Bobo's Void

the case for dating a sociopath (full episode) May 8, 2026 00:58:40 👉 Enjoyed this episode? There’s way more unfiltered, unhinged, and uncensored content on our Patreon. Click here to join the community and spiral with us: Patreon.com/Bobosvoid Follow us on Instagram/TikTok/Youtube @bobos.void Email us love letters (or hate mail): bobosvoidpod@gmail.com----------------------------------------------------------------------Today we have two dilemmas: a man who loves

a practical guide to surviving your 20s and 30s (full episode) Dec 10, 2025 01:04:00 👉 Enjoyed this episode? There’s way more unfiltered, unhinged, and uncensored content on our Patreon. Click here to join the community and spiral with us: Patreon.com/Bobosvoid Follow us on Instagram/TikTok/Youtube @bobos.void Email us love letters (or hate mail): bobosvoidpod@gmail.comokay so your 20s are for making mistakes and your 30s are for finally understanding them. In this episode, we bre

does adhd make you a bad partner? Jul 9, 2025 00:37:09 👉 Enjoyed this episode? There’s way more unfiltered, unhinged, and uncensored content on our Patreon. Click here to join the community and spiral with us: Patreon.com/Bobosvoid Follow us on Instagram/TikTok/Youtube @bobos.void Email us love letters (or hate mail): bobosvoidpod@gmail.comin this episode, Bobo finally admits that she does, in fact, have adhd. we talk about what adhd actually is (not

the social constructs ruining ur life Jun 29, 2025 00:54:10 👉 Enjoyed this episode? There’s way more unfiltered, unhinged, and uncensored content on our Patreon. Click here to join the community and spiral with us: Patreon.com/Bobosvoid Follow us on Instagram/TikTok/Youtube @bobos.void Email us love letters (or hate mail): bobosvoidpod@gmail.comromantic love? made up. monogamy? propaganda. childhood innocence? invented by rich people with too much free tim

the politics of friendship (teaser) Jun 8, 2025 00:07:08 👉 If you liked this episode, imagine what we say when we think no one’s listening. To hear the full conversation, click here: https://www.patreon.com/posts/130972336?pr=trueFollow us on Instagram/TikTok/Youtube @bobos.void Email us love letters (or hate mail): bobosvoidpod@gmail.comthis week, we talk about why friendships get messy so quickly - and why you’re no longer (and could never possibly st

the absolute horrors of being rich (full episode) May 28, 2025 00:51:12 👉 Enjoyed this episode? There’s way more unfiltered, unhinged, and uncensored content on our Patreon. Click here to join the community and spiral with us: Patreon.com/Bobosvoid Follow us on Instagram/TikTok/Youtube @bobos.void Email us love letters (or hate mail): bobosvoidpod@gmail.comThis week we ask the unthinkable: what if rich kids have it worse? We explore why happiness might actually belong

how to reach enlightenment in a recession (teaser) Apr 7, 2025 00:04:20 Trump’s tariffs tanked the economy. AI is coming for your job. Capitalism is coughing blood. So we did the only logical thing: gave up and started painting. In this episode, we talk about surrender, art, tariffs, religion and the weird mental clarity that comes when you stop trying to win a game designed to kill you.👉 Hear the full spiral on PatreonFollow us on Instagram/TikTok/Youtube @bobos.void

your stuff is making u miserable (full episode) Sep 30, 2024 00:52:01 👉 Enjoyed this episode? There’s way more unfiltered, unhinged, and uncensored content on our Patreon. For the price of one sad iced coffee a month, you can fund our existential spiral: Patreon.com/BobosvoidFollow us on Instagram/TikTok/Youtube @bobos.voidEmail us love letters (or hate mail): bobosvoidpod@gmail.comThis week we're talking about clutter (aka all the stuff in your house). The proc

does setting boundaries make u a bad person? (teaser) Sep 26, 2024 00:05:30 👉 If you liked this episode, imagine what we say when we think no one’s listening. To hear the full conversation, click here, where the unfiltered chaos livesFollow us on Instagram/TikTok/Youtube @bobos.voidEmail us love letters (or hate mail): bobosvoidpod@gmail.com

