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The KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast

The KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast

Jamie Scrimgeour 289 Episodes Jun 29, 2026

When Jamie Scrimgeour couldn't find the kind of stepmom support she needed, she created it. The KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast is for stepmoms navigating blended family life, co-parenting, marriage, and the emotional reality of this role. Each week, Jamie shares real life conversations, practical strategies, and mindset shifts to help you stop overthinking, feel more at ease in your home, and show up in a way that actually feels good. This is where stepmom life, relationships, personal growth, and lifestyle come together.

Episodes

Unpopular Advice for Stepmoms (That Might Be Exactly What You Need to Hear) Jun 29, 2026 35:04 You don't need more basic stepmom advice. You need to understand why things in your stepfamily life aren't changing. In this episode, Jamie will take you beyond run of the mill advice as she walks you through her guide: 12 Things Stepmom Coaches Don't Have the Guts to Tell You,  Plus, Jamie will give you a peek behind the scenes into the clapback she received online about the title of her guide, a
Using AI To Make Stepmom Life Easier Jun 22, 2026 31:26 What if the thing helping you feel less stressed, less overwhelmed, and more organized wasn't another self help book, coach, or productivity hack? In this episode, Jamie shares how she's using ChatGPT in her everyday life and why it's quickly become one of the most useful tools she has. From navigating stepfamily challenges and difficult conversations to organizing her business, planning trips, br
How Your Stepkids Really Feel According To Research with Dr. Todd Jensen Jun 15, 2026 55:15 Dr. Todd Jensen, the founder of THRIFT (Thriving Through Family Transitions Research Lab), joins Jamie on The KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast to share his research on stepfamily dynamics from the perspective of stepchildren. Jamie and Todd dive deep into loyalty binds, the responsibility parents should feel to supporting and nurturing the stepfamily dynamic, 'ambiguous gain' in step families, why authen
How to Improve Your Stepfamily Life in 30 Days (Without Changing Anyone Else) Jun 8, 2026 29:30 On this episode of The KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast, Jamie will give you strategies you can begin implementing right now to improve your stepfamily life in 30 days.    She'll cover the importance of being authentically yourself with your stepkids; what you gain when you shift your perspective and stop looking for problems; setting intentions for your time, whether you're alone, with your partner, or w
Creating A Pinterest Board Summer (And It's Not What You Think) Jun 1, 2026 34:56 On this episode of The KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast, Jamie invites you to get deeply intentional about the summer experience you want to have. She'll share what she's doing to prepare for a 'Pinterest board summer', and bring you behind the scenes into her nighttime and skincare routines, her favorite products, and what meals and fitness look like in this season of her life.    Check out The Stepmom R
Why Your Husband Won't Set Boundaries With His Ex May 25, 2026 41:07 Do Dads need to have the stepmom's back in disagreements with the stepkids?  The reasons why boundaries might feel different with stepkids vs bio kids How aligned do you need to be with your partner about family rules and boundaries?  Why are men scared to set boundaries with their ex?  How love can feel different for stepkids and biokids… and why that's okay.    Darren joins Jamie for another hon
Being The New Young Stepmom, 7 Years Older Than My Stepdaughter with Savana Chapin May 18, 2026 46:18 On this episode of The KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast Jamie chats with stepmom and content creator Savana Chapin, a woman who knows a thing or two about the realities of being a young stepmom.    We'll get into Savana's experience of becoming a stepmom at age 24 to a daughter who was 17, her tips for building a relationship with a teenage stepkid, the pros and cons of age gap marriages, navigating finan
Should Dads Get 50/50? Are Dads Outsourcing Parenting To The Stepmom? May 11, 2026 40:07 Should Dads get 50/50 custody even if they don't know their child's doctor?  Why the stepmom should not be considered a 'nanny'  The headaches you'll avoid by having a very detailed co-parenting agreement  Should you be upset if your partner helps the bio-mom by taking the kids more?  How to communicate with your partner if you need to take a step back or disengage    Jamie and her husband Darren
Your Attachment Style Is Affecting Your Stepmom Experience with Thais Gibson May 4, 2026 01:04:57 In this episode, with Thais Gibson, we dive deep into how our childhood conditioning shapes our adult relationships. From attachment styles to the subconscious filters we wear every day, understanding these dynamics can be a game changer, especially in the stepmom dynamic.  What's your attachment style? Knowing it can unlock the keys to your emotional needs and triggers. Let's explore how to rewir
Should A Stepmom Be Celebrated On Mothers Day? Apr 27, 2026 25:14 Should a stepmom be celebrated on Mothers Day? What could be holding kids back from doing something for the stepmom? Why are Stepdads celebrated and Stepmoms still villianized. How should a stepmom communicate with their partner that they feel upset on this day? Jamie and her husband Darren dive into all of this and more on this week's episode of The KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast. Download the Free G
What F You Money Really Is & Why Every Woman Needs it, RHOBH Tea, Don't Date Broke Dudes with Pattie Ehsaei Apr 20, 2026 53:41 Women's financial expert and the author of Never Date a Broke Dude Pattie Ehsaei joins Jamie on The KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast to shift your perspective on finances, self worth and how to get what you financially deserve as a stepmom.  Pattie gives her thoughts on being financially dependent on men, why all women need 'F*** You Money', the real work and strategies necessary to manifest money, the im
Emotions Stepmoms Are Afraid To Admit, Feeling Like An Outsider & The Childless Stepmom Experience with The Sober Stepmom Apr 13, 2026 46:06 This week's episode is for every stepmom who has ever felt something and immediately felt guilty for feeling it. Jen from The Sober Stepmom joins me this week and we go there. Jealousy, grief, nervous system overload, the control trap. All of it. This is the conversation I wished I'd had years ago. Here's what we cover, but honestly, just go listen. This one got personal fast. In this week's ep

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