Gayish is an award-nominated podcast hosted by Mike and Kyle that examines one gay stereotype each week. The show mixes humor, honesty, and irreverence while covering topics such as the hanky code, depression, and open relationships. Episodes have featured guests including Jinkx Monsoon, Davey Wavey, Calvin Banks, Andrew Gurza, a gay priest, a trans atheist, and Mike’s mother. It has been featured in Buzzfeed, Oprah Magazine, Esquire, and Queerty.
Episodes

Gayish: 516 Double Penetration
If you have headphones on, then we might be double penetrating you right now! Mike and Kyle share the content hole by talking about Urban Dictionary definitions, the language of double penetration, the gayness of double penetration, airtight, how many gay men have fantasized about it vs. actually done it, historical literature about double penetration, and weird porn laws.
In this episode: News- 4

Gayish: 515 Magic
We’re trying our best, okay? It’s time for magic, and that means Harry Houdini, magic’s connection to buggery, Magic the Gathering, the magic of bisexuals, Magic Johnson, and Siegfried and Roy.
In this episode: News- 2:51 || Main Topic (Magic)- 11:11 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:17:17
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Gayish: 514 Fag Hags
We’re tempting the shadowbanning gods by posting this episode, title intact. Mike and Kyle dive into fag hags. Is it just misogyny? As “fag” is reclaimed by the gay community, is so too “fag hag” being reclaimed? And what is her connection to burned bottom rice?
In this episode: News- 3:16 || Main Topic (Fag Hags)- 12:32 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:14:50
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Gayish: 513 Horror (w/ Scared Gay!)
Mike and Kyle talk to Paul and Pablo from the Scared Gay! podcast about why gays love horror, horror as the red-headed stepchild of the film world, The Substance, Bram Stoker’s Dracula, the “art” of “podcasting,” and more.
Listen to Scared Gay! on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast!
In this episode: News- 1:39 || Main Topic (Horror)- 9:25 || Guest (Paul and Pablo from the Sc

Gayish: 512 Regrets (w/ Fulla Regrets)
If there’s one things Kyle’s fulla, it’s… okay, well the second thing he’s fulla is regrets. Mike and Kyle talk to the drag queen, the social media sensation, and the internet’s grandmother, Fulla Regrets. Michael Staffieri joins us to tell us about creating the character Fulla Regrets, Instagram face filters, his love for his grandmother, the worst job he’s ever had, turning self-loathing into ar

Gayish: 511 Gaslighting
Gaslight, gapekeep, girlboss! Mike and Kyle talk about what is (and isn’t) gaslighting, the play that originated the term, the subsequent movies and their connection to gayness, the data on who is likely to gaslight and be gaslit, whether conversion therapy is a form of gaslighting, whether the First Amendment should apply to gaslighting, and Santa Claus.
In this episode: News- 4:51 || Main Topic

Gayish: 510 Nasty Pig (w/ David Lauterstein)
Better squeal for me you little piggies, because David Lauterstein, the co-founder and CEO of Nasty Pig, joins Mike and Kyle to talk about the origin story of Nasty Pig, starting a business with his husband, Pride in the time of AIDS, sex positivity, Fire Island vs. P-Town, Honey Davenport, fetish gear, advocacy during mpox, his book “Sodomy Gods” (https://store.nastypig.com/products/sodomy-gods-

Gayish: 509 Bronies
Clop or nay? Mike and Kyle talk about bronies, i.e. adult fans of My Little Pony, including how much the inventor of My Pretty Pony got paid, the laws that allowed for the My Little Pony ’n Friends TV show, the reboot that the bronies glommed onto, My Little Pony: Friendship is Magic, 4chan’s involvement in getting bronies started, BronyCon, how gay bronies are, clop, and, because it’s Mike, the b

Gayish: 508 Situationships
WTF is a situationship? If you want to know the answer, this episode won’t help. Mike and Kyle disagree about situationship definitions, the relationship escalator, and Boston marriages. But then again, they agree about gay mens’ propensity for situationships and the legal implications of situationships. And, of course, everyone can agree that it’s a pretty good portmanteau.
In this episode: News-

