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Couples Counseling For Parents

Couples Counseling For Parents

Dr. Stephen Mitchell and Erin Mitchell, MACP 120 Episodes Feb 10, 2026

A show about couple relationships: how they work, why they don’t, and what you can do to fix what’s broken.

Episodes

When One Partner Craves Space And The Other Craves Closeness
When One Partner Craves Space And The Other Craves Closeness Feb 10, 2026 1652 Got a question, comment, or just want to drop some encouragement? Send us a text.What if your path to calm runs opposite to your partner’s—and both are valid? Are you a Self-soother or a Connection Seeker? Which path helps you feel regulated and calm? (Don't know...take this short quiz to find out https://couplescounselingforparents.mykajabi.com/forms/2149422422)We dive into a familiar crossr
Politics? No. Nervous Systems On Fire
Politics? No. Nervous Systems On Fire Jan 27, 2026 1372 Got a question, comment, or just want to drop some encouragement? Send us a text.If you’ve wondered how to talk about violence, power, and dignity without overwhelming your home, this conversation offers tools rooted in our expertise in nervous system regulation, and everyday compassion. We open up about why we’re choosing to speak plainly about human dignity. From there, we get practical. We shar
Why You Keep Having The Same Fight
Why You Keep Having The Same Fight Jan 22, 2026 1589 Got a question, comment, or just want to drop some encouragement? Send us a text.Most couples don’t get stuck because they argue too much—they get stuck because repair never fully happens.In this episode, we start with a familiar story: a couple caught in the same end-of-day conflict that looks like it’s about dinner, help, or logistics. But beneath that moment is something far more important—two
Why Your Relationship Changed After Kids And How To Repair It
Why Your Relationship Changed After Kids And How To Repair It Jan 13, 2026 2462 Got a question, comment, or just want to drop some encouragement? Send us a text.Ever wonder why your relationship felt solid before kids but now seems frayed at the edges? We open the new year by telling the honest truth about postpartum disconnection: it’s common, it’s fixable, and it rarely comes down to a lack of love. Using the case example of Trey and Rashida—we describe how communication pa
How To Talk About Drinking Before It Derails Your Holiday
How To Talk About Drinking Before It Derails Your Holiday Dec 16, 2025 1682 Got a question, comment, or just want to drop some encouragement? Send us a text.The holidays can fill a room with warmth, noise, and nostalgia—and still leave one partner quietly overwhelmed. We dig into the messy middle where alcohol meets family rituals, social anxiety, and the pressure to keep everything magical for kids. Through a candid case study of Heath and Bailey, we unpack why couples g
Four Practical Ways Couples Can Stay Connected During The Holidays
Four Practical Ways Couples Can Stay Connected During The Holidays Dec 9, 2025 1538 Got a question, comment, or just want to drop some encouragement? Send us a text.December can be tender and overwhelming at the same time. Between school events, family expectations, travel, and the pressure to make it “special,” even strong couples can feel out of sync. We unpack four practical tools that help partners communicate clearly, share the load, and protect the moments that actually mat
Holiday Stress, Family Rules, and What to Do About Them
Holiday Stress, Family Rules, and What to Do About Them Nov 4, 2025 1849 Got a question, comment, or just want to drop some encouragement? Send us a text.Holiday plans rarely fall apart over turkey—they crack at the fault lines of family rules, nervous system triggers, and the pressure to keep traditions intact while raising small kids. We take you inside a relatable case with Hunter and Manu, whose baby’s bedtime collides with Grandma’s set-in-stone dinner time, and s
Congratulations, You’re Married—Now Cue The Panic
Congratulations, You’re Married—Now Cue The Panic Oct 21, 2025 1783 Got a question, comment, or just want to drop some encouragement? Send us a text.Ever feel like you’re having the same fight on repeat—one of you craving more presence at home while the other longs to be seen for carrying the load at work? We dig beneath schedules and sarcasm to the two fears that quietly run many relationships: the fear of abandonment and the fear of rejection. Once those fears a
Why Quid Pro Quo Love Fails and What Builds Trust Instead
Why Quid Pro Quo Love Fails and What Builds Trust Instead Oct 14, 2025 2077 Got a question, comment, or just want to drop some encouragement? Send us a text.We use our boys’ everyday squabbles as a mirror for adult dynamics: both sides telling true events, but interpreting the events completely different. From there, we lay out three lessons that change the tone of a relationship. First, love isn’t a contract (quid pro quo); connection can’t be leveraged without corroding
When Stress Hijacks Love: Turning Conflict into Connection for Parents
When Stress Hijacks Love: Turning Conflict into Connection for Parents Oct 7, 2025 1689 Got a question, comment, or just want to drop some encouragement? Send us a text.When stress shows up in a relationship, it rarely says its name. We dive into the real culprit—nervous system activation—and show how it secretly drives the shutdown–pursuit loop that so many parents know too well.Through the story of Leah and Justine, two working parents navigating new routines and old expectations,
Are You a Couple That Never Fights? Why That’s A Problem
Are You a Couple That Never Fights? Why That’s A Problem Sep 30, 2025 1386 Got a question, comment, or just want to drop some encouragement? Send us a text.“We never fight” sounds peaceful, but is it actually connection—or quiet disconnection in disguise? We open up about a small argument over wedding dishes that revealed a much bigger truth: real intimacy requires honest engagement, not appeasing or winning. When one of us began to withdraw and the other escalated, the
Beyond Date Night: Why Physical Closeness and Emotional Responsiveness Matter
Beyond Date Night: Why Physical Closeness and Emotional Responsiveness Matter Sep 23, 2025 1477 Got a question, comment, or just want to drop some encouragement? Send us a text.Feeling disconnected from your partner despite regular date nights and check-ins? You're not alone. This raw, insightful episode dives into one of the most common relationship challenges parents face: that persistent feeling that something's missing in your connection.Through the relatable story of Joy and G

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