Playing House
Playing House is a relationship podcast hosted by married couple Kolter Bouchard and Dominique Bouchard. Each episode blends comedy with practical relationship advice, aiming to help listeners keep their love life both sexy and secure. The hosts share personal stories and lessons from their own marriage, keeping the tone funny and candid rather than clinical. Links to the hosts' Instagram and TikTok accounts are included in the show notes.
Episodes
Talk Her Through It: How Couples Really Initiate Intimacy
When it comes to intimacy, is it hotter when you talk them through it or just take action? 👀In this episode of Playing House, Dom and Kolter break down the “When He Talks You Through It” trend, the different styles of initiation, and why verbal communication can make your sex life go from routine to unforgettable.We get real about:Go-to lines that get things started without saying “let’s have sex”
Pop The Balloon: Why First Impressions Don't Define Your Love Story
In this season 4 premiere of Playing House Podcast, Dominique and Kolter Bouchard dive into the fascinating world of first impressions and whether they truly matter in the grand scheme of love.We explore the viral "Pop the Balloon" dating concept, share our own (slightly embarrassing) first meeting story involving cowboy boots with no socks, and discuss when to give second chances versus
AMA: Our Kinks, Marriage, & Balancing Parenthood 👀🔥 | S3 Eps 20
🎉 Welcome to the Season 3 finale of 'Playing House'! In this special AMA episode, we dive deep into your burning questions—from spicing up our marriage post-parenthood to juggling the demands of entrepreneurship and family life. Ever wondered how we keep the romance alive while running a business and raising our daughter? Or how we handle the challenges of being both life and business part
What Happens After DIVORCE? | S3 Eps 19
This week on Playing House Podcast, we’re joined by the incredibly honest (and somehow still hilarious) Sam and Gen from @SamAndGenGotDivorced — the former couple turned co-hosts who are using their own breakup to help other people stay together.They’re walking us through the full journey:✨ How they met through church and fell in love✨ Why premarital counselling didn’t catch what was coming✨ The
Why Type A Personalities Struggle In Relationships | S3 Eps 18
🚨 TYPE A vs. TYPE B COUPLES – THE ULTIMATE SHOWDOWN! 🚨What happens when a Type A control freak (that’s Dom) and a Type B, ADHD chaos machine (that’s Kolter) build a life together? A whole lot of love, frustration, and hilarious moments. 🤯😂In this episode of Playing House Podcast, we dive into:✅ The joys and struggles of dating someone with ADHD✅ How to balance different personalities in marriage w
What is a High-Value Man? | S3 Eps 16
Everyone on the internet is talking about high-value men—but what does that even mean in 2025? Are we talking money? Muscles? The ability to parallel park on the first try? 🤔
In this episode, we’re breaking down:
🔥 What actually makes a man high-value
🔥 How to attract (and keep) one
🔥 Why some people treat “high-value” like it’s a damn job application
And honestly? Kolter is going along with whate
Breadwinner Battle: Who Really Runs the Relationship? | S3 Eps 15
Who brings home the bread (and who eats it first)? 🍞 In this hilarious and slightly spicy episode, we’re diving deep into the power dynamics of money in relationships. Does being the breadwinner make things weird in the bedroom? Should expenses really be split 50/50 when one partner’s income screams Range Rover, and the other’s says “maybe a used bike”? 🚲💸
We’ll unpack gender roles, financial equ
Body Positivity Secrets Nobody Talks About | Playing House S3 Eps 14
This week, we’re getting real about something that might make you squirm a little: being naked in front of your kids. Yep, I’m officially a “naked mom,” and I’m here to tell you why that’s not as wild as it sounds. Kolter and I dive into the connection between how we see our own bodies and how that shapes the way our kids grow up seeing theirs. Spoiler alert: it’s more important than just walking
Anniversary WISDOM I Wish I Knew 10 Years Ago | S2 Eps 13
We made it—10 years of marriage, and we're spilling the tea on everything we've learned! 🎉 In this episode of Playing House, we dive into the highs, the lows, and the lessons from a decade together. How do you keep the spark alive when you're juggling kids, careers, and life? What's the secret to staying connected even when the honeymoon phase is long gone?
