The Whore's Bedroom
Lucy Huxley, a sex worker with nearly eight years of experience in stripping, camming, porn, and escorting, invites listeners into her private world. She shares unfiltered stories and perspectives from her life in the sex industry, offering insights that clients never see. The podcast covers her past and present experiences, providing a raw and honest look at her work.
Episodes
38. Giving you advice about sex, relationships, and dating
You asked me for advice - I answered. The Whore's Bedroom episode 38!Try CHEEX for free for 7 days: https://bit.ly/HUX7CHEEXMy code is: HUX7It's valid with the annual subscription as a new user - you can cancel at any time during the trial period!CHEEX is a platform I love to recommend for fairly produced porn, erotic audios, and a "Pleasure Academy" with real sex education. Real bodies and genuin
37. I'm single and I'm gay
I guess this is my coming out episode? I've got a lot to update you guys on.
36. Experiencing a Male Escort for the first time with Rhys Phillips
I met Rhys Phillips in London to dive into his work: being a male escort who services women and couples. Our jobs are technically the same, but there are so many interesting differences that I was so excited to ask him about. I absolutely loved this conversation and hope you guys do too!Follow Rhys on socials:https://www.instagram.com/rhysensual/https://www.tiktok.com/@rhyssential
35. How to Become an Escort 101
You have been asking me - how do I become an escort? What tips do you have for beginners in the industry? I'm finally answering that, and giving my advice for anyone who is interested in entering the world of full service sex work. This advice will also be helpful for those who are already established in the industry in other locations, but are looking for logistical information about specific
34. Two years of being a whore has made me change my mind on some things...
It's been a while since I sat down alone to share my opinions - and those opinions have changed. I'm taking back what I said in some of my previous episodes, and sharing some new things I've learned. Let's talk about spirituality, dating, and north american vs european men when they cheat.
33. Disabled men need escorts - with Sonia von Sacher
Disabled men are rarely able to get their sexual needs filled. That's where Sonia comes in - she not only offers specific services as an escort to accommodate disabled clients, but also gives them a discount. They make up much of her clientele, and have shaped her outlook on both work and life. We chatted about her experiences in sex work - not just with disabled clients, but with pro submissi
32. How the FIFA world cup will harm sex workers in Vancouver and beyond with SWAN Vancouver
As one of the host cities for the FIFA world cup, Vancouver is already prepping for the alleged sex trafficking that comes with the event. But there's a catch - there is absolutely no proof to back up the claim that such sporting events cause an increase in sex trafficking, nor even an increase in demand for consensual sex work. Crystal from SWAN Vancouver joined me to discuss the tangible neg
31. The (actual) sex work situation in Germany - with Anne Bonny
Germany has been called "the brothel of Europe" due to it's thriving sex trade and relatively lax laws. But are those laws really all that lax? Anne Bonny, an activist and member of Hydra e.V. joined me to discuss the current and future realities of sex workers in Germany. We discussed the current "Prostitution Protection Act", the push to bring the Nordic Model to Germany,
30. Racism in sex work with Mistress Vera
Mistress Vera Von F is no stranger to racism in the sex industry, and she joined me in London to discuss both her own experiences as well as pervasive racism throughout the industry. We dove into race play, online harassment, beauty standards, and how sexual desires reflect subconscious prejudices. Follow Mistress Vera:https://www.instagram.com/von.floozy/
29. Lenina Crowne on why she loves plastic surgery and how she became good at sex
Lenina Crowne, a high class companion in London, joined me while I visited her city to discuss social media visibility as a sex worker, how plastic surgery has affected her life, how autism makes her a better escort, and how we feel about OnlyFans vs escorting.Follow Lenina on socials:https://www.instagram.com/leninacrownex/https://x.com/RequiemLenina
28. Whorebaiting, the female gaze, and working through a recession with Edie Montana
What is whorebaiting? Why do people pretend to be sex workers when they're not? Edie and I discussed this, along with the "female gaze" in sex work, working through recessions, my criticisms of Kayla Jade, and starting a business as a sex worker.Edie Montana is a stripper, performer, show director, and writer. She is the co-founder and director of Slut Riot, a growing platform that c
27. What it takes to run a queer indie porn company with Mahx Capacity of Aorta Films
Mahx Capacity joined me to discuss being a porn doula, keeping an indie queer porn company financially afloat, consent on porn sets, creators as a non-renewable resource, and finding community in the queer porn world.Mahx Capacity is a Brooklyn based performance maker, entrepreneur and postmodern pornographer. They are the co-founder and creative director of Aorta Films as well as a performer and
26. Queer Porn Icon Jiz Lee on sex trends, falling in love on set, and queer porn archives
Trailblazer of queer porn Jiz Lee joined me on the pod to discuss their favorite sex trends, burnout in art vs porn, how the porn landscape has change for creators, fears surrounding AI in porn, and their advice for queer people who want to enter the industry.Find more of Jiz:https://www.instagram.com/jizlee/https://bsky.app/profile/jizlee.bsky.socialBuy their book, "Coming Out Like a Porn St
