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Reforged Marriage

Reforged Marriage

Giff Lasta 8 Episodes Sep 16, 2026

Reforged Marriage is a podcast hosted by Giff and Chad. They discuss topics related to Christian faith and masculine leadership. The show offers practical advice on building desire and strengthening marriage relationships. Each episode aims to help men grow in their roles as husbands and leaders.

Episodes

Dead Bedrooms & Mid-Life Awakenings
Dead Bedrooms & Mid-Life Awakenings Sep 16, 2026 01:20:12 For the first time, Giff, Chad, and Nejc are all in the same room. And with the Slovenian liquor flowing, the conversation gets pretty candid.In this special IRL edition of the Reforged Marriage Podcast, the guys talk dead bedrooms, midlife awakenings, and what it actually takes to become a man your wife desires again.Why can’t you negotiate desire? What happens when a man realizes his wife still
Should you ever refuse an offer of sex from your wife?
Should you ever refuse an offer of sex from your wife? Jul 27, 2026 00:43:40 Most men think saying no to sex is insane.If your marriage is struggling, shouldn't you take every opportunity you get?In this episode, Giff and Chad unpack why the ability to reject sex can actually be a mark of masculine abundance—not disinterest. They explore the difference between needing sex and enjoying it, why transactional intimacy kills desire, and how a man who isn't controlled by sexual
Why Christian Marriages Lose Attraction
Why Christian Marriages Lose Attraction Jul 12, 2026 01:30:15 When marriages struggle, most Christian advice focuses on better communication, more sacrifice, or simply trying harder.But what if the real problem runs deeper?In this conversation recorded live in Ljubljana, Slovenia, Giff Lasta sits down with Nejc Škoberne to explore a biblical vision of masculine leadership, attraction, responsibility, and marriage that challenges much of today's conventional
The Privileges Of Victimhood
The Privileges Of Victimhood Jun 19, 2026 01:30:52 In this conversation, Giff Lasta and Nejc Škoberne discuss the hidden privileges of victimhood, why so many men wait for someone else to save them, and how taking responsibility transformed Nejc's marriage, leadership, and sense of purpose.
Why Doesn't She Desire Me?
Why Doesn't She Desire Me? Jun 6, 2026 01:17:37 In this conversation with Benjamin Siter, I share how overcoming pornography addiction forced me to confront a deeper issue: my own passivity.We discuss masculinity, virility, marriage, leadership, desire, responsibility, and why many men unknowingly sabotage the very intimacy they long for.At the heart of the discussion is a simple but demanding idea:Own everything.Not because your wife is always
Should you tolerate disrespect from your wife?
Should you tolerate disrespect from your wife? Apr 6, 2026 00:41:40 Giff and Chad break down how trying to “correct” your wife’s behavior backfires—and what real leadership actually looks like. They unpack the difference between ultimatums and decisive action, why “holding her accountable” can be just ego in disguise, and how men reclaim respect by reclaiming their own point of origin.
Stop asking your wife for sex
Stop asking your wife for sex Apr 6, 2026 00:45:51 Many married men approach sex with their wives the same way: politely asking… and quietly bracing for rejection. Giff and Chad explain why that dynamic quietly kills attraction—and what to do instead. They discuss the fear many husbands feel when initiating, the difference between negotiating sex and inspiring desire, and why confidence, dignity, and leadership transform a marriage far more than “
Can you win a fight with your wife?
Can you win a fight with your wife? Apr 6, 2026 00:53:41 Giff and Chad explore the complexities of arguments in marriage, using a clip from the movie 'The Breakup' as a case study.
Is duty sex better than no sex?
Is duty sex better than no sex? Apr 6, 2026 01:11:11 Giff and Chad Collins kick off Reforged Marriage looking at “duty sex” vs. cultivating genuine desire. Drawing from years of coaching and Chad’s hard-won story, they explain why negotiated intimacy kills attraction—and how to rebuild your frame, purpose, and presence so your wife chooses you.

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