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The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast

The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast

Mark Usher and Matilde Crocini 318 Episodes Aug 20, 2026

The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast helps couples navigate the challenges of marriage by addressing unmet wants and desires. Hosted by relationship coaches and married couple Mark Usher and Matilde Crocini, the podcast offers practical advice to help partners get what they want in their relationship. Each episode explores common marital conflicts and provides strategies for resolution, aiming to reduce feelings of conflict and increase mutual understanding.

Episodes

S2 Ep5: 3 Unspoken Communication Habits to Become a Better Husband at Creating Emotional Intimacy and Safety
S2 Ep5: 3 Unspoken Communication Habits to Become a Better Husband at Creating Emotional Intimacy and Safety Aug 20, 2026 1247 As a husband, how often do you feel you are saying the right things and yet conflict still happens? How often do you wonder what have you done wrong this time as your wife is upset with you?This is because even when you are doing your best and saying the right things, you don't know how to leverage the unspoken communication. In this episode I share 3 things you can do from now to ensure your wor
S2 Ep4: The 1 Mistake Husbands Make When Trying to change Their Marriage for the better
S2 Ep4: The 1 Mistake Husbands Make When Trying to change Their Marriage for the better Aug 13, 2026 1275 Are you assuming you are doing good enough in your marriage, even though your relationship feels rocky at best? Do you feel your wife might often be overreactive and too critical? Most husbands assume they are doing better than they actually are in marriage and don't have clarity on their contribution to the relationship dynamics at play such as a lack of clear communication and emotional intimac
S2 Ep3: 1 Essential Step To Help Husbands Control Anger and Remain Calm in any Marriage Conflict
S2 Ep3: 1 Essential Step To Help Husbands Control Anger and Remain Calm in any Marriage Conflict Aug 6, 2026 1354 As a husband, do you want to know why most conflicts in marriage keep repeating in a cycle adding more and more frustration? Arguments tend to repeat without resolution creating disconnect and breaking up communication leading to more conflict. How would it be to be able to control the anger and frustration you feel at times of conflict and remaining calm while intentionally seeking resolution? T
S2 Ep2: How husbands can improve their relationship communication in ways their wives will love and trust
S2 Ep2: How husbands can improve their relationship communication in ways their wives will love and trust Jul 30, 2026 1859 As a husband, do you want to know why you feel indecisive around your wife?Are you ready to access decisive confidence to move forward with bold clarity?This episode introduces the "Move to Learn" framework to restore masculine leadership and marital trust.You'll learn the Two Failed Pathways of Indecisive Husbands and how to change it all to becoming the decisive King you were born to become.You
S2 Ep1: The number 1 masculine marriage success strategy for husbands
S2 Ep1: The number 1 masculine marriage success strategy for husbands Jul 23, 2026 1561 As a husband, do you want to know why your marriage feels like a constant struggle? Most men try to bring changes to the relationship by focusing on what they see in everyday married life: the partner’s moods, the lack of intimacy, the constant conflicts, the difficulties in communication and so on. Most husbands see the effects and try to fix the situation from there. This strategy is doomed to
S1 Ep27: How to navigate the challenges of change in marriage while keeping the connection strong
S1 Ep27: How to navigate the challenges of change in marriage while keeping the connection strong Jul 16, 2026 1480 Do you know why 99% of couples find change to be stressful? This is not because of change being inherently a stress, but because of the way we go at change and the meaning we attach to it. The most stressful changes in married life are the changes in routine brought by the birth of a child, a death in the family, having to care for an elderly parent, change in the financial situation, retirement…
S1 Ep26: The real enemy to everyday married life is the treadmill of routine & here is the number 1 solution
S1 Ep26: The real enemy to everyday married life is the treadmill of routine & here is the number 1 solution Jul 9, 2026 1773 The real enemy of everyday married life is… everyday married life! The treadmill of routine we fall into as husband and wife slowly kills the joy in marriage, leading us to appreciate the positives less and less and fall into frustration with one another and life in general. This psychological process is known as Hedonic Adaptation. This mechanism causes the initial surge of happiness we get from
S1 Ep25: 2 things you can do to help communication with your kid and bring flow in your marriage
S1 Ep25: 2 things you can do to help communication with your kid and bring flow in your marriage Jul 2, 2026 2206 Do you know the impact of difficulties in communication with your children have on your marriage? Research shows that the rate of the decline in relationship satisfaction is nearly twice as steep for couples who have children than for those who don't. Why is that? Although there are many factors at play, struggling in communication with your kid, especially but not only when they are in their tee
S1 Ep24: Standards matter: How husband and wife can unlock their best marriage by raising their standards
S1 Ep24: Standards matter: How husband and wife can unlock their best marriage by raising their standards Jun 25, 2026 1823 This SHOCKED me! Most women seem to prefer "book boyfriends" to real husbands, do you want to know why? The answer is simple...What are your standards when it comes to your relationship? Most couples have a set of standards based on what they have observed in the generation before, or on what is generally accepted, keeping the bar quite low. Doing better than what we may have observed past genera
S1 Ep23: Mild Vs Wild - How to keep the flame of your relationship lit up long term
S1 Ep23: Mild Vs Wild - How to keep the flame of your relationship lit up long term Jun 18, 2026 1898 Do you want to know why the fire slowly dies in most marriages? Most couples fall into same-old-same-old routine, caught in the managing of day-to-day responsibilities that come with marriage and family. These are necessary things husband and wife need to tend to, that's true, but the risk is to lose the fire between partners, turning the marriage into what we call mild. However the couples that
S1 Ep22: The #1 mindset advice that will help problem solving in everyday married life
S1 Ep22: The #1 mindset advice that will help problem solving in everyday married life Jun 11, 2026 1344 Do you want to know what is the silent killer of a marriage? It is not lack of love… What slowly kills a marriage is the never-ending list of problem that any couple has to solve each day. This 4-lane motorway of issues big and small is the cause of frustration and arguments that put a wedge between husband and wife on a daily basis. The real issues though are not even the so-called problems but
S1 Ep21: How to get your to-do list done in everyday married life without unnecessary stress and conflict
S1 Ep21: How to get your to-do list done in everyday married life without unnecessary stress and conflict Jun 4, 2026 1448 How is the immense amount of stuff you need to get done every day impacting your marriage? How much quality time do you and your partner actually get to spend together? Research shows that most couples spend and average of 3-5 hours together per week, and even that time is mostly taken by practicalities or filled with switching-off time in front of TV to fight exhaustion. To-do lists are part of

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