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Kinking Out Loud - The FemDom Podcast

Kinking Out Loud - The FemDom Podcast

Gothicc Hel 14 Episodes Dec 13, 2025

A sex-positive podcast that explores FemDom, submission, kink, intimacy, and personal relationships. Host Gothicc Hel explains kink concepts in an approachable way, dispels myths about FemDom and BDSM, and keeps the tone entertaining and positive. The show aims to relax and educate listeners with the host's soothing voice. Gothicc Hel also writes dark and paranormal romance with BDSM under the pen name J.R. O'Brien.

Episodes

E13: No means Yes: CNC & Dark Romance
E13: No means Yes: CNC & Dark Romance Dec 13, 2025 708 Send me fan mail here!Today's episode is all about consent, or consent to no consent. This is a very hot topic in today's society and always has been. CNC and dark romance have many things in common, most prominently the part when people judge others for being into it. It's a very sensitive topic that many people seem to deeply misunderstand, and I'm here to explain the differe
E12: The Joys of Bimbofication
E12: The Joys of Bimbofication Sep 28, 2024 533 Send me fan mail here!What if reclaiming a stereotype could lead to personal empowerment and joy? Join me, Gothicc Hel, in this episode of Kinking Out Loud, we explore how the bimbofication kink intersects with themes of degradation, societal perceptions, and the beauty of transformation. Whether you’re curious about incorporating it into your bedroom antics or considering it as a lifestyle, we’ll
E11: Objectification
E11: Objectification Oct 18, 2023 491 Send me fan mail here!In this episode I talk about objectification! Something that can be very fun, if you've consented. You'll find out what it is, how to do it, and other types of objectification. Make sure you also check out my new podcast "GothicCast!"Support the showFollow me on social media!jrobrienbooks.comThreads: threads.net/@gothicc_hel🎶 TikTok: tiktok.com/@gothicc_he
Untied & Unrelated: All Boys Should Cry
Untied & Unrelated: All Boys Should Cry Jun 18, 2023 404 Send me fan mail here!Welcome to Untied and unrelated, a series of episodes unrelated to bdsm, femdom and kink, where I just talk about whatever I'm thinking about. Today; I hate the fact that society says men can't be vulnerable, show emotions and cry. It's very toxic and I think it's something that should change.Support the showFollow me on social media!jrobrienbooks.comThrea
E10: Who's Your Daddy? - DDlg
E10: Who's Your Daddy? - DDlg Jun 18, 2023 1231 Send me fan mail here!You've probably heard "Daddy" used in a sexual context before. But what exactly is DDlg? Why do people do it? There are many misconceptions about this kink, some think it's sexualizing those under 18, some think it's just plain gross, but very few people  know what being a Daddy Dom and little girl actually is. Support the showFollow me on social medi
E9: Are You Doing D/s Right?
E9: Are You Doing D/s Right? Jun 16, 2023 553 Send me fan mail here!Have people told you that you're not a real Domme if you act a certain way? Have you heard that you're not dominant if you make the first move? Maybe you've been told by a perfect stranger that you way of submitting isn't submissive enough... Well, let's talk about that.Support the showFollow me on social media!jrobrienbooks.comThreads: threads.net/@g
E8: Are You Obsessed?
E8: Are You Obsessed? Jun 13, 2023 489 Send me fan mail here!I am finally back here and today I'll talk about Obsession. for better or for worse, obsession is a part of all of our lives. Is there such a thing as healthy obsession? Can obsession be a good thing? Support the showFollow me on social media!jrobrienbooks.comThreads: threads.net/@gothicc_hel🎶 TikTok: tiktok.com/@gothicc_hel📷 Instagram: instagram.com/gothicc_hel
E7: Service Submission
E7: Service Submission Mar 10, 2022 848 Send me fan mail here!Do you greatly enjoy being told to wash the dishes? Maybe the thought of being a personal driver is very appealing? Do you feel accomplished doing tasks for your FemDomme that seems like everyday chores? Then you might be into service submission!Support the showFollow me on social media!jrobrienbooks.comThreads: threads.net/@gothicc_hel🎶 TikTok: tiktok.com/@gothicc_hel📷 Insta
E6: How Do I Find A FemDomme?
E6: How Do I Find A FemDomme? Mar 2, 2022 937 Send me fan mail here!So you've been looking for a FemDomme for a while, and you haven't really had any luck. Well, do not fret, you're not alone! Although I have to disappoint you by saying I'm not looking for subs, I can absolutely help you to find someone else! I have 6 years experience as a lifestyle FemDomme, and I've received hundreds of messages from subs wanting to
E5: FemDom Red Flags
E5: FemDom Red Flags Feb 27, 2022 571 Send me fan mail here!Have you ever been scammed by someone claiming to be a FemDomme? or maybe you've spent hours talking to someone who turned out to be a catfish? Here are the red flags you should look out for!Support the showFollow me on social media!jrobrienbooks.comThreads: threads.net/@gothicc_hel🎶 TikTok: tiktok.com/@gothicc_hel📷 Instagram: instagram.com/gothicc_hel
E4: Consent Is Needed Before We Start
E4: Consent Is Needed Before We Start Feb 26, 2022 521 Send me fan mail here!In this episode of Kinking Out Loud, I talk about consent! Of course you already know the importance of concent during a BDSM session, but what about before a session even starts? Many people don't even think twice about the importance of consent when you're just getting to know each other. Follow me on social media! @Gothicc_HelSupport the showFollow me on social m
E3: Submissive Tops & Dominant Bottoms
E3: Submissive Tops & Dominant Bottoms Feb 25, 2022 458 Send me fan mail here!Have you ever heard about a "dominant bottom" & "submissive top"? Probably not! I've often met people who do not understand that although these seem like complete contradictions and that I must've meant something else, but in this episode I explain the differences and definitions. Maybe you finally found a label that you've been looking

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