How Married Are You?
Glen, known from Beleaf in Fatherhood, and his wife Yvette host a weekly podcast where they share their real-life experiences as parents and a married couple. They discuss the ups and downs of parenting and marriage, offering an honest and relatable perspective.
Episodes
Couple asks us if they should keep their baby #HMAY Ep. 296
A listener writes in with an urgent dilemma.After years of financial hardship, layoffs, relocation, and navigating life as a stay-at-home mom, she discovers she's unexpectedly pregnant with baby number two. While she and her fiancé always wanted more children, they planned to wait until life felt more secure.Now they're wrestling with difficult questions:Can you afford to have another chil
Cheating on your pregnant wife is Crazy! HMAY Ep.295
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Email Lead to My Husbands Confession #HMAY Ep. 294
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Should We Stay Connected to Family That Hurts Us? #HMAY Ep. 293
This week on How Married Are You?!, we respond to a follow-up email from a wife trying to rebuild connection in her marriage while navigating exhaustion, cultural expectations, difficult in-law dynamics, and the weight of carrying too much for too long.Resources & LinksDonate to Theo's Hockey Team: Cash App: $BeleafyVenmo: @MrsMelanin Ember mug Yvette Loves 🍵💍https://bit.ly/4lfn38iMentor C
Waiting on God Is Harder Than We Thought #HMAY Ep. 292
We dive into a powerful listener message from a wife and mother walking through a difficult season in marriage, financial pressure, and the challenge of waiting on God when the next step isn’t clear. Resources & LinksEmber mug Yvette Loves 🍵💍https://bit.ly/4lfn38iMentor Couple Wait List 🫂🖤https://forms.gle/VcUDRgf6km9kHWEK7Release Rest Remain 📖✨https://a.co/d/ihBmSdOFather Yourself First 📘🔥htt
This is a hard one #HMAY Ep. 291
We discuss our relationship with church.Resources & LinksEmber mug Yvette Loves 🍵💍https://bit.ly/4lfn38iMentor Couple Wait List 🫂🖤https://forms.gle/VcUDRgf6km9kHWEK7Release Rest Remain 📖✨https://a.co/d/ihBmSdOFather Yourself First 📘🔥https://www.amazon.com/Father-Yourself-First-Everything-Deserves/dp/1400252555Yvette’s Email List 💌🌿https://yvettehenry.com/join-the-listRelease Rest Remain Bible
Our Kids Are Running Us… And We Had to Address It #HMAY Ep.290
What started as a simple morning turned into a full-blown meltdown, a parenting debate, and a real conversation about how we show up for each other.Resources & LinksEmber mug Yvette Loves 🍵💍https://bit.ly/4lfn38iMentor Couple Wait List 🫂🖤https://forms.gle/VcUDRgf6km9kHWEK7Buy Girl Scout Cookies from Anaya 🍪💛https://digitalcookie.girlscouts.org/scout/anaya778725Release Rest Remain 📖✨https://a.c
He Feels Right… But He Won’t Choose Me #HMAY Ep.286
After leaving a 7-year toxic relationship, she did the work to heal, grow, and become more secure in herself. Then she met a man who seemed like everything she prayed for. He’s consistent, grounded in faith, emotionally present, and makes her feel safe in ways she’s never experienced before. Their connection feels deep, intentional, and healing. But there’s one problem… He still won’t commit.Resou
Christian Women Give Terrible Marriage Advice #HMAY Ep.289
A wife writes in feeling overwhelmed, unsupported, and unsure if her marriage is even worth saving anymore. Two kids. Financial pressure. Emotional exhaustion. And a husband who… won’t step up.Resources & LinksEmber mug Yvette Loves 🍵💍https://bit.ly/4lfn38iMentor Couple Wait List 🫂🖤https://forms.gle/VcUDRgf6km9kHWEK7Buy Girl Scout Cookies from Anaya 🍪💛https://digitalcookie.girlscouts.org/scout
You WILL Project Your Past Onto Your Partner. #HMAY Ep. 288
How do you keep your past from ruining your present?In this episode,,we respond to a newlywed wrestling with a real question: How do you not project what you saw growing up onto your marriage?And the truth is… you probably will.We talk about:Why projection is almost unavoidable in relationshipsHow to recognize when it’s happeningThe difference between your partner’s behavior vs. your past woundsWh
He Told The Church About Our Threesome #HMAY Ep. 287
How many chances is too many?In this conversation, we unpack what real repentance actually looks like, how to tell the difference between healing and just covering things up, the warning signs you shouldn’t ignore, and how to know when it’s time to stay—or walk away.Patreon Segment: The real behind-the-scenes of life on the road—plumbing issues, locked doors, unexpected breakdowns, and the mental
