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Polyamory Will Save Your Relationships (w/ Neil Rubenstein) | WHGS 333 Jul 20, 2026 3969 This episode is OPEN and HONEST, listener! Neil Rubenstein is an incredible pansexual comedian who regularly opens for Ashley on the road, but today they’re meeting in the HOTEL ROOM for something a bit more saucy… We discuss polyamory, its benefits & challenges, mental health & healing, sex vs. gender expression, hooking up with gay republicans, and falling in love with a poly granny. Ashley goes

Daylight: The Unlikely Secret for a Better Sex Life (w/ Caitlin Peluffo) | WHGS 332 Jul 13, 2026 4239 Watch Caitlin Peluffo’s new special, “Prosciutto Rose,” RIGHT NOW: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8M5HKgLyjcI — If you like Ashley’s comedy, you’re gonna love Caitlin! This episode is making sexy choices, listener! Caitlin Peluffo is a fan-favorite stand up comedian HOT off her success on Kevin Hart’s “Funny AF,” but today she’s returning to the apartment for the 4th time for some afternoon de

My GF (Jen Davis) and I Had a Relationship Ending Fight… | WHGS Ep. 331 Jul 6, 2026 4100 This episode is FIGHTING, listener! Jen Davis is an incredible actor, content creator, and Ashley’s perfect girlfriend, but today she’s sitting on the couch to chew Ashley out — and NOT in that way, listener! We discuss hooking up with people out of the country, the beauty of a long-distance fling, drawing boundaries with your partner, and being cute even in your sleep. Ashley gets in serious hot

Ali Kolbert’s Secret to Stopping Comphet | WHGS Ep. 330 Jun 29, 2026 3692 This episode is learning and growing, listener! It’s been a long time coming — a catch up with beloved comedian and friend of the show Ali Kolbert! It’s a duo episode today as we discuss what everyone’s been up to, straight propaganda in the New York Times, navigating comphet, disgustingly stinky ladies, and the three qualities you MUST have in order to get onto a boat. Also Ali made a VIRAL QUEER

Gen Z Doesn’t Know How to Kiss w/ Breanne Williamson | WHGS Ep. 329 Jun 22, 2026 3833 This episode is smooching, listener! Beloved actor, comedian, writer, and friend Breanne Williamson RETURNS for the annual ASH-BRE CATCH-UP — and you best believe there is gonna be some kissing involved! We discuss the crisis of kissing in younger generations, Love Island, the mental illness of young men, European vs. American sense of humor, and whether or not “Belly” is sexy dirty talk. Ashley h

Sabrina Wu’s WIERD Approach to Losing Their Queer Virginity | WHGS Ep. 328 Jun 15, 2026 4059 (TW // self harm discussion; 8:14 - 9:52) This episode is making awkward moves, listener! Sabrina Wu (they/them) is an unfathomably funny stand up comedian, writer, and actor who you've seen on Joy Ride, Murderbot, and Abbot Elementary — but today they’re in the apartment to pop their queer cherry! We discuss realizing you’re gay when young, the bizarre ways you explore at that age, genderqueer id

Zach Noe Towers Didn’t Watch “Heated Rivalry" — He LIVED It | WHGS Ep. 327 Jun 8, 2026 3904 This episode is living through a real fantasy, listener! Zach Noe Towers is an endlessly lovable stand up comedian whose work has been featured on E!, Netflix, and Comedy Central, but today he’s in the apartment to showcase his work from GRINDR! We discuss having a LEGENDARY hookup straight out of “Heated Rivalry,” interpreting flirty body language, short & fiery flings, and big boy dumps. Ashley

Rachel Karp Went to EVERY Lesbian Bar in America | WHGS Ep. 326 Jun 1, 2026 4265 This episode is going out tonight, listener! Rachel Karp is a writer, producer, and lesbian bar expert who has been documenting the history of sapphic nightlife in America, but today she’s in the sapphic space of Ashley’s apartment — and we’re doin’ BODY SHOTS! We discuss lesbian history through the lens of queer bars, the characters and stories found in them, age-gap relationships, and kissing yo

Dodie Writes Gay Anthems While Being Straight | WHGS Ep. 325 May 25, 2026 3902 This episode is musical, listener! WHGS is comin’ at you from ENGLAND with Dodie — an incredible singer, songwriter, and YouTuber with top-charting albums and a hit single, “She,” that took over Lesbian TikTok. We discuss writing queer anthems before knowing you’re queer, the odd ways you explore bisexuality before coming out, internalized homophobia, breakups, and being just like Zooey Deschanel

I Made a Listener Trans (and Other Stories) | WHGS Ep. 324 May 18, 2026 3459 Get the full versions of all these highlights, PLUS uncut episodes, live streams, live show tickets, and MORE at https://www.patreon.com/WHGS. Ashley has just wrapped up her 2026 tour in Europe (thanks to everyone who came out to a show), so to give her a week to recover, we have decided to release a bunch of highlights from our exclusive PATREON ONLY bonus series — You’re Having Gay Sex. We re

