The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast
The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast helps couples navigate the challenges of marriage by addressing unmet wants and desires. Hosted by relationship coaches and married couple Mark Usher and Matilde Crocini, the podcast offers practical advice to help partners get what they want in their relationship. Each episode explores common marital conflicts and provides strategies for resolution, aiming to reduce feelings of conflict and increase mutual understanding.
Episodes
S2 Ep1: The number 1 masculine marriage success strategy for husbands
As a husband, do you want to know why your marriage feels like a constant struggle? Most men try to bring changes to the relationship by focusing on what they see in everyday married life: the partner’s moods, the lack of intimacy, the constant conflicts, the difficulties in communication and so on. Most husbands see the effects and try to fix the situation from there. This strategy is doomed to
S1 Ep27: How to navigate the challenges of change in marriage while keeping the connection strong
Do you know why 99% of couples find change to be stressful? This is not because of change being inherently a stress, but because of the way we go at change and the meaning we attach to it. The most stressful changes in married life are the changes in routine brought by the birth of a child, a death in the family, having to care for an elderly parent, change in the financial situation, retirement…
S1 Ep26: The real enemy to everyday married life is the treadmill of routine & here is the number 1 solution
The real enemy of everyday married life is… everyday married life! The treadmill of routine we fall into as husband and wife slowly kills the joy in marriage, leading us to appreciate the positives less and less and fall into frustration with one another and life in general. This psychological process is known as Hedonic Adaptation. This mechanism causes the initial surge of happiness we get from
S1 Ep25: 2 things you can do to help communication with your kid and bring flow in your marriage
Do you know the impact of difficulties in communication with your children have on your marriage? Research shows that the rate of the decline in relationship satisfaction is nearly twice as steep for couples who have children than for those who don't. Why is that? Although there are many factors at play, struggling in communication with your kid, especially but not only when they are in their tee
S1 Ep24: Standards matter: How husband and wife can unlock their best marriage by raising their standards
This SHOCKED me! Most women seem to prefer "book boyfriends" to real husbands, do you want to know why? The answer is simple...What are your standards when it comes to your relationship? Most couples have a set of standards based on what they have observed in the generation before, or on what is generally accepted, keeping the bar quite low. Doing better than what we may have observed past genera
S1 Ep23: Mild Vs Wild - How to keep the flame of your relationship lit up long term
Do you want to know why the fire slowly dies in most marriages? Most couples fall into same-old-same-old routine, caught in the managing of day-to-day responsibilities that come with marriage and family. These are necessary things husband and wife need to tend to, that's true, but the risk is to lose the fire between partners, turning the marriage into what we call mild. However the couples that
S1 Ep22: The #1 mindset advice that will help problem solving in everyday married life
Do you want to know what is the silent killer of a marriage? It is not lack of love… What slowly kills a marriage is the never-ending list of problem that any couple has to solve each day. This 4-lane motorway of issues big and small is the cause of frustration and arguments that put a wedge between husband and wife on a daily basis. The real issues though are not even the so-called problems but
S1 Ep21: How to get your to-do list done in everyday married life without unnecessary stress and conflict
How is the immense amount of stuff you need to get done every day impacting your marriage? How much quality time do you and your partner actually get to spend together? Research shows that most couples spend and average of 3-5 hours together per week, and even that time is mostly taken by practicalities or filled with switching-off time in front of TV to fight exhaustion. To-do lists are part of
S1 Ep20: What every husband and wife must do after the inevitable conflict happens
Despite how much husband and wife try to avoid conflict by improving communication, fights happen. We can repair. We can say sorry. We can tell the other what they should do better next time. None of it will truly help to make your marriage a truly exceptional one. When inevitable conflicts happen in relationship they brings more and more pain unless you do this...In this episode we share the pro
S1 Ep19: The 3 things that will make a wife feel unhappy in her marriage
