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Heal The Hurt

Heal The Hurt

Kenny Weiss 541 Episodes Aug 18, 2026

Heal the Hurt is a podcast hosted by Kenny Weiss, an ICF Certified Life Coach and creator of the Worst Day Cycle, Authentic Self Cycle, and Emotional Authenticity Method. Each episode focuses on decoding the childhood emotional blueprint that drives triggers, shutdowns, and relationship cycles, offering root-cause tools for rewiring them. The show targets listeners who have tried other approaches like therapy, CBT, DBT, and self-help without lasting results, emphasizing that they are not broken but programmed. It offers a direct, no-fluff approach that avoids toxic positivity.

Episodes

Passive Aggression — Why “Keeping the Peace” Is Quietly Destroying You
Passive Aggression — Why “Keeping the Peace” Is Quietly Destroying You Aug 18, 2026 00:16:53 Passive aggressive behavior is not a communication problem. It is self-abandonment, and every fake yes you say to keep the peace builds the quiet resentment that is slowly destroying you and your relationship.In this video, trauma recovery and relationship coach Kenny Weiss breaks down why you can't say no, why people-pleasing always ends in resentment, and why the "nice" partner is
Radical Acceptance - How to Stop Waiting for Them to Change
Radical Acceptance - How to Stop Waiting for Them to Change Aug 11, 2026 00:20:32 Radical acceptance means you stop expecting them to change, ever. It is not approval and it is not surrender, it is how you stop waiting and finally get your peace back.In this video, trauma recovery and relationship coach Kenny Weiss explains how to practice radical acceptance with a partner, parent, or difficult family member who will never change, why the arguments you keep losing are reality a
Self Deception - Why You Lie to Yourself Before Anyone Else
Self Deception - Why You Lie to Yourself Before Anyone Else Aug 4, 2026 00:25:18 Self-deception is the lie you sell yourself before you ever sell it to anyone else. This is why you can be sincere and manipulative at the very same time, and how to finally catch it.In this video, relationship and trauma recovery specialist Kenny Weiss breaks down self-deception, the quiet form of lying to yourself that keeps high-functioning, emotionally exhausted adults stuck for decades. Throu
Why You Rage at Your Kids - It’s Not About Them
Why You Rage at Your Kids - It’s Not About Them Jul 28, 2026 00:22:26 Mom rage and dad rage are almost never about your kids. If you keep asking why am I so angry at my kids, the answer is unhealed pain from your own childhood coming out sideways, and it can be rewired at the root.In this video, trauma recovery and relationship coach Kenny Weiss explains why you rage at your children, how to control your temper with your child by healing the real source instead of s
Enabling Is Not Love - Why Helping Them Is Hurting Both of You
Enabling Is Not Love - Why Helping Them Is Hurting Both of You Jul 21, 2026 00:20:52 Enabling is not love. Taking the calls, offering the solutions, and reassuring them is co-abuse disguised as care, and handing the problem back is the most loving thing you can do for both of you.In this video, trauma recovery and relationship coach Kenny Weiss explains how to stop enabling a parent, adult child, or family member, why rescuing keeps both of you stuck in childhood roles, and the ex
Daddy Issues — The Father Blueprint Running Your Adult Relationships
Daddy Issues — The Father Blueprint Running Your Adult Relationships Jul 14, 2026 00:25:03 Daddy issues describe the specific signature of paternal emotional patterning that becomes the adult's template for safety, worth, authority, and intimacy, distinct from mommy issues in mechanism and adult expression.This video walks through what daddy issues actually are, why both sexes carry them, and the seven father patterns that map to seven specific adult signatures. If your inner critic
Why You're Crying for No Reason — The Body Catching Up on Old Pain
Why You're Crying for No Reason — The Body Catching Up on Old Pain Jul 9, 2026 00:13:05 Crying for no reason is the nervous system releasing emotion that the child was not allowed to express. This is not dysfunction, it is the body completing what was once incomplete. The tears are arriving on time, decades late.This video walks through why you are crying in parking lots, in showers, at commercials, in the arms of partners who did nothing wrong, and why your body is not malfunctionin
Victim Mentality: Why You Became the Victim Decades Ago
Victim Mentality: Why You Became the Victim Decades Ago Jul 7, 2026 00:18:12 If you have a victim mentality, you are not weak and you are not broken, and you are not doing it on purpose. This video explains why you chose the victim position decades ago in childhood, and the path back out.Victim mentality rarely starts in your current relationship or your divorce. It starts in childhood, when a small nervous system decides that if everything is its fault, at least it has th
Avoidant Attachment: Why You Sabotage Every Relationship You Want
Avoidant Attachment: Why You Sabotage Every Relationship You Want Jul 2, 2026 00:17:10 Avoidant attachment is not coldness, and it is not emotional unavailability, it is emotional unprotection. If you keep pushing away the people you most want to keep, this video shows you why it happens and the concrete steps to start healing it.Relationship and childhood trauma recovery specialist Kenny Weiss breaks down avoidant attachment as a survival pattern built in childhood, not a personali
Why Am I So Angry Over Little Things? The Fear Underneath
Why Am I So Angry Over Little Things? The Fear Underneath Jun 30, 2026 00:14:15 Why am I so angry over little things, and why does it seem to come out of nowhere? If anger management has never actually worked for you, this video shows you the fear hiding underneath your anger and how to release it instead of suppressing it.Relationship and childhood trauma recovery specialist Kenny Weiss explains why you get so angry over small things, why deep breathing and counting to ten c
Disorganized Attachment — When the Person You Need Is Also Dangerous
Disorganized Attachment — When the Person You Need Is Also Dangerous Jun 25, 2026 00:15:13 Disorganized attachment forms when the same caregiver is both the source of comfort and the source of fear, creating an adult nervous system that approaches and avoids in the same instant. This is the both-at-once wound.This video walks through what disorganized attachment actually is, why anxious and avoidant advice has never reached you, and how the pull-push dance in your love life was learned
Anhedonia — Why You Don't Feel Anything (And How to Get It Back)
Anhedonia — Why You Don't Feel Anything (And How to Get It Back) Jun 23, 2026 00:13:51 Anhedonia is not a chemical deficiency. It is the protective collapse of an emotional system that has been suppressing for too long. Feeling returns when the survival persona is gently dismantled and the Authentic Self is given permission to feel again.This video walks through what anhedonia actually is, why it usually arrives at the moment your life looks most successful, and why pushing harder i

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