What is “Topping/Bottoming” for Lesbians? (w/ Award-Winning Writer Carmen Machado) | WHGS Ep. 323 May 11, 2026 4338 This episode is all about theory, listener! Carmen Maria Machado is an author, essayist, and finalist for the National Book Award with her impressive body of work around queer identity, but today she’s in the apartment to put her genius towards solving age-old queer conundrums! We discuss topping vs. bottoming as a lesbian, what that actually entails, how it manifests in practice, and the Renaissa

Interviewing My Girlfriend’s Little Gay Brother (Brad Davis) | WHGS Ep. 322 May 4, 2026 4236 This episode is lore heavy, listener! Brad Davis is a queer musician, tech artist, and my dear girlfriend’s little brother, but today he’s in the apartment to be my little BOTTOM! In addition, for the FIRST TIME… WHGS producer and man-behind-the-camera Alex Vrahas fills in as co-host. It’s a BOYS EP as we discuss romantic flings while abroad, anticipation in sex, coming out, being a very straight-

NOAHFINNCE Had a Fivesome With Each Letter of LGBTQ | WHGS Ep. 321 Apr 27, 2026 3766 This episode is the most inclusive, listener! NOAHFINNCE is a transgender pop-punk musician and YouTuber that’s been rocking the internet since 2015 with his incredible songs, but today he’s in the apartment to rock your BED! We discuss having a fivesome with every single person represented in “LGBTQ,” sexual dynamics when you have autism, horny fans, disabilities, and starting your career as a “M

What is the Female Gaze? (w/ Halie Torris) | WHGS Ep. 320 Apr 20, 2026 4071 This episode is depicting women correctly, listener! Halie Torris is an oil painter and visual artist whose incredibly detailed work you’ve seen go viral on TikTok/IG, but today she’s in the apartment to paint YOU like one of her French girls! We discuss the female gaze, how to define it, capturing it in your work, the artistic process in the modern attention economy, and having your gay little he

When Can You Claim You’re “Gay?” (w/ Chelsea Cutler) | WHGS Ep. 319 Apr 13, 2026 4100 This episode is philosophizing, listener! Chelsea Cutler is a singer, songwriter, producer, and one of your favorite queer musicians with over 3 billion global streams and worldwide tours, but today she’s in the apartment to take a tour through your BODY. In addition, we have the incredible comedian Emily Wilson filling in as co-host! We discuss queer identity, when one can claim that they’re gay,

Trying Lesbian Sex Parties at Burning Man w/ Andrea Allan | WHGS Ep. 318 Apr 6, 2026 4055 This episode is going all in, listener! Andrea Allan is an unfathomably funny podcaster, comedian, and co-host of “Respectfully” alongside Lizzy Cassidy, but today she’s in the apartment to “respectfully” pipe you down! We discuss exploring your bisexuality in the Burning Man orgy tent, the dynamics of using a strap on, embracing the chaos of coming out, and getting diseases from butt-munching. As

Franchesca Ramsey Has Achieved Pure Bisexuality | WHGS Ep. 317 Mar 30, 2026 4321 This episode is BI, listener! Franchesca Ramsey is an actor, comedian, writer, and producer known for her hyper-viral content and award-winning series “MTV Decoded”, but today she’s in the apartment to taste the sexual rainbow! We discuss bisexuality, polyamory, dating a man and a woman at the SAME time, coming out late in life, and encountering genital piercings so crazy that it stops sex. Ashley

Interviewing Eileen Myles — Legendary Lesbian Poet & “F-Boy” | WHGS Ep. 316 Mar 23, 2026 4148 This episode is POETIC, listener! Eileen Myles (they/them) is a celebrated poet, novelist, and journalist best known for “Chelsea Girls” and poems that queers everywhere tattoo onto their arms, but today they’re in the apartment to SEDUCE! We break format this episode to interview Eileen and learn about their career, history, and legendary love life. In-between, we discuss art, coming out, New Yor

Sofie Hagen is Stuck in a 10-Year Dry Spell | WHGS Ep. 315 Mar 16, 2026 4111 This episode is DRY, listener! Sofie Hagen (Netflix, Fringe) is an award-winning Danish stand-up comedian, author, and podcaster that tours all around the world, but today they’re in the apartment for some SEX tourism because things have been dry! We discuss not having sex in 10+ years despite liking it, why that can be affected by the intersections of trauma, gender, and body image, and how you c

Jenny Zigrino: Queer History Can Be Found EVERYWHERE | WHGS Ep. 314 Mar 9, 2026 4190 This episode is historic, listener! Jenny Zigrino (Conan, JFL, Don’t Tell) is a hilarious stand up comedian, writer, and performer that breaks boundaries, but today she’s in the apartment to thrust DEEP… into history. We discuss queer history in Colonial America, attraction to masculinity regardless of gender, drag, burlesque, and how bisexuals are pretty dang cool. Ashley has sex on a timer. Lizz

