Submissive Guide
Submissive Guide is a podcast that shares BDSM articles from the website of the same name, focusing on education and shared knowledge for exploring BDSM and D/s relationships. Since 2009, the mission has been to offer down-to-earth, educational content that helps people learn and engage with kink in a healthy way. The podcast aims to support listeners wherever they are in their submissive journey, providing practical guidance and insights.
Episodes
A Submissive’s Rosary: Using Ritual and Repetition to Deepen Devotion | Submissive Guide
Like the show? Let us know! Comments, suggestions are open.Ritual can be a powerful part of submission, but it does not have to be elaborate, formal, or religious to be meaningful. Sometimes, a repeated phrase, a familiar posture, or the feel of beads moving through your fingers can help quiet the mind and bring you back to your submission with more intention.In this episode, Luna explores the ide
The BDSM Checklist That Will Really Help You | Submissive Guide
Like the show? Let us know! Comments, suggestions are open.When people first begin exploring BDSM, they often look for a giant checklist full of every kink activity imaginable. But real scene planning is rarely about checking boxes or trying to prove how adventurous you are. It’s about building experiences that feel intentional, safe, exciting, and satisfying for everyone involved.In this episode,
Speaking With Purpose: How to Communicate Clearly in Submission
Like the show? Let us know! Comments, suggestions are open.What does it really mean to communicate clearly in submission?In this episode of the Submissive Guide Podcast, Luna explores the difference between sounding submissive and speaking with purpose. Many submissives learn to soften their needs, over-explain, apologize too quickly, or stay quiet in an effort to keep the peace, but those habits
When Words Fail: The Hidden Cost of Silence in Submission | Submissive Guide
Like the show? Let us know! Comments, suggestions are open.What happens when “sorry” becomes the only word you reach for?In this episode, we’re exploring communication in submission, and how silence, over-apologizing, and fear can quietly disrupt even the healthiest dynamics. Many submissives are taught to be agreeable and accommodating, but when that comes at the cost of honest expression, it cre
Trust Isn’t Blind: Building and Rebuilding Trust in D/s Relationships | Submissive Guide
Like the show? Let us know! Comments, suggestions are open.Trust is often talked about as something automatic in power exchange. A submissive gives it. A Dominant earns it. But real trust in a D/s dynamic is much more complex than that.In this episode, Luna explores how trust actually develops between Dominants and submissives, why even strong dynamics can experience ruptures, and what rebuilding
Your First BDSM Scene: What to Expect Before, During, and After | Submissive Guide
Like the show? Let us know! Comments, suggestions are open.Your first BDSM scene can feel equal parts thrilling and terrifying.What if you do something wrong?What if you don’t react the way you think you should?What actually happens once the scene begins?In this episode, we gently walk through the anatomy of a BDSM scene, specifically, your first one, so you can step into it feeling more grounded
Be a Cow! My Journey into Hucow Play | Submissive Guide
Like the show? Let us know! Comments, suggestions are open.What does it mean to step into a hucow identity—and why does it resonate so deeply for some submissives?In this episode, I’m sharing my personal journey into hucow play: how I first discovered it, what drew me in, the challenges I faced, and how embracing my cow identity became a powerful blend of submission, embodiment, playfulness, and s
Expectations of a Submissive: What You Need to Know (and What You Don’t) | Submissive Guide
Like the show? Let us know! Comments, suggestions are open.In this episode, we explore one of the most common questions submissives ask when starting their journey: “What’s really expected of me?”We talk about what healthy expectations look like in a D/s relationship—from the early days of self-discovery to building communication with your Dominant. You’ll learn practical ways to define your own b
Writing Submissive Affirmations That Actually Work | Submissive Guide
Like the show? Let us know! Comments, suggestions are open.Affirmations can be more than feel-good words—they can reshape your submissive mindset.In this episode, I share how I’ve used affirmations for over a decade to shift negative self-talk, strengthen my confidence, and reconnect with my submission. You’ll learn how to create affirmations that feel believable and personal, plus easy ways to ma
