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Closer To You

Steph Chaffee 13 Episodes Jun 23, 2026

Closer to You is a podcast for mothers and daughters who want deeper, more emotionally safe connection. Host Steph Chaffee, a Master Certified Trauma-Informed Life and Family Coach and mother of five daughters, blends nervous system science, faith, and lived experience. Each episode offers warm, conversational guidance on healing generational patterns, handling big feelings, and reconnecting when conversations feel hard. Listeners come as they are to feel understood and encouraged.

Episodes

12. Coming Home To Yourself In Midlife
12. Coming Home To Yourself In Midlife Jun 23, 2026 641 🎙️ What Midlife Is Really Asking of You | Closer to You Podcast Have you ever looked around at your life and wondered: "Why am I so exhausted?" "Why does my body feel different?" "Why am I struggling to keep up with a pace that used to feel normal?" If so, you're not alone. In this episode of Closer to You, Steph Chaffee explores what midlife is really asking of us—not just physically, bu
11. The Power of Listening- Why Being Heard Heals
11. The Power of Listening- Why Being Heard Heals Jan 20, 2026 673 The Power of Listening — Why Being Heard Heals Have you ever opened your heart to your mother or daughter… only to feel dismissed, misunderstood, or met with advice you didn’t ask for? That pain isn’t just emotional — it’s biological. In this episode of Closer to You, we explore why being truly heard is one of the most healing experiences in any relationship, and why listening — real, ner
10. When Repair Isn't Possible- Grieving, Healing, and Finding Your Own Peace
10. When Repair Isn't Possible- Grieving, Healing, and Finding Your Own Peace Jan 13, 2026 922 When Repair Isn’t Possible — Grieving, Healing, and Finding Your Own Peace What do you do when the relationship you hoped to heal… never does? When there’s no apology, no reconciliation, no moment where everything finally makes sense — just silence, distance, or loss that still aches in your body? In this deeply compassionate episode of Closer to You, Steph shares personal tender exp
9. Creating Confidence and Light in Your Life and Relationship Again
9. Creating Confidence and Light in Your Life and Relationship Again Jan 6, 2026 899 Starting the New Year with Hope and Joy — Creating Confidence and Light in Your Life Again As a new year begins, many women feel pressure to reinvent themselves overnight — new goals, new habits, a “New You.” If you’re feeling tired, tender, or quietly craving something softer, this episode offers a different path. In this episode of Closer to You, we explore how to begin the new year wit
8. Beyond The Holidays- Letting Go Of The Emotional Weight You've Been Carrying
8. Beyond The Holidays- Letting Go Of The Emotional Weight You've Been Carrying Dec 30, 2025 804 Beyond the Holidays — Letting Go Of The Emotional Weight You’ve Been Carrying. After the holidays end and the house finally goes quiet, many women notice something surprising: instead of relief, there’s a deep tiredness, emotional heaviness, or a sense of crashing after holding it all together. If that sounds familiar, this episode is for you. In this episode of Closer to You, we talk abo
7. Rewriting Holiday Stress From The Inside Out
7. Rewriting Holiday Stress From The Inside Out Dec 23, 2025 758 The Stories We Tell Ourselves — Rewriting Holiday Stress from the Inside Out The holidays don’t just stress us out because of busy schedules or family dynamics — often, it’s the stories we tell ourselves about what’s happening that quietly create anxiety, overwhelm, and emotional distance. In this episode of Closer to You, we explore how your thoughts shape your nervous system, your emoti
#6 When You Are Too Tired To Do It All-A New Way To Do The Holidays
#6 When You Are Too Tired To Do It All-A New Way To Do The Holidays Dec 16, 2025 1087 The Holiday Survival Checklist — When You Are Too Tired To Do It All-A New Way To Do The Holidays 📝 Episode Description / Show Notes The holidays are supposed to feel joyful… So why do they often leave you exhausted, overwhelmed, and quietly fantasizing about escaping to a cabin in the woods? In this episode of Closer to You, we’re talking about a new way to do the holidays — one that pro
#5: The Weight We Carry: Guilt, Shame
#5: The Weight We Carry: Guilt, Shame Dec 9, 2025 618  Episode 5: The Weight We Carry — Guilt, Shame & the Mother-Daughter Cycle Have you ever laid awake at night replaying a conversation with your mom or daughter? That little voice saying “I shouldn’t have said that… I should’ve been more patient…” — only to feel guilt slip into the heavier weight of shame? In this episode of Closer to You, we’re unpacking the real difference betwe
#4: Boundaries Without Walls: How to Protect Your Peace and Deepen Connection
#4: Boundaries Without Walls: How to Protect Your Peace and Deepen Connection Dec 2, 2025 673 Episode 4: Boundaries Without Walls — How to Protect Your Peace & Deepen Connection Have you ever set a boundary with your mom or daughter and instantly felt guilty—or avoided setting one at all because you didn’t want to cause distance? You’re not alone. Boundaries can feel scary, especially in relationships where love runs deep. In this episode of Closer to You, we’re reframing boun
#3: Repair and Reconnection - What It Really Takes
#3: Repair and Reconnection - What It Really Takes Nov 25, 2025 709 Episode 3: Repair & Reconnection — What It Really Takes Have you ever walked away from a conversation with your mom or daughter thinking, “I don’t know if we can ever come back from this”? That ache in your chest, that pit in your stomach—it’s real. But it doesn’t mean the story is over. In this episode of Closer to You, we’re exploring: Why repair feels so hard, especially when ther
#2: The Mother Wound: Name It, Understand It, Heal It
#2: The Mother Wound: Name It, Understand It, Heal It Nov 18, 2025 645 Episode 2: The Mother Wound — Naming, Understanding & Healing It For so many women, the mother wound is something carried quietly but rarely named out loud. It doesn’t mean you don’t love your mom. It doesn’t mean she didn’t try. It means that somewhere along the way, certain needs went unmet—and those tender places can still echo in how you show up today with your mom, your daughter,
#1: When Connection Feels Hard: 3-Step Reset to Stop Arguments
#1: When Connection Feels Hard: 3-Step Reset to Stop Arguments Nov 18, 2025 592 Episode 1: When Connection Feels Hard — The 3-Step Reset to Stop Arguments Have you ever wanted so badly to connect with your mom or daughter, only to feel like there’s this invisible wall between you? You love each other deeply, but the conversation spirals into an argument—or ends in silence that feels heavy. You walk away drained, misunderstood, and wondering if things will ever change

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