Kylie Vincent Almost Died — And She STILL Pulls Like Crazy | WHGS Ep. 313 Mar 2, 2026 3892 If you have the funds, Donate to Kylie’s GoFundMe: https://www.gofundme.com/f/help-kylie-kick-brain-lesion-ass (TW \\ SA; skip 42:44 - 49:33 to avoid) This episode is SICK, listener! Kylie Vincent is a stand up comedian, writer, and beloved co-host of WHGS, but today she’s phoning into the apartment fresh out of the hospital. Kylie got a freaking BRAIN LESION, so we take some time to check

Chrissy Chlapecka’s Tips To Try Femme Topping (C.C.T.T.T.F.T.) | WHGS Ep. 312 Feb 23, 2026 4032 This episode is a POWER BOTTOM, listener! Chrissy Chlapecka is an enchanting musician, content creator, and activist that’s about to kick off a nation-wide tour, but today she’s returning to the apartment for some verse activity as an out-and-proud LESBIAN! We discuss topping as a high-femme lesbian, methods to approach that with your butch GF, overcoming comphet, and the best queer scenes across

Roz Hernandez Encounters An Unprecedented Ick | WHGS Ep. 311 Feb 16, 2026 3668 This episode is HORRIFIC, listener! Roz Hernandez is a mind-blowing stand up comedian, podcaster, actor, and paranormal export that has been sending people to the afterlife with laughter, but today she’s in the apartment to investigate the most GHASTLY ick she has ever encountered on a date! We discuss purposely being given the ick by people you’re trying to date, only dating queer people, identit

Kate Sisk Has Become an OF Connoisseur | WHGS Ep. 310 Feb 9, 2026 3168 Go watch Kate’s NEW stand up special RIGHT NOW: http://Of.tv/lmaof130 or https://bio.site/KateSisk. Kate Sisk is a beloved comedian, writer, and the former co-host / “cancel coach” of WHGS! But today, he’s BACK in the apartment to make a movie…and it’s RATED X! We discuss watching queer adult content, bizarre videos, seeing your friends in said videos, & suckin’ self. Oh yeah, and the set may or m

I Hooked Up With Alayna Joy (Basically) | WHGS Ep. 309 Feb 2, 2026 4088 This episode has been years in the making, listener! It’s a DUO episode today as we are joined by Alayna Joy, an incredible queer therapist, content creator, and co-host on Ashley’s other podcast, Chosen Family. However today she’s coming into the WHGS apartment, because Ashley banged her doppelganger?! In-between the details of this epic story, we discuss getting married after coming out 6 years

Sarah Keyworth Enrolled in a Dominatrix School | WHGS Ep. 308 Jan 26, 2026 3923 This episode is trying new things, listener! Sarah Keyworth (they/them) is an award-winning stand up comedian & podcaster that’s been taking the UK by storm, but today they're in the apartment from across the pond to teach us naughty students a lesson! We discuss your friends taking dominatrix lessons in their 30s, coping with bad times, biking, gaming, and how 3D printing is a massive turn off. A

Carson Olshansky A/B Tested The Best Finger For Bangin’ | WHGS Ep. 307 Jan 19, 2026 4058 This episode is running experiments, listener! Carson Olshansky (they/them) is a fantastic stand-up comedian, writer, and creator that you’ve seen blowing up your social media feeds, but today they’re in the apartment to fingerblast you so accurately you’ll scream “Eureka!” We discuss a/b testing the best finger for bangin’, finding sexual compatibility, dating mascs with a complicated identity, a

Vico Ortiz: Our FIRST Drag King! | WHGS Ep. 306 Jan 12, 2026 3959 This episode is breaking new ground, listener! Vico Ortiz (HBO Max, Adventure Time) is an enchanting Puerto Rican drag king, actor, and activist that is pushing boundaries in the media, but today they’re in the apartment to pop our drag king cherry! In addition, all of our usual co-hosts are tied up, away, or sick, so Ashley’s girlfriend Jen Davis fills in as our temporary co-host! We discuss poly

Yvette Segan is Definitely Getting Cancelled From This Episode | WHGS Ep. 305 Jan 5, 2026 3778 This episode is saying all the wrong things, listener! Yvette Segan is a fan-favorite stand up comedian, actor, writer, and podcaster with over 400k followers across all platforms from her hilarious videos. However, today she RETURNS to the apartment because she’s finally in a queer relationship — she's dating a bisexual man! We discuss queerness in straight-passing relationships, being so in love

WHGS Holiday BONUS — Best of YHGS (Reacting to YOUR Stories!) Dec 29, 2025 4167 Happy Holidays, Bottoms! To celebrate everything you have done for us, enjoy this special highlight reel of some of the best moments from our Patreon bonus series, “You’re Having Gay Sex,” where we read and react to stories submitted by you! In addition, Ashley gives an extra long holiday message, answering some of your gayest questions about the holidays. Gather round your chosen family and get r

