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Cultivating H.E.R. Space: Uplifting Conversations for the Black Woman

Cultivating H.E.R. Space: Uplifting Conversations for the Black Woman

iHeartPodcast 416 Episodes Sep 18, 2026

In a world where black women are often underrepresented and misunderstood, we need more safe spaces to just… be. Every Friday, join Dr. Dom, a college professor and psychologist, and Terri Lomax, a techie and motivational speaker, as they initiate authentic conversations on everything from fibroids to fake friends. If you’re a Black woman looking for an extra dose of inspiration on the go, pull up a seat and join us on the Cultivating H.E.R. (Healing, Empowerment, Resilience) Space podcast.

Episodes

Do Healthy Relationships Have to Look Traditional?
Do Healthy Relationships Have to Look Traditional? Sep 18, 2026 3195 Lady! Are you in the mood for love but feeling allergic to shared finances, living together, and faking the funk of marital bliss? Don’t worry lady, this isn’t an episode for the lovestung cynics, it’s an ode to the changing nature of romantic relationships. Whether you eschew marriage altogether or you welcome long-term partnership but on your terms, we are thankfully in a time
Navigating Mean Girl Culture at Work
Navigating Mean Girl Culture at Work Sep 11, 2026 3292 Hey lady! This week Dr. Dom and Terri discuss a touchy but necessary subject – how to deal with the office bully, especially when the office bully looks like you. By now we all know that being a mean girl is wack, late, and played out, but it is still a reality for some people in the office. So, how do you, as a grown woman with tools and skills, deal with those sticky, tricky, and often nua
Thriving with Depression | TBT
Thriving with Depression | TBT Sep 10, 2026 2006 Life is good...like REALLY good. In fact, it’s LIT. You’re “blessed and highly favored.” To the casual observer, everything on the outside appears to be wonderful. But on the inside...you feel empty. Lady, is this you? If so, you may be experiencing depression. What we know for sure is that ALL of us will experience symptoms of depression related to many normal life events
Coming Home to Your Body - Cultivating a Healthy Sexual Relationship With Yourself | MINISODE
Coming Home to Your Body - Cultivating a Healthy Sexual Relationship With Yourself | MINISODE Sep 4, 2026 1359 Lady! We talk a lot about loving yourself, and developing a deep relationship with yourself, and building a healthy practice of self-acceptance and devotion to oneself, but we typically keep it PG. Today, Dr. Dom and Terri talk about self-love holistically. Yes, lady, this week Dr. Dom and Terri discuss why deepening your relationship to your body and your pleasure is critical to you walking out i
Reducing Shame and Stigma Around STDs with Dr. Joy Cooper | TBT
Reducing Shame and Stigma Around STDs with Dr. Joy Cooper | TBT Sep 3, 2026 2589 Lady, before you make plans with your boo for the weekend, you may want to listen to this episode. This week Terri and Dom welcome Dr. Joy Cooper back for a much-needed conversation. In this week's throwback episode, the ladies dive into a different topic related to our gynecological health...STDs and STIs. If you remember what you learned in the sex-ed class in high school and the pamphlet in you
The Accountability We Avoid How Owning Your Part Can Set You Free | MINISODE
The Accountability We Avoid How Owning Your Part Can Set You Free | MINISODE Aug 28, 2026 1331 Lady! Take a deep breath because this week Terri and Dr. Dom are about to bring it to you. A major part of growing and expanding is being present enough to be aware and accountable for your ish. That’s right, you can only go as deep with someone as you’ve gone with yourself. That means, are you having honest conversations with yourself that allow you to identify and address the areas w
Signs That You're The Toxic One in the Relationship | TBT
Signs That You're The Toxic One in the Relationship | TBT Aug 27, 2026 3037 Lady, when was the last time you took a long hard look in the mirror to examine the negativity you may bring to your relationships? We know that doing so requires hard work and often a level of vulnerability that some of us will readily avoid. In today’s throwback episode, Terri and Dom offer us ways to identify when and why we are the toxic ones in our relationships. They also share some of
Why We Need to Protect Children’s Peace | MINISODE
Why We Need to Protect Children’s Peace | MINISODE Aug 21, 2026 960 Lady! If you’ve noticed by now the unofficial theme for this year is community. How to build it, how to engage with it, and how to be responsible with it. As we continue to expand our understanding of what it means to be in community with others, we have to keep our most vulnerable in mind. That’s right, how are we helping the babies and the young people navigate the world? This week,
Boundary Violations You Might Be Crossing That Are Impacting Your Relationships | TBT
Boundary Violations You Might Be Crossing That Are Impacting Your Relationships | TBT Aug 20, 2026 2177 We all know what it feels like when someone violates our boundaries but how do we know when we are the boundary violator? Have you ever... offered unsolicited advice? Gossiped? Said what you would do if you were in someone’s situation? Asked personal questions? Interrupted someone in the middle of a conversation? Touched someone’s hair? Touched someone on the shoulder? Asked a coworker
Why Confident People Make People Uncomfortable | MINISODE
Why Confident People Make People Uncomfortable | MINISODE Aug 14, 2026 1061 Hey lady! When you see someone you perceive as having great confidence do you seethe with envy or do you admire them and wonder how you can get some of your own motion? This week, Terri and Dr. Dom break down why Black women who exude confidence and self-assuredness get so much hate thrown their way. In today’s popular culture it seems as if you step out into the public eye with high self-re
Beyond Shyness: How to Face Your Social Anxiety Fears | TBT
Beyond Shyness: How to Face Your Social Anxiety Fears | TBT Aug 13, 2026 2270 Quote of the Day: "Connection: the energy that exists between people when they feel seen, heard, and valued; when they can give and receive without judgment; and when they derive sustenance and strength from the relationship." - Brene Brown    In this throwback episode we're entering the fall as we embark on the last quarter of the year! This means holiday season is approaching and
What a Bad Weekend Taught Me About Resilience | MINISODE
What a Bad Weekend Taught Me About Resilience | MINISODE Aug 7, 2026 1186 Hey lady! Storytime! This week, Terri recounts how one fun weekend turned into an important lesson on the power of perspective. Dr. Dom offers sage guidance in transforming difficult situations into opportunities to build your capacity and resilience. The key to growth is continuing to adapt to life’s ever present challenges and having the tools to be resilient in the face of adversity &ndas

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