love or transaction? (hard to tell these days) Jun 17, 2024 01:09:59 👉 Enjoyed this episode? There’s way more unfiltered, unhinged, and uncensored content on our Patreon. For the price of one sad iced coffee a month, you can join the community and fund our existential spiral: Patreon.com/BobosvoidFollow us on Instagram/TikTok/Youtube @bobos.voidEmail us love letters (or hate mail): bobosvoidpod@gmail.comWould you still crave romantic love if no one had ever told yo

heated debate with new AI chatbot (teaser) May 31, 2024 00:18:32 👉 If you liked this episode, imagine what we say when we think no one’s listening. To hear the full conversation, click here, where the unfiltered chaos livesFollow us on Instagram/TikTok/Youtube @bobos.voidEmail us love letters (or hate mail): bobosvoidpod@gmail.comEpisode Summary:this week we're arguing with Chat GPT's new AI chatbot and the results are not pretty. let us know what you t

how to be an adult (teaser) Mar 29, 2024 00:08:34 hello sweet peaches,👉 If you liked this episode, imagine what we say when we think no one’s listening. To hear the full conversation, click here, where the unfiltered chaos livesFollow us on Instagram/TikTok/Youtube @bobos.voidEmail us love letters (or hate mail): bobosvoidpod@gmail.comThis week we're talking about what it really takes to set aside our childish ways and grow into full sized ad

should we have kids? parenting and the pursuit of perfection Mar 13, 2024 00:20:15 👉 Enjoyed this episode? There’s way more unfiltered, unhinged, and uncensored content on our Patreon. For the price of one sad iced coffee a month, you can fund our existential spiral: Patreon.com/BobosvoidFollow us on Instagram/TikTok/Youtube @bobos.voidEmail us love letters (or hate mail) bobosvoidpod@gmail.comhelp us decide if we are 'good enough' to bring bring sentient life into this

do we need religion to survive? Feb 29, 2024 00:12:46 hello sweet pumpkins, this week we're talking about the ways that secularism has failed us. we talk about the utility of religion and the implications of its absence. we imagine what a new religion might look like, and where the future of spirituality is headed.

when should you cut off your family? Feb 9, 2024 00:24:38 hello sweet peaches, this week we're talking about family! we talk about the new age rejection of family (as shown by anti-baby protests in south korea), and the rise of the DINKS (or DINKWADs, for those with dogs). We question whether the constructs of marriage and the nuclear family are outdated, And; we answer the age old question: how do you deal with difficult family members?let us know

reimagining therapy Nov 25, 2023 00:38:40 thank you for watching! for the full episode, click here: https://www.patreon.com/posts/reimagining-92627398?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=postshare_creator&utm_content=join_link This week we explore the question: what would healing look like in a world that values mental wellbeing? we discuss some of the (macro and micro) obstacles that get in the way of a

genocide is bad (a controversial episode) Oct 17, 2023 00:26:02 to watch the full episode, click here: https://www.patreon.com/posts/why-genocide-is-91146640?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=postshare_creator&utm_content=join_link thank you for watching!

are you in a trauma bond? Oct 7, 2023 00:18:15 hello sweet peaches, this week we're talking about all the insidious ways trauma shows up and slowly corrodes loving relationships. we discuss some of the signs that you're in a trauma bond as well as the ways society and its institutions encourage (and even glorify) these toxic dynamics.

