SIP with Summers
Welcome to SIP with Summers, a podcast hosted by Board Certified Sexologist, Certified Sex Coach, and Menopause Coach Jennifer Marie Summers. It uncorks conversations about sex, intimacy, and pleasure, aiming to empower women and couples to embrace their bodies. Episodes explore body positivity, sexual health education, navigating menopause, overcoming intimacy challenges, and spiritual growth. The show encourages sexual wellness and self-love through every season of life.
Episodes
033: Your Brain, Your Body & Your Bedroom with Dr. Robin Buckley
What if better sex has less to do with performance and more to do with what’s happening in your brain?I’m joined by clinical psychologist, executive coach, TED speaker, bestselling author, and couples coach Dr. Robin Buckley for a conversation about the psychology behind intimacy, confidence, communication, and connection.Dr. Robin combines her background in clinical psychology with cognitive beha
032: Are You Performing Intimacy? Roommate Marriages, Desire & Finding Yourself Again with Sandra Wood
What happens when your relationship looks perfectly fine from the outside, but inside, you feel disconnected, unfulfilled, or like you’re simply going through the motions?In this episode of SIP with Summers, Jennifer sits down with transformation coach and speaker Sandra Wood for an honest conversation about performative relationships, roommate marriages, sexual desire, body confidence, and the ha
031: Your Best Sex Might Still Be Ahead of You: Pleasure, Aging & Human Design with Linda Landon
What if your sexual prime isn't behind you, but still ahead of you?This week on SIP with Summers, I'm joined by life and intimacy coach Linda Landon, creator of the Ignite Method and author of Pleasure Past Fifty.Linda's own sexual awakening didn't happen in her 20s or 30s. It began in her 50s, after decades of shame, disconnection from her body, and believing she was "frigid.
030: From Roommates to Lovers: Why Desire Disappears & How to Bring It Back with Xanet Pailet
What happens when the person you love starts to feel more like a roommate than a lover?This week on SIP with Summers, I’m joined by sex and intimacy coach, bestselling author, and founder of Passionate Intimacy Retreats Xanet Pailet for a candid conversation about why desire disappears in long-term relationships and, more importantly, what couples can actually do to bring it back.Xanet knows this
029: Am I a Lesbian? Coming Out Later in Life, Desire & Starting Over After 40
What happens when your desire starts telling you a completely different story than the life you've built?Sarah Rutledge Fischer came out as a lesbian at 44 after nearly 20 years in a straight-appearing marriage. But her realization didn't happen overnight. For years, Sarah had quietly questioned her sexuality, pushed those thoughts aside, and continued doing what so many women are taught t
028: The Sex Clock: How Keeping Score Is Killing Your Desire with Dr. Lori Davis
What happens when one person wants sex more than the other?Mismatched desire is one of the most common struggles couples face, but the problem may not actually be how often you're having sex. It may be what happens when desire, rejection, pressure, fear, and keeping score start taking over the relationship.In this episode of SIP with Summers, Jennifer sits down with Dr. Lori Davis, a board-cer
027: How to Heal Emotional Wounds, Find Your Purpose & Build Healthier Relationships | Dr. Eleanor Haspel-Portner
Have you ever looked around and thought, "My life looks successful... so why do I still feel disconnected?"In this episode of Sip with Summers, I'm joined by Dr. Eleanor Haspel-Portner, psychologist, researcher, and creator of Noble Energy Maps®, to explore why so many people feel stuck even when everything appears fine on the outside.We dive into the connection between emotional wou
026: I Had 3 Boyfriends at Once... But This Conversation Is About So Much More | with Cidney G. Green
What if we've been asking the wrong questions about relationships?This week on SIP with Summers, I sit down with author, entrepreneur, and relationship disruptor Cidney G. Green for one of my favorite conversations yet.Yes, we talk about her experience having three boyfriends at the same time who all knew about each other. But this episode goes much deeper than polyamory.We explore emotional s
025: Why Your Attachment Style Follows You Into the Bedroom
Ever wonder why some people crave closeness after sex while others seem ready to grab a cheeseburger and move on?The answer might have less to do with chemistry and more to do with attachment.In this episode of Sip with Summers, I'm joined by attachment trauma practitioner and menopause specialist Bev Mitelman M.A. to unpack how our childhood experiences quietly shape our relationships, commun
024: How to Talk About Sex, Intimacy & Desire in Relationships with Sex Therapist Keri Green
Sex, intimacy, desire, communication... why are the most important relationship conversations often the hardest to have?In this episode of SIP with Summers, I sit down with licensed marriage and family therapist and AASECT-certified sex therapist Keri Green to talk about what really happens behind closed doors when couples stop communicating about sex.With more than 20 years of experience helping
