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Loving Me Before I Love You Podcast with Tammy Nicole and Friends

Loving Me Before I Love You Podcast with Tammy Nicole and Friends

Tammy Nicole 120 Episodes Oct 13, 2026

Loving Me Before I Love You is a personal growth and self-help podcast hosted by Coach Tammy Nicole. It speaks to women who are tired of losing themselves while searching for love, validation, and belonging, and who want to reclaim their voice, worth, and power. Each week Tammy Nicole talks with therapists, relationship experts, life coaches, authors, and everyday people about self-love, emotional healing, boundaries, confidence, mother wounds, childhood experiences, mental health, identity, and unhealthy relationship patterns. The conversations aim to help listeners become healthier, more whole versions of themselves. The message is not about becoming someone new, but about becoming the woman they were always meant to be.

Episodes

Stop Seeking Validation: You Are the Prize
Stop Seeking Validation: You Are the Prize Oct 13, 2026 3502 Send us Fan MailAre you constantly looking for reassurance, approval, or confirmation from the people around you? Maybe you know you’re capable, accomplished, and worthy, but there’s still a part of you that needs someone else to say, “You’re doing enough. You’re good enough. I choose you.”In this episode of Loving Me Before I Love You, Coach Tammy Nicole sits down with Jessie Rudi to unpack the n
The Myth of "Enoughness" & Why You Already Are
The Myth of "Enoughness" & Why You Already Are Oct 6, 2026 2622 Send us Fan MailHave you ever felt like you had to accomplish one more thing, lose a little more weight, make a little more money, or become someone different before you could finally believe you were enough?In this powerful conversation, Coach Tammy Nicole sits down with Jessica "GourJess" Gabriel to expose the lie that your worth is something you have to earn. Together, they unpack whe
How to Stay Emotionally Grounded in a Chaotic World
How to Stay Emotionally Grounded in a Chaotic World Sep 29, 2026 2650 Send us Fan MailIn a world filled with constant pressure, uncertainty, and emotional overload, staying grounded can feel like an impossible task. But what if true peace isn't found by controlling your circumstances, but by anchoring yourself in your identity?In this powerful conversation, Coach Tammy Nicole sits down with Reka Leftridge, Christian author, speaker, retired U.S. Navy Chief, and
The Power of Emotional Intelligence in Your Daily Life
The Power of Emotional Intelligence in Your Daily Life Sep 22, 2026 2714 Send us Fan MailEmotional intelligence is more than understanding your feelings. It is the ability to recognize, manage, and respond to your emotions in ways that strengthen your relationships, increase your confidence, and bring greater peace into your everyday life. But what happens when you've spent years suppressing your emotions or reacting from unresolved pain?In this empowering convers
The Link Between Trauma & Emotional Triggers
The Link Between Trauma & Emotional Triggers Sep 15, 2026 2867 Send us Fan MailHave you ever found yourself reacting in ways that didn't make sense, then wondered, "Why did that affect me so deeply?" The answer may not be the moment itself. It may be the unresolved trauma beneath it.In this powerful episode, Coach Tammy Nicole sits down with Darsha D. Clark, Licensed Professional Counselor, relationship expert, speaker, and author of Adventures
How to Process Difficult Emotions Without Shame
How to Process Difficult Emotions Without Shame Sep 8, 2026 2841 Send us Fan MailWhat do you do with the emotions you've been taught to hide?Too often, we judge ourselves for feeling angry, anxious, hurt, or overwhelmed. We label our emotions as weakness instead of seeing them as invitations to heal. But what if your emotions aren't the problem? What if they are pointing you toward the healing you've been praying for?In this powerful conversation
Are Your Emotions Running the Show?
Are Your Emotions Running the Show? Sep 1, 2026 2951 Send us Fan MailWhat if the biggest thing standing between you and the life you want isn't your circumstances, but your unhealed emotional patterns?In this powerful conversation, Coach Tammy Nicole sits down with Alisha Sheri to unpack the difference between feeling your emotions and being controlled by them. Together, they explore how unresolved pain, emotional triggers, and survival respons
Creating a Life That Feels Aligned
Creating a Life That Feels Aligned Aug 25, 2026 2734 Send us Fan MailWhat if the life you've worked so hard to build no longer feels like it fits?Many women spend years chasing success, checking every box, and meeting everyone else's expectations, only to realize they've become disconnected from themselves. The result isn't always burnout. Sometimes it's simply the quiet feeling that something is missing.In this episode of L
Unpacking the Layers of Who You Are
Unpacking the Layers of Who You Are Aug 18, 2026 3109 Send us Fan MailWho are you beneath the titles, the responsibilities, the pain, and the expectations you've carried for years?In this powerful episode of Loving Me Before I Love You, Coach Tammy Nicole sits down with Kenya Metoyer, Personal Growth Strategist, to explore what it really means to unpack the layers of your identity. Together, they dive into the beliefs, habits, and emotional patt
How to Reconnect with Your Inner Child
How to Reconnect with Your Inner Child Aug 11, 2026 3196 Send us Fan MailThe little girl inside of you never disappeared. She simply learned how to survive.In this heartfelt episode of Loving Me Before I Love You, Coach Tammy Nicole sits down with Destiny Thomas, life coach and The Prayerpist®️, to explore what it truly means to reconnect with your inner child. Together, they unpack how childhood experiences continue to shape our beliefs, relationships,
The Role of Childhood in Your Adult Identity
The Role of Childhood in Your Adult Identity Aug 4, 2026 3146 Send us Fan MailWho you are today did not begin when you became an adult. It began with the experiences, relationships, and messages you absorbed as a child.In this powerful episode of Becoming Her, Coach Tammy Nicole sits down with Carole Evans, public speaker and host of the Faith and Works Podcast, for an honest conversation about how childhood experiences shape our adult identity. Through her
The Truth About Independence vs. Isolation with Jayna Palmer
The Truth About Independence vs. Isolation with Jayna Palmer Jul 28, 2026 2317 Send us Fan MailBeing independent is a strength. Living in isolation is a survival strategy.Somewhere along the way, many women learned that relying on others led to disappointment, abandonment, or pain. So we built lives where we could do everything ourselves. We called it independence. But what if what we're really experiencing is isolation?In this powerful conversation, Coach Tammy Nicole

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