how to not f*ck up your kids Sep 12, 2023 00:32:31 hello sweet angels,this week's episode is about parenting! we take an in-depth look at all the ways parents traumatize their kids, and what it really means to be a good parent.we talk about re-parenting ourselves and what the future of parenting looks like. LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE HERE https://www.patreon.com/posts/how-to-not-f-ck-89176960?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink

barbie and the gender wars Aug 10, 2023 00:20:14 hello sweet angels,here is our review of the barbie movie! we talk about barbie's analysis of the human condition, gender and her very (futile) pursuit of freedom.let us know your thoughts in the comment section below! for more fun videos like this, please support us on patreon at www.patreon.com/bobosvoid SUBSCRIBE TO THIS PODCAST https://open.spotify.com/show/4JaUYskqSSD3dXXngWbgwx?si=142d

your mind is ruining your life Jul 28, 2023 00:26:45 did you enjoy this episode? to watch the full episode, click here: https://www.patreon.com/posts/your-mind-is-86813214?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=postshare_creator&utm_content=join_link for more fun videos like this, please support us on patreon at www.patreon.com/bobosvoid SUBSCRIBE TO THIS PODCAST https://open.spotify.com/show/4JaUYskqSSD3dXXngWbgwx

jonah hill, therapy talk, and the moral dilemma of body count expectations Jul 16, 2023 00:11:48 hello my sweet mangoes,this week we're talking about the Jonah hill shenanigans, the tragedy of therapy talk (has therapy ruined an entire generation), and the absurd (but maybe quite reasonable) expectations we've developed as a culture around dating.as usual, let us know what you think! did you enjoy this episode? to watch the full episode, click here: for more fun videos like this, pl

the submersible disaster, and other musings about white people Jul 1, 2023 01:20:08 did you enjoy this episode? for more fun videos like this, please support us on patreon at www.patreon.com/bobosvoid SUBSCRIBE TO THIS PODCAST https://open.spotify.com/show/4JaUYskqSSD3dXXngWbgwx?si=142d5562dc9f4fcf KEEP UP WITH US https://www.instagram.com/bobos.void/ https://www.tiktok.com/@bobosvoid KEEP UP WITH DONAVON https://www.instagram.com/donavon.mp3

should love be easy? Jun 6, 2023 00:15:30 did you enjoy this episode? to watch the full episode, click here: for more fun videos like this, please support us on patreon at www.patreon.com/bobosvoid SUBSCRIBE TO THIS PODCAST https://open.spotify.com/show/4JaUYskqSSD3dXXngWbgwx?si=142d5562dc9f4fcf KEEP UP WITH US https://www.instagram.com/bobos.void/ https://www.tiktok.com/@bobosvoid KEEP UP WITH DONAVON https://www.instagram.com/donavo

the friendship recession May 26, 2023 00:17:12 hello sweet mushrooms,this week's episode is all about friendship (or rather, the friendship recession that we've found ourselves in)we talk about how to cope with outgrowing friendships. the ideological divides that end friendships, and the way space can be used to either facilitate or disrupt healthy friendships.as usual, we'd love to hear your thoughts!and most importantly, we hope

how to not let money ruin your relationships May 22, 2023 00:23:36 hello sweet mushrooms!in this episode, we delve into the intricate world of navigating money in intimate relationships. Money matters can often stir up emotions, ignite conflicts, or even strengthen the bond between partners.Join us as we uncover the secrets, challenges, and strategies that couples face when it comes to financial dynamics.the name of the show we referenced in the episode: 'Ho

are selfish people happier? May 12, 2023 00:58:50 did you enjoy this conversation? for more videos like this every week, please support us on patreon at www.patreon.com/bobosvoid SUBSCRIBE TO THIS PODCAST https://open.spotify.com/show/4JaUYskqSSD3dXXngWbgwx?si=142d5562dc9f4fcf KEEP UP WITH US https://www.instagram.com/bobos.void/https://www.tiktok.com/@bobosvoid KEEP UP WITH DONAVON https://www.instagram.com/donavon.mp3https://twitter.com/Don

unpacking the epidemic of situationships Mar 18, 2023 00:16:32 first - im so sorry about my voice!! it turns out i have a lung infection (but didn't want to give yall nothing), so I hope you can still hear me- if not, there are subtitles available in the video!but anyway, this week we're talking about situationships! specifically - why are they so common?we talk about all the forces: economic, social and cultural, that have made situationships so comm

dealing with existential anxiety (teaser) Mar 10, 2023 00:22:01 👉 If you liked this episode, imagine what we say when we think no one’s listening. To hear the full conversation, click here, where the unfiltered chaos livesFollow us on Instagram/TikTok/Youtube @bobos.voidEmail us love letters (or hate mail): bobosvoidpod@gmail.comEpisode Summary:this week, we're spiraling! we talk about the new AI movie 'M3GAN,' and we talk about what it really mean