When Brandon Rogers Bangs, A Family Falls Apart | WHGS Ep. 303 Dec 22, 2025 3743 This episode is risking it all, listener! Brandon Rogers is a massive queer actor, content creator, and comedian that’s had you laughing on everything, from YouTube sketches to shows like “Helluva Boss.” However, today he’s in the apartment to have you GASPING from the situations he has put himself in! We discuss your first time having gay sex getting interrupted by your partner’s family walking i

I Just Flirt with Catherine McCafferty (of Pretty Gay) | WHGS Ep. 302 Dec 15, 2025 3908 This episode is flirty, listener! Catherine McCafferty is an enchanting actor, stand-up, podcaster, and host of the hit internet series “Pretty Gay,” but today she’s phoning into the apartment to make Ashley malfunction! In addition, beloved co-host Breanne Williamson joins us from the great North! We discuss crying because of a bad hookup, your friends stealing your bed, sexting, how to flirt wit

Freddie Shanel Gives The Long-Time Virgin Perspective | WHGS Ep. 301 Dec 8, 2025 4333 This episode is taking its time, listener! Freddie Shanel (they/them) is an absolutely hilarious up-and-coming comedian whose work you’ve seen on your TikTok feed or Reductress, but today they’re in the apartment to work on shedding their long-time gay virginity! We discuss being a late bloomer in queer sex, how awkward your first time can be, the appropriate grammatical usage of neo-pronouns, and

Planning My Marriage to My GF w/ Ali Kolbert | WHGS Ep. 300 SPECTACULAR Dec 1, 2025 4044 This episode is a MILESTONE, listener! To celebrate the 300th episode of WHGS, we are joined by beloved co-host and dear friend Ali Kolbert to bring things full circle: this podcast started alongside Ashley’s relationship with Jen, so it’s only right that we have another life milestone alongside an episode milestone! We strategize how Ashley should propose to her girlfriend, and even manage to fit

Chloe Moriondo: Making Music for ENBYs & The Sims | WHGS Ep. 299 Nov 24, 2025 4198 This episode is in Simlish, listener! Chloe Moriondo is an incredible singer-songwriter with over 1M monthly listeners, collabs with queer legends, and even music in THE SIMS, but today she’s in the apartment to play her music in your boomBOX (if you catch my drift). In addition, Kylie Vincent is joining us on a quick trip back from LA! We discuss song-writing, making music for The Sims, the inter

Gabe Dunn Spills Tea on YouTube’s Most ICONIC Sapphic Hookup | WHGS Ep. 298 Nov 17, 2025 4185 This episode is queer history, listener! Gabe Dunn is an iconic writer, podcaster, and filmmaker that has pioneered queer content since the days of Buzzfeed Video, but today he’s in the apartment to break down the most iconic lesbian hookup in internet history! We discuss Gabe’s fabled hookup with Stevie Boebi and Anna Akana many years ago, activism in the modern age, how to fight back against an

Dan Docimo Overcomes Getting Misgendered Through Hate | WHGS Ep. 297 Nov 10, 2025 4069 This episode is non-binary, listener! Dan Docimo (they/them) is an incredible up-and-coming comedian that opens for some of the biggest comedy acts in the world, but today they’re in the apartment to open some LEGS! We discuss being non-binary in a very straight field, staying sane in a gendered world, dating not going well, and not putting in much effort at all to change all that, anyways. Ashley

Claire Sundbye Gets Tortured By Conversion Therapy (Internally) | WHGS Ep. 296 Nov 3, 2025 4122 This episode is ALARMING, listener! Claire Sundbye is a queer stand-up comedian and writer that opens for Ashley all across the Midwest, but today she’s in the apartment to open up Pandora’s Box — because she’s suddenly BANGING MEN?!?! We discuss sleeping with men and enjoying it after living as a lesbian for your whole life, why this may have happened, the sexual and emotional trauma fueling it a

The Truth About Trans Athletes In Sports w/ Harrison Browne | WHGS Ep. 295 Oct 27, 2025 3880 This episode is deeply informative, listener! Harrison Browne is a transgender actor, filmmaker, and former professional hockey player in the National Women’s Hockey League, but today he’s in the apartment to silence the moral panic around trans athletes in sports ONCE AND FOR ALL! We discuss coming out as trans in a professional sports league, testosterone vs. athletic performance, the nuances of

Gianmarco Soresi Prefers to Flirt With Men Over His GF | WHGS Ep. 294 Oct 20, 2025 4027 This episode is DEEP and PHILOSOPHICAL, listener! Gianmarco Soresi is a wholly unique stand-up comedian, podcaster, and writer with a new special, “Thief of Joy” out RIGHT NOW, but today he’s in the apartment to out HIMSELF! We discuss visiting Fire Island with your girlfriend in order to flirt with men, straight vs. gay sexual dynamics, Taylor Swift, and money’s effects on the creation of art. As

