High Level Wife Podcast with Chelsey Holm
High Level Wife Podcast, hosted by Chelsey Holm, focuses on helping women reclaim their identity as wives and daughters of God. The show covers topics like marriage, faith, and personal transformation with unfiltered conversations and practical advice. Chelsey aims to empower listeners to break free from limiting beliefs and step into their God-given purpose. Through interviews and personal insights, the podcast encourages women to live boldly and authentically according to their faith.
Episodes
Old gods, Same Goal: Drawing Your Heart Away From God
Send us Fan Mail1 Kings 11 gives us the harrowing account of Solomon’s demise: wives who drew his heart away from God and turned him toward pagan practice and idol worship. So I did a deep dive on these old gods: Asteroth, Moleck, Chemosh… Guess what I found? These are commonplace today but show up much more frequently in your life than you might think. Let’s dive in… Support the showChelsey Holm
Be Patient + Expect to See the Purpose of the Lord, Dear Wife!
Send us Fan MailJames 5:7-11 commands us to be patient and wait- to be steadfast, compassionate and merciful as the Lord is doing a thing. Are you trying to force God’s timing and plan for your own growth or your spouse’s? Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I lead Christian wives to become TENDER, TENACIOUS & TAKING BACK TERRITORY the enemy has stolen. To live by God’s desig
4 No-Go’s of a Godly Wife (the roots + the fix)
Send us Fan MailYou cannot claim godly wife and practice these 4 things in your marriage. First, let’s identify, then get to the underlying root, and finally obediently walk in correction by Holy Spirit within us. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I lead Christian wives to become TENDER, TENACIOUS & TAKING BACK TERRITORY the enemy has stolen. To live by God’s design in marr
This One Thing is the Common Factor of ALL Disorder & Dysfunction in Marriage
Send us Fan MailEvery single convo I’ve ever had with a wife has had this ONE thing in common even though nearly every situation was unique. And it’s this key that unlocks what God wants to do in and through your marriage. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I lead Christian wives to become TENDER, TENACIOUS & TAKING BACK TERRITORY the enemy has stolen. To live by God’s design
God Fights for You (the kid who hurt my son on purpose in football)
Send us Fan MailThe kid got benched 2 games! Do you know how to battle and when and for what? Learn what God taught me more deeply on this and also how it applies to marriage, parenting and being a follower of Christ. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I lead Christian wives to become TENDER, TENACIOUS & TAKING BACK TERRITORY the enemy has stolen. To live by God’s design in
Unsportsmanlike Conduct Against My Son- Walk in the Spirit
Send us Fan MailLast night as I record this episode, my oldest son had a football game. The opposing team wiped the floor with us in a 0 to 30 something whooping. The game is down to the final 50 seconds and a kid twice the size of my son tackles late and then pushes him hard into the ground (stepping on his arm and his thigh). A flag was thrown, but this mama wanted more. Let’s talk about walking
How to Renew Your Mind in Real Time
Send us Fan MailWe got notice of the packing/moving company coming in 72 hours, and as you might imagine, my brain started running wild with the list of everything I still needed to do to be ready. Here’s how it looks in practical action to take thoughts captive to Christ, renewing your mind. A high level wife is not one who worries about tomorrow nor does she allow overwhelm or anxiety to be her
A Double Portion: Renewing Your Mind + God’s Provision
Send us Fan MailGod blew my mind today! I wanted to invite you into the process of real-time battle for my mind and how I walked through to receive a double portion from God. You can do this too! Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I lead Christian wives to become TENDER, TENACIOUS & TAKING BACK TERRITORY the enemy has stolen. To live by God’s design in marriage through righ
A Peek Into God Transforming One of my HLW Clients
Send us Fan MailThis episode is for the wife who is exhausted from trying so hard to walk with the Lord and wants to know how God leads and provides and grows us in real time, uniquely as you are. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I lead Christian wives to become TENDER, TENACIOUS & TAKING BACK TERRITORY the enemy has stolen. To live by God’s design in marriage through righ
Radical Leaps of Faith, Obedience & God Math
Send us Fan MailGod paid off $78k in debt when we said yes and obeyed Him in 2014. Now He’s doing it again with KY. What could big, bold faith and radical obedience mean for you right now, a year from now, 10 years from now too? Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I lead Christian wives to become TENDER, TENACIOUS & TAKING BACK TERRITORY the enemy has stolen. To live by God’s
The 3 Daily Wife Checks
Send us Fan MailInstagram put out a new feature called “Instants” and this is how I’m inviting you into DAILY right order as a wife with them. Doing these 3 can radically shift your heart posture, dear wife. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I lead Christian wives to become TENDER, TENACIOUS & TAKING BACK TERRITORY the enemy has stolen. To live by God’s design in marriage t
Jesus Freak, Fun, & Worship!