Gayish: 507 Brainrot
It’s like gooning with social media! Mike and Kyle break down brainrot, including what it is, when it was first used (hint: it’s definitely not the year you’re thinking of), the brainrot of different generations, the effects of brainrot on Gen Z and Gen Alpha, the legal implications of brainrot, and the 47 second attention span.
In this episode: News- 2:32 || Main Topic (Brainrot)- 11:42 || Gayest

Gayish: 506 Herpes
We’re on a roll with the feel-good topics recently! Mike and Kyle talk about the Urban Dictionary stereotypes of herpes, the evolution of the meaning of herpes over time, the truth of Emperor Tiberius’ herpes-based kissing ban, lesbians’ herpes superpower, the conspiracy theories behind the herpes medication acyclovir, disclosure of HSV to gay hookups, and the legality of herpes.
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Gayish: 505 Castration
We go balls out on this episode. Mike and Kyle talk about how castration has been used throughout history as both reward and punishment, the castration of gay men during the Holocaust, modern-day voluntary eunuchs, whether male-to-eunuch is a valid transgender identity, nullos on Grindr, chemical castration as a punishment, the castrati, and castration as BDSM play.
In this episode: News- 3:24 ||

Gayish: 504 Jake Gyllenhaal
He broke his back on that mountain just for you; it’s Jake Gyllenhaal! Mike and Kyle dive into the controversial topic of whether straight actors should play gay roles, plus they cover Brokeback Mountain, the Oscars, Brokeback Mountain, Toothy Tile, Brokeback Mountain, defamation laws as they apply to calling someone gay, and Brokeback Mountain. We don’t know how to quit you, Jake.
In this episode

Gayish: 503 Othering (w/ the Othering Podcast)
What does it mean to be othered? More importantly, what does it feel like, and why do people do it? Mike and Kyle bring on the experts from the Othering Podcast to help us understand the concept, implications, and ways to handle being othered. Plus, our guests share more about how the podcast saved their relationship and their lives.
In this episode: News- 1:32 || Main Topic (Othering)- 8:34 || Gu

Gayish: 502 Karaoke
This episode shattered Kyle’s entire perception of Mike. We talk about karaoke, its meaning, who invented it, whether it’s loved or hated, the politics of karaoke, research about gender in karaoke, and the true meaning of karaoke.
In this episode: News- 3:57 || Main Topic (Karaoke)- 12:29 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:01:43
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Gayish: 501 Pop Music (w/ JORDY)
We’re sick and tired of hearin' all these people talk about, ”What's the deal with this pop life and when is it gonna fade out?” Pop star JORDY joins Mike and Kyle to talk about why gays love pop music, his new record “In Retrospect” (available now!), his song that went viral with trans men, what’s on his Spotify playlist, the importance of creativity, his Pitch Perfect-esque history with a cappel

Gayish: 500 Q&A
It’s our 500th episode extravagaynza! There are huge announcements about exciting changes to the podcast (some that you might be able to see right now), plus audio messages from listeners, Q&As, presents, and a touch of Derek. True to form, Mike and Kyle give their honest answers to your questions about sleeping together (no seriously), underwear choices, masculinity and femininity, rosé, cats

Gayish: 499 Heartbreak
Do- do you got a first aid kit handy? Mike and Kyle share the misery by talking about all things heartbreak, including the history of heartbreak , gayta on breakup rates of straight vs. gay couples, Sapphos’ writings on heartbreak, takotsubo cardiomyopathy, Boston marriages. the half-life of getting over a relationship, and heartbalm torts.
In this episode: News- 11:57 || Main Topic (Heartbreak)-

Gayish: 498 Lesbian Bars
We know that dykes are on bikes, but are they in bars? In the context of the great lesbian bar die-off (AKA the great vanishing), Mike and Kyle talk all things lesbian bar-related, including Gladys Bentley, Mona’s 440 Club, laws historically affecting lesbian bars the three-article rule, The Lesbian Bar Project, Seattle’s Wildrose, and the use of the word “dyke,”
In this episode: News- 2:34 || Mai