25. Dungeon owner Miss May on why she loves being so mean to her subs
Professional mean girl Miss May joined me in London for a chat about her passion for pissing on people, the dream BDSM furniture she wants to add to her dungeon, dealing with the comedown from sessions, and male vs female subs. Miss May is a professional dominatrix and dungeon owner based between London and Berlin.Follow Miss May on socials:https://www.instagram.com/missmayberlin/https://x.com/mis
24. Belonging on Social Media with Dr. Carolina Are
Dr. Carolina Are joined me to discuss her research on social media censorship, sex work in academia, how AI impacts influencers, shadowbanning, and of course, Taylor Swift.Carolina is a pole dancing academic, blogger, author, speaker, pole dance instructor and performer, and activist. She published some of the first ever studies on shadowbanning, and is currently a digital criminologist at the Lon
23. Eva Oh on women in power, the lust of greed, and keeping men in her personal prison
Eva Oh joined me in London for a titillating conversation on her life as a dominatrix, hesitance in dating, the meaning she finds in mentoring, and what's wrong with men.Eva Oh is an award winning dominatrix, advocate, mentor, and podcast host, who has been wielding her power as a sex worker since 2011 to be come one of the most famous dominatrixes in the world.Follow Eva on socials:https://www.in
I'm Back!
A quick little update to let you know where I've been, and tell you about upcoming episodes!
22. Your burning questions
What was my favorite booking? What do I think about Lily Phillips and Bonnie Blue? What are my go-to icebreakers with clients? I'm answering these questions and many more!Some other sex workers on TikTok you should follow, as mentioned in the episode:https://www.tiktok.com/@juicypomma4.0https://www.tiktok.com/@shakingsheetshttps://www.tiktok.com/@pursenuggets5.0https://www.tiktok.com/@inaralor
21. One year of being a whore - lessons and reflections
It's officially been one year since I started escorting full time! Today I'm diving into all the lessons I've learned, and my personal reflections on this year for me.
20. The truth about dating
A bit of a different topic today, but one I'm incredibly passionate about - my opinions on dating men, as a straight cis woman. This is purely about dating in personal life (not about my clients), and it's such an important facet of many women's lives. This isn't a comprehensive totality of my views - I would have to talk for a few hours to get everything out! I'd love to hear
19. Living in Berlin - my experiences
I've been living in Berlin for almost a decade (!) and often get asked online what it's like to live here - so here's a deep dive! I talk about the pros and cons from my personal perspective (warning: there's a lot of cons) as well has how much the city has changed since I moved here.
18. Porn Historian Noelle Perdue on banning porn, AI, and the future of content
Today's conversation is full of not just juicy bits about porn, but important lessons for anyone who is even slightly interested in the industry. We discuss what a porn ban would actually look like, how AI effect the adult industry, the role of porn in sex education, and how porn is used as a political pawn. Noelle Perdue is a writer, producer and porn historian with nearly 10 years of experie
17. Veteran Stripper Chiqui Love on gold diggers, dating vs escorting, and 20 years in the industry
Chiqui Love joins me for a lively discussion on her decades of experience as a stripper, how sex work has changed her approach to both dating and feminism, and how the industry has changed since she got her start in London in the early 2000’s. Chiqui Love is a stripper, burlesque, and cabaret artist and all round erotic entertainer. With over 22 years’ experience in the industry, she combines dif
16. Dominatrix Madame L'affaire on classism in sex work and her love for BDSM
Madame Ava L'affaire joins me for a discussion on all things BDSM and sex work. We talk about her past experiences as an escort, her passion for being a dominatrix, experiencing class discrepancies as a sex worker, the whorearchy, sexual shame, and more.Madame Ava L'affaire is a dominatrix and sex worker rights activist. She grew up in Berlin and is the child of Afghan refugees.Follow Madame Ava o
15. Trans Escort Sienna Carlisle on the Domme archetype, transphobia, and rebranding
Today I am joined by the magnificent Sienna Carlisle. We discuss her journey from being a pro-domme to now being a domme and escort, transphobia in the sex industry, her experiences with clients, her recent rebrand, and working in Australia vs Europe. Sienna Carlisle is an international trans goddess whose journey has spanned many countries and many parts of the industry. She is a luxury companion
14. Porn Legend Bishop Black on 10 years in porn, biphobia, and racism in the industry
Today I am joined by my friend and colleague, Bishop Black. We discuss what Bishop has faced as a bisexual POC in the industry, the difference between mainstream and "ethical" porn, and how Bishop has sustained their long and illustrious career in the porn industry.Bishop Black (they/them) is a multidisciplinary stage, burlesque, and porn performer. Hailing from London, they currently reside in Be
13. Can you call me a "whore"? The history of sex work terminology
Why is the word "whore" a derogatory term? Is it ok for you to call me that? What other terms do we use to talk about sex workers, and where do they originate from? Class is in session, and I'm teaching you everything you need to know.
