My Wedding
We're officially in wedding mode! 💍 With two months until my wedding, I am preparing for the big day by doing a lil glow up challenge. If you're also a bride, have a special event coming up, or you just want to take better care of yourself, this is my version of 75 hard!75 hard bridal - cardio 2x a week - ab or butt workouts 4x a week - 5 minute arm workout daily - no added sugar, no bread, and n
Summer 2026 Ins and Outs
In today’s episode, I’m sharing my ins and outs for the summer and the mindset shifts I’m making to have a more intentional, enjoyable season. From embarrassing yourself, influencing the room instead of adapting to it, going out with your girlfriends, taking care of your skin, and not starving yourself just to wear a bikini, I hope that this episode is a feel good one for you, and gets you excite
A Lot of People Become Unattractive When You Realize How They Think
Some people lose their beauty the moment you understand their mindset.This episode is sponsored by Biologica - get up to 32% off your purchase at biologica.com/TNTCWANT TO ASK ME QUESTIONS? NEED ADVICE? Follow me on IG and look out for submissions on my story or ask me here: 2025 google formJOIN THE TRYING NOT TO CARE GROUPCHAT HERE ✨https://links.geneva.com/invite/3b386511-50ef-42fb-8363-16807ef
How to Detach From Toxic People
how to detach from toxic people 1. stop making excuses for them2. accept the relationship for what is actually was 3. remove their access to you 4. stop feeding the attachment 5. be okay with no apology 6. allow yourself time and grace to grieve7. keep yourself busy and distracted Thanks to today’s sponsor, Ogee: A higher standard for beauty. Go to ogee.com/TNTC and use code TNTC to get 15% off c
No Revenge Because I Like the Person I Became After You
No revenge because look who you became after those experiences!!!Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Betterhelp - Sign up and get 10% off at BetterHelp.com/TNTCWANT TO ASK ME QUESTIONS? NEED ADVICE? Follow me on IG and look out for submissions on my story or ask me here: 2025 google formJOIN THE TRYING NOT TO CARE GROUPCHAT HERE ✨https://links.geneva.com/invite/3b386511-50ef-42fb-8363-16807ef87c21
Stop Living for the Weekend: How to Actually Enjoy Your Week
HI HERE'S A MINI EPISODE FOR U ⭐️how to start loving your life EVERYDAY, not just on the weekend!!! stop letting your life pass you by!weekly guide:monday - get your SH*T together (set the tone for the week(tuesday - your thing Tuesday wednesday - hump day = fun day thursday - reset and self care friday - good company and good plans WANT TO ASK ME QUESTIONS? NEED ADVICE? Follow me on IG and look
Life Rewards Action Not Intelligence
Being deserving does not create results, taking action does. Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Biologica - Take their Quick Hormonal Life Stage Quiz to find the formula that’s right for you. Subscribers receive up to 32% off their purchase at Biologica.com/TNTC Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Warby Parker - Buy one prescription pair and get 20% off any additional prescription pairs at WarbyPa
Advice for the Anxious Girls - ADVICE SESSION #15
We’re back with another advice session…💌Questions answered in today’s episode - 1. How do you tell the difference between intuition and anxiety?2. How do you calm yourself down in the moment when anxiety spikes?3. How do you stop overthinking something you can’t control?4. How do you handle anxiety before social events5. What do you do when you feel awkward or judged in conversationsTrying Not to
It’s Better to Be Alone Than Surrounded by ”Friends” Who Make You Feel Lonely
What if instead of tolerating bad company, you learn to enjoy your own company? 🫶🏻Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Nutrafol - To get $10 off your first month’s subscription and free, visit nutrafol.com and enter promo code TNTCTrying Not to Care is sponsored by Ogee - A higher standard for beauty. Go to ogee.com/TNTC and use code TNTC to get 15% off certified organic makeup that performs like l
Aging Is Sexy (Don’t Let Society Scare You About Getting Older)
As I enter into the last year of my 20s, I want to talk about the fear and pressure that can come with aging. In this episode, I talk about society’s obsession with youth (especially for women), romanticizing past versions of ourselves, and how confidence, self-worth, and what actually matters evolves with age. If you’ve ever felt like your value has an expiration date, I hope this conversation l
Choose Peace Over Proving a Point
Some people aren't looking for a resolution...they're looking for conflict. Instead of constantly defending yourself, over-explaining your boundaries, and engaging with someone who thrives on fighting, choose to walk away. Protect your peace over trying to prove a point.Today's episode covers...❤️🩹 Some people are committed to misunderstanding you❤️🩹 There’s no point in arguing with someone who
It's a Blessing to Be Misunderstood
The reason people don't understand you, is the same reason you don't understand them. Sometimes being misunderstood is actually a blessing...especially when it comes from people who have a different heart, a different mindset, or completely different goals in life than you.Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Ollie - Ollie. Feed the Obsession. Go to ollie.com/tntc and use code tntc to get 60% off y
First You're Weird, Then You're the Blueprint