TOO ATTACHED TO HIS GRANDMOTHER #HMAY Ep. 285
She said, “This is the best relationship I’ve ever had…”No drama. No toxicity. Just peace.But his family depends on him for everything.Now she’s wondering…Am I building a future with him or inheriting a responsibility I’m not ready for?Real question:Can love grow when pressure is already this heavy?Resources & LinksEmber mug Yvette Loves 🍵💍https://bit.ly/4lfn38iMentor Couple Wait List 🫂🖤https:
He Said He Wasn’t Ready… Then She Blocked Him (Now He Wants Her Back) #HMAY Ep. 284
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Love vs Conviction: Should She Give Up Drinking for Marriage? #HMAY Ep. 283
In this video, we respond to a real question from a woman whose boyfriend, a church leader, told her he couldn't marry someone who drinks alcohol, even occasionally.Should she give up something she doesn’t personally believe is wrong in order to honor the man she loves and hopes to marry?Or is that the kind of change that must come from personal conviction, not relationship pressure?If you’ve
He Betrayed me but I Love Him! #HMAY Ep. 282
In episode 282 of @howmarriedareyou, a 30-year-old listener shares how @Beleafmel and @MrsMelanin helped her believe marriage was possible, after growing up surrounded by divorce and broken relationships. She did the work. Therapy. Self-help. Healing her anxious attachment. She became secure, confident, grounded.Then she met a man who felt “too good to be true.”Two and a half years later, after ph
Perfectionist Husband vs “Just Do It” Wife #HMAY Ep. 281
What do you do when you and your spouse want the same outcome… but you can’t agree on the way to get there? 😩🤍In Episode 281, a newlywed writes in with a marriage tension that feels small at first… until it affects everything: perfection vs progress.She’s the type who believes action brings clarity. Even a “no” teaches you what you need for the next attempt. Her husband is the type who wants thing
He’s Rebuilding His Life After Divorce…Should He Stay Single? #HMAY Ep. 280
What do you do when you’re rebuilding your life after divorce… and wondering if you should do it alone? 💔➡️🏗️❤️In Episode 280, a recently divorced listener writes in asking a vulnerable question: should he focus entirely on rebuilding himself — financially, emotionally, and spiritually — or should he actively pursue a relationship with someone who can help him build his life alongside him? 🤔After
My Fiancée Doesn’t Trust Me Around Other Women
What do you do when your partner’s “boundaries” start feeling like control?In Episode 279, a listener writes in about being engaged to a woman who reacts strongly anytime other women are around. On a group trip, she told him to keep his distance from one woman she believed was staring at him. When that same woman ended up sitting next to him in an Uber, his fiancée texted him to move his legs away
I Keep Praying God Removes Him… But He’s Still Here #HMAY Ep. 278
What do you do when you keep praying for God to remove someone… and they’re still here?In Episode 278, a listener writes in about dating a man who came in strong — intentional, consistent, saying all the right things, and claiming his goal was marriage and family. But once she finally became his girlfriend, the effort disappeared. No thoughtfulness. No intentional dates. Barely any engagement. He
My Husband Turned MAGA and and I’m Struggling to Stay #HMAY Ep. 277
What do you do when the person you married starts sounding like someone you never would’ve chosen?In Episode 277, a 21-year-old listener writes in about getting married at 19… and feeling like her husband is unrecognizable now 😔.They bonded over faith, culture, and shared values — even agreeing they’d never become “patriots.”But after he joined the military and found community in a new environment
The One That Got Away…Is Back #HMAY Ep. 276
Have you ever had a “what if” person… and you can’t tell if it’s God’s timing or an emotional trap?In this episode, a listener writes in about a seven-year friendship that keeps circling back into something deeper. They’ve never kissed, she’s been abstinent for five years, and now — for the first time — their timing finally aligns to explore a relationship. But she’s torn: he’s warm, patient, and
I Want Friends, He Wants Peace #HMAY Ep. 275