[debate] should we give everyone free money? unpacking the pros and cons of UBI Mar 4, 2023 00:19:08 hello sweet angels, this week, we're back with a debate episode! The topic: Is UBI the bad bitch she claims to be? would our lives be better or worse if we eradicated labour and just gave everyone free money? But more importantly, we discuss what the most important elements are in creating a life worth living. as usual, let us know your thoughts! did you enjoy this episode? to watch the full ep

are you psychic or just mentally ill? Feb 25, 2023 00:14:43 hello sweet pumpkins, this week we're talking about our minds ... and all the weird and wonderful things it does to cope with reality. are you psychic/gifted/spiritually attuned ... or just mentally ill? and where do we draw the line between spirituality and psychosis? we talk about the ways that illness is socially and culturally defined by the environments that mold us. we unpack the reasons p

why white people don't season their food, and other musings about art Feb 11, 2023 00:43:59 hello sugarplums! this week, we present to you our brand new segment: show and tell! we talk about some of our favourite tv shows at the moment and discuss whether art can be a tool for healing (or worsening) trauma. we unpack the role of religion as an art form and get into a debate with mango about reparations. let us know, do you like this new segment? if you have any specific art pieces (sh

can men and women ever be friends? Feb 1, 2023 00:20:44 hey sweet mushrooms! this week, we're unpacking an age-old question: can men and women *really* be just friends? we talk about the state of gender relations, the madonna-whore complex, the horrors of marriage, and lastly, we interrogate all of the ways society undermines our ability to have harmonious romantic, sexual and platonic relationships. did you enjoy this episode? to watch the full episo

can AI save humanity from climate change? Jan 24, 2023 00:23:08 did you enjoy this episode? to watch the full episode, click here: https://www.patreon.com/posts/chatgpt-ai-and-77624694?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=postshare_creator&utm_content=join_link    for more fun videos like this, please support us on patreon at www.patreon.com/bobosvoid   SUBSCRIBE TO THIS PODCAST https://open.spotify.com/show

answering your questions l emotionally unavailable men Jan 16, 2023 00:11:20 this week, we're unpacking your dilemmas. In this particular dilemma, we talk about why so many women end up with emotionally unavailable men. we unpack this problem from an evo-psych perspective, a trauma perspective and a socio-political perspective. hope you enjoy! if you enjoyed this video, please consider supporting us on patreon, www.patreon.com/bobosvoid   to watch the full episode,

who is your soul mate? Dec 31, 2022 00:18:49 hello sweet angels, this week we're talking about soul mates! what is a soul mate and why do we need one (or so desperately long for one)? we unpack our deeply existential desires for safety, understanding and intimacy, and how that relates to (our equally) deeply existential desire to bring life into the world. we interrogate the extent to which our deepest impulses are 'natural' vs 'toxic' an

the reality of turning 30 Dec 23, 2022 00:22:07 to watch the rest of the episode, click here:  https://www.patreon.com/posts/76158672   if you enjoyed this video, please consider supporting us on patreon, www.patreon.com/bobosvoid   keep up with us here: https://linkin.bio/bobos.void  Follow us on instagram at www.instagram.com/bobos.void   Follow us on TikTok at www.tiktok.com/@bobosvoid Hello sweet peaches! this week’

how to stay together Dec 2, 2022 00:40:37 to listen to the full episode, click here: https://www.patreon.com/posts/how-to-stay-75261511?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=postshare_creator&utm_content=join_link keep up with us here: https://linkin.bio/bobos.void  Follow us on instagram at www.instagram.com/bobos.void   Follow us on TikTok at www.tiktok.com/@bobosvoid hello sweet peaches this w