Join us as we share our funniest moment
Dream Big: 2025 Goal Planning with Your Partner! | S3 Eps 12
🎯 Manifest Goals & Get Closer in 2025 | New Year Planning for Couples 🎯
We're diving deep (and keeping it sexy) as we map out our relationship and personal goals for 2025. If you and your partner want to level up your love life while chasing big dreams, this episode is for you.
From cozy couch planning sessions to vision board dates, we’re breaking down real-life examples of how we set goa
Relationship Check-In: Are We Actually Evolving? | S3 Eps 11
🎙️ THE CHECK-IN EPISODE: Deep Questions & Deeper Connections | End of Year Reflection 2024 🎙️
Ready to get real with your partner? We’re wrapping up 2024 with the ultimate relationship glow-up—think heart-to-hearts, laughs, and maybe a little over-sharing. This episode is packed with the kind of check-in questions that bring you closer (and spark some end-of-year magic).
📌 What’s on the tabl
What Happens When You Stop Giving Gifts in a Relationship? | S3 Ep 10
🎄 'Tis the season for gift-giving anxiety! Join us (your favorite married hosts) as we unwrap the truth about presents in relationships. From hilarious gift-giving disasters to heartwarming holiday memories, we're diving deep into what really matters when it comes to showing love during the festive season.
In this jolly episode, we're sharing our personal journey as a couple navigating the pressu
Relationship Podcast That Changed Everything Forever (One Year Later) | S3 Eps 9
🎉 CELEBRATING ONE YEAR OF PLAYING HOUSE! 🎉
Join us for this special anniversary episode of Playing House Podcast where we're taking you on a hilarious journey through our favorite moments, biggest surprises, and most emotional revelations from the past year! From our humble beginnings as the "Hood Twins" to becoming your favorite relationship podcast couple, we're spilling all the tea on what it'
The Dos and Donts of Checking Your Partner's Phone | S3 Eps 8
🔥 Setting Healthy Boundaries in Relationships | Relationship Advice | Dating Tips
In this episode of our relationship podcast, we dive deep into setting and maintaining healthy boundaries in relationships. Join hosts Dom and Kolter Bouchard as they share personal experiences and practical advice on:
✓ Understanding personal boundaries in relationships
✓ How to communicate boundaries effectively w
My Husband's Hair Transplant Results | S3 Eps 7
Join us for a candid and intimate conversation about hair transplants, confidence, and relationships! In this episode, Kolter opens up about his recent hair transplant journey at the renowned Este Nove clinic in Istanbul, sharing the emotional and physical aspects of his transformation. We're joined by the incredible Dr. Mehmet, who breaks down everything you need to know about hair transplants, m
Financial Red Flags in Relationships 🚩 | Season 3 Eps 6
💸 Financial Red Flags in Relationships: Expert Advice from Danica Nelson 🚩
In this eye-opening episode, we dive deep into the world of financial compatibility in relationships with finance and travel educator Danica Nelson. Discover essential tips for spotting financial red flags and building a strong foundation for your financial future as a couple.
🎙️ Episode Highlights:
- Navigating big tran
Scatter Brain - How ADHD Impacts Our Relationship | S3 Eps 5
Ever wondered what it's like to navigate a relationship when one partner has ADHD?
In this video, we explore:
🧠 The challenges and surprises of an adult ADHD diagnosis
💬 How ADHD impacts communication and emotional connection in relationships
💊 The pros and cons of medication vs. "raw dogging" ADHD
🤝 Practical solutions for managing daily life together
❤️ Ways to support your partner and maintain
Fighting Fair in Relationships | Season 3 Eps 3
🔥 Feeling hot under the collar? Ready to unleash your inner fire-breathing dragon? Hold up, Khaleesi! Before you burn down the kingdom, check out our latest episode where we discuss how to keep your cool when things get heated with your partner. 🧊
Join us, your favorite relationship creators Dom and Kolter, as we navigate the treacherous waters of high-emotion conversations. We're serving up some
Would You Get Remarried If I was Gone? | S3 Eps 2
Would you want me to move on if I passed away?