Gayish: 497 World Cup
WTF are we even talking about? Mike and Kyle do their best to wade through a conversation about soccer (yeah, yeah, you might call it football, but the word “soccer” is actually British), including the history of soccer; FIFA; the ban on women’s soccer; homophobic soccer fans; the 2026 World Cup; the World Cups in Qatar, Russia, and Saudi Arabia; homophobic chants at soccer games; and women and no

Gayish: 496 Trans Athletes (w/ Chris Mosier)
What’s the point of sports? Why are there gendered sports? Do those assigned male at birth have a biological advantage? Mike and Kyle have an honest conversation about trans athletes in sports with Chris Mosier, a trailblazing athlete, coach, and founder of TransAthlete.com.
In this episode: News- 1:27 || Main Topic (Trans Athletes)- 10:18 || Guest (Chris Mosier)- 25:05 || Gayest & Straightest

Gayish: 495 Daddy Issues
Are they hot or just sexist? In this Patreon-voted topic, Mike and Kyle talk about the history of daddy issues, Freud, daddy issues for straight women vs. gay men, daddy issues and attachment styles, sugar daddy scams, sex work, and quotes about gay daddy issues.
In this episode: News- 3:10 || Main Topic (Daddy Issues)- 12:00 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:08:39
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Gayish: 494 Elections (w/ Brian Derrick)
It’s not too soon to be thinking about mid-terms! Returning guest and CEO of Oath.vote Brian Derrick joins Gayish to talk about important mid-term elections you’ve never heard of, down-ballot races, the electoral college, gerrymandering, voting rights, the realities of the blue wave, Donald Trump, MAGA, ICE, Project 2025, and LGBT rights.
In this episode: News- 3:22 || Main Topic (Elections)- 12:4

Gayish: 493 Sounding
Stick it in my meatus! On this doozie of an episode, Mike and Kyle talk about sounding, including what it is, porn statistics about sounding, safety tips for sounding, quotes from sounding experts, and insight on the differences between penile and vulvar sounding. We don’t have a trigger warning on this episode, but maybe we should have? Listen at your own risk!
In this episode: News- 1:19 || Main

Gayish: 492 Dating Apps
Is it just a euphemism for Grindr? Does anyone meet anywhere else these days? Haven’t they already covered this topic? Mike and Kyle answer all these questions and more, including what’s changed about dating apps recently, AI photo fraud, romance scams, Match Group, enshitification, and Hinge’s “Designed to be Deleted” ad campaign.
In this episode: News- 4:17 || Main Topic (Dating Apps)- 14:33 ||

Gayish: 491 Libraries: Live from PopCon in Indianapolis
In this rare PG episode from our live show at Indy PopCon, Mike and Kyle talk about the history of libraries, the Library of Alexandria, Sapphos’ poetry, Magnus Hirschfeld’s Institut für Sexualwissenschaft, Nazi book burnings, the ONE Archives, banned books, and how librarians are lesbian-coded.
In this episode: News- 4:45 || Main Topic (Libraries)- 10:51 || Gayest & Straightest- 45:12
If you

Gayish: 490 Steel Magnolias
Drink your juice, Gayish! Mike and Kyle talk about the gay classic movie Steel Magnolias, including the gay man who wrote it, Mike’s feelings about Julia Roberts, the racial inequality and the all-Black cast remake, what kind of a name is M’Lynn, the meaning behind the name Steel Magnolias, whether it’s camp, and if it deserves its place as a gay classic film.
In this episode: News- 5:02 || Main T

Gayish: 489 Stalking
Surreptitiously follow us as we walk down the metaphorical sidewalk that is this episode. Mike and Kyle talk about the difference between voyeuristic behavior and stalking, social media stalking, the writings of Sappho of Lesbos and Shakespeare, cases like Oscar Wilde, Versace and Andrew Cunanan, and John Hinckley Jr. and Jodie Foster, gayta on stalking for sexual minorities vs. straight people, c