getting to the root of mental illness Nov 8, 2022 00:24:50 thanks for watching! click here to watch the full video https://www.patreon.com/posts/getting-to-root-74390330?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=postshare_creator  if you enjoyed this video, please consider supporting us on patreon, www.patreon.com/bobosvoid   keep up with us here: https://linkin.bio/bobos.void  Follow us on instagram at www.instagr

why does god let bad things happen? Oct 7, 2022 00:14:21 hello sweet aliens! get your edibles out! this week we spiral. we try to get to the bottom of who started the big bang, and most importantly why?? we discuss the big question: which is more significant - your birth or your death? and we unpack god's relationship with the devil. do they hate each other or do they love each other? i would love love love to hear your thoughts down below. TO LISTEN

is cheating an act of love? Sep 24, 2022 00:20:36 hello sweet jellybeans! following the adam levine controversy, this week we take a deep dive into the act of infidelity. can cheating ever be morally justified? can we take the conversation further and argue that cheating can *sometimes* be an act of love, or is it always abhorrent??   we talk about the role of honesty in our romantic relationships and discuss the extent to which honesty stre

social media and the death of friendship Sep 16, 2022 00:11:31 TO LISTEN TO THE REST OF THE EPISODE, SUBSCRIBE TO MY PATREON: www.patreon.com/bobosvoid SUBSCRIBE TO THIS PODCAST https://open.spotify.com/show/4JaUYskqSSD3dXXngWbgwx?si=ao_M9xMdTPu-fZiK341UbA KEEP UP WITH US https://www.instagram.com/bobos.void/ https://www.tiktok.com/@bobosvoid KEEP UP WITH DONAVON https://www.instagram.com/donavon.mp3 https://twitter.com/Donnynnon BONUS EPISODE THIS WEEK! (wo

roasting queen elizabeth for 35 minutes Sep 12, 2022 00:13:07 this one is pretty self-explanatory lmao. hope you enjoy! TO LISTEN TO THE REST OF THE EPISODE, SUBSCRIBE TO MY PATREON: www.patreon.com/bobosvoid SUBSCRIBE TO THIS PODCAST https://open.spotify.com/show/4JaUYskqSSD3dXXngWbgwx?si=ao_M9xMdTPu-fZiK341UbA KEEP UP WITH US https://www.instagram.com/bobos.void/ https://www.tiktok.com/@bobosvoid KEEP UP WITH DONAVON https://www.instagram.com/donavon.mp3

where do we go after we die? Dec 30, 2021 00:10:18 hello sweet sugarplums! today's episode is all about the afterlife! Donavon and i discuss our theories and anxieties on life after death, the purpose of existing in a skin suit, and we answer the ultimate question: is death an end to suffering or a continuation of suffering? I'd love to hear your comments down below! :) TO LISTEN TO THE REST OF THE EPISODE, SUBSCRIBE TO MY PATREON: www.patreon.c

lessons we learnt from magic mushrooms Sep 21, 2021 00:23:42 welcome to our most trippy episode yet !! in this episode, we delve into the neurochemical effects that psychedelics have had on our brains. we talk about the lessons we've learnt, particularly the importance of forgiveness. we also explore the idea of violence and how it intersects with justice. and so much more!! TO LISTEN TO THE REST OF THE EPISODE, SUBSCRIBE TO MY PATREON: www.patreon.com/bob

am i too broken to find love? Aug 31, 2021 00:18:07 In this episode we talk about human fallibility and the effects of trauma on our ability to give and receive love. We deconstruct the idea of ~feeling broken~ and the way it’s been socialized into us through capitalism. We talk about decommodification as a means of feeling whole, but most importantly as a means of feeling mentally stable .... and so much more!! would love to hear your thoughts do

have we destroyed our capacity to love? Aug 20, 2021 00:27:37 in this episode, we talk about modern love and all the ways it intersects with politics. we explore the age-old question "is love political?" we talk about all the things that sustain love, as well as the things that undermine it. we differentiate between healthy love and unhealthy love. we dissect whether or not love is *actually* subjective and we imagine the possibility of a universal idea of l