In this episode, we talk honestly about something we’re still learning how to navigate in our own marriage: celebration, hosting, and friendship.We unpack a real disagreement between us — one where gathering people, creating moments, and hosting feels meaningful and necessary to one of us, while the other experiences those same moments as pressure, disruption, and emotional overload. Neither of us
Married, Lonely, and Afraid to Talk About It #HMAY Ep. 274
In this episode of How Married Are You, we respond to a listener email from a newly married wife who’s quietly struggling with loneliness. Between long work hours, late nights, exhaustion, and limited time together, she’s worried this season might become their new normal — and she doesn’t want to come across as ungrateful or like a nag for wanting more connection.We talk honestly about marriage se
Young Thug Thinks Therapy Makes Him “Less of a Man”
Happy Holidays, y’all! As the year comes to a close, we’re taking a short break from our regularly scheduled podcast episodes to rest, reset, and be present. As a little holiday gift, we’re sharing a conversation from the Patreon vault that you may have missed. If you enjoy conversations like this, join us on Patreon for weekly bonus conversations after every podcast.In this Patreon vault episode,
Who You Marry Is Not Who You End Up With
Happy Holidays, y’all! As the year comes to a close, we’re taking a short break from our regularly scheduled podcast episodes to rest, reset, and be present. As a little holiday gift, we’re sharing a conversation from the Patreon vault that you may have missed. If you enjoy conversations like this, join us on Patreon for weekly bonus discussions after every podcast.In this vault conversation, Glen
Did I Romanticize My Husband? #HMAY Ep. 273
This episode centers on one big listener question: Did I romanticize my husband — and overlook red flags while dating? A newly married listener from South Africa writes in just three months after the wedding, struggling with harsh words during conflict, old wounds resurfacing, and the fear that she may have confused spiritual compatibility with true emotional safety. We unpack what “gentleness” sh
Are We Unequally Yoked? #HMAY Ep. 272
This episode dives into one major listener question: Are we unequally yoked? A 31-year-old Christian single mom writes in, deeply in love and preparing for engagement — but scared that her Protestant faith and her partner’s Eastern Orthodox roots might create cracks later. We unpack theology vs. lifestyle, how beliefs show up in everyday routines, and what unity actually looks like when two people
How Did I Become Baby Mama #4? 🤡 #HMAY Ep. 271
This episode centers on two powerful listener emails — one from a man afraid his insecurity is destroying a healthy relationship, and another from a woman untangling herself from a four-year situationship filled with hidden children, heartbreak, miscarriages, and blurred co-parenting lines.We talk honestly about trust, emotional safety, soul-ties, red flags, and why some relationships can’t be pra
He Saw His Old Crush on IG...Now He’s Unsure About Me?! #HMAY Ep. 270
In this episode, we read an email from a listener who loves her boyfriend but doesn’t feel like his first choice. We talk insecurity vs. truth, attraction, healing from past relationships, and how to discern if you’re being chosen or just convenient. Plus, Chocolate Baby Storytime with a family rap session, camping trip confessions, and updates on Premarital Advantage, Father Yourself First, and t
Should I Get Back Together With My Child's Father? #HMAY Ep. 269
We’re talking to a solo mom who wrote in real honest: should she try again with her son’s dad? We unpack trust after hurt, how healing changes what you want, and why “for the baby” is not a dating strategy. We keep it tender, tell the truth, and give some practical next steps. Plus, Chocolate Baby Storytime, cleanse life, and Lily the dog leaving sticky-note reminders like a tiny furry manager.Thi
Nothing Was Wasted #HMAY Ep. 268
She wrote in heartbroken: six months in, different faith practices, sex after planning to wait, and an “I love you” he stopped saying. Then her dad talked to the boyfriend who admitted he didn’t plan to marry her and wanted to “see what else is out there.” We respond with care and clarity: nothing was wasted, learn the lesson, forgive, and choose wisely next time.We also talk sibling dynamics at h
He Wants to Marry Her But She Wants Him to Pay For Everything #HMAY Ep. 267
