Accidental Swingers
This podcast chronicles the tales of Myrina and Tristan, a longtime married couple who accidentally stumbled into the swinger lifestyle. They discuss and navigate the topics of consensual non-monogamy, open relationships, sex-positivity, kink, alternative love and lifestyles. Listen to their adventures, learn their lessons, laugh at their misadventures, and enjoy their amazing journey.
Episodes
Ep 58 Our First "Greedy Girl" Party: Adventures, Misconceptions and Being Outnumbered
Myrina and Tristan are back with their raw and revealing stories and adventures of their swinger journey in this new "story" episode of the Accidental Swingers podcast. The couple takes you back to their first-ever "Greedy Girl" house party—an experience that tested their boundaries, forced them out of their comfort zone, and led to some spicy, surprising, and hilariously honest moments. Scared to
Ep 57 Diving Into Splash: One Unforgettable Weekend at a Takeover in Ft. Lauderdale
In this episode of the Accidental Swingers podcast, Myrina, Tristan, Crimson and Phoenix, share their experiences attending the Splash Fort Lauderdale hotel takeover in 2024. Full of adventures, misadventures and a hearty dose of sexy, the foursome share stories and highlights from their first Splash takeover event. They provide an in-depth review of the various themed playrooms and play spaces, t
Ep 56 Weekend Fun, New "Social Spaces" and The Lounge at Caliente in Florida
Join Myrina and Tristan as they dive into another thrilling episode filled with laughter, candid discussions, and a touch of exhibitionism. Broadcasting from the beautiful Caliente Resort just outside of Tampa, Florida, the foursome share the details of a fun-filled weekend co-hosted with their friends Kimberly and Steve, the founders of the Caliente Facebook Fan Page (Unofficial). Despite a rainy
Ep 55 Hedonism: Our Swinger Resort Vacation Part 2
Myrina, Tristan, Crimson, and Phoenix continue their review and share their personal stories about their very first trip to Hedonism II, a clothing-optional, adult-only resort in Jamaica. In episode 54 of the Accidental Swingers podcast, the foursome talk about the good, the bad, and the ugly of their trip and give their impressions and experiences of Kinky Caribbean event and Hedonism II. In thi
Ep 54 Our First Real Swinger Resort Vacation
Myrina and Tristan are back! After a bit of a mental health hiatus (listen to episodes 51 and 53) the Accidental Swingers return with a trip to Jamaica! Myrina, Tristan, Phoenix and Crimson finally made it to Hedonism II, the world-famous "swinger resort" in Jamaica, to teach and vacation during Kinky Caribbean. Their first-ever trip to Hedo began with a bang and ended with a bang (not the kind yo
Ep 53 Semaglutide and Women's Health: Essential Insights For Women in the Lifestyle
Dr. Tenesha Wards joins Myrina as they address the delicate balance of physical and mental health that comes along with aging as well as additional issues that women in the lifestyle might face. They tackle an array of topics including the importance of diet and exercise, navigating the costs of weight loss programs, and the benefits, and necessity, of creating a safe space for discussing women's
Ep 52 Events, Environments, and Experiences: Behind the Scenes with TampArotic
Myrina and Tristan welcome Billy, Brad, and Kelvin, the founders of the lifestyle group, TampArotic, based in Tampa, Florida. As a relatively new and up-and-comer lifestyle event group, the trio share stories, and how a serendipitous "accidental booking" at a lifestyle resort has led to a thriving event organization and how their unique brand of inclusive, pressure-free events is revolutionizing t
Ep 51 Healing Gut Health, Navigating Burnout, and Embracing Functional Medicine: Myrina's Journey
Myrina dives into the world of holistic healing and functional medicine as she welcomes Dr. Tenesha Wards, an expert in gut health, chronic fatigue, women's hormones, and stress management. In Episode 46, Overcoming Open Relationship Obstacles: Finding Balance in the Swinger and Hotwife Lifestyle, Myrina goes into detail about the challenges and struggles she is facing as a middle-aged woman who i
The Big 5-0: Reflections and Revelations from the Accidental Swingers
Join Myrina and Tristan in the landmark 50th episode of The Accidental Swingers podcast. Celebrate with your favorite lifestyle podcast hosts as they share their gratitude for reaching this milestone, and dive deep into the realities of the swinger lifestyle. They reflect on their origin story from their first "accidental" swinger date to their six-year journey into the lifestyle, discussing perso
