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Girl, Date the Good Guy ™ | Toxic Relationship, Breakup, Heartbreak, Broken Heart, Red Flags

Girl, Date the Good Guy ™ | Toxic Relationship, Breakup, Heartbreak, Broken Heart, Red Flags

Emily Jordan | Christian Mentor & Relationship Coach 81 Episodes Sep 16, 2026

Girl, Date the Good Guy is a Christian podcast for women healing from heartbreak and toxic relationships. Host Emily Jordan shares her own experiences and offers guidance on breaking unhealthy patterns, recognizing red flags, and recovering after a breakup. The show encourages listeners to surrender their pain to God and allow Him to heal broken places before pursuing a healthy, God-led relationship. Episodes focus on emotional wholeness, faith, and preparing for good relationships.

Episodes

What If You’re Looking for a Perfect Man Instead of a Good Man? | The Lie of Perfection in Love
What If You’re Looking for a Perfect Man Instead of a Good Man? | The Lie of Perfection in Love Sep 16, 2026 1845 What if the man you've been praying for doesn't look exactly like the man you pictured? What if you've been asking God for a perfect man… when He may be teaching you how to recognize a good man? Sis, this one is personal for me. Because I was demanding a perfect man when God gave me a good man. A man with a heart of gold. And I had to let God deal with my expectations, my checklist, and my idea of
What If God Says Go Before You’re Ready? Faith, Surrender & Taking the Next Step
What If God Says Go Before You’re Ready? Faith, Surrender & Taking the Next Step Sep 10, 2026 1458 What if God is asking you to move… but you don't feel ready? What if you're standing at the bottom of the staircase, asking God to turn on every light so you can see exactly where you're going? Sis… that's not how faith works. In this episode of Girl, Date the Good Guy, we're talking about what it really looks like to trust God when you don't have the whole plan. We start with Psalm 37:4 and the d
What If Love Means Letting Go? | The Truth About Holy Love
What If Love Means Letting Go? | The Truth About Holy Love Sep 3, 2026 1200 What if letting go isn’t giving up on love? What if sometimes, it’s the very thing God uses to teach you what love really is? Sis, there’s a difference between holding on because God told you to—and holding on because you’re afraid to release what you want. In this episode of Girl, Date the Good Guy, we’re talking about the uncomfortable truth of Holy Love: sometimes love requires surrender. Not c
What If He's Not the Bad Guy? | When Toxic Relationships Distort Good Love
What If He's Not the Bad Guy? | When Toxic Relationships Distort Good Love Aug 27, 2026 1082 What if the reason you can't recognize good love… isn't because something is wrong with him? What if your past is still speaking louder than what's happening right in front of you? Sis, let's talk about it. When you've been through a toxic relationship, betrayal, manipulation, heartbreak, or repeated disappointment, it can change the way you see love. You learn to look for the red flag. You questi
Boundaries Are Holy | Christian Dating, Red Flags & Knowing Your Worth
Boundaries Are Holy | Christian Dating, Red Flags & Knowing Your Worth Aug 20, 2026 1787 Sis… being a Christian does not mean being a doormat. And I know somebody needed to hear that. In this episode of Girl, Date the Good Guy, we’re talking about boundaries—and what it actually looks like to love people without allowing them to disrespect you. Because yes, we are called to love. Yes, we are called to forgive. Yes, we are called to extend grace. But grace does not mean giving people u
The Holy Pause That Changed Everything | Healing After a Breakup, Heartbreak & Toxic Relationships
The Holy Pause That Changed Everything | Healing After a Breakup, Heartbreak & Toxic Relationships Aug 13, 2026 2349 I’m back, sis. ❤️ After three months in a Holy Pause—a season of consecration, surrender, and getting quiet with God—I’m finally back behind the microphone. And I’m not coming back as the same woman who stepped away. In this episode, I’m opening up about what happened during those three months and sharing parts of my story I haven’t really talked about here before. I grew up in religion, spent yea
Nothing Changes If Nothing Changes: Breaking Cycles Through Surrender
Nothing Changes If Nothing Changes: Breaking Cycles Through Surrender Jun 17, 2026 744 Have you ever felt like you're walking in circles, repeating the same patterns, facing the same struggles, and wondering why nothing seems to change? In today's episode, I'm sharing a powerful lesson God has been teaching me during this season of consecration and surrender: Nothing changes if nothing changes. Through a personal conversation with my daughter, a question from a coworker, and my own
Where I’ve Been: My Season of Consecration, Obedience, and Hearing God Clearly
Where I’ve Been: My Season of Consecration, Obedience, and Hearing God Clearly May 13, 2026 504 In this intimate check-in episode of Girl, Date the Good Guy, Emily shares a heartfelt update after stepping away from the podcast for a season of consecration. If you’ve ever felt led to pull back, get quiet, and reconnect with God—but didn’t fully understand why—this conversation will meet you right where you are. Emily opens up about what the last few weeks have looked like behind the scenes: a
When God Calls You to Let Go and Enter a Season of Consecration
When God Calls You to Let Go and Enter a Season of Consecration Apr 22, 2026 620 Have you ever felt God asking you to let something go… and it didn’t make sense? In this deeply personal and Spirit-led episode of Girl, Date the Good Guy, we’re talking about what it really means to enter a season of consecration—when God calls you to step back, surrender control, and trust Him in the unknown. This isn’t about losing something. It’s about being refined, realigned, and prepared fo
Christian Breakup Healing: Reclaim Your Identity & Let Go of Toxic Labels
Christian Breakup Healing: Reclaim Your Identity & Let Go of Toxic Labels Apr 18, 2026 225 Who did you become in that relationship… and is that really who you are? In this Soothe Her Soul Saturday, we’re gently unpacking the identity you may have picked up in heartbreak—the labels, the self-doubt, and the quiet ways toxic love can reshape how you see yourself. Maybe you were called “too much.” Maybe you started to believe you were hard to love. Maybe you’re still carrying words that wer
How to Heal Your Identity After a Breakup (Breaking Toxic Relationship Labels)
How to Heal Your Identity After a Breakup (Breaking Toxic Relationship Labels) Apr 17, 2026 967 Have you ever looked in the mirror after a breakup and didn’t recognize the woman staring back at you? Toxic relationships don’t just break hearts… they blur identity. They slowly introduce lies like “I’m not enough,” “I’m too much,” or “I’m hard to love”—until you start questioning who you really are. In this episode of Girl, Date the Good Guy, we’re stepping into deep healing and restorati
Why You Keep Attracting Toxic Relationships (And How to Stop)
Why You Keep Attracting Toxic Relationships (And How to Stop) Apr 15, 2026 852 In this episode, we talk about the deeper reason you keep attracting toxic relationships—and how to finally break the cycle. This is for the woman who is tired of repeating the same patterns and ready to experience healthy, God-led love. By the end of this episode, you’ll walk away with clarity, conviction, and a new standard for what you allow. What You’ll Learn: How your identity influences wha

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