The idea of discussing death isn't particularly sexy or enjoyable. Despite it's inevitably death is still such a taboo topic. We sit down with palliative care doctor, Dr. Nadine Persaud to discuss planning and grieving - the only way we know how, with a whole lot of humor! Nadine has been in the Hospice Palliative Care field for about 16 years, and ha
Creating With Your Partner: Featuring Amber and Ben Wallin | S3 Eps 1
🍵 Get ready to spill the tea with Amber & Beyn Wallin! ☕
In this episode of Playing House, we're diving into the wild world of creating content with your partner. Kolter and Dominique are joined by the dynamic duo behind that plant-filled Instagram empire you can't stop scrolling through. 📱🌿
We're talking:
💼 How to navigate the blurry lines between business partners and life partners (witho
How to Survive Your In-Laws | S3 Eps 4
We recognize that the intro part of this episode aged like milk...
🎙️ In this vulnerable episode of our podcast, we sit down with a very special guest - Kolter's father! Join us as we dive deep into the intricacies of family dynamics, parenting, and navigating the sometimes tricky waters of in-law relationships.
🏠 Discover valuable insights on:
- The joys and challenges of raising children
- Buil
The EXPERT Guide to Raising Mixed-Race Kids Without Identity Crisis
Join Dominique and Kolter Bouchard as they dive into the complex world of raising mixed-race children in this eye-opening episode of Playing House. Featuring special guest Dr. Jennifer Noble, a psychologist and coach for parents of mixed-race kids, this episode explores the struggles and beauty of navigating multiple identities.
Key topics include:
- Common challenges faced by mixed-race children
My Husband Opens Up About His Insecurities
Would you view your partner opening up about his insecurities as sexy or as emasculating? On this episode of Playing House podcast Dominique and Kolter Bouchard discuss the far too often untapped world of men’s insecurities. Kolter gets honest about one of his insecurities and his upcoming trip to Turkey for a hair transplant. Diving into how impactful acknowledging and talking through insecuritie
Humor's Impact on Relationships: The Funny Side of Love
If you can make her laugh and giggle you can make them cheeks clap and jiggle. On this episode of Playing House Podcast Dom and Kolter Bouchard discuss humor’s impact on relaitonships. Exploring how a shared sense of humor can strengthen bonds, ease tensions, and tips on how to incorporate more humor into the everyday.
Welcome to the Playing House Podcast, the show about keeping your relationship
Intimacy Beyond the Physical in Relationships
Is sex the ultimate form of intimacy?
On this episode of Playing House podcast Dominique and Kolter Bouchard dive into the different types of non-physical intimacy, practical exercises and tips they’ve used to increase non-physical intimacy, and some of their favourite ways to initiate sex.
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Why Can't Married Men Have Female Friends?
Why can’t married men have female friends?
On this episode of Playing House podcast, Dominique and Kolter Bouchard dive into have close friends of the opposite sex or the sex that you’re attracted to, when you’re in a longterm relationship. At what point is sharing details about your relationship disrespectful?
Have a question that you’d like Dominique and Kolter Bouchard to answer on the podcas
The Impact of Hygiene on Relationships: A Deep Dive Discussion
Am I the a**hole for not telling my partner that their personal hygiene sucks?Personal hygiene impacts relationships as much as it impacts us individually. Without prioritizing personal hygiene, environmental hygiene and mental hygiene - you’re not respecting yourself or your partner.On this episode of Playing House Podcast, Dominique and Kolter Bouchard discuss building a skincare regimen, menstr
Does Having Kids Kill The Vibe In Relationships?
Does the decision to have kids mean no longer having time for passion for one another?
On this episode of Playing House podcast Dominique and Kolter Bouchard discuss their journey into parenthood, the decision, the surprises and the learnings. They chat about their fears and challenges when being parents, and the resilience they’ve tried to show.
Have a question that you’d like Dominique and Kol
Is My Partner Too Emotional?
What the hell does it mean to allow a woman to be in her feminine energy?On this episode of the Playing House podcast Dominique and Kolter Bouchard discuss the power of vulnerability in relationships, taking turns being the little spoon, and some of their favourite non-sexual ways to connect.
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I’m a Christian Who Married an Atheist - here’s what happened
Can two people who don’t share the same faith have a successful relationship, let alone a happy marriage?