Unleashing Desires: A Revealing Night with the Captain
Myrina and Tristan share their next erotic encounter lifestyle story. A sexy story about desire, fantasies coming true, and navigating new experiences. Tristan was expecting an MFM date with Myrina and the Captain but was surprised with a completely different evening. Myrina and the Captain instead planned a surprise sexy, and kinky, date night that included one of the Captain's playmates, Eve, as
Love, Laughter and Lust: Stories, Relationships and Adventures in the Swinging World
Myrina and Tristan speak to two couples and one throuple in the lifestyle and hear firsthand accounts of their personal journeys into the swinger lifestyle. Each dynamic exploring non-monogamy in a way and at a pace that is right for them. The guests share valuable lessons and experiences; all of them giving their own, unique insight into the essential component of every successful lifestyle relat
Hotwifing Vs. Hot Flashes: Myrina Gets Her Groove Back
Myrina shares her recent adventures when she traveled without Tristan for a week. Attending a conference where she regularly meets one of her playmates, Myrina knew she would have at least a few beautiful evenings with one of her lovers. She could never have anticipated, or even come close to arranging, how she actually spent her week when she is also able to connect with a previous playmate who l
Overcoming Open Relationship Obstacles: Finding Balance in the Swinger and Hotwife Lifestyle
In this completely raw, uncut, and unedited episode, Myrina and Tristan have a candid, open, and honest conversation about their current personal relationship struggles and how they have learned to process and communicate during these difficult times. They discuss the challenges of navigating the hotwife and ethical non-monogamy lifestyles during times when they are out of sync, especially with e
Cannabis and Consenting Adults: Does Cannabis Enhance the Swinger Lifestyle?
Myrina and Tristan talk about the use of recreational cannabis within the swinger community. After a few years of their own "research and development," the couple shares their thoughts and ideas about their own personal cannabis journeys. They discuss how they feel cannabis can enhance intimacy and the many ways they feel helps heighten their sensuality. And find out why they prefer products with
Surprise Afternoon Threesome, Sexy MFM Playtime and Myrina Meets A Lady At The Bar
Myrina and Tristan continue their swinger journey as they recount the story of an afternoon threeway which included a little surprise for Myrina as well! They discuss a steamy encounter with a woman at a resort who only had eyes for Myrina and Tristan talks about a brand new experience for him, a somewhat kinky invitation to be a third in a playdate with The Captain and one of his playmates.
Lessons Learned: The Unexpected Upside To Having Sex Without Your Spouse and Be On Our Podcast!
Myrina and Tristan are back at Caliente Resort and Spa in Tampa as they kick off their first "Third Thursday at Caliente". You will be able to find Tristan and Myrina on the third Thursday of every month, which just happens to be Ladies' Night, recording their podcast episode "live" at Caliente! In this episode, Myrina and Tristan celebrate their five-year swingerversary (five years to the day) o
Ep 42: Vegas, a Visiting Single Guy, a Possible Five-Way and a Fantasy Fulfilled for Tristan (Plus, be on our podcast!)
Myrina and Tristan review their recent trips to Vegas and the Poconos. (Be sure to visit our website to view our calendar and join us on our next lifestyle event adventure!) Myrina starts messaging with a single from out of state who was coming to Florida for a few days and arranges a play date with him. Myrina and Tristan are invited to play with another couple and single guy. Myrina takes a big
Ep 41: Swinging Through ATL Where Things Got HOT
Myrina and Tristan step further out of their comfort zone by going out of town to spend the weekend with play partners they met at Naughty N'awlins the year before. Listen in as they recount the weekend's hot and sexy shenanigans where they basically had sex, ate for nourishment, napped, and then had more sex! The foursome visited the swinger club, Trapeze, in Atlanta where the ladies decided to s
Ep 40: Where Have You Been?