What if the thing people call you "cringe" for today is the very thing that makes you successful tomorrow? In this episode, I talk about why pursuing the unconventional route often comes with criticism, judgment, and very little support at the beginning. People tend to make fun of others who choose to live their lives differently, but the truth is: people often mock what they secretly wish they h
Mindset, Magic, and Manifestation with Mikayla Jai
If you’ve ever felt stuck between who you are and who you’re meant to become, this episode is for you. In today's episode, I am joined with the queen of manifestation, Mikayla Jai. We talk rewiring self-limiting beliefs, how to ACTUALLY manifest your dream life, staying disciplined during low mental health seasons, and so much more. FOLLOW MIKAYLALISTEN TO MINDSET, MAGIC, AND MANIFESTATIONTrying
The Year of the Fire Horse
THE YEAR OF THE FIRE HORSE 🔥🐎 If last year felt stagnant, confusing, or like you were outgrowing everything around you, this is your time to shine. This is the year that we make bold decisions, stop overthinking, and take action to change our lives for the better. It's time to embrace this energy shift and welcome in new beginnings ⭐️🐎🧲Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Fabletics - go to fabletic
You Don't Miss Them, You’re Just Lonely
Welcome to your post-Valentine's Day clarity episode 🥴 If the past month has had you randomly thinking about your ex and wondering if you actually miss them… consider this your sign that you probably don’t miss them, you’re just lonely.In this episode, I talk about how nostalgia can trick us into romanticizing the past, why missing someone doesn’t always mean you want them back, and how lonelines
How to Have the Best Valentine's Day EVER 💕
Single or spending Valentine’s Day alone? This episode is your full guide to making the most of it and celebrating you. From romanticizing your morning routine to solo date ideas and ending the night with your favorite movie, this is the episode to listen to if you want the best Valentines Day ever💘Trying Not to Care is sponsored by IQBAR - Text TTC to 64000 to get 20% off all IQBAR products, plu
Flirting With Yourself - How to Bring Back Playfulness, Confidence, and Fun Into Your Life
The most important relationship you'll ever have is with yourself - so it's time to actually put time into you, show up for you, and give yourself the love that you deserve! With it being the month of love, I wanted to kick it off with talking about how to flirt and have fun with ourselves. & this is how you're going to do it.....💖putting in effort to impress yourself💖bringing back playfulnes
You're Not Healed, You're Just Not Surrounded By The Thing That Triggers You
Maybe you’re not actually healed….maybe you’re just isolated with nothing to trigger you Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Hungryroot: get 40% off your first box PLUS get a free item in every box for life at hungryroot.com slash TNTC and use code TNTCTrying Not to Care is sponsored by Nutrafol - Find out why Nutrafol is the best-selling hair growth supplement brand at Nutrafol.com, promo code TN
There’s More to Life Than Doomscrolling: How to ACTUALLY Break Your Phone Addiction
If you find yourself glued to your phone, scrolling social media for hours and wasting the day away… this episode is for you! It’s honestly embarrassing how high my average screen time is, so this year I’m making it a goal to spend less time in the digital world and be more present in my real life. It’s time to break the habit of doomscrolling — and here’s how to ACTUALLY do it…WHAT WE’LL TALK AB
Stop Playing Small: The Year You Step into Your Power
2026 is the year we stop playing it safe and we allow ourselves to take up space and be the person we want to be! 1. Stop walking on eggshells to make others feel more comfortable2. Saying no doesn't make you mean3. Be BOLD! Be the main character!3. Become confident AND assertive Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Ollie - Cozy up with your pup this season! Go to ollie.com/tntc and use code tntc t
HOW TO BUILD YOUR DREAM GIRL MINDSET FOR 2026 - mindset reframes, affirmations, identity shifting
THE LAST EPISODE OF 2025 AHHHHHHH!!!!! Of course we're closing out the year with a self improvement episode that's going to get you ready for 2026. In this episode, you'll learn how to uncover your true self by pulling inspiration from others, envision and create a list of how your highest self looks, change the way you think and act, and shift your mindset to be more positive and productive. WANT
WHAT I'M LEAVING IN 2025 - habits, people, and mindsets
Before we move into a new year and start working on our 2026 goals, it's time to let go of the people and things that don't align with us anymore. By releasing what no longer serves us, we can make room for everything we want to call in for the new year. What I'm saying goodbye to in 2025 🪄1. Starting but not finishing projects/not being dedicated to my goals 2. Environments that slow me down3. Fo
HOLIDAY SOCIAL ANXIETY SURVIVAL GUIDE - going back to your hometown, mastering small talk, navigating conversations about your body, and overstimulating environments
As much as I love the holiday season, it can be extremely overwhelming - especially if you struggle with social anxiety. If you're someone who has a hard time bringing yourself to go out and socialize, this episode is for you 💌In this episode I talk about....- the fear of going back to your hometown and seeing people you went to high school with- how to not be so intimated by small talk- how to na
DECEMBER MEDIA OF THE MONTH ☃️podcast recs, holiday movies, favorite creators, and music you MUST listen to!!!
