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The Man and the Boy

The Man and the Boy

Nick Watters 11 Episodes Sep 10, 2026

The Man and the Boy explores what happens when someone begins to question the religious beliefs they were raised with. It follows an adult navigating doubt, self-discovery, and the process of deconstructing faith, often alongside his younger self who once accepted everything without question. Together they confront shame, guilt, and the challenge of rebuilding self-worth outside of fear. The podcast is for anyone who has wrestled with faith, identity, or letting go of beliefs that no longer fit.

Episodes

You Don't Miss Your Ex, You Just Miss The Cat!
You Don't Miss Your Ex, You Just Miss The Cat! Sep 10, 2026 2355 Why seeking community after deconstruction doesn't mean you're missing the dogma.When you break up with a toxic partner, nobody blames you for missing the incredible cuddly cat.So why do we beat ourselves up when we miss certain aspects of our old ways?Today we're diving into the deconstruction paradox. That weird, guilty feeling that longing for a "tribe" means you'r
Honest doubts and Hard goodbyes: The Real Reason People Leave pt 2
Honest doubts and Hard goodbyes: The Real Reason People Leave pt 2 Jul 20, 2026 2580 In the final installment of this two part episode, we continue to delve into why people are leaving the church and discuss the trends of this great exodus. You won't believe your ears when these trends are discussed!I'd love to hear from you, please share what's on your mind!I would love to hear from you! Please send questions and comments to:Ode2nick@hotmail.comJust added some podcas
Honest doubts and Hard goodbyes : The Real Reason People Leave
Honest doubts and Hard goodbyes : The Real Reason People Leave Jul 8, 2026 3251 For decades, the dominant  cultural narrative has been that people leave the church because they "want to sin". For those of us that are deconstructing, the truth is much more complex, painful and very intentional. Leaving is not the easy way out - its often a heartbreaking last resort.In this episode we unpack real, lived experiences behind the modern faith exodus. We move past the narr
Still not hot - Even more lies we believed
Still not hot - Even more lies we believed May 21, 2026 2098  In part two of our finale on modesty culture, we’re moving from the wardrobe to the psyche. We joke about the ankle-length skirts and the rule against spaghetti straps, but what happens when you actually try to unpack the shame attached to them? This week, we’re tackling the heavier lies we were fed—like the idea that your worth is tied to your fabric coverage—while keeping it light enough to rem
Modest is hottest - and other lies we believed pt 1
Modest is hottest - and other lies we believed pt 1 May 11, 2026 2016 Whether you've still got your purity ring tucked in a junk drawer or you threw it in a lake years ago, in this episode we will try to navigate the "purity hangover" with a little humor and a lot of honesty.I'd love to hear from you, please share what's on your mind!I would love to hear from you! Please send questions and comments to:Ode2nick@hotmail.comJust added some podcas
Omni-awkward: The Trouble with Perfection
Omni-awkward: The Trouble with Perfection Apr 24, 2026 2670 In this episode, we're hanging out with our old pal Epicurus. He's the guy who realized a few thousand years ago that you can't really have an all-powerful, all-loving god AND a world where mosquitos  can kill you, and pediatric cancer exists. It's the Epicurean Paradox, and it's the ultimate glitch in the matrix for traditional faith.I'd love to hear from you, please
The Unrolling of the stone
The Unrolling of the stone Apr 13, 2026 3330 Let's look at what happens when the weight of tradition gets moved!I'd love to hear from you, please share what's on your mind!I would love to hear from you! Please send questions and comments to:Ode2nick@hotmail.comJust added some podcast swag, let me know if you'd like something!
The Sunday Morning Hangover Part 2: Dealing with the Space Religion Left Behind
The Sunday Morning Hangover Part 2: Dealing with the Space Religion Left Behind Mar 29, 2026 3105 Welcome to Episode 2 part 2!In the final installment of The Sunday Morning Hangover, we continue to discuss how to navigate the "what now" phase of religious deconstruction. I'll provide definitions, examples, scripture references and laughs (I MAY even cry during this one) as we leave our standard issued maps behind and continue our curiosity driven steps away from the alter!I'
The Sunday Morning Hangover Part 1: Dealing with the Space Religion Left Behind
The Sunday Morning Hangover Part 1: Dealing with the Space Religion Left Behind Mar 22, 2026 2079 Welcome to Episode 2 part 1!In the first installment of The Sunday Morning Hangover, we discuss how to navigate the "what now" phase of religious deconstruction. I'll provide definitions, examples, scripture references and laughs, as we leave our standard issued maps behind and take our first curious steps away from the alter, together!I'd love to hear from you, please share wha
Leaving the pew
Leaving the pew Mar 16, 2026 2194 Why are we here? For many of us the cathedral didn't crumble overnight- it started with one question we  weren't allowed  to ask. In this debut episode, I'm exiting the sanctuary and departing from Catholicism.We're exploring the 'why' behind this podcast and discovering what deconstruction really looks like. This isn't about having the answers; its about finally
Season 1- Trailer
Season 1- Trailer Mar 12, 2026 48 Preview the upcoming podcast, The Man and the BoyI'd love to hear from you, please share what's on your mind!I would love to hear from you! Please send questions and comments to:Ode2nick@hotmail.comJust added some podcast swag, let me know if you'd like something!

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