Send us Fan MailMight want to slow the speed down on this one- I’m talking fast and bringing DC Talk’s Jesus Freak back 🙌🏻 Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I lead Christian wives to become TENDER, TENACIOUS & TAKING BACK TERRITORY the enemy has stolen. To live by God’s design in marriage through right order, repentance & radical obedience.First step? Grab the 30 Day Gui
3 Lessons From the WEIGHT in the WAIT as a Godly Wife
Send us Fan MailIt’s been a minute since a new episode as we’re in the midst of less than 30 days out until we move and all the pieces that go into the whole process of radical obedience to God and big belief He makes our steps sure. Let’s dive into how God is teaching me to navigate this season as a godly wife who seeks the Lord FIRST and submits to her husband’s authority while walking as his he
Managing their emotions is crushing you & delaying their growth!
Send us Fan MailAre you carrying your husband’s emotions? Your children’s disappointment? The tension in your home? Constantly reading the room, smoothing things over, rescuing, fixing, and keeping everyone okay will eventually crush you—and it can prevent the people you love from taking responsibility for their own growth. You can be tender without carrying everyone. Let’s learn the difference be
Do It Anyway: When Obedience Doesn’t Make Sense to Everyone Else
Send us Fan MailWhen you stop living marriage the world’s way and begin walking as a surrendered disciple of Christ, not everyone will understand—and your own flesh may start asking, “Is this really worth it?” Do it anyway. We’re talking surrender, obedience, giants, impossible circumstances, and the God who is able. We aren’t walking toward victory hoping God pulls it off. We walk from the victor
Out of the Weeds: You’re Playing a Bigger Game
Send us Fan MailThe hurt may be real. The offense may need repair. The pattern may genuinely need to change. But you can become so consumed with what’s wrong in your marriage that you forget what your marriage is for. Let’s zoom out from the weeds and recover God’s bigger picture: oneness, multiplication, forward motion, and two people pulling together for His Kingdom. Deal with the weeds—but keep
These are your 4 ACTUAL enemies not your husband!
Send us Fan MailIf your husband isn’t the enemy, who is? In this episode, we identify the real battle happening beneath so much marital conflict: the flesh, the mind, Satan, and the influence of the world. Learn how each operates, how they can work together to turn you against your husband, and what Scripture tells us to do about each one. Stop aiming your weapons at flesh and blood. Know your ene
For the wife who is unintentionally fighting AGAINST the wrong enemy
Send us Fan MailYou can deeply love God, genuinely love your husband, want the absolute best for him—and still unknowingly fight against him. In this episode, we expose how control can disguise itself as “helping him grow,” why you were never called to be your husband’s Holy Spirit, and the difference between trying to change him and truly warring for him. It’s time to put down the fleshly weapons
Learn to War FOR Your Husband, NOT Against Him!
Send us Fan MailI’m bringing you a framework of 9 actions to war on behalf of your husband. Take up these divine weapons of warfare that DESTROY strongholds over your husband so he is fully free, on fire and filled with love! This is how High Level Wives fight tenderly, tenaciously and ultimately how we take back territory the enemy has stolen! Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I
Stop Asking, “What Am I Getting?”