023: Your Body Knows What It Wants: Reconnecting with Desire, Pleasure & Intimacy with Dr. Laura Jurgens
What if your libido isn't broken?In this powerful conversation, Jennifer sits down with desire gap specialist and somatic sex coach Dr. Laura Jurgens to explore why so many people feel disconnected from desire, pleasure, and intimacy, especially in midlife.Together, they unpack the difference between low libido and disconnection, why so many women have learned to live in their heads instead of
022: Pleasure Is Your Birthright: Reclaiming Desire, Safety & Feminine Power with Kayla Moore
What if low desire isn't the problem?What if feeling disconnected from your body, your pleasure, and your sexuality is actually a response to years of conditioning, stress, overwhelm, and disconnection?In this powerful conversation, I sit down with Feminine Liberation Coach and Priestess-in-Training Kayla Moore to explore the connection between pleasure, safety, desire, feminine power, and the
021: Sex, Good Sex, and Sacred Sex: Why Your Best Intimacy May Still Be Ahead of You
Is all sex created equal?In this thought-provoking conversation, Jennifer sits down with psychologist and relationship expert Dr. Bruce Chalmer to explore the difference between sex, good sex, and sacred sex, and why intimacy may be the missing ingredient many couples are searching for.Drawing from more than 30 years of experience working with couples, Dr. Chalmer explains why great sex isn't
020: How the “Good Girl” Archetype Is Secretly Killing Your Relationship
What if the very behaviors that made you feel lovable are the same ones disconnecting you from intimacy, desire, and authentic connection?In this powerful episode of SIP with Summers, Jennifer sits down with relationship and feminine embodiment coach Bella Krutik to unpack how “good girl conditioning” quietly shapes women’s relationships, boundaries, sexuality, and sense of self.Bella shares her d
019: Pleasure at Every Size: Reclaiming Desire, Confidence, and Connection in the Body You Have Now
Pleasure is not a reward. It is a right.Book a session | Join The Self Love Club | Ask me anything | Shop enhancement products | Shop TOYS! In this episode of SIP With Summers, we are talking about pleasure at every size and why your body, exactly as it is today, is already capable of deep, satisfying, toe-curling pleasure.If you have ever thought:• “I need to lose weight first.”
018: Ask the Sexologist: Painful Sex, Desire Mismatch, G-Spot Myths & More
Real, anonymous questions about sex, intimacy, pleasure, and everything we were never properly taught.Book a session | Join The Self Love Club | Ask me anything | Shop enhancement products | Shop TOYS! From painful sex without lube to why the G-spot can feel elusive, this episode is packed with practical, sex-positive education you can actually use. No shame, no fluff, just honest answers
017: Ask the Sexologist: Libido, Menopause, Orgasms, and Real Talk
Low libido. Stress. Menopause questions. Orgasms that feel impossible. If any of that sounds familiar, this episode is for you.Book a session | Join The Self Love Club | Elevated lubricant for 40+ women | Vulva balm | Ask me anything | Best intimate shaving cream | The Herpes Plug | Shop enhancement products | Shop TOYS! In this solo Q&A episode of SIP With Summers, board-certified sexologist
016: You Are Not Broken: Midlife Orgasms, Desire, and Menopause Care with Dr. Christine Hart Kress
Host: Jennifer Marie Summers, Board Certified Sexologist, Certified Sex Coach, menopause coach in trainingGuest: Dr. Christine Hart Cress, DNP, APRN, WHNP-BC, MSCP. CEO of a telemedicine practice for midlife and menopause care, Menopause Society Certified Practitioner, Air Force veteran, co-host of The Dusty Muffin.If your brain says “let’s get it on” but your body says “let me sleep,” this one’s
015: The Big O Decoded: Pleasure, Energy, and Orgasm Confidence with Dr. Stacy Friedman
Welcome to SIP with Summers, the show where we talk about sex, intimacy, and pleasure. Today I’m joined by clinical sexologist and intimacy coach Dr. Stacy Friedman, host of The Purple Passion Project. We get real about orgasms, sexual energy, and how to trade performance pressure for pleasure.In this episode you’ll learn:The differences between clitoral, vaginal, cervical, anal, and blended orgas
014: Unlocking Your Inner Drive: How Libido and Mindset Fuel Your Hustle
Ever feel like your hustle is stuck in neutral, no matter how hard you push? In this episode of SIP with Summers, I’m pulling back the sheets (literally and figuratively) to show you how your libido, mindset, emotions, body, and energy all work together to fuel your success, in and out of the bedroom.I share my own journey from toxic “think the worst” conditioning to a total mindset breakthrough t
013: Sexy Travel & Naughty Getaways: Exploring Clubs, Dungeons, and Hedonism with Will
Click here to connect with JenniferEver wondered what really happens behind the doors of sexy clubs, resorts, and dungeons? In this steamy episode of SIP With Summers, I’m joined by my favorite travel partner, my boyfriend Will, to spill the secrets of “sexy travel.”We dive into:The difference between sexy travel vs. sex tourism (and why it matters).Hedonism II in Jamaica: what makes it the “wild
012: Sex Coaching and Intimacy Growth with Amanda Vee