How does the conditioning on being “the perfect wife” women have received impact your relationship? There are 3 things women are told they need to do in order to be the “perfect wife” and all 3 are lies!The impact of this conditioning that is fed to every couple through media, movies and society at large is that most wives are deeply unhappy in their marriage. They shrink to fit the box of the “p
S1 Ep18: The 3 lies husbands have been told about married life
Do you want to know why most husbands feel trapped in their marriage? Because they’ve been lied to… There are 3 fundamental lies every husband has been told about married life and about how to be the "perfect husband". Society and conditioning through generations tell men that there are 3 things they need to do to perform well and be a “good husband”. As a result of these lies most husbands feel
S1 Ep17: The secret to creating a strong relationship in everyday married life’s chaos
Do you want to know why autopilot marriage happens despite your best intentions? Because in relationship good intentions are not enough.With never-ending to-do lists, work, parenting, commitments with in-laws and more on the table in everyday life’s chaos, your relationship suffers. For husband and wife it’s easy to get caught in the day-to-day routine and forget to prioritise each other. It’s no
S1 Ep16: How to stop the damage of Stonewalling in relationship – 4 steps to restore communication – Marriage Apocalypse Series Part 5
Do you want to know why 85% of stonewalling happens in men? Research shows that between husband and wife the husband is more likely to fall into the pattern of stonewalling. With that said, research also shows that when the wife stonewalls it’s a real red flag signalling the risk of divorce. Stonewalling often follows when there’s a pattern of contempt in communication. And although in some cases
S1 Ep15: 3 phases to eradicate contempt in marriage – couples not doing this risk divorce – Marriage Apocalypse Series Part 4
Do you want to know why most marriages fails? The most common answers could be infidelity, financial issues, lack of love, having picked the wrong partner and so on. And yet most of the most common reasons for divorce are the symptoms of an underlying pattern that erodes the relationship and that is contempt. When husband and wife have left the cycle of defensiveness and criticism go on unchecke
S1 Ep14: 5 relationship hacks to fuel the flame in your marriage this spring
Do you want to know why most marriages fail to keep the flames of intimacy and connection going? Because life gets busy and most couples forget to fuel the flames, so those flames slowly die. And with them so do emotional intimacy, sexual connection and overall happiness in marriage. Spring renewal is not all about spring cleaning your house and refreshing your wardrobe. It can also be a very eff
S1 Ep13: 4 steps to avoid defensiveness from hurting communication in your relationship – Marriage Apocalypse Series Part 3
Do you want to know why most communications in relationship end up with a fight? This happens when unchecked criticism and defensiveness rule interactions with your partner. What comes first? Does feeling always criticised by your partner cause you to be defensive? Or is your default defensiveness that causes your partner to up the volume of their criticism? The answer is: both. Criticism and def
S1 Ep12: How to stop toxic criticism from ruining your marriage – Marriage Apocalypse Series Part 2
How is criticism impacting your relationship? Has feedback become a game of who shouts the loudest in your marriage? Do you feel ignored in your relationship when you give feedback? And do you feel in turn constantly criticised when your partner speaks to you? The thing is, your partner is probably ignoring your feedback, leading you to turn up the volume and falling into criticism. And you might
S1 Ep11: The 4 traits that will doom your marriage if you don’t act now — Marriage Apocalypse Series, Part 1
Do you want to know what will kill your relationship if you don’t act now? The 4 Horsemen of marriage Apocalypse, as described by John Gottman, when present in marriage are the greatest predictor of divorce.The trap most couples fall into is that either husband or wife (often both) feel entitled in practicing these traits during everyday communication, and do not realize the impact these actually
S1 Ep10: 3 steps to generate deeper intimacy couples must know
Do you want to know why intimacy dies out in most longterm relationships? It is because no one taught us how to generate deeper emotional intimacy and connection. Most couples believe it should just be there.The truth is, building and maintaining emotional intimacy in marriage is a skill we need to cultivate. It doesn't just happen. In this episode we share 3 super practical steps you can start i
S1 Ep9: 20 things a husband must avoid saying to his wife on date night
Do you want to know why your date nights have been a disaster 9 times out of 10 despite your best efforts? Most husbands risk ruining date night despite coming from the best of intentions, because they are unskillful in communication. No one taught us this stuff!Here are 20 things any husband must avoid saying to his way before, during and after going on their date night. So much effort goes into