Send us Fan MailCulture teaches us to evaluate marriage like consumers: Am I happy? Are my needs being met? What am I getting from this? Jesus gives us an entirely different model. In this episode, we’re confronting the marriage scorecard, the stalemate of waiting for our spouse to go first, and what happens when our obedience flows from what we’ve already received from Christ. Stop keeping score
The Enemy Wants Your Marriage Looking Inward
Send us Fan MailWhat if the enemy doesn’t have to destroy your marriage if he can simply keep it distracted? When husband and wife become consumed with offenses, scorekeeping, unmet expectations, and fighting each other, two people designed for Kingdom impact lose their shared direction. Let’s expose the strategy of division and remember: your spouse is not your enemy. Support the showChelsey Holm
Marriage Was Designed to Multiply
Send us Fan MailGod’s first words to male and female included a command to be fruitful and multiply. What if that principle reaches far beyond simply building a family? In this episode, we’re looking at marriage as a multiplier for discipleship, hospitality, generosity, testimony, service, and Kingdom impact—and asking one powerful question: Who could experience God’s goodness because your marriag
Your Marriage Was Never About You
Send us Fan MailCulture has made marriage about happiness, fulfillment, and getting our needs met—but God’s vision is so much bigger. In this episode, we’re going back to Genesis to uncover why God created marriage, how covenant points beyond husband and wife, and what changes when we stop asking what God can do for our marriage and start asking what He wants to do through it. Support the showChel
THROWBACK: Creating Lasting Change
Send us Fan MailHere’s an episode from the past that still rings true today for creating ANY change that lasts. It’s what we do CONSISTENTLY over time that creates the results you see today. So what you do today creates the results you see years from now. What are you creating? What needs to change? Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I lead Christian wives to become TENDER, TENA
Have We Lost Our Awe? Ready for the Smoke!
Send us Fan MailHave we become so familiar with the Gospel that we’ve stopped marveling at it? In this episode, Chelsey shares a moment from church that sparked a deeper question: Why are we often quicker to celebrate human achievement than the miracle of salvation? Together, we’ll explore what Scripture reveals about encountering the holiness of God and why true worship isn’t about personality or
Feelings Make Great Messengers, Terrible Leaders
Send us Fan MailGod gave you emotions, but He never intended them to lead your life. Learn how to acknowledge your feelings without allowing them to determine your direction. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I lead Christian wives to become TENDER, TENACIOUS & TAKING BACK TERRITORY the enemy has stolen. To live by God’s design in marriage through right order, repentance &am
Right Order Changes Everything
Send us Fan MailMany marriage struggles aren’t really marriage problems- they’re worship problems. Discover why putting Christ first changes everything else. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I lead Christian wives to become TENDER, TENACIOUS & TAKING BACK TERRITORY the enemy has stolen. To live by God’s design in marriage through right order, repentance & radical obedie
You Can’t Heal What You Won’t Name
Send us Fan MailHealing begins with honesty. In this Espresso Shot, learn why bringing hidden wounds into the light is the first step toward the transformation God desires. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I lead Christian wives to become TENDER, TENACIOUS & TAKING BACK TERRITORY the enemy has stolen. To live by God’s design in marriage through right order, repentance &
Conviction Sounds Different Than Condemnation
Send us Fan MailDo you know the difference between the voice of the Holy Spirit and the voice of shame? Discover how conviction leads to freedom while condemnation keeps you stuck. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I lead Christian wives to become TENDER, TENACIOUS & TAKING BACK TERRITORY the enemy has stolen. To live by God’s design in marriage through right order, repentan
Frustrations Reveal Expectations
Send us Fan MailWhat if your frustration is actually revealing something deeper? In this episode, we’ll uncover how unmet expectations often point to areas where God is inviting us to surrender. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I lead Christian wives to become TENDER, TENACIOUS & TAKING BACK TERRITORY the enemy has stolen. To live by God’s design in marriage through right o
Assumptions Are Relationship Killers
Send us Fan MailMost conflict doesn’t begin with facts- it begins with assumptions. Learn how choosing curiosity over conclusions can transform your marriage and strengthen your relationships. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I lead Christian wives to become TENDER, TENACIOUS & TAKING BACK TERRITORY the enemy has stolen. To live by God’s design in marriage through right ord
Stop Chasing Fruit- Start Checking the Root
Send us Fan MailAre you trying to fix behaviors while missing the heart? In this quick Espresso Shot (5 min or less!), discover why lasting transformation starts at the root, not the fruit, and how God changes us from the inside out. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I lead Christian wives to become TENDER, TENACIOUS & TAKING BACK TERRITORY the enemy has stolen. To live by G
A High Level Wife is TENDER: What That Means
Send us Fan MailWhat does it really mean to be a tender wife?Our culture often equates tenderness with weakness, passivity, or being easily hurt. But the Bible paints a completely different picture. A tender heart is one that remains soft before God, compassionate toward others, and responsive to the Holy Spirit—even in a hard world.In this episode, we’ll explore the biblical meaning of tenderness
How to Build Your Household God’s Way
Send us Fan MailRight Order. Repentance. Mission. Core values. Daily, weekly, and monthly disciplines, rhythms, and habits. This is how a high level family does it God’s way and flourishes forward together! Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I lead Christian wives to become TENDER, TENACIOUS & TAKING BACK TERRITORY the enemy has stolen. To live by God’s design in marriage th
How I Use God’s Written Word to Form & Guide My Bold Prayers
Send us Fan MailDon’t know how to pray or what to pray? This episode dives into exactly how I use God’s own written word to form and guide my prayers back to Him. It’s so simple but so powerful! Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I lead Christian wives to become TENDER, TENACIOUS & TAKING BACK TERRITORY the enemy has stolen. To live by God’s design in marriage through right
BTS: Real Life Audacious Faith and Radical Obedience in Motion!