Myrina and Tristan are BACK and now also on VIDEO! From now on, Accidental Swingers podcast episodes will be audio and video! Find us, right now, on YouTube @TheAccidentalSwingers and eventually on other video podcast platforms! Myrina and Tristan bring everyone up to date on what has been happening with us both personally and professionally, and why we haven't published an episode in a few month
Ep 39: Louisville Slugger, Vanilla Strikeouts and Bad Timing
Myrina and Tristan share sexy stories about playdates they had; both together and separately. Find out how Louis got his "name"! After a final return trip to Virginia, Myrina shares a story about the final night with (one of her) Virginia lovers and something she has never talked about before. On her return from Virginia, Myrina stops at one of her favorite hotel chains and meets a lovely gentlema
Ep 38: We Outed Ourselves as Swingers
Myrina and Tristan decide they want to start a podcast but aren't quite sure how to talk to people about their idea. They attend a podcast conference and tell anyone who asks, what their podcast is about! (Spoiler alert: it's THIS podcast!) Myrina meets a vanilla guy who is "all-in" at trying his luck with a swinger hotwife. Tristan and Myrina finally visit Secrets Hideaway and Resort outside of O
Ep 37: Do Swingers Make the Best Adult Film Stars?
A few months ago, Myrina and Tristan met and chatted with a couple at Caliente. Fascinated with their journey and story, Myrina and Tristan asked to interview them for the podcast. Rob and Trudy are living their best life, together. They met as swingers, eventually started dating as swingers, and then got married and are still swinging! You can find them often as nightclub hosts at Caliente, or p
Ep 36: Swingers and Kink Come Together In More Than One Way
When Myrina and Tristan met Phoenix Phyre and Crimson Dragonfly at Naughty N'awlins in 2019, little did they know that their lives would be changed forever. The instant connection the two couples experienced, certainly was too good to be true. But as time went on, and the couples grew closer, they found themselves on yet another unexpected, dare we say "accidental", leg of their journey. Listen a
Ep 35: Our First Real Kink Experience
Kink was the scary unknown, and was a hard limit for Myrina and Tristan. Then they met "The Captain". He slowly, purposefully and methodically introduced them to the spectrum of kink and BDSM. Starting with the sensual, softer side of kink then moving into sensation play, then impact play. Myrina was skeptical and anxious but all of that faded away when she began to experience pleasure in ways sh
Ep 34: Facing Our Fears Around Kink and BDSM
Kink and BDSM were the two things that Myrina and Tristan said were a "hard no" when they entered the lifestyle. Naivete, ignorance, and unfamiliarity with this new world led to a lot of apprehension and fear. So much so, that those were the only things they specifically called attention to in their swinger profiles that they would not explore. Then they met "The Captain". Deciding to open their m
Ep. 33: Swinger Words of Wisdom From a Veteran Lifestyle Couple
Myrina and Tristan interview 7-year lifestyle veterans Michelle and Scott in what turns out to be one of the most thought-provoking, honest, and open interviews to date. Michelle and Scott share the stories of their own struggles and challenges to maneuver through their lifestyle journey. The naked foursome (yes, everyone was naked for this interview) discuss acknowledged double standards, retrai
Ep 32: Our Swingerversary
After a short hiatus, Myrina and Tristan return and share a dual celebration of anniversaries. The recap of their first year in the swinger lifestyle, their Swingerversary, was recorded on the two year anniversary of the release of episode one. Tristan gives his thoughts on their first year of ethical non-monogamy. Myrina and Tristan celebrate their Swingerversary at what has become their "go to"
Ep 31: Exploring Sexual Boundaries: The Hotwife Decides