Gayish: 488 Biting II
Om nom nom (but not vore). In this accidental repeat of a topic, Mike and Kyle talk about the evolution of biting, preying mantis sex, dick biting, rough sex, lesbian vampires, bite mark analysis in court cases, nail biting, and Mike Tyson.
In this episode: News- 3:16 || Main Topic (Biting)- 15:06 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:21:48
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Gayish: 487 Pop Culture (w/ Graham Gremore from Queerty)
Graham Gremore, the editor-in-chief of Queerty, joins us to talk all thing pop culture, including Heated Rivalry, the ElphaBUTT Throbb, Devil Wears Prada 2, Ivanka Trump, the Kardashians, Nicki Minaj, gay anthems, Dawson’s Creek, Britney Spears, douching, and DTF St. Louis. Plus, a bonus conversation about Minneapolis’ bathhouses.
In this episode: News- 2:36 || Main Topic (Pop Culture)- 13:22 || G

Gayish: 486 Massages
Massages may start all the way back at the Egyptians, but we’re happy about the ending, too. Mike and Kyle talk about the history of massages, women and gays as massage therapists, touch deprivation (which disproportionately affects queer people), and the benefits of massage to people with HIV/AIDS,
In this episode: News- 4:09 || Main Topic (Massages)- 18:31 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:13:09
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Gayish: 485 Nine
Happy 9th birthday to Gayish! To celebrate, Mike and Kyle talk about all things 9, including the cultural significance of the number 9, After-Nines, 9-inch dicks, the gay ‘90s, gendered numbers, and the 9 out of 10 LGBTQ Americans who are out to someone.
In this episode: News- 4:13 || Main Topic (Nine)- 13:47 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:35:02
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Gayish: 484 Extended Family (w/ Cori)
It’s been a while since we’ve used this podcast as a way to keep in touch with Mike’s family, but herem we are. Mike and Kyle talk with Cori, Mike’s <insert family connection here>, about her experiences growing up, her father, and his AIDS diagnosis.
In this episode: News- 2:57 || Main Topic (Extended Family)- 14:04 || Guest (Cori)- 17:23 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:01:32
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Gayish: 483 Vore
Honestly, the discussion in this episode is so wild that I forgot to take notes while editing to list the things we covered. But, I still have to SEO this thing, so… vorarephilia, Armie Hammer, gay vore, soft vore, hard vore… uhhh… cannibalism… yeah. Idk. Good luck listening.
In this episode: News- 2:20 || Main Topic (Vore)- 13:55 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:16:32
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Gayish: 482 Cuckolding
Sit in the cuck chair for this episode. Mike and Kyle talk about which came first, gay or straight cuckolding, as well as gay cuckolding fantasies, interracial cuckolding and the Black bull stereotype, the horn symbology, sperm competition theory, Will Smith, and even Barak Obama.
In this episode: News- 2:12 || Main Topic (Cuckolding)- 12:53 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:05:33
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Gayish: 481 LeBron James
Straight men, this is your episode! Mike and Kyle talk about the Chosen One himself.
In this episode: News- 3:00 || Main Topic (LeBron James)- 15:12 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:13:39
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Gayish: 480 Clits
Most men can’t find this episode. Mike and Kyle talk about the discovery of the clitoris, witch hunting for clitorises, clitoral orgasms (or is there any other kind?), intersex people, the female prostate, bottom growth in trans men, and the data on who can find the clit.
In this episode: News- 1:26 || Main Topic (Clits)- 9:18 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:03:54
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Gayish: 479 Horses II
Happy Year of the Horse! To celebrate, Mike and Kyle talk about all things horses, including the Kentucky Derby, horse love, equestrian games at the Olympics, horse girls, dressage, and yes, even horse markets. This episode is dedicated to Derek.
In this episode: News- 3:38 || Main Topic (Horses)- 15:33 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:08:14
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Gayish: 478 Polycules
Mike and Kyle talk about polyamory through history, including its connection to silverware and Wonder Woman, the gayta on consensual non-monogamy, polycule shapes, solo polyamory, unicorn hunting, and polycules in Star Trek.
In this episode: News- 4:26 || Main Topic (Polycules)- 16:00 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:21:51
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Gayish: 477 National Security (w/ Luke Schleusener)
Luke Schleusener, Co-Founder & CEO of Out In National Security (ONS) talks to Mike and Kyle about US national security, the second Lavender Scare, healthcare (or lack thereof) of Veterans Affairs, the trans military ban, and even Greenland.
Learn more about Out in National Security at http://outinnationalsecurity.org/ or on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/outinnatsec/.
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Gayish: 476 Friends of Denny-Blaine (w/ Jesse Swirl) [Shrinkage]
Mike and Kyle chat with Jesse Swirl about Denny-Blaine Park, as mentioned in episode 455 Nude Beaches. As a queer space that’s under attack, Jesse breaks down the history of Denny-Blaine Park, the value it brings, the current legal status, and why he’s so passionate about this issue. To learn more, go to https://friendsofdennyblaine.org/ or follow them on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/fri

