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The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver

The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver

Lori Sims & David Sims 364 Episodes Oct 9, 2026

Stepfamilies and blended families are very challenging. With a failure rate of over 70%, it's clear that blended families need help. Nacho Kids founders and blended family coaches, Lori and David Sims, are here to help blended families save their sanity and relationships. You'll hear the hosts and guests discuss the struggles and successes of blended family life and learn how the Nacho Kids Method is changing lives and saving relationships around the world.

Episodes

384: When Stepkids Come and Go
384: When Stepkids Come and Go Oct 9, 2026 31:57 Is It Still Their Home?  In this episode, Lori and David Sims discuss boundaries when it comes to the home. If the stepkid is there every other weekend, is it still considered their home? Are they able to come and get things without having to text or call first? Lori and David kick things off with a lighthearted look at gifting the Nacho Kids book and workbook for holidays, and joke about trick-
383: Different Rules Different Kids
383: Different Rules Different Kids Oct 2, 2026 30:21 In this episode, Lori and David tackle a listener question about handling resentment from biological children when stepchildren follow different rules. They explain that this is common in blended families and share personal stories showing that different rules for different kids are sometimes necessary because of age, responsibility, and individual circumstances. The hosts stress the importance of
382: Stepkid Jealousy
382: Stepkid Jealousy Sep 25, 2026 36:00 Are you struggling with jealousy, boundaries, or feeling left out as a stepparent? In this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, we dive deep into the real-life challenges of stepkid jealousy, whether it's your spouse always answering their kid's calls on vacation or gifts and attention feeling unfairly divided. Learn why "Nachoing" works (and what it really means), the importance of healthy boundari
381: Stepkid Tells All
381: Stepkid Tells All Sep 18, 2026 In this episode, Lori and David Sims reflect on their blended family journey, sharing personal stories about the unique challenges and evolving relationships with their stepkids. Listeners get a special inside look through an in-depth interview with Branson, one of the triplets, who opens up about his experience as a stepchild. Branson discusses the emotional rollercoaster of accepting a stepparen
380: Stepsibling Relationships
380: Stepsibling Relationships Sep 11, 2026 17:08 In this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori and David discuss the challenges and benefits of stepsibling relationships in blended families. They share personal experiences navigating concerns about stepkids being a "bad influence" or bullying bio kids, and how parental intervention (or lack thereof) can impact sibling bonding. Lori notes the importance of letting kids work through their own co
379: What You Focus On Will Grow
379: What You Focus On Will Grow Sep 4, 2026 32:48 In this episode, Lori and David Sims discuss the powerful principle that "what you focus on will grow," especially within blended families. Through candid and humorous anecdotes, ranging from household chores to navigating stepfamily dynamics, they explore how focusing on the negatives (like dirty dishes or annoying habits) can cause frustration and resentment, while choosing to see the positives
378: Co-sleeping With Stepkids
378: Co-sleeping With Stepkids Aug 28, 2026 31:52 In this episode, we discuss the sensitive topic of cosleeping with stepkids in blended families. A key theme that emerged was the differing comfort levels and emotional reactions between bio parents and stepparents regarding children in their personal space or bed. The discussion explored feelings of unfairness when stepchildren are excluded from privileges allowed to biological children, as well
377: Watch How You Say It
377: Watch How You Say It Aug 21, 2026 35:04 In this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori and David discuss communication challenges between stepparents and bio parents, especially regarding parenting decisions and stepkids. The hosts share personal anecdotes about feeling defensive when their children are criticized, emphasizing that wording and approach make a significant difference in how such conversations are received. Launch of th
376: Birthdays, Blended Style
376: Birthdays, Blended Style Aug 14, 2026 32:13 On this podcast, we discuss the challenges and humorous realities of planning family events in a blended and extended family setting. A key theme that emerged was the complexity of scheduling birthdays and gatherings to accommodate multiple family members, including ex-spouses, in-laws, and stepchildren, highlighting the potential for awkwardness, misunderstandings, and unintentional hurt feelings
374: Back To School In The Blend
374: Back To School In The Blend Aug 1, 2026 30:12 In this episode, the Nacho Kids team discusses the upcoming release of the Nacho Kids book, available for Kindle pre-order and set to launch on September 16th - Stepfamily Day. The hosts highlight a moving story from their Nacho group about a stepparent who transformed her relationship with her stepkids using the Nacho Method, underscoring the importance of putting knowledge into action. The conve
373: Don't Give Up!
373: Don't Give Up! Jul 24, 2026 22:03 In this episode, Lori and David share an inspiring success story from their Facebook group, highlighting how the Nacho Kids method helped transform a strained stepmom-stepdaughter relationship into a loving bond resulting in being asked to stand as "mother of the bride" at the stepdaughter's wedding. They discuss the importance of letting relationships develop naturally, utilizing strategies like
372: Building Trust & Security in Blended Families | Dr. Marcus
372: Building Trust & Security in Blended Families | Dr. Marcus Jul 17, 2026 01:26:42 In this episode, we discuss the complexities of blended families, emphasizing the unique challenges stepfamilies face compared to nuclear families. One concept discussed was the pressure for stepfamilies to function like traditional nuclear families, and how letting go of that expectation can relieve stress and improve dynamics. A key theme that emerged was the importance of the "soothing presence

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