S1 Ep8: Have you married a narcissist? How to tell the difference between a narcissist and an insecure attached
There's a fine line between what can very much look like narcissism and what actually is. Very often what's labelled narcissism is in fact narcissistic behaviour resulting from insecure attachment patterns.This confusion leads to conflict and disconnection in relationships. Understanding the difference between narcissism and insecure attachment patterns can truly help husbands and wives have a sa
S1 Ep7: How an Anxious Attached Partner Can Turn Their Hypervigilance Into a Relationship Gift
How is hypervigilance impacting your marriage? Is your anxiety creating constant tension between you and your partner? And if you are the partner of someone experiencing hypervigilance, are you at the end of your tether trying to support them and coming up short? The truth is, most relatioships treat hypervigilance as a proble to fix, which in turn creates more disconnection and conflict. The goo
S1 Ep6: The #1 Tip to Stop Fighting in Relationship - This Will Make All the Difference
Are you experiencing conflict in your relatioship? Or is your marriage "happy" on the surface because you've learnt to keep your frustration locked inside? The secret to stop fighting with your partner is not about learning to be quiet or to be the one who shouts the loudest... It's in one easy to implement tip we want to share with you today. Key takeaways: - Why avoiding an arguments only resul
S1 Ep5: The One Thing Women REALLY Want in Marriage – This Will Surprise You
As a husband, wouldn’t you love to know what your wife truly wants? As a wife, wouldn’t you love for your husband to get it?The key to a happy marriage doesn’t have to be complicated to find. In this episode we share the #1 thing that a woman truly wants from her man, and it will surprise you.You will learn the 2 secret ingredients to make all the difference as you apply 3 simple but effective wa
S1 Ep4: If your partner ignores your dreams use these 3 steps
When was the last time you and your partner lost track of time talking about exciting ideas you have?Do you feel your partner neglects your dreams and ideas?Do you feel unsupported by your spouse in going at your dreams?When dreams are suppressed and invalidated we create a marriage filled with resentment and regret. Partners in happy relationships fuel each other’s dreams.In this episode we shar
S1 Ep3: The #1 thing that will have your partner love your feedback
Giving and receiving feedback is essential in a happy marriage, but how can we do it in a healthy way?Do you feel your partner takes your feedback as criticism? Do you find it challenging to express constructive feedback to your partner without creating conflict or shut-down?Or maybe you feel you get criticised and judged every time your partner gives you feedback, like they are constantly compla
S1 Ep2: How to Navigate Relationship Challenges with Three Powerful Agreements
Do you feel your marriage is filled with the constant pressure of navigating challenges without a map on how to do it? Have you been given advice before that only added to your to-do list with no results?What if there was a clear and easy to implement way to navigate challenges in relationships? In this episode we share three simple yet powerful agreements that have changed it all for us.With th
S1 Ep1: Our First Chat About Getting Everything You Want in Marriage - from insecure attachment to devotional dependency
Do you ever feel your marriage could be so much more? Do you feel like your partner is not fully invested in your relationship? Join us in this episode as we speak to what was our break-up or break through moment in our relationship. In this episode we share what changed it all for us. Listen to the end to learn how we moved from insecure attachment to what we define as "devotional dependency" unl
S1 Ep289: How To Silence Your Inner Critic in 2026 and Create The Best Year of your Entire Married Life
SummaryIn this episode, Mark Usher discusses how to silence your inner critic and create a transformative year in your marriage for 2026. He emphasizes the importance of identifying cognitive distortions that hinder personal growth and relationship fulfilment. Mark introduces the concept of a 'North Star' vision, encouraging listeners to manifest their deepest desires and set meaningful goals for
S1 Ep288: The FREE Christmas Present Proven To Melt Hard-Shelled Wives Into Love, Bliss and Joy When Receiving It From You
The 3 benefits you'll gain from listening to the end of this episode are:1. You'll have a truly surprising gift she actually loves2. It's a free gift BUT STILL holds more value than even the most expensive gift you purchase her.3. It shows you inarguably love and passionately want ALL of her.FREE Presence, Progress + Protection Marriage Self-Assessment questionnaire and Receive A 9-Point Personal
S1 Ep287: This One Idea Will Help You Make Over 600+ Majorly Positive Marriage Transforming Impressions on your Wife in 2026.