Myrina turns a new corner in her exploration of being a Hotwife when Tristan and Myrina go on a playdate that was completely orchestrated and organized by Myrina and their date. Before then, Tristan was generally the communicator with possible playmates. But when Myrina saw "A" at a swinger club, she decided to make the first move. When they could not play that night, Myrina decided when, where,
Ep 30: Exploring Sexual Boundaries: Anonymous Sex
When Myrina and Tristan's swinger lifestyle journey began, they thought they had a clear picture of what their swinger play would be. Then things changed. Myrina began exploring the Hot Wife side of her personality and desires. This exploration led to increased meet and greets, playdates, and willingness to expand boundaries and shed some of her inhibitions. Tristan and Myrina were happy and wil
Ep 29: Getting Back Into the Swing of Things
Myrina and Tristan are ready to get back to swinging and are anxious to ring in the new year with a bang, literally! The couple, along with Crimson Dragonfly and Phoenix Phyre, spend a sexy, hot, fun weekend at Caliente as they all prepare to resume their swinger activities. The quad talk about their hilarious conversations with other couples, steamy fun in the conversation pool and hot tub and se
Ep 28: Exploring Sexual Boundaries: How Wet Can She Get
Myrina and Tristan continue to expand their boundaries as they get more comfortable in their play. The couple finally has their long-awaited, first official Meet and Greet and F*@k. And Myrina experiences a new sensation. Tristan and Myrina then meet a lover at a bar and push their exhibitionist boundaries a little further.
Ep 27: A Podcast Milestone and a Little Secret
Myrina and Tristan celebrate their podcasting milestone of reaching over 200,000 downloads in 18 months! And it's all thanks to the Accidental Swingers podcast listeners! To share in the excitement, Myrina and Tristan will treat a lucky listener couple to fun day in the sun at their favorite local clothing optional resort. The lifestyle couple also talks about their weekend at PodBash 2021 at Sec
Ep 26: Exploring Sexual Boundaries
Almost a year into their adventures, Myrina and Tristan begin, what will turn out to be, a pivotal time in their lifestyle journey. Unbeknownst to them, the couple is beginning a period of exploration and starting to push their limits and sexual boundaries. The first in the Exploring Sexual Boundaries episodes, Myrina and Tristan give a local clothing-optional resort another chance where Myrina
Ep 25: Jealousy, Guilt and Unexpected Emotions in the Swinger Lifestyle
Every couple who has entered, or thought about entering, the swinger lifestyle worries about the emotions and feelings that come with seeing your partner having sex with another person. They worry about having feelings for others and what impact it can have on their current relationship. Crimson Dragonfly and Phoenix Phyre join Myrina and Tristan in this roundtable discussion about feelings and em
Ep 24: Tough Choices for a Hotwife and Ethical Slut
The Accidental Swingers discuss the tough choices Myrina had to make as a Hotwife when it comes to playing with "single" men. She made some decisions about what consensual non-monogamy means for her when it comes to playing. They talk about the week of play with Myrina's visiting boyfriend and why that relationship is coming to a very visible end. They introduce their newest playmate, "Brad" and
Ep 23: Sexy Couples Date Turns Into a Hot FF, FMF and MF, MF
Days after returning from her hotwife trip, Myrina and Tristan go on a sleepover date with Tristan's girlfriend and her husband. Wanting to experience some one-on-one girl time without any men around, Myrina and Amber decide to leave the guys at the bar and have their own playtime. Afterward, Tristan and Amber almost get us thrown out of the hotel. And later what looked like an evening cut short f
Ep 22: BONUS EPISODE: Catching Up with the Accidental Swingers
In this bonus podcast episode, Myrina and Tristan talk about the circumstances and issues that brought them to the point of reconsidering their plans to attend Naughty N'awlins 2021. They also discuss what happened in their "vanilla lives" that subsequently turned ALL of their hot and sexy vacation plans upside down.