You’re Allowed to Have Needs—Even in Submission | Submissive Guide
Like the show? Let us know! Comments, suggestions are open.In this episode, we’re unpacking one of the most common—and most misunderstood—pieces of advice given to submissives: “Know your wants and needs.” But what does that really mean, and how do you figure out the difference? You’ll learn how to identify your core needs, why honoring them is essential to a healthy D/s relationship, and what hap
Perfection Isn’t the Goal: Finding Joy in Your Unique Submissive Journey | Submissive Guide
Like the show? Let us know! Comments, suggestions are open.This episode challenges the myth of the “perfect submissive” and explores how chasing flawlessness can lead to burnout, self-doubt, and disconnection. Instead of striving for an impossible ideal, submissives are encouraged to embrace authenticity, growth, and the beauty of their unique journey. Real submission isn’t about being perfect—it’
After “Red”: How to Manage the Emotional Aftermath When You’ve Used Your Safeword | Submissive Guide
Like the show? Let us know! Comments, suggestions are open.Using your safeword is never something to be afraid of. While it may sometimes mean stopping the scene, it also prevents you from going to places you’re not ready to explore. Yet, guilt or self-disappointment can make using a safeword feel like a failure for many. Fortunately, there are ways to address the guilt, disappointment, or fear ar
Breaking the Apology Habit: Alternatives to Overusing ‘I’m Sorry’ | Submissive Guide
Like the show? Let us know! Comments, suggestions are open.Most people say ‘sorry’ or ‘I’m sorry’ far too often. You’re probably aware of whether this is an issue for you. If you struggle with frequent apologizing, you may need to take a different approach to find ways to express what you really mean.The Art of Apology Series - Submissive Guide 🎧 Leave a review or share this episode with someone y
Some of the Best Kept Secrets to Sub Drop Recovery | Submissive Guide
Like the show? Let us know! Comments, suggestions are open.Sub drop is a natural part of the BDSM experience, but it doesn't have to derail your enjoyment. Learn how to recognize the signs, prevent severe symptoms, and create a personalized aftercare plan that supports both your physical and emotional recovery. From building a drop kit to mastering self-care strategies, this guide empowers yo
Exploring Online Submission: Truths, Risks, and Safety Tips | Submissive Guide
Like the show? Let us know! Comments, suggestions are open.We’ll cover the complexities of online submission, offering various safe environments to explore and learn the nuances of BDSM and discuss the potential benefits and dangers. We’ll help you navigate the online BDSM landscape with confidence and care. 🎧 Leave a review or share this episode with someone you care about. Every listen helps mor
10 Things You Can Start Today To Be a Better Submissive | Submissive Guide
Like the show? Let us know! Comments, suggestions are open.A question I see asked all the time is, "How can I be a better submissive?" Here are a few things you can do to improve your submission and service without much work.Resources - Non-sexual Service and How To Add It To Your DynamicHow Making a Cup of Coffee Centers MeRitual Ideas: High Tea, Japanese Tea Ceremony and Formal Dining3
Creating a Safe Space: Enhancing Communication in D/s Relationships | Submissive Guide
Like the show? Let us know! Comments, suggestions are open.Let's discuss how to build healthy communication skills in our D/s relationship and what a safe environment for difficult conversations looks like. I’ll give you the tools to develop a report with your partner that is full of trust, shared vulnerability, and compassion. You’ll learn that a safe environment for those challenging talks
Navigating the Challenges of a Vanilla Partner in a Kink World | Submissive Guide
Like the show? Let us know! Comments, suggestions are open.Often, we discover our desire to be submissive or kinky when we are already in a relationship and are not sure really how to proceed with that. Let’s cover what you should do to prepare to talk to your partner about your newfound interest, how you can encourage a submissive mindset on your own, and how you can slowly bring kink into the be
Crafting Your Collaring Ceremony: Themes, Rituals, and Celebrations | Submissive Guide