The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are:1. You’ll know the two highest leverage 30secs periods in each day to practice being a great husband for maximum effect.2. You’ll know how to tap into peak human memory research to make a great impression that lasts in your wife’s mind for hours.3. You will be able to set two daily 30-second habits that will transform
S1 Ep286: This Might Just Be The Most Important Shadow Work Question Husbands Need To Ask Themselves To Set Themselves Up For Freedom and Fulfilment In Their Marriage Transformation Journey
The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are:1. You’ll understand the root cause behind all your marriage troubles.2. You’ll have a simple everyday practice to help build your capacity for welcoming happiness and joy into your marriage and life experience.3. You’ll be able to set a rock solid foundation in your core to support you rebuild the married life of you
S1 Ep285: How To Initiate Love Making In A Way That Makes Your Queen Feel Safe AND Turned On Like Never Before
The 3 benefits you'll gain by listening to the end of this episode are:1.You'll eliminate self-doubt and fears of rejection that haunt most husbands in initiating sex.2.You'll be able to access a space where you feel more fearless in leading your wife sexually.3.You'll stop being a Mr Nice Guy feeling you need to land your sexual invitation like a waiter asks if you'd like to see the wine menu.FR
S1 Ep284: The One Most Important Step to Confidently Expressing What You Do Want and What You Do NOT Want in Marriage….helping you Ultimately Get What You Want
The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are: 1. You’ll start remembering how natural it is to simply express “What it is that you want.” 2. You’ll understand the easiest path to getting what you want is clearly expressing what you do NOT want. 3. You’ll hear about the biggest transformation in the podcast since I began.FREE Presence, Progress + Protection Marri
S1 Ep283: The #1 Masculine Practice That Instantly Brings Calm, Clarity and a Sense of Control No Matter How Out of Control Things Seem
The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are:1. You’ll understand how to master your emotions in seconds, no matter what pressure you’re experiencing. 2. You’ll have a practice used by Olympians, military commanders, CEOs and other peak performing men, ready at hand for the most challenging leadership position on the planet. Being a husband.3. You’ll be able to
S1 Ep282: The 3-Step Uncommon and Seemingly Insane Presence Practice That Can Help You Snap Out of Hopelessness in Marriage and Plant Seeds of Connection and Hope for a Better Future
The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are: 1. This mental strategy will build your warrior powers of masculine unstoppability. 2. You’ll know how to turn a low vibrational hopelessness into high vibrational hope that steers your marriage in the right direction. 3. You’ll set an optimistic foundation of connection for landing whatever truth you want to communi
S1 Ep281: 6 Super-Fast Ways To Instantly Snap Out of Grumpy Husband Mode and Put on your Superman Cape Instead!
The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are:1. You’ll have a list of simple list of low to high energy mood boosters to help you feel way better in married life situations.2. You’ll master the message your body is transmitting thus radically uplevel the quality of the response you evoke from your wife and kids.3. You’ll stop investing your life energy into beco
S1 Ep280: How To Set a Simple 3-Step Holiday Season Family Plan That Eliminates Stress While Creating Flowing Ease Your Wife Will Love You For
The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are:1. You and your wife will get to the end of the holidays feeling fulfilled and connected.2. You will be the masculine leader who set up a powerful action plan that makes everyone happy. 3. You’ll drastically reduce unnecessary holiday conflict due to habitual unowned overwhelm. Want the Quickest & Easiest Path to
S1 Ep279: The Most Important Holiday Season Masculine Mindset to Absolutely Nail Heroic Husband Status This Year
The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are:1. You’ll discover a Navy SEAL mindset to obliterate regular husband small-minded holiday season complaining 2. Your Queen will be able to surrender into your all in leadership. 3. You’ll grow in pride over the holiday season with how powerful you show upWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Tr
S1 Ep278: How To Slay Your Destructive Dragons of Self Doubt That So Desperately Want To Convince You Divorce is a Good Option
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S1 Ep277: The 1 Question You Need To Ask Every Day To Go From Crumbling Distrust to Building Unshakeable Trust Your Wife Will Respect and Love
The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are: - You’ll be able to eliminate chances of the marriage cancer of contempt ever forming in your marriage - You’ll have one question that will help you find clarity in any conflict - You’ll be able to show your wife just how mature you’ve become as a man FREE Presence, Progress + Protection Marriage Self-Assessment ques
S1 Ep276: Marriage Transformation Special Series with Ida and Jake Braford
In this special episode, you'll enjoy a deep and revealing conversation on the rapid and radical marriage transformation of Ida and Jake Braford. Some of the many elements of their transformational journey discussed are:
Ida sharing her experiences of struggling with Jake's defensive behaviour
Jake explaining his decision to seek coaching after recognizing his harmful patterns.