Ep 21: The Making of a Hotwife Part 3
Myrina and Tristan share their feelings with each other after Myrina arrives home from the trip that solidified her status as a Hotwife and afforded Tristan the opportunity to have a few "hall passes" of his own. As Tristan often says, this time was an "inflection point" in their lifestyle journey. They also talk about their upcoming return to Naughty N'awlins and realize, in a strange way, they'v
Ep 20: The Making of a Hotwife Part 2
Experiencing sex and sexuality on HER terms, Myrina's transition into a Hotwife and Slut begins. After her 10-day trip turned into a 3-week stay, Myrina took full advantage of her "hall pass" and ended up with playdates almost every single night for the second half of the trip. Myrina and Tristan, separately, both recorded their thoughts about the transformation that was taking place and the emoti
Ep 19: BONUS EPISODE: Accidental Swingers After Party
In May of 2021, Myrina and Tristan decided to start recording, what they call, "After Party Episodes". Recorded after a party or event(ful) weekend, After Party episodes chronicle what Myrina and Tristan are doing "right now" - as they emerge from their Covid-induced hibernation and begin swinging again. These raw and largely unedited episodes are typically posted within 24 hours of recording an
Ep 18: The Making of a Hotwife Part 1
Myrina has to travel to her childhood home to help out family. With ten days away from home, Tristan tells Myrina to let her hair down and try to use her "hall pass". Little did they know that what was supposed to be a 10-day trip would completely change both Myrina and Tristan forever.
Ep 17: Steamy, Sexy, Swinger Fun!
What do an over-served playmate, pierced "lady parts", a drummer, and an exhibitionist all have in common? They're the collection of steamy, sexy, and fun stories that round out this episode. Nine months into their lifestyle journey was the end of the year and Myrina and Tristan went out with a bang .... literally! Hearing that the holidays were a downtime for swingers, Myrina and Tristan packed
Ep 16: The Accidental Girlfriend
Not quite as accidental or unexpected as the accidental boyfriend; we kinda saw this one coming. So why do Myrina and Tristan find themselves, once again, surrounded by so many emotional landmines? Myrina struggles with Tristan's new relationship. Communication, sharing and trust become the key components to navigating these feelings and issues. Myrina digs deeps to understand her feelings and has
Ep 15: The Accidental Boyfriend
Accidental and unexpected. Myrina's relationship with a playmate heats up, especially as they spend more time getting to know each other between playdates. Their relationship transitions from playmates to lovers to boyfriend and girlfriend and Myrina and Tristan must face the first enormous obstacle in living and experiencing the swinger lifestyle on their terms. Tristan and Myrina meet a new l
Ep 14: Adventures in Fantasyland
Deciding to push their boundaries a little further, Myrina and Tristan check another item off their "bucket" list with a visit to an adult bookstore and theater with another couple. But were they ready for all that this adventure had to offer? Myrina and Tristan also discuss Myrina's first real solo "date" with a single guy in the lifestyle. Tristan talks about how he felt, waiting at home, wat
Ep 13: Expectations in Swinger Relationships
It was going to be awesome; until it wasn't. We've all done it. Built something up in our minds, just knowing how great the experience is going to be. The excitement. The buildup. The anticipation. And then, it falls apart. Myrina and Tristan share stories of dates that did not go as planned and learn a very valuable lesson in managing their own expectations for relationships they are building wit
Ep 12: Tell Us What You Want
"How do I get my partner into swinging?". This is the number one question we receive from listeners. We invited Dr. Justin Lehmiller, social psychologist and author of the book "Tell Me What You Want" to join us to talk about sexual fantasies, how to talk to your partner about your fantasies, how to listen (and react) when your partner tells you their fantasies, and how to move forward and act on
Ep 11: Playmates, Playdates, Pressure and Performance
Our first four-way!!! Podcast, that is! Meet Phoenix Phyre and Crimson Dragonfly - our playmates and quarantine couple - in our round table discussion about playdates, pressure and performance. Together, the four of us share stories and laughs as we discuss the different times we've all felt the pressure to perform for our play partners. The guys talk about the common reasons they experience
Ep 10: Swinger Paradigm Shift
We spent 5 days at the "largest open-relationship lifestyle event" in the US in 2018; five days that changed our entire concept of what our life as swingers would look like. We met amazing people, ate fantastic food, had lots of sexy & hot play time, and learned even more about ourselves. Listen in as we talk about what happened and began to discover what type of swingers we wanted to be and wh
Ep 9: Being Naughty Was Oh, So Nice!