📘 ORDER FATHER YOURSELF FIRST TODAY!A listener writes in about the woman he loves—smart, beautiful, and ready for marriage… except she believes a man should pay for everything while she saves her own money “for security.” She says a woman shouldn’t spend on an able-bodied man. He calls it an escape route. Now he’s wondering: is this financial boundary a red flag or just her way of protecting herse
I Caught My Husband on the Ring Camera #HMAY Ep. 266
PRE-ORDER FATHER YOURSELF FIRST TODAY!Father Meet- Up Zoom LinkWhat do you do when you catch your husband on the Ring camera talking about another woman… and realize the fairytale you’ve built together might’ve never been real? 💔This week’s listener letter, “Broken Pieces,” comes from a wife and mother of four who discovered her husband’s long-term emotional affair—one that started years ago and o
Am I Waiting on a Proposal That's Never Coming? #HMAY Ep. 265
PRE-ORDER FATHER YOURSELF FIRST TODAY!What do you do when the man you love keeps hitting pause on the future you planned together? 💍 After six years—three long-distance, three living together—a listener’s boyfriend still hasn’t proposed or started premarital counseling. She feels more like a roommate than a partner, while he insists they’ve “gone backwards” and need to fix their foundation before
Is My Independence Keeping Me Single? #HMAY Ep. 264
PRE-ORDER FATHER YOURSELF FIRST TODAY!What if your independence isn’t a strength—but a shield? 💔 A 28-year-old listener has never been in a romantic relationship, and she wonders if years of self-reliance have made her “too independent” to ever need (or want) marriage. With rejection scars, a deep love of solo life, and questions about purpose, partnership, and faith, she asks: Is marriage more th
My Husband Has Been Sleeping On The Couch For 5 Years #HMAY Ep. 263
PRE-ORDER FATHER YOURSELF FIRST TODAY: https://www.amazon.com/Father-Yourself-First-Everything-Deserves/dp/1400252555 “Help Me Get My Husband Off the Couch” For the last five years, one wife has been going to bed alone—while her husband voluntarily sets up camp on the couch 🛋️.What started as late-night gaming turned into a full-blown routine, even when they lived in a studio apartment just three
You're Not Gonna be a Lazy Mother #HMAY Ep. 262
PRE-ORDER FATHER YOURSELF FIRST TODAY: https://www.amazon.com/Father-Yourself-First-Everything-Deserves/dp/1400252555"Am I going to be a lazy mom?”A 23-year-old listener is glowing with excitement about her first pregnancy 👶🏾—but beneath the joy, fear lingers. Raised tough, she worries she won’t be nurturing enough, won’t have the energy, won’t measure up. Her 25-year-old husband is steady an
My Husband Deleted Me Off of His Instagram #HMAY Ep. 261
PRE-ORDER FATHER YOURSELF FIRST TODAY!A listener married young and in love; years later, pregnant with a toddler at home, she’s watching her husband drift from faith, hide the marriage online, and surround himself with bad influences. Birthdays and Mother’s Days go ignored, passwords are gone, and therapy suggests an ultimatum. Is she clinging to hope—or ignoring what she already knows?We talk:🕊️
I Don't Know if I Can Handle My Husband’s Vulnerability HMAY Ep. 260
PRE-ORDER FATHER YOURSELF FIRST TODAYIs wanting vulnerability the same as being ready to hold it? A newlywed (90-something days in!) loves her husband but admits his past trauma makes openness slow. Then the Holy Spirit hits her with two checks: “Can you handle what he gives you?” and “Steward well what he gives you.” We unpack what “safe space” really costs: capacity, patience, and practice. 💛We
She Don't Like You Black Brother #HMAY Ep. 259
A brother wrote in after a three-year long-distance rollercoaster where tough talks turned into silence and her parents turned hostile. He prayed for an approval and called it a sign while every other sign said no. We laugh, we side-eye, and we keep it loving but honest. 😂🙏🏾We talk:🙅🏾♂️ Stop over-spiritualizing dating. God is not a vending machine or a green light on command.🚫🏠 Racism in your own
In Case You Forgot Where We Stand on Polyamory... #HMAY Ep. 258
A 27-year-old listener in a three-year poly relationship wants simple guardrails—tell me when you’re out with someone else, if you’re spending the night, and shut it down if they try to edge me out. He resists, agrees begrudgingly, then doesn’t follow through. She’s financially stuck, sharing a cramped place he pays for, and wonders when it’s time to plan her exit. 🛡️💔We talk:“You wrote us knowing
I Might Lose a Friend to Gain a Husband #HMAY Ep. 257
