Anger Secrets: Anger Management for Healthier Relationships
Anger Secrets is a podcast hosted by anger management expert Alastair Duhs that helps listeners understand and manage their anger. It explores practical strategies for emotional regulation, communication, and conflict resolution. The show addresses root causes of anger and offers guidance on repairing relationships damaged by anger. Each episode aims to help listeners stop losing their temper and stay calm under pressure.
Episodes
206 - How Do I Know If I Have An Anger Issue?
For help controlling your anger, visit https://angersecrets.com/.It wasn't that bad. Everyone gets angry sometimes. That is what most people tell themselves the morning after losing their temper, and it keeps the real question unanswered. In this episode, Alastair gives a straight answer: five clear signs your anger has crossed the line.If you've ever gone from calm to furious in seconds, held ont
205 - How To Stop Judging Your Partner
For help controlling your anger, visit https://angersecrets.com/.Your partner tells you how they handled something at work, and before they've finished the story, you've decided they got it wrong. You don't say it out loud. But they can feel it. In this episode, Alastair explains why judgemental thinking is so hard to switch off, and how to trade quiet criticism for something that actually brings
204 - Your Job Isn't Making You Angry. Here's What's Really Happening.
For help controlling your anger, visit angersecrets.com.Most people believe their boss, workload or difficult colleagues are causing their anger. But what if that's not actually true? In this episode, Alastair explains what's really driving workplace anger - and how to take back control without changing jobs.If you've ever left work frustrated, snapped at a colleague, dreaded another meeting, or c
203 - "I Was Destroying My Family". How One Man Finally Controlled His Anger
For help controlling your anger, visit angersecrets.com.Five weeks earlier, Cyrus believed he was beyond help. His wife was afraid of him. His children were living with the effects of his anger. Today, his family life looks completely different. This is his story.In this special episode of the Anger Secrets Podcast, Alastair sits down with Cyrus, a husband, father and farmer who openly shares how
202 - You Might Be Emotionally Abusive Without Knowing It. Here's the Pattern That Proves It.
For help controlling your anger, visit angersecrets.com.Most people who become emotionally abusive don't wake up intending to hurt the person they love. But unmanaged anger can quietly become emotional abuse without you ever recognising the pattern. This episode explains how it happens, and how to stop it before it destroys your relationship.Many people think emotional abuse only applies to extrem
201 - Is Your Anger Hurting Your Children? What Every Parent Needs to Know
For help controlling your anger, visit angersecrets.com/.Every parent loses their patience sometimes. But when anger becomes a pattern, it affects far more than one difficult moment. In this episode, Alastair explains how parental anger shapes your children's emotional wellbeing, and how you can stop the cycle before it becomes their future.If you've ever watched your child go quiet after you've s
200 - Can You Actually Control Your Anger? What Most People Get Wrong.
For help controlling your anger, visit angersecrets.com.If you've ever found yourself asking, "Why can't I control my anger?" you're not alone. Most people believe anger simply happens to them. In this episode, Alastair explains why that belief keeps people stuck, and where real control actually begins.Many people think anger is something that takes over without warning. It feels automatic. One mi
199 - The Pause That Saves Your Relationship: How Mindfulness Stops Anger Before It Explodes
For help controlling your anger, visit angersecrets.com.Most people think anger is the problem. It isn't. The real problem is the split second between the trigger and your reaction. In this episode, you'll learn how mindfulness helps you create that pause so you can respond instead of explode.If you've ever found yourself shouting at your partner, snapping at your children or regretting something
198 - Is Disconnection Destroying Your Relationship?
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.You love your partner. You work hard. You show up. Yet somehow the distance between you keeps growing. Conversations feel flat, small disagreements turn into bigger arguments than they should and the relationship feels more like a partnership in logistics than a real connection.In this episode, Alastair explores one of the m
197 - He Lost His Marriage Before He Asked for Help. Here's What Colin Learned.