On this episode of the Playing House podcast Dominique and Kolter Bouchard discuss what it’s like dating and ultimately marrying outside of their religions. From where their spiritual beliefs differ and common grounds they’ve found, and how they approach spirituality while raising their daugh
Is the 7-year itch real?
Is the 7-year itch real?
On this episode of Playing House podcast Kolter Bouchard and Dominique Bouchard discuss sustaining long-term satisfaction in their over 15-year relationship. Is monogamy an old-school concept that we need to move on from? And after almost a decade of marriage, how do they keep the flame alive?
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Couples Therapist answers your relationship questions
How do you know when it’s time to introduce couples therapy into a relationship? What are the telltale signs that a relationship just isn’t going to make it?
On this episode of the Playing House Podcast, Dominique and Kolter Bouchard speak with couples therapist Roxanne Francis. Roxanne dives into some of the hurdles that couple’s face when deciding to seek counselling, answers your submitted que
Embracing sexuality with your partner
Preferences change over time so it's important for couples to be open and flexible in embracing sexuality. Playing House Podcast hosts Dominique and Kolter Bouchard discuss:
Fetishization vs Preference;
Sexual Shame, including their Catholic schooling experiences and Dom's journey being raised in the Christian church;
Communicating sexual desires with your partner;
And embracing new di
He Quit His Job?!
In this episode: my husband is a unemployed bum, lovers/friends/and business partners, and we tried grits for the first time - now we’re ready to move!
Kolter Bouchard and Dominique Bouchard kickoff season 2 of Playing House podcast with a new set and a new outlook as Kolter celebrates his first month after he quit his job and focused on his mental health!
On this episode, the couple discusses wha
Gender Roles in Relationships
Was Harrison Butker right? Have women been told a diabolical lie about their true roles in society? No, that man is an idiot. But it is important to deconstruct our views on binary gender roles in society and how they may also be playing out in our romantic relationships.
On this episode of Playing House Podcast, Dominique and Kolter Bouchard discuss traditional marriage roles, what is a “high va
Relationship Non-negotiables
Is it fair to your partner to have non negotiables in relationships? Is it fair to yourself not to?
On this episode of Playing House Podcast, Dominique and Kolter Bouchard discuss navigating non negotiables in relationships, the ridiculous rules that that set out for their dream partners, and what some of the non neogtiables in their marriage look like today.
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Should Introverts Marry Extroverts?
Does getting married mean the end of individuality? On this episode of Playing House Podcast Dominique and Kolter Bouchard discuss:
- what maintaining individuality in their marriage looks like;
- if they believe that couples actually take a break, and;
- introverts marrying extroverts.
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Interracial Relationships
Do interracial couples have a lot more to consider before deciding to commit? Cultural differences in relationships can either be a beautiful learning journey or a deal breaker depending on how it’s handled.
On this episode of Playing House Podcast Dominique and Kolter Bouchard dive into their shared and individual experiences as an interracial couple. From interracial challenges including online
Fixing Communication Breakdowns in Relationships
Have you ever considered your partner’s communication style or even your own? From overwhelming each other with text messages, never being on the same page about budgeting, to figuring out how to initiate sex - communication breakdowns in relationships can ultimately be deal breakers if not dealt with properly.
On this episode of Playing House Podcast, Dominique and Kolter Bouchard discuss navigat
Your Butt Got Bigger
You know what they say about a healthy, happy relationship - weight gain is a sure giveaway that you’re in one! But what if the weight gain doesn’t stop? What if it bothers your partner? What if it bothers YOU?
On this episode of the Playing House podcast, Dominique and Kolter Bouchard discuss healthy relationship weight gain; From meeting as scrawny 18-year-olds to getting thick on purpose (and n
Compromising in Relationships
They say that all good relationships require compromise but what is healthy compromise in a relationship?
On this episode of Playing House podcast, Dominique and Kolter Bouchard discuss finding common ground, when to stand firm vs when to compromise, and how they aim to avoid resentment in their marriage.