Like the show? Let us know! Comments, suggestions are open.Receiving your collar is a special occasion for many submissives and slaves. When a collar comes into view, some people want to commemorate that with a ceremony. Let’s discuss collars, their symbolism in D/s and M/s relationships, and how you can build a formal ceremony around declaring your commitment to each other.Article: https://submis
The Truth About Topping from the Bottom | Submissive Guide
Like the show? Let us know! Comments, suggestions are open. Let’s break down what topping from the bottom is, why it’s so bad, how it can be good, and learn some tricks to stop the poor behavior in its tracks that leads to it.Read the article: https://submissiveguide.com/fundamentals/articles/why-you-should-know-the-truth-about-topping-from-the-bottomChat with the Discord community! https://subgui
Every Good Conversation Starts with Active Listening | Submissive Guide
Like the show? Let us know! Comments, suggestions are open.Communication is a key topic to developing and maintaining healthy, open relationships. But many of us need to learn what good communication looks like and have problems with at least one part of good communication techniques.Read the article: https://submissiveguide.com/communication/articles/every-good-conversation-starts-with-good-liste
Learning Good Observation Skills for Better Submissive Awareness | Submissive Guide
Like the show? Let us know! Comments, suggestions are open.One of the best skills a submissive can learn is observation. Observation can also be neglected in your daily and work life, so learning requires you to reteach your mind, eyes, focus, and attention. It's so worth it.Read the article: https://submissiveguide.com/skills/articles/learning-good-observation-skillsFurther Reading:Anticipat
What Everyone Ought to Know About Finding and Managing BDSM Limits | Submissive Guide
Like the show? Let us know! Comments, suggestions are open.Your limits are unique to you and may change over time as you gain experience and self-awareness. Embrace the opportunity for self-discovery and pleasure as you unlock the secrets to understanding and embracing your BDSM limits.Read the Article: https://submissiveguide.com/fundamentals/articles/what-everyone-ought-to-know-about-finding-and
Moans, Groans, and Beyond: A Beginner’s Guide to Dirty Talk | Submissive Guide
Like the show? Let us know! Comments, suggestions are open.Explore the journey of embracing dirty talk. With practical tips, personal stories, and valuable resources, readers are encouraged to break free from inhibitions and discover the liberating potential of vocalizing desires and fantasies.Read the article: https://submissiveguide.com/fundamentals/articles/how-to-talk-dirtyFurther Reading:How
On-Demand Ecstasy: Initiating Your Orgasm Control Training | Submissive Guide
Like the show? Let us know! Comments, suggestions are open.A beginner's guide that explores the practice of orgasm control and its potential for enhancing pleasure. The first in the series, this article covers the first steps to exploring orgasm control in your play.Resources on Orgasm Control Mechanics:Orgasm Control by RoverOrgasm Control Conditioning of Females on FetLifeTrain Your Body to
The Importance of Rules and Structure in D/s Relationships | Submissive Guide
Like the show? Let us know! Comments, suggestions are open.In D/s (Dominant/submissive) relationships, rules are often used to provide structure and establish boundaries within the power exchange dynamic. These rules serve as a guide for submissives to follow, which allows us to focus on our submission and the expectations of our Dominant partner.Read the Article: https://submissiveguide.com/dsrel
How to Use Erotic Begging to Intensify Your Kinky Playtime | Submissive Guide
Like the show? Let us know! Comments, suggestions are open. Being asked to beg for something is one of the simplest forms of erotic humiliation within a BDSM scenario. It’s also one that can be quite difficult for people to learn.Read the article on Submissive Guide: https://submissiveguide.com/skills/articles/how-to-beg-when-asked Submissive Guide FetLife Group: http://subgui.de/fetlifeOther peop
Expectations of a Collar: How Ready Are You to Accept One? | Submissive Guide
Like the show? Let us know! Comments, suggestions are open.Wearing a Dominant’s collar is often a goal of any submissive in a D/s relationship. However, defining what a collar is and how you prepare to accept it can be daunting. Let’s tackle the important points about collars and if you are prepared for what a collar may mean for you and your relationship.Read the Article: https://submissiveguide.