Send us Fan MailGod corrected us and redirected us onto a path that has and is requiring bold, audacious faith and radical obedience to Him. Come listen as I throw the curtains wide open to our household and see God work! Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I lead Christian wives to become TENDER, TENACIOUS & TAKING BACK TERRITORY the enemy has stolen. To live by God’s design
Less of Me. More of Christ.
Send us Fan MailWhat if the goal of your marriage isn't simply a better relationship—but becoming more like Jesus?In this final episode, we bring the entire series together by looking at the heart of biblical marriage: daily surrender. Through John 3:30, Galatians 2:20, and the Gospel, you'll discover that flourishing isn't found in demanding more from your spouse but in giving more
Your Spouse Was Never Meant to Carry Your Soul
Send us Fan MailHave you unknowingly asked your spouse to do what only God can do?In this episode, we uncover one of the greatest obstacles to intimacy: expecting our spouse to become our source of peace, security, identity, or worth. Marriage is a beautiful gift from God, but it makes a terrible god. Discover how putting Christ back on the throne frees you to delight in your spouse instead of dep
Stop Waiting for Your Spouse to Go First
Send us Fan MailWho goes first in marriage?The Gospel has already answered that question. Jesus did.In this practical episode, we'll explore why waiting keeps marriages stuck, how Christ's pursuit of us frees us to pursue our spouse without keeping score, and what it looks like to love first—not because our spouse deserves it, but because Christ first loved us. Healthy marriages aren&apo
The Intimacy God Designed
Send us Fan MailHave we reduced intimacy to something far smaller than God intended?In this episode, we dive into the biblical meaning of becoming "one flesh" by unpacking the rich Hebrew and Greek words behind God's design for marriage. You'll discover that intimacy is far more than physical—it is covenant, unity, faithfulness, and being fully known. When we understand God&apo
Fear Protects. Love Surrenders.
Send us Fan MailWhy is it so hard to fully trust and open your heart in marriage?In this episode, we explore how fear, shame, and past wounds lead us to build walls that keep intimacy out. Through Scripture, you'll discover how God's perfect love casts out fear, why self-protection and oneness cannot coexist, and how surrendering your heart to Christ gives you the freedom to love your sp
Does God Have Your Heart?
Send us Fan MailBefore your spouse can faithfully hold your heart, God must have it first.In this opening episode, we uncover the foundation of every thriving marriage: a heart fully surrendered to Christ. Discover why God isn't after your performance but your heart, how we've unknowingly asked our spouses to carry what only God can, and why right order changes everything. When Christ be
Your Marriage Was Designed to Reveal Christ
Send us Fan Mail Why God's Design Was Always Bigger Than You What if God's ultimate purpose for your marriage isn't simply your happiness—but His glory?In this final episode of the series, we discover that marriage has always been about something greater than two people. Through Ephesians 5, you'll see how God's design for husbands and wives is a living picture of Christ&a
Less of Me. More of Christ.