12. Everything you've been asking
Do I pay taxes? Do I care if my clients are married? Do I fake orgasms?
I get a lot of common questions about my work, and today I'm answering *all* of them. Plus, some extra answers from questions you asked on Instagram earlier this week. All your curiosities, indulged!
11. Oops, I fell in love
Season 2 of the podcast is back, and I'm starting off with a very personal story that happened this summer - I fell in love.
10. What laws make sex work safer?
What's the best way to handle sex work legally? Should we use the Nordic model, to punish clients and decrease demand? What about legalization or decriminalization - and how are those two things different? Let's dive into the pros and cons of all the options.
This is the final episode of Season 1 of The Whore's Bedroom! I'm taking a summer break and will be back in September for Season 2.
Mentio
09. Having sex for money
What's it like to have sex for money? Can consent be bought? In this episode I'm breaking down what it's like to do my job, on both a practical and emotional level. I also dive into the argument that "consent cannot be bought" and what consent means when money is involved.
08. Sex is sacred - spirituality & sex
Today I'm discussing my own spirituality, including my spiritual views on sex, why I believe sex is sacred, and my frustrations with the way society views sex and relationships. I also dive into my own astrology chart at the end of the episode.
My astrologer who I mentioned:
https://pippa-kate.com/
07. I'm banned from the USA - sex work & borders
In 2017, I was given a 5 year ban from the USA - which then turned into a 10 year ban, which then turned into an indefinite ban. I'm giving you the full story on exactly how it happened, and the aftermath I've faced, plus details on how the US border brutally discriminates against sex workers.
*I'd like to note - I meant to mention this in the episode but it slipped my mind - my experience was in
06. Kink & BDSM - answering your questions
Today I'm answering audience questions about BDSM! I go over my favorite BDSM practices, advice for getting into BDSM, how kink is intertwined with patriarchy, the details of 24/7 relationships, and everything else you've been wondering.
The Contrapoints video I recommended in this episode:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bqloPw5wp48
(yes it's long but it's worth the watch!)
05. Kink & BDSM - my not-vanilla life
I have years of experience in various roles within BDSM, and this week I'm telling you all about it. From discovering my submissive side when I was 20, to being a Domme in a 24/7 power exchange relationship, to getting comfortable with my most vulnerable and deep kinks, I'm sharing every detail - both good and bad.
04. Dating as a sex worker
How has sex work affected my dating life? Having been in and out of the adult industry for 8 years, it's had an impact on all of my serious relationships as an adult. I'm sharing all about my recent ex who hated that I was a sex worker, my current dating life with men who don't have problems with what I do, as well as my overall thoughts on how people tend to discuss dating sex workers. At the end
03. Stripper diaries, uncensored
I'm bringing you inside the strip club! I worked as a stripper for around 4 months, and although my time in the club was short, my stories are enough for a lifetime. I kept a detailed diary of all my working nights at the club, and I've never shared it with anyone - until now. I'm reading out the entire diary, which includes some crazy stories (like the former owner falling in love with me because
02. Performing in porn - my experiences & can it be ethical?
I worked as a porn performer from 2016 to 2020, and today I'm giving you the lowdown on the good, the bad, and the ugly. I talk about the crazy things I've seen behind the scenes, my gripe with "ethical" porn, and the devastating shoot that led me to quit. I also answer all of the questions you sent me about porn, and tease some of my upcoming plans!
01. Everything I've done that's made me a whore
Welcome to my bedroom!
This episode is an introduction to my history and experiences in sex work. From my start as a sugar baby in 2016, to my years in porn, my brief stint in stripping, and my current work as an escort, I'm sharing my raw thoughts and feelings on all of it.
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