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Anger Secrets: Anger Management for Healthier Relationships

Anger Secrets: Anger Management for Healthier Relationships

Alastair Duhs | Anger Management Expert 194 Episodes Aug 23, 2026

Anger Secrets is a podcast hosted by anger management expert Alastair Duhs that helps listeners understand and manage their anger. It explores practical strategies for emotional regulation, communication, and conflict resolution. The show addresses root causes of anger and offers guidance on repairing relationships damaged by anger. Each episode aims to help listeners stop losing their temper and stay calm under pressure.

Episodes

199 - The Pause That Saves Your Relationship: How Mindfulness Stops Anger Before It Explodes
199 - The Pause That Saves Your Relationship: How Mindfulness Stops Anger Before It Explodes Aug 23, 2026 12:45 For help controlling your anger, visit angersecrets.com.Most people think anger is the problem. It isn't. The real problem is the split second between the trigger and your reaction. In this episode, you'll learn how mindfulness helps you create that pause so you can respond instead of explode.If you've ever found yourself shouting at your partner, snapping at your children or regretting something
198 - Is Disconnection Destroying Your Relationship?
198 - Is Disconnection Destroying Your Relationship? Aug 16, 2026 12:03 For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.You love your partner. You work hard. You show up. Yet somehow the distance between you keeps growing. Conversations feel flat, small disagreements turn into bigger arguments than they should and the relationship feels more like a partnership in logistics than a real connection.In this episode, Alastair explores one of the m
197 - He Lost His Marriage Before He Asked for Help. Here's What Colin Learned.
197 - He Lost His Marriage Before He Asked for Help. Here's What Colin Learned. Aug 9, 2026 12:52 For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.Colin knew he had an anger problem. His wife knew it too. She asked him more than once to get help, but like many people struggling with anger, he convinced himself things weren't that bad. By the time he finally decided to do something about it, his marriage was over.In this episode, Alastair shares Colin's story in his own
196 - How to Stop Having the Same Argument Again and Again
196 - How to Stop Having the Same Argument Again and Again Aug 2, 2026 11:46 For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.The argument is over, but the damage is still there. The frustration. The guilt. The distance. If you and your partner keep finding yourselves trapped in the same painful conflicts, this episode will show you a practical way to start breaking the cycle and rebuilding trust.In the previous episode, Alastair introduced the Dra
195 - Why Couples Keep Having the Same Fight
195 - Why Couples Keep Having the Same Fight Jul 26, 2026 11:18 For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.Most couples think they're arguing about the dishes, the forgotten phone call or something that happened last weekend. They're not.Beneath almost every recurring conflict is a hidden pattern that keeps both people stuck, and until you see that pattern, the same arguments tend to repeat themselves again and again.In this epis
194 - The One Skill That Stops You Snapping at the People You Love
194 - The One Skill That Stops You Snapping at the People You Love Jul 19, 2026 10:47 For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.Why do so many people lose their temper before they even realise they're angry?The answer isn't a lack of willpower. It's a lack of awareness. If you can't see anger building, you can't stop it before it damages your relationships.In this episode, Alastair explains why self-awareness is the foundation of effective anger mana
193 - 10 People Who Thought They'd Never Control Their Anger
193 - 10 People Who Thought They'd Never Control Their Anger Jul 12, 2026 10:19 For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.If you've ever wondered whether your anger is just who you are, this episode is for you. These stories show what can happen when people stop letting anger control their relationships and start taking real steps toward change.In this episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs shares the experiences of 10 men and women who struggled
192 - Is Your Anger Ruining Your Marriage? Five Things You Can Do Right Now
192 - Is Your Anger Ruining Your Marriage? Five Things You Can Do Right Now Jul 5, 2026 12:33 For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.You love your partner, but lately something feels different. The arguments go in circles. The distance keeps growing. If you've started wondering whether your anger is damaging your marriage, this episode will help you take the first steps toward turning things around.In this episode, Alastair shares five practical actions y
191 - Do You Have an Anger Problem? Here's How to Know for Sure
191 - Do You Have an Anger Problem? Here's How to Know for Sure Jun 28, 2026 11:14 For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.Most people with an anger problem don't think they have one. They've never been violent. They don't see themselves as angry people. But if your partner is walking on eggshells, your kids are pulling away or the same arguments keep happening over and over, anger may be affecting your relationships more than you realize.In thi
190 - The Split Second That Saves Your Marriage
190 - The Split Second That Saves Your Marriage Jun 21, 2026 11:03 For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.Most people think anger arrives out of nowhere. One moment you're discussing something ordinary with your partner or family, and the next, you're shouting, regretting what you said and wondering how it happened. The truth is that anger doesn't take over instantly. There's a split second before the blowup where everything can
189 - Taking Things Personally Isn't the Problem - This Is
189 - Taking Things Personally Isn't the Problem - This Is Jun 14, 2026 11:55 For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.Most people think taking things personally is the problem. It isn't. The real problem is the meaning you attach to what other people say, and how quickly that meaning turns into anger, hurt, or defensiveness.If you've ever replayed a conversation for hours, felt crushed by criticism or found yourself reacting strongly to a c
188 - Is Anger Management Change Sustainable? Michael's Story
188 - Is Anger Management Change Sustainable? Michael's Story Jun 7, 2026 17:18 For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.In this episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs sits down with Michael, a man in his late 70s who completed Alastair's anger management program 18 months ago, to find out one simple thing: did the change last? Whether you have tried to control your anger before and slipped back, or you are wondering whether it is even worth star

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