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.Colin knew he had an anger problem. His wife knew it too. She asked him more than once to get help, but like many people struggling with anger, he convinced himself things weren't that bad. By the time he finally decided to do something about it, his marriage was over.In this episode, Alastair shares Colin's story in his own
196 - How to Stop Having the Same Argument Again and Again
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.The argument is over, but the damage is still there. The frustration. The guilt. The distance. If you and your partner keep finding yourselves trapped in the same painful conflicts, this episode will show you a practical way to start breaking the cycle and rebuilding trust.In the previous episode, Alastair introduced the Dra
195 - Why Couples Keep Having the Same Fight
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.Most couples think they're arguing about the dishes, the forgotten phone call or something that happened last weekend. They're not.Beneath almost every recurring conflict is a hidden pattern that keeps both people stuck, and until you see that pattern, the same arguments tend to repeat themselves again and again.In this epis
194 - The One Skill That Stops You Snapping at the People You Love
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.Why do so many people lose their temper before they even realise they're angry?The answer isn't a lack of willpower. It's a lack of awareness. If you can't see anger building, you can't stop it before it damages your relationships.In this episode, Alastair explains why self-awareness is the foundation of effective anger mana
193 - 10 People Who Thought They'd Never Control Their Anger
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.If you've ever wondered whether your anger is just who you are, this episode is for you. These stories show what can happen when people stop letting anger control their relationships and start taking real steps toward change.In this episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs shares the experiences of 10 men and women who struggled
192 - Is Your Anger Ruining Your Marriage? Five Things You Can Do Right Now
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.You love your partner, but lately something feels different. The arguments go in circles. The distance keeps growing. If you've started wondering whether your anger is damaging your marriage, this episode will help you take the first steps toward turning things around.In this episode, Alastair shares five practical actions y
191 - Do You Have an Anger Problem? Here's How to Know for Sure
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.Most people with an anger problem don't think they have one. They've never been violent. They don't see themselves as angry people. But if your partner is walking on eggshells, your kids are pulling away or the same arguments keep happening over and over, anger may be affecting your relationships more than you realize.In thi
190 - The Split Second That Saves Your Marriage
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.Most people think anger arrives out of nowhere. One moment you're discussing something ordinary with your partner or family, and the next, you're shouting, regretting what you said and wondering how it happened. The truth is that anger doesn't take over instantly. There's a split second before the blowup where everything can
189 - Taking Things Personally Isn't the Problem - This Is
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.Most people think taking things personally is the problem. It isn't. The real problem is the meaning you attach to what other people say, and how quickly that meaning turns into anger, hurt, or defensiveness.If you've ever replayed a conversation for hours, felt crushed by criticism or found yourself reacting strongly to a c
188 - Is Anger Management Change Sustainable? Michael's Story
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.In this episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs sits down with Michael, a man in his late 70s who completed Alastair's anger management program 18 months ago, to find out one simple thing: did the change last? Whether you have tried to control your anger before and slipped back, or you are wondering whether it is even worth star
187 - 10 Rules To Control Your Anger - Starting Today
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.In this episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs shares ten rules of anger management that he has refined over more than thirty years of working with clients. Whether your anger shows up in the big blowups, the sharp comments you didn't mean to make or the slow build of tension your partner can see before you even realise it your
186 - How 6 Hours A Week Could Save Your Relationship
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.In this episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs walks through seven simple habits, drawn from the research of relationship psychologist Dr. John Gottman, that can fundamentally change how connected, loved and secure you and your partner feel. Whether your relationship has drifted into silence, feels more like a housemate arrange
185 - Why Do I Keep Getting Angry Over The Same Things?
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.In this episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs walks through three powerful mindset shifts to help break the cycle of repeating anger. Whether it is the same argument with your partner, the same trigger at work or the same driver cutting you off, he explains why the pattern keeps happening and what you can do to finally change
184 - Why Do I Always Say The Wrong Thing When My Partner Is Upset?
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.In this episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs walks through four simple but powerful steps to help you say the right thing when your partner is upset - whether you tend to jump straight to fixing, go quiet or say something that somehow makes things worse. These are practical, learnable skills that work even when emotions are r
183 - You Can Control Your Anger Faster Than You Think
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com. In this episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs walks through the three tools that actually create lasting change for people who struggle with anger. Whether you've tried to change before and slipped back, or you've started to believe that this is just who you are, this episode explains exactly why that happens and what a diffe
182 - 3 Steps to Improve Your Relationship Starting Today
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.In this episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs shares three practical steps to help you improve your relationship starting today. Whether the arguments have become more frequent, the conversations that matter have quietly stopped or there's just a low-level tension that never fully goes away, this episode explains exactly what'
181 - Feeling Anger Rising? These 3 Exercises Can Stop It in Its Tracks
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com. In this episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs shares three practical mindfulness tools you can reach for the moment you feel anger starting to build. Whether it's a comment that lands wrong, a situation that spirals or just one too many things going sideways in a single day, these tools work when things are heating up, not ju
180 - Face-to-Face vs Online Anger Management - Which One Actually Works?