Seven Books I Recommend for Novice Submissives | Submissive Guide
Like the show? Let us know! Comments, suggestions are open.I’ve gathered seven of the best books to help you get started on your exploration of BDSM and the submissive role. Read the Article: https://submissiveguide.com/fundamentals/articles/recommended-reading-submissivesAll links to the book reviews, GoodReads, and Amazon are linked in the above article. 🎧 Leave a review or share this episode wi
New to D/s Relationships? Here's Your Foolproof Guide to Starting Out | Submissive Guide
Like the show? Let us know! Comments, suggestions are open.Relationships, even ones with power exchange, are built the old-fashioned way; dating, mutual compatibility, and communication. We all have a common ground to start from, even if we don't realize it. Unlike what many forums may say about D/s relationships and how they start, knowing the terms to use for your desires and being able to
How to Identify Your Submissive Wants and Needs | Submissive Guide
Like the show? Let us know! Comments, suggestions are open.Submissives all over seem to know what they want out of a relationship; it's always on their minds: the play, the sex, love, or the strictness of dominance. Wants are very valid to the happiness in your life, but more important are the needs. When you think of needs, the list seems to become harder, and people struggle more with defin
A Submissive's Prime Directive: Take Care of the Property | Submissive Guide
Like the show? Let us know! Comments, suggestions are open.A Submissive’s primary focus should be taking care of the property. There are common ways we are not adhering to the prime directive, and there are ways we can make it more of a foundation for our lives. Read the Article: https://submissiveguide.com/personalgrowth/articles/take-care-of-the-propertyBecome a member and get more from Submissi
Myths About D/s Relationships: How to Break Them Down to Find the Truth of a Healthy D/s Dynamic | Submissive Guide
Like the show? Let us know! Comments, suggestions are open.When people ask me what a D/s relationship is like, my first response is 'it looks like any other relationship,' but that's not entirely accurate. All relationships are unique and personal to the people in them, making a sound basis for any D/s relationship. In this article, I’ll cover a few common misconceptions of D/s dyna
The Importance of Safety, Risk-Awareness and Consent in Pre-Scene BDSM | Submissive Guide
Like the show? Let us know! Comments, suggestions are open.Negotiation and consent are the primary ways BDSM is distinguished from abuse - they are essential parts of kinky play. But far too many people gloss over how important it is to be really good at negotiating so that you can have great kinky fun. And you want to have kinky fun, right?Read the Article: [link]The Submissive Society gets early
The Key Traits of a Service Submissive - They Can Be Learned! | Submissive Guide
Like the show? Let us know! Comments, suggestions are open.Anyone can learn to be a good service submissive, even if you don't feel you are a people pleaser, because the key traits are all ones that can be learned and refined. When you take steps to improve yourself now, you'll be able to tackle a variety of service challenges and refine the services you wish to provide for your Dominant
Active Submission - Make Yourself Available to Your Dominant | Submissive Guide
Like the show? Let us know! Comments, suggestions are open.We need to make sure we take an active role in submission to help open up the dynamic and not wait for our Dominant to come up with a command to give us. By taking on an active role in our submission, we not only have more opportunities to be submissive, but we build a dynamic that provides an open exchange of power.Read the Article: https
Non-sexual Service and How To Add It To Your Dynamic | Submissive Guide
Like the show? Let us know! Comments, suggestions are open.Using my experience as a service submissive, I'd like to share what non-sexual service is and help you figure out if service is something you want to explore. I'll talk about a few different styles of service you could learn. Then we'll cover how you can start adding aspects of service into your relationship. Read the Articl
A Beginner’s Guide to Sexual Power Exchange | Submissive Guide
Like the show? Let us know! Comments, suggestions are open.Sexual Power Exchange involves submissive partners who willingly and voluntarily relinquish control to their dominant partners, either in certain situations, for a specified period of time, or completely. As long as you keep it fun and enjoyable, a bedroom power exchange can bring variety and playfulness to your sex life.Read the Article:
The Basic Tenets of Being a Submissive in a D/s Dynamic | Submissive Guide
Like the show? Let us know! Comments, suggestions are open.If you’re brand new to BDSM or even if you’ve got a few years under your belt, it’s good to sit down and figure out what submission means for you and how it works in your dynamic. Once you know what you need as a submissive, you can work with your Dominant to make your D/s relationship exactly what you desire.Read the Article: https://www.
How Rituals Can Enhance Your BDSM Scenes | Submissive Guide
Like the show? Let us know! Comments, suggestions are open.Whether you are kinky only in the bedroom or participating in D/s as a lifestyle, developing rituals for your BDSM play is an intimate and powerful way to connect. Using rituals will strengthen your roles, build dynamic scenes, and amplify your playtime to create the ideal atmosphere for BDSM activities. Read the Article: https://www.submi
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