Jake's learning p
S1 Ep275: How To End Your Marriage Killing Habit of Being Stuck In your Head And Snap Into Full Trust Building Presence In Seconds When It Counts The Most
The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are: 1. You’ll know the most powerful moment of your day to become present for full impact2. You’ll be able to eliminate tons of unnecessary conflict creating moments by this one practice.3. You’ll simply enjoy the time you spend with your family more!Want the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transform
S1 Ep274: 4 Simple Steps To Break The Good Boy Bad Boy Pattern That Disappoints and Depresses Your Wife While Destroying Her Trust in your Leadership
The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are: 1. Become awareness of the one most destructive pattern husbands show up in marriage with.2. Know how to recognise the danger signs that lead up to an inevitable rupture.3. Discover the one way your wife can help you in breaking this pattern.Want the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming H
S1 Ep273: 1 Quote from Bob Marley That Describes The Heart Essence of Conscious Masculine-Feminine Relating in Ways Rational Minded Husbands Can Understand
The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are: 1. You’ll experience an intense re-energisation of your motivation in marriage. 2. You’ll find this wisdom will help you break the Good Boy: Bad Boy pattern that kills marriage trust and connection. 3. You’ll reframe your wife’s emotional intensity in a way that allows you get turned on by it. Want the Quickest &
S1 Ep272: My Simple 3-Part Romantic Email Formula That Inspired My Wife To Say It Was The Best Email She Ever Got!
The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are:1. You’ll have a winning formula to create a super high impact romantic email your wife will love. 2. You’ll eliminate the risk of rejection and guesswork knowing you are using a tried and tested formula.3. You’ll have a simple 3-part formula you can use 100s of times in future to create magical spontaneous connection
S1 Ep271: One Simple Practice To Receive All The Recognition You Want and Deserve To Receive From Your Wife
The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are: 1. You’ll know why specific recognition is infinitely more important for husband vs general recognition. 2. You’ll know a simple weekly practice to receive all the recognition you could ever want from your wife.3. You’ll have a counter-balancing grounding force to help you embrace your Queen’s fieriest feedback.Want
S1 Ep270: Winning Against The 3 Dark Unspoken Forces That Drive and Deepen Marital Conflict – Part 3 Respect and Recognition
The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are:1. You’ll know how to spot and self-regulate one of the most triggering wounds husbands have.2. You’ll discover the definition of respect and more accurately know if respect is present in your marriage 3. You’ll get a timely reminder of Inspire Don’t Require being the strongest masculine leadership approach in evoking
S1 Ep269: Winning Against The 3 Dark Unspoken Forces That Drive and Deepen Marital Conflict Special Series – Part 2 Closeness and Connection
The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are:1. You’ll be able to recognise when conflict is more to do with Closeness and Connection and little or nothing to do with what’s being said 2. You’ll learn distinct differences between masculine and feminine relating on closeness and connection that are key to building trust and attraction3. You’ll be armed with three
S1 Ep268: Winning Against The 3 Dark Unspoken Forces That Drive and Deepen Marital Conflict Special Series – Part 1 Power & Priorities
The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are: 1. You’ll understand why conflicts will always exist until you understand what you’re really fighting about. 2. You’ll be armed with three simple questions to recognise if Power & Priorities are the real issue. 3. You’ll the single universal subconscious reason what we’re really fighting to revealWant the Quickes
S1 Ep267: 5 Ways To Unlock The Mystical Ancient Greek Power of Kairos Time To Help You Transform Your Marriage Quicker No matter How Little Time You Feel You Have