Everything I'm currently loving digitally! My recommendations for holiday movies, binge worthy shows, music, podcast episodes and favorite online creators 🎄🎥🍿🎶❄️🎤✨Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Betterhelp: visit betterhelp.com/TNTC to get 10% off your first monthTrying Not to Care is sponsored by Revolve - Shop at REVOLVE.com/TNTC and use code TNTC for 15% off your first order. #REVOLVEpartner
WHY YOU AREN'T LEARNING FROM YOUR MISTAKES
Happy December!!!! As the year come to an end, a lot of us may be realizing we’re not exactly where we thought we’d be. Maybe you didn’t hit your resolutions. Maybe you feel like you should be “further along.” Maybe you’re disappointed in your own lack of progress and don’t know why things aren’t changing… even though you want them to. In today’s episode, I talk about the truth behind why you know
ROMANTICIZING WINTER ❄️ how to enjoy the holiday season and love your life
It's that time of year again...shorter days, colder nights, and seasonal depression looming around the corner. But it doesn't have to ruin your whole winter! In this episode, I give you easy ways to romanticize your life to actually enjoy the winter, not just survive it. These are a few things I'm doing this season to make winter feel softer and more magical. 🧦❄️🌨️🧣☕️ Grab a hot chocolate or a Chr
DATING DURING THE HOLIDAYS: reaching out to your ex, breakups, bringing your bf/gf home, and gift guide - ADVICE SESSION #14
Going through a breakup and dreading the holidays? Missing your ex and considering texting them? Not sure if you should buy your situationship a gift? I got you!!!! This advice session is all about dating during the holidays ❤️🩹🎄🥧👩❤️💋👨🎁Trying Not to Care is sponsored by MicroPerfumes - Find your scent soulmate today and get up to 60% off at MicroPerfumes.com/TNTCTrying Not to Care is sponsore
HOW TO DECENTER MEN - reclaiming your power and focusing on yourself
Decentering men doesn't mean you need to be anti-men...it means you being pro-yourself. In this episode, I talk about the implications of making a man the center of your world, the ways you might be centering men without even knowing it, and how to reclaim your power and refocus on yourself. Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Uncommon Goods - Get 15% off your next gift at uncommongoods.com/tntcTry
MAYBE YOU DON'T REALIZE HOW GOOD YOU'RE DOING BECAUSE YOU KEEP RAISING THE BAR
This episode is for my overachievers, anxious 20 somethings, and girlies filled with self doubt 💌Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Graza: Take your food to the next level with Graza Olive Oil. Visit https://graza.co and stock up during oursitewide sale!Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Betterhelp: visit betterhelp.com/TNTC to get 10% off your first monthWANT TO ASK ME QUESTIONS? NEED ADVICE? Fol
THIS IS WHY YOU'RE AFRAID OF ABANDONMENT
"Maybe you have a fear of abandonment because you consistently abandoned yourself to convince others that you're worthy of not being abandoned.” Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Nutrafol - Find out why Nutrafol is the best-selling hair growth supplement brand at Nutrafol.com, promo code TNTC to get $10 off your first month’s subscription and free shippingTrying Not to Care is sponsored by MicroP
ENEMIES TO LOVERS BUT IT'S WITH MYSELF
Girl wake up....you're literally your own biggest hater. In this episode, I talk about unlearning the self doubt, judgement, and impossible standards that we set for ourselves. If you've ever struggled with feeling like you're not enough, or you're tired of being your own worst enemy, this one's for you. IT'S TIME TO GO FROM ENEMIES TO LOVERS WITH YOURSELF 🫶🏻🫵🏻✨🦋Trying Not to Care is sponsored by
OCTOBER MEDIA OF THE MONTH - the BEST halloween movies/shows, music, books, and online creators
welcome to media of the month!! 👻🦇📚🖤🎵🎃this is going to be a new series (if you like it lol) where I share everything I'm reading, watching, and listening to. I'll also give you recommendations of media I think you'll enjoy! Trying Not to Care is sponsored by PAKA - To grab your PAKA hoodie and free pair of alpaca crew socks, head to go.pakapparel.com/TNTC and use my code TNTC Trying Not to Care is
NEW SEASON, NEW YOU: the art of not caring, internet stalking, how to stop talking badly about other people & more - ADVICE SESSION #13