Leandra Earl (The Beaches) Might Be Bangin’ Her Bandmates | WHGS Ep. 293 Oct 13, 2025 3968 This episode is rock n’ roll CHAOS, listener! Leandra Earl is the stunning guitarist for The Beaches, one of the hottest rock bands working, but today she’s in the apartment to become the band’s LOVER?! We discuss fighting band-mate relationship allegations, coming out later in life, masc fashion tips, threesomes with friends, and much much more. Yeah, there’s also some tips about how to save your

Lauren Chan: The 1st Lesbian on Sports Illustrated & The Last Findomme | WHGS Ep. 292 Oct 6, 2025 3708 This episode is RAUNCHY, listener! Lauren Chan is an iconic model, writer, entrepreneur, and the first ever lesbian to be on the cover of Sports Illustrated Swimsuit Edition, but today she’s in the apartment to show off what’s *underneath*, listener! We discuss compulsive heterosexuality, blowing up your marriage to be lesbian, couch sex, and findom. Ashley bangs a hippie. Ali tries to recreate a

Gabby Bryan: You WILL Meet Queer Babes At The Renaissance Fair | WHGS Ep. 291 Sep 29, 2025 3773 This episode is NERDY, listener! Gabby Bryan is a hilarious stand-up comedian, podcaster, actor, and Emmy-award winning producer, but today she’s cosplaying as a magical fairy wanting to dance in your forest! We discuss the Renaissance Fair and being an undercover weirdo, assuming a masculine role in lesbian relationships, the toxicity that can emerge from that, and how bisexuals most certainly ca

Stevie Boebi: Polyamory, EDS, and Scissor Collections | WHGS Ep. 290 Sep 22, 2025 3816 This episode is deeply informative, listener! Stevie Boebi is an iconic queer sex educator, content creator, and OG lesbian YouTuber that has pioneered internet queer content, but today she’s phoning into the apartment to pioneer new ways to GET US OFF! We discuss polyamory, censorship of queer content, Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome (EDS), unpacking sexual trauma, and a variety of other important topics!

Gay Marriage at Risk, Abortions are Rough, and Other Uplifting Topics w/ Liz Miele | WHGS Ep. 289 Sep 15, 2025 3954 This episode is HILARIOUS and DARK, listener! Liz Miele (NPR, Comedy Central, Hulu) is an incredible stand up comedian with a new special, SPACE CAMP, out RIGHT NOW, but today she’s in the apartment to come out HERSELF! Not really, actually, we just discuss many heavy things. Also, amazing co-host Kylie is back in the building once again from a sabbatical in Los Angeles! We discuss strategies to r

Emma Willmann: Catching Straights Trying to Cheat With Her GF | WHGS Ep. 288 Sep 8, 2025 3829 Kylie’s old IG account got cancelled, so get her new account to 10K: https://www.instagram.com/kylievincenthasrisen/. This episode is JEALOUS and HILARIOUS, listener! Fan-favorite Emma Willmann is a side-splitting stand up comedian and actor that’s RETURNING to the podcast once again to get down and dirty, but this time she’s airing out some straights trying to steal her girl! In addition, we have

How to Start Dating Your Best Friend w/ Kimia Behpoornia (Dropout, Abbott Elementary) | WHGS Ep. 287 Sep 1, 2025 4103 This episode answers an age-old queer question, listener! Kimia Behpoornia is a comedian, actor, and improv MASTER that has been cracking you up on hit shows like Dropout and Abbott Elementary, but today she’s in the apartment to take a crack at the classic sapphic conundrum: what do you do when your in love with your BFF?! We discuss courting, dating, and eventually marrying your childhood best f

Mayday, Mayday — Ali Kolbert Has Gone Straight | WHGS Ep. 286 Aug 25, 2025 4140 This episode is in a bold new era, listener! Hilarious stand-up comedian and fan-favorite Ali Kolbert RETURNS to the apartment for a duo episode, but this is the only girl-on-girl action she’s gettin’ because she is in her “straight girl” era! We discuss embracing the benefits that come with being newly single, strapping for the first time, exploring threesomes with women (and men), the Hunting Wi

G Flip Gets a New Marriage Every Year | WHGS Ep. 285 Aug 18, 2025 3941 This episode is a BIG ONE, listener! G Flip is an award-winning singer, songwriter, multi-instrumentalist, and one of your favorite working queer musicians, but today they’re in the apartment to become one of your favorite LOVERS! We discuss having yearly weddings with your life partner, getting started in music, writing songs from a queer perspective, and dreaming about your teeth falling out. As

How to Come Out Late in Life w/ Queer Sex Educator Eva Bloom | WHGS Ep. 284 Aug 11, 2025 3893 This episode is informative & hilarious, listener! Queer & trans sex educator Eva Bloom RETURNS to the apartment after many years to blow our minds with some knowledge, because we needed a break from blowin’ LOADS. We discuss late bloomers & coming out later in life, how to make moves on your crush, queer line dancing, and your girlfriend going to the emergency room after eating glass in her tofu.