the problem with safe spaces Jul 1, 2021 00:35:44 in this episode, i chat with donavon about cancel culture, safe spaces and the role of the artist during ecological/political/social collapse. TO LISTEN TO THE REST OF THE EPISODE, SUBSCRIBE TO MY PATREON: www.patreon.com/bobosvoid SUBSCRIBE TO THIS PODCAST https://open.spotify.com/show/4JaUYskqSSD3dXXngWbgwx?si=ao_M9xMdTPu-fZiK341UbA KEEP UP WITH ME https://www.instagram.com/bobo.matjila/ https:

love is humble Feb 7, 2021 00:14:02 new episodeeeee :) in this episode, i expand on the idea of healthy love being boring, and by extension, the idea that a healthy life is a humble and simple life. not one marked by extravagance or excellence. just one that is characterized by banal simplicities and the ability to be content with the the ordinary. i hope u enjoy my ramblings ! please share with me your thoughts on what healthy lo

the inherent whiteness of psychology and therapy Jan 8, 2021 00:30:41 whew - here's an extra long episode with friend and psychology/philosophy enthusiast Mbali! We talk in depth about the intersection of psychology and white supremacy. We discuss african spirituality and whether or not it can exist alongside whiteness. AND; we unpack what black, brown and indigenous people can do to survive, and even better, thrive, in spite of all the whiteness we're forced to liv

is god a narcissist? Dec 23, 2020 00:33:44 this week's episode is extra spiraly, thanks to my lovely guest, Michael (who you'll probably recognize from the discord). We talked about everything from the illusion of shared/objective reality,  the meaning and purpose of human beans and we get down to unpacking whether or not God loves or cares about us. enjoy!! Find Michael in the discord (Bobo's void) or find him on instagram: Instagra

the sorrows and pleasures of romantic love Dec 17, 2020 00:23:12 this week, i have a veryyy in-depth, insightful and (painfully) honest conversation with Lave Gallo, about the pleasures and sorrows of romantic love. we talk about the inherent incompatibilities between cis-het men and women. we talk about the tension between desire and stability. AND; we discuss all the various ways that love takes forms in ways that are both healthy and unhealthy. All of this a

growing up in a cult Nov 18, 2020 00:33:54 this week's episode is sooo juicy! I talk to donavon about his experience of growing up in a cult and how that's shaped his music, politics, and relationship to self and death. We talk about the benefits and downfalls of religion and cults. And; we dissect the psychology of people who join vs people who start cults.  enjoy!  TO LISTEN TO THE REST OF THE EPISODE, SUBSCRIBE TO MY PATREON:

the life of a sex worker Nov 10, 2020 00:20:36 I had a great conversation with two sex workers: one has a disability and the other is able-bodied. We talked about everything from body autonomy, sex as a form of resistance against white supremacist patriarchal capitalism, the distinction between sex for work and sex for pleasure, stigma, the pursuit of pleasure & meaning, the illusion of purity and so much more! TO LISTEN TO THE REST OF TH

is love inherently painful? Oct 24, 2020 00:30:09 here's an episode i really enjoyed!! we talk about meaning and how it relates to the ways in which we all need and want to be loved. we also discussed how suffering intersects with love and whether or not love IS inherently suffering. enjoy! TO LISTEN TO THE REST OF THE EPISODE, SUBSCRIBE TO MY PATREON: www.patreon.com/bobosvoid SUBSCRIBE TO THIS PODCAST https://open.spotify.com/show/4JaUYskqSSD3

black capitalism and the pursuit of success? ft. Najma Sharif Oct 2, 2020 00:35:47 this week we're talking about success! what does it look like, what does it feel like ... and is it actually attainable?? we talk about blackness, afropessimism and what success really looks like for black people. enjoy!   TO LISTEN TO THE REST OF THE EPISODE, SUBSCRIBE TO MY PATREON: www.patreon.com/bobosvoid KEEP UP WITH NAJMA: https://twitter.com/overdramatique https://www.instagram.com/o

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