The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are: 1. You’ll know simple ways of breaking free from SSDD scheduled time and entering into spontaneous play with your Queen leaving both of you giggling like teenagers again. 2. You’ll understand how getting locked in chronos time is one of the most poisonous things for killing your marriage aliveness. 3. You’ll be able
S1 Ep266: The 4 Unsexy, Boring Yet Excitingly Transformative Leadership Ideas Struggling Husbands Refuse to Use and Thus Remain Stuck in their Marriage Rut
The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are:1. You’ll learn a practical time trick that ultra-high performing men use and will have you quit complaining about not having time ever again. 2. You’ll learn what is possibly the simplest and most ignored peak performance hack that 99% of husbands never use and struggle as a result.3. You know how boring leaders do b
S1 Ep265: The 4 Mental Patterns Husbands Use in Marriage to Energise Themselves…. But Only One Leads To Happily Ever After
The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are: 1. You’ll recognise the signs your thinking has shifted to one of the three connection eroding mental patterns. 2. You’ll have clear access to the ultimate mental pattern that will create connection, trust and attraction on repeat for years to come. 3. This new awareness will empower you to go from conflict to clari
S1 Ep264: How To Avoid The 4 Major Potholes Where Husbands Blindly Destroy The Progress They’ve Made in Marriage
The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are:1.You’ll know how to recognise these potholes and avoid destroying the progress you’ve created 2.You’ll learn the one mindset trick that golfing legend Jack Niclaus used that set him apart from all other competitors that you can use to enter legendary husband status 3.You make a massive step in overcoming your only en
S1 Ep263: This Is Probably the #1 Most Effective Marriage Transforming Strategy You’ll Ever Hear About
The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are:1. You’ll learn the one major strategic difference between great masculine leaders in any arena and the pretenders who never reach their leadership potential.2. You understand why if you want to ever feel freedom and fulfilment in marriage you simply CAN’T ignore this strategy.3. You’ll learn how to access arguably th
S1 Ep262: 10 Simple Ideas To Create Rapid and Radical Progress in your Marriage No Matter How Bad Things Seem Today
The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are: 1. You’ll have a super simple yet comprehensive playbook to start winning in marriage today.2. You’ll learn the highest leverage ideas all my private clients use to create massive transformation in a week.3. You’ll feel a rocket boost of hope knowing that you have the power to change your marriage for the better.Want
S1 Ep261: The 5 Oppressive Married Life Pains Husbands Are Silently Suffering And Need Relief From That Wives Rarely Understand
The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are:1. You’ll feel validated and less alone that your inner world emotional pains are pretty much universal amongst husbands.2.You’ll be able to put words to the background lack of fulfilment you experience and find a powerful solution for it.3.You’ll understand you are never locked in Same-Shit-Different-Day permanently
S1 Ep260: How To Use 2 Simple FBI Hostage-negotiator Strategic Empathy Techniques to Bring Your Wife from Irrational Rupture Hell to Grounded Rational Repair You Can Understand and Connect With
The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are: 1. You’ll understand the distinction between masculine and feminine integrity practices helping you take nothing personal ever again. 2. You’ll know how to embrace any emotional intensity your Queen throws your way and exactly what to say to help ground her. 3. You’ll know a strategic trick to use everything your wif
S1 Ep259: 1 Question To Help Unlock Your Wife’s Kindest and Most Encouraging Feedback and Help You Create Meaningful Progress She’ll Love and Appreciate You For.