Discovering Kissing & Intimacy Kink w/ Robin Tran | WHGS Ep. 283 Aug 4, 2025 4050 This episode is relentlessly smooching, listener! Hilarious stand up comedian Robin Tran RETURNS to the podcast, and this time she’s in the apartment to teach us the most intense and freaky kink that exists in the bedroom: LOVE! We discuss kissing & intimacy kink, discovering your pansexuality, the ease of making positive changes in your life, and Asian earwax. Ashley finds the fire in her loins.

Spilling Tea on The Ultimatum: Queer Love w/ Breanne Williamson | WHGS Ep. 282 Jul 28, 2025 4181 This episode is gossip-filled, listener! It’s a catch-up today as beloved actor, content creator, and friend Breanne Williamson returns to the apartment, and in typical WHGS fashion, we go in-depth into the most popular queer reality TV show a month after everyone already forgot about it! We gossip about the newest season of The Ultimatum: Queer Love, making art, finding validation in the modern m

Georgia Bridgers: Squirting is a Serious Medical Issue | WHGS Ep. 281 Jul 21, 2025 4066 This episode is gettin’ wet, listener! Actor, comedian, and content creator Georgia Bridgers returns to the podcast for the 5TH TIME, and today she’s in the apartment to tell us the tale of a petulant little SQUIRT, if you catch our drift! We discuss comphet, finding your orgasm, going to the doctor after mistaking your squirting for a kidney issue, and how pilates is for the people. Ashley is cau

Transitioning, Dating, and Letting Your Parents Pick Your New Name w/ Brenna Jordan | WHGS Ep. 280 Jul 14, 2025 4071 This episode is challenging gender, listener! Brenna Jordan is an ICONIC trans content creator and comedian making her return to the internet, but today she’s making a return to the apartment to get wet and loose! We discuss adjusting to life a few years into transitioning, finding meaning beyond your trans identity, dating men safely in a world filled with gross fetishists, and the most trans thi

How to Date Someone With Disabilities w/ Tina Friml | WHGS Ep. 279 Jul 7, 2025 3944 This episode is disabled and proud, listener! Tina Friml (Comedy Central, The Tonight Show) is an incredible stand up comedian and writer with cerebral palsy that has been taking the internet by storm, but today she’s in the apartment GIVING the internet some TIPS on banging in the world of disabilities! We discuss dating with disabilities and its in’s and out’s, managing social anxieties around y

Being Straight is a Choice w/ Steph Tolev | WHGS Ep. 278 Jun 30, 2025 4172 This episode is chaos, listener! We have the return of fan-favorite Steph Tolev, one of today's best working stand-ups and actors with a NEW Netflix special out, “Filth Queen,” but today she’s in the apartment to undo her straight conversion therapy! We discuss being sucked out of the lesbian dating pool by a gorgeous man, maintaining a positive body image in the internet age, living life as a boy

The WHGS Family Comes Out as Asexual | WHGS Ep. 277 Jun 23, 2025 4053 GET LIZZY TO 10K, LISTENER! It’s free and it actually really helps her career: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/. You’ve been asking, so we’re delivering… It’s a FAMILY EPISODE today, listener, and our dear co-hosts and stand up comedians Maddie Wiener and Lizzy Cassidy are coming together to drive this apartment to RIFF CITY! It’s the gay virgin and the bi-with-a-boyfriend CLASHING, and we

Life After a Nuclear Lesbian Breakup w/ Ali Kolbert | WHGS Ep. 276 Jun 16, 2025 3669 This episode is thriving after chaos, listener! Fan-favorite Ali Kolbert is a fantastic stand up comedian, writer, actress, and dear friend of the show, and today she’s coming back onto it to tell us about life after one of the CRAZIEST breakups that you’ve ever heard. It’s a DUO episode today because all co-hosts were on tour, and we discuss Ali’s insane breakup, untangling your mind after gaslig

Jared Freid Teaches You to Date (or Lizzy Tells the Greatest Story Ever if You Hate Men) | WHGS Ep. 275 Jun 9, 2025 4027 This episode is a lady killer, listener! Jared Freid is an amazing stand-up comedian, podcaster, and certified bachelor, and today he’s in the apartment for some gay-straight cultural exchange to give you tips for dating women that only a straight man could know! In addition, hilarious stand-up comedian Lizzy Cassidy joins us as temporary co-host while Maddie is out of town! We discuss the secrets

Video Games Are The Gayest Thing Ever — ft. Ashly Burch (Life is Strange, Horizon) | WHGS Ep. 274 Jun 2, 2025 4037 This episode is an ALL-TIMER, gamers! Ashly Burch is an amazing writer and voice actor who has voiced some of your favorite video game characters, but today we are in the apartment NOT having sex with ANYBODY because this episode is all about playing video games! We discuss queer representation in video games, growing up as a gamer, the absolutely sickening specifics of Final Fantasy, and knowing