The couple shares their personal experiences with learning to become flexible and finding
Couples Therapy (Mental Health and Mental Illness)
Is couple’s therapy a pitstop before divorce? Your mental health directly impacts your relationships; romantic, platonic, and most importantly, with yourself. So how can couple’s navigate prioritizing their individual mental health or receiving a mental illness diagnosis? How do you tell the person that you’re in a relationship with that you’re concerned about their mental health?
On this episode
How to Say Sorry
What makes an apology good? Many of us haven’t learned how to apologize in a way that is authentic and heartfelt. Even more of us haven’t learned how to accept an apology that allows us to forgive while still setting healthy boundaries, acknowledging the wrongdoing.
On this episode of Playing House podcast, Dominique and Kolter Bouchard discuss the art of apologizing and forgiving, saying I’m Sor
What's Your Love Language?
Love Languages and Compatibility, loving your partner the way that THEY want to be loved, and learning to settle arguments.
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Sex Before Marriage
How does a church girl transition into her womanhood and own her sexuality? Exploring the theme of Saving Room For the Holy Ghost (0:08:52), on this episode of the Playing House podcast Dominique and Kolter Bouchard discuss Dom’s (often tumultuous) church upbringing, sexual shame, and approaching womanhood differently now as a mom. Kolter delves into his belief system and the importance of raising
Couples Budgeting and Finance
Managing money as a team can be both rewarding and challenging. Do you have a joint bank account or do your baking separately? How do you budget as a couple? What is your financial compatibility. And does being the breadwinner matter?
Kolter and Dominique have real-life stories and practical advice to help you and your partner build a strong financial foundation.
Let us know in the comments: you
Parenting Equity (with Jeena & Drue Wilder)
Is equal parenting possible? We host our first guests on the Playing House Podcast; Jeena and Drue Wilder from @HeyThereWilders! We discuss positive parenting tips, navigating your partner’s love language, interracial marriage, and the age-old question - “How do you keep the flame alive in a marriage after all these years?”
We’re so excited to host our first guests on the podcast, and to take the
Co-Dependant vs Inter-dependant Relationships
Finding a healthy balance in relationships, the podcast is going international, and is there a good kind of clingy?
Also: Kolter gets the results from his cancer scan.
Plus: establishing healthy boundaries in relationships. How can we improve in this area?
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0:00:00 - Value: men versus women
0:01:00 - Intro & Check-In
0:03:55 - Kolter's scan res
Shared Vision
Kolter & Dominique Bouchard discuss getting a cancer scan, sharing a vision for 2024, and increasing intimacy outside of the bedroom.
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We Did That Sh!t
Kolter & Dominique Bouchard discuss celebrating accomplishments no matter the size, where goals end and the gravy begins, and building upon success.
Plus: Dominique reveals the five-year plan she wrote in 2010 when she and Kolter started dating.
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Navigating Family During Holidays
Kolter & Dominique Bouchard discuss juggling family visits around the holidays, rules for successful family gatherings, and hooking up while you’re staying with family.
Plus: three rules for successful family gatherings.
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Balance in Relationships
Kolter & Dominique Bouchard discuss prioritization, support systems, and communication with your partner. Plus:
How do you prefer to handle gift-giving, and what are your thoughts on the importance of exchanging gifts in our relationship?
How can we support each other in maintaining a healthy balance between festive activities and self-care during this season?
How do you balance gender roles as
Maintaining Individuality | Playing House ep 4
Playing House Podcast: Episode 4 || Relationship Podcast
Kolter & Dominique Bouchard discuss remaining true to yourself within a relationship. Plus, personal hobbies and interests, setting boundaries, and fostering independence. And voice notes from listeners!
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Weaponized Incompetence
Kolter & Dominique Bouchard discuss Beyonce's Renaissance movie, debate the right time to buy a child a tablet, and address questions you should be asking before moving in with your partner. Plus: kids on leashes? And, as always, reading your comments, questions, and concerns.
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Half Your Age Plus Seven
Kolter & Dominique Bouchard debate age gaps, the "tradwife" lifestyle, and escaping your family during the holidays. Plus: who fell in love first? Plus PLUS: reading your comments!
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Hood Twins
Kolter & Dominique slam spanking, debate child-free weddings, and shop desperate Black Friday sales before planning a date and reading your comments.
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