ADVICE SESSION #13 🧡 In this episode, I'm answering your questions to help you get through this season as a more kind, unbothered, and grounded version of you.Questions in this advice session: 1. What would you say is the art of actually not caring? 2. How to stop yourself from stalking people you used to date/be friends with?3. Any tips on avoiding talking about other people? 4. What’s one thing
MISERY LOVES COMPANY - they don't see the wrong in their actions because they surround themselves with people who normalize it
Ever have someone do your dirty...but somehow you're the villain and everyone is cheering for them? This week I’m talking about why people defend toxic behavior, how misery loves company, and why being alone doesn’t mean you’re the problem.Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Nutrafol - Find out why Nutrafol is the best-selling hair growth supplement brand at Nutrafol.com, promo code TNTC to get $10
YOU'LL NEVER KNOW THIS VERSION OF ME
How amazing is it that you'll never know this version of me...Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Ollie - Take the online quiz and introduce Ollie to your pet. Visit https://www.ollie.com/tntc for 60% off your first box of meals! #ToKnowThemIsToLoveThemJOIN THE TRYING NOT TO CARE GROUPCHAT HERE ✨https://links.geneva.com/invite/3b386511-50ef-42fb-8363-16807ef87c21KEEP UP WITH ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA Inst
NIGHT TIME ROUTINE FOR THE GIRLS WITH ANXIETY AND BAD SLEEP HABITS
My ideal night time routine to reduce anxiety and get better sleep 🧸🌙 Listen to this episode for tips and tricks on how to romanticize your night time routine, create better sleeping habits, and feel your most relaxed at bed time. Trying Not to Care is sponsored by FUM - Head to https://tryfum.com/products/zero-crisp-mint to Start with Zero.Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Green Chef - Make this
OVERCOMING YOUR EGO AND HOW TO BE A MORE ENJOYABLE PERSON
it's me.....hi......I'm the problem....it's me 😮💨 In this episode, we're talking about why needing to be right, acting superior, taking things too personally, and being too self absorbed makes us harder to be around. I share ways to let go of these habits that push people away so you can show up better for the people in your life (and be much more pleasant to be around) 🤎Let go of the need to be
HOW TO BE HOT, HAPPY, AND SUCCESSFUL THIS FALL
Happy fall to those who celebrate 😌 In this episode, I share my tips on how to transition from summer to fall and becoming the happiest, healthiest, and hottest version of you. From creating cozy routines that protect your peace, to confidence rituals, fitness and nutrition tips, glowing up, and hitting your goals, this episode is all about finding that balance between slowing down with the season
START THE WEEK OFF RIGHT (feel good episode) - affirmations, journal prompts, comfort movies/shows, playlists, and making a hope box
We’re getting out of a funk and being intentional this week! This episode is filled with some good stuff to make you feel good :) What to expect ⭐️- Affirmations- Journal prompts - My fav shows and movies - My fav books and music - Creating your own hope box JOIN THE TRYING NOT TO CARE GROUPCHAT HERE ✨https://links.geneva.com/invite/3b386511-50ef-42fb-8363-16807ef87c21 GOOD READS: https://www.good
TIME PASSING IS NOT AN APOLOGY
Next time you find yourself missing someone, ask yourself, "Do I actually miss this person, or did I just forget why we stopped talking?" There have been so many times I’ve caught myself wanting to reconnect with people who hurt me and never took accountability. The distance from them minimized the pain I felt and made it easier to gloss over what they did to me. But just because you stop talking
YOU'VE CHANGED....yeah I'd hope so
"You've changed" ok yea.....that's the point. People love to throw "you've changed" around as if it's an insult, when in reality, it's the highest compliment. Changing is just proof that you're growing.What to expect in this episode ⭐️Why people get uncomfortable when you grow⭐️How to spot the difference between changing and evolving⭐️The real reason some people liked the “old you” better⭐️Why you
FEMALE FRIENDSHIPS - why community is so important, how to make genuine friendships, and being the friend you want to have
Friendships between women are one of the most special and magical gifts. In today's episode, I talk about the bond women have and why having female friendships are so important. What to expect in this episode💛 The difference between male and female friendships💛 Why female friendships are so special 💛 How to attract real friends 💛 Showing up for yourself first Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Bet