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com. In this episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs gives an honest, straight comparison of face-to-face and online anger management programs. Whether you've been Googling your options, looked at a few programs or just aren't sure where to start, this episode cuts through the confusion and helps you make a decision that actually mo
179 - Why Anger Management Doesn't Work - And What To Do Instead
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.In this episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs walks through seven of the most common anger management mistakes that keep people stuck, even when they're genuinely trying to change. Whether you've read all the books, tried breathing exercises or sat through a course or two, this episode explains why the effort often doesn't sti
178 - 7 Signs You Have an Anger Problem - And What to Do
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.In this episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs walks through seven signs that anger may be a real problem in your life - and what you can do about it. Whether it's a short fuse, constant irritability or a partner who walks on eggshells around you, these signs are worth taking seriously. And the good news is that recognising the
177 - Fiona's Story: Controlling What She Could Change
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.In this episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs talks with Fiona - a small business owner and mother who grew up surrounded by family violence and spent years struggling with anger in her marriage. Just seven weeks into the Complete Anger Management System, Fiona has already made remarkable progress. Her husband has noticed. She
176 - 5 Ways to Handle Someone Else's Anger
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.In this episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs shares five practical ways to respond when someone else's anger is directed at you. Whether it's a partner who explodes, a colleague who unloads or a family member who pushes your buttons, how you respond in those moments matters more than you might think.Rather than fighting back
175 - Why You Keep Losing Your Temper - And How to Stop
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.In this episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs shares three practical steps to help you control your anger before it takes over. If you've ever said something you regret in the heat of the moment, or felt like your anger erupts before you even realise what's happening, this episode explains exactly why that happens and what you
174 - How to Discipline Your Kids Without Losing Control
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.Have you ever promised yourself you’d stay calm with your kids only to find yourself yelling anyway when your patience runs out? You try the usual parenting tips, counting to ten or staying positive, but in the moment none of it seems to work.In this episode of The Anger Secrets Podcast, anger expert Alastair Duhs explains w
173 - How One Man Broke The Anger Cycle: Matthew's Story
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.Have you ever felt like small frustrations slowly build up until suddenly you’re snapping at the person you care about most? You tell yourself you’ll do better next time, but the same pattern keeps repeating, leaving you feeling frustrated, guilty or stuck.In this episode of The Anger Secrets Podcast, anger expert Alastair D
172 - The One Word That Stops Anger In Its Tracks
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.In this episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs introduces a simple but powerful framework designed to help you interrupt anger before it turns into an explosion. Instead of trying to calm down after an outburst has already started, you’ll learn how to recognise the early warning signs of anger and use a practical four-step proc
171 - Why Your Partner Never Hears What You're Trying to Say
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.Have you ever had an argument that started over something small? The dishes, a tone of voice or being late, and somehow ended with both of you feeling hurt, defensive and completely misunderstood?In this episode of The Anger Secrets Podcast, anger expert Alastair Duhs explains why most relationship conflict isn’t caused by b
170 - Understanding Your Anger Triggers
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.Have you ever gone from calm to furious in a matter of seconds, and only afterwards wondered, “Where did that come from?”In this episode of The Anger Secrets Podcast, anger expert Alastair Duhs explains why anger rarely comes out of nowhere. Instead, it’s usually triggered by long-standing patterns that quietly shape how you
169 - Is Your Anger Healthy or Harmful?