The adventures continue when these two new swingers attend the "largest open-relationship lifestyle event" in the US. Each day held new surprises, new experiences, new screw-ups and new friends! We credit this experience as a defining moment in creating and shaping our entire lifestyle journey. Part 2 of this 3 part series: The sparks fly when we meet the most amazing couple! Wonderful conversati
Ep 8: Gettin' Sleazy in the Big Easy
Two newbie swingers travel to "the largest open-relationship lifestyle" event in the US in New Orleans. We didn't know what to expect or what we were doing. The experience ended up changing our entire perspective of what our lifestyle journey would look like. Join us as we share our hot and sexy stories about our trip to Naughty in N'awlins (NiN), the event that helped build the foundation of o
Ep 7: Drunk or Drama?
Even savvy Swingers can't always avoid drama. In situations when things may not be going exactly as planned, just realizing when to slow down, when to step back and knowing when to say "when" can help keep you from stepping on landmines and getting caught up in some drama. But, we're the Accidental Swingers and, as usual, we learned these lessons the hard way. We talk about three back to back
Ep 6: Sexual Swinging vs. Social Swinging
We start dating a new couple! After meeting them and having a great dinner date, we decide to have a play date at a new venue. And Tristan finally gets his "turn" at some hot action! We also begin to understand and explore our desire to have a deeper, emotional connection with our swinging partners. We dubbed it Social Swinging vs. Sexual Swinging. Sexual swinging is more about the physical s
Ep 5: A Nudist Resort, A Sex Club and A Date Gone Sideways
Our swinging adventures really start to take off in this episode! We visit a local nudist resort that embraces the lifestyle community. We go on a date with a new couple and end up at an on-premise sex club! Find out how we were setting up and going on lots of meet & greet dates and then listen to the hysterical details about a meet & greet date with a new single guy that did not go quite as we
Ep 4: We Finally F*ck!!!
After months of reviewing profiles, messaging people and having meet & greets with potential playmates - we finally f*ck!!! In this episode, we talk about our first MFM as well as the first swinger event we ever attended (held at an area nudist resort/ community!). You'll hear portions of the original audio that we recorded two years ago on our way home from the event as well as a segment from t
Ep 3: The Nuts and Bolts of Swinging
Since our introduction into swinging wasn't planned, when we accidentally entered the lifestyle we didn't know anything about the basics of swinging. We weren't familiar with some of the common terms that swingers and lifestylers use and we had no idea how the swinger social websites worked. We also did not know how to find other swingers and resources for swingers in our area. In this episode
Ep 2: Our First Swinger Date
It's "the date" that started our lifestyle journey! We had three weeks between our accidental swinger date (when we realized our friends were swingers and wanted us to join them) and our play date. We talk about what we did to prepare for our very first swinger experience and laugh about what happened and what we did when things didn't quite go exactly as we planned! Read our most recent blog p
Ep 1: Meet The Accidental Swingers
Our initial podcast episode introduces Myrina and Tristan, describes the purpose of this podcast, and where the idea and the name came from. Read our most recent blog post here: Our Adventures Show Notes and Resources can be found on the Accidental Swingers website Connect with us on Instagram @AccidentalSwingers Find us on Reddit: Myrina's Profile or Accidental Swingers Profile We're also on Twit
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