Is God’s will bigger than girl code? ✝️ When a listener in her church circle and her friend’s ex catch real feelings, the trio dynamic—and a friendship—hangs in the balance. She’s prayed the feelings away, he confessed he wants to pursue her, and everyone’s watching to see whether wisdom or worry wins. 💔We talk:“They didn’t guard their hearts.” Staying close after a breakup kept hope alive and blu
Montego Bay, Marriage & Messy Growth #HMAY Ep. 256
What do you do when the man you want to be feels out of reach? 💍🇯🇲 Recorded in Montego Bay while Glen and Yvette celebrate 15 years 🎉, a listener writes in before his own 10-year anniversary: he’s lost motivation, avoids hard conversations, and feels inconsistent in faith and intimacy after weight gain. Without a positive male role model, he’s under a heavy cloud and asking how to lead his family
That Girl is NOT Your Friend! #HMAY Ep. 255
What do you owe a friend when romance enters the chat? 💔 A listener matched with a guy and told her girls how excited she was—only to learn weeks later that one of them secretly liked him, talked to him, and went on a date. The friend admitted it only after he ghosted her and showed zero remorse. Now the question is clear: where’s the line between shooting your shot and protecting the friendship?W
I Never Expected My Boyfriend to Rage Like That #HMAY Ep. 254
What happens when the "perfect boyfriend" suddenly explodes? 😳 A listener writes in about her kind, generous dream man—until he shouted, cursed, and loomed over her at 3 AM after she said she felt left out of his hobby-club mixer. Childhood memories of an angry step-dad came rushing back, and now she wonders: if rage shows up once, will it move in after I do? Glen and Yvette weigh safety
Did I Just Dump My Future Wife? #HMAY Ep. 253
Can a prophetic word outweigh chemistry that’s already lit the fuse? 🕯️ One listener writes in torn between a four‑year, on‑again‑off‑again love and the fear he’s missing the real woman God promised. Childhood trauma, church expectations, and a couple of busted boundaries all collide as he wonders: am I the problem—or am I over‑spiritualizing everything?We talk:🗣️ Make a decision—then make it righ
He Made Me Walk Home...Should I Walk Away? #HMAY Ep. 252
Can love survive emotional whiplash and a husband who leaves you on the curb? 😶🌫️ One listener kept chasing a woman who ping‑ponged between “just friends” and “let’s try again.” Another rushed into marriage for a missions trip—only to discover her new spouse measures quality time in bedroom minutes and once made her walk home after a joke. Both are wondering: Am I crazy for calling it quits—or cr
He's a Decade Older Than Me but Hear Me Out! HMAY Ep. 251
A 26‑year‑old listener feels sparks 🔥 with a 35‑year‑old pastor, but her dad and step‑mom insist, “He’s too old!” Now she’s weighing wisdom, faith ✝️, and a widening generation gap 🕰️. Can she trust her own maturity—and God’s timing—over her family’s fears?We talk: 🙏🏾 Why shared faith, values, and life vision matter more than the number on a birth certificate🚩 How repeating “much younger” partners
My Girlfriend’s Holding Us Down. Am I Holding Her Back? #HMAY Ep. 250
What do you do when you realize nobody’s coming to save you? 🧠💔📉In this episode, we hear from a 24-year-old man who's been in a relationship for almost a decade—but feels like he’s barely shown up for any of it.He moved across the country to be with the love of his life. She’s held down the bills, the home, and the hope. And while he battles depression, anxiety, and a lack of discipline, he
My Sister's Boo'd Up and I'm Grieving Alone #HMAY Ep. 249
What do you do when the glue of your family is gone—and everything starts to come undone? 🕊💔In this episode, we hear from a listener grieving the loss of her mother… while also navigating a painful shift in her relationship with her sister.They’ve survived so much together—abusive relationships, single motherhood, and even the loss of their fiancés just weeks apart. But now, in the wake of their m
My Mom and Stepdad Are Suddenly Polyamorous #HMAY Ep. 248
When your parents’ lifestyle makes you uncomfortable—what do you do? 🤯In Episode 248, we read an email from a woman trying to navigate a very complicated family dynamic. After growing up loosely Christian, she’s now leaning more into her faith—but her mom and stepdad have recently entered a polyamorous relationship and moved a third partner into the family home… a woman who also happens to work wi
How Do I End This Creative Dry Spell? #HMAY Ep. 247