Send us Fan MailWhat if the goal of your marriage isn't simply a better relationship—but becoming more like Jesus?In this final episode, we bring the entire series together by looking at the heart of biblical marriage: daily surrender. Through John 3:30, Galatians 2:20, and the Gospel, you'll discover that flourishing isn't found in demanding more from your spouse but in giving more
What Biblical Submission Actually Looks Like
Send us Fan MailWhat does biblical submission actually look like on an ordinary Tuesday?In this practical episode, we’re moving beyond misconceptions to discover how submission is lived out in everyday marriage. We’ll talk about respect, honor, influence instead of control, making specific requests, handling disagreement, and why your obedience is an act of worship- not a strategy to change your h
Your Spouse Was Never Meant to Carry Your Soul
Send us Fan MailHave you unknowingly asked your spouse to do what only God can do?In this episode, we uncover one of the greatest obstacles to intimacy: expecting our spouse to become our source of peace, security, identity, or worth. Marriage is a beautiful gift from God, but it makes a terrible god. Discover how putting Christ back on the throne frees you to delight in your spouse instead of dep
Submission Begins with God, Not Your Husband
Send us Fan MailSubmission has become one of the most misunderstood words in the Church. But before it was ever about marriage, it was about trusting God.In this episode, we’ll explore why God is a God of order, why Ephesians 5 begins with reverence for Christ, and why obedience always comes before the outcome we’re praying for. Discover why biblical submission isn’t about losing your voice- it’s
One Generation Away Why We Forget God’s Ways- and Rewrite His Design
Send us Fan MailWe’re always just one generation away from forgetting God. And wives are no different.In this episode, we’ll explore how God’s people went from readying for war against their brothers across the Jordan to forgetting about what He had done for them in just ONE generation. Discover how this impacts marriage and also future generations. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach &
Feminism Is Anti-Biblical
Send us Fan MailModern culture has discipled women to believe freedom is found in rejecting God’s design. Scripture teaches the opposite.In this episode, we’re asking one question: Who defines womanhood- culture or Christ? We’ll explore how competing worldviews have shaped marriage, why God’s design isn’t oppressive but protective, and why Christian wives cannot build flourishing marriages on a fo
You Can’t Ask God to Bless What You Refuse to Bring Under His Authority
Send us Fan MailWhy do we ask God to restore what we’re unwilling to surrender?In this episode, we’re opening the book of Judges to uncover a sobering pattern: partial obedience always leads to compromise. The Israelites entered the Promised Land but refused to fully obey God’s commands, and one generation later they had forgotten the Lord and were living according to their own ways. What does thi
Simple Obedience Changes Everything
Send us Fan MailFollowing Jesus isn’t complicated—but it will cost you your pride, your control, and your timeline.In this final episode, we’re bringing the series full circle by returning to the beauty of simple obedience. If you’ve been waiting for another sign, another answer, or another confirmation, perhaps God is inviting you to simply obey what He’s already made clear. Because when you seek
The Gospel Isn’t Opposed to Effort—It’s Opposed to Earning
Send us Fan MailHave we confused grace with passivity?The gospel doesn’t call us to sit back and do nothing. It calls us to work, steward, build, and serve—but from acceptance, not for acceptance. In this episode, we’ll unpack the difference between striving to earn God’s favor and faithfully stewarding the life He’s already given you. Discover why discipline is not the enemy of grace but one of i
Everything Is Worship: The Power of a Consecrated Life
Send us Fan MailWhat if worship isn’t something you attend or a song you sing—but the way you live?In this episode, we’re redefining worship through the lens of Scripture. From your workout to your marriage, your parenting to your work, every ordinary moment becomes holy when it’s offered to the Lord. Discover how consecrating your attention transforms everyday responsibilities into acts of worshi
Attention Shapes Affection: What You Notice Is Forming You
Send us Fan MailWhat has your attention right now?Because whatever consistently has your attention is shaping your heart.In this episode, we’re exploring one of the most powerful principles in spiritual formation: attention shapes affection. We’ll talk about why the enemy fights for your attention, how what you repeatedly notice changes your marriage, your parenting, and your relationship with God
The Principle of First: Why God Says “Seek First”
Send us Fan MailWhy does God care so much about being first?Because whatever comes first shapes everything that follows.In this episode, we’re unpacking the biblical principle of first—from Genesis to Matthew 6—and discovering why seeking God first isn’t another box to check but the foundation for peace, wisdom, and right order. When God has your first attention, every other decision begins to fal