Gayish: 475 Mpox
Did you know that mpox, formerly known as monkeypox, is not originally from monkeys? Mike and Kyle talk about the viral disease, including its origins, the statistics of those with mpox, mpox conspiracies, mpox vaccinations, and the recent hybrid virus.
In this episode: News- 5:18 || Main Topic (Mpox)- 15:31 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:08:32
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Gayish: 474 Bullying
To recognize No Name-Calling Week, Mike and Kyle talk about bullying! More specifically, the history of bullying, the LGBT data on school bullying, LGBT bullying by closeted gays including the Lavender Scare, LGBT bullying laws, and whether it actually gets better.
In this episode: News- 5:32 || Main Topic (Bullying)- 18:06 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:17:49
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Gayish: 473 Sugar Daddies
Get your sweet tooth ready because we’re talking about sugar daddies! Mike and Kyle cover the origins of the term, the rate of LGBT sugar daddies, the power dynamics of sugaring, quotes from actual sugar babies, sugar daddies around the world, and whether Mike is a sugar daddy.
In this episode: News- 3:59 || Main Topic (Sugar Daddies)- 13:20 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:13:10
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Gayish: 472 Wiener Dogs
As requested by one of our Gap Bridgers, we’re talking wiener dogs! Producer Derek joins us to share stories about our own wieners, the history of wieners, the origins of their name, the Homophobic Dog, and to play of game of my wiener or my wiener.
In this episode: News- 3:26 || Main Topic (Wiener Dogs)- 13:13 || Guest (Producer Derek)- 15:59 || Gayest & Straightest- 59:38
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Gayish: 471 Overbearing Mothers
She’s way too ursine; she’s overbearing. Mike and Kyle talk about the history of overbearing mother trope, Freud, the special relationship gay men have with their mothers, the role mothers play in making their sons gay, and the misogyny of it all.
In this episode: News- 3:41 || Main Topic (Overbearing Mothers)- 16:48 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:12:58
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Gayish: 470 Vodka
Merry Christmas! It’s time for a drink. Mike and Kyle talk about the history of vodka, interest in vodka by sexual orientation, LBGT-friendly vodka brands, vodka sodas (aka gay water), and the origins of the Moscow Mule and cosmos.
In this episode: News- 3:30 || Main Topic (Vodka)- 16:42 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:05:59
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Gayish: 469 Popes
Dust off your best mitre and press your favorite cassock because it’s time to talk about popes! Mike and Kyle talk about how gay popes are by covering the history of popes, the Vatican, gay popes throughout history, Pope Francis’ LGBTQ quotes, and Pope Joan.
In this episode: News- 3:40 || Main Topic (Popes)- 12:33 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:06:03
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Gayish: 468 Kathy Griffin
Tip it! Mike and Kyle talk about our favorite red-headed comedian. We cover her biography, her gay jokes and how they’ve aged, Urban Dictionary, the Trump head controversy, and whether she’s a gay icon.
In this episode: News- 3:12 || Main Topic (Kathy Griffin)- 16:43 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:13:51
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Gayish: 467 Pokémon
Lickitung my Jigglypuff until I Squirtle! Mike and Kyle (finally) talk all things Pokémon, including the history, Pokémon Go, LGBT representation, the gayest Pokémon, and Reddit’s opinions.
In this episode: News- 2:18 || Main Topic (Pokémon)- 12:06 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:10:38
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Gayish: 466 Power Bottoms
Mike and Kyle talk about the history of power bottoms, the myths about power bottoms, quotes about power bottoms, Troye Sivan, and “It’s Always Sunny in Philadelphia.”
In this episode: News- 5:42 || Main Topic (Power Bottoms)- 16:22 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:09:57
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Gayish: 465 Lesbians (w/ Jaimie Kelton)
Jaimie Kelton from the Queer Family Podcast joins Mike and Kyle to talk about lesbians stereotypes, growing up in San Francisco, the word “dyke,” and her own queer family.
In this episode: News- 4:05 || Main Topic (Lesbians)- 16:58 || Guest (Jaimie Kelton)- 18:59 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:18:40
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Gayish: 464 Facials
Facials. They’re not just for breakfast anymore! Mike and Kyle talk about Urban Dictionary definitions for facials, the history of facials, facial structures of gays and straights, self-facials, tips for facials, and Reddit’s thoughts on facials.
In this episode: News- 3:15 || Main Topic (Facials)- 9:30 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:01:05
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Gayish: 463 Sex Workers (w/ Simon Suraci)
In this Gap Bridger-requested episode, sex worker and masseur Simon Suraci joins Mike and Kyle to talk about how he got into sex work, having sex with married DL men, the misconceptions of sex work, and a whole (hole) lot more!