The Next Gay Obsession: Line Dancing? (w/ Josh Sharp) | WHGS Ep. 273 May 19, 2025 4300 This episode is bustin’ a move, listener! Josh Sharp is an iconic actor, writer, and comedian behind A24’s hit movie “Dicks: The Musical,” but today he’s in the apartment for a no-pants dance! In addition, hilarious stand-up comedian Lizzy Cassidy joins us as temporary co-host while Maddie is out of town! We discuss the phenomenon of line dancing in the sapphic world, why it has become so popular,

Become Bi — Because Lesbian Divorce Statistics are WILD w/ Emily Wilson | WHGS Ep. 272 May 12, 2025 4008 This episode is bisexual as heck, listener! Emily Wilson is an amazing comedian, writer, and actor who was nominated for “Best Newcomer” at the Edinburgh Fringe Festival, but today she’s in the apartment to be nominated for “Best CUMMER” with the LADIES! In addition, we are joined by the hilarious and whip-smart comedian Lizzy Cassidy while Maddie is out sick. We discuss maintaining your bisexuali

Conquer Fear of Rejection with This EASY TRICK w/ Jared Goldstein | WHGS Ep. 271 May 5, 2025 4087 This episode is confident, listener! Jared Goldstein (Black Mirror, The Unicorn, JFL) is a one-of-a-kind comedian, actor, and podcaster that will have you rolling around on the floor laughing, but today he’s in the apartment to roll around UNDER THE SHEETS! In addition, we are joined by comedian and queerbaiting girlie Yvette Segan as temporary co-host while Maddie is on tour! We discuss getting n

Overcoming Comphet to Always-Coming Hard w/ Alaire Thomas | WHGS Ep. 270 Apr 28, 2025 3942 This episode is discovering itself, listener! Alaire Thomas is your favorite queer content creator that has been taking the internet by STORM, but today she’s in the apartment to do some taking of your GAY VIRGINITY! We discuss compulsory heterosexuality and its effects on the coming out process, building confidence to hit on women, leather jackets and their effect on getting you laid, and if it's

Lesbians Have a Racism Problem w/ Sienna Hubert-Ross | WHGS Ep. 269 Apr 21, 2025 3835 (TW // racism/domestic violence; skip 33:46 - 35:17 & 53:18 - 55:26 to avoid) This episode is a dialogue, listener! Sienna Hubert-Ross is a hilarious stand up comedian, content creator, actor, and writer who you’ve seen all over your TikTok feed, but today she’s in the apartment to be all over your BODY! In a unique episode, we are also joined by her best friend, comedy club manager, and secret lo

Yvette Segan Prefers to Stay in the Closet | WHGS Ep. 268 Apr 14, 2025 4256 (TW // SA; skip 43:05 - 56:40 to avoid) This episode is QUESTIONING, listener! Yvette Segan is a hilarious stand up comedian, content creator, and producer who performs in comedy clubs across the U.S., but today she’s in the apartment because she’s having some “performance anxiety” around women, IF YOU CATCH OUR DRIFT! We discuss questioning if you’re bisexual despite all signs suggesting that you

Claire Sundbye Sleeps With Women in a Dog Bed (Not a Joke) | WHGS Ep. 267 Apr 7, 2025 4158 This episode is GRIMY, listener! Claire Sundbye is an amazing Chicago-based standup comedian, opener for Ashley, and hamster mom, but today she’s in the apartment for some DOGGYSTYLE (bedding). We discuss preferring to sleep and bang in a literal dog-bed, leaving embarrassing surprises in your soulmate’s toilet, taking a penis sabbatical as a lesbian, and how NOT to eat a whole sleeve of Oreos as

How to NOT Date a Trans Person w/ Sunny Laprade | WHGS Ep. 266 Mar 31, 2025 4000 This episode is REJECTED, listener! Sunny Laprade is a hilarious stand-up comedian and trans woman who has been doing comedy with Ashley since she was 14, but now she’s grown and in the apartment to become 69!!! We discuss absolutely DISASTROUS dates with other trans people, the long journey of coming out as a trans woman, going through it while baring all on stage, and how there is nothing funnie

I Have My First MMF Experience (w/ Breanne Williamson) | WHGS Ep. 265 Mar 24, 2025 4101 This episode is MESSY, listener! Breanne Williamson is a content creator, comedian, filmmaker, and beloved co-host of WHGS, but today she is a journalist uncovering the truth as I tell the follow up to my CRAZIEST and MESSIEST hookup story ever! We discuss my first ever MMF (Masc-Masc-Femme) three-way, the insanity of how it came about, and how the boring city of Calgary is somehow the thirstiest

My Girlfriend Jen Davis and I Podcast From Bed | WHGS Ep. 264 Mar 17, 2025 3634 This episode is deeply in love, listener! Jen Davis is an actor, content creator, and MY GIRLFRIEND, and today we decided to show you the visceral details of what we do together in bed: PODCAST! We switch up our usual format while the crew is on vacation and try out “Pillow Talk,” where Jen and I talk intimately from our bedroom in an idea that totally hasn’t been done the exact same way by hundre