What do you do when the creativity dries up? 🎤📱💭In this episode, we hear from a female rapper who’s feeling stuck. She went from writing multiple songs a week… to barely one every few weeks.She’s working in a beige windowless room, caring for a loved one recovering from a stroke, and feeling creatively drained—while also lowkey addicted to her phone.She’s asking for help. For hope. For a spark. 🔥G
I'm Not Supposed to Know Her Business but I Want to Help #HMAY Ep. 246
This week, we’re responding to two emails—both full of tension, questions, and heart.First up:A man writes in, self-conscious about being seen as a “toxic male.” 😓He wants to correct things in his relationship—like how the house is cleaned—but he’s struggling with how to say it and whether he even should.He’s worried about being part of the problem…But is he overthinking society’s expectations and
I Can't Be Myself Around My Wife #HMAY Ep. 245
What do you do when your marriage feels like your biggest regret? 😔This week, we hear from a husband who’s at his breaking point.He says he can’t be himself around his wife.He loves her, but he doesn’t like her—and after years of deception, emotional distance, and barely any intimacy, he’s not sure there’s anything left to fight for.She's told some big time lies about about finances and debt.T
Her Family Has Internalized Racism Issues and I Want No Part of It #HMAY Ep. 244
What if your family background feels like something you’ve had to escape—like you came from bad cloth—and now you’re trying to build a life from something new? 🧵That’s the story behind this week’s email—from a man who cut ties with his manipulative, chaotic family and is now dating a woman whose family seems to have it all together.Respectable. Traditional. “Good cloth.”But the longer he’s around
How Do I Convince Him to Go to Therapy? #HMAY Ep. 243
This week’s email hits deep. A wife writes in, asking for advice on how to encourage her husband to go to therapy to address childhood trauma. But he’s resistant—and it’s not just personal… it’s cultural. 🌍🧠Glen & Yvette open up about the stigma around therapy in Caribbean communities and how that resistance can impact marriages, healing, and connection. 🇯🇲💬They also get real about their own j
My Sister Got Violent & I'm Just Supposed To Get Over it?! #HMAY Ep. 242
Sisters. Podcasts. Beef. And… a flying water bottle?! 🥴💥This week, we’re diving into a wild email from a listener caught in some serious sister drama. Two sisters started a podcast together, but when one decided she was done, things got messy.👉🏾 One sister wanted control.👉🏾 The other was tired of being told what to do.👉🏾 Then came the accusations—flaky, bossy, better-than-you vibes.👉🏾 And yes, a w
Are All These Men Trash...Or Is There More To The Story? #HMAY Ep. 241
Are all the husbands out here flopping… or are we just not hearing the whole story? 🤔💭In this episode, we read another email from a wife who’s had it. Her man’s doing the bare minimum, communication is a mess, and she’s at her breaking point. But after reading a bunch of emails like this lately, we had to pause and ask: Is it really always the man? Or are we missing something?We talk about how eas
Life on the Farm Wasn’t What We Expected #HMAY Ep. 240
Sometimes you gotta move to find your peace. 🏡✨Last year? Whew. It was a whole lot.We moved out to the farm thinking it was gonna be this beautiful new chapter for our family… and listen — some of it was. 🌻 But some of it? Straight up survival mode. 💀Fast forward to now — we’re in Fallbrook.And it finally feels like home. 🖤🌴We’re breathing different. Living different. Smiling different.God really
My Husband Refuses to Brush His Teeth! #HMAY Ep. 239
“My man only brushes his teeth once a week… and still wanna kiss me in the mouth?!” 😩🪥This listener wrote in with a situation that had us both shook—and honestly?Sis, you’re not asking for too much.She’s pregnant 🤰🏾, in PJs most days, not feeling her cutest—and her husband is still calling her beautiful and trying to love on her real close.The only problem? His breath is breathin’. 💨👃🏽She’s brough
I Probably Shouldn't Have Married Him…Now What? #HMAY Ep. 238
He gave up his best friend for love… but was it worth it? 💍💔And what do you do when marriage hits hard just four months in? 😬In this episode, we’re diving into two real-life relationship updates that had us both nodding... and hollering. 😭😂First up: remember the fiancé who asked her man to choose between her and his female best friend? 👀 Well—he called back with an update.Spoiler: there's a weddin