The three specific benefits you'll gain by listening to the end of this episode are: 1.You'll know the highest leveraged question a husband can ask his wife in marriage. 2.You'll know the best timing to ask this question to get the maximum brownie points from asking it. 3.You'll know the exact follow up that is required to maximise the trust you build by asking the question. Wi
S1 Ep258: How to Use The 10 Key Masculine and Feminine Differences Between Husbands and Wives to Confidently Create Connection and Attraction
The 3 benefits you'll gain by listening to the end of this episode are:1. You'll understand, acknowledge and accept the beauty of marriage is knowing how to allow each other be uniquely different.2. You'll know the two precise strategies to use to inspire your wife to bloom into hot feminine fullness with you.3. You'll know how to channel your masculine mission for freedom in meaningful ways brin
S1 Ep257: The #1 Most Sexually Attractive Thing A Husband Can Say That’s Guaranteed To Relight The Marital Sexual Flame Today and For Years to Come
In this episode you'll discover the #1 Most Sexually Attractive Thing A Husband Can Say That’s Guaranteed To Relight The Marital Sexual Flame Today and For Years to Come The 3 Benefits you will gain by listening to the end of this episode are: 1- You’ll learn the one thing all female authors of romantic novels make sure their male protagonist says and thinks about sexually relating with his partn
S1 Ep256: "Marriage Transformation Heroes Special Series" with Alan and Karoline
In this special episode, you will get to witness the precise strategies and mindset that Alan has used in his marriage transformation journey with his beautiful wife Karoline. The benefits you will experience by listening to the end of this episode are: - Learn Alan’s detailed inner process going from shutdown and conflict to repair and reconnection - You will understand from Karoline’s amazing
S1 Ep255: How To Stop Being A Weak Feminine Pleasing Mr Nice Guy and Set Safe and Strong Boundaries Your Wife Respects
In this episode, you'll discover How To Stop Being a Weak Feminine Pleasing Mr Nice Guy And Set Safe Yet Strong Boundaries Your Wife RespectsThe 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are: 1. Understand the two ways husbands avoid setting boundaries that erode trust, connection and attraction. 2. Learn how to set boundaries with your wife that allow mutual connect
S1 Ep254: 2 Things You Must Do Together To Help Your Wife Relax And Surrender Into Your Leadership and Listen To What You Have To Say
In this episode, you'll discover 2 things you must do together to help your wife relax and surrender into your leadership and listen to what you have to say.The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are:1. You will have 2 high leverage precise challenges that will let you know exactly what to do beyond this episode to have your wife trust your leadership like nev
S1 Ep253: 5 Easy Steps To Embodying A Trustworthy Secure Attachment Style No Matter What Dysfunctional Attachment Style Has Eroded Trust Until Now
In this episode, you'll discover the one practice you need to know to start embodying a secure attachment style, no matter what dysfunctional attachment style you have had until now. The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are: - You’ll know exactly what response to take at the first signs of conflict….husbands that struggle don’t know this simple practice. - Y
S1 Ep252: An Easy 2-Minute Progress Building Communication Habit To Create A Sense of Confidence and Connection No Matter How Distant Your Marriage Feels
In this episode, you'll discover a daily progress building communication habit that can be done in 2 minutes flat.The 3 marriage transforming benefits you'll gain by listening are:- Gaining a high leverage connection habit you can fit in the busiest of family schedules- A simple tool to focus you and your wife's awareness on the things that are going well- A daily habit guaranteed to build momentu
S1 Ep251: The 3 Levels of Masculine Maturity Wives Meet in their Husbands When Trying to Land Their Feminine Feedback…2 They Hate, 1 They LOVE!!!
Embracing your wife’s feedback is possibly the single highest leverage way to winning at the game of marriage as a husband. Almost nothing surpasses the feeling of trust and connection within a wife when her husband appreciates and honours her feedback as the gift it is. Yet there’s also almost nothing that triggers a man’s subconscious wounding more than trying to receive his wife’s feedback!
S1 Ep250: The #1 Hack British Olympic Gold Rowing Legends Can Teach Us About How To Be Ultra Decisive Husbands All Day Every Day
In the run up to the summer Olympics In Sydney 2000, the British rowing team had failed to win gold for over 88 YEARS! Like most husbands, they had a long history of their good intentions never being good enough. Determined to finally change the story, they based their entire training preparations on one simple clarifying question. This one simple tool allowed them to decide what was going to le
S1 Ep249: Marriage Transformation Heroes Special Series with Tara and Duane Kennedy
We welcome in Tara and Duane Kennedy to tell their heart-warming story of marriage transformation. From the depths of pain and hopelessness that things could ever improve, Tara and Duane let us know the insights and strategies driving their stunning turnaround.Tara gifts us many profound insights into the challenges a wife experiences when relating with a well-intentioned but emotionally unsafe hu
S1 Ep248: 10 Ways Stoicism Will Help You Kill Victimhood and Master Your Mind and Marriage
The quality of your marriage matches the quality of your thoughts. Learning to upgrade the quality of your thoughts is your path to the most epic marriage you ever believed possible. Stoic philosophy might be the most powerful vehicle to take you there. Let’s begin….. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min S
S1 Ep247: The 3 Attachment Needs to Instantly Ease Tension in Marital and Parenting Conflicts With Zero Need to Say Anything Clever
Most of us husbands have a trigger happy impulse to try and fix conflicts at home with rational solutions.....that rarely work!!!!In this episode you will meet the three human attachment needs and how to use them at home that will change how you look at conflict forever.In conflict, effective communicators are not trying to change the mental state of others. Instead, their focus is on changing the
S1 Ep246: 10 Ideas To Break Up Mundane Marital Boredom By Unleashing Your Freedom-Loving WILD Man
Unspoken boredom and helplessness while feeling stuck in the Same-Sh1t-Different-Day reality of married life is killing marriages around the world. The answer: One badass husband unleashing his WILD man energy to shake the marriage to it’s foundations and rebuild a marriage of excitement, fun and inspiration. This episode is for you if you’re ready to live the infinite game of married life!!!!!