Join Jennifer Marie Summers, Board-Certified Sexologist and host of SIP with Summers, for a candid conversation with Amanda Vee, Board Certified Sex Coach and Sexologist. From her career shift into sex coaching to her mission of helping people reignite their passion, Amanda shares powerful insights into intimacy, relationships, and the journey of self-discovery.In this episode, you’ll learn:What s
011: Pleasure, Boundaries, and Self-Discovery
We’re back, baby! 🍷 In the first episode of Season 2 of SIP with Summers, I’m pulling back the satin sheets on my own journey... both as a certified sexologist and as a woman who’s done a lot of inner work (and, yes, outer adventures 😉).I’m spilling on my certification process, the beliefs about sex I had to unpack, the dating challenges that tested my emotional regulation, and even my wild, wonde
010: Pleasure, Parenting, and Perseverance: An Intimate Talk with Audrey Cruz
In this episode of 'Sip With Summers,' host Jennifer Summers chats with Audrey Cruz, co-host of the podcast Rule 42. Audrey shares her experiences as a single mother of seven, her journey from a challenging past to achieving her dream of homeownership, and her current entrepreneurial ventures. She discusses her open and honest approach to discussing sex and intimacy with her children and reflects
009: Navigating Dating & Intimacy Over 40 with Michele Thompkins
In this episode of 'Sip with Summers,' host Jennifer Summers, a soon-to-be certified sex coach and clinical sexologist, welcomes guest Michele Thompkins. Michele, a podcast host and CEO of Protégé Consulting, shares her experiences and challenges of dating over 40, the importance of mental stimulation, setting and communicating boundaries, and balancing casual and committed relationships. The conv
008: Unlocking Your Best Self in Relationships with Dr Kaitlyn Abadia
In this episode, we discuss how to approach dating with a healthy mindset, emphasizing the importance of self-love and understanding one's attachment style. In this episode, you'll learn: Attachment styles and why it is important to know about them in dating & relationships Anxious attachment style versus avoidant attachment as well as disorganized How to best advocate for your needs in a situ
007: World Sexual Health Day: Myths vs Facts
In this episode of 'Sip with Summers,' host Jennifer Summers, a future certified sex coach and clinical sexologist, addresses various sexual health myths and facts. She educates listeners on topics including pregnancy risks during menstruation, the importance of STI testing in all relationships, the benefits of condoms, and the true purpose of emergency contraception. Jennifer emphasizes the impor
006: Spilling the Tea on Love and Longevity with Byron & Margaret McKie
Join us for this insightful and funny chat with the amazing and fabulous Byron & Margaret McKie, married for 26 years, podcasters, and relationship coaches in training.In this episode, you'll learn: The importance of continuous communication. How to maintain friendship within the relationship. Relationships takes effort, not work! To be intentional about spending quality time together.Show Not
005: Spilling the Tea on Mind Mapping and Enneagram with Robyn McTague
Join us for this illuminating chat with the amazing and fabulous Robyn McTague, Engagement Catalyst and Coach.In this episode, you'll learn: About enneagram and the motivational map How to understand boundaries Why relationships are so challenging About conflict resolutionShow Notes: Connect with Robyn: A Life of Choice Coaching | Upcoming Events | Partner Conflict Resolution: The 5 Steps fo
004: Spilling the Tea on Sexual Health Myths with Holly Eckelberger
Join us for this enlightening conversation with the amazing and fabulous Holly Eckelberger AKA That Sex Educator, HIV prevention education specialist and sexual health content creator.In this episode, you'll learn: That sex isn't supposed to hurt (unless you want it to) The truth behind penis and vagina compatibility Why lubrication is so important, even if you have a WAP The issues around accessi
003: Q&A: Female-Bodied Concerns
Anonymous questions from our viewers! Let's dive into female-bodied concerns and ways to overcome them. Ask your own anonymous questions here: Ask Me AnythingFollow Jennifer on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/SelfMadeDivaVIPOr Instagram/TikTok: @theselfmadedivaEmail: DCPassionDiva@gmail.comSupport SIP with Summers! Leave an honest review. Your ratings and reviews help me impact more
002: Q&A: Couples Concerns
Anonymous questions from our viewers! Let's dive into couples concerns and ways to overcome them. Ask your own anonymous questions here: Ask Me AnythingFollow Jennifer on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/SelfMadeDivaVIPOr Instagram/TikTok: @theselfmadedivaEmail: DCPassionDiva@gmail.comSupport SIP with Summers! • Leave an honest review. Your ratings and reviews help me impact more lives! •
001: How I Became a Sexologist
The journey from sheltered kid to clinical sexologist! I'm here to help women and couples reclaim their pleasure and satisfaction. My mission is to empower you to love yourself fully and experience the best sex of your life. Follow Jennifer on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/SelfMadeDivaVIPOr Instagram/TikTok: @theselfmadedivaEmail: DCPassionDiva@gmail.comSupport SIP with Summers! Leave
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