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.Is anger always a bad thing? Or are there times when feeling angry actually makes sense?In this episode of The Anger Secrets Podcast, anger expert Alastair Duhs explains why anger itself isn’t the problem. The real damage happens when anger is either suppressed or expressed in ways that hurt relationships.You’ll learn what h
168 - The Small Moments That Are Quietly Destroying Your Relationship
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.Why is it that one small comment can turn into a full-blown argument in some relationships, while in others, it barely causes a ripple?In this episode of The Anger Secrets Podcast, anger expert Alastair Duhs explains why relationships don’t usually break down because of the big arguments. They unravel through hundreds of sma
167 - Five Steps to Rebuild a Relationship After Separation
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.What do you do when the person you love no longer wants to be with you, and anger, fear or past behaviour has broken trust?In this episode of The Anger Secrets Podcast, anger expert Alastair Duhs speaks directly to those facing one of the hardest moments in a relationship: separation caused by anger issues. With honesty and
166 - How to Handle Anger in Your Relationship
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.Have you ever gone to bed replaying an argument over and over in your mind, wishing you’d said things differently, wishing you’d stayed calmer or wishing the damage hadn’t been done?If so, you’re not alone. And more importantly, it doesn’t mean you’re a bad partner or a bad person. It means something inside you is trying to
165 - The 60-Second Window That Could Save Your Relationship
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.You're in the middle of an argument and you know where it's headed. But what if you could change the outcome before things spiral out of control?In this essential episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs reveals how to recognise the signs of escalating conflict and use simple, proven repair techniques to stop fights before they s
164 - Why Small Things Make You So Angry
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.It’s often not the big things that make you angry. It’s the small stuff that hijacks your day. In this thoughtful episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs explores why seemingly minor annoyances can trigger such big reactions, and how learning to let go of them can radically improve your relationships, your mood and your life.Key
163 - The Four Hidden Killers of Your Relationship
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.Most relationships don’t fall apart in one explosive moment. They unravel quietly through patterns we barely notice. In this eye-opening episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs reveals the four hidden killers that silently destroy relationships from the inside out. If your connection with your partner feels colder, more distant
162 - Why Active Listening Could Save Your Relationship
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.Ever feel like you and your partner are speaking different languages, even when you're in the same room? In this episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs reveals why active listening is the missing link in most relationships, and how mastering it can bring you closer than ever before. If you’re tired of arguments that go nowhere,
161 - The Real Reasons People Decide to Control Their Anger
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.After an anger outburst, the silence can feel unbearable. In this heartfelt episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs reveals the one essential ingredient most people overlook when trying to change: a powerful personal “why.” Through real stories from men and women just like you, this episode will help you uncover the deeper reaso
160 - Why Defensiveness Is Silently Destroying Your Relationship
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.Have you ever found yourself in an argument before you even realise what triggered it? In this powerful episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs explores how defensiveness quietly damages relationships, and how you can stop it. Learn why your instinct to defend yourself often masks deeper fears, and how choosing connection over c
159 - Stop Blaming Others: The Key to Controlling Your Anger
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.Have you ever said, “You made me so mad”? In this episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs unpacks the hidden cost of blaming others for your anger—and the freedom that comes when you take full responsibility for your actions. If you’re ready to step out of blame, stop the cycle of conflict and take back control of your emotions,
158 - The Truth About Therapy and Anger — Katie’s Story
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.When therapy didn’t work, Katie feared she’d never get control of her anger. Her relationship was falling apart, her parenting was suffering and she was terrified of repeating the cycle of anger she grew up with. In this inspiring episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs interviews Katie about her powerful journey—how she broke f
157 - Do You Want To Be Right — Or Be Happy?