He Planned on Letting Her Find Out at His Funeral! #HMAY Ep. 237
What do you do when God is the one exposing the truth in your marriage? 😳💔In Episode 237, we’re diving into one of the wildest calls we’ve received yet. A woman finds out her husband has a hidden child, a secret past, and no desire to tell the truth—so God starts revealing it in her dreams. 👀We talk trust, spiritual red flags, emotional safety, and the power of redemption—even when it feels imposs
I’m Tired of Having to be the Bigger Person #HMAY Ep. 236
Feeling like you’re always the bigger person in your relationship? The optimist, the problem solver, the one carrying all the weight? 😮💨In this episode, we’re talking about how to handle that dynamic—how to keep going without burning out, set boundaries without resentment, and create balance in your relationship. Because love shouldn’t feel one-sided.Tap in and let’s talk about it. 💬Ever felt lik
Is He Marriage Material? #HMAY Ep. 235
Is he marriage material? 💍In today’s episode, we tackle the question of whether emotional connection is enough to build a future. Her man is her best friend, they vibe as artists, but he’s a hermit who won’t make an effort for her social life, family, or future plans. 🧐Yvette and Glen break down what she should be asking herself and him—and share how misalignment showed up in their own relationshi
The Cheeks Gotta Get Clapped #HMAY Ep. 234
Worried your wedding night might be whack? 😩 One listener wrote in with a big concern—she’s marrying a virgin and is nervous about what that means for their intimacy. So we’re diving ALL the way in on what it really looks like to navigate intimacy when experience levels don’t match.Yvette shares what it was like being a virgin bride—not just the emotions, but the mechanics (or lack thereof 😭). We
Somebody is Gonna Have to Submit #HMAY Ep. 233
In this episode, we’re diving into the real-life dilemmas y’all are facing—like when to make sacrifices for your partner, how to balance your career with your relationship, and when to put dreams on hold (or go for it all). 💭💍Some of the questions we’re tackling:“Should I give up my grad school dreams for my partner?” 🤔“Can you really have a career and a successful marriage without losing yourself
The Hardest Audience Questions We've Ever Answered 😮💨💭 #HMAY Ep. 232
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Is being in love necessary for a marriage that lasts? Or is love as a choice enough? In this episode, we’re breaking down emotional attraction, physical chemistry, and what happens when life gets real—bills, kids, family drama, and overstimulation included. 😮💨We’re talking about:✅ Can love as a verb create attraction?✅ What to do when the spark fades.✅ How to stay connected when life is overwhelm
She gave me an Ultimatum #HMAY Ep. 228
Episode 228 of #howmarriedareyou discusses listener's voicemail message, where a young man is struggling with his fiancée's demand that he cut ties with his long-time best friend, who is a woman. @yvetteunplugged and @BeleafInFatherhood provide their perspectives on navigating relationships and boundaries in marriage. They also share personal anecdotes about their own marriage, includi
We Don't Agree on Homeschool #HMAY Ep. 227
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How To Tell Your Wife She's Wrong #HMAY Ep. 224
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Can I Divorce My Emotionally Abusive Husband? #HMAY Ep. 223
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Five Ways to Divorce Proof Your Marriage #HMAY Ep. 222
In this episode of "How Married Are You?" (Episode 223), hosts Mrs. Melanin and Beleaf discuss a variety of personal and family stories, including the challenges of balancing work and family life, the nuances of communication within marriage, and dealing with emotionally charged situations. They share anecdotes about their children's requests and misunderstandings, and emphasize the
Family Drama Has Us Broken #HMAY Ep. 221
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Are Men With Out Community Dangerous? #HMAY Ep. 220
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She Doesn't Believe in Marriage #HMAY Ep. 219
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She refuses to get a Job #HMAY Ep. 218
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What It's Like To Date In 2024 #HMAY Ep. 217
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How to live with an unhappy husband #HMAY Ep. 216
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