FIRST: You’re Asking the Wrong Question
Send us Fan MailWhat if God isn’t withholding an answer… what if He’s building your foundation?So often we bring God questions about decisions, timelines, relationships, parenting, or the future, while He’s inviting us into something much deeper: seeking Him first.In this episode, we’ll unpack why God often focuses on the condition of our hearts before the circumstances around us, what the wildern
The First 15 Minutes of Your Day Reveal Your Real Lord
Send us Fan MailWhat you reach for first every morning reveals what is leading your heart. In this short episode, we’re talking about why right order isn’t a religious routine- it’s the foundation for daily surrender. If you’ve been feeling reactive, overwhelmed, or spiritually dry, this simple shift could change everything. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I lead Christian wive
The Blueprint: Marriage God’s Way
Send us Fan MailSTART HERE: Learn the Biblical Feminine Methodology.Go from carrying it all to freeFrom exhausted, stressed & overwhelmed to relaxed, present and flourishingFrom disconnected & hurt to deep intimacy and healingBut this isn’t your typical marriage tips: this is Holy Spirit transformation that starts with right order and full surrender. You’ll learn to:Die to self!Be reborn!M
You Can't Ask God to Bless What You Refuse to Bring Under His Authority
Send us Fan MailCommunication isn't the deepest issue in most struggling marriages.Repentance is.In the final episode of this series, we're talking about the uncomfortable but freeing truth that transformation begins when we stop asking God to change everyone else and invite Him to search our own hearts.We'll unpack why communication tools can never replace surrender, why repentance
Right Order: The Foundation of a Flourishing Marriage
Send us Fan MailGod is a God of order, and when our lives drift out of His design, we often experience unnecessary overwhelm, frustration, resentment, and exhaustion.In this episode, we're talking about what right order actually looks like in everyday life. From putting God first to stewarding yourself well, prioritizing your marriage, and leading your home with intentionality, you'll di
Abide: You Cannot Medicate Your Way Into the Fruit of the Spirit
Send us Fan MailPeace isn't something you buy. Joy isn't something you chase. Self-control isn't something you white-knuckle.They're all fruit.In this episode, we're diving into John 15 to discover what Jesus actually meant when He said, "Abide in Me." We'll explore why so many wives are trying to produce the fruit of the Spirit while feeding the flesh, how
You Don't Want Peace. You Want Relief.
Send us Fan MailWhat if the reason you keep feeling stuck isn't because you lack peace—but because you've been chasing relief instead?In this episode, we're unpacking the difference between temporary relief and the lasting peace that only Christ produces. We'll talk about why we reach for quick fixes when life feels overwhelming, the difference between rest and escape, and why
The Counterfeit Peace That’s Keeping Christian Wives Stuck
Send us Fan MailWhat do you reach for when life feels overwhelming?For some wives it’s scrolling. For others it’s shopping, food, busyness, wine, supplements, endless productivity, or simply staying distracted.This episode isn’t about condemning a product or a habit. It’s about asking a deeper question:What are we asking created things to do that only Jesus can do?We’ll explore the modern counterf
The Modern Martha Wife: Anxious, Distracted, and Out of Order
Send us Fan MailDo you love Jesus, love your family, and still feel anxious, overwhelmed, overstimulated, and like you’re constantly carrying the weight of everyone else’s world?In this episode, we’re diving into the story of Martha and Mary in Luke 10—not to shame busy wives, but to uncover what Jesus was actually addressing. Martha wasn’t rebuked for serving. She was anxious, troubled, and distr
Naked and Unashamed: God’s Design for Intimacy, Oneness, and Mission
Send us Fan MailThis vulnerability series isn’t ultimately about communication.It’s about the Gospel applied.In this episode, Chelsey Holm unpacks God’s design for intimacy through vulnerability—not just so couples can feel closer, but so they can become one, reflect Christ, and live on mission together. From Genesis to John 17 to the fragrance of Christ in everyday life, this conversation will ch
The Vulnerability Framework That Rebuilds Intimacy
Send us Fan MailYou want to be vulnerable… but what do you actually say?In this episode, Chelsey gives you the practical framework to express hurt, loneliness, rejection, overwhelm, and disconnection in a way that creates intimacy instead of conflict.If you’ve ever found yourself blaming, shutting down, over-explaining, or hoping your spouse can just “figure it out,” this episode will help you mov
Feminine Side of Vulnerability
Send us Fan MailWomen often think they’re being vulnerable because they’re talking.Explaining.Processing.Venting.Sharing every detail.But sometimes all those words are keeping the real heart hidden.In this episode, Chelsey unpacks the feminine side of vulnerability and why so many wives communicate around the wound instead of revealing it. You’ll learn how self-protection can show up through over-