MANIFESTATION FOR BEGINNERS - getting what you want doesn’t have to be hard
Getting what you want doesn't have to be so hard. I'm breaking down how manifestation really works and how you can start calling in the things that you want. This episode is for anyone who’s curious about how to shift their mindset, get clear on what they want, and take action to make it happen. What to expect in this episode ✨💓What is manifesting? 💓Deciding what you want 💓Visualizing 💓Believe it'
THREE YEAR HEALING RULE - processing, adjusting, living (don't rush the healing process)
When you think you're not healing fast enough, remember the 3 year rule. It takes 1 year to process.It takes 1 year to adjust. It takes 1 year to start living. Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Ollie - Take the online quiz and introduce Ollie to your pet. Visit https://www.ollie.com/tntc for 60% off your first box of meals! #ToKnowThemIsToLoveThemFOLLOW ME HERE Instagram: Ashley's Instagram | Try
DECENTER WHAT YOU DON'T WANT - what you speak about, you bring about
Lately, I’ve been noticing how much time I spend talking about the things I don’t want, the people I don’t like, the situations I don’t want to be in, and the feelings I don’t want to have. Although my intention is to distance myself from those things, all I’m really doing is giving them more of my energy. In today's episode, I talk about the power of your words, how to stop giving so much energy
THE ART OF DETACHMENT
I BOUGHT A HOUSE and the story of how it all happened taught me a huge lesson about letting go of control. In this episode, I talk about learning how to detach, why forcing things never works, and how trusting the process can lead you to exactly what’s meant for you.Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Betterhelp: visit betterhelp.com/TNTC to get 10% off your first monthFOLLOW ME HERE Instagram: Ash
REASONS WHY YOU SHOULD GO FOR IT
reasons you should go for it 1. life is too short 2. regret hurts more than failure 3. who cares what people think?4. someone needs what you have Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Ollie - Take the online quiz and introduce Ollie to your pet. Visit https://ollie.com/TNTC today for 60% off your first box of meals! #ToKnowThemIsToLoveThemTrying Not to Care is sponsored by Magic Spoon: Get 5 dollars
ACCEPTING WHO YOU ARE
Comparison is the thief of joy. I had a really difficult time accepting and loving myself when I was always worrying about what others thought of me. In today's episode, I talk about embracing who you are, letting go of the should haves, and not sticking to a timeline. This week's journal prompts:What parts of me have I been hiding?Why do I feel the need to hide these parts of me?What would it lo
HOW TO PROTECT YOUR PEACE
A GUIDE ON HOW TO PROTECT YOUR PEACE. If it feels like nothing ever goes your way, or you've just been in a bad headspace/feeling drained lately...this episode is for you✨🫶🏻how to protect your peace 1. avoid gossip and drama 2. let go of what you can't control3. not everything deserves your attention 4. stop comparing yourself to others5. learn how to say no 6. stay away from energy drainers Tryin
HOT GIRL SUMMER GLOW UP: hair and skincare advice, glowing up naturally on a budget, FOMO, bikini confidence, and food guilt - ADVICE SESSION #12
LISTEN FOR ADVICE ON HOW TO GLOW UP THIS SUMMERQuestions in this advice session: - What are some easy things that I can do right now to feel better about my skin?- What is your tanning routine?- How do I make my hair and skin glow naturally without spending a lot of money?- How to deal with FOMO when it seems like everyone is living their best life online?- Ways to feel more confident in a bikini
DID YOU BURN A BRIDGE OR CLEAR A PATH?
Loss is hard...especially when you're someone who's a little too familiar with it. Whether it's another friendship breakup, another relationship that didn't work out, or another job that you've been let go from, when something ends, it feels personal. You start to ask yourself, is it me? Am I the problem? In today's episode, I talk about reframing that mindset. Thinking about loss as redirection a
A REALISTIC GUIDE TO CONFIDENCE: how to ACTUALLY be confident
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STOP EXPECTING YOU FROM OTHERS
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A FRIEND TO ALL IS A FRIEND TO NONE
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