In this episode: News- 4:27 || Main Topic (Sex Workers)- 14:04 || Guest (Simon Suraci)- 16:01 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:11:04
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Gayish: 462 Villains
Muah hah hah! In this evil-incarnate of an episode, Mike and Kyle talk about The Hays Code, Ursula, Dracula, the new gay villain, the gayest villain bracket, and Ask Reddit.
In this episode: News- 3:29 || Main Topic (Villains)- 16:50 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:15:18
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Gayish: 461 Pole Dancing
We love working poles! In this sexy episode, Mike and Kyle talk about the history of pole dancing, interviews with pole dancers, pole dancing as exercise, straight men in pole dancing, and reverse discrimination in pole dancing.
In this episode: News- 1:47 || Main Topic (Pole Dancing)- 13:13 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:12:14
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Gayish: 460 Fleshlights
Wanna stick your dick in something fun and inanimate? Mike and Kyle talk about the history of Fleshlights, quotes from Fleshlight users, Redditors’ opinion of Fleshlights, and, yes, Joe Rogan.
In this episode: News- 8:04 || Main Topic (Fleshlights)- 18:42 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:24:43
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Gayish: 459 Locktober
Happy Locktober to all who celebrate! Mike and Kyle talk about the history of Locktober, the gayta(?), whether it’s safe, tips to follow, the pathology behind Locktober, and their personal feelings on Locktober.
In this episode: News- 1:53 || Main Topic (Locktober)- 14:36 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:10:17
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Gayish: 458 Taylor Swift
I knew this episode was trouble when it walked in. In anticipation of her upcoming album, “The Life of a Showgirl,” Mike and Kyle talk about everything Taylor Swift, including whether she’s a gay icon, the math behind why she’s boring, the Gaylor theories, and, yes, fettuccine Alfredo.
In this episode: News- 3:25 || Main Topic (Taylor Swift)- 11:34 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:12:25
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Gayish: 457 Spanking
You’ve been a bad, bad boy. Mike and Kyle talk about spanking, the history of spanking, spanking in gay porn, Madonna and spanking, Grindr’s tips on spanking. and Reddit’s opinion on spanking. Get your spank bank ready because there is so. much. spanking!
In this episode: News- 5:55 || Main Topic (Spanking)- 15:28 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:13:35
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Gayish: 456 Tighty Whities
In this Gap Bridger-requested episode, Mike and Kyle briefly dive into some underwear as they talk about the classic tighty whities. And, like Bill Clinton, they finally answer the question: boxers or briefs?
In this episode: News- 5:27 || Main Topic (Tighty Whities)- 19:24 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:15:39
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Gayish: 455 Nude Beaches
Who started nude beaches, gays or straights? Who made them sexual? What happens behind the rocks? Mike and Kyle talk about all this and more as they discuss the origins and stereotypes of nude beaches.
In this episode: News- 5:03 || Main Topic (Nude Beaches)- 15:38 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:24:49
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Gayish: 454 Generations
It’s not just a Star Trek movie! Mike and Kyle talk about the different generations, the origins of generational theory, age gap relationships, the gayness of each generation, the generation lost to AIDS, industries that Millennials have killed, and, yes, Star Trek.
In this episode: News- 3:53 || Main Topic (Generations)- 14:23 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:12:20
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Gayish: 453 Homelessness
Homelessness is a major issue, particularly for LGTBQ people. Mike and Kyle talk about molly houses, rates of LGBTQ homelessness, causes of homelessness, being kicked out due to being LGBTQ, gentrification, and more.
In this episode: News- 2:08 || Main Topic (Homelessness)- 11:02 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:17:06
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Gayish: 452 Ballet (w/ Kiyon Ross)
Get out your nuts, ‘cause we’re about to crack them! Mike and Kyle know nothing about ballet, so they invite Kiyon Ross, Associate Artistic Director of the Pacific Northwest Ballet, to share his expertise.
In this episode: News- 4:00 || Main Topic (Ballet)- 12:11 || Guest (Kiyon Ross)- 17:16 || Gayest & Straightest- 58:09
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Gayish: 451 Speedos
Gay or European? Mike and Kyle talk about the very gay but also very European topic of Speedos.
In this episode: News- 3:32 || Main Topic (Speedos)- 12:34 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:04:19
Buy our book, You’re Probably Gayish, available right now at www.gayishpodcast.com/book! Each chapter dissects one gay stereotype ranging from drugs to gaydar to iced coffee. It’s also available as an audiobo