Masculine Side of Vulnerability
Send us Fan MailLearn how male vulnerability often shows up in unexpected ways—and how understanding the heart underneath your husband’s behavior can help rebuild intimacy, connection, and oneness.What if your husband is more vulnerable than you think… you just don’t recognize it?In this episode, Chelsey breaks down the masculine side of vulnerability and why many men reveal their hearts different
Why Vulnerability Feels So Hard…
Send us Fan MailDiscover why vulnerability feels so difficult, what you’re actually protecting, and how trusting God allows you to move toward deeper intimacy, healing, and connection.If vulnerability is the pathway to intimacy, why is it so difficult?Why do we want connection but pull away? Why do we long to be known yet struggle to reveal what’s really happening inside of us?In this episode, Che
Vulnerability Isn’t What You Think It Is
Send us Fan MailDiscover why vulnerability isn’t sharing more information- it’s revealing what’s true, and why that is the foundation of intimacy, connection, and oneness.You can talk for hours and still feel disconnected.You can share your schedule, your plans, your frustrations, and everything that happened during your day… while never revealing your heart.In this episode, Chelsey unpacks one o
When the Wounds Go Deep: Trusting God With the Places That Still Hurt
Send us Fan MailSome wounds didn't start in your marriage.They started years earlier.Childhood rejection, abandonment, criticism, betrayal, disappointment, neglect—and then marriage has a way of exposing what was already there.In this episode, Chelsey shares why deep wounds often create deep patterns of self-protection, how God uses marriage to reveal what He intends to heal, and why healing
From Self-Protection to Oneness: 5 Ways to Tear Down Walls in Marriage
Send us Fan MailLearn the five shifts that help couples tear down walls, rebuild trust, and move from self-protection to true oneness in marriage. 🔥Most couples don’t wake up one day disconnected.The distance happens slowly.One hurt. One disappointment. One misunderstanding. One act of self-protection at a time.Before long, walls replace vulnerability, pride replaces humility, and couples find the
When Your Past Keeps Interrupting Your Present
Send us Fan MailHave you ever found yourself reacting more strongly than a situation seems to warrant?Maybe it’s fear, frustration, anxiety, defensiveness, or discouragement. You know what God says, yet you still find yourself stuck in the same patterns.In this episode, Chelsey explores how past hurts, disappointments, and survival patterns can quietly shape the way we respond to our present circu
Old Receipts When Your Past Keeps Interpreting Your Present
Send us Fan MailLearn how old receipts from your past may be shaping your present reactions—and how God uses surrender, renewal, and new experiences to rewrite the story and create lasting transformation.What if you’re not reacting to what’s happening right now?What if you’re reacting to a receipt from years ago?The husband who feels unwanted. The couple stuck in the same argument. The woman God i
The Gas and Brake in Marriage: When You Want Connection but Your Body Wants Protection
Send us Fan MailLearn how to identify the subconscious self-protection keeping you stuck, surrender it to God, and move toward deeper intimacy, healing, and oneness in marriage.“I forgave… so why do I still react this way?”Many couples find themselves stuck in a frustrating cycle: they want connection, intimacy, trust, and oneness, yet something inside keeps pulling the brake.In this episode, Chel
The Opposite of Intimacy Isn’t Conflict: It’s Self-Protection
Send us Fan MailMost couples think conflict is what destroys intimacy.It’s not.Self-protection is.A husband jokes instead of admitting he feels rejected.A wife withdraws instead of admitting she feels hurt.One pursues. One avoids.Different behaviors. Same root.Self-protection.In this episode, Chelsey unpacks the hidden ways self-protection shows up in marriage, why God often uses marriage to expos
Reigniting Emotional Intimacy: From Blame to Oneness
Send us Fan MailMany couples think they have a communication problem when they actually have an ownership problem.When hurt, frustration, loneliness, and disappointment go unnamed, it's easy to fall into blame, defensiveness, criticism, and distance. But emotional intimacy grows when two people learn to take ownership of what they're feeling, anchor themselves in truth, and move toward o
The Biblical Art & Practice of Remembering by the Spirit
Send us Fan MailIt’s not challenging for our brains to remember all the times we were hurt. Why? It’s a self protection mechanism. But self protection and oneness cannot coexist. So the world says cut off what hurt you and forget about it! That’s not biblical. We see time after time examples of God Himself commanding the Israelites to REMEMBER what He did, where He rescued them from, how He provid
How to Stop Treating Your Husband as Your Last Ministry Getting Your Leftovers
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