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Loving Me Before I Love You Podcast with Tammy Nicole and Friends

Loving Me Before I Love You Podcast with Tammy Nicole and Friends

Tammy Nicole 120 Episodes Sep 15, 2026

Loving Me Before I Love You is a personal growth and self-help podcast hosted by Coach Tammy Nicole. It speaks to women who are tired of losing themselves while searching for love, validation, and belonging, and who want to reclaim their voice, worth, and power. Each week Tammy Nicole talks with therapists, relationship experts, life coaches, authors, and everyday people about self-love, emotional healing, boundaries, confidence, mother wounds, childhood experiences, mental health, identity, and unhealthy relationship patterns. The conversations aim to help listeners become healthier, more whole versions of themselves. The message is not about becoming someone new, but about becoming the woman they were always meant to be.

Episodes

The Link Between Trauma & Emotional Triggers
The Link Between Trauma & Emotional Triggers Sep 15, 2026 2867 Send us Fan MailHave you ever found yourself reacting in ways that didn't make sense, then wondered, "Why did that affect me so deeply?" The answer may not be the moment itself. It may be the unresolved trauma beneath it.In this powerful episode, Coach Tammy Nicole sits down with Darsha D. Clark, Licensed Professional Counselor, relationship expert, speaker, and author of Adventures
How to Process Difficult Emotions Without Shame
How to Process Difficult Emotions Without Shame Sep 8, 2026 2841 Send us Fan MailWhat do you do with the emotions you've been taught to hide?Too often, we judge ourselves for feeling angry, anxious, hurt, or overwhelmed. We label our emotions as weakness instead of seeing them as invitations to heal. But what if your emotions aren't the problem? What if they are pointing you toward the healing you've been praying for?In this powerful conversation
Are Your Emotions Running the Show?
Are Your Emotions Running the Show? Sep 1, 2026 2951 Send us Fan MailWhat if the biggest thing standing between you and the life you want isn't your circumstances, but your unhealed emotional patterns?In this powerful conversation, Coach Tammy Nicole sits down with Alisha Sheri to unpack the difference between feeling your emotions and being controlled by them. Together, they explore how unresolved pain, emotional triggers, and survival respons
Creating a Life That Feels Aligned
Creating a Life That Feels Aligned Aug 25, 2026 2734 Send us Fan MailWhat if the life you've worked so hard to build no longer feels like it fits?Many women spend years chasing success, checking every box, and meeting everyone else's expectations, only to realize they've become disconnected from themselves. The result isn't always burnout. Sometimes it's simply the quiet feeling that something is missing.In this episode of L
Unpacking the Layers of Who You Are
Unpacking the Layers of Who You Are Aug 18, 2026 3109 Send us Fan MailWho are you beneath the titles, the responsibilities, the pain, and the expectations you've carried for years?In this powerful episode of Loving Me Before I Love You, Coach Tammy Nicole sits down with Kenya Metoyer, Personal Growth Strategist, to explore what it really means to unpack the layers of your identity. Together, they dive into the beliefs, habits, and emotional patt
How to Reconnect with Your Inner Child
How to Reconnect with Your Inner Child Aug 11, 2026 3196 Send us Fan MailThe little girl inside of you never disappeared. She simply learned how to survive.In this heartfelt episode of Loving Me Before I Love You, Coach Tammy Nicole sits down with Destiny Thomas, life coach and The Prayerpist®️, to explore what it truly means to reconnect with your inner child. Together, they unpack how childhood experiences continue to shape our beliefs, relationships,
The Role of Childhood in Your Adult Identity
The Role of Childhood in Your Adult Identity Aug 4, 2026 3146 Send us Fan MailWho you are today did not begin when you became an adult. It began with the experiences, relationships, and messages you absorbed as a child.In this powerful episode of Becoming Her, Coach Tammy Nicole sits down with Carole Evans, public speaker and host of the Faith and Works Podcast, for an honest conversation about how childhood experiences shape our adult identity. Through her
The Truth About Independence vs. Isolation with Jayna Palmer
The Truth About Independence vs. Isolation with Jayna Palmer Jul 28, 2026 2317 Send us Fan MailBeing independent is a strength. Living in isolation is a survival strategy.Somewhere along the way, many women learned that relying on others led to disappointment, abandonment, or pain. So we built lives where we could do everything ourselves. We called it independence. But what if what we're really experiencing is isolation?In this powerful conversation, Coach Tammy Nicole
How to Redefine Freedom on Your Own Terms
How to Redefine Freedom on Your Own Terms Jul 21, 2026 2565 Send us Fan MailWhat does freedom really mean?For many women, freedom has been defined by other people's expectations, past wounds, responsibilities, relationships, or even survival. But true freedom is not simply doing whatever you want. It's having the courage to live in alignment with who you truly are.In this powerful episode of Loving Me Before I Love You, Coach Tammy Nicole sits do
Detaching from What No Longer Serves You
Detaching from What No Longer Serves You Jul 14, 2026 3088 Send us Fan MailWhat if the very thing standing between you and the life you desire is your unwillingness to let go?In this thought-provoking episode of Loving Me Before I Love You, Coach Tammy Nicole sits down with author, speaker, and time strategist Chrystal Wood Hawley for a powerful conversation about releasing what no longer aligns with the woman you're becoming.Whether it's an out
Are You Truly Free or Just Comfortable?
Are You Truly Free or Just Comfortable? Jul 7, 2026 3016 Send us Fan MailWhat if the life you've built isn't actually freedom... it's familiarity?In this thought-provoking episode of Loving Me Before I Love You, Coach Tammy Nicole sits down with transformational guide Gabriela Rojas to explore the powerful difference between living freely and simply living comfortably.Many of us settle into routines, relationships, careers, and identities
The Modern Man & Emotional Intelligence
The Modern Man & Emotional Intelligence Jun 30, 2026 2730 Send us Fan MailWhat does it really mean to be a man in today’s world… when strength is no longer silence, and leadership requires emotional awareness?In this powerful and necessary conversation, we sit down with Dr. Timothy Brantley—male mentor, counselor, author, and minister—to unpack what emotional intelligence looks like for the modern man. This isn’t surface-level talk. This is about the inn

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