Gayish: 450 Q&A
Per our tradition, we celebrate every 50 episodes by doing a Q&A. In this special episode, Mike and Kyle answer your questions about the podcast, dicks, hookups, apps, and lots of other assorted topics.
In this episode: News- 3:11 || Main Topic (Q&A)- 11:54 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:21:38
Buy our book, You’re Probably Gayish, available right now at www.gayishpodcast.com/book! Each cha

Gayish: 449 Chasers
Mike and Kyle talk about all kinds of chasers. Chubby chasers. Race chasers. Bug chasers. Trans chasers. And yes, even storm chasers. Just not alcohol chasers for some reason.
In this episode: News- 4:47 || Main Topic (Chasers)- 14:10 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:15:03
Send your questions for our 450th episode to gayishpodcast+450@gmail.com! Remember, we’re having our 450th livestream combined w

Gayish: 448 Ableism (w/ Andrew Gurza)
Friend of the show Andrew Gurza, host of the podcast Disability After Dark, joins us to talk about ableism. You can buy Andrew’s book, “Notes from a Queer Cripple: How to Cultivate Queer Disabled Joy (and Be Hot While Doing It!),” anywhere books are sold.
In this episode: News- 4:05 || Main Topic (Ableism)- 13:10 || Guest (Andrew Gurza)- 19:27 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:05:13
Send your questio

Gayish: 447 Neil Patrick Harris
It’s magic! Mike and Kyle talk about Neil Patrick Harris, including whether he’s a gay icon, his other specialties, his connection to Joss Whedon, and the Amy Winehouse meat platter.
In this episode: News- 3:26 || Main Topic (Neil Patrick Harris)- 14:55 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:15:39
Send your questions for our 450th episode to gayishpodcast+450@gmail.com! Remember, we’re having our 450th li

Gayish: 446 Slings
Don’t worry; this episode is (mostly) about sex slings. Are they gay? Where did they come from? How do you use them? What’s the etiquette? Mike and Kyle swing into gear with this episode about slings.
In this episode: News- 6:29 || Main Topic (Slings)- 15:40 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:10:01
Send your questions for our 450th episode to gayishpodcast+450@gmail.com! Remember, we’re having our 450