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.Have you ever felt the urge to prove you're right—especially in the heat of an argument? In this powerful episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs shares a personal story and a lesson from a truck-driving client that will change the way you think about conflict. Discover why letting go of the need to be right isn’t weakness—it’s
156 - How to Build a Stronger, Happier Relationship
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.Arguments that start small often end in deep emotional disconnect. In this heartfelt episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs explores how seemingly minor issues can spiral into major conflicts—and how you can change that. He shares three simple but powerful tips that will help you manage conflict better, communicate more effecti
155 - Why Anger Hits You So Fast — And How to Stop It
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.Have you ever felt like your anger comes out of nowhere—one moment you're fine, and the next you're exploding? In this insightful episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs breaks down the real reasons why you might think you get angry so quickly. By understanding what's truly happening beneath the surface, you can learn to spot th
154 - 6 Proven Tips To Control Your Anger Fast
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.Have you ever said something in anger that you instantly regretted? In this episode of the Anger Secrets Podcast, anger expert Alastair Duhs shares six powerful, practical tips to help you stay calm and in control—even in the heat of the moment. Whether you're struggling with sudden outbursts or lingering tension, these stra
153 - Walking on Eggshells: Paul’s Story
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.What if one moment of clarity could save your relationship? In this heartfelt episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs sits down with Paul, a single father whose anger was slowly pushing away the people he loved most. When his partner said life felt like “walking on eggshells,” Paul knew something had to change — and in just a fe
152 - 5 Excuses That Keep You Stuck in Anger
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.Are you telling yourself you'll deal with your anger someday? In this compassionate yet eye-opening episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs breaks down the five most common reasons people avoid anger management — and why those reasons might be keeping you stuck. If you're ready to stop making excuses and start changing your life
151 - The Hidden Link Between Alcohol and Anger
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.Have you ever poured a drink to unwind, only to find yourself angrier than before? In this eye-opening episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs explores the often misunderstood connection between alcohol and anger. Whether you're a casual drinker or someone who struggles with outbursts after a night out, this episode offers clari
150 - How Raymond Transformed 30 Years of Anger in Just 5 Weeks
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.What if 30 years of anger could be transformed in just five weeks? In this powerful episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs shares the remarkable story of Raymond, a man whose volatile temper nearly ended his marriage — until one turning point helped him change everything. If you've ever felt like your anger is out of control, R
149 - Three Simple Steps To Control Your Anger
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.Have you ever promised yourself you'd stay calm—only to find anger rising before you even realised it? In this episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs shares three powerful, easy-to-apply steps that will help you recognise, defuse and communicate through anger before it takes control. If you're tired of the regret that follows a
148 - Breaking the Cycle of Abuse and Violence
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.This episode dives into one of the most difficult but essential topics: understanding how abuse and violence may show up in your life—and how to end the cycle. Anger expert Alastair Duhs speaks with clarity and compassion about behaviors that cause harm, whether through words, control, silence or physical actions. If you’ve
147 - How to End Arguments Before They Begin
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.Arguments in relationships often start small but quickly spiral into deep disconnection. In this episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs reveals why conflict escalates with the people we love most—and how to stop it before it starts. With three powerful, practical techniques, Alastair guides you to shift from reaction to respons
146 - The Hidden Cost of Anger (and How to Heal)
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.In this heartfelt episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs explores the emotional toll of anger—not just on the people around you, but on your own sense of self. If you’ve ever whispered an apology and still felt the weight of guilt, this episode will help you understand why anger shows up and how you can begin to break free from
145 - Breaking the Cycle of Generational Anger — Cameron’s Story
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.In this deeply moving episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs shares the powerful transformation of Cameron—a husband, father and successful businessman—who took brave steps to change the legacy of anger in his family. After a painful outburst left his daughter afraid, Cameron realised he was repeating patterns he swore he’d nev
144 - The Surprising Truth About Where Anger Really Comes From
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.In this powerful episode of The Anger Secrets Podcast, anger expert Alastair Duhs explores a transformative truth: anger doesn’t start in the world around you—it starts within. Through vivid storytelling and real client experiences, Alastair reveals how your thoughts shape your emotions and how shifting your perspective can
143 - The Key to Controlling Your Anger
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.Have you ever snapped at someone you love — and immediately regretted it?In today’s powerful episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs reveals what he considers the missing key to managing anger. This simple yet essential shift has helped thousands of people break the cycle of outbursts, regret, and disconnection — and it could do
142 - What Has Anger Cost You So Far?
