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Swinger University® The Swinger Podcast for Education, Lifestyle and Travel

Swinger University® The Swinger Podcast for Education, Lifestyle and Travel

Ed and Phoebe | Swinger University 170 Episodes Jan 28, 2026

Ed and Phoebe, a couple with over 12 years of experience in the swinging lifestyle, host this podcast to share honest advice, personal stories, and practical tips. With more than 165 episodes, they cover topics like first conversations about swinging, navigating clubs and resorts, handling jealousy, setting boundaries, and sexual health. They also review lifestyle events and cruises, and feature guest interviews. The show aims to provide real-world guidance for anyone interested in ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, and open relationships, whether beginners or seasoned veterans.

Episodes

Delayed Ejaculation in Ethical Non-Monogamy: Causes, Impact & Solutions
Delayed Ejaculation in Ethical Non-Monogamy: Causes, Impact & Solutions Jan 28, 2026 1808 Send us a short message, but if you have questions: contact@swingeruniversity.comPremature ejaculation gets the commercials and the jokes. Delayed ejaculation? Crickets. Yet this condition affects millions of men and their partners—and it matters more than you think. In this episode, we're breaking the stigma around delayed ejaculation. We explore the medical causes (medications, injuries, co
Finding Your Voice: How to Set Boundaries in an Open Relationship
Finding Your Voice: How to Set Boundaries in an Open Relationship Nov 19, 2025 2769 Send us a short message, but if you have questions: contact@swingeruniversity.comWhen you finally find your voice in the lifestyle, everything changes. In this episode, Ed and Phoebe explore one of the most transformational shifts couples make in ethical non-monogamy: moving from "going along to keep the peace" to confidently advocating for what you actually want. If you've ever sai
Dirty Vanillas Are Ruining Swinging (Or Are They?)
Dirty Vanillas Are Ruining Swinging (Or Are They?) Nov 5, 2025 2238 Send us a short message, but if you have questions: contact@swingeruniversity.comThere's a real debate happening in the lifestyle community: Are "dirty vanillas" (people showing up to swinger events but not actually swinging) ruining the experience? Or is the real problem something we've completely misunderstood? In this episode, Ed and Phoebe dig into the data, share surprisin
You're Asking The WRONG Question About Sex Frequency (Here's What Actually Matters)
You're Asking The WRONG Question About Sex Frequency (Here's What Actually Matters) Oct 16, 2025 3990 Send us a short message, but if you have questions: contact@swingeruniversity.comHow often are you really supposed to be having sex? Spoiler alert: You've been asking the wrong question.Society pushes a "magic number" for sexual frequency that's causing more harm than good. The truth? There is no normal. We're diving deep into why the three-times-a-week standard is BS, how
Why Can't You Stop Thinking About Last Weekend?
Why Can't You Stop Thinking About Last Weekend? Oct 2, 2025 3906 Send us a short message, but if you have questions: contact@swingeruniversity.comWhy does a piece of chocolate trigger the same brain chemical as meeting someone new at a swinger party?This episode reveals the surprising neuroscience behind New Relationship Energy, dopamine addiction, and why the swinging lifestyle can feel impossible to walk away from. Ed and Phoebe break down the science of plea
Does My Hobby Offend Your Lifestyle?
Does My Hobby Offend Your Lifestyle? Sep 18, 2025 1725 Send us a short message, but if you have questions: contact@swingeruniversity.comIs swinging just a lighthearted hobby… or a defining lifestyle choice? In this episode of our swinger lifestyle podcast, we dive into the hobby vs lifestyle debate that’s sparking conversations across the swinger community and beyond.We explore why some couples embrace swinging as a fun, occasional activity — a playfu
The Controversy of Reclaiming: Hot Ritual or Problematic Possession in Swinging
The Controversy of Reclaiming: Hot Ritual or Problematic Possession in Swinging Aug 21, 2025 2271 Send us a short message, but if you have questions: contact@swingeruniversity.comIs "reclaiming" in the swinging lifestyle sexy ritual or possessive play? Ed and Phoebe unpack this controversial term, sharing their real experiences and perspectives from within the community.In this episode, we cover:The origins and controversy around the term "reclaiming"How language like &quot
STI Myths Busted The Naked Truth About STI Testing & Safer Sex
STI Myths Busted The Naked Truth About STI Testing & Safer Sex Aug 7, 2025 2598 Send us a short message, but if you have questions: contact@swingeruniversity.comGet real answers to burning questions about STI safety in the swinging lifestyle. Ed and Phoebe break down common myths, honest risks, and practical tips for safer sex at parties, events, and orgies.Why standard STI tests and "full panels" don't cover everythingThe dangers of a false sense of security w
Breaking Stereotypes: Age, Body Type, and Preferences in the Swinger Community
Breaking Stereotypes: Age, Body Type, and Preferences in the Swinger Community Jul 23, 2025 3543 Send us a short message, but if you have questions: contact@swingeruniversity.comCurious about what diversity really means in the swinger lifestyle? In this episode, Ed and Phoebe break down the surprising variety you’ll find—and why it’s not what you might expect.The wide range of body types, ages, and preferences within swinger communitiesDifferent styles of parties, play, and consent practices
Top Signs You Might Be With the Wrong Couple!
Top Signs You Might Be With the Wrong Couple! Jul 9, 2025 2519 Send us a short message, but if you have questions: contact@swingeruniversity.comEver wondered what red flags you should watch for in the swinging lifestyle? In this episode of Swinger University, Ed and Phoebe dive deep into real-life stories of dates gone wrong, rude behavior, mismatched expectations, and questionable consent. From couples who show a totally different side on a second date, to p
5 Tips That Made Swinging Work For Us
5 Tips That Made Swinging Work For Us Jun 25, 2025 1633 Send us a short message, but if you have questions: contact@swingeruniversity.com00:00 - Start01:01 - Tip 1: Pace It Out03:31 - Tip 2: Fears and Expectations06:17 - Tip 3: Get Uncomfortable09:05 - Tip 4: Grow and Change12:40 - Tip 5: Trust21:34 - Lets talk about cheating...22:47 - Wrap Up! Support the showWant More?👀 Watch on YouTube: YouTube ShowFull video versions and interactive live episodes!
Does your swinger card expire?
Does your swinger card expire? Apr 17, 2025 3233 Send us a short message, but if you have questions: contact@swingeruniversity.comFeeling like the lifestyle doesn’t light you up anymore? You’re not alone—and this episode is for you.In this powerful conversation, Ed and Phoebe from Swinger University sit down with Kel to talk about what it really means when your desires evolve and swinging starts to feel... different.🌶️Get extra episodes and excl

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