S1 Ep245: Why Not Giving A Sh!t About Your Wife’s Happiness Actually Inspires Her To Love and Trust You More Than Ever Before
We’ve been conditioned in this profoundly sick society to deny ourselves our own needs as men and over-prioritise meeting the needs of the women in our lives. This pattern started in childhood as we related with our mothers. As it seemed to work in childhood with our mothers, we subconsciously bring the exact same pattern into marriage….to devastating and very often marriage-ending effects. Thi
S1 Ep244: The 6 Most Unsexy and Untrustworthy Mistakes Husbands Commonly Make When Trying to Save Their Marriage
Every husband listening in to the podcast has great intentions. Yet great intentions are useless if you are unwittingly making one or more of these common yet catastrophic mistakes. If you want the peace of mind knowing that your efforts in marriage are making a difference, this episode is a must. Let’s begin….. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Perso
S1 Ep243: These 3 Simple Yet RARELY SPOKEN Words Form The Single Most Impactful Phrase a Husband Can Speak To His Wife…(it’s NOT What You Are Thinking)
There are three words in the English language that hold enormous power to help you transform your marriage with your wife. Coincidently they are also universally the least spoken words by husbands in marriage. The more disconnected your marriage situation, the more powerful these words are. They are not the words, “I love you”. These three words are infinitely more impactful. When spoken since
S1 Ep242: End Suffocating Self-Doubt In Marriage By Activating These 6 Dormant Superpowers Every Husband Has But Rarely Uses
Ever experience self-doubt in marriage? Being a husband and father is the most challenging leadership position on the planet….Of course you experience self-doubt! Fact: Every husband on the planet experiences self-doubt at times. However, most husbands lock their self-doubt away and try to just get on with life pretending it’s not there. This doesn’t work. Ever. The rare few who learn how to t
S1 Ep241: How To Confidently Inspire Your Wife To Stop Flirting With Other Men
Nearly every husband has been there. Seeing your wife feeling radically alive, eyes lit up, loving life, laughing and letting loose…but in the presence of another man. All her behaviours fall into the category we call flirting. But what is the most powerful way to intervene in this awkward, disconnecting situation? This episode gifts you the code to obliterating the competition in any social e
S1 Ep240: 1 Easy Trick To Fix 95% Of Your Wife’s Irrational Upsets and Complaining in 60secs Flat
When your wife is deeply upset, pissed off and complaining about something, do you ever find yourself jumping into action to fix the problem by addressing what she’s complaining about? Of course you do; you’re a rational minded man who loves solution finding cause-effect style….but it rarely works with your wife, right?! Why? Because there is one secret cause to 95% of your wife’s irrational ups
S1 Ep239: 4 Simple 1-5min Daily Habits to Evoke Your Wife’s Primal Love and Trust Responses
Most husbands listening in will try new suggested strategies of conscious relating when with their Queens. This is brilliant and has a massive power in it. Yet, sometimes the new attempts don’t have nearly the positive effect you’d love! Enter the untapped world of high-leverage daily training habits for priming your nervous system. This episode gifts you 4 simple daily habits (1-10mins max) to
S1 Ep238: 3 Steps to Confident Self-Mastery of Masculine Leadership in Marriage
Self-mastery is the essence of great masculine embodiment in men. There is no arena more important to embody self-mastery as a man than that of married life. Our legacy depends on it. Without a precise grasp on what self-mastery in masculine leadership is built on, you will always struggle to manifest freedom and fulfilment in married life. Get ready for laser-focused clarity on how to embody m
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