Despite Being Lesbian, Emma Dalenberg Dates Men | WHGS Ep. 263 Mar 10, 2025 3878 This episode is traumatized & sober, listener! Emma Dalenberg is an amazing stand up comedian and writer who recently came out as a lesbian, but today she’s in the apartment to put theory into practice! We discuss dating men AFTER coming out, how addiction and trauma can fuel such decisions, and how hanging out with Kylie Vincent WILL get you banned from your local coffee shop. Ashley fumbles a di

Kate Sisk Reacts to YOUR Crazy Stories | WHGS Ep. 262 Mar 3, 2025 2992 This episode is EXCLUSIVE, listener! Ashley’s NEW podcast with Josh Johnson is dropping THIS THURSDAY, 3/6, so with all hands on deck for it’s preparation, we are releasing one of the funnier Patreon bonus episodes of “You’re Having Gay Sex” from our back catalog to the general public! Joined by the hilarious comedian and beloved former co-host Kate Sisk, we read and react to your LISTENER-SUBMITT

Grace Reiter is a Gold-Star Virgin | WHGS Ep. 261 Feb 24, 2025 3894 This episode is undefiled, listener! Grace Reiter is an unfathomably hilarious content creator, comedian, and full-blown virgin, but today she’s in the apartment to destroy fruit because she needs this CHERRY POPPED! We discuss being a virgin in your mid-20s, beauty standards in straight vs. queer dating, destigmatizing sex when you haven’t had any, and how to invest in lucrative new opportunities

How to Date a Trans Woman w/ Brenna Jordan | WHGS Ep. 260 Feb 17, 2025 4186 This episode is instructional, listener! Brenda Jordan is a spellbinding transgender comedian, content creator, and 2015 viral sensation who blew up by dancing at a mall, but today she’s in the apartment to go viral again by NO-PANTS DANCING with YOU! We discuss the do’s-and-don’ts when sleeping with a trans woman, overcoming the fetishization of trans women, plunging men into their own sexuality

Interviewing the Manager of a Legal Brothel (w/ Madam Tara) | WHGS Ep. 259 Feb 10, 2025 4365 This episode is informative, listener! We switch up our typical format for a dedicated interview of Madam Tara Adkins, the manager of Nevada’s first legally licensed brothel — Mustang Ranch. We get into the nitty-gritty of everything you’ve ever wanted to know about organized sex work: how the business operates, how it does so safely, the life of courtesans, and the outrageous stories of the patro

Akeem Woods Easily Attracts Porn Stars | WHGS Ep. 258 Feb 3, 2025 4019 This episode will touch you (literally), listener! Akeem Woods (The Late Late Show) is a sensational stand-up comedian, writer, and fan-favorite at Ashley’s weekly show, but today he’s in the apartment because he’s the favorite fan of most adult stars! We discuss hooking up with adult film stars on the regular, the nuances of strapping your partner, and how crazy it is that there are people who ha

Lizzy Cassidy Unlocks the Most Vile Queer Ick | WHGS Ep. 257 Jan 27, 2025 4242 This episode will give you the ICK, listener! Lizzy Cassidy (Don’t Tell, Cracked) is a hilarious stand-up comedian, podcaster, and Maddie’s best friend/comedic equal, but today she’s in the apartment for some queer sex therapy after a date that RUINED IT ALL. We discuss cringe-inducing dates with non-binary people, addiction, replacing drugs with sex and love after going sober, and how Lizzy needs

Irene Tu DENIES Non-Binary Identity | WHGS Ep. 256 Jan 20, 2025 4247 This episode is genderless and asexual, listener! Irene Tu is a side-splitting comedian, writer, WHGS regular, and self-prescribed “nun” who never has sex, but today she’s in the apartment to spurn ace identity regardless. We go DEEP on philosophy this episode as we discuss rejecting both gendered AND genderless labels, reconciling how you perceive yourself vs. how people perceive you, and how the

The Entire Cast of “The Bachelor” Hates Me… w/ Breanne Williamson | WHGS Ep. 255 Jan 13, 2025 3710 This episode is scandalous, listener! Our dear co-host and Canadian compatriot Breanne Williamson has RETURNED to the apartment from her mental health break, but today she’s in the apartment to break your BACK! We have a big catch up this week and discuss Bre’s sabbatical, lesbians in Florida, encountering vehement homophobes in the wild, and how Bre has been hiding a secret weapon: massive boobs.

First Time Daddy w/ Watts the Safe Word (REMASTER) | WHGS Ep. 254 Jan 6, 2025 4153 This episode is REMASTERED, listener! For a holiday special, we decided to highlight another classic from our early, audio-only podcast catalog, complete with remastered audio and exclusive video that was only on the Patreon! It's our kinkiest episode yet with Mr. Kristofer and Pup Amp from the "Watts The Safe Word" podcast! We talk about puppy play, polyamory, butt plugs, and all things daddy.

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