Gayish: 445 Triangles
Delta Burke would love this episode. The triangle, specifically the pink triangle, is a gay symbol dating back to Nazi Germany. Mike and Kyle talk about its history, how it was reclaimed, and our feelings about reclaiming a symbol with such a tragic past.
In this episode: News- 5:41 || Main Topic (Triangles)- 19:54 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:14:07
Send your questions for our 450th episode to g

Gayish: 444 Tickling
Tee-hee! Get your fingers and feet ready for this fascinating episode about ticking. Mike and Kyle talk about the history of tickling, the lers and lees of tickling, tickle torture, gayta, Urban Dictionary, Tickle Me Elmo, and more.
In this episode: News- 3:34 || Main Topic (Tickling)- 14:02 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:24:50
Buy our book, You’re Probably Gayish, available right now at www.gayis

Gayish: 443 Proud Parents (w/ Erin and April)
Erin and April are both supportive parents of LGBT kids. Mike and Kyle talk to them about their queer kids and what it’s like raising them in the current political environment.
In this episode: Main Topic (Proud Parents)- 3:22 || Guests (Erin and April)- 8:46 || Gayest & Straightest- 59:52
Buy our book, You’re Probably Gayish, available right now at www.gayishpodcast.com/book! Each chapter dis

Gayish: 442 Vanilla
Mike and Kyle talk about vanilla. It’s plain and simple, just like this episode description.
In this episode: News- 2:46 || Main Topic (Vanilla)- 17:12 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:25:34
Buy our book, You’re Probably Gayish, available right now at www.gayishpodcast.com/book! Each chapter dissects one gay stereotype ranging from drugs to gaydar to iced coffee. It’s also available as an audiobook

Gayish: 441 Demons
You can’t spell Pride Month without demon. Mike and Kyle talk about the history of demons, their obsession with semen, gay exorcisms, specific gay demons, and neo-Nazis.
In this episode: News- 4:31 || Main Topic (Demons)- 18:30 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:08:46
Buy our book, You’re Probably Gayish, available right now at www.gayishpodcast.com/book! Each chapter dissects one gay stereotype rangi

Gayish: 440 Slut-shaming
What’s up, whores. Mike and Kyle talk to you dirty sluts about slut-shaming, why you shouldn’t do it, and how it affects gay and bi men.
In this episode: News- 4:36 || Main Topic (Slut-shaming)- 15:36 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:18:46
Buy our book, You’re Probably Gayish, available right now at www.gayishpodcast.com/book! Each chapter dissects one gay stereotype ranging from drugs to gaydar to

Gayish: 439 PFLAG
Brian Bond, HMFIC at PFLAG National (a non-profit dedicated to the parents, friends, and families of LGBT people), joins us to talk about the organization.
In this episode: News- 2:50 || Main Topic (PFLAG)- 13:17 || Guest (Brian Bond)- 16:34 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:00:58
Buy our book, You’re Probably Gayish, available right now at www.gayishpodcast.com/book! Each chapter dissects one gay st

Gayish: 438 Cigarettes
This time, we’re talking about the other kind of fag. Mike and Kyle talk about the history of cigarettes, the gayta, Project SCUM, why LGBT people are more likely to smoke, and menthol cigarettes.
In this episode: News- 3:35 || Main Topic (Cigarettes)- 13:49 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:23:37
Buy our book, You’re Probably Gayish, available right now at www.gayishpodcast.com/book! Each chapter di

Gayish: 437 Cruises
All aboard! Mike and Kyle cover the history of cruises, the first gay cruise, gay amenities on cruises, whether Grindr works on a cruise ship, cruising on a cruise, and what it’s like on a gay cruise.
If you want to join Mike and Kyle on their 2027 Mexican Riviera cruise, visit www.gayishpodcast.com/cruise to sign up. Make sure to check Gayish as the podcast you’re attending for.
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