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.What has your anger really cost you?Your peace of mind? A relationship that mattered? Your child’s trust — or your own self-respect?In this powerful episode, Alastair Duhs invites you to take an honest look at the true cost of anger — not with judgment, but with compassion. He shares real client stories, including Richard, w
141 - It Wasn’t Yelling, But It Was Abuse - Leon's Story
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.In this powerful episode, host Alastair Duhs interviews Leon, a courageous man who recently took the step to control his anger.Initially, Leon didn't realise he had an anger problem. He thought that since he wasn’t yelling or being physical, anger was not an issue for him. Listen as Leon shares how this understanding changed
140 - How To Stop The Blame Game
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.The blame game is a trap that keeps people locked in negative patterns and arguments. In this episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs explains that while blaming others feels good in the moment, it ultimately damages trust and connection in relationships. Recognising and stopping the blame game is crucial for personal growth and
139 - Can People Really Change? The Truth About Anger Management
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.In this episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs dives into the idea that real change in anger management is possible, even if it feels like nothing works. By the end of the episode, listeners will understand that anger management is a skill that can be learned, not just a trait they are stuck with.Alastair also emphasises that w
138 - When Anger Costs You Everything: Gary's Story
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.In this powerful and deeply honest episode of the Anger Secrets Podcast, Alastair Duhs sits down with Gary — a recent participant of The Complete Anger Management System — to explore the painful realities of letting anger go unchecked for too long.Gary opens up about the breakdown of his relationship, the guilt he carries an
137 - Four Behaviors That Will End Your Marriage
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.In this episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs dives into four key behaviors that lead to the end of marriages, based on research by Dr. John Gottman. Alastair discusses how these behaviors often creep in unnoticed, slowly eroding trust and connection in relationships.He emphasises that criticism, contempt, defensiveness, and s
136 - Mastering the Art of Apologising: 7 Key Tips
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.In this episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs discusses the importance of a genuine apology and how it can truly heal relationships. He shares how many people struggle with apologising effectively, often just saying "I'm sorry" without understanding what it really means, and shares seven practical tips to help listeners make t
135 - How I Took Control of My Anger: Simon's Story
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.Change is possible, even after anger has caused hurt and broken trust. In this episode, anger expert Alastair talks with Simon, a husband and father whose anger impacted his family life.Simon shares his journey of recognising his anger patterns and taking responsibility for his actions. He emphasises that the path to change
134 - The Fight You Keep Having — and How to End It for Good
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.Many couples find themselves stuck in the same argument over and over. They often feel frustrated and exhausted, wondering how to break the cycle. In this episode, anger management expert Alastair shares a three-step approach called the LNC Method.This method is designed to help couples replace fighting with productive conve
133 - How to Turn Anger Into Compassion — And Change Everything
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.Compassion can be a game changer when it comes to managing anger. In this episode, anger management expert Alastair Duhs shares a powerful story about a man named James, who almost let his rage take over in a hospital parking lot. But instead of acting on his anger, James had a moment of realisation that completely shifted h
132 - How To Stop Anger Before It Starts
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.Sometimes, it takes just one angry outburst to hurt someone you love or to do unrepairable relationship damage. In this episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs dives into how to stop anger before it escalates. Learn five simple strategies to stay calm and grounded when emotions run high. By utilising these strategies, you can pr
131 - Don't Fuel The Rocket: Scott's Story
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.Scott's is the fun Dad who kept the laughs coming. Deep down however, he was dealing with a lot of unresolved pain. Over time, this pain turned into a rocket of rage, especially when he felt his daughters push back against him. After a series of explosive moments, Scott realised he needed to change his approach to anger. In
130 - Fighting Fair: 3 Proven Rules to Save Your Relationship
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.Fighting with loved ones can be tough. In this episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs dives into why the fights happens and how to handle them better. Learn how small issues, like a forgotten anniversary or a simple comment, can escalate into big arguments, leaving both partners feeling hurt. To break this cycle of anger and ar
129 - Why Do I Keep Losing It?
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.Feel like anger gets the best of you? In this episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs shares three powerful strategies to help you regain control over your anger and respond thoughtfully instead of reacting explosively. Learn the importance of recognising your Early Warning Signs of anger, using positive self-talk to stay ground
128 - Master Your Anger: 3 Game-Changing Strategies
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.Anger doesn’t have to control you, and it definitely shouldn’t ruin your relationships. In this episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs shares three key strategies to help manage anger effectively. These strategies have transformed the lives of many, promoting healthier relationships and a calmer, happier mindset. Tune in to dis
127 - Unlocking Vulnerability: The Key to Deeper Connections
For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.Do you ever hold back your feelings with someone you love? It can be tough to be vulnerable, but in this episode, host Alastair Duhs shares three solid strategies for opening up and connecting deeper with your partner. By embracing vulnerability, you can build trust and intimacy, leading to a happier, more loving relationshi
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