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Cultivating H.E.R. Space: Uplifting Conversations for the Black Woman

Cultivating H.E.R. Space: Uplifting Conversations for the Black Woman

iHeartPodcast 416 Episodes Oct 9, 2026

In a world where black women are often underrepresented and misunderstood, we need more safe spaces to just… be. Every Friday, join Dr. Dom, a college professor and psychologist, and Terri Lomax, a techie and motivational speaker, as they initiate authentic conversations on everything from fibroids to fake friends. If you’re a Black woman looking for an extra dose of inspiration on the go, pull up a seat and join us on the Cultivating H.E.R. (Healing, Empowerment, Resilience) Space podcast.

Episodes

The In Between of Who I Was and Who I Am
The In Between of Who I Was and Who I Am Oct 9, 2026 3677 Lady, by now you know the most uncomfortable part of your becoming is just that, the discomfort. The next version of you requires a shedding of all of the ways that kept you safe because those ways are likely now what are keeping you small. Knowing that doesn’t make the actual act of shifting your life any easier, which is why Terri and Dr. Dom stop by this week to offer some comfort and a f
When Dimming Your Light Holds You Back | TBT
When Dimming Your Light Holds You Back | TBT Oct 8, 2026 2017 In today’s episode, Dr. Dom and Terri help us understand how we may be dimming our light through real-life examples. Now is the time for us to stop playing small and start “Shining, Shining, Yeah!”Quote of the Day:"Your playing small does not serve the world. There's nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. We were born to make mani
Who’s Holding You? The Hidden Weight of Adulthood
Who’s Holding You? The Hidden Weight of Adulthood Oct 2, 2026 2885 Lady, this week Dr. Dom and Terri ask you one very important question: who is holding you? When the days get long, and the load is overwhelming, are you the only person you can rely on? If that sounds familiar then grab your favorite throw blanket, get cozy and let this episode swaddle you in self-care and self-compassion. There are many factors why the strong friend often gets overlooked when it&
10 Reminders for When Adulting Gets Ghetto | TBT
10 Reminders for When Adulting Gets Ghetto | TBT Oct 1, 2026 3207 Lady! We know that not only are we living in interesting, unprecedented times but we’re also just living our regular lives and sometimes life be lifin’. Life is beautiful, abundant, and generous but it can also be raggedy, harsh, and tough. As much as we love being a part of the toolkit that helps keep you uplifted, you know that we always keep it real. That’s why in this week's
Awkward vs. Misunderstood – Why First Impressions Aren’t Always Right
Awkward vs. Misunderstood – Why First Impressions Aren’t Always Right Sep 25, 2026 2837 Hey lady! Have you ever been accused of being stuck-up, shy, rude, or flat-out a b*tch and you were simply existing? Other people’s projections land on you and suddenly you have a reputation for being anti-social or awkward while anxiety is beating your butt and you’re doing your best not to show it. Or, maybe you’re the one pre-emptively judging someone for their demeanor, creat
Showing Up Before You're Ready | TBT
Showing Up Before You're Ready | TBT Sep 24, 2026 3583 Hey lady! Is there something on your heart, an idea you really want to get off of the ground, and you’re just waiting for the right time? Are you aware that there is no time like the present? Sure, maybe you’ve heard that old adage plenty of times, but it’s true. The only way to get better or even gauge where you are in the process is to start. In this week's throwback episode, D
Do Healthy Relationships Have to Look Traditional?
Do Healthy Relationships Have to Look Traditional? Sep 18, 2026 3195 Lady! Are you in the mood for love but feeling allergic to shared finances, living together, and faking the funk of marital bliss? Don’t worry lady, this isn’t an episode for the lovestung cynics, it’s an ode to the changing nature of romantic relationships. Whether you eschew marriage altogether or you welcome long-term partnership but on your terms, we are thankfully in a time
Navigating Mean Girl Culture at Work
Navigating Mean Girl Culture at Work Sep 11, 2026 3292 Hey lady! This week Dr. Dom and Terri discuss a touchy but necessary subject – how to deal with the office bully, especially when the office bully looks like you. By now we all know that being a mean girl is wack, late, and played out, but it is still a reality for some people in the office. So, how do you, as a grown woman with tools and skills, deal with those sticky, tricky, and often nua
Thriving with Depression | TBT
Thriving with Depression | TBT Sep 10, 2026 2006 Life is good...like REALLY good. In fact, it’s LIT. You’re “blessed and highly favored.” To the casual observer, everything on the outside appears to be wonderful. But on the inside...you feel empty. Lady, is this you? If so, you may be experiencing depression. What we know for sure is that ALL of us will experience symptoms of depression related to many normal life events
Coming Home to Your Body - Cultivating a Healthy Sexual Relationship With Yourself | MINISODE
Coming Home to Your Body - Cultivating a Healthy Sexual Relationship With Yourself | MINISODE Sep 4, 2026 1359 Lady! We talk a lot about loving yourself, and developing a deep relationship with yourself, and building a healthy practice of self-acceptance and devotion to oneself, but we typically keep it PG. Today, Dr. Dom and Terri talk about self-love holistically. Yes, lady, this week Dr. Dom and Terri discuss why deepening your relationship to your body and your pleasure is critical to you walking out i
Reducing Shame and Stigma Around STDs with Dr. Joy Cooper | TBT
Reducing Shame and Stigma Around STDs with Dr. Joy Cooper | TBT Sep 3, 2026 2589 Lady, before you make plans with your boo for the weekend, you may want to listen to this episode. This week Terri and Dom welcome Dr. Joy Cooper back for a much-needed conversation. In this week's throwback episode, the ladies dive into a different topic related to our gynecological health...STDs and STIs. If you remember what you learned in the sex-ed class in high school and the pamphlet in you
The Accountability We Avoid How Owning Your Part Can Set You Free | MINISODE
The Accountability We Avoid How Owning Your Part Can Set You Free | MINISODE Aug 28, 2026 1331 Lady! Take a deep breath because this week Terri and Dr. Dom are about to bring it to you. A major part of growing and expanding is being present enough to be aware and accountable for your ish. That’s right, you can only go as deep with someone as you’ve gone with yourself. That means, are you having honest conversations with yourself that allow you to identify and address the areas w

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